I have yet to see us talk about this but when are we going to start to discuss that the black greek life of today is totally not what it used to be okay well since y’all not going to start the conversation i guess i just got to
Start it so when it comes to the black greek community there are people in this in these organizations now that really do not uphold the standards that the founders have built these organizations on and i don’t have to go into great detail about what they were built on because
You all know because you were online you know but anyway let’s talk about how the sister like i can only just speak from my experience because i was in a sorority so sorry fellas i can’t speak on your walls but for the ladies for the women i could speak on
What it was like being in these organizations and how much abuse there was like seriously there was a lot of psychological mental emotional abuse that happened with these groups of people and i’m not talking about the hazing i’m not talking about you know initiation to bring to get into these organizations i’m talking
About once you were in the organization once you were on the yard that’s where a lot of this stuff happened now what these people would do is the same way that family expects you to just put up with their type of abuse because y’all are family is the same way that
This whole thing worked out it’s like a sisterhood and they expect you to put up with the type of abuse because oh don’t that’s your line sisters those are your ships those are your this whatever the case is but if you all would have met each other any
Other type of way and any other circumstance i guarantee you you probably would not have even wanted to be friends with these people what happens is it’s a forced group of friends and it’s a fourth group of people that are kind of forced to be together and when people have their own personal
Issues within themselves and they begin to project onto other people then this is why it creates a lot of discrepancy this is why there’s bullying this is why there is abuse this is why there’s a lot of gas lighting this is why there’s a lot of like organized
Mobbing where people would have sister circles but they would actually go and start targeting one person this is why there was a lot of bullying that would be going on and it’s a lot of times people would target certain individuals there was you know it would be things
Where people would be spreading rumors about each other people would talk about each other and clearly you could see that these people did not genuinely care about each other didn’t generally like these people but they just pretended to be so because they wore the same letters on their chest
But at the end of the day it wasn’t genuine it was i don’t even know what i’m looking for but anyway it was a big issue because you have these people joining these organizations wanting this sisterhood but they got the exact opposite and the trauma that people go
Through after being online with the stuff that they dealt with in the chapters on the yard creates a lot of issues that people have to heal from like let me just vent about my experience so when i joined my organization from the jump ever since we were online it’s like those group of
Little girls just had such attitudes they had bad attitudes they would gang they would like gang up to with each other and gang up on me multiple times we had moments where they would call in sister circles but all they would do is just start projecting gaslighting and just putting me down but
Belittling me bullying me all this was abuse mind you our pro fights were present in those types of in these meetings and all they and the thing is the pro fights were just as worse because they didn’t do much to actually fix the problem they would just sit there and
Just sit back and just watch all of this happen so it’s like how are you teaching sisterhood when you’re basically allowing all of these groups of girls to go against one sister and it just was so ridiculous i just didn’t understand this then we had moments where like i had my
Own line sisters i blocked them so they can’t see this i’ve had my own line sister spread rumors about me i’ve had them gossip about me i’ve had them try to turn other people against me like they tried to basically they basically turned um blind sisters against me they tried to
Turn pro fights against me they just tried to turn so many people against me because they wanted me to just be isolated alone whatever the case was and they would do all this abuse and then when i they basically pushed me away and then wonder why i left nurse narcissistic people
So when i basically started like withdrawing my energy i stopped hanging around them i stopped being you know spending time with them i stopped talking to them all of a sudden they’re like well how come she doesn’t want to hang with us how come she doesn’t want to chill with us it’s like
Baby you never made me feel welcome anyway i mean these people would like make fun of me they would just treat me so horrible and there was a difference between laughing with somebody and laughing at somebody when we were online we went to our like our first conference and these
Women these little girls the whole entire time bullied me the entire time i was so outnumbered it was five against one um they basically had moments where they tried to like kick me off like kick me off the line like you know like no you’re not on our line
Anymore we don’t want you we don’t like you like they just kept telling me this kind of stuff right you know i have moments where they would sit up there and like one girl really just was so evil really she was wicked that girl has jelly bell experience she’s a sociopath but anyway
Besides the point there was this one girl that really just started like going in this one time during homecoming and the rest of my line sisters were there and they didn’t even do much they didn’t defend me they didn’t step up they just kind of sat there and laughed and watched this
Happen so they were she was being the bully the rest of them are being bystanders and the trauma that these girls don’t put me through i’m still recovering too from this day
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