Whatâs up yâall welcome back to my channel so todayâs video is gonna be talking about so if the organization that you chose or that is your top pick itâs not interested in you what are your options from there so the first thing I donât want to say is that
Itâs never really like okay for you to wanna join an organization and then kind of hold the decisions of that chapter against the organization so there are a lot of different reasons why you wouldnât be picked so in most instances itâs like a holistic pick so theyâll
Look at you know your transcript and things like that if you need that requirement then theyâll actually go ahead you know you have to go do a background check so there are a lot of different levels to picking members so itâs not just a this group of people donât want me or
Sometimes they might even be as petty as that I mean there are different reasons for people picking who they pick so if that is the situation that you find yourself in always remember that there are other opportunities for you in the long run itâs not necessarily that you
Know maybe itâs just that that chapter wasnât right for you maybe it just wasnât your time to cross rights in in it right so there are opportunities for you to join at a later time is always grad trapped and I know everybody is like okay I want to go undergrad though
This is what I want to do but I mean if itâs really not an option for you then is that just gonna stop you period I mean donât be that person that doesnât get selected and decide that they want to go ahead and batch the whole organization because itâs not fair to
The whole board and again there are other ways for you to show your interest express your interest so donât just try to hold it against the organ itself you know just maybe just hold off until you know you graduate maybe you show your interest in a graduate chapter donât be
That person to hold it against the organization so there are other opportunities for you also remember that you know if you were to I mean itâs not guaranteed that it will happen but if for whatever reason you try to cross in one chapter and then for some reason
Like Iâve heard this happen before somebody went and tried to cross into the chapter they didnât make it the first time but they made it second time so there are like other opportunities for you to look into should that be something that youâre really interested in itâs not just a complete halt
If you get a denial letter from the undergrad side there could be other aspects that go into you know their decision to not pick you or to pick you so there are other opportunities where you just remember itâs just keep your mind open and I donât know just donât let that be your
Discouragement completely I get it nobody really wants to be denied from anything you know we all want everything to go our way every time and thatâs just not life sometimes you know we have to get a few setbacks in order to get to what we really want to go so I
Definitely would recommend that if something like that happened to you if you were denied from your top organization donât just try to use that to hold a grudge towards that organization donât feel obligated to join another organization just because itâs a fallback you know if thatâs not
Really whatâs in your heart kind of hold it up and see if thereâs another opportunity for you long run or if you are interested in another organization and you feel comfortable expressing interest in that other organization then I mean at the end of the day no one can
Really tell you what to and what to not you know at the end of the day itâs kind of like stigmatize you donât want a window shop I know I have a video about that but you have to be willing to live with your decision you have to be able
To say this is the organization I want to be member of if itâs really even worth being a member of at that point to you so I mean my opinion is just that in opinion everybody has their own opinions and everybody can talk to their opinion so if you feel comfortable with doing
Some things then go for it donât let me to stop you because what I say itâs not you know goal itâs merely you know suggestion if thatâs what youâre interested in donât stop if youâre interested let that kind of be a motivation for you if you
Are so interested and you know trying to find other ways to get to what you want so I hope this video helps if it did go ahead and leave me some comments down below let me know what youâre thinking also if you have not already done so go
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