A lifestyle connoisseur to be the person on YouTube I recently graduated from college and I am also a member of the illustrious organization of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Incorporated and yeah that’s basically it what I do I talk about like Greek life and lifestyle and all that other stuff and currently or as
Recently I will be started talking about financial I financed your journey I’m not a what is it I’m not a professional so yeah anyways so I just wanted to say that intro because I never introduced myself to the new people that are watching the video but also before I
Jump into the video because obviously you guys know what we’re talking about I wanted to talk about something that I was presented or asked about and I guess presented the opportunity to start a Greek Miss apparel line so I was contacted by five lovely women who were all a part of different Greek
Organizations and they asked me if I was interested in doing a Greek Miss apparel line and I was like wait yes that when you so dope so what I decided to do was make an Instagram page the Instagram page is basically Greek Miss underscore apparel you guys should definitely go
And follow them we need some love on that site and basically we have Greek Miss apparel and I’ll like insert a clip of like what is it all the things that I’ve created so far but yeah so I’ll restart that clip right now Like yet because I don’t want to limit it to only people that are angry organizations because everybody would not be able to join a Greek organization unfortunately but yeah I just wanted to give you guys that opportunity to do that yeah so that’s just that along with
That 10% of the proceeds are going to a charity that all of the code all of the d9 sororities cohesively supports so like breast cancer Alzheimer’s stuff like that and you know so I’m super excited to give back I’m super excited to hopefully you guys like it
I don’t think I will do it like pass pass I know I want to do like I have something special that I want to do for February but I don’t think I’ll do a pass that you know I’m saying I don’t want to like bring it back up every
December but yeah so that’s just that so yeah that’s that so we’re gonna jump right into the video before we start you guys I’m giving you guys France vibes I’m giving you croissant vibes Paris you know I’m fan berry we anyways okay so we just gonna
Jump right in the video today we are talking about the call what is the call how do I get it what does it mean who calls me blah blah blah so the call is basically one of two things either you get the call saying hey we would like to
Let you know we appreciate you so much for coming out and interviewing with us and showing interest but unfortunately you we are not going to go with you at this moment it’s kind of like unfortunately we’ve had better applicants type of email but it’s a phone call so
That’s that if you didn’t get in if you weren’t chosen and voted upon by majority of the girls in the organization then you would get a call similar to hi meet at this place right now or we would like to move forward with you depending on however they go about it
My Carl was very interesting I was so dumb y’all when I got my call so basically I got my call a day later than the rest of my line sisters and this is that was probably the worst thing that my profiles could have done because it
Kind of just separated them from me so remembering back to the story that I told you guys about how I had to how I didn’t have a wet signature on one of my recommendations so basically that prevented me from getting the call the first night and I was so shook well at
The time I didn’t know that people were being called or whatever so I’m just like okay I’m just waiting on my time cuz I was confident you know I’m saying um so I had got a call from when I profile she is African or a Nigerian I’m
Not sure she’s but she speaks her her accent is thicker then it’s just fake okay simple as that I’m not trying to offend nobody and basically she what is it she basically called me and she was just like hey I think she took what did
She say she was like hey we want to move forward with you something that I meet here and I was just like oh my god like I was so scared I was like okay and she had she did she ended up telling me that they didn’t call me yesterday because I
Didn’t have my paperwork in order just because I didn’t have the West signature on the recommendation right so mind you the first night or the first day the girls had already met you know what I’m saying so I didn’t get a chance to meet with them so that set the tone right
There that it was them and then it was me that just set the tone and to this day that’s what I feel like really just up the mindset of everybody because of how they went about it now yes it was my fault for not having the Westerner on there and I’m
Not saying oh they need to stop everything for me but it was just um it was just sad how it was done and how it affected everybody’s mind say including my own right so she you guys she told me where to meet five times and I did not
Hear her I had made this girl repeat yourself five times but I was so goddamn mad at myself cuz I was like how deaf can you be honey open your goddamn ears but I have to blame her because I couldn’t understand and I was just like
Huh I was like I’m sorry could you just say that one more time and it was just crazy to me cuz I was just like what the book so essentially I had um when I got the car was very excited about it I’m regardless of how it happened I was
Very very excited about it and if you do decide or if they do decide to give you guys to call so say if they give it to you what is it um late or they do they don’t give it to you if they don’t give
It to you don’t think that that’s I give up you know what I’m saying like just because you didn’t get it this time but not me you’re not gonna get it the next time you know what I’m saying so don’t think like Oh gain they didn’t they they call
Me and said no and you know that in a diet it’s okay to ask questions like one of my subscribers she was so hurt and she didn’t she wanted to ask but she didn’t feel like it was appropriate to eggs and I was just like why didn’t you
Ask so she was just like I don’t know like I just felt like it wasn’t my place well it’s dealing with you so yes it’s definitely your place you can definitely ask and you can you can put it in a way that’s not like okay well why didn’t I
Get picked you can put it in a way to say hey okay I didn’t get it this time I wanna let you know that I will be next time what can I do better to prepare myself you know what I’m saying yeah she was just like damn I didn’t
Even think of that and that it I and I’m like it’s not too late you know what I’m saying like I’m not here to be I’m not here to make you guys push you guys to be delusional like if you don’t get it and you constantly keep trying you don’t
Get any girls out letting you know like hey you’re not meant for this organization then yeah I’m not pushing you to be delusional and just continue to go out for something and keep getting your hopes up I’m not pushing y’all to do that but I am pushing you guys to ask
Questions to be to be curious you don’t I’m saying to go on this path to ask questions and to figure out things on your own also with the help of myself and other people that are willing to share but don’t just rely on my videos don’t just rely on the thought of
Yourself you know what I’m saying or the thought of like what you think you didn’t get why you didn’t get picked you know I’m saying you have to ask those questions and I think that was the most thing that made me stand out amongst my entire line is the simple fact that I
Was always trying to find a way I was always trying to you know ask questions hence why my name my line name is conquest you know what I’m saying cuz like it’s just I don’t know like if you know that’s just that on that you know
What I’m saying but it’s just like ask questions if you didn’t get picked ask questions but don’t be delusional I’m not promoting for you guys to be delusional like if you don’t get a sister you just don’t get it maybe you need to try not try again if you tried
Multiple times and you you know what I’m saying because like you if you keep doing the same thing over and over again that’s the definition of insanity you know what I’m saying so don’t continue to get your hopes up and to get and continue to get your feelings crushed but don’t not ask
Questions because you’re scared oh because you think you don’t you don’t have the right to you know I’m saying like you definitely had the right to ask any questions that you want to ask you don’t say so if you do get the call be prepared okay be prepared on the first
Night to just go in guns blazing yeah I’m saying go in prepared and don’t be intimidated like obviously I can say that now because I you know I have went through being intimidated or whatever but don’t be intimated cuz at the end of day there are people just
Like you but don’t take it like not serious you know what I’m saying so yeah so I I kind of feel like I explained everything it was kind of like a more of a no-call than a call if you get the call you get the call then that means
You know you got potential you can always get cut you can always drop so I don’t think okay I got the call that’s just that’s the end I’ll be on oh honey you have to show yourself every single day okay um also I just wanted to address another
Thing you are not too old to join a great organization I was on watch the yard or Midwest Greek or something like that one of them Instagram pages and it was a lady I think she’s like 47 who just became a take a honey you can do it
At any age and it really bugs me when a lot of you guys say like oh I can’t do it or Oh like um you know like I’m too old or you know am I too old for this like don’t ask me y’all don’t ask me because I’m gonna say no because I’m
Just a very optimistic person when it comes to other people know when it comes to myself if I wanted to join and I was like what four years old I’d be like you know I missed my beat you know what I’m saying but like just towards you guys
And hearing you guys a story I’m very optimistic about a lot of you you don’t saying that’s not me telling y’all you know that’s not me giving you on false hope I am not the end-all be-all person I am NOT the spokesperson for Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Incorporated and I
Am NOT the spokesperson for any other organization or the d9 sorority cohesive community you know and I’m saying I’m just a spokesperson for myself in my channel so you know like don’t don’t think that you can’t ask questions don’t think that you’re too old don’t think
That you have to you know limit yourself or you know dim your light just because you think that it’s too much you know what I’m saying or you’re not in the right place to do that like no all of you guys have the – of being great and being in a Greek
Organization and serving that organization so don’t doubt yourself and don’t come in my DMS down yourself because I’m a block you know I’m not gonna block no I’m just gonna be like girl shut up that’s what I’m saying cuz I literally I literally say that or I’ll
Give you my number so I can send you a voice message and be like girl shut up cuz you sound stupid like what so yeah I hope you guys enjoyed the video I hope I wasn’t too mean to you guys I’m not trying to be
Mean I just want like I want you guys to have faith and have confidence you know I’m saying to the end of day that’s all you need literally and memorization but I hope you guys enjoyed the video don’t think it’s you like comment subscribe and I’ll see you guys in the next one
Bye guys
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