NPHC Tea: LGBTQIA & Greek Life | The Harsh Reality

You can’t be gay and being a Greek organization alright hey guys welcome back to the China welcome back to the day job it’s me welcome back to deja I wasn’t trying to say that I is back with another video um we are going to be talking about LGBTQ LGBTQ I a community

And we are gonna be talking about them because I have two subscribers that reached out to me when is a guy when is a girl one the guy wants to be in a Greek organization and he’s kind of scared that like he might not get it

Because he’s gay also the young lady she was going out for organization but she didn’t end up getting it because she feels like she obviously she’s gay and she feels like that’s the reason so I wanted to talk personally about just I am speaking for myself I personally feel

Like if you are a member of that community you should not be that your your sexuality should not come into question your sexuality should not come into question when it comes to joining a Greek organization and that’s just simply how I feel and the simple fact that some of these organizations

Specifically the guys especially down south and I’m speaking from personal experience will miss out on a good person because this person has a different sexual preference and it sucks it sucks when I say it sucks it sucks and I personally I can’t obviously I can only um empathize with you guys just

Because obviously I’m not a part of that community but if I was I can only see I can only try to imagine how much pain it would be because you know your work you know what you can bring to or but you have people who are so ignorant

To the fact that you can’t be gay and being a Greek organization that is how people think that is what people think and you have these Oh heads these people that come from from traditional families these people who are homophobic who don’t want to accept you into the

Organization because you’re a gay I’m sorry what and it just hurts my feelings because I I speak to so many beautiful people about certain issues and some of these organizations you guys some of the people no it’s not even the organization some of these people in these organizations that are overseeing these

Organizations are just not good people not good people and it sucks because it’s just like damn they’re discriminating against our own kind because they have a sexual difference sexual preference than we do instead of seeing their character and who they are because your sexuality is not your character you know I’m saying

And anybody who interviews somebody for our organization that is gay should not your their sexuality should not be called into question when that’s not what the they’re gonna be doing for the organization it’s just not and it just makes me mad because it’s just like you these these people in these

Organizations some of them would rather pass up on a gay guy to be in this organization knowing damn well he has the capability of being in this organization and picked somebody that’s only wanting to do it so we can get girls and have letters on his chest but

You would pass up somebody that could potentially take this organization so far just to pick somebody who literally only is doing it who’s only doing it for the letters because that’s your that’s your roommate that’s your bro that’s your a one day one my woods I’m sorry

What that doesn’t make any sense to me and these girls like I’m I feel like I haven’t seen a lot of gay guy in fraternities now I feel like we shouldn’t pass judgment on them just because they have a different sexual preference and it sucks because it’s

Like a themed this is a thing that people do like one of my guy friends he’s a Q well he’s not actually he’s not a guy friend anymore because he tried to but he’s not one of these he’s one of a guy associate that I used

To call a friend is a Q and he’s from down south and I was talking to him about the situation and he was just like well no like I know for Q’s we especially don’t do that and it’s just like are you serious like like you should not be so homophobic that you

Feel so threatened to even like oh yeah I don’t even know and it just makes me mad because it’s just like why the who would you even like I don’t get it I don’t get it I personally feel like people with sexuality people skintone people’s whatever should not be called

Into question these organizations the people in these organizations do not value the potential members that could be in these organizations like I don’t understand how we can talk about making change and doing better for our community and service to all mankind and and and like-minded women and me and and

And gentlemen and all this other stuff when you are so close-minded to the fact that you don’t want to allow somebody who may be different than you to enter your organization now that to me makes me feel like white people all over again not trying to accept us now we’re not

Accepting us into our own organizations now I’m saying just don’t don’t accept anybody but don’t not accept them because they like don’t accept them because they’re not qualified I mean don’t accept them because they aren’t qualified that’s what you should not accept them for because they don’t they they wouldn’t brain substance to

Your organization don’t not accept them because they’re a part of another community or because they may like somebody who you don’t like or because they I don’t know you don’t do that to people you know I’m saying like you just don’t so with that being said that was basically all I had

To say about it it sucks because some chapters are like that some people are like that and it’s just like wow we can’t win for losing because we’re holding our own people bag I’m not saying accept anybody into your organization but don’t don’t like just not accept them because they’re gay

That’s discrimination on so many levels but yeah so I hope you guys enjoyed the video don’t forget to Like comment subscribe and I will see you guys in the next one bye guys

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