Hey guys welcome back to the channel welcome back to the video it is deja and i am back with another video honey what’s good what’s poppy okay all right you guys don’t judge me i know this is not cute but look i need to keep this on because it is 902 am
90210 uh now it’s 902 a.m it’s my chair i swear i got i swear i didn’t fart y’all but it’s my chair um it’s 902 am and i have to go to work at 11. i woke up you guys super early this morning i woke up around like 6 30 um
I started drinking my water what so oh i’m behind i mean not really i’m right at nine whoo okay yeah i’m really trying to get my skin together okay y’all can see some of the little dark marks still there i have a little bit of makeup over it i’ve been using
Let me tell you guys what i’ve been using so i went to my african shop okay this is not a plug this is not a plug but i’m gonna plug this people because i really love black people i just do okay so anyways you guys i went to this african shop
It’s not african shop it’s like a look i don’t know it’s in river oaks mall okay they got this is what it’s called i think this is a number this is a phone number let’s focus that’s a phone number okay that’s the phone number they in river
Oaks mall he gave me sage you guys sage i started burning it i started burning it already this is how it looks i got two of them he said i can also drink this too so i think i’m gonna boil some of it tonight and drink some
I got that i got me some incense because i love incense y’all this is um i don’t even know how to pronounce that slime but that’s what it is this is not sponsored by the way y’all it’s not sponsored i swear to god it’s not i’m just
I love stuff like this so yeah and i’m trying to really get into you know just more manifestation and really just loving myself and knowing myself and thinking for myself i’m obviously i always think for myself but like i always you know just doing for myself and not being
Like not apologizing for what i choose to do and stuff like that um just because i really just need to get better at you know just just choosing myself first um and yeah so i’m i have a lot of you know i got a lot of 20 20 goals
2021 goals that i want to accomplish and i don’t know i just you know i really want to get my skin together that’s something very important to me i want to get my body back right um i’m not overweight or big or too skinny or whatever i feel like i
Have a nice build but your girl stomach is kind of like not where it used to be when i used to run track so i just need um i need to get my abs back so yeah i feel like this looks really dumb this is so get out so get it do y’all
Think i should take my drago y’all i’m so over this okay let’s take it off it’s fine but anyways let me tell y’all i’m putting it back on before i go to work it’s fine it’s fine it’s fine it’s fine um oh ooh stop playing with her anyways um but yeah so
This is what i was trying to tell y’all so the man told me to use okay look he told me to use oatmeal oil i mean oatmeal oil oatmeal soap with a vitamin e in it he gave me this he gave me uh avocado oil um he gave me african black soap which
What i would which what i’m currently using for my face so i really want to know like is african black so good for your face because like the african black soap that i used to have it was by shea moistures that was burning my face like literally you guys all right here
My t-zone was burnt like it was burning my face and i just don’t have time for it so i got this it hasn’t been making my face burn it does make my face super super tight um i have oily skin so it dries it out but i just come back combat that with
Um the oat butter that he gave me um and it’s supposed to remove dead skin cells um and just moisturize the face so i’ve been using that and my african black soap and um i want to use the oatmeal soap i haven’t been using it i’ve been letting my um
Brother use it or whatever but i really want to um i really want to start using it but i don’t want to mix two soaps on my face because i thought like you’re supposed to at least you know use something for three weeks and see if it works
So when did i start using this i started using this last week when did i let me look at the date that i bought it because the date that i bought it is the date that i started using it give me one second so i’m so sorry
I’m gonna check my bank statement um but yeah so i really want to start getting it together when i use that december okay so monday so i started using it monday the 21st so let me write that down december 21st monday started using black soap
Um so yeah so let me know y’all because i’m really trying to get my like hyper pigmentation and stuff like that in order and i just don’t want to you know i don’t want to be out here in these streets looking raggedy you know what i’m saying i feel
Like if you take care of yourself you will you know be better so after this year i am done drinking pop soda whatever you want to call it um i’m done just i’m done taking taking parts in um activities that i know i probably you know wouldn’t do on a daily you know
I’m saying like i don’t want to be a social drinker anymore i don’t want to do none of that so i’m literally like i’ll probably if i do drink it’ll probably be wine and it’ll be stellar rose um but yeah also you guys if you’re new here make
Sure you subscribe to your girl’s channel and y’all we need to talk okay i need y’all to do me a huge favor now i never asked for nothing i never asked for anything but you guys i really want to have nike sponsor me somebody comment down below
And say that nike should sponsor me so what i need y’all to do okay i need y’all to go to nike page okay and just spam their account whenever you’re whenever you have free time you don’t have to do it right now because you know we talking right now
You know what i’m saying but i need y’all to like really just spam the account i need y’all to tell them like y’all need to check her out i need to sponsor her y’all need to have her as a model i’m really just trying to do bigger and better things
Um i you guys am going to be talking about transgender people joining um sororities and fraternities specifically d9 sororities and fraternities um so a lot of people well not a lot of people me and um actually clyde the guy that i had interviewed for the kappa position or
The capital position what am i saying the kappa interview sorry y’all um let’s put y’all back so um when i interviewed him we were like on the phone i was just talking to him about it because he had asked me the question of how i felt about it
And then another subscriber had dm me and asked me like how do you feel about it and then one of my subscribers on here she actually comments um and was just like oh like you know what’s next you know and i was just like actually that is next cause i feel like
It’s just something that it’s something that we should talk about um so the question is how do i feel about transgender men and women joining sororities and fraternities so for you guys who don’t understand the difference a transgender man correct me if i’m wrong please and i am not trying to offend anybody
I’m not speaking on behalf of any d9 organization and i’m not speaking for my organization specifically um i’m just speaking for myself okay but correct me if i’m wrong a transgender man is a woman who became a man okay and a transgender woman is a man who transitioned and became a woman um
So that’s my understanding of what transgender persons are um so um i you guys i don’t know i’m not i mean i feel like i’m not against it like if i had literally thinking about it right now and thinking about it up until this point um i wouldn’t be
I i don’t think i’m against it um i feel like if you’re upholding the organization then then you know who am i to tell you that you know no you can’t be in the organization just because you weren’t originally born the person that you are today um
Doesn’t mean that you know you don’t have the right to do that now my friend made a good point and he was just saying like well you know it’s kind of like um lgbtqp i lgbtqia people um want to be in spaces that were not originally meant for them and um
And not saying that you know that’s the case but and i completely understand um where the person was coming from but i feel like in a sense of it’s kind of like black people wanting to be in spaces that weren’t meant for them you know what i’m saying you want to go where
You’re celebrating not tolerated and not trying to offend anybody but a lot of times black people wanted to be in spaces where they were tolerated um and you know who are we to turn someone away just because of their sexuality or you know you know so um and i also kind of feel
Like if nobody knows that the person was originally a man before they were became a woman and they joined it wouldn’t be an issue but if it was public knowledge then it would be an issue you know what i’m saying because if it’s some transgender men out here
And transgender women that really looked the part and really looked like you know they were born that way um and i honestly feel like if a transgender man or okay a transgender woman was to try and join my organization and nobody knew i didn’t know nobody knew that it was a
That he was originally a man um then you know nope i don’t feel like anybody i feel like you would just go under the radar like nobody would even care but if it was public knowledge that this person is a transgender person and they are trying to um join
A sorority or fraternity then it would be like oh my god no like you know stuff like that so i don’t i honestly um i’m not against it i’m really not i’m i feel okay let me let me just say this i feel like if i was
To see it then i would be taken aback you know what i’m saying i would be like oh okay i would really want to know more about about the person i would really want to know like what chapter who brought you in what would what was their mindset
Um why did you want to join i would want to know all of that um just because i’m a nosy person honestly and because i just want to know the thought process i want to know the other side to the other side other than my own which is the outside looking in
Um and yeah i honestly feel like if the person is upholding the organization and doing what they need to do then you know why not you know what i’m saying like like on my last video or not my last last video but the video when i was talking about like
You know um the boy who is bisexual so many people was like thank you so much for talking about this because there’s so many like it’s so many people who are part of the lgbtqia community in these organizations sorority and fraternity um and a lot of people are like you know
On the down low like they don’t want people to know or whatever especially in organizations that are um you know strictly like oh my god you have to be a man type of thing you know i’m saying you have dudes in there that um in specific organiz each organization
Honestly who are a part of a different community than the heterosexual community um or the straight community or whatever and it just um it just goes to show that we have a long way to go as black people um when it comes to accepting certain things i know
Some of my family members are very strict when it comes to the lgbtq community like you know no you’re a boy you do this or you’re a girl you do this and i know i’m not the only person who has family like that but um i mean i was raised
My like my family is from the south so they are very conservative people and that’s where i get some of my ways from but when it comes to certain stuff like this or you know certain i certain um ideals that i have other than my family i know how to separate the two
And i know how to not get things so personal um and i’m a very open-minded person at least i try to be so uh that’s how i’m very open-minded to this and i know most of you may disagree with me um but i mean who who are we i mean i
Understand these organizations were made for women and men some of the values and some of the the models and you know different things that the organization stand for and what certain things says for each organization is um you know be a man or a manly name or manliness or whatever the
Case may be like certain organizations of fraternities that specifically point out being a man and um if i’m not mistaken i believe it’s um kappa alpha psi specifically that has something about being a man in it if i’m not mistaken um and yeah it’s just
Um i don’t know i don’t i don’t wanna i don’t wanna limit anybody but i don’t wanna make other people i don’t want anybody to feel uncomfortable and i don’t wanna limit anybody but i don’t want to overextend you know people’s greek organizations and stuff like that just because
Of the majority of you you know what i’m saying because we can’t like we can’t just we can’t just disregard people who chose a different path or chose a different way of living then you know the rest of us or whatever so i think it just depends on the mindset i
Feel like a lot of people when it comes to this topic or even being bisexual or being gay in a greek organization it’s very um minuscule and it’s very um you know just one mindset like it’s just one way it’s no you know what i’m saying that’s why so many
Men who and i’m saying specifically man because i honestly don’t feel like a lot of women have this problem when it comes to being gay in these organizations um and i hope i’m not if anybody offending anybody when i say gay but um yeah and even with that like i’m very i’m
I’m very both sided when it comes to this just because you know it’s like certain things that you you know certain things that you can’t say and certain things that you you know you can’t do certain pronouns um anything and just looking or thinking for the person who may not agree with me
It can it can come very like oh my goodness i have to tiptoe around this person oh my goodness i have to you know say this certain thing or i have to do this certain thing or whatever the case may be and you just don’t want to like offend anybody but
You also don’t want to bite your tongue and make yourself feel like damn i i don’t even have like you know i’m saying like i can’t i can’t say nothing you know what i’m saying so i understand where people come from when they say they don’t want transgender people in their organization or
You know gay people for that matter but i feel like we all need to be um for those of you who are not we all need to be a little bit more mature when it comes to stuff like this just because you know um i get it sexuality and racist
Um very uh different things but you can still discriminate based on your race and you can still discriminate based on your sexuality and discrimination is basically like the main thing in this category when i’m about to compare what i’m about to compare when black people were trying to join greek organizations or societies
Of white people’s creation if that makes sense um we were discriminated against because of our race so we decided to make our own organizations now i don’t know if it’s any um lgbtq greek organizations out there but now that you know lgbtqia people are trying to join our organizations um
And a lot of them are black people who are trying to join our organizations have a different sexuality we as a community and you know the world itself are discriminating against those kinds of people was that rude those kinds of people i’m not trying to be rude those specific people
Um from joining based on their sexuality so that’s where i’m coming from when i’m trying to compare race and sexuality i hope you know you guys get where i’m coming from i’m trying to be very you know detailed in what i’m trying to say because i don’t want anybody to be offended
Um but honestly i don’t know you guys i i don’t think i would have a problem with it talking about it you know what i’m saying if i was to see it i would definitely have my questions i would definitely you know want to know all about it i
Definitely would i would want to know where the organization stands on this um which i have not researched i don’t really know where organizations stand not even my own organization stand when it comes to transgender people joining um our organization so yeah let me know in the comments you guys
What you guys think um because i would love to um talk about it with you guys and yeah definitely want to know what you guys think i hope you guys enjoyed the video i apologize if i offended anybody um and i just pray that you know we we can all just get along
That and we can all just be open-minded to things that may be different to us um just because it’s different does not mean that it’s wrong um so yeah i hope you guys enjoyed the video don’t forget to like comment and subscribe and i will see you guys in my next video
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