Hey guys welcome back to the channel welcome back to the video it is daisy and i am back with another video honey what’s good what’s poppin for those of you new here hi guys i’m deja thank you so much for tuning in today you guys we are going to be talking about
Something that a subscriber sent to me um sorry i have to find it got it okay so basically a subscriber sent um a question in to me of what she think i would do and i wanted to bring it to you guys um attention because i’m not sure
Um what i would actually do i did get permission to um make a video about this and i wanted to bring it to you guys attention and see what you guys would have told her versus what i actually told her so without further ado if you’re not already make sure you like comment
Subscribe and share this video too because we’re all about that sharing experience okay okay um oh i got a new credit score i gotta check that gotta check that okay guys so without further ado we’re just gonna hop right into the email that she sent me
And then i’m going to tell you guys what i said and then you guys let me know if i could have said something else or what you would have said or what you think she should do in the situation so this is what her email says
She said hey deja i hope this email finds you well i was emailing you because i love your videos and i see that you do um advice you give advice back to your subscribers i was recently i’m thinking about joining another joining my organization again long story short i pledge this is what
She said i pledged in spring 15 then i denounced my letters the following year now i want to join the organization again how do you think i should go back how do you think i should go about joining back my organ joining my organization back again so you guys i never had this
Uh acts to me i told her that she wouldn’t be able to do it because she denounced her letters because i didn’t uh correct me if i’m wrong okay denouncing your letters is is completely different of being inactive like right now i’m inactive until i find a graduate chapter that will look past
These youtube videos and that i personally like myself right um bullet um her situation she completely denounced her letters uh not even a year into her organization so i told her that she wouldn’t be able to do it um i wanted to i i wanted to know why she denounced
And she said she’d announced because of the bad experiences she had with her ships and um it’s unfortunate you guys because i don’t think a lot i don’t think all of you know like the organization is so much bigger than just one chapter the organization is so much bigger than just um
One person um lex actually said this to me she literally was just like the chapter is just a little crumb of the pie um and that is essentially what it is like the chapter is just a crumb of this um organization which is the pie like the entire thing so you
You shouldn’t let people get to you or people stop you from doing something or people put such a bad taste in your mouth that you just assume everybody in this organization from anywhere is like the people that you dealt with because if that was the case i would have denounced my letters
Um i i probably wouldn’t have but if that was the case for me like if i was that and i say weak minded um being sensitive saying it but being that weak minded and assuming that everybody is going to be the exact same way because of these few people who i came
Across that made me feel like less than or didn’t give me sisterly vibes or sisterly energy or give me that sisterhood that this organization says that they’re all about you know i’m saying i can’t let those few people stop me from continuing my membership within this organization
And i expressed that to her and i told her like denouncing your letter letters is like you can never join the organization again and um yeah i didn’t want to be mean but i didn’t want to tell her you gotta join again like no i think that stays on your
Record within the organization if i’m not mistaken i’ve never denounced my letters and i don’t plan on doing that um but i don’t personally know how you can get past that you know what i’m saying like i feel like whether you moved like it you move to
New york or something and then you try to join a chapter out there they still have to send your paperwork and everything like that to headquarters and unless you change your name and your social and your all that other stuff then you ain’t getting back in love
Like i’m like i’m not even trying to be funny but yeah i don’t think it’s gonna happen so i um yeah that’s not gonna happen you know i don’t think that’s gonna happen um so yeah what do you guys think because i don’t know y’all feel like and this just goes
To show like i i don’t understand why people make a big deal about denouncing letters because of religion i am one of the most religious people in the world like i love me some god okay i love him but i ain’t never gonna put god i mean my organization on a higher
Pedestal than god i ain’t praising the etho god rest her soul love her to death but i ain’t honey i ain’t i ain’t praising her she not you know i’m saying she’s not my lord and save savior she’s not none of that with me it’s just
God you know what i’m saying and he’s he’s higher than anything because when i’m down and out i don’t pray to ethel you know what i’m saying when i’m when i’m happy because the light i’m getting all these green lights i’m yes god come
On won’t he do it yes look at god that’s all i’m saying i’m not saying yes after look at ethel won’t she do it no i’m not doing none of that you know what i’m saying i’m not i’m not praising my founder i’m not i’m not praising a charter member i’m not praising
Um the president of this organization i’m praising god and i’m not going to announce my letters because one because it’s devilish because my organization is not that none of these organizations are devilish ain’t none of that all going on in a d9 community it’s not so for those
Of you who are not in the organization or had a bad experience and say that they are that’s just one experience and you didn’t try after that and that’s what i told her like i feel like you let these girls get you to denounce your letters because
They put a bad taste in your mouth but yet you didn’t give other sorrows in your organization a chance to prove them wrong you know what i’m saying or prove you wrong to of thinking that everybody in your organization is that way um and if i would have done that
I would have been pissed because i was out of i was out of a couple bands okay i was out of some money like i ain’t gonna never let nobody you know dictate what i’m gonna do or anything like that because that’s one letting somebody live rent free in your head
That’s two letting them win and three that’s you being unhappy and now you stuck in this situation that you in now you now you didn’t denounce your letters and now you want to come back you can’t do it and i’m not trying to make light of it or nothing like that but
Once you denounce your letters like you can’t you can’t you can’t at least at least from my understand you can’t get back in the organization nowhere because your paperwork still got to be sent to headquarters because your paperwork is going to be sent to headquarters once you denounce
So if you try to go back yeah if you try to go back into the organization they’re not going to let you do that i can let you do that like that’s not robbing so uh uh yeah so i don’t know y’all let me know what y’all think what do what
What do y’all think she can do in this situation or because i i and i do not know much about this so excuse me for you know my lack of information but i’m just to my understanding you can’t join the organization again right once you denounce if i’m not if i’m
Wrong please comment down below and let me know because i don’t think you can i really don’t think you can i never got this question before i never been in this this this situation before so i really don’t have any um information on it so i don’t want to send her off
Because if i am wrong obviously you’re gonna watch the video because i said i was gonna do a video on it but if i am wrong please correct me down below because y’all know i love the feedback um i didn’t in the past but now i do you know we’re growing
Um but yeah i don’t know y’all let me know that’s all i got to say i hope you guys enjoyed this video do not forget to like comment subscribe and i will see you guys in my next video bye guys
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