Hello everyone this is author motivational speaker and dating coach Matthew C horn bringing you a video tonight titled why extremely attractive men disappear from your space but before we go any further always know that my books in the dating space my my videos in the dating space
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Subscribe but I want to give it I’m going to give up the raw you know for the women who want to get and keep extremely attractive men once again the title why extremely attractive men disappear from your space this is the thing about the extremely attractive man let me paint the picture first
Women consistently tell him that he’s extremely handsome waitresses bring him phone numbers and business cards from women who notice him in establishments women take one look at him and leave with him when he goes out her friends could try to dissuade her say you just met him don’t go and
She’s she’s dismissing them she’s like no I’m not going to see too many men that look like him and the vibe is right she’s gone I’m telling the truth this man also has women who will look at their friends and leave her with the guy because the whole group think he’s that attractive
And they and they p and they pulling for their friend straight men with their significant others will compliment this man and tell him how good he looks so I’m painting a picture of the extremely attractive man and his everyday experience and what happens a lot of times is that um with with this
Guy the the the woman will somehow some way understand how attractive this man is and still try to introduce some sort of barrier to this man as if he’s not an extremely attractive man this is the man that every woman wants let’s be realistic most women have to either get
A man that they aren’t really that attracted to but he has resources okay so he he’s someone that can provide for you and give you a a good upper you know middle class life or they have to get the man that’s extremely physically attractive but he
Just doesn’t have much going for him so for a woman to find an extremely physically attractive man who’s also attractive on paper meaning that he he is always moving up his trajectory is always upward and he has proof that he is a man of substance and vision based
On the quality of life that he’s living that’s the one that’s the man that every woman wants if if we’re being honest but they usually have to settle for one or the other but I’m talking about the quintessential man tonight and how to get and keep him so he doesn’t
Leave your space and the quickest way is to understand that he’s had experiences with women and he knows exactly what it looks like for a woman to be extremely attracted to him and anything less than that as soon as he gets a whiff or an inclination that you’re not that
Attracted to him if if there’s some sort of barrier present if just if it’s just something you know he has an instinct because most men have not had the privilege of walking through life that attractive and getting everything that comes with it so he knows exactly the
Level of attraction that a woman has for him as soon as he meets her it doesn’t take much he can pick it up very quickly and if he picks up that there is a moderate to medium level of attraction he’s not even going to deal with the woman because he understand that’s going
To come with hurdles that he doesn’t have to jump through so the worst thing that a woman can do is to present some sort of barrier or something to try to posture herself Above This Man and say that I’m the prize and you have to chase
Me if if you anything of that sort if you present any type of barrier if he ask you for your phone number and you say hey take my Ig he’s gone if you um like I was just saying present any any sort of barrier any sort
Of barrier if you’re want a dating app and he’s trying to move off of the app and you know get your phone number and actually do what women say that they want men to do in terms of setting up a date or setting up some sort of situation where you all could get
Together and you tell him hey let’s talk on here more he’s gone because he understands that based on his experiences the women who are extremely attracted to him will not put up any sort of resistance when he when he uh introduces uh a request a reasonable
Request let’s move off the Apple can I get your number and a lot of women complain that guys don’t approach him so it’s sort of puzzling to him on that level as well that there would be some sort of games or hurdles or resistance when the an attractive man actually does
Approach the woman but the main thing is he knows most men don’t know but he knows what it’s like what the Rhythm and Cadence and behavior of the woman who’s extremely attracted to him what it is and he only wants to deal with that because the hurdles are unnecessary in
His world because he doesn’t have to jump through them so that’s the worst thing that you could do is introduce the Hoops to this kind of man because you’re going to lose him and the most annoying thing for the extremely attractive man is the woman who introduces unnecessary hurdles and
Tries to come back and beg their way back into his space after they know that they’ve disrespected or done something unnecessary this guy doesn’t walk around like he’s the ish he typically understands his place in the food chain but he doesn’t wear it on his sleeve so
All he’s really looking for is a woman that’s going to reciprocate that’s how you keep that kind of man and you don’t want to you definitely don’t want to introduce any condescending Behavior tones um you don’t want to try to posture yourself above him as if you’re
More valuable than him or you’re the prize you don’t want to do that because that man is intelligent that’s how he’s been able to elevate through life and move and create results he can pick up on the conversation and understand the kind of guys that you’ve interacted with and that you’ve dated
And especially if you have children by a man that is not that is not as high on the food chain as him he’s looking for you to not kiss his behind he’s looking for you to be pleasant because the last thing he’s going to do is pay a higher
Premium or pay a higher price um than a man who is not as high on the food chain is him this is real conversation so if you reproduce with a man who isn’t really about nothing doesn’t have any results in in in his life and you come
At him like he has to jump through a bunch of hurdles and hoops and tolerate you know lowle treatment of disrespect he’s going to laugh and disappear moonwalk he’s out of there he’s James Brown on you he’s Michael Jackson he’s out of there but the main thing that you want
To do with with this type of guy is just reciprocate that’s it it’s simple just just reciprocate he’s not he’s not looking for his behind to be kissed but he does understand where he fits in the food chain we all do we know what type of experiences that we consistently experience some people
Are delusional and some people are realistic and there are some people who walk through the world who have very consistent high level experiences based on the way that they look it is it is what it is so you don’t want to play around with this kind of man especially
If he’s checking for you and you understand that this is the ideal man that you want to interact with and that you want to pair with so if you have an extremely attractive man just reciprocate that’s it like I said he doesn’t want his behind kiss but just understand the
Magnitude of the man that you have in front of you understand that he’s desirable and there are women that are going to show up and and give him the experience that he’s looking for he and his level of Tolerance is going to be little to none cuz he doesn’t have to
Tolerate it and I know that makes some women mad because they can’t control manipulate and extort and disrespect this man but his experiences are too good because he’s just too attractive and you know how you and your girlfriends respond to very attractive men so if you want
To have a very attractive man not disappear from your space be thankful that he’s there show him that you’re thankful that he’s there reciprocate don’t rely on him to do everything show him that he’s valued and that’s why you see a lot of very attractive men walking down the street and dealing
With attractive women they’re not overly attractive they will look at the couple and say wow he could have done better than her no he couldn’t have because that man really values a woman who values him and who’s going to bring peace to his life and not chaos and
Who’s going to be respectful it’s the simple things that take you the furthest when it comes to dealing with high quality men so I want I want you to just take that with you tonight um make sure that you reciprocate and you uh pay attention to the level of man that’s in
Front of you understand and observe his reality you’re not the only woman that finds him extremely attractive and so his level of patience for for BS and hoops and games and drama and disrespect it’s not going to be there because he’s too desirable and he he’s in the game even if he’s
Single he’s in the game so so what that means is that the women that he finds attractive still find him very attractive he’s only waiting and looking for the one he’s compatible with and then he’s out of the game that’s the way it works so if you desire an extremely
Attractive man you know exactly what I’m talking about this is how you acquire him and keep him in your space so he doesn’t disappear this has been Matthew C horn author motivational speaker and dating coach bringing you a video tonight once again why extremely attractive men disappear appear from your space they
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