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Honestly this stuff is so warm it’s so comfortable at least I’m still warm in the new Strawberry Park Sherpa do all sorority girls think the same let’s go straight to it so this one was audience submitted by MD I pay to have friends three two one go I knew this was gonna
Come up best best money I ever spent for real I’m sorry you pay to be people they might not be your friends it’s like a true and false yeah it’s the equivalent of like sign up for a soccer league you have to pay a fee be part of the organization and then
You inevitably make friends with the teammates or if you seem to go to private school you have to pay extra to be hopefully the education is better the teachers are better not doesn’t always work that way but you’re paying for your kids to go there and they’re gonna have
To end up making friends somehow I love to party three two one go I’m gonna say yes I do love to party of course it’s you know the getting ready doing hair makeup and stuff but there’s just times where I don’t know I’d just rather be at home
Watching a movie chilling with friends I definitely agree like there’s some days I just want to stay home with all the lights agree then definitely determines my thought process okay I like to go out to a bar with my friends get a little Mixie Mixie but I don’t want to like go
To the frat house get disgusting smell like the bo of like 40 men and there’s like five girls there but she’s done it before that’s why she was able to describe what it was she probably goes weekly still like I don’t like these I don’t like them but let me just check it
Out my school I go to San Diego State it’s a really big party school so it’s either you block out or you don’t have a good time I did hear San Diego State like they party hard but the blackout I blacked out a few times I woke up confused I
Woke up one time with the ketchup bottle on my chest no this is for a different video a different story but College days but damn I’d never intend to black out because I never really would love to do and I’m sure because it happened you would almost wish that you didn’t
Blackout exactly it’s just kind of like you have too much shots and then it’s like before you know it then you’re blacked out I also think if you’re not partying and you’re not going out like you’re you’re going to become a ghost it’s harder no that us it’s harder to
Stay relevant like if people don’t see you like they’ll forget about you so is that like based off when you go back and you guys have to do weekly things together you’re not treated as important because you decided to like not be a part of the social aspect of it I think
What she’s saying is it’s effectively a popularity contest that’s what high school and college is not all the time but it is there’s a hierarchy of that’s the popular girl or guy they’re in all the Marty’s they all they got with this girl and that girl and then when you
Graduate you realize oh um we were in a bubble and none of that matters but I guess for this sure that probably does matter in terms of your hierarchy of where you want to be we were privileged enough where we were we got to be
YouTube guys so that made us cool so we didn’t have to be in frats to like talk to girls or something yeah I was in college and I was I wanted to have the full experience in a way and I was like I had the opportunity to join I had
Friends that were joining so I was like you know what let me do it like I’m never gonna have these four years of college I didn’t end up going four years but that was my thought process I was like let me just do this now I’m never
Gonna do it again did the Frat give you more social Prestige when you join something like that you’re signing up for that so like other sororities know your fraternity you do mixers like you’re supposed to know like a lot of different people so some sororities only take pretty people some sororities only
Take pretty people that’s facts foreign [Laughter] s at my school that do Solo Lego based soft looks if you’re blonde and you’re skinny you’re in personally my sorority doesn’t do that I think it’s just a load of bull crap it’s so super close up on the non-white girl what do you think
About that what was that did they do a editing dish do they do it right the editor right let me look at that again do solitude base soft looks if you’re blonde and you’re skinny you’re in personally my sorority doesn’t do that I think it’s just you’re not if you’re blonde and skinny
You’re in immediately goes to the heavy stuff you know the girl you know what I got seven cams they could have picked another and that’s like the hidden cam right now I’ve seen the Key and Peele skit he’s being uh like a a politician he’s like I will support you if you’re
Black if you’re all old if you’re young if you’re gay guys and it showed uh Jordan oh Jordan yeah and then he’s like get the camera off me and it kept cutting back every time every time he said gay it kept cutting back to him these kinds of like
Image sororities that we’re talking about like that’s where they get their power from like everybody’s thinking like they’re so pretty or they’re so untouchable and I don’t think my sorority is like that but I I think it matters to my sorority it sucks but that’s just how it is you know and I
Think it is because it’s a social institution like it just relies on other people like that’s true in a way too because that’s how people join and they pay their fees like you have to have recruiter and people that are attractive and know how to talk and good looking
That can attract other people into this because the vetting process look like to get in one is that what they call Rush week yeah Rush week is like a thing where all of them you know post up outside you know you see in the movies the recruiters are meant to go up to
People and get like lure them into like hey join this sorority but they also pick and choose like it’s not like anybody can join really is like if you’re not a fit for them they’ll just say like oh yeah like check out the website I’ll let you go you know like I
Mean it’s the exclusivity that makes these sororities what they are otherwise what’s the point of even yeah separating them yeah even for me to join my fraternity there was like a 10-week process of things you had to do like make things you had to complete never
Mind even like earned to be in it so I felt like a lot of sorority recruitment is based on looks and it’s not maybe something that people are even like conscious of but like if you see a pretty girl and she’s nice you’re going to be like oh I’m so
Excited about her she’s so cute like that’s a word that a lot of people use she’s so cute she’s so pretty it’s like pretty privilege is a thing pretty privilege is such a thing yeah the image doesn’t necessarily have to do with like your physical appearance like looking to
Put together all the time it’s more of like how you appear to people on the outside like when we are going through recruitment or just in general like you can’t post red Solo cups you can’t post alcohol if you’re under 21. I think it’s something different though like posting
Alcohol and like looking like a mess because just like real world like you don’t want you 19 like drunk on Instagram like when you’re trying to get a job so like my sorority does care about that and it’s not it’s not so much like they’re trying to control me but
It we just should be like that you just shouldn’t post alcohol if you’re not yeah exactly sorry I don’t know how to wear this I feel like when the Frat Bros like post up with their Kegs and their red Solo cups it’s fine but it feels like a little bit misogynistic that like
A girl needs to look classy and she can’t drink alcohol but like the boys can do it they’re also talking like they’re forced to do that like you don’t have to like and we have to do this and have to do that you don’t have to pay
The dues so you don’t have to be a part of it I was going to speak about the whole they’re talking about drinking whatever and we were talking about this earlier drinking culture I saw a story of like these people on Instagram and they were like legit shots drinking and
I was like why is that a flex I’m like I’m 21 too I can go and buy alcohol and then film myself drinking it I don’t know why that’s a flex to people and then she’s talking and the guys have their Kegs and it’s like well we want to
Have our drinks too I’m like what I just find that strange but also for her to say it’s misogynistic I don’t you know what that word means but I was walking to this like it was a party college town thing and then no guys are allowed in
And then all the girls were walking right this way I don’t think she has a problem with when girls get let in free right she’s not thinking about that and guys get stopped at the door she has no problem when the sexism benefits her but when the sexism doesn’t benefit her it’s
Misogynistic and it’s bad this was submitted by Teo racism exists within sororities facts three two I’m so sorry one that’s okay the white girl okay I’ll say yes what are you guys doing where are the black girls going we prefer to stick with our people but we’re always welcome to
Branching out to Multicultural imagine if a white person said that we prefer to stick to our own people is that a hot take that should be the white girl yeah we tend to stick to just the white girls but we’re open to like the blacks but in
A way that’s how they operate these sororities which is weird so that’s why racism I think does exist I’m looking at each one of these girls as like a leader I’m sure all the sororities are just copy and paste of all these girls that’s what I’m doing like all the other girls
That are in these girls sororities look just like each one yeah it’s like if you look like me you’re in and maybe I’m getting too analytical but I haven’t heard her speak for the rest we’ll hear her more of her speak but the black girl
On the Green Jacket you know she’s in a predominant was it oh it’s all black oil yeah it’s all black so uh sorority how can you like Champion we don’t like racism and we don’t like segregation yet you actively segregate yourself I think some sororities could be cultural type
Of sorority too so in that case yeah I don’t think a white guy is going to join the black fraternity are there if you’re the black girl and you see the you know the white girl’s 40 it’s like well I’m not even going to apply to that one so
Then it’s like it’s just unspoken but it is a lot there’s the line where lies but but is it a bad thing like I don’t know but I think there’s a sorority for everything you’ll have your Multicultural sororities predominantly white sororities and we have our predominantly black sorties yeah I would
Agree with that I think it’s just empowering to be in a space where you’re poured into by people who are successful and look like you that’s like extremely honestly life-changing like and if someone from a different ethnicity wanted to join like my personal perspective is just like simply why like
I’m not gonna yeah it’s just like well not why if someone was adopted and grew up in a black family and that’s all they know it’s like okay like girl come on like I I fully understand that so it’s not like there’s like a don’t join this
It’s just more so this is a safe space and as a person who is not a black woman why are you wanting to enter our safe space Oh my God this is too well for me this is too well she’s saying you need like a valid sort of reasoning to why
You want to you’re a white guy but you were adopted by black parents your whole life all right but like what if there was just the I love all sides and I’m in college and I just want to learn more about just this this is this cracks me
Up you know me I’m the product of black and white I mean here we all all of us are all well it’s a biracial like biracial wow who better than us to speak on this I could understand you resonate with people of your culture but at the
Same time to say something like hey this is a black safe space and if you’re white it’s like well why would you even want to come in here you’re so left-leaning that you’ve become a racist we’re talking about racism existence sororities you’re the people that perpetuate it because you’re she’s
Pretty much a green she’s saying yeah and it exists why is it that just because I’m black that means I’m gonna get along with other black people which fraternity would you go through then I actually have very few light-skinned guy friends I don’t know I just don’t really
Like light-skinned guys like that I don’t know if it’s competition anxiety or what it is but it says what it is I don’t know what it is I don’t know if it’s exactly that but probably anyways just because and I could use Jaws like neither of y’all are black in any way
But that doesn’t matter there I like y’all because of who you are as a person not because of your skin tone if Martin Luther King Jr’s judge people off the content of their character not off the color of their skin yet you’re saying all black people we just feel more safe
Around us all black people yeah it’s it’s a flawed way of thinking because what happens when you graduate like you’re not going to feel safe if you’re in making friends with someone that’s not a part of your race I can walk into an all-white function where it’s a
Hockey game for example I was like hey I’m with all the white people we’re all enjoying the Caps game I’m not I’m looking for the other brother um in the building that I can feel safe now I think it’s a really sad way to view the world is unless people look
Like me I’m all of a sudden might not get along with them it seems racist to me interjecting here because I wanted to elaborate a little bit I was looking at the video that you guys are watching right now and I was like watching it being like Oh damn this is a
Controversial take I have to like come on here and make these sort of hey guys we’re all inclusive here type of announcements and stuff but I was just thinking about this when I was in the car watching the clip and I thought to be me for example a person of color to
Think that I should only feel comfortable around people that look like me well I need to actively segregate myself because if I’m around people that don’t look like me that’s somehow a bad thing or that’s somehow it’s supposed to make me feel uncomfortable I mean you’re talking to the inclusivity king here
Thinking about hey imagine going traveling like I would love to travel to an Asian country I love to travel to South America I think to be the type of person who’s like well I don’t want to go anywhere and no one can be around me if you don’t look just like me because
Everyone has to look like me it seems like a bit of a narcissistic way of viewing the world because if you’re only interested and only able to operate in areas and spaces where everyone has to look like you think the same as you operate like you speak like you what
Type of person does that make you I don’t think it’s conducive to an environment where you’re able to learn how to be a better more well-rounded person I think being around people that don’t look like you people with different cultural backgrounds people with different perspectives and opinions
And World Views I think that’s what makes life awesome is different people I don’t want to be the y’all remember the episode of SpongeBob where it was Squidward and he was in that town of all other Squidwards and he ended up hating it because he did the same every
Day that he thought he loved I don’t want to be around only Squidwards I want to be around the SpongeBobs and Patrick’s even if I might not agree with them at all times it’s important I think I think it makes life more whole if you will I’m someone who when I’ve traveled
To other countries whether it be I’ve been to Morocco and Switzerland and Ireland and England and I went to Jamaica one time like whenever I interact with people who are on the opposite end of the globe for me not only is it awesome interacting with different people but you’ll find that
You’re more similar to other people than you would ever imagine and I think that’s the beauty beautiful thing about being around people that are different from you so you know call me whatever this is a crazy opinion but I am all about a Melting Pot environment and I’m
All about at the same time being able to Value where you came from and resonating with people from a similar background as you but this sort of speak where it seems like people are actively segregating themselves I don’t know I couldn’t handle being in a room full of
Light skins that sounds unbearable or a room full of me’s that would be unbearable back to the video yeah I had a friend who goes to a different School than I do you know obviously I like being in Surrey so I’ll tell people like oh if you’ve ever thought about it you
Should definitely try it she said that there’s this one story that because she’s Latina that was like making fun of her in a way and being like Oh I know you know how to cook nachos and blah blah I know you know how to cook and
Stuff like this and it’s just like so upsetting because it’s like now you’re ruining it for the rest of us like for the people that actually want these people to join and like aren’t trying to make this a safe space like you guys are saying and what does that mean safe
Space place where I’m not going to come in contact with anyone who my different opinion or look different or what this is our safe space right and Noah invites a friend over I’ve never seen oh he stepped into my so much space even if you have a safe space you should be able
To adapt Within that space or whatever I mean maybe just grow up being in a sorority fraternity is a very social thing and you should know that before signing up maybe all of them were just racially divided back then so like that’s just how it’s always been when
You you all were in college you guys had fraternities there right yeah it was a weak Greek life scene didn’t they have the different cultural ones too where like all black fraternity or sorority no only because it was so small that there was barely anything yeah uh okay because
My school had those different cultural sororities and groups and fraternities and is that because the school system was already set up in that way and and it was those fraternities were made way back then and it just never stopped it just kept on going every year and now
They’re not going to be fixed at this point and God forbid someone say hey maybe we get rid of the Filipino club and just make it for everyone well that there’s a reason why there’s not one sorority then some sororities that do select people of color to join just to
Look better they don’t really genuinely care and it’s really sad and it’s disgusting it’s performative activism yeah someone not wanting to get scrutinized for being racist so they do what looks not racist but at the end of the day like you don’t have honest or Genuine intentions behind the decisions
You’re making like a black face in a high place doesn’t equal like inclusivity so now you’re all about inclusivity but you’re a part of an all-black sorority that rarely allows anyone outside of that and if you are a white girl that’s like well why do you
Even want to be here I thought you’re the inclusivity girl so why would you be a part of something that doesn’t seem quite inclusive and like I’m super thankful like in my chapter we um do have our we call it like our Betty chair belonging Equity diversity inclusion she
Is a person of color and she is so well educated and just really brings us really like I missed it this did the white coaches say that and we have a black girl in our sorority she’s smart by the way that’s basically what she just said this is incredible because
It’s basically what you just said she made the hand emphasis to the black girl as she said that she said that we have a girl of color because if you if you’re a white girl you say black they don’t like to say the word black white people have
A thing where it’s saying black makes them feel uncomfortable she said when we have a girl of color and and she’s really smart only pointing out to one girl because she only hangs out with her white sorority friends so it’s like she’s in this environment Now by living
In the wilkesphere it’s like okay I can’t even say the word black there is a woman girl of color in our thing and she’s the best I’m telling you I mean oh my he’s got to meet her you guys I mean I mean you guys are probably friends
What I mean she is she’s my best friend I mean I don’t hang out with her and know nothing about her but God she’s the best girl you’ve ever seen and she’s smart for a black girl and like I’m super thankful like in my chapter we um
Do have our we call it like our Betty chair belonging Equity diversity inclusion she is a person of color and she is so well educated and just really brings us really like great presentations about like the importance of pronouncing someone’s name like African-American vernacular like you know like just bringing awareness to
Things that I usually don’t really think about and I think that in my chapter like specifically we’re making the right steps what if she was okay I’ll let her slide I’ll let her go I think as long as someone is like well educated in the subject they can make a difference but
Also I feel like I don’t want to necessarily like say like it means more when it comes to someone who like has experiences exactly yeah like you know what else I’m thinking is it the job of like we also have an equity and belonging chair but like is it the job
Of a black woman to educate like white people yeah we’re all adults like and maybe it does mean more coming from a woman of color what a burden you know that it has to be this poor like not I don’t mean poor but like oh God
Why would I said something like that I think important question to ask yourself is who does it feel special to to have that be a person of color like it feels special to you but I would like just like to like challenge you like in your sorority like to just possibly like its
Effort that’s simply all it is like teaching diversity and inclusivity and so if like you as like you know a white girl in your sporty can like put more effort in like learning certain things so you can teach that and then asking a person of color like advice like I think
That would be a great suggestion stop stop stop thank you so much this is overload so now the girl in all black sorority is telling the white girl now the fact that your Equity your Equity per chair is a black girl well that’s not even right it should be you teaching
Everyone about black people you can’t win with this man this is tiring dude what if the white girl said and I’m the uh leader of the diversity group and I teach everyone about black black history you know the black girls will feel some type of way and be like you’re
The person that teaches black included it’s probably a teacher out there someone that’s a white guy or white girl that has to teach a black history probably somewhere at a school so it’s like it comes across but she didn’t have to have a problem with that our
Diversity person is a black girl well I think there’s problems with that you should you should be the one that you teach and then she says I’m the diversity thing and I teach everyone about Multicultural and African and ethnicities and stuff how could you possibly know you know they’d have a
Problem she would actually say that yeah this is absolute hot air saying that and like all of you guys like had to say like I really appreciate it and I will straight up admit like I do have to learn more I do have to like put in the
Time like educate myself I really like that suggestion just because it is I would be a bit hard to find that balance of like there’s a lot of people that are like oh my surgery isn’t racist so we’re fine and it’s like well yeah you guys aren’t discriminating against people but
You have to do more than just not be racist like you know I mean you have to be anti-racist yeah yeah and you have to learn from like you have to acknowledge that Greek life originally just don’t be racist is was a racist system and I think like you’re saying it shouldn’t be
The job of a person of color I don’t need that pressure I yeah like yeah I don’t know you I don’t need a team like when I said that I didn’t mean it like that at all yeah they kind of lost me I know you didn’t mean it like that I just
Think that like this is what happens like in spaces like this where we like are working towards like decolonizing like originally white spaces is that like oftentimes like white people are made aware of things they didn’t know before and I’m not sitting here like oh my God you racist you thought that it’s
More just like your product or your environment we presented you new ideas and thoughts and like you either take it moving forward or you don’t but then you also live with this the decision that you make moving forward too so it’s like exactly it’s okay yeah you’re good it
Gives a whole racial speech but you don’t even feel safe around people that aren’t your race I would argue that’s the most racist statement that they said on the whole thing was I don’t feel safe around people that don’t look like me let me see if anyone in the comments
Said anything can you do a video on EX sorority girls they can spill more tea okay as someone from Europe This was crazy to watch African College culture feels like a American American college called uni glasses American College culture feels like a fever dream that’s facts I’ve never gotten the appeal of
Joining a sorority but to each their own I never understood them the sororities and fraternities is just not my cup of tea they’re hard to understand and it’s like even now it’s like yeah they all do different stuff they all have different mindsets you can’t join this one but you
Can join that one they do this they do that what even is it they all drink and party yeah it’s like all really about partying but then they say it’s about philanthropy but really it’s about partying and then it’s like you got to do this and you got to do these chants
And do it like the majority of what all them do is this party but they didn’t even talk about this on here because if you’re like have no friends or something and you want to join and be part of something I could see how it could work
Out me personally I would never have to join something like this and I didn’t but robbed it I did yeah I like to experience scenes and take things from then see what I could learn and how I can be better was your thing Multicultural multiracial your fraternity yeah I was multiracial but it
Wasn’t like known as that we just had a variety of different guys yeah it was almost like just normal people normal yeah you guys didn’t have equity and inclusion chat of chat chair that came to spoke with us every week who was black yeah nah we didn’t have one of those oh
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