Hi everyone welcome to another video it’s Leilani for God I put up a poll on the community section of my channel and I put it up 22 hours ago so that was yesterday morning and I said on November 5th this channel turns 3 years old how should we celebrate vote in the
Poll below and leave comments with your ideas too so November 5th is going to be Sunday and I checked the poll just a few minutes ago and I realized most people voted for why people leave your life so I decided to go ahead and put something together for you guys now since that
Seems to be the most important topic you guys want me to tackle and then we’ll deal with exposing the church scandals on Sunday and then we’ll review the Channel’s history another day okay guys so we’ll get to the rest of it but this is the most important so let’s talk
About it one of the reasons that I reflected on in my own personal life about why people leave you is because they clone your energy your expressions and are imitating you so I know it sounds crazy but it’s true I have a little picture here that says
Imitation might be the highest form of flattery but it reflects the lowest level of intelligence and Imagination so I’ll give you guys a quick Story Time one of the things that I do as an artist I’m a seamstress I design clothes I make all kinds of
Clothes um some years ago a friend of mine called me and she’s a recording artist and she called me and she was like I saw one of your dresses in a boutique as I was shopping downtown and she says I went in the boutique and I
Said said do you know my friend such and such is this her dress and she said the person in the store was agreeing with her like yeah I know her yeah yeah yeah so when she told me I was like oh my goodness I know exactly who owns that
Boutique it’s a girl that I used to be cool with and we used to go shopping for fabric together and I had a friend of mine come with us to carry my bags cuz fabric is very heavy it was a guy friend and he was just hanging out with us and
Everything and eventually he said to me you know every time you put a bolt of fabric on the counter and ask the clerks to cut it up for you the girl who’s shopping with us she goes behind you and tells the clerk to also cut her several
Yards of the same Fabrics that you keep picking out so I didn’t I didn’t say anything to the girl you know the guy who was with us he was there for me so I was glad that he noticed that and he told me but I didn’t realize until years later until
My friend the musician called me on the phone and said they got your dress in the window guess what guys it was not my dress in the window that same girl who used to she used to invite me to go fabric shopping with her she was duplicating my designs and putting them
In the window of her boutique and she duplicated one of my dresses so good that one of my friends and customers the recording artist called me to ask me oh I saw your to tell me I saw your dress in the window of a boutique and I’m like
That was not my dress that girl is copying my designs so you know we used to be friends and we kind of grew apart and um she stopped speaking to me like I was still being cool with her you know whatever and now I know why she was cloning
Me and she’s not the only one this is just a a story I’m giving you guys to understand sometimes people people are only hanging out with you because they want to pick up on your style and your energy and then they want to use that to move forward but they can’t imitate you
Directly in your face they have to you know do it with around other people who don’t know you anyway I let it go I never you know caused her any problems or any trouble um down the line I actually wind up going to the girl’s Boutique and I
Actually bought a couple of pieces you know so I’m not I’m not the type of person to like want to have problems with people unless people want to have problems with me but you know I let it go you know what can you do number nine here’s a reason why
People will leave you and you’re like what happened I don’t even understand what’s going on here they cannot impress you okay so I have a little picture here it says sometimes you let go of people without even noticing you stop thinking of them every day you stop waiting for
Them to rep reply to you you stop allowing them to take up so much space in your life you just shift your attention away from them because you’re ready to vibrate higher sometimes when you are like so like in I want to say in love with your
Own life that you’re happy with you know your job or your career and you’re happy with your hobbies and your talents and whatever you’re passionate about sometimes people that don’t have a passion for life they’re not interested in being active and getting out there in the world and leaving their mark on the
World and and doing activities that’s like for the greater good of everybody like sometimes I talk about how we should all have some type of civic interest in the world like whether you care about the environment or whether you’re an animal rights activist or human rights social justice
Activist you know when you have passions about life and you actually go out and start working on those big kind of goals um you you you kind of stop focusing on your friends that don’t have deep passions in life some people are just living like the only reason they
Get out of bed in the morning is because they have to not because they want to that’s two different types of Liv to live and people who are basically just getting by they’re not putting their passion out there they’re not pursuing their passion things that’s really on
Their heart they kind of like have low energy and so they can’t really inspire you they can’t impress you they can’t motivate you they’re like a downer so when you become very passionate about something and and you’re all animated about it and talking about it and you
Know you’re all red up in one way or another sometimes you actually are the one who’s letting that person go because they can’t they can’t see things your way and you’re like why aren’t you so you know why aren’t you as excited or as passionate about you know saving the
Animals As I Am and you you know whatever your interests are it’s like the person doesn’t have a lot of energy to give so you actually are the person in that way not on purpose but in that way that’s how you start to let that
Person go so it seems like they left you because you’re trying to motivate them and get them excited about life or some area or some interest but they just can’t seem to work it up inside of themselves they can’t impress you with their passion for life so you kind of
Start letting go because you’re not really getting any energy from that person you’re just like always the one that’s trying to motivate them so you tend to stop you know thinking about people like that because it’s like they don’t do anything that’s memorable exciting new adventurous courageous like where is your bravery so
Sometimes you kind of shift into things that you’re so interested in that you kind of stop looking for that person because you have bigger and better things to do that’s more exciting all right number eight they can’t manipulate you into agreeing with them so here’s a reason why people will
Leave your life unexpectedly or like for seemingly no reason so the picture here says sometimes it’s better to just let things be let people go don’t fight for closure don’t ask for explanations don’t chase answers and don’t expect people to understand where you are coming from okay okay so sometimes people may
Want to do something that you don’t agree with and because your friends or your family or your co-workers you have some relationship with them to where you feel like you have to tell them the truth and it’s like that’s not right don’t do that you could be friends with
Somebody but you don’t agree with some bad behavior that they want to get into so they’re trying to manipulate you because you’re friends or because you’re close or because you guys are cool with each other and they’ll be like well I’m going to go and do something to get revenge on
Somebody else and then you’re like no that’s not the right way to go about it like I understand how you feel but think about the consequences you know and they’ll get mad at you because you don’t condone their bad behavior and when you actually try to have a conversation with them
About it they realize that they can’t manipulate you into into agreeing with them and then that’s that’s the reason why they’ll leave your life because you won’t condone their bad behavior some people really think the definition of friendship and loyalty is you agreeing with everything they do and never
Telling them that they’re wrong so sometimes like this uh statement says it’s better to just let them go don’t fight for closure don’t try to get to the bottom of the problem because that’s not what real loyalty is loyalty is not telling your friend it’s okay to do
Something to where they could get themselves in trouble they can get themselves arrested they can get themselves into a fight or some type of danger or problems that you could foresee that could come back to them because they’re making bad decisions so let it go and don’t don’t
Try to fight for your position when people are determined to do the wrong thing number seven another reason why people might leave your life unexpectedly is because they feel inadequate right the picture here says there’s going to be times when people tell you that you can’t leave Live Your
Dreams this is what I tell them Never Say Never sometimes people feel so inadequate because they don’t feel capable of accomplishing things that you feel completely capable of accomplishing I remember when I was um made the choice that I wanted to go to graduate school I told one of my best
Friends that I’ve known since junior high school and I told one of my family members an elder male in my family and I was surprised both of them told me no don’t do that you work a full-time job you have your hobbies like you’re burning the candle at both ends
If you go to graduate with school don’t do it it’s too much you’re going to stress yourself out it’s too much of a burden was so surprised and I talked to them at separate times and I was so surprised like I thought these people really had my back and that they were
Definitely going to encourage me but the reason why they discouraged me is because that’s how they feel about themselves and their own lives so despite them telling me not to do it I still went to graduate school and I finished my my Master’s Degree early and
I was working a full-time job the whole time and I traveled to different parts of the world when I was studying for my Master’s Degree so you can’t let people tell you what you can and can’t do Okay the reason why people try to tell you you can’t accomplish a big goal is
Because and deep down inside of themselves they feel inadequate that they cannot reach that big goal and you know what happened years after I finished my Master’s Degree both of those two people both my friend from that I knew since junior high school school and my older male relative they
Both went back to school years later after I did my Master’s Degree my friend from Junior High School she went and got her Master’s Degree and my older male relative he went and got a Bachelor’s degree okay so when they was telling me I couldn’t do it I went and did it and
Guess what years later they went and did the same thing so just be mindful there’s going to times when people tell you you can’t live your dreams and this is what you tell them Never Say Never it’s possible if you really put your mind to it all right number six they never had
Good intentions and by that I mean some people are users so people will leave you because they are the type of people who only were there to get whatever they could get for personal benefit and take advant AG of the situation and so the picture here says
Never put them first if you always come last never give your all if you only get half okay so that’s how you know somebody’s a user you give them time they don’t give you any time you give them attention they don’t give you any attention you listen to them they don’t
Listen to you you try to help them solve their problems they don’t try to help you solve yours right so they’re only very to take some people are takers and some people are givers the the goal is to find a balance find a balance between strengths and weaknesses you
Know I have friends that are very strong in areas where I’m very weak so when I have problems they give me great advice when they have problems I give them great advice because our strengths are in different areas and so that’s when you know you have a reciprocity but when you don’t have
Reciprocity when you’re giving more than you are receiving from a person they’re using you and you have to be able to you know pay attention to that and because if you don’t when that person leaves your life you’re left wondering well why did they leave I was being completely
Friendly giving generous and they were not because they were using you they never had the intention of reciprocating with you or giving you any benefit they always thought of you and other people in their lives as something to take something to take advantage of they only
Look at people as a source of of benefit to themselves so we have to ex understand and accept that some people are just users pay attention to the behavior action speaks louder than words number five reason why someone might unexpectedly leave your life because they don’t want to change for the better
So the picture I have here says when people walk away from you let them go your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you and it doesn’t mean they are bad people it just means that their part in your story is over okay so you have may have known people
For the longest time like I have friends that I’ve known since I was a teenager and I still have friends that I’ve known since I was a teenager I still have friends that I known since college and I still have friends that I’ve known since graduate school so I
Still have a lot of long-term friends people that really really really really know me and they know they they they love me how I am you know like they just enjoy my company and I enjoy their company and I love them how they are and every time
We reconnect it’s a great time right it’s like we are still kids in school again but then you have people who they just don’t want to change for the better I would honestly have to say when I think about my friends that I’ve known for the longest time we’re all now have
Master’s degrees we’re all professionals like I could see the similarity in my friends that I’ve kept for the longest time versus the friends that have left my life unexpectedly the people who have left my life that I’ve known for the longest time or people who didn’t change for the
Better they didn’t go to school they didn’t start a career they continue to live a street life getting high having sex and just not really taking control of their lives just letting life happen to them right so sometimes people they just don’t want to talk to you they don’t
Want to hang out with you they don’t want to continue that friendship not because you guys don’t have good chemistry or you can’t get get along but because they don’t want to change for the better and hanging around you is just going to make them feel uncomfortable because they they can’t
Tell you stories about you know what happened at work and what happened at school and what happened traveling around the world they can’t they don’t want to make the effort that it takes to reach those levels all of that stuff takes hard work and planning and vision
Right you have to really apply yourself to life to accomplish your goals and they don’t want to do that they they would rather let life happen to them rather than take advantage of the situation and actually make a plan for how life could be right now everything
Is in God’s timing there are certain things that we could plan that’s never going to work out but guess what there’s a lot of things that we can plan that can work out as long as we’re moving in the right direction in alignment with the gifts and talents that God put within us
Right but they don’t want to change for the better they just want life to be easy and for things to come to them they don’t want to go get it of number four we’re doing a countdown 10 top reasons top 10 reasons why people leave you number four
They don’t care enough about themselves to care about anyone else so the picture here says if they want to leave let them if they push you away go you weren’t put on this Earth to convince anyone of your worth you’re here to learn create flourish live spread love and nourish the ones
Deserving of you will always make you feel appreciated sometimes people are at a place in their life where they don’t care enough about themselves to care about anyone else there’s a lot of ways that people could find themselves in that position they could be be addicted to
Drugs um they could have there’s other types of addictions that’s not necessarily drugs I’ve known people um who’ve had gambling addictions sex addictions like anytime somebody’s addicted to something um klepto Maniacs people who are addicted to stealing when people have addictions they absolutely don’t care enough about themselves to care about anyone
Else um also when people have certain mental health illnesses they don’t have the ability to care enough about themselves to care about anyone else I know it might sound harsh but the fact of the matter is sometimes people go through things in life where you can’t you can’t help them they
Literally have to come to their own conclusion that they have hit rock bottom and that is different for everybody like the level at which people will go to before they realize I have to change and sometimes people have deep rooted issues that they are the only one
Who can change and so if they want to leave you have to let them go I know sometimes it hurts especially when it’s a close friend or family member you want to save them from themselves and their own bad behaviors especially when someone’s dealing with addiction because
You know like they’re spending all their money or if someone has a sex addiction of course you’re worried what if they get a STD what if they get a terminal illness and it’s like there’s nothing you can do right but you w put on this Earth to
Try to make other people understand that you care to understand your heart understand your mind you’re here to live your life to fulfill the purposes that God put in you and to be the best you that you can be in honor of everything that God has done for
Us you’re not here to like try to make other people’s you know lives better or brighter or you know try to make other people do what you think they should do you know the old saying like um you want more for people than they want for
Themselves the best way you can um be for people is to be a good example that when you actually put God first and you focus on your passions and your talents that God put in you look at the success that you can achieve and this is from experience not just from
Talking to people and eventually people people when they decide that their life has become something that they don’t want it to be and they want it to change then they can draw from your life as an example and say well if I start today to
Put one foot in front of the other I see that this other person is a shining example that if I apply myself to life I can do something more fulfilling with my time and with my life so unfortunately you have to understand that some people you’re you’re going to want more for
Them than they want for themselves and once they start to push you away because they’re deep in their dark space let them go let them go okay let them walk away from you because until they decide that they want to be in a better place they’re just going to drag you
Down third reason why people unexpectedly leave your life very similar to the fourth reason they have unhealed trauma so in the fourth reason it was they care enough about themselves to care about anyone else but in this case they have unhealed trauma so this is different from addiction people who have
Addictive um behaviors it can also have come from a trauma but it could also have been hereditary in this case number three they have unhealed trauma we all go through things in life and we all have trauma especially from childhood things happen that were out of our control because we were too small
And Too Young so we were not in a position to make change once we become adults we can make change we’re big enough we’re strong enough we’re old enough and wise enough to properly think things through and come to New conclusions okay when people have unhealed trauma they maintain a childish
View of Life a view in which they are powerless so even though they’re an adult now and they have more power than they did when they were a child they are continuing to process information from the perspective of a powerless child okay so the picture I have here
For you is from my channel I just took a screenshot from my analytics it looks like at the bottom I did a video exposing someone it got 180 views and 19 upvotes and then I did two videos about God how to repent so that God will
Forgive and forget your sins and how to let go and let God and that was just a general overview of how to basically perceive reality so that you’re allowing God’s work to come through you as opposed to you trying to force you know your way on reality even
Though we deal with a lot of attack from demonic forces I talked about how to heal yourself through a lot of the type of psychic and energetic and electrical attacks that we receive and how to let God’s will be done because sometimes we get so excited about changing ourselves
And changing the world that we forget everything has to be done on God’s timing not an hour timing I’m like that I want things to happen real fast and I have have to constantly remind myself you know God is working God has a process it’s not about what I want it’s
About how I can fit into what God wants right so I did these two videos how to let go and let God and God forgives and forgets and if you add up both of those videos together I it has less views and upvotes than the video where I was exposing a demonic spirit
And so people are more interested in me exposing people cuz it’s drama you know it’s interesting it’s entertainment but people are more interested in that than in healing their unhealed trauma when you start talking about putting God first and healing your life from all of the hard things that
Have happened to you people are not interested in that right so the people who were there for my video exposing Queen Tulsa they’re not there for my video about them uh exposing themselves to God and changing for the better right with God you know so you
Know people will leave my channel when I talk about God but they subscribe when I talk about drama that’s where I got most of my subscribers from cuz all my videos that are like uh 8,000 views 5,000 views all exposed videos I get thousands of views on
Exposing you know but when I simply talk about how you can fix your life and heal your life and put God first and work more closely with God not so much not so much I don’t get new subscribers on those videos I lose subscribers on those videos okay guys I gained subscribers
When I talked about Queen Tulsa and then over the past 4 days that I’ve only been talking about God I lost subscribers so people they they’re just addicted to the wrong things they have unhal trauma they don’t want to talk about it they don’t want to get right
With God they don’t want to do self-inventory but they do want to they do want to point fingers at other people as long as somebody else is getting judged that’s okay when it’s time for you to do self-inventory and judge yourself uhoh everybody runs out the room
And that brings us to number two the reason why people leave you unexpectedly because most people hate the truth it’s just a fact it’s just how life is most people hate the truth this is an article I found online from business news it says a neuroscientist explains why
Stupidity is an existential threat to America this article was published on September 19th 2023 a neuroscientist is uh a doctor that studies the brain brain waves and brain patterns and it can go into different areas of life um there are neurological diseases diseases that occur in the brain um and then there’s
Also um as we age and get older the brain changes like as people get like into their elderly stages people start to suffer from um being becoming scile forgetting a lot of things or even getting into Alzheimer’s disease or other types of degenerative brain illnesses and neuroscientists study all
Of these things to give information to us while we’re young so we can put the best habits and practices in place While We’re Young to maintain a good brain health as we age and um one of them is saying stupidity is a major threat to America because America is supposed to be a
Country where anybody can come as long as they have ambition and great ideas and a good work ethic people believe they can come here to America and just make make themselves successful as long as they’re hardworking and they have great ideas so compared to other countries that is absolutely true there are far
More millionaires in America than anywhere in the world there’s far more africanamerican millionaires there thousands of African-American millionaires in America way more than black millionaires in any other part of the world so it’s totally possible to you know Focus yourself into an area that you’re very good at and develop it to
The point where you can be very successful in America so basically what this article is saying that is saying I’m going to read just a couple of sentences it says this may seem like an insensitive statement but the bitter truth is that there are a lot of stupid
People in the world and their stupidity POS es a constant threat to others some of these people are in positions of power and some of them have been elected to run our country a very large number of them do not hold any position in power but they still have the power to
Vote and the power to spread their ideas we may have heard of collective intelligence but there’s also Collective stupidity and it’s a force with equal influence on the world it would not be an exaggeration to say that stupidity has become an existential threat to America because it is being celebrated in some
Circles so I have a lot of playlists on my channel one of them is um good free movies I added a movie to that playlist recently if you guys want to check it out it’s called idiocracy it’s an old movie it’s a comedy and in that movie
It’s like a guy gets put to sleep in like a chamber and then like 300 years into the future he wakes up and everybody is so stupid the president is like a local celebrity and he’s so dumb like everybody is so stupid in the new world
When he wakes up in it that they don’t even um they’re not even growing any more like fruits and vegetables because they don’t they don’t want to drink water so they’re just eating junk food and just being dumb so anyway it’s a comedy movie but the funny thing is this
Movie came out so long ago that now it came out like in 2000 or something like that so now more than 20 years later life is kind of starting to look like that movie we literally had Donald Trump who was a television celebrity he had celebrity appren and he was in
McDonald’s commercials or whatever so you know and then they had you know Trump was president after having been a TV actor uh Reagan had been an actor he became president too in the 80s um Arnold Schwarzenegger became governor in California and he’s like a big time actor so it’s like people are picking
People based on popularity more so than like what is your real um what are your real abilities what are your credentials what is your real um you know your resume like are you are you suited for this job are you the right person to get the job done and unfortunately in politics you
Have people there for the wrong reasons right and it’s because people in general are so stuck in their own ways that they are looking for a leadership that’s going to maintain everything the way it is people are not interested in doing better so you know one of the reasons why
People are going to leave your life is because they hate the truth if you’re a person who’s like oh we need to be focused on making things better improving ourselves and others making the world a better place solving problems people hate that Mo most people hate that that’s not something that most
People are like yeah we need to make the world a better place it’s sad but it’s true and it’s the reason why our politicians are able to get away with not solving problems because most people are the same exact way that the politicians are the number one reason they are jealous of your
Blessings and they think you’re not worthy of good things so this is the number one reason people will you know for seemingly no reason just up and leave your life because deep down inside they are jealous of your blessings and they really really think that you’re not
Worthy of the good things that you have you know I think I’m I’m thinking about a couple of times where I’ve let people stay with me when they didn’t have any place to go and on two separate occasions and this happened years apart one was a male one was a female I’d
Known them forever since we were teenagers in both cases and I listen to their sad story let them cry on my shoulder let them sleep on my couch and then both instances they wound up stealing from me and I I was upset about it and I got
Justice of course I’m not just going to let something like that go but I realized that they felt like oh she’s doing good she can afford to let this go or they felt like because we grew up the same way we all had difficult childhoods and they stayed in a dark
Negative place that somehow I shouldn’t have have all the good things that I have why does she have all of these things why does she live better than me well because I didn’t let the bad things in life bring me down I chose to do
Better not to do worse and they chose to do worse you know so whereas I became a mental health and substance abuse counselor I would have to be honest with you guys and say both of those people who stole from me were on drugs but I
Was looking at them as my friend that I known since we were kids and I cared and I’m like I can help them get on their feet but they just were not at that place yet right so people look at you and they go why do why do they have this
And that why do they have that expensive car and that expensive house they should be feeding poor kids in Africa if you worked hard to accomplish your goals and you choose to use your money to buy yourself a nice house as a reward that’s your choice as long as you worked hard
For your money and got it the honest way okay okay so the only people I have a problem with having things is if they got it off of hurting other people like selling drugs or trafficking you know stuff like that no that’s a big no but if you actually achieved your level of
Success that you created for yourself I’m not mad at you and people when they think that you’re not worthy of having good things and they’re jealous of your blessings these are some of the things that they will do behind your back they they become emotionally manipulative people they go behind your back because
You’re doing better than them they twist everything you say to make you look or feel bad they try to get other people against you right they say awful things about you and then they deny that they said it they use guilt trips to control people so an example of that um is the
Video I just did about my stalker of 5 years so what she’s been doing doing is taking things that I’ve said and twist them around to make them sound bad and then when I confronted her and said why are you doing this to people she says
I’m not doing that meanwhile I have it in writing that she’s doing it things that she wrote to other people so these people are weird they’re just jealous because you’re blessed they think that you shouldn’t have good things because they’re not willing to put God first they’re not willing to accomplish big
Goals inside of their own life so they would rather just imagine that somehow you shouldn’t have things because they don’t want to think about what they need to do to get the things in life that would make them feel more happy and satisfied with life okay guys so those are the top
10 uh reasons why people will leave your life and you’ll be like I don’t even know what happened to that person why they’re so upset why they’re putting so much energy into trying to drag me down those are my top 10 reasons based on life experience I saw this on some type
Of ad that came up on my phone when I was playing a game the other day seven rules of Life number one Let It Go never ruin a good day by thinking about a bad yesterday just keep moving forward guys one foot in front of the other put God
First and keep praying for blessings to come your way and you know what as long as you stay focused and you work hard towards your goals in all honesty and sincerity without trying to hurt anybody else things good things will come your way so let go of the things that don’t
Serve you number two ignore them what other people think of you is none of your business people are going to be saying all type of stuff that’s not true people are going to try to make efforts to try to bring you down to their level get away from those people ignore them
Let them have that negativity because that energy is going to keep them in a low place and everybody who’s indulging with them in their nonsense is staying in a low place with them these are people who are not going to be able to accomplish as much as you
Are number three give it time time heals almost everything you know scripture says in this two Shall Pass right so things that happen sometimes we get upset why is this happening I wish this wasn’t happening just give it some time it’ll go away everything passes we’re all so busy
These days nobody really cares to be honest with you what people say about you today they’ll forget about it tomorrow or eventually it’s like who cares nobody really cares that much about other people it’s just a momentary source of entertainment for them okay number four don’t compare
The only person you should try to beat is the person you were yesterday so people who are wasting time trying to compete with you they don’t even realize that life is not a competition each of us has different gifts and talents that God gave us your goal to win the game of
Life is to be the best you that you can be that’s the real goal of life so when people are comparing themselves to you and competing with you they’ve taken Focus off of the own their own game that they’re supposed to be winning which is their own personal Game of Life be the
Best you that you can be number five stay calm it’s okay not to have everything figured out know that in time you’ll get there like I always say just give your heart to God that is the most best advice that I can give anybody because it is the
Number one single best decision I ever made in my life when when I get out of bent out of shape and I get upset and I start worrying and being angry I’m not being calm that’s when I’m not focused on what I’m supposed to be focused on okay that’s the truth about getting
Angry and getting upset and bent out of shape means your focus is not where it’s supposed to be when your focus is in the right place you’re calm no matter what’s going on it’s like I can sit here and tell you guys a whole bunch of terrible
Stories and be 100% % calm because I can also tell you how one bad thing led to many many many good things that’s why you always have to stay close to God because you never know how situations are going to turn out scripture says be still and know that I am
God okay it’s a practice of being still being calm and having faith that God is working out everything in the best interest of everybody so it’s super important to stay calm and also when you stay calm you can actually get the the guidance and and the wisdom from God through your
Intuition if you stay calm and stay prayerful God will tell you how to move forward when you feel distressed number six it’s on you only you are in charge of your happiness that’s why it’s important to discover what you’re unique gifts and talents are and work on those make those
Areas of your life a priority because when you are in the zone of what you’re good at and what you can do that doesn’t feel like work because it comes natural to you you have a natural happiness you’ll have a natural high sometimes I look at people and I’m
Wondering like why are you so miserable and then I realize they’re not tapped into their gifts if you are focused on what comes easy for you you will have a natural joy and happiness about your life okay so that’s why it’s on you to be in charge of your happiness focus on
Your gifts and talents that’s where your strong suit is that’s where you’re going to feel the most empowered and the most alive smile life is short enjoy it while you have it you know so find ways to smile find ways to laugh if you’re having a bad day and you’re feeling
Irritable watch some comedy videos watch some YouTube shorts watch some funny baby videos or some funny animal videos or something that makes you laugh whatever your sense of humor is you know find you know information and content that actually makes you smile like there are videos people have channels where
It’s all good news where humans are doing things to help other humans just being helpful to each other being generous to each other you know find those videos that make you smile that’s heartwarming like develop that part of your life and your personality don’t just always focus on the negative also
Make it a habit to focus on the positive all right guys so that brings us to the end of the video I’m going to pin this in the comment section just give your heart to God I’m going to pin the healed childhood drama playlist as well as the my most important videos
Playlist so that you guys can access this information so you can have a better grip on your life and healing what you need to heal and then building yourself up in a relationship with God that’s the purpose of these two playlists and the channel is coming up
On 3 years old so if you’d like to support the platform you can send me a PayPal to leani forgot gmail.com my cash app is leani forgot and you can become a channel member and join today all money that’s donated towards my platform stays into my platform the whole purpose at this point
Is for me to get a new laptop so I can do more content and improve the quality of my content I’ve tried a lot of apps to change the way that I do content using my cell phone and it’s it doesn’t come out the way it want it to look the
Best way to make content for YouTube is to do it on a laptop so we have people who who think it’s inappropriate for leani to God to solicit donations so I just want to quickly say this when people go to church they donate to keep that church functioning
Whatever resources that I need to keep this channel functioning or to make it better I ask people to donate the same way people donate to church to improve what to keep the church Church going the pastor does not come out of his pocket to pay for the expenses of the church
Okay guys I didn’t need to buy a new laptop for personal use no it’s not for personal use it’s for the channel it’s for the growth of this channel so if people want to donate they can donate to the growth of the channel now last year
I needed to buy a new cell phone to keep making content because my personal phone that I was using to grow this channel I had way too much things on it that was for the channel I had to delete 1,00 um screenshots out of my old phone
In order to keep making content on it and screenshots of information that I was going to use to make content so I asked you guys to donate um you guys donated about $225 I bought a new phone for the channel the phone cost over $1,000 okay so I came out of my pocket
To get a new phone to keep making content so it is a difference between what’s for my personal use cuz I still have the phone that I was using before it’s still works for personal use right and now this new phone has so much more
Memory it has like 128 Gaby so it’s a way more expensive phone you see so if you guys donate towards my plat form is to improve the quality of the channel the same way people donate to church okay to keep it going to cover the expenses of the church same principle
Okay guys so I just wanted to explain to you why I solicit donations there’s a lot more that I can do there’s a lot more that I can say but I can only do what I can do within the confines of the budget of this church okay and this
Church’s budget is is donations whatever donations come in it goes right back into this Channel all right guys so y’all stay blessed and I’ll see y’all in the next video
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