What’s up everybody it’s your boy Cory back again with another video on Tuesday as usual y’all know constant give me all this content whatever but today we’re gonna be talking about why you should not treat Greeks as celebrities why is that not good like why do we not want to
Be treated like that and why is gonna make you look bad so let’s get into the video so I can chop it up with y’all let’s go Okay so first off I’m gonna say this a lot of people consider Greeks especially in NPHC organisations up here yeah I’m saying like up there up here a tear down here and you know that’s not the case you know I’m saying yes we’re in leadership positions most of the time
Yes we’re always being seen yes this and that this and that but that does not mean you have to put us on a pedestal like we’re celebrities and stuff like that whenever you see a Greek treat them like they’re regular people whatever you see any Greeks for attorneys or
Sororities treat them like they’re regular people because at the end the day we are we go to class we study we have jobs we’re in student organizations we got accepted into the same College like we’re students and we need to be treated as students not as some celebrities when
You treat fraternities sororities as celebrities and treat them up here it makes you move differently you know I’m saying it makes you seem a certain type of way you might seem a little bit hesitant you might seem like you don’t want to talk when really you do want to
Talk but imagine if we just treated a Greek anybody fraternity or sorority like regular old people regular student walk up to them and you engage in conversations like they’re regular and then that’s how you build a genuine authentic relationship but if you treat a Greek like celebrity you’re not going
To have that same mentality you’re gonna move differently so what you’re gonna do is you might even just pass someone you two might do it look hey like real quick or you might feel a certain type of way when you get around them and you don’t
Want to ask the wrong things just like that but don’t think about that just be normal be a normal student that’s what that’s what we are well I’m not student no home but that’s where they are you know saying like be normal be yourself whenever you treat Greeks like
Celebrities technically you’re not being yourself because you’re not letting yourself relax and be calm and at ease you’re uptight whenever you treat somebody like a slipper let’s say you see a celebrity out there and you see them from a distance but you don’t want to go up to them because
You’re too afraid but you know that’s a celebrity over there it might be somebody like let’s say Kendrick Lamar or Rihanna somebody over there and far distance and you might be timid to go up to them and say something because of their status and that’s what a lot of
People do when it comes to Greeks because of the status and because they might be known on a campus or because they might be in something that they want to get involved in they do not approach them in a particular way light so here’s some things you can do to not
Put Greeks on a pedestal and have regular conversations don’t just bring up the organization bring up different things you go into concert this Saturday what’s your major this is Matt what’s your interests hobbies what get to know them as a person just like anybody else that’s on campus get to know though like
I said this is not like a celebrity where you can’t get to know and kind of be personal with a celebrity because they’re students as well going up that you tone up that talk to nothing you want to do is don’t be this is hard this
Is hard I know cuz some people are shy but don’t be so shy around them keep in the back your mind that they are regular students very like what like that’s the that’s the bulk of this video regular Oh students think about regular students just think about that and the question
Of the day is do you see that other people are putting Greeks on a pedestal for consider celebrities let me know in the comment section that you’ve seen it before not if you do it but if you’ve seen it before and the thing is we don’t
Want to be put on a pedestal or at least I don’t I want to be treated normal now I was on campus I want to be treated normal I wasn’t looking for attention I was looking for all this and that I wanted to be treated normal and most of
Greeks are like that some Greeks get more shine and limelight than some others and then some other Greeks don’t mind just chilling so not all Greeks are out there and judging and do all this and no it’s not like that and I’m not saying all you know people
Put Greeks on a pedestal or consider great celebrities I know but it happens a lot it happens so much that I have to make this video now this is gonna go for the ladies the non-greek ladies that seeking our attention from France we’re not celebrities it’s always these
Ladies these women that love guys in a fraternity just throw it all out at you just won’t and not a lot of ladies are like this but some ladies love it but that’s that celebrity treatment if that guy wasn’t in that fraternity non-time tartan he wouldn’t get that attention
Sometimes sometimes it’s like that so ladies don’t treat guys this is a fraternity like it’s like they’re celebrities and they’re up here and you need to be with them because they got all this status on campus all this no it’s not no no no I know something y’all
Gonna deny that y’all don’t do this but some of y’all do do this it isn’t like like I said it is what it is and for the guys know some is some guys the sorority chasers you know I need to do what adults I need to people to say this in
The Devereux like yeah yeah yeah oh what is it that’s drawing you to them is it because they have all this attention you’re putting them on a pedestal don’t do it ma’am don’t do it y’all they ain’t gonna do nothing but hurt you on the inside and the reason why I say this
Because every time you put people on a pedestal celebrities or something like that and they don’t respond to you how you want them to respond you feel a little bit more hurt but if you actually come at them as a friend as a person and just trying to get to know them if
They’re not as receptive to you you won’t feel as hurt and I’m saying because you don’t think of them up here you think of them I level with you when you think of people I love with you you don’t get it you don’t get assistive if that makes sense I don’t know that’s
Just my opinion but that’s it man if y’all have any questions let me know in the comment section I’m always answering them for you if you have a specific question you can always email me make sure you hit that subscribe button if you’re not subscribe already we’re trying to keep the 10
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