What’s up everybody issue boy Cory if you’re new here I make videos about NPHC advice some men’s lifestyle tips and also I do vlogs every now and then so if you’re interesting those things make sure you hit that subscribe button what’s up to all my returning subscribers crew fam crew fire crew you
Don’t know what it is make sure you leave a comment in the comment section today I’m gonna be talking about how to avoid the blacklist the blacklist is something you do not want to be a part of if you’re interested in joining a MPIC organization this blacklist will
Hinder you from getting into that organization in the undergrad chapter or you might be on a blacklist or grab your chapter heck I don’t know but you want to avoid the blacklist and today you’re in luck because I’m gonna give y’all some tips on how to avoid this blacklist
And shout out to the subscriber who sent me this suggestion I had to move this all the way to the top because this is very important for you all who’s trying to join the NPA see organization so make sure you hit that like button share and subscribe if you haven’t already and
Let’s get into the video First off let me explain the blacklist to you all because I know some of y’all might not be aware what the blacklist is I wouldn’t say it’s a set list but it’s a way for organization to say hey we do not want this person in our organization
Because of X Y & Z they see something in you that they don’t want in their organization sometimes it might be a set list like actual list that they have sometimes might be a mental note I don’t know but it’s called the blacklist and you don’t want to be put on there
Because it’s hard to get off once you get on there it’s hard to recover why should get on there so let’s get into the first way to avoid being on a blacklist the first way to avoid being on blacklist is to not stop the members man
And when I say stalk I mean like you know what they work at on campus and you’re always outside of that office or wherever they work so they can see you or so you can cross paths with them or you know where they eat on campus are
You always there at the table cross peeping and looking or you know what kind of car they drive and you have to park your car near their car all the time so they always see you stuff like that do not do that because that is awkward even though it’s the gram you
Know stuff like that like if you’re costly liking their picture soon as they posted I haven’t even been up five three minutes here and you liked it boom every single time that stock what is the odds that that happened every single time just make sure you avoid
Doing those type of things y’all know what stalking is so I don’t need to go to too deep in depth about stock second way to avoid getting on the blacklist is to don’t be nosy so many knows that people out here of course you wanna know what’s going on in the organization want
To know when this and that is but don’t be nosing trying to ease into conversations with them if you see a member around their sorority sisters or fraternity brothers don’t try to linger around just gonna do your own thing but don’t try to East drop and see what’s
Going on cuz it’s easily noticeable trust me I’ve seen it several times when I was in undergrad so many people try to hang around you so they can get more information about different MPAC organizations or given T as some people will say it like don’t do that man like
Don’t be nosy mind your own business back up that’s all come on you’re better than if you happen to get in our organization and then you’re nosey then you’re trying to learn more about other people organizations and you’re trying to get the T all the time like it’s just no we
Don’t need all that we don’t need all that so being nosey and if you are nosy avoid making it noticeable the number three way to avoid getting on the black list is to don’t be messy it’s always people on your campus that’s messy you know they don’t shade they gossip and
Last thing you need is to be messy and then you getting somebody organization and you bring that messiness in their organization and then now they like all messy organization cuz you don’t brought messing with you the last thing they want is for people to bring that baggage and garbage in their organization and
Mess everything up so if you’re messy it’s a liability if they were to accept you into their organization so of course they’re gonna put you on a blacklist because that might taint their image that might make the way they look on campus go downhill just because they added a messy person in their
Organization and then that might deter other people from wanting to join because that person is now in that organization they can’t see themselves around those type of people and even though it’s multiple different type of personalities and people in these organizations one person can mess it up for everybody just because of their
Messiness so a boy being messy man it’s not gonna be a good look for you the fourth way to avoid getting on black lists is to not tell anybody what you’re trying to join man as so many people ask blabbermouth there’s so many people that walk around campus again I want to do
Sima I want to be this I want to be naked don’t let me that this tell the whole world what you want to be and that’s one way for organizations to see if you can keep your mouth closed if they heard that you’ve been telling people that you want to join then how
Can they trust you what you get into their organization to keep their information sacred if you can’t even keep that what organization you wanna join see yourself hmm I’ve said this in several videos it’s not for everybody to know key is discretion discretion discretion because you don’t want anybody to know what
You’re interested in I’m hope video about this me and Shane Miller have a video about this so make sure you check those out because it’s really gonna help you out if you’re trying to kind of learn about how to be discreet so the fifth way to avoid getting on a blacklist is watch
What you post on social media man this 4mph C organization job opportunities like people are searching you on social media so you gotta watch what you post especially girls I see this a lot from girls girls post a half-naked pictures on Instagram barely got a shirt on a
See-through tops all kind of stuff but wanna join a sorority why would a sorority accept you if you’re publicly displaying your body for everyone to see if you were to get into their organization and display that same stuff and people gonna be like oh that’s that’s such a search right there oh yes
He always naked oh nice aggressor you’re always wearing raunchy clothes on it like you know they don’t want that they don’t play they don’t play they’ve watched what you post on Instagram cuz they don’t play about the image sororities are very strict on that that goes for attorneys
Too you know I sayin we might have a little more leeway in what we post but still you want to watch what you post on social media this day and time social media is so heavily involved in people lives that is so easy to learn about somebody just by looking at their
Profile whatever you post on social media will kind of tell them who you are and if that’s the first impression they get of you then it better be a good one cuz it’s not to unless you go all right so the last tip on how to avoid getting
On the blacklist is do not nag members do not nag the members do not not I don’t know how many times I should say this if you have their cell phone number a snapchat or Instagram if if you can message them in any type of way call
Text do not be calling them and text them all the time don’t try and do this to get to know them don’t be trying to do this to see when the next ID meeting is or win the next event cuz all that stuff will be posted somewhere so don’t
Keep nagging them and the thing is you might not even know you’re nagging them you might just be texting them hey how you doing – checking up on them but if you do this twice a week three times a week that’s a nagging now but if you’re
Trying to contact a member if they if you contact them and they don’t contact you back don’t keep texting them to try to get a response wait a little while then the math a month or two to see what was up but don’t keep texting them and calling them and instagramming and all
This stuff and then thinking like you should be online because you had the most communication no no man they don’t work like that you do not work like that but that’s it for this video y’all I hope y’all enjoyed it hope y’all gained a lot from this video shout out to the
Subscriber the crew fam the crew fire crew member who sent me this suggestion I really appreciate I had to move it to the top of the list but this is what’s a great possession I’m surprised that didn’t happen on my list if you found this video helpful please please please
Go down to the comment section and let me know what like say I put what college institution you go to right now I graduated from in the comment section as well I look forward to reading those and I’ll catch all the next video peace
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