What if I’m Shy!? | NPHC Advice | Corey Jones

What’s up everybody it is boy Cory and today we’re going to be talking about shyness and introverts if you’re shy if you’re introvert can you join a NPHC organization will we look down upon you for being shy and the introvert so I’m going to get into that today but also if

You’re new here hit that subscribe button and if you want to be officially part of the squad hit that notification bell right next to the subscribe button and be with your boy so let’s get started So is it okay to be shy and express interest in an MPAC organization yes it is perfectly fine we’re not going to look down upon you and not gonna look down on me if fish is at the introverted introvert there’s so many introverts and extroverts in these organizations that

Make our organizations what they are I don’t think we’ll be the same organization we wouldn’t have came as far as we came and we just had all introverts all experts we have a good balloon of everybody in these organizations and that’s what help these organizations thrive and keep going so

Don’t feel discouraged if you’re an extrovert I’ll talk about introverts why don’t tell my expert don’t be discouraged if you’re extrovert don’t be discouraged to fish I say experts again y’all it’s wrong don’t be scared if you’re into Bert and you’re shy that’s something that you shouldn’t worry about

And to be honest once you go through the process know you go through initiation and you have your probate that ones bring all your shyness out that will turn you more into a extrovert you’ll become more outgoing because you’re going to be around people looking at so

You might be the center of attention for the first time in your life at your probe a course you’re going to be nervous but that’s gonna push you to be more open and outgoing because everybody is looking at you at that point of time adding on to that a lot of people think

Back you know everybody NPHC organization automatically have this outgoing personality automatic they are just extroverts no we well anyway we’re automatically outgoing with automatically extroverts but no we kind of mold ourselves into that we’re placed in all kind of situations where we have to give presentations where we

Have to go out there and talk to people we don’t know that the step we have to stroh like all this is clearly bringing attention on us so we have to kind of be comfortable with that because if not we’re not going to perform to the best of our ability it’s

Not like we just automatically come in and yes we’re extroverts and we’re outgoing and we just love to talk to people no that’s kind of something that we build on ourselves I don’t think that you can’t get in look at your Shire or your introvert it’s

Like it’s not like that at all but now I want to tell you some practices that you can kind of do to kind of help you come out of that shine just help you get out of there and do the thing you come into college and you already know people from

Your high school it’s perfectly fine but try to go into different groups people that from out of state people that’s like two hours away from your hometown try to get to know some of those people because they’re gonna bring different things out of it they’re gonna bring

Maybe tour outside out of you the people five hours away from your hometown might bring out the sophisticated side of you people are gonna bring different things out of you you might realize that you’re more of an extrovert the introvert but some people didn’t push you to those

Traits you nonsense make sure you get to know different type of people don’t just stick to your home’s route that you came in with also get to know other people on campus and just make your experience well-rounded you get on campus and you start getting involved the organization’s try to put yourself in

The best position possible to help you overcome your mostly if you shot you don’t want to talk in front of people you don’t want to give presentations you don’t want to be the center of attention so if you join a organization make sure you get involved in the Zek board if you can’t

Even if you can’t see if you can volunteer to give a presentation for the organization or just talk about the organization that organizational fears more you’ve put yourself out there as far as giving presentations is talking in front of a larger group of people the more comfortable you will be and you

Will realize that you’re not as shy as you thought you were so that’s another way to kind of get out of that bubble get out that shyness okay so here’s some tips if you want to approach a Greek member and you’re shot and you don’t feel comfortable approaching someone the

Best way to approach a Greek member if you’re shy is don’t need to think about Greek don’t even think about their organization think about them as a person as if they were Frank just walk up to introduce yourself and say hi I’m such-and-such and just talk to them and

They won’t understand that you’re trying to get to know the people think that when they go up to someone that’s Greek that it seems like they’re being creepy but we are human beings just like everybody else introduce yourself and have a conversation ask what major their hand what made them come to university

What made them join their organization know them as a person and don’t really focus on Greek things because if you going to be like hey my name is such as such why you joined this organization what y’all doing this weekend what some of the events coming up like you’re

Making it all one-sided just about that organization but if you blend two things up being personal and organization looks better on your behalf and it makes you more comfortable instead of having a total just looking one way one direction they’re speaking about the organ I think you’re approaching a Greek

Member and you can decide the best way to kind of ease on in there is if you approach it on a personal level you might say what atmosphere what environment if you’re shy you might want to approach them when their one-on-one resin with their bees or LS is post them

And you see them going to class or if you just see them walking around on campus just approach them then if you have the opportunity but if not approach a minute group and say hey can I talk to you for a sec and they’ll walk away from

The group and then you could talk to him but if you’re shy most like you don’t want to talk to a bit of the group because that’s gonna make you feel more I guess more nervous in that situation so stay away from that a lot who’s a

Cake or were you shot of course I was shot I wasn’t an hour-long person in high school and when I got to college I wasn’t as I run but I was more outgoing than I was at high school and what really helped me was like I explained

Before is getting involved on campus to start meeting different people with the bring different things out of myself and I really got out of my shyness when I actually crossed I had my probaby and I came out SS like when the golden gates open I was like

Wow I feel different like it made me more confident in myself more outgoing now more of an extrovert introvert you know in some settings I may feel like an introvert just depending on how to have this being a room on the crowd is and I give back tomorrow

Man they do a great job with the process which the pledge process and help you become a better person just help you become who you want to become like I said don’t be nervous don’t think that if you’re shy or introverted can’t get in these organizations it’s perfectly fine shoot

Your shot do your thing just do just do you be you and eventually that shyness will go away that’s it for this video thank y’all for watching man I appreciate each and every one you hit that like button hit that subscribe button if you have it definitely hit that notification bell if

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