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Hey sis it’s me Courtney and I’m back with another video today is actually a storytime about my black sorority processing experience and more specifically a conversation that I recently had when I went home with the member of this sorority that I was dropped from twice and I just felt such
A calling on my spirit to tell y’all about this conversation and just break it down in detail because when I was proud of myself for how I stood in my truth and spoke my true and just how authentic and vulnerable I was in this conversation and then I also just
Realized it like one I’m not the only person that’s been dropped from a black sorority I’m not the only person that is healing from triggers situations and I’m not the only person that is learning and growing how to communicate so I want to share this as like a blueprint like if
You’re dealing with your own conflict that you’re trying to figure out how to maneuver around it just how to address I wanted to share this for you and I did kind of touch bases about this in our live session that we had last week so this that conversation down some boxes
Okay this is it and if you stay until the end I basically have gathered three takeaways that I took from this conversation that I want to share with you that I believe will be very beneficial if you you know are dealing with the situation our conversation
Where it’s like I need to express my truth to you you know so if you’re interested in those three takeaways that I got from this conversation stay to the end and get those okay um also I just want to say this is not a video where I’m going to be rebuilding the sorority
I do still have respect for them even though I don’t want to be in the sorority cuz I just feel like on some real [ __ ] y’all my spirit team blocked that okay like they was like block block block block blocks us that ain’t meant for uses that’s not the journeys fuzzy
Walking sucks and it took me some time to get to that understanding however if I’m being real with myself y’all when I got dropped from that sorority I took a true my first trip out of the country okay and now South Korea okay so it was bigger than
Me and it was bigger than them and I’m thankful for everything that happened whether it was what I thought I wanted are what okay so this is not meant to be a bashing video and if that’s what you look at quality for me okay this ain’t
It okay now I am going to also what I don’t know I’m not gonna really be touching that much detail about like the backstory about the process however if you’re interested in like you know what actually went down like how did the process happen for you and
You know how how did it work how did you end up getting a job what was the elements that really took place if you’re interested in that just let me know in the comments and then I may make a separate video touching base on like
Just just give me a lot of tea okay y’all I interested let me know now um Before we jump into all of that because this is gonna be a long video I just wanna let y’all know right now so if you need to pause me right now I get
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Jump on yeah okay let’s jump on you into this story time so um I went home right and like I said well I don’t know if I really said this however I don’t think a lot of people say this you know being dropped from a sorority whether it’s a
Black sorority or a non black sorority it can be a very triggering thing you know to me it’s like rejection and you know to me it’s a moment whether it’s out of your control or not you know in my situation I feel like it was more out
Of my control it was more so like elements was happening behind the scenes that I wasn’t really aware of until now and not enough people address it you know what I mean not enough people are actively talking about the fact that they have been dropped and they are
Needing a process of healing and even some people have been successful in gaining their letters have still been through traumatic experiences you know in their process whether they were underground or not and they need a healing session and people don’t really be talking about because I feel like
It’s a bit taboo in a sense you know what I mean and you know sororities are trying to maintain this image which I get however I just realized after one realizing okay this was truly not meant for me to walk and come into do that because for the long as I was
Having a hard time coming to terms with it and I really believed in my spirit for the longest that like okay I didn’t make it do an undergraduate it’s okay i’ma come in on the graduate even know that ain’t ideal because let’s be real you know undergraduate experience and
Graduate experience is a different experience honey is different okay and you know most people want to come in undergrad you want to enjoy your sorority experiencing your undergraduate lobby you know and that’s not what happened and I had to come to terms with that however I feel like I was bitten in
Denial for for a big chunk of time because I graduated college in 2014 we are now in 2019 okay and this is the first conversation that I have had like an honest conversation that I’ve had with a member of the sorority um and I just also just realized that like I just
Realized how triggered I was you know because it was something that happened because I I still I was I was still in contact with all the members of the sorority and I was following them it was following me you know sometimes they try to check on me some of them I just yeah
We we tried where we could basically however something specific happened to me this year that I I really felt like oh no I gotta cut this off and this is very triggering for me and I must release it and that was basically I saw that our line was coming back okay so
Basically I was on Facebook one of the members of the sorority posted a flyer I could have seen this flyer wrong based on the conversation that I’m about to share with y’all however what my eyes saw was a blank sorority is returning to blank school and I was like oh no like I
When I tell y’all I saw this flyer and I was so triggered by it I was like oh hell no like I came even i’m so triggered by this I can’t even I don’t I don’t want to be seeing nothing from this sorority like I don’t want to I don’t I can’t
Even like I just I just can’t you know so I proceeded to block everybody everybody got to go okay I don’t care if I like you or not everybody got to go because I’m feeling so triggers from this that the image of this sorority is bringing up some
Feelings that I don’t like so I legitimately blocked everybody like literally i unfriended and blocked everybody or so I thought okay so I thought so I went home right and y’all know I went home I posted on my Facebook y’all I’m home I got a good
Two weeks for y’all in the list I’m shaking loose you know girl one of the members message me which was she was on my first line the first line that I got dropped from she was on my first one and so she she messaged me and she was like
Hey I see your home how long are you off are and I was really taken aback right I was really taken aback because like I said maybe like four months prior to that I thought I had blocked everybody okay I thought I hadn’t been seeing
Nothing of nobody on my line I hadn’t I hadn’t been seeing anything on my timeline right so I’m like okay first of all why she messaging me I thought I’m locked her and just having a moment of like like just shock and just it did
Something to me you know what I mean it did something to me and so it took me a while to respond to her like I didn’t respond to her immediately like I must have took at least like four days before I even hit her back and said oh um you know I feel
Like I told her like oh I’m in town nun and I was like oh hey I’m here until next week oh yeah I took a long time to respond to her I took a minute and then I was just basically telling her about my flights and things like that and she
Just messaged me back okay now we have been going through Choa grades and just a lot of energy shifting so I feel like it was more soldiers because my spirit knew I needed to speak my truth so I was feeling guilty about ignore her you know because
I like legitimately ignored her for a couple of days as I was processing or maybe one we didn’t a couple of days I know whenever she misses me I’m I mean that’s it right back okay and I just was feeling guilty about it I was just like
Damn cuz I’m some real [ __ ] y’all you know if I had to name one person out of everybody in the sorority who I felt like just really tried to maintain a connection with me it was her you know like I feel like she really genuinely
Cared about me you know what I mean so I was feeling a little guilty after I ended up leaving you know after I was processing just you know cuz sometimes when you’re traveling and you’re moving real fast sometimes it’s hard to process everything however once I had a moment
And I had kind of said in it and I was like that wasn’t right Courtney that wasn’t right so let’s go ahead and address it and that’s just a season that I’m in right now of just being honest like you gonna get this honesty from me
Whether you want it or not you gonna get okay so I text her the first thing that I text her I said can we have an honest moment and she said hey what’s going on okay so let’s jump in the first message so I’m saying I told her I said I’m not
Sure if you felt away about me taking awhile to respond back when you asked me how long I was in the States I honestly was a little thrown aback because as much as I loved you I didn’t realize that I hadn’t unfriended you I was honest okay that may come off harsh
However I say all of this with love I felt triggered this book by the new line and I am friended everybody every Association after that every association of this organization I am friended I realize wasn’t in alignment with my life to join the organization during college and I’m
Okay with that now however it still hurt me on a deep level that I didn’t get the type of sister energy bond and moments I was going for you know I truly felt robbed at the time and slightly dismissed afterwards even though I know it wasn’t intentional
I know y’all cared for me but it was just such a gray area that I believe the adviser and the older members didn’t know how to handle which is true which is true cuz I feel like you know I feel like you know it just it really it
Really truly was a great area you know from my first line to go on without me and then my second line we all got dropped and then you know the members that were already in the organization just kind I feel like even they felt a little bit guilty because they knew what
I had put in to be in this organization and then to not be able to join however at the same time I just felt like you know they didn’t know how to hike a weed you know how can we be sisters I didn’t cross the burning the burning sands you
Know what I mean so it was it was a great area okay so I got it so then she replied to me and she said no I didn’t feel the way I honestly didn’t notice I felt like maybe you were busy there is no new line so I’m not really sure where
That information came from I thought we were friends outside of this organization not to discredit slash ‘invalid how you invalidate how you feel but our friendship may have started meeting with the meeting through this organization but it grew to be more well at least I thought it did
We’ve talked since 2013 so I’m not sure when that period occurred of when you unfriended everyone but I personally don’t feel as though I treated you any differently I can’t speak for anyone else okay so this is what she messaged me and I was like okay so I get all that let me
Let me just Express where I’m coming from so I tell her I said okay maybe it was weighing on my spirit because I knew how I was feeling and what was going on behind the scenes with me so I needed to be honest and straightforward with you and know you
Didn’t change on me I do honestly feel like you were the only person to really frequently check in on me and stay in touch with me which is why it’s important for me to have this open honest moment with you I actually saw a organizational flier of this
Organization coming back on such as such as page around mid 2019 I couldn’t have I could have misread it now that you’re saying that there isn’t any lines however it still triggered me so much emotionally that I was just like no I can no longer have anymore of this
Organization nothing around me I just felt like a major release was needed and that was the best way for me to start to heal from the pain I was I was still feeling from those periods of time to be completely transparent friendship and relationship building was always tough
For me because of how I grew up communicating and trying to build the non-existent relationship with my mother our family with my son let me try this again because of how I grew up communicating and trying to build an artist in relationship with my mother our family is broken in that area and
Even though a shift is happening there is still some major healing needed to bring us back together as a proper family unit I’m still growing and learning how to have healthy relationships that are mutually serving uplifting and supportive however I know that I’m developing that skill for the
Better I honestly didn’t realize we met in 2013 that does translate to a big chunk of time knowing each other however over the past few years our line of communication had waned for me length of time in a relationship has never held wait for me because I’ve had
Experiences where time was never a factor when I was mistreated or rejected what does hold wait for me in relationships is communicating regular regularly on a deeper than surface level that’s when I feel like a person is a part of my circle and support system I long for divine connections in
Relationship so if you can release and any negative feelings that you may that may have a Lulla so if you can release any negative feelings that may have arisen by my statement of them friending you or anything else that may have hurt you during this moment of honesty if you
Would like to start to rebuild our communication in that way I would be so open to turning a new leaf with you okay so I just felt like if I just laid it all out right I just laid it all out you know like let me tell you straight up
Was what okay so she responds to me and she says I appreciate your transparency and honesty however it’s unsettling that there was a problem for years and I wasn’t aware of it the organization situation was beyond my control and I feel like for you to say you’re willing
To turn over a new leaf makes it seem as if i wronged you I never did I attempted to keep contact through whatsapp when you moved life happens and people lose touch a lot has transpired in my life over the past few years as well but I
Would not hold it against you for not reaching out to me and checking on me in my definition of friendship you don’t have to talk all the time to validate the relationship we should be able to pick up where we left off seen as though we’re thousands of miles away from each other
I definitely don’t mind moving forward but I need to process what you shared with me now y’all after that I had to take a step back okay because you gotta be careful when your flesh arises you know when you start we’ll be triggered on when you start to
Feel like I’m not being heard basically because I feel like that response was like you didn’t get what I was saying you didn’t understand me you didn’t understand what I was trying to express and you’re still trying to tell me what you feel like is a you know what you
Feel like is the way that you communicate are just the way that you validate a friendship and I’m like I’m trying to express to you that that don’t hold no way for me and I don’t validate friendships that way you know like I grew up different than a lot of people I
Did okay so you know the way I build relationships and the way that I feel secure in relationships and supported and loved and accepted in hurt is different from how a lot of other people have you know and all right I understand that and at the same time it’s like I’m
Telling you that but you ain’t hearing it okay so I didn’t I didn’t respond immediately back because it was kind of like that morning I ran her message and it just was a heavy weight to be reading it early in the morning and I was like
Know what no let me get into my morning routine and then we will sign let me just breathe and let me just you know get into my spiritual space before I even get up on this phone because that’s important you know since I have stopped teaching I realized having a morning
Spiritual routine that truly speech peace your spiritual spiritual side is so important it’s so important like I ain’t starting no days without having a moment to you know light a candle for clarity get my crystals together meditate a bit move my energy you know what I mean like TSA’s say Mike say my
Gratitude you know that me like I need a moment so I was like wait because I want to I don’t want to respond in you know in my flesh I want to respond in a place of negativity or a place of like defensiveness so let me just
A moment and then let me come back and respond so I actually ended up responding the next day just that hot that’s hot spearheaded workout so when I told her I said yeah imma give you some time to process everything I shared because one I know it was a lot to drop
On you and two I can tell by your response that you didn’t understand what I was trying to express and also I just like to ask that you try not to take any of my words out of context for example like the turning over a new leaf because
By no means that I mean that you wronged me in any way I acknowledge that you didn’t and a lot of things were out of your control I just meant starting on a new slate where we are both fully aware of what relationships mean to us so we can grow
And build a strong supportive uplifting relationship accordingly cuz I mean like come on if you don’t know what I wait in a relationship like if we wait dude if if what we wait as a good relationship is different how can we build how can we grow you know it might be situation like
This where you think we we undo terms and I’m over here like baby we was cool once upon a time however I’m not looking at you as a friend right now like like I like you know people telling me like oh we’ve been knowing each other since or
Anything I don’t care about that cuz I’m the type of person they’re like if your energy is no longer serving me if you’re triggering to me if I will cut that ass I don’t care about people talking about we’ve been friends for 10 years and
That’s why I don’t want to let them go baby by experiences you cannot continue to on this journey with me behind you know so this is why it’s important to communicate even with friends any type of relationship it’s important to lay out what your what you value you know
What is important for you in a relationship that’s important and we had never really had that conversation and this is our first time having it so it was like I understand that you’re saying this is what you value but that’s not what I value as as being you know
Something that makes me value a relationship more so let’s get on the same page you know let’s get on the same page and then I said and before I go I also heard of uplifting relationship accordingly and before I go I also get how you may be
Feeling uneasy about the idea of me having an issue for years however at the same time I would like to also ask for understanding because people process trauma in different ways and honestly for the longest time I didn’t even have words to put to how I was really feeling
Or like I could confide in any of you however now that my communication skills are growing and I’m in this season of release and just the opportunity that has presented itself to have an honest conversation with you it felt like the right time to tell you and I still
Believe that it was so I personally don’t see anything wrong with however long it takes to express emotion since we’re all still healing so yeah that’s where I met on all of that nothing but love for you boo and now was that because I just felt like on one hand you
Know like if you’ve been dropped from a sorority it’s like almost like I personally just feel like it’s y’all against me you know like you know cuz like real [ __ ] my first line they all could have stood up and said if she ain’t on it I’m not only but that ain’t
What happened and I get it and it’s like it’s not I’m not holding anything against y’all have at the same time it’s like y’all did what was best for y’all you know that me so now y’all are all in this organization and how can my 1.soak
Come up to y’all and like it just wasn’t that type of I just didn’t feel comfortable doing that basically I feel comfortable truly being able to express myself and like I said for the longest I was sitting out like how do I even express myself I didn’t even realize
That I you know has had a traumatic moment like I knew I was sad however it’s like I didn’t realize that I had had a traumatic moment I was triggered in a lot of ways until years later and then just being able to get to this point of light okay I know I
Don’t want to be in this sorority maybe that that just gave me some extra confidence of like I can speak my truth however you know we all know when you’re joining a sorority you got to be careful about how you how you getting your attention and what you sing so I’m like
At what point could I have expressed the trauma that I’m feeling and who would have really gave a damn did you know so I text turned that and she has not respond and I’m okay with it like I’m like I said what I had to say
And you didn’t get it however the same time she’s younger than me by a good couple of years so it’s like I get it I get it and I kind of also felt like after this conversation I was like oh she’s gonna go back and tell everybody
But I don’t care I’m like make it be known go ahead and be the messenger if that’s what’s on your spirit yeah I’m just I’m just where I’m at on it that like that’s where that’s on that like y’all did trigger me that process was triggering as [ __ ] that process was very
Traumatic for me and I am still healing seriously so literally I want to say around Halloween because this was all this was happening around Halloween and I also did a ritual on Halloween night for release because I knew that I was about to go into a transient which I’m
Currently in Kirlian to transit until about February 20th and I just knew that I needed to prepare before I entered the transit because basically this transit is like a propeller of like I’m propelling you to your next level so I know some [ __ ] probably gonna pop off
During this transit however I also know that I’m fully prepared to handle whatever arises so I just want to make sure that before the transit happened I was clearing out things that needed to be released and I didn’t realize like this just kind of like when I tell y’all
I had no intention of having this conversation it just kind of so you know what I mean to do it like spirit know what it’s doing and I just be listening and following so when it when they popped up I was like oh I’m still holding things in about this
Process about this black sorority process and this is an opportunity for me to speak the truth because I know automatic you know like sororities talk even after they have all gone off to live their own life like I know that it was most likely I feel like a good 95%
98% chance they’re like she didn’t tell everybody everybody all know this everybody know but at this point I don’t care I don’t care I’m like I miss such a secure grounded protected place that I’m like anybody can get this truth that’s what I meant like I know that I’m
Healing my throat chakra and I’ve been working on news like while I was in Brasilia I was having such a spiritual moment like my goddess is unlocked and honey she speaks her truth you don’t get it period so yeah that was our conversation and I’m just hoping that y’all use this as a
Blueprint of like you know if you’re having a moment like how to start communicating and how to say what you need to say and it’s okay to say look I understand you don’t get what I’m saying it’s okay I understand you need a moment to process I understand take your time
Okay thank you Tom do what you got to do however that’s not my responsibility that’s not my responsibility and Esther’s that on there okay so before we go I want to jump into our three takeaways I actually wrote down a little piece of paper just so I can make sure
That I was clear so my three takeaways like after I process this conversation because truly y’all when I process this conversation I feel good about myself I felt good in mice in my truth and I just felt good about you know how I released it you know what I mean because I feel
Like and no point in our points anger you know in her it like I just feel like I was very clear and very vulnerable and very open and I know sometimes being vulnerable open and honest it’s tough for people however you gotta do it if you’re trying to have an
Open conversation and you really try to kill those things are necessary now in terms of the three takeaways that I got from this conversation after I had a couple of days I like em okay spirit I see yeah first of all the first thing that you have to be mindful of is
Checking your intention okay cuz like I said remember it was that moment in the conversation where I had to step back a bit and then I had to come back and I responded the next day I feel like when you enter a conversation of conflict of like there’s a conflict no matter how
Small or how big this is a conflict and I need to express myself first off you need to check your intentions going into it before you even send the first message of can we have a conversation you need to be making sure that you’re not in a place of pettiness I know this
Whole petty train is a big movement that’s been taking place in our generation but that shouldn’t cutes us that’s should thank you like being petty and cute and ain’t nobody healing in a petty space so you gotta be coming with good intentions you gotta be coming from
A place of love you know you gotta be coming from a place of understanding of a place of like you know just like I’m entering this space with love I’m not trying to attack you I’m just trying to express myself that’s where you have to enter on that’s the level you got an
Interline and at any point in the conversation if you feel like that level is switching you gotta step back you gotta step back and you just gotta be like wait okay i’ma respond once I get back in my place of peace once I get back in my place of
Love when I get back there then I’ll reprocess what what has been said and then I’ll send my response because sometimes just because you’ve been triggered you filtered things differently you know what I mean like you could be triggered in a negative way and you can feel it
You could you could miss read what someone has said so sometimes you need that time to just step back and say hmm okay let me reread this later I may have read this in a different light let me reread this later and then let me
Respond and that’s what I did and then I feel like that response came from a place of love all my responses I felt like came from a place of love integrity honesty and you know just authenticity like this is just straight-up what it is you know it ain’t nothing like I can’t
Just go to the truth you know so one check your intentions first that’s your responsibility check your intentions make sure you’re coming from a place of peace and you’re coming from a place of love number two don’t take it personal if they get defensive or don’t understand what
You’re trying to express cuz I rely realized from her response when I had broke it down you know says good I like broke it down like I didn’t just say like this is what triggered me in in the you know from going through this black sorority process Knossos I I see the
Alignment I see how this aligns to my childhood I see how this are these are things that I experienced in childhood that hurt me and this is how I am used to processing it and this is how I’m trying to learn how to process it better
And she didn’t get it she got kind of defensive and she felt like I was trying to say that she had wronged me even though I made it clear in different points like I don’t that’s not what I’m trying to say you know because sometimes people project sometimes people try to
Take your words because like I said they may feel a trigger and they may have processed it in one way that is not the way it was intended and you just you know say that like that’s not what I was saying that’s not what I was thinking however it’s important for you to
Realize your only responsibility is to speak your truth in a loving authentic way you know places peace how somebody takes is not your responsibility and you gotta be okay with that like you may not get a warm response you may not get a you know loving response like they may take
Offense to what you have said and I feel like she did she took offense to what I said however I had peace in knowing that I came to this conversation with love I’m not speaking anything but truth and I also know that I’m not attacking you
How you have taken it that’s you that’s your responsibility yes that’s what you took okay that’s not what I’m giving that’s not what I’m seeing Cindy and that’s not what I’m laying out here for us so you gotta be okay with that like don’t take it personal don’t let
That shift your energy if they don’t take it if they don’t understand what you’re trying to say and if they give defensive number three express your truth even if it takes years to do nobody has the right to tell you how long it should take for you to
Express your truth because at one point with her seen just like you know it bothered her about the fact that it took me that are that I’ve been having issue for all this period of time like I just felt like you don’t get to tell me how
How how I process know and a lot of times people do that I can recall the time where I was working at a salon in Houston and it was like a mother of my friend and she kind of was doing a little some things you know however I
Just recalled how emotional I would get often I’m an emotional person I’m connected to my emotions you know and I don’t have a poker face like if I’m feeling something it comes out you know I’m not the type of person that can hide it or make it look like something else
If I got a crime a cry if I’m angry I’m angry whatever emotion pops up I I’m in it you know and I just remember her always trying to make me tough and just seeing a little things about like how expressing yourself and expressing your emotions or even like let’s say you’re
In a conversation of conflict and you crash you just felt like that’s manipulative and I don’t agree I’m like however you need to express it you know come from place of love and peace this you know are just however long it takes for you to express it because like I
Said you know that process of like realizing like oh my god I am still hurt by this process I am still hurt and feeling rejection from this black sorority you know to me like that process was tough it was not an easy journey you know what I mean it was not
It was not and I was not going to be paper okay if you know you know so it was not easy and then to put in all that work and still not get what I came here for and to be written like I legitimately felt rejected so you don’t
Need to tell me how long I have to heal you don’t get to tell me how long I have to process I got just found that to be very interesting for her to say that you know like you guys know you don’t you don’t get to tell me and at the same
Time I also want to just say that letters work too so even if you feel like you can’t express yourself fully to whoever you need to express it to or less that you just feel like look I just know that they not in the mental place
So where they would even receive it or even be open to this conversation that’s okay too you could speak today’s spirit because they spirit gonna show up and they spirit gonna get it and you can write a letter out to leave in like I had that conversation with her and then
After that I started writing a letter to the actual organization cuz I’m like this [ __ ] gonna come out with it’s coming out you know what I mean so those are my three takeaways just to recap one check your intentions you want to be coming in love and you want to be coming
In peace and at any point if you feel like that energy has shift take a step back get back to your peace and love and then reread and respond okay number two don’t take it personal if they don’t understand what you’re trying to express are if they get defensive that’s not your
Responsibility your responsibility is to speak your truth period okay number three express your truth even if it takes years for you to even understand don’t let nobody tell you how long or put a time limit on you expressing yourself everybody processes things different and
If you need to write a letter to get it out write a letter okay write your letter and be done with it Burnett oh okay so yeah those are my three takeaways and this was my detailed conversation about a bit of conflict that I had with a black sorority that I
Was dropped from twice so I would be so curious to know which I’ll took away from this conversation let me know in the comment section what you took away from this conversation and just anything that you feel you know so inclined to share with me and I’m just so grateful
Thank you thank you thank you so much for listening thank you so much for being my virtual support system cuz I appreciate y’all okay so yeah I’m super excited I hope y’all all are having an amazing Sunday it’s actually Monday right now in Korea um
The Sun is out but it’s cold here so I’m about to get some food and you know get my life period so thank you so much for being here as always remember people will stare make it worth their while see y’all later
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