Everybody it’s me again back on my second video on how to express interest in an increasing organization now for those who may be questioning you know what’s there why I want for you or you know is this organization it’s me or the people in my organization fit the kind
Of person that I am this video was meant to help people do that now I want to go over a few main topics the cover for anyone who may be interested in joining a new paco2 organization and how to properly express interest and with hopes of becoming a member
Eventually now starting with the first point the first point I want to address is to do your research I cannot stress this enough because there have been so many people who wanted to join whether it’s my organization or any one of the NPC also known as divine nine
That you know they just see like you know the outside plain outside of it the strolling the step shows straw house and etc but when they approach people they have no idea of what each of the organization’s stand for or any other type of pertinent information so how big
First thing is always do your research before you get involved in trying to express interest into any of these organizations or any chapters in your area now for me when I first started up as an interest for alpha it was kind of because I’m very introverted so I don’t
Really get out too much batteries back then I didn’t but you know this initially the first one I went to was back in Cleveland I was expressing interest to it they’re taking alumni chapter when I remember the first thing I went to was a bowling event me and my
My homeboy back home we went to go bowling they kind of like kid they can own some of the brothers up there and it was still it was good time you know I actually wound up winning a trophy in a little team alpha support you know cuz
I’m dissing on the bowling I digress now when it came to talking to the talk to them I was very nervous because I didn’t want to kind of be that guy that was just simply just come up and say hi I’m interested in your organization you
Know what I had to do don’t you know you know which is you know I get that this is like very nerve-wracking the kind of approach one of us but at the end of the day where people just like you we all meet differences we belong to a group
Little organization but we’re still people at the end of the day that kind of regular lives no different than you we do regular things we have families we are students or doctors nurses whatever so keep this in mind when you’re approaching and just talk to us you know
We’re not snuff even I stuck up at least not most of us in the way which leads me to the second point is the way to show support is by mainly attending events and getting to know us so that way we can know who you are – and by doing that
That kind of gives us an idea of perspective members we may be wanting to join the organization so we can have an idea of what you can bring to the organization to sell me personally at the time when I was expressing interest and you know getting everything together to become a member
Making the applications together finding the letters of recommendation and the sponsor and not to mention like you know the other other things too which I’ll get to momentarily the main thing was to kind of when I said before getting lemon gets to know me you know letting us to
Study in counseling and a little bit of background but nothing too personal being like you know they didn’t you know ask for then keep this keep it to yourself like it’s because a lot of times of tennis unnecessary anyway but when I mean but it is like letting them
Get to know the kind of person born how what do you do outside of this that shows that you are committed to serving in these four organizations for example it helps to be to do a lot of community service or some noticeable community service such as helping out at your
Church volunteering at an animal shelter or at an after-school mentoring program that’s always a good look usually things she like you you probably put on your resume thing is that you know maybe you were someone’s like big other big sister or your you know Scout leader and the
Boy Scouts of the Girl Scouts whatever it is as long as this you know promoting community service and showing that you’re enough that you’re doing this for the because at the end of the day all the organization and the fhc are all for community service and giving back to our
Communities so with that being said the second point is be discreet now when I say this I mean do not go on to social media but while telling your family and friends o become an alpha man I got my bed song and you know I said like you
Know about the help for man up in there like swimwear you know don’t do that the reason why it’s important to be discreet is because it allows us a seat like rkq be trusting with the information that should be given if you are selected to
Be a part of the line now if you go around saying oh telling people this time a dirt and or people on social media posting about oh I’m about to become this or I’m going to feedback it kind of hurts your chances more than helps because say for example you don’t
Make it fun awesome whatever reason people are going to be looking at you like okay I thought she was trying to do this that I’m trying to pledge on pledge this and you know what happened and then you just start looking like this wasn’t my cup of tea
But keep things to yourself if you’re going to tell anybody make sure it is someone who you trust with your life you can confide in them without them going to anybody else the next point I have is when it comes time to attend the information you want to dress
Accordingly and last said wear it make sure to wear a tie or a bow tie you can wear a blazer it’s recommended but sometimes may not may not be required depending on the chapter or the organization that’s holding the actual information when you go to these informational you want to make sure that
You you’re prepared by like I said before making sure he does and research making sure you know all that you can’t learn from an interest perspective about the organization such as when was it founded who founded why they found required such things important to the organization or it’s the chapter itself
Make sure that’s because resource of college chapel organization don’t forget to leave out the chapter as well as accordingly when it comes to the information I got an earlier last informational that my chapter had he had a guy show up in an entire look like he
Was he just got back out the gym or something maybe just didn’t seem like he was able to follow instructions but which is a clear-cut example of why it is important to dress accordingly when it comes to attending information saw America some require you to bring a
Resume because it gives an idea of what kind of work you doing outside of that and kind of lets us know how committed you are to serving now which also ties into a set early about showing support when attending events you know that gives us an idea of why Appu is actually
Going to dedicate their time their energy to succumbing to support us it also gives us an idea they could be regular faces and also lets you become familiar with us as well and like I said before when it comes down to it you know just because you may socialize with some
So our members does not automatically guarantee entry into the organization so take nothing for granted on this journey if you are selected to become a members make sure you know treat every day is at this day one because there’s always going to be something for you to learn
Or to pick up so the next point I want to bring to is save your money make sure these organizations are by no means cheap so when you’re trying to join organization you are going to be coming out of pocket heaven because there are certain things that come what
The cost of joining an organization such as you know made up or blazer member should be regional vigils any type of conferences we may have as outside of the signature located him there’s also that doesn’t even count you know the pair prepare familiar that she received once you cross folder that
Says in expense in and on the cell outside of them but on but it is necessary to make sure you have enough safe and depending on what level you are in college or or the term enjoyment on my chapter it becomes more and more expensive as you go up for example for
My safe word or sophomores it may cost seven eight hundred dollars as an application for a junior it may be 915 for a senior it might be 1254 alibi he might be fourteen fifty so this is to give you an example depending on the organization you was to join or the
Check and order chapter itself you may want to do more research on how much you will beat the save bucks so if it requires you you know if you like putting in home time extra job or you know take a little side job job if you want more lift
You make couple extra bucks or when you get paid put couple couple hundred to a can to the side consider same things so think you think so when the time comes you stacked up enough and you have everything needs to get done and also almost forgot there’s also application
Fees that come along blip applying for you membership for these organizations I know for out whether it’s a leave its 275 along with a $6 background check and also which brings us to another point make sure keep it brick keep your nose clean I know a lot of orders if not all of
Them they if you have a felony on your record then you are prohibited from joining the organization because these are men can women who carry themselves character and it’s not a good look if someone has a record trying to join your organization because it looks bad on all
Of us because if God is saying it only takes one bad apple to spoil the bunch that same analogy applies to Greek life is why when you see us out we’re carrying ourselves which with maturity and respect and self respect at that so the final point I wish to break is to
Make sure you not only can still the members but also get to know the people who are also interested this will come around a time of the information because for you know you never know who made all my work and you’re trying to join a brotherhood or sisterhood so if you it
Helps them it helps the process where you got to go smoothly if you get to know each other before it now it’s not to say that you know you won’t learn about your health eat your future elby’s well these are LSE’s but remember it’s a walk the spa’s workable system so only
Are you going to want to be joining something when you become the gristle Audion clark as frat or solar which also when we come on hand usually with other people with decide which is why is important because when we look at each other expend whether it’s Occupy Oakland homicide
Double Sigma Beta Alpha Kappa Alpha at him the day each of our organizations look at our members as a part of a huge worldwide them so why is important that we you know make sure he who we let into the spend because you don’t forget you
Don’t try to don’t just let anybody any old person John and there are some people who may you know manage how to get in but they are rejected for one reason or another which I’ll discuss more in detail in my next video which would be called which cover the
Topic of perpetrating so that being said make sure you do your research show it to a business or support and give them a chance know what you’re talking about because you never know might be so remember my very efficient so make sure you keep talking about and also save
Your money can be discreet and with that being said I’ll I’ll see you guys in my next video peace
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