At the end of the interview they usually say do you have any questions for us at this point I want to give got a really really really important tip you guys don’t write them to the doll do not anyone and I just anyone right here I’ve
Got it out we’re waving like my natural oh you buddy it doesn’t break but what that scan table drops s awesome hands be bodies I can wonder if they’re not say nothing about thank you hey poochie’s welcome back to my channel if you’re new my name is soo Miah
Before we just started on this P I have an announcement to make I am going to be doing a sorority Q&A so if you guys have any questions about sororities fraternities Greek life anything in pxp related for a console related basically anything I can actually answer going to HBCU you guys
Have any questions about that I will be doing a special Q&A video so you guys can ask me any questions that you guys ask you can ask personal questions you can ask me general questions whatever it will all be anonymous but not but the question is a comment section unless
They’re general question it was something more personal relating to I would suggest that you DM me you can also you can direct message me on youtube or you can get me on any of my social media networks which are always linked in the description box always at
The beginning of the video and I will also link them down below the video right now so that way you guys can be in me any questions that you guys have I will be taking your questions up until Wednesday so Wednesday is when I will film the video and it will be up
Thursday so basically just ask people questions and I will answer them for you guys to look up for that video and make sure you get those questions for Wednesday and you know you get started into this video now that we got set out the way alright so this video is going
To be under the support video at this point you are receiving your invitation for an interview so this video is going to be about interviews and we’re going to talk about the interview processes including up to the interview and a little bit after the interview and also obviously during the interview what to
Prepare for and what you should know and that sort of thing so basically before the interview how it works is after the informational that you attend and you’ll fly turn all of your paperwork and things like that there’s also that basically if they feel like you are worthy a big interview and they
Want to know more and actually meet you face to face on a personal level and not so much paper wise like at this point they base it within you look good on paper but want to see how you are to person if your personal if your friendly
Person you know if what you’re saying is the truth is you’re really interested have you done your research that’s easy so at this point you get like a letter or of male and it’ll basically deceased and congratulations you can select it for an interview which from their portion of
Acceptance and sorority whatever blah blah blah and it’ll basically give you a date this time location and contact numbers differences so at this point that means that you are almost there now basically at this point all you have to do it takes the energy all you have to
Do is give the interview 100% and you are in there in that thing so that’s pretty much it that’s the last step before they say yo we want you to be a member so we’re going to talk about what the letter would say some of the things
The letter might include which would be like special not request but things that you might need to bring to the interview so it may say bring your transcripts like official one if they did after officially at the as the informational or you know with your package ask for
Unofficial due to like times of stress or something like that they may ask you to bring it up vigilance they may ask you to bring your class schedule urges you know that’s like that but one thing that you should most definitely always bring one of the act word or not is your
Resume on with our semi core in the last video you can bring your resume where honey uses a woman to know but I’m qualified so you take your resume to the interview a copy of it or for couple and if you let them read it over as they’re asking questions as
They’re interviewing you so they have time to look at the things that may be you know that they wouldn’t have questions about but now they got to look at using asking questions more personalized to you and your experience dressed professionals so this is similar to how you would dress for the
Informational may be a tad bit more professional I think that a soup is nice I’m a blazer you know business professional as I said it before like a job interview you just want to be really professional ladylike classy when you go to your interview because this is not
Only a chance for you to prove your words but some of these girls may not have been an informational so it can be the first time for some girls to meet you so you are making a first impression on somebody as well so you might not
Have been able to personally send out as information on either maybe you just you know you didn’t really complete send out so this is your chance and this is your first impression so definitely dress to impress dress professional and respectable okay so let’s talk about up well let’s
Beforehand this is all was one on the floor to actual interview we’ll get to what happened during in a second so for the interview you want to mentally prepare yourself that means you meditate pray top somebody’s cool calm down in bring some tea you know whatever you need to do do
It before you honey so that way you are your best possible self you’re calm you’re not nervous because there’s nothing worse like for energy wise when you come in there and your comments staring around questions you know the answer or understand the question you know you’re not communicating very
Well you’re not making eye contact you know it’s just really uncomfortable that not only is a couple askew that makes the interviewer very uncomfortable like in that position as the person who is asking the questions it makes them be like oh like I really don’t want to I don’t want to make her
Outcomes before I want to ask her more questions so she just dissolves you know uncomfortable and this is just awkward now and now I feel like it’s my spot so at this point I was little you know you don’t really want to ask too much because that person is soul comes will
Answer a question so there’s what I mean I don’t get much information out of ether so how can I decide you be a member of my organization if we can’t even communicate you know that very well yes interview can be a little intimidating but that’s not the point of
Them if you go in there with confidence you know what you’re talking about which basically means that you know yourself like because you’re talking about yourself really talking about yourself and you’re talking about why you wanna be part of the organization so if you just know what you’re talking about and
You know yourself you will be fine but when I say mentally prepared beforehand I mean like you need to mentally prepare also just kind of like practice some questions or practice and certain questions it doesn’t have to be quite something you don’t know what they’re going to ask but just practice answer
Questions optimize just treat you like it’s a job interview and just bounce off me questions or things that you think that they might ask about those questions off each other we’re not each other but how about those awful human you kind of answer them to be crawl he
Flow with answering them and that sort of they can practice a little bit there’s nothing wrong with that so now we’re going to get to during the energy so during the interview the setup can be different depending on the organization and how many poor in the chapter
I’ve been Greek verb over two years now so I have experience with how they go from both sides as well as just how other people may do their food just by what I hear so generally speaking it’s usually not the entire chapter that is there but it is enough to be
Intimidating it’s not one person not to people unless the chapters that small but if it’s not a small chapter generally speaking there is enough income it’s probably like five equal efforts when you keep reading in the room so it can be a little intimidating Theron as the girls that you know are
Going to decide your fate when it comes to this you know interest to their organization and you know you’re looking at them they’re looking at you like everybody’s looking at you at the same time all these hard to Train review it can be intimidating it can be scary it
Can be awkward you just have to kind of ignore that not ignore them but just ignore the fact that everybody’s looking at you tonnison was doing a presentation I guess so you know when you ask of all you answer questions turn to the person that asks the questions and answer them
That you can be helped so they’re not going to ask you Tiffany quick at saying times we usually go back and forth each person has a designated or assigned question that they’re going to ask and you know that person will ask and then you’ll answer and another
Person will ask and then you’ll answer so I suggest that so you’re not nervous when you’re asking the questions turn to the person who asked the question and give them the answer and if it’s general life introducing yourself make sure that you look dead center you know so that way
You can get a few people when you’re outside as possible introduce yourself and smile you know you don’t have to go and do a 360 around the room you know if there’s people within like that all around the room then you have to all that you know just be comfortable and
Focus one a person you know that make you comfortable focus on the person who is asking the question and speak to them you don’t it’s really rude you don’t want to like this focus on one person and then somebody will hear ask you a question when you’re looking over here
Answers which networks next question so look over there ask after this is so I’m not really important and another thing let’s see what else expect sometimes there are group interviews depending on the organization how many girls come to the instrument in the world how many girls are there at the
Same time and that’s obscene betterment really happened within my chapter and in my organization but that has happened in some others so just you know sometimes it’s like that and with that you just want to make sure that you stand out with your answer that is well thought
Out in our simply so those are some things that expect a car seat interview go okay some of the questions to expect so it’s really similar to a job interview is not really far-fetched people kind of put in their head that they’re going to add like poor my
Bouncers you know or they’re going to be lies so when where we found it what’s our principles and a stuff like that when I figure your research I’m not telling you to come and you know spit info that’s not with it if the interviews for you will learn that stuff
During your intake if you don’t know it but you should know it because that’s ridiculous and you don’t know it but you’re trying to join you know information is something you should already know honey but anyway then I going to ask you something like that you know the questions are about your
Characters your work ethic you as a person some of you’re happy some of your life your weeks your shrimp experiences it is just like a job interview the question that is kind of rephrased to fit a sorority so you know the basic questions that they ask you at a job
Interview you can pretty much just flip them around a little bit and those are will that’s pretty much what you’re going to be asked at a sorority so there’s nothing to be nervous about if you ever apply to a job and how to interview you know what they expect you
Know what’s do you know just practice you know articulating the things that you already know inside your heart you know you should know why you want to join and the problem sometimes that people have is not the Reg they don’t know but sometimes they don’t know
Harder articulate that so if you have a hard time articulating your thought system practice it before the interview you know you know they’re going to say why do you wanna join the board Commission that’s going to make money they’re going to ask you know they’re
Going to ask that so you should be at home practice want to us you know this organization because I wanted for this organization and practice about allowance change the way they write it out you know record whatever you need to do prize obviously but whatever you need
To do just make sure that what you’re saying is communicating well with others and that you’re articulating yourself in a way that they’re going to grasp and they’re going to be like okay I’ll fill you like that’s a good answer no so there’s nothing wrong practice thank you guys because some people are
Just not public speakers and they get nervous so I highly suggest that those people have that you know those issues public speaking and face fry nervousness with speaking to others and communicating problems now we’re going to walk to a begin of the interview they usually say do you have any questions
For us at this point I want to give you a really really really important him you guys don’t write them to the doll do master ask them about in takes I’ll ask them how long is it going to take what are we going to be doing for intake
You know when is it going to start what is it god again don’t ask them than that because if you’re selected you’ll find out that’s not one of the questions is need to ask our promise you you’re not going to answer so therefore innovation bush and have a question about something else
You want you want to ask for something that you can act as an informational you want to get clarification on something about the organization anything like that feel free to ask and there’s also nothing wrong with saying no thank you I don’t have any questions today you know
It was really great we need up that you guys would offer to week and I wrote that even if you have no questions don’t make up one because if it’s not a good question then you just wasting everybody’s time and you just look silly at that point so if you don’t have a
Question there’s nothing wrong with saying so I don’t have any questions then thank you guys so much for your time acceleration whatever you gotta say a peanut butter what don’t ask us about intake okay after this point after the interview is done and over with Patrick interviewed by a relief
Everything’s all done you good we like I know this I think great you know our practice I was preparing I did the damn thing you know I feel confident you know they’re going to pick me up let’s say you leave the interview like that and at
This point all you are doing is waiting for a letter of effective or denial to come so some organizations dual acceptance and denial letters some only do not acceptance letters so at this point if you get an acceptance letter after you’re going to be you made it honey
Oh okay so for you that means that the submerge has selected you presumably and at that point you are joining MPEG if you get a denial letter is not going to the world baby I understand if objective and here’s some people you know you work with hard you with wanted Inquirer to be
Something disappointment stuff so it’s always it always sucks to be told or to feel like you’re not good enough for something but that is not what that means don’t take it like that does not be you aren’t good enough it doesn’t mean that you didn’t have what they were looking for in that
Moment or that somebody else offered something else that they feel like they need it more so do not beat yourself up it’s okay you can try again or ever again is one it’s up to you but it is not into the world so don’t give up and
Don’t beat yourself up about it because you’re still wonderful and you still have a lot to offer and you’re still worth a lot okay now if this is one of those circumstances where they don’t have a denial letter which went on do this we’ll sit on the letter so at this
Point when you’re waiting on these letters do not call text email stop on Instagram Facebook Twitter you know none of that don’t do it don’t do it because you’re just bugging them and if they haven’t decided yet you’re now making them decide no because you’re getting on their damn nerve
Okay if they hadn’t voted yet now they about to be like oh hell no Wow because you’re being a Bugaboo leave them folks alone wait for your letter okay and if you don’t get a letter with them two weeks been honey chances are you were not chosen and either you can
Just be productive reason is Signet out or you’ll see a flyer for the pro base and you’ll realize that you had not been part of instinct and they’re having a probate and you’re not in it mooing practice so therefore in that maybe and like I said it’s not the end
Of the world go support your friends if they made it don’t hate support them congratulate the ones that did and try to try you know more improve yourself more so that way next time to have em take you have a more camp or liveliness of evening 70 and sweetheart it doesn’t
Happen when people come back and second time that does happen people get deny won two times sometimes and then come back a third time you know and they will eventually get accepted not all the time sometimes you just that’s not what happened for you and it’s not in the car
Cream but sometimes that perseverance does pay off and they’ll get accepted and they get looked at laughs Wow like they really want this you know they didn’t have to grade this time they didn’t have you know a great recommendation letter this time you know they could have worked on their
Experience and community service a little more but then may came back and they came back and then you know they do have the same problems they fix themselves they they improve themselves they group they learn from this experience may came back harder and they made swear I can’t say no I can review
Through this time so that is very inspiring to those people who are part of the selection committee and that’s that you know that sit well with them then they still want to be like I need to pick this person from our organization because they don’t give up
At all so it’s you know that is great they don’t come with the excuses mandate they just fix the problem that’s a great quality to have so if you get denied just don’t give up all right guys so that’s all that I have for this video
Today I hope that it was informative to you guys I hope that you guys enjoyed this video that it gave me some inside information to the interview process the selection process will be after the interview one thing that I did forget to mention is that whatever organization it
Is majority chapter folks to vote someone in they have to majority of the traffic have both selections and when I say majority of the chapter that means active and good standing and financial difference so if your homegirl is not financial active we’re disbanding and you think you put us out
For you not because she’s not even allowed you’re part of that insane process so that means that you really need to put your best foot forward your best effort forward and just make sure that you make a good impression just one person it does not it’s not just one
Person selecting you may want to put you through that person to vote for you and say you know they have really good quality I like them we should pick them and see if the rest of everybody else is like okay I trust your judgment I’m going to vote for them but it doesn’t
Always go that way and that one person’s judgment may not be very great and they would know that and so you know you may possibly fall because there so just make sure that you’ve been on your own conceits even with you know for through instant process that you know you
Obviously need a boat for those that’s really important but like I said this video is over with so if you like this video give it a thumbs up and dont really rocks in my channel now be low and right next to the subscribe button click the bell so you can get notified
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