So are we supposed to start the podcast ready one two three h i mean just the clap to end all claps I mean it’s you know what so pitiful about us is we could sit here for about 5 to 10 minutes each Tuesday and Thursday and talk about your clap
And how good it was or how piss poor it was with the same in enthusiasm and like oh it’s going to be a great episode because the clap was good or oh this is going to suck cuz the clap was bad like we believe in it totally we believe in it and our
Listeners believe in it however there are a few there are a few skunks at the garden party that are dismissive of your clap and the importance of it in launching each and every episode right they minimize liability all we’re trying to do is help everybody this is when it starts ready
Starts with the clap here we go we’re knocking it out starting with a great big clap I recommend when you wake up in the morning even if your partner specifically if your partner’s still asleep just count to yourself one two three clap yeah and then just launch the
Day launch the day see how that works out yeah do it probably not great if I’m guessing what have you had it with okay what I’ve had it with I know it always goes back to cars but this really grinds my gears we were just recently in a city
That was all one way had no parking the [ __ ] parallel Parkers that cannot parallel park what is is it one try is it two try at what point do you realize you’re blocking traffic and it’s never going to [ __ ] happen you can’t parallel park and so I think two I think
If you can’t get it after two you have to be done but I am a great parallel Parker so maybe I’m just ridiculously overly sensitive II to people that cannot because as you watch someone you know they’re not going to be able to do
It and they can like I think the most we had was like five tries so I’ve had it with people that can’t parallel park and then continue to make the same mistake every time so I’m wondering from you what do you think is it two shots is it
Three shots how many shots do you get two and done two and done I agree I think two if you can’t get it by two you’re done find somewhere else two andone you get two tries yeah and by the second try if you’ve not been able to execute the parallel park you
Have to proceed right you now if there’s nobody anywhere around and you’re not blocking swing for the fences agree go 25,000 tries but let me ask you this are you a better Clapper or parallel Parker boy that’s a tough one I would have to say I mean I’m a really good parallel
Parker just because at the courthouse you’ve always had to parallel park so I’ve a lot of practice probably have more practice parallel parking I don’t know I mean maybe I’m a better parallel Parker than I am a Clapper gotcha okay all right let me tell you what I’ve had
It with okay lay it on me I’ve had it with coded language okay and let me give you an example of this like the phrase traditional Family Values oh gross yes my problem is with the word traditional right okay first and foremost that is when people use that phrase we’re a traditional
Family what they’re trying to do and using that is further marginalize marginalized people agree like gay people right and here’s what people need to know most gay people by virtue of stats came from what quote unquote would be considered a traditional family which is a man woman right produced child
Right you know now we have gays and lesbians that are couples that are adopting and or doing surrogacy and that would be considered to these people not to me but to these people non-traditional but first of all I have to say about this number one everybody [ __ ] supports family it’s not like
Anybody is outgoing yeah my name is pumps and I’m running for president and I oppose family I hate everything about family you know just the fact when you have somebody bragging about something that is just universally accepted and they say this is a positive value that I hold
Which is family or something like I support children you know it’s like well no [ __ ] Sherlock you know that doesn’t make you the smartest guy in the room but using the word traditional family values that [ __ ] so pisses me off because it’s like okay first of all okay let’s take Mike Pence
Okay Mike Pence he’s a big traditional Family Value guy I think it’s kind of [ __ ] up that he calls his wife mother that’s what I was just going to say I mean his traditional Family Values gag me out calling her mother it’s weird and I also when you hear traditional Family
Values my immediate thought is misogyny they want women to be subservient that is too they use the word traditional like ladies are younger listeners if you’re dating a guy right now and he says to you well I’m traditional that’s code for I’m a sexist misogynist correct that is just and at
First your in love pheromone riddled self might think oh he wants to open the door for me he wants to do these shival chivalrous like activities for me but what it means is he wants you home right not having Financial Independence and it’s a red flag no I agree and then
As this goes into politics and you have people like Ted Cruz saying he’s for traditional Family Values I just want to remind The Listener and I think we need to bring this up at least two to three times annually on the anniversary of 911 a few years back Ted Cruz Mr traditional
Family Values Man patriot Galore right USA hard on out the Wazoo right liked a tweet that was from a porn site right which is neither traditionally a family value style tweet and one could argue as somewhat anti-American to do that on the anniversary of 9911 yeah and
I mean I’m not BR beating people for watching porn but he particularly should not be standing up there saying what a great Christian he is and how he has traditional family values and then screw rolling around on a porn site I mean that just it’s it’s counterintuitive but I mean are are we
Surprised that Ted’s you know into porn no no I’m not all no the loudest the loudest most obnoxious people objecting to something are the biggest offenders they’re just trying to hide it listener if you vote for somebody that says they’re for traditional family values and then you voted for Trump twice [ __ ]
Off please do not listen to our podcast on all social media please don’t even leave a very well thought out hate comment on our reviews yes just go away go away welcome to I’ve had it where we are fighting traditional Family Values every step of the way I’m Jennifer I’m
Angie she is not in a traditional family no she’s a divor she’s a devor she is a divor on the market for for men or women we were I personally am going to start accepting applications for review and read those to everybody on patreon I
Think that would be so fun yeah we were talking about it on the plane the other day wouldn’t it be fun just to have like a burner dating website uh profile so that you could see other people that you know are on there and see what they’re saying and [ __ ] I
Mean it’d be kind of fun I just can’t wait to make your profile Judge Judy Diana yes please uh Patron paint of podcasting maybe I should get several bikini pics that I can add up there don’t you think should I do my hanger trick on there hanger trick yeah hang
That wire hanger off your titty yeah I think that’d be great I think that’s more only fans oh yeah what do I I always call it what family fans only fans only Kylie always corrects me and I’m like I just have a mental block to that
Do we’ll be in a conversation and pumps be like yeah you know they have like a fan only account and then Kylie kind of closes her eyes and she goes only fans yeah Kylie what’s going on with you not much are you sick of us no not at all oh
That’s so nice I bet that’s a lie it’s not a lie I mean we’re sick of us so you have to be sick of us yeah no you guys are just such a delight aren’t we just a real treat you are I mean just nothing but roses and lollipops just beacons of
Positivity a lot of people disagree with that though on the internet they do there’s a lot of naysayers aren’t there there are I’ve got some good hate comments for you okay let’s hear it okay so we posted a video of YouTube with Josh Welch on the internet okay someone
Commented collectively worn out V JJs like these fossils pictured above smell like vodka and cigarettes dot dot dot the gay friend doesn’t help the smell either and that gay friend is Josh Welch what was this on a video it was on Twitter yeah on Twitter on a video of
You two and Josh that’s good that’s a really good one yeah that’s a really really great hate comment the worn out V JJs and the gay man that should be our tagline we should change the name of the podcast this man wrote I can smell the feminism from this podcast and then
Someone commented and it smells like boxed wine and cat litter so first of all in his world feminism is a bad word it’s a bad descriptor like sounds like if you’re a feminist you’re just a real dick right in his world so my comment to that would
Be block us go away go [ __ ] yourself yeah go [ __ ] yourself you know here’s something I found that we’re doing this at the age that we’re in right is society as a whole only really values women or sees their opinion deemable during during their birthing years and
Then when you get to be our age we’re very dismissed we’re a very dismissed group of women in general it’s like oh everything and everything is surrounding our age or our vaginas it’s a very agist sexist age that we’re in and listen we have thick skin I can take it but I
Think it’s a larger question when men hit their 50s this conversation doesn’t really happen nobody’s like running around you know saying limp Nick I mean p and I are to be fair other than us other than us but we’re really Petty but it’s women that are our age whether it’s
Other women our age or younger it’s like women are so only valued during their birthing years and then once that they’re just literally sent out to the pasture and you see that echoed through every single platform that we’re on YouTube Instagram uh Twitter all of them it’s a very we’re very dismissed because
Of our age right we’re past our Prime as they say yeah yeah which I’m so much smarter now than I was when I was younger isn’t that the truth I mean if I had this much life experience and wisdom that I have now at 25 I might have like
Done something with your life done something with my life like cured cancer or something probably not cured cancer because I can’t do math that well but I would have done something more productive I would have definitely made better choices but the the the one resounding link between all the hate
Comments is agism yeah and it particularly is more targeted towards women now listen again I’m not moaning about this we voluntarily put ourselves on the internet this is a volunteer position we open ourselves up to all sorts of criticism by doing this and we’re not victims of that right we
Actually get tickled by it but I think it’s really funny that that’s they immediately the immediate thing is you’re shriveled up Vines I mean that’s the and they think that that like hurts us something which it doesn’t but it’s like that is something I think an interesting conversation to have in
Another episode about how women are really boxed into these are the years that you’re valuable and then after that get the [ __ ] out of here everything you say is irrelevant your vagina is irrelevant get the [ __ ] out and that’s the common link when you say Kylie yeah
Hag is like the main word I see yeah bitter old hag yeah bitter old cow was one of my cow that’s a good one yeah yeah and it’s always dried up shriveled they also assume you don’t have kids and so that you’re miserable just a whole another right like you have
To have kids to be fulfilled in life which is not true which we do have kids we’re just not the type of moms that sit around and talk about our kids non-stop because it’s more fun to rail on the moms that do that than be the mom that
Does that and kids stories are generally boring horrifically boring breathtaking boring to hear about somebody else’s kid right nobody cares nobody [ __ ] cares nobody but you we’re doing a public service by not talking about our children that’s right I can’t imagine if I had to sit here and listen to you tell
Children stories every day I would have left a long time ago I wouldn’t have made it no I think the podcast would have tanked yeah immediately immediately nobody [ __ ] wants to hear that I do like your dog stories though yeah see I could live without the dog stories too
Yeah you know one thing I was thinking about a lot lately recently and Kylie will understand this you won’t but often times you know you’re at a divorce attorney and so I want your input on this oftentimes we’re always concerned about how divorce impacts the child right and I’ve been
Thinking a lot lately about how divorce impacts dogs oh my gosh I wish you would not have told me that but think about it like I see chaa and TBB and they have their own special special relationship with me and then they have their own special relationship with Josh and if
One of us was gone you know they’re they have grief and they could have issues relating to that and so if you ever had in your divorce career as a divorce attorney like dog visitation schedules or does anybody care about this does anybody advocate for the
Animal okay I have one story about that I might have already told it on the podcast but it’s worthy of telling again so when I was just a baby lawyer had an older couple probably our aish now MH they only had two golden retrievers they didn’t have kids so when they got
Divorced they were fighting over seeing the dogs so we did a schedule week on week off like they were with dat a week they were with Mom a week alternated equal time for the people so the hateful mean awful spouse soon to be exp spouse
Of my client when it was her week she took them to the vet and had them put down you told me this before and I blocked it euthanized them to punish him so that’s incredibly [ __ ] up is that shouldn’t that be a crime it wasn’t at the time I don’t
Think it’s a crime to have your dogs put to sleep I think it should totally because the court we had an agreement to the visitation schedule but the court doesn’t have a court order with visitation for I think she should be in the penitentiary to the death penalty
Are you serious anyway so we have people have fought over dogs but ultimately it ends up becoming a bigger hassle like the parties have to see each other when they exchange the animals I would fight to The Bitter End to make sure that I had equal visitation with my dogs right
I mean that would be something that I would leave money on the table because I value and care about their health and well-being and I just don’t think this topic is discussed very often what happens to the dog in divorce well well I think that’s because there are a lot
Of other issues more pressing when you’re getting a divorce than how the dogs feel which is why I think this needs to be discussed yeah but I would say out of a hundred problems that you have going through a divorce even if the dog’s the most beloved person in the
Family it’s probably 101 Kylie how would you feel if you and Anna broke up and about Judy’s well-being it’d be a really big issue exactly right I get why people stay together for the kids right you know some people might stay together for the dogs yeah I just looked up online
And there are a lot of Articles of how divorce affects dogs and the side effects that come with it depression anxiety bad behavior anger I think we need to do an entire episode about this not only to highlight the struggle of the dog during divorce but also to
Torture pumps for a solid 45 to 55 minutes yeah I was just gonna say during that episode can I just like stick needles in my eyes or like stab myself in the kidney with a better knife absolutely not you have to willingly and enthusiastically participate and you
Will be our legal expert on the panel when we roll out this episode but the point you’re missing is that the judge doesn’t have the court doesn’t have any jurisdiction over a pet okay here’s the deal all right I I the court might not have any jurisdiction over the pet but our hearts
Have jurisdiction over the pet and we as people that love animals more than we love human beings Kylie and me and a lot of our listeners want to explore this often neglected topic I I mean I wonder if there’s even a podcast episode out there about this there’s going to be
There’s this is gonna be oh God please let me this is gonna change the game in podcasting Judge Judy Diana Judge Judy Diana permanent record entry number one PS is not a good pet owner we should do like a Jerry Springer moment where we bring scout out at the end oh God that
Would be so I don’t want him that close to me I’m afraid he’ll go home with me that would be so good any more hate comments someone with the name somewhat obese platypus wrote the amount of war paint and hair dye is almost too much to [Laughter]
Digest I think he’s making fun of our makeup and hair I will say that it does take like jet to get our hair this blonde so oh yeah I mean I I think we resemble that and we’ll take that in stride all right listener listen up we
Have as a guest today in studio a former sorority sister I guess it’s not former I guess it’s forever it’s forever a sorority sister of pumps from the Kappa house at the University of Oklahoma like pumps’ like most prized accomplishment of her life is having been at Kappa at the University of
Oklahoma and her sorority sister who now lives in LA and owns a very popular makeup brand and she’s visiting friends and family in Oklahoma and we have her in studio let’s get pumps’ Sor sister ncoo Greco in here pumps let’s talk about micro doing you know that just right feeling when
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Itself could be an entire podcast P 100% she kept saying former and I was like no it’s not former it’s forever yes she kept say SS in the bond forever forever I think for the Layman for a lot of our listeners that probably are not in Greek culture yeah it seems
Silly not to diminish the your sister but once college is over that then it would be a former but y’all I consider myself we cement the bond that’s right okay when we’re young yeah I met pumps when I was 18 yep she was our pledge trainer which meant she taught us our
Group our pledge class how’ she do she’s really good she taught us how to be Capal lady you know all the manners the behavior at parties you know she really laid the groundwork for the you know ultimate women that we became really I’m laughing let me ask you this so you’re
Telling me that she trained you on how to be a lady and how to behave at parties yes during that era did you ever see her not behaving at parties and not acting like a lady I mean I think we just looked up to her so much that we
Took every example to Heart right so so so you know when pumps was like you girls need to get it together it was grades it was manners Behavior don’t let your dates get too drunk on the bus you know that type of thing but when we saw
Pumps having a good time we knew that we would grow in to this fun vibe you’d have no idea how happy I am this makes me because you’re so incredulous about it well I just listener here’s just the thing I have to tell you that just it shocks me to my core
Pumps from the time that her daughter was a baby until now she is a Kappa pumps number one goal for her child yes was for the child to be a member of the Kappa Kappa Gamma sorority yes and I just don’t relate to that I just I think
There’s a fear of possibly peing too soon and what if your child wants to be involved in something more nuanced and intellectual or or what have you I just I I I don’t relate to this on so many levels and furthermore pumps brought to my office at one point her
Sorority pen uhhuh I have mine in my bag yeah she brought the pen and sat down with me and a girl that worked for me to review Emily her daughter’s resumee and at the time Emily was in ninth grade in high school but the the high school years are what’s important on your
Resume they don’t care before eth grade right and I just I thought it was a little silly you’re acting like you can’t be both intellectual and worri we like won in grades at at OU and Kappa we were always like number one number two in grades yeah and KO just got the
National Kappa cap GMA person of the year award like two years ago yeah at our national Convention yeah I’d never been to the National Convention before but it was quite the honor and you know it was such an interesting experience for Me overall I wasn’t actually planning on going to OU
I thought I was going to go away I grew up in Norman you know my parents were really encouraging me to you know fly go see other parts of the world and it wasn’t until pretty much the last minute I decided not to go to Syracuse right
And to go to U and so I had to sort of rush to get into the Rush game and um and you know now when I look back in retrospect you know I just wanted to be in one of the houses that all my high school girlfriends that were older than
Me were in but you know in being a black female at the time I mean Kappa at OU has gotten definitely more diverse since then I was the first black Kappa Kappa GMA atou but in my head I thought like oh I’m just going to go hang out with my
Friends and I wasn’t even really thinking about that aspect but now it makes me really proud when I think about that when I think about how far we’ve come as a so Society with race from the early 90s to now we’ve come a long way because I grew up in the white suburbs
Of Oklahoma City and racism at the time I didn’t really know that it was certainly racism in the manner that I know it now but it was kind of cooked into the culture and cooked into the books and when I as a progressive liberal think about sororities and
Fraternities I think a little bit my mind thinks little bit white supremacy right white supremacist organizations so that is incredible in the early ’90s and 1991 yeah 1991 that you you know did you experience racism throughout that process it was really interesting because I grew up in Norman which is a
University Town you know where the University of Oklahoma is and you know had a a very happy childhood my neighborhood was actually more diverse because it’s where a lot of professors that were recruited I was born in New York and and my parents taught on the
East coast and then my dad started the African studies program at Oklahoma so that’s why I moved here when I was almost 9 years old and I think my first sort of experience of oh wow there’s this undercurrent of what’s not right um really happened to me when I was a
Junior and for the first time I was going to school with I mean I think I’d only gone to school with two or three black kids on the west side right most of whom I was related to um that you know all of a sudden now I was in this
Much more diverse culture in in our high school years and then when I got to OU went through rush it was you know everybody was very kind um a lot of people sort of questioned why I was going through predominantly white Rush honestly for me and maybe it’s just naiv
Maybe it’s being a first generation American I was sort of raised to be so proud of my race and my culture but never to separate myself out from everyone else right and so yeah I got a lot of Slack from from definitely a lot of the black sorties who sort of saw me
As this kind of sellout for for going but then also there you know a lot of small town Oklahoma Small Town Texas people who just didn’t get it had a problem with it but I think you know since I was really young I’ve you know I am a recovering people pleaser but I
Definitely feel like when I was young I just sort of stuck to my own authenticity even in the exploration of figuring out exactly who that was and so while I cared and I would get my feelings hurt I also sort of just chocked it up to like they just you know
I can’t teach people how to treat me I just have to show by example that’s awesome okay before we get into what with what you’ve had it with yeah I want the listener to know since you left Norman graduated from the University of Oklahoma you are now the CEO and founder
Of an incredibly successful makeup brand that is available at at all JC Pennies correct yeah yeah so I’m a I’m a retailer now I mean I I was a skincare founder and then in 20120 um in the midst of the global pandemic and a racial Reckoning I all of
A sudden when those lists started coming out of like top black own to shop and to follow I was at the top of those lists it just kept happening kept happening and then I would discover on a list of like 500 blackowned Brands to shop that two things were happening one I was
Getting a lot of DMS from people asking if they could use you know from my previous brand my face oil because they weren’t black as if black and brown people only make products I’m like well I’m pretty sure I use Laura Mercier powder and I know
She’s not black so like it’s it’s cool you can put it on your face um and oh my God white people are so stupid fascinating God and then B I would see all of these brands on the list with me and I’m like who who’s this what’s this
Incredible brand and then it went from like blackowned to then black and brown owned to indigenous owned and I started discovering all of these incredible Brands created by people of color who make products for everyone um that had like no distribution and so I say that’s
When I sort of took my pain and I turned it into purpose and I was like well guess what I’m going to do I’m going to start a platform like a goop or Violet gray but 90% of all the brands that I carry are going to be created by these
People by myself people of color who make products for everyone but because I wasn’t interested in reega the beauty aisle I dedicated 10% to fostering Ally ship I had with my previous brand sold on goop and so gwenth palro had kind of become you know a friend a mentor and so
When in starting the platform she was really sort of mentoring me because of her success with goop on how to do it she became one of my First Investors and then we now to just over two and a half years later carry 190 Brands I love it I think it’s great
I mean I’m just sitting here looking at you going oh my God she’s so amazing a I mean really well you taught me to be this way she did you can you can wish I could take credit but no I just said don’t smoke a cigarette and walk at the
Same time and you said do not hold a drink while you’re dancing on the dance floor that was a big rule see two words two little rules to live by which is funny because I’ve seen you and hold a cigarette so many can’t even yeah but it
Wasn’t in a party pick it wasn’t never in a party never in a party pick okay so let’s let’s talk about what you’ve had it with oh goodness I mean you know this whole concept and it’s beautiful of like women supporting women um is something that you know we’re all fighting for
Like the small slice of the pie like I don’t get it one of the things that I’ve realized over the past especially last three years that in success Sometimes women don’t like to see other people win so I’ve really had it with women who like claim like I’m a
Woman who supports women and then really don’t I’ve really had it with like mean girls in their 40s and 50s it’s it’s like that’s so not cool it’s not cool to ever be a mean girl but it’s it’s really and like the judgment and the it’s like
We are I mean I just turned 50 and I was talking to one of my dear friends yesterday about what feels people keep asking like what feels different at 50 and I think it’s like the no BS factor in no room for like toxic people right and so as
Someone who always like was like my girlfriends are my life they are they are my chosen family but like I’ve had a few breakups and and but it’s been liberating I have to let you in on a little secret and I know our audience right now is probably thinking who’s
Going to tell her who’s going to tell her and pumps and I are kind of50 50y old Mean Girls we get accused of being mean girls I mean i’ I’ve read the comments I’ve seen what the trolls have to say but when here’s here’s what I
Want to say about this the whole concept of Mean Girl culture is a myth it is a complete myth and it perpetuates sexism and further stereotypes women right that they are supposed to be nice and polite and so supportive of each other all the time and Harvard did a study on this and
If you think about your interactions with the last 100 people it’s not bias towards women being meaner to you than it is men it’s split equally and so I think as women we need to move the conversation off of putting the pressure on women right for women to support
Women and women not to be and women to do this and women to do that I have a great [ __ ] idea what how about the white guys that have been running the country forever how about they do better yeah I like that I I I stand by that
Let’s take the let’s take the pressure off of women because here’s my view of the women supporting women thing I think that it’s dangerous and not sustainable or tenable as people navigate modern culture on social media to not get irritated at people when men get irritated at people and express a
Viewpoint about it nobody thinks anything of it true but when a woman does it like pumps and me we’re considered Mean Girls and actually sometimes as a woman you see other guys do stupid [ __ ] that you think is stupid and you call it out especially if you’re loudmouth podcasters like pumps and me
Or you see women do a lot of stupid [ __ ] yeah and you call it out and I think over stereotyping and overanalyzing and placing all of this pressure on women right is [ __ ] and so I think as women take the [ __ ] pressure off women sometimes you want to be a [ __ ]
For the day [ __ ] be a [ __ ] men get to be dicks all the time nobody calls them out but when a woman has a strong opinion or maybe an unfavorable opinion to Brand them or label them as a mean girl M I think is kind of anti-woman we
Get to be frustrated right I think we get to be frustrated and we do get to be a [ __ ] if we’re having a day like we have permission to really be how authentically how we are I think my point is when and and I love what you
Said about men and and really sort of reframing the concept of mean girl I think what I’m referring to is when a human being tries to minimize come after you know for instance I’ll use an example that a woman a person had said in you know the success of of 13
Loon and the opportunities that we’ve had that well those opportunities happen for her because she’s black it’s mean but dismissive dismissive definitely steeped in some racism racist I mean it’s it’s it’s not steeped in racism that is racism yeah and so overt racism and so when I speak about
These experiences that I’ve had with these people sadly um some of them are are all of them are women that being said part of you know you’ve really opened my eyes because when I think about why especially other entrepreneur women that behave this way why it’s because we’re all fighting for this
Slice of the pie that in an industry that is really truly supported by women to the tune of billions of dollars but controlled by men that’s right okay we digress and these are all very important things but we want to play a game with you oh I love games okay it’s called had
It or hit it oh my God welcome to had it or hit it I would hit it had it had it I hit it every day sometimes twice a day had it or hit it power moms let me tell you what a power mom is okay Power mom
Is a Tomahawk Chopper that circulates around the schools in mom group mes PTA meetings had it you know it’s so funny because I travel a lot um for my job and one of these power moms where I was at back to school night and it’s really only women
That ever say this to me too like my God how did I saw your Instagram how did you you do it all is it so hard on David that you travel so much I’m like I’m pretty sure nobody has ever ask me when David’s out of town oh honey is it hard
For you with your husband out of town or she’ll say I mean I don’t it’s so good to see you here had it yeah I’ve had it too and we’ve been traveling a lot recently and I have people how do you do it all how do you do it all well I get
Up in the morning I brush my teeth I put my clothes on I go to work I travel to Fabulous places sleep in hotels speak on conference speak at conferences have lunch with my friends and make money for my family and then I go home right no
It’s modern motherhood yeah okay had it or hit it G rwm videos which is ready with me videos so I’m in the beauty industry so you know I don’t I mean hit it yes but this is a two-parter I’m really conflicted about how I feel with
The get ready with me but they’re like talking about other things in life or to get ready with me that are like almost shame you if you’re not doing it in a certain way I like the creativity of a get ready with me where they’re like
This is how you do a smokey eye you know educational videos gotcha but like do I really want to watch you put your makeup on and hear about like your day at school or how wasted you got last night yeah yeah I think there’s get ready with
Me abuse that’s going on there’s a lot of abusers out there and the get ready with me Len I just launched cosmetics in my brand relevant and so there will be coming soon and get ready with me but I’m open you’re a professional but you’re a professional you’re a
Professional what’s happening to your industry on the Internet is a shame yeah um had it or hit it the word no as a complete sentence hit it same I love that the power of saying no no and sometimes you don’t have to say anything beyond it just
No and that’s something age gets you where you can say no without having to explain no because the answer it the the explanation is not necessary right no thank you works too yeah it does keep it sweet if it does but we have a as we established ear a real mean girl um
Reputation that we have to hold up so we just stick with no no not today I also like to use unsubscribe oh that’s a good one yes that was a good one okay had it or HIIT it nude lipstick hit it and I’ll tell you why because had it would have
Been my answer a few years ago but now there’s amazing Brands like we carry a brand called citizen Cosmetics created by three sisters from Dubai in London who created products where they everyone can find their nude oh a lipstick and gloss and many other great products too
So now I’m all about a nude lip because I can find my nude I I read this thing probably on the internet for sure on the internet the only place that I read that it said that the nude your nude color of lipstick is the same color as your
Labia what I thought that was pretty interesting that you have to go match your the color of your vagine you just have to take it in the beauty counter just ready just got throw your go commando and then take the little color chart with a little mirror and then
Figure out what your proper I mean as someone who has several beauty stores if someone ever came into to me and said my labia color is this do you have a gloss or lip I’d probably call security yeah no kidding you’d probably call the police but I think that was your problem
With the nude lipstick attempt the other day you didn’t match I didn’t match it with my I need to pull that out and see what that would be I mean listen to each his own but their own but I I I’ve never heard that I had but I’m for sure going
To tell everybody for sure okay last one had it or HIIT it Oklahoma well HIIT it for the reasons that this is where I grew up up where I have so many people that I love what I’ve had it with in Oklahoma is just some old Paradigm BS
Yep but I have hope for the great state and and I do believe that it’s important for people who are more Progressive thinkers to be to stay in this community to be a part of this community to be active in this community I think having
You know a a great un like University of Oklahoma you know has really propelled the state forward but yeah we just got to have the right leaders in place and not we don’t that’s the problem all right KO I cannot thank you enough for coming gosh to be with your not former
Sister current current but sister in perpetuity yes that’s right perpetuity forever and shout out to all the kgs Lindsay Apple Ashley the whole pledge class all of them the new initiates that I came to that’s right welome she went to initi here on Saturday yeah that’s
Why I’m here so welcome in the new sisters I’m so glad because I bet you our listeners are chalk full of a bunch of just you know sorority Thumpers out there yeah yes you’re welcome you’re welcome no I will say I kid you guys I
Do think it’s so sweet I tell pimps this her sorority sister friends are some of my favorite friendss of hers and the connection that you all have and how you stay in contact is precious darling and I love it I get tired of hearing about it wow I think that sometimes people
Make it into a much bigger deal than what it is say start C oh her daughter does it all the time yeah she’ll Chase around singing Kappa songs on vacation love it okay listen up listener go join us on patreon the hot [ __ ] tour um voice memos voice MOS to our Instagram pumps
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