I feel it now it’s all around me a silent voice I can’t Deny a mother’s s how they surround me they sing the beauty of my life it will last Forever it will Never Fade Away Never cause me pain Love This Love This Love I close my eyes it takes me over a meory deep down in my soul and say from home to be beside you a light will shine upon the world it will last forever It Will Never Fade
Away Never cause me pain This Love This Love is it will last forever it will never fade away Never cause me Pain It will last Forever it will Never Fade Away Never cause me Pain This Love This Love This Love This Love Om Shanti Om Shanti golden morning so we’ll have some spiritual sharing right now on the topic spiritual Donna for remaining loving and detached and for this topic we have none other than sister gopy and in a few words sister goppy has been in Gan you will never
Know for how many years she has been in G she has been with Baba for 44 years and uh for all this time she has devoted her life to Baba’s task and she was among the Pioneers at the GRC Global Retreat Center that started in
93 she has also helped since then uh the in the training of the NC and the CC National Cod orators Center in charge she has overseen also since the beginning since its Inception the youth movement and uh also recently although she has been traveling extensively for babaa she has been
Positioned a little bit more in Barat itself and especially in Mount Tabo where she oversees the um environmental and um safety program for the three campuses and just if you allow me on a personal note what I would like to say because I’ve been observing you for many
Years being based in in Europe that you are Baba’s um kind of swis knife or Jack of all traits and you can do whatever Baba assigns you to do and also we are all Brahma Babas Muk chalian Brahma Baba’s mouth Bor pren but certainly you also daddy Junes mouth bone progeny Om
Shanti Om Shanti would sisters like to come and take the front seats come fill up the seats in the front in this aact month of January remembering Brahma Baba’s footsteps and Brahma Baba’s example is a source of inspiration and a source of energy for us and I know for
Me I didn’t have the fortune of meeting sakar Baba in this birth but I did have the fortune of spending a lot of time with one of his closest companions many of his closest companions the daddies and in particular a close workking relationship with Daddy jeni and daddy always used to
Say that she wanted to give sustenance the way that sakar Baba gave her sustenance and she wanted us to experience everything she experienced from sakar Papa and when I was asked about the topic today this topic just came to my mind without thinking the spiritual daras for remaining loving and
Detached and you know the stage of being loving and detached you know the symbol for it right what’s the symbol the Lotus the Lotus seat is the symbol of being in Hindi it’s Nar Tamil translation is not available somebody’s going for translation it’s okay can you hear Tamil can you hear
Can you speak from the translation booth okay okay okay okay okay good so what was the last thing I was saying right the word in Hindi we say n which puts detached first and then loving whereas in English when we translate it we say loving and detached but it’s always the other way
Around and I think this topic is especially valuable for me because this is what for me symbolizes the karmatit stage the stage that of being bab saman and this was Brahma Baba’s firm example and over the years as I’ve watched our daddies the seniors being in interactions in the Brahman family you catch
Dhas dhas are not something that you taught in a Clos room there’s it is a spiritual energy that is transmitted through your attitude through your dishy through your activity so you can’t teach somebody DH you can teach knowledge and I was having a conversation with bridge mour by yesterday today and we were
Exploring the translations for the word dhna and yes on the one side you can say inculcate you can say become an embodiment yet on the other side so both of these words symbolize absorbing something and integrating something inside me so the foundation of DH absorption and integration but then he went on to
Share that it is living spirituality and the feeling I had was it’s not just absorption integration but it’s also benevolence real Divine spiritual dhana is an energy of benevolence it creates a nature a character that is deeply benevolent now now later on we’ll explore the subject of the difference between help being
Helpful and being benevolent because there is a big difference you can help but it will be limited to the extent of your nature and sin scars so I find that this whole idea of spiritual energy spiritual power in the form of Virtues the energy of our virtues infusing our
Being infusing the way we see each other it infuses it penetrates the way we speak with each other it infuses how we relate to each other and so for me I suppose dhna and its foundation is about absorption integration and then allowing that to penetrate that every Act of mine
Is sharing a spiritual energy it is empowering another uplifting another without any conscious awareness of it someone who has a dhna a life of dhna has no ego of their dhna I’m like this I’m like because the moment you put I it blocks the flow of spiritual power an energy you’re no longer
Spiritual the moment you’ve become conscious of you know uh or claimed your speciality it’s really a deep um when you are integrated inside there’s a deep sense of being supported security and integrated with the big ho so there’s a deep sense of belonging that comes when you have a life that is dhna
Y and then somebody who has beautiful dhna always you’ll see them graceful and they always do the work of joining never separating anything it is our body conscious and scars and nature separate things create groups great ceks but when we’re operating from a place of dhna real spiritual dhna there is
Neutrality there is uh inclusivity very naturally everyone equality in my relation with everyone so understanding that dhna is not just a behavior or or an etiquette but it is my inner support system and now if my inner support system is weak then I will feel insecure and that’s when I will need to
Rely on my natureance and scars to get things done it’s the easy way out but what is in my support system and I suppose you know experimenting as a yogi Soul a huge amount of these spiritual dhas that Baba teaches us are around the darness of remaining detached this is very very
Important I understand that we all want to be loved in but you cannot sustain being loving consistently and selflessly without Detachment you cannot sustain that dhna without the practice of Detachment in some form or another because our nature you know swab the feelings we have for ourselves when we’re in the
Body our old sin scars they’re like a rubber band so when you have some yoga with Baba and some bavna is activated you’ll act on that Bava for a short period of time then after that okay I’ve shed enough the rubber band kicks in you know how you stretch the
Rubber band and then you let it go and always comes back it’s exactly what happens and that’s why we enter into a mode of transaction and Counting things I’ve done enough now I’ve given enough love how much more can I tolerate that’s enough tolerance I’ve done it for 10 years now you’re
Counting everything becomes transaction and this is this is a mindset that we are used to and we think is normal it’s not spiritual now you know success in the world whether you like it or not every human being wants to become successful it’s it’s why it’s what moves us makes us
Make effort even as brahmans but in the loic world the concept of success is very much linked to profit reward gain and it’s polarized so it is often at the expense of another and that’s why there’s always the energy of competition comparison that sustains Division if you sustain division you can sustain a
Competitive environment that allows success to Prevail that’s the loic mindset but in Brahman life to be spiritually successful means to be NADA and B which is the state stage of being completely neutral in the face of Praise defamation Victory defeat insult more praise that your stage of being a yogi is completely
Unaffected by circumstances or even even the feelings in your body and that’s the stage of success of a yogi Soul this is the stage that Brahma Baba achieved complete neutrality the karma stage where there was no effect of anything on him right right now we’re not neutral we are deeply polarized
Inside because there are experiences or Memories We hold on to that keep our mindset rubber banded in a rubber band and this is why I want to just explore some of these darn of Detachment because that’s the experiment for a yogi Soul now of course the first and foremost dhna of
Detachment is the Detachment from one’s own body and I will call it the dhna of giving your intellect arrest you know whenever your the soul has to operate through the body everything requires the use of your intellect you have to discern things think this through so you’re always plugged
In and by being plugged in the intellect never gets a rest because the basis of adopting all daras is the quality of your intellect I know that there are people sometimes that try to copy other people’s behavior you can’t copy somebody’s behavior in Brahman life because the whole basis of dhna is
Internal and your dhna only is revealed to the extent that you remain detached then then your peace works for you then your wisdom works for you the love works for you then Bubba’s power does its work and this is a very important Focus for us otherwise we start to use silence in
The wrong way many people say I just want to be in silence now great but that silence is disassociating me from reality I’m not detaching in the way Baba wants me to detach as a dhna but I’m disassociating from all the stuff and the more I get lost in the
World of mysticism and silence then I don’t have to face reality but Detachment as a dhna allows Baba’s power Baba’s healing energy allows love to heal what has gone wrong because we in this last birth carry scars and wounds and stuff we’ve done to others and it’s going to come
Back imagine how much love is needed but in order for that love to do its work and be heal the dhna of Detachment is crucial not disassociation which is a very different practice which is what we call spiritual escapism and you’ll find that sometimes it becomes a fashion in the Brahman in
Family isolation silence but when you delve into the stories of those Souls there’s issues with money issues with relationships issues with things that are just not being solved there’s no transformation happening because too much Detachment is disassociation too much loving is attachment so it’s detached and loving
It’s a balance of both and if someone is seeing too much of one thing it means you’re out of balance now in the dhna of being detached this first practice of giving the intellect a rest just unplugging from the organs sense organs of the Body for a few moments and just let your
Intellect rest this is what I would call Detachment from the body where for a few moments you allow the intellect to completely rest and just release the awareness of the physical body in this moment now and enjoy those few moments as the being the soul that is the child of
God and so the more you give yourself in the day rest breaks for your intellect it’s easy to separate from the body if you don’t give your intellect a rest becoming bodes is very difficult because the whole Act of Bess is the act of the intellect it’s not the
Body it’s your intellect shedding an awareness it’s just letting go of an awareness of a costume and so to help you you to become bodyless it’s really important to give your intellect rest rest breaks in the day daddy would do this a lot in between meeting people she would you know take a
Orange sometimes she’d peel it if we didn’t peel it for her and she’d do it ever so slowly she was giving us her intellect to rest at that moment and then as she would feed herself she would just be in Baba’s remembrance and it would be like Baba feeding her and just
A few minutes and the intellect is rested and refreshed and then you can start a new interaction clean you’re not projecting old energy into a new interaction so that’s of the first Dar is the Detachment from one’s own body giving your intellect those breaks in the day and then of
Course there’s the Detachment from relationships right and again this is not about a physical separation this is about a change of attitude and dishy and the way I relate relate to you you know hu so many games are played in relationships and we have signed a contract to be someone’s brother perhaps
To be someone’s wife to be someone’s sister-in-law you know even if you may not have those roles at a physical level those relationship Dynamics play themselves out in a karmic account and I remember many years ago before moving into Oxford my relationship with my loic sister was never the
Best we we our communication always did this and there would be certain triggers in her behavior um you know that would make me react and interestingly enough when I came to live at The Retreat Center I was sharing a room with somebody that had very similar and scars to my locking
Sister and it was at that point I realized that actually I’m I’m still being triggered in the same way here I don’t have a karmic account per se with this person but I realized the depth of the Sincara that was controlling me me because it was being mirrored so Detachment in relationships
Means I have to bring some transformation in my attitude and my vision first it’s very important you know Diwali when they celebrate Diwali after Diwali they celebrate bayad this is a memorial of fraternity brotherly love and why would I change my attitude in a relationship because we belong because underneath the fabric our
Fabric is brotherly love and when you come back to that place of an attit ude of Brotherly Love then you know how to be with everyone but if you’re holding a feeling of being someone’s wife being someone’s parent being someone’s teacher being a center in charge um you can’t create a sense of
Brotherhood you know with daddy daddy came to the West and Daddy was Daddy so many years of tapasia in India so much service growing here in barad and she leaves all of that and Baba’s direction to her is to go Broad and to create a model of
Maduban and she arrives and of course in the west nobody knows what a daddy is they don’t care if you’re a daddy they want honesty and friendship in their relationships they don’t want to be told what to do so Daddy very quickly had to find how
To relate to souls she couldn’t hold on and say look you people don’t understand me I’ve done so many years of service I’ve left India just for you I’m here I’ve renounced everything and you still don’t appreciate me no it was like starting again like a little
Child I just want to be your friend make me your friend that’s what she would say and she made it her mission to win people’s hearts and you know I I deeply believe that if you keep that aim that I really want to win the hearts of the people I’m with
Then it it comes true drama provides those opportunities because these are my brothers and sisters and ultimately it’s not going to be the ey that gets the job done it will be the we that gets the job done and the Deep appreciation of each one’s part you know I remember a
Scene when it was on the roof rooftop of the history Hall and there was some sisters sitting with Daddy Daddy G and we were having a chitchat with Daddy G and at that time it was only Pand of baven and there was a brother called Ram Lin by who used to look after
The accommodation and in those days of course Souls from India come it’s Baba’s home they don’t inform and RAM Lun B came running up and he seemed quite upset and he started saying to Daddy Daddy there’s a group of 50 coming they didn’t inform us they’ll
Be here in half an hour where am I going to put them and you know he was going on a bit and Daddy was just looking at him and after he finished his rambling daddy said to him so Ram by what do you think we should do she didn’t take on his
Reaction she didn’t make herself feel responsible oh i’ I’m he’s reacting so I’ve got to give him something you know the game I got to rescue him the game he’s in charge of accommodation his part is that his role is that Bubba will touch his intellect she was pushing back
Faith and she was pushing back trust so in our relationships being detached in relationships is an attitude of Brotherly Love coupled with the recognition of another’s part and the value of their part in Baba’s Unlimited to dusk and that Daddy would always say I can’t do what they
Do and daddy would give so much love and respect to that Soul irrespective of Nature and sin scars so Detachment in relationships the first Foundation is always the body by the way because the seed of the connection of everything else is the awareness of the body you know we experience
Emotions but the context for an emotion to survive is the awareness of the body you switch off the awareness of the body the emotion dissipates in Mill seconds it just evaporates it cannot survive anymore and that’s why Baba again and again again and again children let go of the awareness
Of the body become so conscious because he’s literally removing the sides of the prison and everything just evaporates because it cannot survive no emotion can survive when there’s no awareness of the body so that Foundation is first and then the attitude uh that I need to change in my
In the way I relate to others and then the third dhna of Detachment is linked to things and Fa facilities and objects and this is a little bit harder it’s easier to be detached in relationships than to be detached from your facilities you know food drink nice warm
Bed uh comfort for your body we make decisions that will affect the comfort of our body yes we want to serve but mixed in service is the dependency on facilities I just want to make sure the body’s okay then I’ll do service I just want to make sure this is
Okay then I’ll do this and it’s very subtle you know Bridge M and we were talking about this yesterday and he was giving his example it’s getting cold so he lies down in bed and what does he feel at that moment does he feel the support of the bed this is him
Talking out loud he sits he’s lying there on the bed and he’s feeling the comfort of the bed and he’s feeling the comfort of the blanket and then in the backdrop of the comfort of the bed and the he’s going off to sleep and he says why can’t I do the
Same with Bubba why can’t I feel Bubba is sending me to sleep Baba is hugging me now Baba’s embracing me Baba’s my comfort blanket so everything we eat gives us a Feeling and over a time when something gives us a nice feeling that’s what you build your life
Around you go shopping for that particular kind of food you will always go to that place or you’ll go to that that person because you’re getting something from it a feeling and you know in the early days of the yagya the Baba used to have 15 days of just Millet chap patties and
Buttermilk for everybody in the yagya whether you were sick you had asthma you were well everybody was on the same diet milit CH patties and buttermilk 15 days nothing happened because the whole thing about looking after yourself has less to do with the facility it’s got to do with who is actually sustaining
Me this is all an extension of sustenance who is you know if if I’m always running after a seat I want a seat quite literally we’ve seen for many years people running after a seat in Baba’s meeting I want a seat it means I haven’t yet realized Baba’s already given me my
Seat so there’s something about the Detachment from facilities and the practices required for that that lets us deeply experience Baba’s sustenance for us because you know especially aak Baba aak Brahma he doesn’t have a body of his own he’d like a nice pizza from time to
Time so so when you’re eating and you just remember Baba first you will feel those avak hands coming through and feeding you you will quite literally feel Baba’s sustenance for you and then it doesn’t matter whether you’ve had half a chapatti or one chapatti it it doesn’t matter but when you don’t feel
Sustenance from Baba then that chapati you eat and even if you don’t taste it you still keep eating and then you create a mentality I need to eat more of this because they tell me it’s healthy food but your Consciousness is divorced from the one that’s feeding you how on Earth are you
Going to become healthy so Detachment from facilities and this requires a lot of checking it requires you to be have certain practices to say okay eat something for a period of time and then stop it and see if your mind fluctuates do this with every aspect of
Your life if there’s a hobby that you’re used to doing and you really enjoy doing it stop it for a while does your mind fluctuate as a Yoki especially with food because our closest form of sustenance is with food you I I used to stop tea for a
While I’d have tea for a few weeks and I’d stop it for a week for a few weeks so to train yourself not to get dependent on any facility so today if there’s a cup of tea great if there isn’t a cup of tea greaty nowadays people say well I can’t
Travel for service to that place because I can’t get the food I need this this thing that is 2 in long controls our mind controls what we can do and what we can’t do so this is very deep this ATT attachment to facilities and I’m clumping everything in it the food the
Drink the way you live the possessions and objects you have your car everything that gives you a sense of security can you live without it yeah and intellectually you might be able to say yes yes of course let’s see it in reality I think one of the lessons I
Know that I’ve had to learn is is this because for many many years I’ve had to live out of 23 kilos suitcase and at that point you have to really make your life and your mindset very very simple very simple to be able to serve at a maximum to allow Baba to use
You in the maximum way so that you don’t corrupt service with your dependencies you know the Bava of benevolence doesn’t get corrupted or conditioned you know we put conditions so that’s why Baba often says that sometimes our dependency on sadden the dependency on the facilities cuts our
Sad you know many times in service Souls may say well if I get this then I’ll be able to do service if I get this facility then I’ll be able to well then it means they’re not serving because somebody who already serving they’ll make use of anything they have in a worthwhile
Way it’s interesting that you know it was Nei was telling me a few days ago two sisters had come to him they asking for an office a room a this a that and he says but they don’t do anything in Madan and he says it’s the ones that don’t do anything want the
Most facilities because it’s this illusion that if I get this then I’ll be able to serve which means I haven’t understood what service is service is a powerful transmission of attainment what am I attaining from Baba inside what is my mind and my intellect and my heart receiving from Baba
Inside that vibration is what creates an atmosphere is what reaches somebody’s heart and mind so this third subject the dhna of Detachment from facilities and then the Detachment from probably what I will say is one of the hardest efforts your nature and sinars you know Daddy would often say
99% of brahans are moving along on the basis of their nature and sin scars and it is my own nature and sin scars that create obstacles in my Brahman life I can live an obstacle-free Brahman life if I don’t use my old nature and sincar tests will always come that’s
Guaranteed but obstacles are optional and if you don’t use your nature and sin scars then even if somebody else’s nature and sin scars becomes an obstacle you will know how to remain detached and loving with them so it you know sometimes the snake of our old Sun scars May
Finish but the line Still Remains you know and you don’t even realize something that’s wrong to be wrong you know one of the signs that you are being deceived by your nature and sin scars is that you’ll start to find yourself doing one of two things telling yourself a
Story this happened and this happened that happen or telling a lie it’s almost like the LIE covers up the reality of facing something and then you find yourself justifying your story to others you see you tell your story you see it’s like this and it was this and this is
Understand this don’t you understand this and you get caught in the Trap of justification and that’s sign number number one that you are being controlled by an aspect of your old nature in sin scars sign number two is that you’ll be stubborn cuz sometimes when we’ve told ourselves the
Story and we get attached to that reasoning or that excuse or that lie we tell ourselves event usually when you repeat that enough times mentally and verbally you start to believe your own story it might not be reality because when something is truth there is no story it is very
Clear there is no story where there is truth there is no need to justify anything where there is truth so when you tell yourself enough times you fix yourself in that position and that’s when you become stubborn you know and you know prove yourself right and when you’re stubborn you
Cannot be an embodiment of success can’t because you’re in a fixed position so you know very deep subtle checking is required Detachment from nature and sin scars requires deep self-observation the dhna of checking checking and changing checking and changing who here keeps a chart three people this is this is a shrimat
And the reality of why you feel like you can’t overcome your reactions it’s because you’re just not checking and if you’re not checking you can’t change you can’t the power of change comes from the power of checking you know how sometimes in our human relationships things happen somebody says something some
I’m afraid you get a fear attack in that moment that’s because there’s an aspect of your old nature and Sincara quit controlling you right there and then it’s an aspect of your body conscious nature going and then you can’t see beyond that fear you’re afraid that person’s going
To come and take something away that person’s going and it gets projected out you and you can’t dhna is not theory dhna is deep Detachment the foundation of dhna is cultivating deep Detachment so the dhna of checking and self-accountability in all aspects is required and what happens when you keep
A chart over a long period of time this has been my experience is that you you can start to now see yourself whilst you’re doing everything so as I sit here sharing what I experience what I know with you I’m watching myself sharing with you I’m I’m just very aware of my
Attitude my vision my feelings inside as I’m sharing with you it just creates a very deep loving sensitivity to oneself it’s like carrying a baby in your arms and you just adjust and look after the baby so the baby’s comfortable and stays peaceful but honest so this subject of becoming
Detached from nature and sin scars requires checking powerful checking and consistent checking you cannot become and reach the Busan stage of being a Lotus sitting on the Lotus seat and being detached and loving without checking you can’t because your old nature and suncar act like a rubber
Band and they will pull you into all kinds of fear-based reactions and deceive you and finish your power of realization finish the power of Truth which is the power of the Eternal Soul s conscious Vision so conscious trst Sh sh y [Applause] Girl Sh y Girl For Me you know with with the daddies the one thing I observed consistantly was their ability to remain with Baba in their interactions with others in Baba’s task whilst being in meeting things listening to things Baba was always present I’ve often shared this story of of having taken Daddy G for a
Walk and bringing her back to her sitting room and a brother had come in very disturbed because something had happened in his department and he was very upset because nobody was giving him a solution and he sat in front of Daddy G and I sat to the side and he
Was and I’m watching Daddy G she’s just very calm listening but she doesn’t try to Plate him she doesn’t try to talk to him she doesn’t try to reassure him nothing he said and after he said what he has to say she reaches out gives him an apple and he goes
Off and then I said to Daddy Daddy but why didn’t you even try to you know clarify what he was saying or reassure him and daddy said in Hindi pugly I don’t know what you say for pugly pugly means like the sweet innocent one daddy wasn’t even listening to what he was
Saying Daddy was sitting with Baba so that Baba could give that Soul what he needed so it’s Baba’s love that needs to be shared right every soul wants to come back to Baba they don’t want to come back to you they’ve had enough we’ve had enough of each
Other and so this whole practice and love for becoming a detached Observer so that Baba can be present in all of my interactions and I don’t get pulled into a game the game of attention seeking the game of transactions you do this for me I’ll do this for you Obligations yeah we don’t play any of those games in satuk we are s conscious and we are honest and we are true in our interactions with each other so on a last note I I’ve shared this quite a lot in this month of janary because I feel it’s a very important
Component that supports our ability to be DH and detached and loving in Brahman life and that’s the relationship that each one of us have with our complete state stage to have a relationship with Baba is one thing but to have a relationship with your original complete
Stage is the only way you can reconcile your story and you can take Baba’s help to finish and reconcile your story and restore your dignity again and you know I remember many years ago when I was taking leave from maduban and I went to see Daddy and I
Asked her is there anything you want to say before I leave and she gave me dishy and said make your complete stage your best friend and you know it took me a while to get my head around that one and eventually over a period of time I started to realize
What is the feeling of my complete stage is it Baba really giving me love or is the connection with Baba so pure that it activates my original state of Love That is a that is a is my complete stage Baba is the ocean of Love Baba doesn’t have to
Sit and give you love Baba doesn’t have to make effort to remember because he’s an ocean of love the effort is all mine so because Baba is ever pure Baba will only reflect back in the connection The Love Will ignite the love the Purity the peace will ignite
The Purity and the peace quite literally the connection with Baba is activating the inner deity I Feel Love you’ve just woken up the God and the goddess inside when you start to feel those beautiful unlimited feelings know oh Baba’s giving it to me that’s your complete stage and now looking after that
Complete stage like a baby so making sure your feelings don’t get dirty and small things you know it is it’s very very careful attention required to sustain feelings of love and benevolence a lot of patience and peace deep connection with bu is required and that’s why the more bodyless the more
Detachment I practice practice the purer the connection becomes and then it’s like living with a best friend and you know this best friend keeps your conscience alive very very conscientious and determined because you’re not just alone anymore there you got back up the sense of your complete stage a
Sense of the relationship with Baba and what is already fixed in the drama so I would really encourage you to observe and start to make friends with your complete stage and you know friendship is something you want to sustain in all areas of your life you take your friend
With you to eat and sleep out together go camping together talk together read together and so don’t just leave yourself behind somewhere you know what eat with that love eat with that very very sweet deity that is your original blueprint inside okay so we have about five minutes has that been okay for
You are there any questions or is there somebody that would like to share something yes there there when you’re checking your nature the question let me repeat the question um that he mentioned when you’re checking your um especially in the subject of Nature and sin scars you’re checking for
Influence because you know when you’re checking you’re checking subtle attitude was there something influencing my attitude today you know what a soul conscious attitude is so looking for influences that affected the way you behaved with somebody um yes you start at Behavior because it’s a very gross form of
Checking yeah well what did I do wrong today I well what did I do right today where did I fulfill Baba’s hopes today where did I do Bubba’s directions today both is required balance checking is required but also checking is when you fix a practice you make yourself accountable to that
Practice that’s another form so it’s never about checking for deficit what’s going wrong or checking what’s negative what’s not working no it’s about looking for influence what’s influencing my attitude today that maybe didn’t keep my dristy accurate what’s influencing my word today what’s influencing and it’s really recognizing your
Original thoughts and thinking and who you are as opposed to the influences so you know sometimes for people in the early days when we don’t have such refined checking we write a letter to Baba that’s what the daddies would say to us write a letter to Baba every
Night slowly slowly slowly then that became a chart of yoga so everything Baba has asked us to check on so many different things so it has to have variety but ultimately the function of checking creates the Sincara of attention and that’s what helps change you can easily change something because wherever attention
Goes Energy starts to flow is that okay yeah thank you so much it was a really wonderful components you shared I just was thinking sometimes you know we become little cynical or doubtful about every little thing um like in terms of what you mentioned in in context to the
Games and you know obligations that you were mentioning so I was thinking how do I come to know whether I’m being cynical or actually the game is being played you know that my sons cars are playing game with me how do I differentiate that sometimes you know we become little doubtful anything that’s
Happening even realistically we may think oh that’s a game that the people are playing with Me Maybe person is not playing the game he’s being absolutely genuine and real and honest whereas where where is the spirituality sometimes not spirituality I would say but it teaches us that you know this is
All a uh Maya is playing a game kind of a thing how do I differentiate between the two um the moment a doubt arises in your intellect it’s very obvious in that moment that I’m body conscious now a lot of us live in body Consciousness so we are always activating doubts in each
Other it’s it’s just it’s the nature of body Consciousness the platform of body Consciousness is very very uncertain if your intellect is living in your body you will have doubt about your health can I walk my will I be able to make it will that happen those are the thoughts that will plague
You so that nature of Doubt is activated but when we really pay attention to being so conscious you will never have a thought or a doubt about a relationship and you know this is our job as brahans to create a culture of Soul Consciousness this is the Brahman
Culture and too often we live in our own cultures being guati being Punjabi being French being German being and we’re relating from the body consciousness of our culture and that will always activate doubt in other people’s nature and some Scars so it takes somebody to be Arjuna no matter what I’m going to be S conscious with you and you know what soul Consciousness creates an attitude of is it creates safety people feel safe with someone who SOC conscious their doubts don’t get activated and when people feel safe they
Can grow they’re willing to open up and grow and that’s very important so I think what’s important is to take up the responsibility instead of looking at trying to figure out the game and the relationship because it’s not about that anyway it’s about what’s being triggered in
Me that I take up the firm determination to create a soulc conscious attitude in my relationships because the moment I make that effort I deactivate the nature and the Sincara of doubt the doubt part is okay but what about being cynical well Cynicism is maybe the byproduct of having believed your doubts and put your doubt into action because it’s Murphy’s Law if you have a doubt and the Domino Falls that way whatever thought that you’ve had that this is going to go wrong is going to go wrong will go wrong has to go wrong
Wrong you believe it and that’s when you get cynical you see it doesn’t work cuz you’ve acted out your doubt and then you get you create a Sincara of cynicism I mean we are chained I will say by these Saras and the games because we have operated from doubts we have
Acted out on doubts so we have created sin scarus like this and this is where it requires really deep silent reflection deep checking being with Baba and every time that feeling comes really giving it to Baba you know others may have the Sinar of worry in Hindi we say
Fer you’re what what if what if what if what if what if hey it’s like a religion forget about Shanti and peace being a religion you know and they just live with this and I’m like okay and Baba’s given us a remedy for this as well
Children when you wake up in the morning whatever thoughts you just give them to Papa what is mine is yours that’s the dhna of a trustee nothing is mine it’s yours and then if it comes back in the day remember you’ve given it so you can’t take it back again
And I find as I keep giving things to babba really giving things to babba I get a lot of power back in return and that power keeps you in your seat but at least first you have to come to the stage of recognizing wait a minute I’m being controlled by this
Thing do I want to stay controlled am I attached to it some people are so attached to their nature in Sun scars because it’s been your companion your coping mechanism for births but there is nothing your original stage is way more powerful than the temporary set of Nature and sin
Scars you’ve adopted or habits you’ve adopted and I think when you the yogi that connects with Baba feels the strength of the deity nothing is impossible nothing okay I think we’ve gone over time a bit do you have an announcement to make okay Om Shanti thank you so much cop Ben for so
Much wisdom I know that personally I guess it’s the same for all of us uh listening to you at times I really felt strongly the presence of the daddies and now a couple of announcements indeed so I hope that the first timers who were here yesterday
With us are still in this room because again you are invited to come on the stage first timers please do come on the
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