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I’m going to be my own best friend controlling you say that you love me but you don’t your family told me one day I would see it on my own next thing I know I’m dealing with the three kids in my own love is so blind it feels right when it’s
Wrong now that it’s over stop calling me come up you no need to like you’re still with me all your homies know even your very best friend Tred to war me on the took me some time but now I am strong because I realiz got that’s all I got in that’s what I
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Friend all I got in what I found out and it ain’t no need to cry I now I’m going to be my own best friend controlling you say that you love me but you don’t your family told me one day I to te on my own
Next thing I know I’m dealing with the three kids in my home love it’s so blind it feels right when it’s wrong now that it’s stop calling me come pick up your clo no need to front like you’re still with me all your homies know even your very best friend tried to
Warn me on the took me some time but now I am strong because I realized got myself that’s all I got in end that’s what I found out and it ain’t no need to cry I took a v that from now on I’m going to be my own best friend myself
And I that’s all I got in the end that’s what I found out andin need to cry took now be my own Myself L yeah you H me but I learned a lot along the way after all the you see sing about Again I know that I never disappoint Myself good morning what the hell is going on what’s going on okay what’s going on we about to talk about your hood yeah the hood you be repping absolutely you know and I’m the Ops you are the Ops I invited the Ops here y’all shelle cherelle has always been anti-
Sisterhood and we need to figure this [ __ ] out first of all good morning people okay I’m here for a good time not a long time because I got a job too all right so I think I got like two hours I could be here and I didn’t get to go
Live last night so I wanted to come still do my Sisterhood show okay first of all let me say hi to some people in the chis Knack hi Terrence Wayne world what’s going on Black Zia is here he said this music don’t match the ratchetness that takes place here that’s
[ __ ] up Wayne’s World what about all the other stuff that takes place here way my child support send me my child support Wayne he owe you money thank you he owe me money he been ow good morning see oh my God this is like oh my God
This is like my dream Tri oh my God go God oh this is so wonderful so excited trying to I almost there’s so much ice I like slid out of the drive down the driveway are you okay no no no not I didn’t fall but I’m just say no I a’t
I’m not about to fall but it’s like so icy like if I just stand still I’ll slide all the way down the driveway it’s so can you just call out of work I don’t like this for you it’s dangerous and I don’t appreciate it nobody needs to be driving in that you
Need to call out okay keep them kids home and call the F out all right but okay since we’re here for a limited time I want to get straight to the topic right so I’m one of the people who are known around here for like being pro Sisterhood
Right and what I’ve come to realize is that might be a very naive way to think because the way I am where I’m like I want to speak for for women I want to defend women I’m on the team of women I notice that that energy is not
Reciprocated right um like women aren’t necessarily really supportive of each other like that not really having each other’s backs like that very like conniving jealous manipulative talk bad about you behind your back um they’ll switch up for you in a second when there’s a man involved I just I’m just
Wondering if it’s still worth me being pro Sisterhood when so many women have proven like they get intimidated very easily by other people’s success or even attention that you might get for the randomst thing will send that woman off into a freaking frenzy in her mind and
Now she you don’t know but she’s secretly in her mind and competition with you plotting against you I don’t know is it me I just I want to Charelle here because Charelle has always been anti- Sisterhood and I’ve been very much Pro Sisterhood but some of the things I’ve
Seen with women has me like questioning whether or not that’s a very naive way to think what do you guys think can you define The Sisterhood like what what what do you when you say Sisterhood what do you mean I just for me I feel like
It’s women who we don’t have to even necessarily be friends but we have good intentions for each other we we get we get information when it’s time for the right causes we’ll defend each other when it’s right we protect each other and support each other we ain’t got to
Be best friends but I think it’s just like a camaraderie of genuinely having good intentions for somebody and knowing how to be supportive when it’s time okay and I think I think I can agree with that like I think in this space this sister Sisterhood has a different connotation
And it’s more like I’m going to agree with you we I’m I got your back no matter what um right or wrong I’mma agree with you um and so I think that’s like why people detach from it I’m not in support of uh I’m not I’m not going
To support a whole group of anybody just because I know that humans can be flawed so but as a rule like before I like came to YouTube I very much feel like I’m in support of women I want to see I don’t believe in Mean Girls I’m not raising a mean girl I
Want to support people doing whether it’s your education whether it’s in parenting whether it’s emotional well-being if you going to lose weight and you’ve been losing weight for the past four years on the fifth year I’m going to still be there cheering with you right that’s how I believe I feel
Like if the if you need one person um I think something happened to your sound can you guys hear me being a sister yeah I can hear you I think her sound did go out just a little bit how do I sound cuz y’all know me I’m always the one with the m you you sound
Good right now chro what do you think about The Sisterhood first of all D sister is trash Oh my God um I think it’s fake um I’ve always seen it as fake it’s because like you know people what they say in the city girl song I will I will call a
Girl my sis and be [ __ ] on her [ __ ] like um I just always felt like it was fake cuz I know how women like just be messy I never wanted to be in like large groups of women because I just seen how like it could be messy and caddy and
Everybody got something to say behind somebody back or doing somebody wrong so like more of a line for me I feel like I’m just on the lines of like what’s good and what’s evil and understanding that majority of people are not good or evil they fall into the middle right I
Feel like to be a good person you have to be aware of what evil truly is and then choose to be a good person or whatever and to be truly evil you have to be aware of what a good person is and choose to be evil and then majority of
People are just like waiting somewhere in the middle or whatever so I’m more align with who’s good who intentions appear who’s the right person who’s trying to do the right thing and if it logically makes sense and if that means you got a XY chromosome or XX chromosome if you align
With the way that I think is logical or you can make it make sense for me or grow me or show me something then then I’m rooting for you I’m rooting for the positive I’m rooting for good people to win I’m rooting for you to do things the right
Way and whenn without having to put somebody else down and I feel like I never want to be a part of anything to where the moment I think differently even though we’re all autonomous beings and there’s nobody no matter how much we love people you know there’s nobody in
This world that we agree with on 100% everything so it’s like why would I want to be a part of a group the moment that I’m not group thinking or I want to think outside the box they’re going to attack me no and see this like
Sisterhood does so so this is where I disagree right cuz I’m very Pro Sisterhood you’re very anti- Sisterhood me and you are very good friends and real close in real life and we do not agree so I don’t think The Sisterhood means agree with everything I say cuz me
And you disagree all the time when you openly stand up and you disagree with a bunch of women watch how fast those women attack You yeah sorry my my sound went out can you say that last part again I was saying like when you openly stand up against something that the core audience of The Sisterhood agrees with now you see me and you we just have a different level of thinking and you’re my friend
So we may have a difference of opinions and go back and forth and be able to still be respectful because we value each other but if you’re just to stand up in front of a bunch of women who not know you that you want to support just because they’re female and you think
Something different than what they think like go go if you feel like uh sexy red is a a degenerate if you say that in front The Sisterhood they’ll clown you who the yeah I would never clown you for that or even if if you don’t say her
Specifically if you just say this the modern time music like though that it’s not a good example if you if you speak against whole culture in general if you speak against whole culture if you’re just a good person and good principles like there’s a bunch of people who are
Christian who get attacked because of their beliefs yeah they’re standing in front of the wrong group of women it’s like yeah the moment you disagree with The Sisterhood they’re on attack mode or if you just don’t happen to agree with a man because that’s the worst thing you
Could ever do is agree with a man or have a thought from a man these same women who supposed to be your sisters will attack you and they’ll attack you in ways that hit lower than where the opposition and do they’ll you know they’ll attack you your family your
Character your kids like they’ll they’ll go low and it’s like what your my sister these are the same women that are smiling your face and then try to jump in your man DMS but you’re my sister because every man we we all talk about men cheating but who they cheating with
Exactly other women my sister this is what made me want to um have this conversation CU I was thinking like the way I’m set up as a friend I know how to be happy for you even if my situation isn’t the best right now I know how to
Separate myself I know how to uh genuinely play my role I understand I don’t have to be the star of every show I’m not in no secret competition with my friends I’m not you know what I’m saying like I I I had to understand that even
Though I come to the table like that a lot of these female relationships that’s not how they’re coming to the table at all and so it’s kind of like a rud Awakening where on the one hand I have to support women because I’m a woman and I do believe nobody understands us and
Our plight better than us right so I have compassion for women and maybe somewh even a bias right but what I’m starting to understand is them saying women will turn on me for something as simple as some attention of a man they might not even meet in real life like
Them women will turn on you for any these women will be jealous of you over something as dumb as a [ __ ] YouTube CH like I just I’m starting to understand um they they’ll go behind the scenes and and tell people lies about you try to turn people against you paint narratives like
The things I’ve seen at as of lately is really shocking to me but it’s making me revisit this whole Sisterhood [ __ ] because it’s like I can’t be the only naive one thinking it’s all about you know women support and women empowerment and these people are really [ __ ]
Up so but Venus I think and I think that’s where the difference is is you don’t just automatically get into the a legitimate Sisterhood it’s not just uh we just meet you and now you’re part of The Sisterhood no like they’re still governing um they’re still governing
Rules for whoever you decide to have in your circle so like the behavior that you’re describing to me if they wouldn’t be a part of your Sisterhood and in and like this I’m speaking as what my understanding of it was like support um it the way that you just described
Yourself if people don’t meet that same standard then they shouldn’t be a part and that’s not what that’s like not at all in this space like what a Sisterhood is just like Charelle said if you say you know um and that was something that you know your your husband didn’t like
This thing and so you made that change oh mamy you know male identified and that’s why you know like all this kind of stuff and it is it’s very antagonistic and it doesn’t leave room for there to um be camaraderie which for some people I I I understand that could
Be a problem and then for other people you’re like it doesn’t really affect my life so I don’t care what other people say but I think you have to you have to strike up that balance because like Charelle said you can say something that is just principled that’s it it’s just
Principled and you’ll be attacked for it and you either have to decide you know and that’s kind of where I decided like in my real life the things that I speak about the things that I’ve experienced they’re for the good and I think that um there’s there’s nothing that can change
My mind about that I’m also open to hearing other people’s perspectives but um at the end of the day it it doesn’t really change your it doesn’t really change my stance one way or the other and somebody mentioned support like what is support to me support is being there for a person in
The way that is best for them the way that’s needed and I’ve talked about that before when I have my children I’ve had you know my friends cook food for you for months crockpot meals freezer meals they drop food off they come to your house they do laundry they clean they
Help you with your children like I have friends that when they’re you know someone dies we create whole we do their repasses for them we cook for their families we uh we take care of each other’s children like my friend just had a baby and she’s full-time enrolled in
School we’re all going to be there taking turns to help support their family car car pooling whatever it is that they need and at the same time we also put judgment on one another if you’re doing something you know in your home that’s not um conducive to to to
The furtherance of your family we’re going to pull each other like you know do you think that was the best way to respond do you think that was like um the best solution and we’ll we’ll talk those kind of things out so we hold judgment on one
Another as the same way that we encourage one another so um I I what I experien in real life and what I would like to see happen more here but I don’t know if that’s even achievable or attainable I don’t know but that’s why I don’t identify with The
Sisterhood because it’s not what it’s not what I deem a true Sisterhood and you know what I’m not one of those people who feel like I need to be like Oh The Sisterhood this The Sisterhood that like when I came up in ranks of being who I am in this space it was
Never about attacking women and I and I I would I didn’t I never wanted to even disagree with wom my protection of The Sisterhood is just to be like I’m not GNA involve myself with it or whatever and if I felt like the men I even like
Make safe spaces for men to feel like because I’m not Sisterhood that they could come around me and talk down on women and that be the perfect trap for me to roll them out cuz I got just as much stats and facts on men and how
Y’all ain’t nothing okay so it’s like my thing about it is is this it’s just that I’m like a person of Truth and I feel like this I feel like if you can’t tell me the truth you don’t love me if you can’t make me aware you don’t love me so
If I if if you have to agree with me just because I’m a woman and that means you can’t correct me that mean you’ll let me go off a cliff and I think a lot of times because women feel like oh I love you and I don’t want to go against
My S right or wrong I’m rocking with you it’s like we’ll Rock clean off the boat we will rock clean off a cliff and I’m not willing to go down with the ship just to say you know you love me don’t don’t have me going out sad like be able
To stop me and correct me and stuff like that or whatever and just tell me right from wrong and and sometimes you need to build my awareness cuz I don’t see it the way you see it and I can accept different perspectives from you or
Whatever but if if if it always has to be the male is the opposition and then it’s like I don’t I never I grew up with my father my daddy loved me there’s nobody in this world that loves me more than my daddy and then when I think
About the people who love me right after my daddy is my brothers and then my cousins and then I got a bunch of male friends so I don’t have this and and like me and my exes don’t have like this contentment I don’t have a lot of exes but me and my
Exes you know we don’t have a lot of bad blood or whatever it’s just things that were we were young and immature and things didn’t work out or whatever but it’s like this my support system and my love has came from men so I would never
Look at men as a overall opposition or just my Ops because I know that men do bad things cuz I think a lot of times women put themselves in in in messed up situations I feel like I have I feel like I wasn’t who I needed to be and
Things didn’t work out and I feel like I need to be aware on all fronts of whatever so anything that keeps me sleep anything that’s keeping me unaware anything that’s telling me I’m right even when I’m wrong just to feel some sense of connection I just feel like I
Can’t be up with that and I think that’s what The Sisterhood represents so let me speak on that cuz I see a lot of um I think somebody else wrote in the chat too I mean I can’t speak for a group of people I can only speak from my
Perspective right and so for me to have Sisterhood and camaraderie with me you do not have to agree with everything I say you do not have to condone [ __ ] if you don’t want to but I do feel um it’s a thin line right because sometimes my issue when I have like with other
Women usually that at the core it’s a man somehow some way it’s a man’s attention it’s a man’s approval it’s something that they want and they’re going against me for whether they admit it or not but I’ve kind of sat here and really thought this through and that’s
What it is like like a lot of times like Flora wrote in the chat even um the men are smart enough to weaponize women against each other and I personally I just don’t respect women who fall for that [ __ ] right so men will go tell Charelle something about Venus like
Plant a seed in chelle’s head about me that may not even be true and let’s say Charelle just happens to like this man or not you let me not use you but let’s say the woman likes this man or wants his attention he’s smart enough to understand that about you now he done
Weaponized you for his entertainment right now you got an issue with me somebody who ain’t thinking about you and ain’t got no issue with you or for this man like I I just seen [ __ ] like that happen in real time and it’s like what the [ __ ] so like some of the
Stuff the people I don’t like I don’t like women women who sacrifice other women for the male gays let me put it that way like I think that [ __ ] is so pathetic like if somebody likes you they need to genuinely like you you shouldn’t have to [ __ ] on the next person for their
Attention and if somebody has to come to you to plant seeds of negativity to weaponize you and use you like a puppet you should have an issue with that and if you have an issue with me or any woman you need to have your own issue
Like Let It Be a legitimate issue a lot of times I find like I said it’s a men at the center of it or not even that they did something wanting the attention of a man wanting the approval of a man wanting the male gaze like these uh you
Ever been friends with somebody for a long time been there with them through a whole bunch of stuff and the minute they get a man in their life is like [ __ ] you like I just realized like I don’t know about this Sisterhood [ __ ] no more because I’ve learned like women are
Really not right but you know what I think that’s RSE Sisterhood too right I think that I find it problematic that every time a woman has a different stand she has to be brainwashed by men or every time a woman has a different POV she can’t get that from her like women
Can’t naturally be logical like their logic has to come from a man and then my thing is also it’s like um like I know me and my like at the honeymoon I know you talking about the honeymoon stage or the honeymoon phase of relationships like I feel like my
Core friendship was three girls all three of us when we met we was all single we was together all the time we was rocking all the time and then all three of us just so happy to like get in relationships or whatever and we wasn’t with each other all the time but it
Never became problematic for us because we were always forward thinking like I want my friend to be happy and I want her to enjoy her her honeymoon face her honeymoon time to where she’s like you know my man my man my man because it’s like first of all certain things your
Man could do for you that your woman your girlfriends can’t do for you so if y’all makeing up for doing all of that you know you might not have time for your friends like that so I don’t see a I don’t I never saw a problem with that
Like my my friend I see a problem with it because let’s be honest if you look around and most of your friends are not married that means most of them relationships were failing right and so it gets annoying like when I’m in a relationship I can’t be all the time but
I make time for the people who were in my life before this stranger got here I don’t just do away with the people who been here with me all this time for this new person I I personally I don’t respect it I don’t understand it I don’t
Do it I I’ve never given women a pass for that [ __ ] I don’t like that [ __ ] I don’t do that to people even if I only could see y’all on Saturday but I’mma make sure I see I’mma make some time for the people who are here with me CU what
Always happens as soon as those relationships fail who do they come crawling back to now they want you to have all this time and attention for them because they’re going through something but [ __ ] I’ve been going through [ __ ] and you wouldn’t give a [ __ ] cuz you was over there that’s like
Saying that’s like saying you my friend who I used to catch rides with you to work and now I got a car and I be driving in my own car so we don’t spend that much time together now I don’t think it’s like that because even if I
Meet my husband tomorrow if if I meet a man tomorrow and that man is supposed to be my husband me and that man are going to be one that’s a that’s a level of position that a woman will never have in my life she’s never going to she’s never
Going to become she’s there’s no possibility that my best friend is going to become one with me no possibility I will ever marry her no possibility I will ever become kids and and and and merge my DNA with her and spend the rest of my life with her and have Legacy and
Bloodline so if people were marrying y’all I might respect that but the the issue is these [ __ ] are not so it’s like over and over and over you watch your friends do the thing just because people going into situation where if most people they just going
Into it like you want to be married if things don’t just because things don’t work out don’t mean your intentions wasn’t going in it trying for it to work out so just so we on the same page I understand the honeymoon phase right I we all go through it again I’m not I’m
Not describing that I understand that I think there’s a there’s just a level of certain women become so consumed with whoever this new person is that they forget about everybody family friends like they just disappear and it’s like sometimes I think that could be dangerous cuz I think some men want to
Isolate women from their friends and their family and I think that that’s a red flag like I think if a man wants to isolate you from your friends and your family and everybody you know and everybody you love he’s probably trying to abuse you by the time he gets you
Alone or whatever so I think that that’s a red flag or whatever but no I just mean like in the beginning you might want to be on dates with them or anything like that but I mean if a man is really trying to marry you and become
A part of your life he’s most likely trying to get to know your friends and know your family and be acquainted with your family and your friends and how your life works and having you be in his life in the same way if he’s really trying to take you seriously he’s not
Necessarily just trying to isolate you or keep you a secret in the closet or anything like that so I don’t know like that that idea of what you’re saying to where a woman is disappearing from the face of the Earth to be with a man I
Think that’s like a red flag and it’s probably leading somewhere where he can abuse her and then the people that she love will already feel neglected so they won’t be willing to come to her Aid what’s up scam I’m sorry I didn’t get scam in scam you have something on
The topic this a Womanhood scam I know right hey what’s going on um hello scammer I was just going to say it’s not a Sisterhood there’s no men’s Hood it’s just the duster Hood there good people and bad people regardless of gender race all that other kind of stuff I already
Said that um people people have unrealistic expectations starting in the mirror um people are negative and people are selfish just been like this way since the beginning of time um loyalty is to be tested and most people and a lot of people fail and you’ll see all the time all the
Time um let’s be real you know these behaviors before they happen you know who people are you can tell through conversation this person if your friend is coming to you about three people they greased in in last five years it’s a matter of time before they grease you
Next yeah but any any relationship with any person throw money throw vagina throw some Sour penis or whatever it is sister it’s always sour some defective meat Johnny who can’t even rub the meat around the edges a stroking it right and y’all over there fighting let’s be
Real but um or throw some likes super chats or whatever y’all they fight over um in these spaces but people want what they want they want to believe what they want to believe and the biggest felony of all especially in these spaces is not telling people what they
Want to hear when they want to hear it that’s a felony me personally so Sisterhood is in recruited males it’s called red pill it’s the same behavior stupid I was good I was cool if I talk about the nation of wigl the first thing I say something
About the men’s or a woman comes on a pan and I say good morning oh simp bet Russell Wilson BL dere you better not like you better not find a woman you like and you actually start treating her well now why you like in being and you’re being polite to her
Why do you respect love see you respect shelle oh oh now you can’t do that I can’t even say good morning I’m supposed to be m s don’t call no woman beautiful no can’t do that’s red can’t do it that’s what I’m talking about when I
When you click up with teams that’s too far left baby it just be like yeah there’s no Brotherhood there’s no Sisterhood people are I believe I’m going to build my own Sisterhood but the the requirements are going to be [ __ ] topnotch all you hoes getting people are individuals what
Look at the [ __ ] the S The Sisterhood ain’t [ __ ] so most part let’s hear it why uh your said [ __ ] The Sisterhood and um okay okay okay your microph is damaging your internet your microphone’s going in and out auntie yeah The Sisterhood got a hold your internet they they weren’t appreciate what you
Said okay can you hello we should be getting now we should be getting now so tell us why The Sisterhood ain’t [ __ ] hear it yes yeah um yeah The Sisterhood ain’t [ __ ] because The Sisterhood ain’t [ __ ] uh y’all saw the the uh the graphic and what I pretty mean what I pretty much
Mean is it’s it’s it’s fictitious like there’s no with the exception of that last thing which is just blame him for all of it it really isn’t much of a Sisterhood because just like y’all was saying earlier for the most part you know what I’m saying a lot of women are
Going to be competing with each other for the same thing um misery is just G to love company so as far as that whole men trying to isolate women I get it there are some men out there that will try to isolate a woman from other women
But you rarely hear a woman that’s already got a man talking about oh well that dude got with her and now she he’s isolating her from the rest of us you know what I’m saying she understands cuz she spending her time with her man and y’all would never y y’all would rarely
Hear that from a dude you know what I’m saying talking about yeah she trying to isolate me from everybody even though it happens you know what I’m saying it it just wouldn’t happen at all so it’s more of just a misery loves company thing but to blame a man for um weaponizing women
Against each other when we’ve seen it we’ve seen it multiple times not just in these spaces we’ve seen it in real life we don’t heard the stories from previous generations um that’s just you know what I’m saying that that that’s what it is you know I’m say a lot of these women
Just don’t don’t even get along with each other I’m saying blame for naturally naturally don’t get along with each other I don’t I don’t yeah I just want to say this part I don’t disagree with anything you said except for uh some men do weaponize women against each
Other and they do it more often than you think just because you don’t you may not be privy to the um little conniving ways that men have done it to me like uh like if you randomly right start telling me something negative about someone that we know mutually but you’re you’re you’re
Putting it in a way where it almost to make me look at them in a bad light what is your intention what are you trying to do so can I respond to i i before you go love see um I’m not I I I got a few
Things to do but I get what she’s saying there there are some dudes that that will get messy like that um but for the most part you know what I’m saying most dudes will rather watch damn boxing or football or basketball or something we really want to watch a competition
Watching women fight don’t give a damn about that that’s something that women were already doing any damn way no listen it’s to fight it’d be what I figured out with some of these men sometimes it’s because he wants to keep y’all as far apart as possible cuz he’s
Really trying to sleep with both of y’all you know what I’m saying like they be having their own reasons for why they’re like secretly trying to turn women against each other or or they’re both trying to sleep with him but then why turn one against the other which is why they’re against each
Other he don’t have to turned them against each other they was already friends why ain’t they sharing I think everybody just hates Shar The Sisterhood why ain’t they sharing to it so so so part part of why I kind of wanted to have this conversation with women
Because I already knew that like there’s just a certain level of understanding y’all are not going to have because you really think you know more than you know let me tell y’all something the way your your uh the way your male friends show up to you is not the same way they show
Up to us so what you think you know and how they move to a certain regard is very limited the same way the experience I might have with shirel is going to be completely different than the experience you had if you were dating her so you
Trying to tell me what these men be doing is if you be there like I I’ve been a victim of it all right I’ve seen it you know what I’m saying these women will go after each other with a Vengeance and a brute force all for the
Same thing either for the same dude or for the same attention from the same group of dudes or whatever the case may be expose themselves and then blame the dude for everything they just did okay and say he weaponized us no you did what you wanted to do because you wanted to
Do it it ain’t somebody else’s fault because of what you did don’t blame a dude for weaponizing y’all against each other when you didn’t like each other in the first place you was both fighting over the same damn dude okay you don’t want to share like that that is what it
Is uh again I think that could be true sometimes but sometimes people absolutely you act like people can’t be manipulated Auntie it happens all the time people people manipulate people people know how to get close to you right and people accountability for their own actions too let me finish
People know how to get close to you understand your insecurities understand your vulnerabilities and your weaknesses use them against you and and manipul people not like why are we pretending like that’s not possible it happens uh Venus yeah uh what makes you assume that just because we’re
Menses well I’ll just say I’m an individual that we haven’t seen this repeatedly well his his his perspective for one with everything he’s saying when not his perspective is his perspective I’m just saying just in general well I was talking to him I was just responding to him
I’m talking in general because you was just saying men you were pretty much saying men almost like men don’t see how it is and know how it is well if they did they wouldn’t be speaking the way Auntie is speaking period no aunti is atie men’s or men’s
Is I’m not necessarily a full representative of the men’s is but I’m just saying some I’ve seen this Behavior repeated rep men’s women’s side the men and women’s seen it repeatedly since middle and high school it’s the same thing Behavior’s Behavior so let me let me say this I
Don’t want to take responsibility off of women like I started the show saying I’ve seen women all on their own just so we’re clear um just do [ __ ] up [ __ ] they’re they’re insecure they’re jealous they are very competitive very conniving very sneaky so to his point when he said
Y’all didn’t like each other anyway I get that what I’m also speaking to though is there are certain times when there is a man behind that [ __ ] I’m not saying every time because it’s not every time but but there are times right so I’m I was really just speaking to both
No that I won’t disagree with v yeah that’s that I’m not going to disagree with let me just say as men we we done been in that situation where there’s been a woman that done tried to put us in the fights against other dudes and we
Know better it’s like come on I’m not about to fight this dude over you my issue you I’m saying like try like we just ain’t even going to fall for that cuz we know we know the game you don’t getting no attention from any dudes to now trying to get attention from two
Dudes by making them fight with each other try again haha whatever I have that I have that same ability when it when it comes to women or whatever just like I know you can you can kind of see the play when it’s time for a man to weaponize a woman against a
Woman or whatever and some women always fall for the trick bag and just like go straight to to attacking women for other women and it’s like I’ve I’ve had people who think like oh I can I remember I used to have a beef with this girl named K or whatever
And I had like roll cor out and like she got she’s exactly what I’m talking about she blame a dude for that wait wait hold on hold on hold on hold on wait sh sh hold on see ancy this is the issue you don’t even know the
Situation how do you know a man ain’t the C she you just said [ __ ] that [ __ ] andame hold on do you know why do you know where charella is even going hey if it’s [ __ ] that [ __ ] then just [ __ ] that [ __ ] what’s I got to do with the dude
Go oh no what I was saying is just that like me and her had our own disagreements or whatever and we had our own back and forth from just like her being slick and always saying some dumb [ __ ] or trying to say some smart [ __ ] or
Whatever and like I just have to let her know because a lot of times like I said in the beginning I never used to want to get into it with women or whatever but after somebody seeing me go off on her they wound up getting into it with
Her later and then they was just like don’t make me call Charelle CUA I’ll get Charelle you ain’t gonna get Charelle to do a [ __ ] thing and that’s what that’s that’s a lot of times which is crazy because when I came in this space I never was
Sisterhood so a lot of the girls especially the the ones we would say like are the good girls girls or the pikm they never like me right but the moment that they they they logic and their mindset didn’t match up with what the men wanted them to say and do it
Didn’t match up with their nice sounding voices and the men decided to attack them oh now they want to call the only can deal the only woman that they feel like can deal with the men now it’s shelle come on the panel and save us all
Y’all going to die and that’s what my my stance was was like I’m not pro man I’m not pro woman I’m Pro if you play with me you going to get these you going to get this work because don’t weapon you you’re not going to weaponize me against
Nobody if somebody got an issue with me they got an issue with me I’mma defend who I want to defend when I want to do it but nobody gets to sick me on anybody I’m not your pit I ain’t no pit Bo I ain’t no type of animal that you think
You could just sick me on somebody you can’t sick me on nobody what do you think this is thank you let me let me get Sean in here Sean what do you what do you think about The Sisterhood or lack thereof or what hey SE what’s up y’all how y’all doing I
Think the first thing is I agree with what what Charelle just said I ultimately it’s on the person nobody can weaponize me against anybody there’s nothing you can say to me that’s gon to make me crash out in a way that I wasn’t G to crash out anyway I think that’s
What a was was alluding to thank you Sean no because you know what and here’s a prime example the problem is wait hold on hold on Sean AE is not a woman and this is my issue that’s why I’m kind of like maybe I shouldn’t have cuz yeah
You’re to agree with him cuz you’re a man y’all not going to understand that women can be [ __ ] manipulated that they just can they do but but but a woman like Charelle can’t be manipulated right that’s a real woman right there you can’t be manipulated what I’m saying my thing is
Not man or woman my thing is in general ain’t nobody gonna put no battery in my back I made it out the hood without [ __ ] putting a battery in my back my bad lovec can’t be manipulated I know I cut her off earlier I’m not even talking
About women I’m talking about in en like this ain’t no I I don’t think this gender specific but just period ain’t nobody putting no battery in my back it’s not it’s not even going to happen like that so I you know um so say for
Instance uh I gotta say his name uh M Mr long people weaponize him all the time now he weaponizes himself but people weaponize him all the time and try to get him like like like uh you know they’ll be group chats and they like hey
Mr long you go and go at this person and he’ll do it because he he he He he’ll crash out you can’t do that to me I don’t care if you’re a man woman or whatever the situation is um the other thing is I think I think sister hoods do
Exist I really do I I think um it depends it depends on your situation you know me being in the fraternity and seeing women in sororities that get along perfect they like sisters you know what I’m saying me me having fraternity brothers that became my best friends
That I’m closer than than my my own Brothers I’m bringing men into this because I don’t think it’s just gender specific but in terms of sister hoods yeah on some hood [ __ ] when we young yeah that [ __ ] that [ __ ] gets a little bit sketchy and then some people are
More contention in other people some people really just are about drama and some people make are it’s hard for them to get along with people in general but yeah they are [ __ ] so many sister hoods is there one big ass Sisterhood no because there’s not one big ass nothing Hood like to dusto
Point yeah we are a bunch of individuals and it’s pretty much a zoo with the cages wide open is what it’s become and if you go all the way back and back and back in beginning of time and all whatever people have still always been out for self and just have to survive
During whatever times it is yeah and you see the behavior once people get opportunity or once something’s thrown in front of them it could be a vagina it could be $5 it could be a Super Chat they’re gonna be who they are and show who they are some pass the test a lot
Fail and it just is what it is men’s and women’s love see were you going to say something cuz I wanted to get into um cuz I don’t want to get this really wasn’t about men or men versus but men don’t that that’s not what this conversation was supposed to be I’m
Addressing The Sisterhood and my issu with themy and I and before love seos um I don’t I don’t want to um make it seem like I’m disagreeing because I don’t want to make it a man versus woman thing that that’s that’s not what it is um I
Believe that The Sisterhood for the most part most of those women that are involved in the quote unquote Sisterhood really just they want the same thing they don’t like each other don’t really get along with each other but the way where that Sisterhood code comes from is
The whole blame a dude for all of it just blame a dude for all of it none of it’s your fault none of what you do is your fault n like like don’t take accountability for a damn thing it’s only because some dude weaponized y’all well we yeah you both like them that’s
Not y fault that’s his fault too you know what I’m saying everything’s his fault you know what I’m saying and at some point you got to take accountability for what you do if y’all drag and destroy each other you knew better you just chose to do that I
Wasn’t trying to make it men’s and women’s I was just saying behavior is behavior wait let me address them because I don’t know where the misunderstanding is happening so I’m G say it for the third time I’ve started the show blaming women for the [ __ ] they
Do I don’t know why you’re like only focusing on the part where I mentioned men having a part in their motivation when I’ve said already yes some of these women there is no man motivating that [ __ ] they’re just nasty I’ve said that but you’re acknowledging the part about
Men and now it’s BEC coming up but men don’t do this but nobody can like this ain’t about what men do yeah CU men don’t weaponize women against each other we can’t they absolutely do though would you allow yourself to become a weapon it’s not about me
Personally and what I I don’t represent Every Woman um well I plead guilty I was the one who brought up the Menses but it wasn’t to make it a men’s versus women’s and look at the men the it wasn’t that it was just keeps Universal no an keeps
Framing the conversation like well no but nobody can’t do that to a man and a man and a man it’s like I’m talking about saying you can avoid it you can avoid being weaponized you can avoid being a weapon because you’re not a weapon you’re a human but people do weaponize people against
People every time but this the thing because because wait because it’s in a situation where I get into it with a man he going to tell me I’m going to call my cousin to whoop your ass I’m go call my sister I’m about to go call my baby mama
And now your baby mama about to come get her ass dragged now you about to get this lady beat up because you won’t get smart with me but you going to go get your woman and how many men have went out there and got their their heads
Blown off because they sister or their cousin or their baby mom then called them to come fight some [ __ ] that they didn’t got to with at the store that they don’t know he got he got something on him and he ready to blast anything
Pulling up I lost a friend from i l men can’t be weaponized according to an when men can’t be to be honest no I’ll be real with you no they can’t finish I lost I lost somebody I knew from elementary school her name was Yanni she
Was a 22y old mother to a three-year-old girl who got up out her bed at 3:00 a.m. in the morning to go fight for somebody and they trying to go out there to be weaponized to go out there and fight and defend somebody she got there
And the moment she pulled up she got shot in her head and died on the scene so trust me people lose their lives because somebody trying to weaponize them all the time now you what you have to do is not fall into that trick bag and let nobody manipulate you into being
There but people get yes people get manipulated all the time it it ain’t just our it ain’t just a man doing it to women it ain’t just women doing it to men men do it to other men women do it to other women family members do it
Friends do it all the time they have you standing on the front lines for them willing to die for them over a calls that ain’t even much that important how many times have you went out there to swing for the back because oh you know what love see is my friend and she’s
Into it with somebody so I’m jumping out there and then guess what love see go around and then she make up with scam but now me and scam got beef because I jumped out there because him and love see was having a different yep it happens all the time I think that’s what
Makes it that’s what makes that’s what the the real Sisterhood is the real Sisterhood is when somebody when if a if if if a man comes to me and starts to try to drop things to me about Charelle there it’s a real easy way to nip that
In the bud one why are you talking to me about her that I don’t care what it is that you have to say that that’s that’s my friend or I’m a I’m I I’m offended that you even came to talk to me I don’t know what made you think that was okay
But I’m not about to have this conversation with you and I’m going let shelle know that this is how you really feel just in case you try to spin the block on something different it’s a way that you stay out of I’ve had people say things to me about other people and like
I said that’s why I think it’s important to find the positive in people so that then you can always rebut them with something to let them know hey I’m not your trash can you’re not about to come dump on me if you got a problem with
Them go say it to their face if you can’t say it to their face I’m not your garbage can go keep that to yourself that’s The Sisterhood and I’m going to come and tell you just so you know and people be like well you shouldn’t do
That because but you got learn how to move you have to know how to go in and out amongst people and be able to not be not be um afraid to say what needs to be said and not want the admiration of other people so much that you that you
Crumble on your PR have a principle and have a standard and then stand on it and don’t crumble just because he kind of like you got to call at you gotta you got to be able to call at something else because it be women who be full-fledged Sisterhood who laying down with [ __ ]
While they talking about the friends talking about females they deal with but they Sisterhood you sitting there like it ain’t even attractive for a man to come and tell me all your ex business why you telling me your girl business why you telling me your friends business
Why you why you telling people business behind their back why it’s always got every time we talk it got to be about some you woman to try to make me feel like I don’t understand that how is that Sisterhood and then now you now you walking around feeling like you got one
On another woman that you don’t even know that never did nothing to you never to be conf you don’t have to be confrontational like if somebody was to come and be like hey you know Venus man she she’d be on here capping and all this kind of stuff oh yeah what’s going
On with you what you got going on talk about yourself like small people sit up and talk about other people what do you have going on in your life if you don’t have anything going on then we don’t have a conversation to be had you can ask
Please do not come at me he said she said cuz I’mma put all y’all in the Stream yard everybody who said who said what I promise you I’m I’m not playing I am not playing no he say she say games with you if you ask any of my friends
They be like shelle always talk about herself the boys call me a narciss they be like all you do is talk about yourself just you you you I rather talk about me then be talking about other people business cuz that is miserable I don’t know nobody else who else I’mma talk about
I know me well you know what said about you yesterday oh man’s says you know the lovely thing about Chelle cuz that has been tried too like y’all think I’m saying this [ __ ] cuz it’s fun there’s a lot of things I could say but I’m not going to say
Nobody can’t go tell Charelle [ __ ] that Venus said that Venus ain’t say to her oh oh oh that [ __ ] happens trust me and she ain’t the only person they do it to I just don’t say [ __ ] but again iin having this for no reason like I [ __ ] said men absolutely do shady
Ass [ __ ] behind women’s backs trying to turn each other against each other and no man is gonna come up here and tell me different when it’s my real [ __ ] life I’m sorry I know need to fight it out I’m not look about just it be just to cause confusion it just to cause
Confusion because it’s like because I think this I think honestly some women depending on how they feel about a man may feel have may have insecurities about women being around other women because I I’ve always worked in the male dominated industry I’ve always been a a GU girl I grew up
With the boys I got I got 20 boy cousins 20 boy cousins first cousins all 20 of them they all boys I grew up with the boys I grew up wrestling I’ve always been closer with fitting in with the boys than the girls trust me when women
I could I’ve had women be jealous of me from being close to my cousins cuz they didn’t know what that I was their cousin or being close to my nephews because they like my nephews and I wanted to you know what I’m saying they thinking that it’s something that it’s not and my
Whole thing is just that men then start to feel like they have to make the woman that they around comfortable by putting other women down or to make them feel secure and baby you don’t got to do all that like I’m not jealous of no placement in my life no placement if
That’s your if that’s what y’all got going that’s what y’all got going he don’t got to talk about me like I don’t know man you hear what what you said about your granddaddy last week oh man but this my but this my thing and you gonna have to tell me why
You so comfortable telling why they were so comfortable talking [ __ ] about me to you why why are people so comfortable going to Venus why do you feel like first of all nobody want to tell me nothing about my friends not even my friends and my friends will tell you
That because I’m going straight into Super Duper defense mode don’t tell me nothing about my friends cuz you don’t ever feel comfortable talking [ __ ] about my friends not to me because then I’m going to get a defense mode so this my whole thing why do somebody feel so comfortable dragging dragging me to
You why I’m oh I’m always the draggie by the time I found out about it it’s because a woman is telling me some [ __ ] a [ __ ] said like and again it it’s more than why you didn’t V tell me it’s always when they mad right because it
Was a year ago when Venus was talking [ __ ] about me but now that you don’t like is you want to call me with some old year some last year [ __ ] you should have called me last year get the my face cuz that mean you a dog that got a bone Barry
One okay deep town did you have something before I know NC was trying to say something and then I was trying to get into my article um dwn you have something yeah good morning good morning now I just say listen I ain’t trying to interrupt your show go keep doing when I
Got something important to say I see it yeah that’s me that’s trying to interrupt your show yeah scam is really not the time cuz you still you’re doing good so go ahead and get into your article I’m just trying I’m just hopping in V good morning like I’m really trying
To have a conversation right now yeah that’s this so you know I love you but I’m not like you know trying to like hash this out for real so Anie you have something else an okay I don’t know where he went Sean lovey I just wanted to make sure
Everybody spoke before I got to the article did I have anything else to say can y’all hear her Sean said no everybody so quiet no I can hear y’all can hear me yeah yes what’s up sh what’s up yeah I can hear you but I don’t have anything
To say I had set my phone down go ahead okay so to get back on topic cuz I was addressing my issue with women um I had an article that I thought pointed to some of the motivations behind why women treat other women the way they do right
Outside of men and um this is from Psychology today and I wanted to know if you guys agreed or disagree with this and it says why are some women nasty to other women and um they have like essentially three main reasons women are nasty to other women
The first one was because they project their unwanted Parts on to other women especially Their Fear Envy jealousy suspicion resentment rage anxiety or lack of self-esteem and confidence do y’all agree with that agree I agree definitely definitely fear like the Venus is saying I want to start a
Business D if that person person feels inadequate instead of saying you can do it girl you can do whatever you put your mind to I’ll help you I’ll go to the website and go find like let me tell you love see when you want to talk when you
Want something done in your life business-wise you call love Ste and tell her you got an idea and by the time you get off the phone she have been drafted your LLC opened you a bank account listen listen I promise you pray to God that your business work already
Purchased your purchased your product that you ain’t even create yet that’s that’s the that’s the love you get from love see whatever you don’t know she on Google she you like you ever heard of you ever heard of how to open up with this business she like no but I’m about
To find out right now and now you know all the information on how to open it she didn’t went to the she drove to the library while y’all was talking about it she didn’t drafted up documents she had the lawyer off listen but then the ones that feel inadequate the ones who don’t
Feel confident they gonna say girl why you want to do that you know most businesses fail girl don’t you got enough on your plate girl you don’t even know what you you ain’t never even dealt with that before youve been a nurse all this time and now you want to now you
Want to do hair why would you want to do that that ain’t goingon to make no money you remember Kea business fell I ain’t Kea I ain’t Kea but you know what I’m saying so it I I see that all the time it it be within
Them and they’ll just project that on to you like the M if if a woman let’s say a woman have a bad like she never had a good man in her life she Ain never been with a man that treated her right told her nice things treated her well did
Anything for her and then her friend get a man that’s good girl that [ __ ] GNA cheat anyway they all cheat they all lie girl just do that [ __ ] out oh he love boming you it’s never going to be anything positive because all people want to do is Project what they feel and
What they’ve been through on to you and that that’s not how to be a good friend that’s just that’s just m CU misery love company is what it is you speaking to this what they say projecting their unwanted Parts on you right like you have a lack of self-esteem or lack of
Confidence issue and so now you’re projecting out on the next person you don’t have the confidence to run a business and completely change your career so you’re going to tell me I can’t do it right you don’t think that men will be faithful to you so now
You’re going to tell me they won’t be faithful to me right it is a lot of projection with women that goes on um so I mean I ain’t see no lies told here so the other thing was because they can get away with it as a sport fun fasia to
Boredom delight and spite or because their lack of curiosity tolerance of different suggest that they probably don’t like people anyway this is so true as a sport for fun just cuz they’re bored because they can get away with it right these are like the Mean Girls yes
Oh look at us was about to was about the Jinx about to say at the same time hello we on the same page period so there’s the people who project and then we have the mean girls who just do it for fun apparently that’s what they’re saying
Here like just because they can and it says they lack curiosity or tolerance of different suggest they probably don’t like people anyway so anything different than themselves you ever seen somebody tell you they don’t like a person and then you be like why and they like I
Don’t know I just don’t like them like they don’t even [ __ ] know why they don’t like you but it’s just because you’re different and they don’t understand different and they you automatically go into the negative box so this is this is something one thing that they said the lack of
Curiosity um so that’s something that I’ve seen a lot of time people who don’t expand their Horizons beyond what they know and then you might meet someone who’s speaking about something that you don’t know anything about and instead of wanting to gain more you know knowledge of that something different you dismiss
That person and what they’re doing like what the the need for it and the hatred comes from a place where you’re not willing to expand your own Horizons you’re not willing to listen to opposing you know opinions you’re not willing to have your own beliefs and ideas
Challenged and so you say stagnant and while other people are growing because you’re not willing to do the work you have to do things and say things that are disparaging towards them to help yourself feel better about the fact that you’re doing nothing m H anybody else okay I’ll keep
Reading because they don’t have interpersonal and intrapersonal communication skills to recognize or alter their behavior with nasty women is usually their unconscious fear or need for control being triggered by new staff members so this was about in a work area workplace but this can be applied anywhere so yeah it’s usually there
Unconscious fear or need need to control being triggered by the new staff member or the different woman at work who threatens them so they’re threatened by you just because they have an unconscious fear or need to control every [ __ ] thing and now you represent some type of disruption in an
Imaginary scenario where they control everything cuz you really don’t control [ __ ] anyway but in your mind you think you do so now there’s new woman’s here and in your mind she’s a threat now just by existing does anyone agree or disagree with that and not even by existing but you’ll find
When people at work like say it’s somebody who’s been the boss for a long time and they haven’t paid attention to the employees they haven’t you know worked with them to find out what their needs are or get their feedback about the work environment when someone new
Comes in they feel threatened by them even if they just show up and they’re doing a good job because they feel like they project on you the fact that they’re lazy and that they haven’t been putting their all into the job and they don’t want to be found out and so yeah
That that happens a lot you know and the instead of getting to work on yourself you know don’t HTE on the the the people who have a nice body because you don’t go work out try to be their friend and figure out you know what you can do but
A lot of times it’s it’s hard for um it’s hard to pinpoint those weaknesses within yourself and be like you know what let me just be real I need to step it up that’s a hard thing for people to do but that’s the best thing to to to keep you
From being to be a real sister and to not be u a catty and destructive type of woman it takes acknowledging the flaws you see within yourself first AG I agree I agree okay so it says we are social creatures and we live in work Villages or team family amilies where women live
A tension between their positive and negative selves The Duality that en en livens US en livens US how you say that when acknowledged but can damage relationships when it is when it isn’t integrated in our personalities it’s easier to suppress introspection about our motives unlived Parts malevolence or primitive emotions that can
Erupt we have an archetypal why can’t I read archetypal Dark Side the nicer we purport to be the darker Shadow we cast I yo this right here the nicer we purport to be the darker Shadow we cast it leaks out in our manipulative quest for power and control or satisfaction
And spraying viciousness towards another woman the more powerful we purport to be or wish to be the more haunted we are by self doubt or the potential exposure of our deficits this is why I do not trust women who or like overly nice I think they’re fake as [ __ ] and this is
Explaining right here like the person who flatters you all the time they’re full of compliments all day all night every day they just do like going out of their way I always look at them sideways and I think this is this is right here I think I think um
The way I look at it as I feel like people who are extremely good have the ability to be just as evil because that’s the duality of life right or like you know we’ve all seen those movies where it’s like it’s two of you and y’all live in two different universes so
If you’re a great person in this universe you’re an evil person in the next universe or whatever and with those situations where I feel like people are overly nice I feel like the opposite of that is that they’re like really sneaky cuz I feel like when you want to present
Yourself as this super nice person who never has emotions who’s always happy it it seems like you’re like on the back end those people typically just like seem to be just like very sneaky and underhanded with what they do like you know that’s the girls we like they
Always smiling and happy and all that but then they nice nasty they know how to politely like speak this sh and then like they ain’t G to just straight out say you the b word or anything like that cuz they feel like it long as long as they can disrespect for disrespect you
Classy then they they can disrespect you or whatever so that’s what I be picking up for people like that that be like just like overly nice oh girl you don’t have no emotions huh but then now you sneak dist so there’s a part here about nasty
Women right but look if you ask nasty women who do it for sport they usually discount it they gas like you look oh it’s my sense of humor why doesn’t she lighten up that’s my sassy nature she’s too sensitive or blaming the other insisting other women should be tough
Enough to cope or piss off they don’t conest to their joy and cruelty right so what they’ll do is you have something in you that’s wrong with you where you take pleasure in being cruel to other women but when you’re confronted what you’ll do is be like oh she’s just being too
Sensitive y’all ever experienced that um cherelle hit it on the head nice nice shady is worse than than just Reckless Shady because night um the the fake nice people got ulterior motives well I ain’t goingon to get into it get into it because that’s what we talking about that’s literally you can
Usually you can usually hear Venus when it’s like oh well it’s not my fault that you know and then they come whatever my God that [ __ ] right there I hate well it’s dangerous because of the reason someone is being nice where some people will be nice expecting something all they’re doing is
Running up a tab and saying yeah you owe me because I was nice to you all these all this time some of them is because they got low self-esteem and they think that you’re better than they are see this is what I’m saying running up a tab you’ll see more of that than
Men that’s more Len listen the male thing because you know oh my God and it happens in this space right because the moment you feel like you have an opposing opinion I’m about to tell you what they did for you that is dangerous you don’t remember when I dropped your link you don’t
Remember when I came on your panel you don’t remember when I posted you on my community wall and it’s like damn I just disagreed you don’t remember when I stood up for you it’s all like why are you being nice like that’s it’s sad because I I
Was motivation yeah that’s when it comes down to what’s your for doing what you’re doing yeah some are nice because of um what is it m High needs people are bleeding in the fact of needing to be accepted and wanted that they’ll do anything and if they believe that being
Nice or get them what they want then they’re willing to do it but it’s still not genuine so in their mind they’re doing something they’re doing the right thing but they’re really not they’re really not working on the very issue they Have yeah but you can do the right thing I think yeah you can do the right thing for the wrong reason and it always comes out the reason and it comes out when you don’t don’t get what you thought you were going to get out of the deal so it’s just like
You know to to put it in in in ways that we understand is this just me or is her song going out no see your sound’s going on I don’t come back over there anymore love see can you hear me oh I’m I can hear you but I’m in a I know I’m
Going through a bad area yeah we didn’t really catch what you said can you say it again I was saying that it can be something as small as someone coming on your panel and you think that it’s support but it’s that they’re trying to start another Channel or you know know
Someone doing things for you but they’re they have an ulterior motive that’s why I feel like all of this stuff it really stems down to the you getting yourself right you know within making sure that your motivation for what you’re doing is pure yeah or if you’re gonna be selfish
Just be honest about it or if you only ever do things for people because you only do them because you can’t wait for the day to be able to say well I did this for you you owe me the [ __ ] I hate that [ __ ] but that’s what I’ve learned a lot of
People yeah a lot of people will come to you voluntarily you didn’t even ask come to you offering help offering things to you and you’re like oh great this is a cool person this is their nice whatever not knowing that they’re like you said they’re running up a tab on you just so
That later they can tell you how much you owe them and then you become the devil if you don’t do what they want you to do then it’s [ __ ] you yeah not to get off track but with men it’s a taught behavior and what do you mean um the whole Men supposed to
Provide you’re supposed to do this supposed to supposed to without understanding the full picture behind it a lot of them don’t get that they’re doing something wrong when they’re running up a tab so like they’re dating woman they doing something for people and then they expect them to uh do
Something in return it’s something that they were taught to do probably in their childhood hood or in they’re growing up and they don’t understand like that full picture that they’re really running up a tab and the crazy thing is I think women do it too though and I’m going tell you
Something about over investing into things without letting the person know what you’re doing when those people choose not to reciprocate that energy you start to feel that deficit and then you start to build resentment when this person never even knew that you was trying to buy their love buy their
Loyalty buy their vagina like first of all you came over here talking about you want to take me to dinner I did not know just cuz we went the red lster I’m supposed to be jumping in the sack with you sir you should have told me that
Before we went to Red Lobster cuz I could I could have went to uh McDonald’s I could have made green beans and mashed potatoes at the crib you go ahead like the video at Cash Venus because this ain’t no free show okay send her that Moola send her that bread
That W [ __ ] that that y that BL y period baby go ahead scam uh no I want to keep going because I’m already off topic okay this was just another article CU I was just looking around for things uh cuz I was really trying to understand
What is it with women so this one was like 11 reasons women don’t get along with other women I’m going go through it real quick okay they get threatened and they get threatened over the dumbest [ __ ] I agree with this he the the thing says uh one of the reasons
Girls don’t adore each other is because they get threatened by each other one who visits her husband’s boss for dinner sees how well his wife’s Cooks his wife cooks the other gets threatened by the boyfriend’s best friend whom he spends a lot of time with the other gets
Threatened by the way her friend shares a great Report with her dad when she doesn’t have that uh so she doesn’t like the women that she feels threatened by number two they’re jealous okay number three they can’t tolerate why all guys like you you may
Be one of the guys you may be the Super feminine type or maybe the head girl if you’re always seen with the guys that they can’t seem to like you you this is probably Sherelle situation you will be that but it’s cuz it’s two different
Girls it’s like me I’m the I’m the guys girl so I’m like girls next door Vibe I’m very homeboy like they be looking at me like that’s my homeboy and then people be like no that’s she’s a girl and I’m like yeah she’s a girl but she
Our home boy and that’s kind of how the guys look at me but then there’s this there are other women who have like phermones that’s crazy and if y’all don’t know what phermones is Google it but some women they just have this powerful feminine energy and they just got
Pheromones through the roof and like men just love them like it’s just the way they smell or the way they look the aura they give off men just like just just fall at they feet or whatever and I’m not mad at none of them girls like get how you Live um they can’t tolerate why all guys like you I thought this was interesting whether you’re the the guys girl who’s tomboyish or whether you’re just that attractive feminine woman women don’t like that other women get the male gaze like I said earlier even if it’s not a man causing it it they’re
Still motivated by a man in some way did that to us cor did that to us before she did do that to us she wanted to know like it caused a bunch of stuff but it was basically why do women why do women in like Charelle and Venus get the
Attention why do they why do people want to have conversations with them and we’re deemed as the bad women and it’s like it was it was this right here you right the [ __ ] with K literally happened because of this the [ __ ] jealousy of the male gays that me and Charelle don’t
Give a [ __ ] about to be honest we just come to the panels have the conversation have fun but that’s the perfect example what did cor do instead of her getting on a panel and finding her own lane have her own personality and contribute to the conversations in her own way what
Did she do try to sacrifice me and sherel well I don’t understand why y’all talk to the bad women like Venus and Chelle instead of just what either what she but no what I heard in that was what I heard in that was I want the attention
That you give Venus and Shale and I can’t understand why I don’t get it so I’mma come up here and [ __ ] on these women who I do not know for the male gays that’s exactly what the [ __ ] happened that day actually the M this is
The thing the M’s dust off core also she she’s on her own so Robert ass boyfriend they’re both thiry this the thing but we don’t we don’t even we don’t even understand it like since I’ve been in here I’ve just had certain a certain amount of love and a certain amount of
Appreciation and a certain amount of respect ever since I’ve been in this space but I don’t know why I’m giving that that’s that’s me like but so we don’t even understand it so why are you trying to understand it just play your role and like play into what you know
But it’s the same thing with Lexi because I feel like a lot of times people be jealous of Lexi because Lexi just one of those women that got the sexual tension in the feminine wild so Lexi comes out and her boobs are sitting up she’s she she’s all dressed up and
She’s looking pretty and the men start going crazy and it’s like people be like oh look at them they going crazy they weak and it’s like men should be attracted to attractive women that’s right I thought that was normal what the [ __ ] you know what I’m saying cuz let a
Fine man come on the panel it really happens but let a f man come on the panel the girls be in the chat like oh they had I I remember that one F man that just popped up on a Fight Club all who is that it happened on my show
One night it was funny as [ __ ] it happened remember when third war Colombian came over here girl The Voice he had the voice all the even me that man yeah they was they was like get me that man so it’s like if we know we see
Them attract the man we can all just be like just appreciating like the man have y’all ever have you ever seen like them men that be at the gym running on the uh treadmill I’d be like listen if all men was like this we would never have a
Problem with submission look at these [ __ ] just over there lifting up weights and stuff running lion I’m just stay ugly y’all scaring me I’m stay ug this [ __ ] was in the gym doing pull-ups with the shirt off I was like good God look at that
Back I don’t know girl yeah I I th if you’re I thought if you’re heterosexual heterosexual you were supposed to appreciate the opposite sex it’s getting weird around yes and it doesn’t make doesn’t make you a a perversion like if if if a man finds you a women as a as a woman
You should want men to find you attractive it’s a problem if they don’t it’s a problem if they ain’t taking that double take when you over there pumping your gas and they looking like like yeah yeah yeah you want that like that’s okay that’s normal now if
They come put their finger in your butt stupid anybody else Auntie dtown lovey y’all have anything to say before I go on with the article oh my God keep going I got question cooking keep cooking V oh I got a question cuz some of this uh some of
This women hatred come from um say in childhood all the the shaming and colonization of the parents where the parents Force person like oh if you do this you wrong cuz the church you got to be feminine you got to do this you got to be traditional so they’re colonized at a
Young age they don’t get to do anything thinking at their own and they hear the shaman so when they 17 2024 any woman who doesn’t follow that very system that they got colonized under they go shame and beat and beat them up and talk about them can that be a part of
It uh I think so that’s the point of me going through the article so I just want to make it clear cuz I think somewhere we got we we got to a misunderstanding if I misspoke well I did say a lot of time all the time or a
Lot of times is motivated by a man I wasn’t trying to blame men for every time but just like we did with the cor example it’s not necessarily even sometimes something you all did it’s just you are the motivation whether you know it or not sometimes heavy on the sometimes I if I
Said it’s always men that wasn’t um a correct thing to say but I was grouping them in like whether they’re actively participating or not they will just by their existence just by a woman wanting your attention wanting favor with you they will you you will be their motivation without knowing I hope that
Makes it uh clear what I was trying to say um but okay I’m gonna go next it’s like when you have a woman on the panel who says because she’s on a panel full of men women don’t need no standards women should have no standards see what I’m
Saying that Lun sh what was the motivation it was men it was men were her thank you it’ be like that’s what I mean whether men are participating or not I’m still saying these [ __ ] be motivated by men it be all in their head about is because people be wanting to
Deny the Ws of men like I’m like big on telling my nieces and my little cousins that like men have a wow about them like I know a lot of times like when we grow up people like to say oh boys have cooties D girl that man will put his leg
On your inner thigh and put a rush through your body that’ll have you shuttering listen they have a wow about them they have a charm about them not all of them majority of them stink but the one you’re going to eventually like he smells good he smells like $250
Cologne and he’s dressed nice and he got a nice beard a nice haircut and he drive a nice car and he can smooth talk and he can lick his lips and and make you melt just by a up and down lick move like like if you’re a heterosexual female men
Have Wows about them so the attention of a man a man being sweet to you a man opening a door for you a man showing you special attention buying you gifts treating you well women enjoy that unless you’re just not had a res sexual they do enjoy that so so you know what
I’m saying so when when women are not used to getting that type of attention and then they see a woman who gets an abundance of attention from males it’s it’s it’s an Envy it’s not even jealousy it starts to be envy and then when they
Envy like that they got to come up there and be like why y’all like ven’s voice why do y’all like Charelle accent why do y’all think Ley is so wonderful like especially especially if they think they’re better than you this is the problem a lot of women run around with a
Delusion right like they in their mind they categorize themselves and so in their mind they’ll think well I’m better than her because I’m skinnier than her right they’ll think that but then reality will show them something different and so they’ll have an internal struggle and then that’s when
It seeps out like what we saw with home girl well she’ll come out and say it well I don’t understand why such and such [ __ ] cuz you’re not as great as you thought you were that’s why but a lot of women have that like delusion like you ever see like my man would
Never and then your man is absolutely the one over there with that that one that you thought you look so much better than but women are very delusional about a lot of [ __ ] to be honest exactly and most stuff is not what you be talking most stuff is what is your life resting
It because your life result should show you like what you what you really on because some some girls be beautiful and stink some girls be beautiful and have a bad attitude can’t keep nobody around can’t keep no friends you can’t keep nobody dumb as a brick dumb as a brick beautiful as ever
Dumb as a brick and you’re mad that a man wants to like yeah be with you physically but they don’t want to they don’t want to hang out with you after that like you don’t even have to read I think it’s a lot of people valuing the wrong things and let me say
This VI Beauty should be valued right let me not get that Twisted but I think people or um status or money or whatever it is right popularity those things are valuable all of them but I think people put too much emphasis on them and that’s why life be having them [ __ ] up when
They can’t understand like well if I have X Y and Z why y’all focused on this one y’all should just be focused on me and it’s like [ __ ] you are not my favorite word right now you ain’t the de la okay cuz you may be the prettiest on
The panel but that don’t mean you’re the funniest that don’t mean you’re the most entertaining and and and and that you know how to have a conversation that don’t mean you know how to hold anybody’s attention like girl it requires more sometimes okay and that’s the that’s the crazy thing is because
It’s like a lot of times you’ll have a panel I’m not going to say these people’s panels but there’s a panel full of beautiful women and the show never does well boring as [ __ ] boring swear God have another P time people say kind of say that the women aren’t like uh I
Ain’t gonna say it because I don’t want to be shady I don’t feel this way but say like this channel this channel uh these women are not that attractive but they pack the house they packing the house they pulling up to see those women and it ain’t because they winning
No beauty pageant well the all pretty women uh panel it’s because they gonna sit and cap the whole time they going to have a real conversation everybody going to see right through it oh or they keep it boring to keep people away from the C from the just
Like I keep my panels boring because I don’t want all the all the all the junk coming over so Mumu I agree Mumu said um women got to stop letting men determine if and how great they are that’s a [ __ ] fact that’s why I’m saying you being Mo you
Sitting around wondering why somebody wants to talk to Venus and shelle [ __ ] get your life right what the [ __ ] who can’t these are strangers on the internet and they got you in a [ __ ] Bunch over imaginary cyber attention like a lot of people need help around
This [ __ ] but anyway let me read this other part um number four so for those of you who just came in I’m reading 11 reasons why women don’t get along with other women okay because I need to get to the bottom of this okay I’m feeling
Like I’m about to Exile myself from The Sisterhood I don’t understand what the [ __ ] is going on I had to go look up psychology articles just to wrap my head around this [ __ ] okay so number four they want to be what they can’t be you are the cheerleader while they can’t
Even do a simple leg movement you excel at debates and they can’t talk to a bunch of people you fit into that lovely slender black dress while they could never have dreamed of it sadly girls never value what they already have and are too busy trying to be someone else oh my
God do y’all disagree no I agree with this one because I’mma tell you y’all remember Beyonce got that song called pretty hurt yes even the woman who we would consider a tent has insecurities everybody has you can look like you can look like Beyonce and then be wondering why you don’t have
Chocolate skin like Kelly Rolland and you could be Kelly Rolland wondering why you don’t have the full lips like the next woman and then you have the full lips and the chocolate skin and then you be wondering why you not light skin like Beyonce it it be
Crazy and it’s because I think Society be pitting us against each other to where it’s just like sometimes you got to get out of that and be like listen I’m beautiful I got inner beauty I’m well-rounded I’m smart I’m capable I’m good you got to understand what you
Value cuz I think a lot of times we taught from Young ages how to love everybody else we love God we love our family we love our friends we love all these outside things we love money we love material things not a lot of times are we we instilling in children to love
Ourselves become aware of who you are what functions your way what is your circadium Rhythm what is the beat of your own drum like what validate yourself you start looking for outside sources to validate you because what what what makes you happy ain’t gonna make me happy this what I’m talking
About because a lot of times try to put you in your box me like me and my friend I I did an experiment y’all remember when I was like as much as I love y’all as much as I talk to y’all as much as I care about y’all y’all have different
Fruit y’all y’all have different favorite foods different favorite colors different favorite music we all had different dream cars we all had different dream jobs we all had different dream houses that we wanted so guess what it don’t matter how much I love Venus and how much she loved me
What makes her happy is not going to make me happy what makes me happy is not going to make her happy the things that would that will make making me so happy my big pink Barbie Jeep all my male friends said they would throw my [ __ ] Jeep away if somebody gifted them my
Dream card they said they wouldn’t even want it so that that’s the thing like start learning how to validate yourself who you are and what you want for you figure that out before you start looking for outside validation because outside validation is it’s it’s just too much
And it’s never going to fill you up in the way you be F anyway and yes this girls never value what they already have are too busy trying to be someone else um this is where I feel like I I understand exactly who I am I know what my strengths are
And I know what my weaknesses are and I’m not mad at cherelle if she has strengths that I don’t have and I ain’t mad at Lexi if she have strengths that I don’t have cuz I know I have strengths that they don’t have right I can only be
Venus Charelle can be Charelle Lexi can be Lexi so on and so forth the problem is in my opinion most women that’s not good enough for them like this like the article says they’re too busy focused on what they don’t have instead of like nurturing the things that they do have
What making your things that work for you work for you right I have the ability to speak well people happen to like my voice I understand that so I’m making it work for me simple that’s how you do that it’s that simple I don’t sit around worrying about what the next women woman
Has or doesn’t have it’s really not my business and I don’t give a [ __ ] but yeah a lot of go ahead a lot of women are too busy um in this secret competition with you hating you focused on some [ __ ] instead of like actually trying to focus
On their own gifts and their own strengths and how can we be in collaboration and maybe make that work out together um hey Venus um yeah they don’t want to they don’t all want to work with you you know what I’m saying just like you said it’s a secret competitive it’s
Really not much of a secret it’s not um and the same thing goes with dudes the difference is we know that you know what I’m saying we know that and we use that as um most of us know that um yeah that’s that’s pretty much what I have to
Say on that right there if y’all really think there’s a sister when y’all are really fighting over the same [ __ ] whether it’s a position at work whether that [ __ ] is attention whether it’s a man whatever the case may be for the most part most of y’all don’t like each
Other and a bunch of people will pretend to I’m not saying that the ladies on this panel have that attitude I don’t think they do I think they’re confident enough in themselves you know what I’m saying where they don’t have to have that quote unquote secret competition
But most of these chicks don’t have the confidence that a Charelle or a Venus or love C has so that that that’s it you know what I’m saying they really want to see you beneath them and that they want there to be a Sisterhood as long as
You’re down on the same level they are which is crazy because all of us are so different and I can tell you like probably the two closest women in this no exactly the two closest women I am into this space are love SE and Venus all three of us have different person
Personalities all three of us have different backgrounds like me and Venus on we be on our Venus and Serena stuff even though she’s Pro things that I’m not but at the end of the day when I’m winning she’s happy I’m winning when she’s winning I’m happy she’s winning
Love see support love we single women out here punching these men in the eyes on these panels lovey is a married woman a loving mother doing her housewife duties just like superwoman she’s she’s literally Superwoman and it’s like we still can love on each other we still can understand each other people will
See that as a Mitch Match but that’s gross I don’t have to be with people who think the way I think all the time because sometimes I do need a different perspective and I’m thinking about it and I need to call Venus and I need to
Run an idea by her so she can open up my mind to things that I don’t see oh I need to I need to run the idea to love see so she can open up my mind to a different perspective so yeah like you just got to be confident in you and when
You conf you know I bring what I bring to the table but sometimes I need more on this table and I don’t want the same thing I don’t want another Charelle I got enough Charelle to go around it’s 100% Charelle over here I need the mind
And the experience of a Venus so that I can have a broader outlook on life I can have a broader like perspective on it because things are not always one-sided you you need many different opinions and many different perspectives to actually have a full understanding of
Any concept not if you think that you’re always right you’re the smartest person in every room and you’re better than everybody then no you won’t you that’s how you run through life being delusional and oblivious and an I agree with you everybody don’t have to want to
Work together I guess maybe my thing is it don’t have to be a problem either though like I know how to coexist and act like you not even around if I if I don’t care for a certain person I don’t have to proceed anywhere past that
Thought for me like I don’t [ __ ] with it all right I don’t [ __ ] with it I don’t there’s nothing in me that wants to because of I’m GNA choose this woman and I don’t like this thing and I’mma make it my business to go after her like I
Don’t know I just got real [ __ ] to worry about in life so I don’t know I don’t I don’t understand [ __ ] like that personally um but no it’s a thing it’s absolutely a thing hey Venus what a perfect space for people to want to people who want to be something that
They’re not what a perfect space other than the internet that’s for the thing some of it could be for play like I’m a troll y’all know that some of it uh people need to be heard some of it people actually are delusional don’t believe don’t believe
Who they really are but what a perfect place other than the internet I’m just saying oh first of all ter I got yeah I’m sorry Terence sent me a cash app thank you Terence I got it I appreciate it go ahead y’all I was going to say that um that I
Think one part of what article you you read was talking about people not knowing themselves and I think you’re right it it’s easy to show up in a space like this if you don’t know yourself and you can adopt whatever outlooks other people have whatever um ideologies those
People have and you really are trying the people are really trying to find themselves but they’re finding it in the things that are meaningful to other people when you don’t know yourself the safest place to be is actually around other people because then you don’t have
To stick out or and you really need to be by yourself so you can find out what you like and what you dislike your your own weaknesses your own triggers like I question myself if I’m around somebody and and there’s a I have a real issue
With them I’m like what is it that what is it about that that’s rub now some some things you know it’s just I just don’t like it but I question you know why is that bothering you why do you feel that way what is it about you know
That interaction that has you all worked up because regardless of whether someone is annoying or they’re you know ignorant or however they behave themselves why is that affecting me the way that it does why do I have this emotional reaction to some to a stranger or someone that I you
Know that I’m having this interaction with and I think at the root of women when you do look and you’re like oh there’s this new thing out I want to get that or you know there’s this the the that you want to keep up with the trends
You want to keep up with other people you’re in competition you want your house to look like this next year you want to buy that sometimes it’s good to just um cultivate an attitude of contentment and gratefulness for what you have when you start to do that
Appreciate who you are and what you have and not just you know large or tangible things but things about your personality and who you are it makes you a more grounded person and then you won’t be in competition you’ll always be in competition with someone else if you
Don’t value what you have come on now easier okay say that again cuz what and I think okay so this conversation partially was like I want to we’re reading the Articles to understand right but also like to if we can offer some sort of a solution which is like like
She said maybe you just need to take some time and really figure out what your strengths are and hone in on those it’s okay to not know yet it’s not okay to take it out on everybody else that part if you don’t know yet that’s fine
But you com and showing up into the world and projecting all of your [ __ ] issues and uh just being like this Shady person because you don’t know how to exist like that’s an issue though were you going to say something scam or was that Omega no it wouldn’t
Me okay AG I read the next one okay I I was going to say something real quick I’m I’m about to D CU I had to kind of go in and out um look I I agree with what you say I agree with um everything in this article I don’t know
If it’s the same article that you had up earlier but I agree with that I’ve been trying to um you know what I’m saying just say it I don’t have no issue with The Sisterhood I really don’t think there is much of a Sisterhood I I understand what um Sean
Antonio was saying about sororities and fraternities and all of that but that’s when people have like matching energies and everybody’s working toward the same goal which is you know what I’m saying Each one teach one and all of that but as far as this whole online Sisterhood
And and Brotherhood and all of that people ain’t got the same goals people are looking out for themselves and when people understand that they would understand you don’t even want to be part of that [ __ ] you really don’t that’s more of just a misery loves company type type of thing and that’s
Likely how it’s going to be you know what I’m saying it’s all going to be good as long as you got the same things to complain about that a bunch of people around you do you know I’m saying as soon as you don’t have them issues to
Complain about I.E now all of a sudden you got a man you know what I’m saying now all of a sudden you got a man The Sisterhood is gonna have a problem with you or you getting the attention that they want that that they want same with
The dudes too you know what I’m saying everything’s all everything’s all gravy you can hate all of these women until you get one then all of a sudden you cast it out so just just understand that most of the time most of these people are going to want what you have and just
Like um beina said earlier they don’t like themselves that’s what that really is you know what I’m saying the only way that people can make their light shine brighter is to dim yours that’s the first the only way that’s that’s the first thing that that [ __ ] said that
Actually I actually agree with agree with when they say they don’t like themselves because guess what I don’t like you either so stay your ass at home and get your [ __ ] together before you come outside and then I might like you Omega said you don’t like you and I don’t like you you
Either but no I get it I agree auntie I absolutely agree um yeah within within the past few years man like [ __ ] has been getting worse and worse and worse like just last night um I was like on a dating black app and like there was like this female on there
Cute female and then a whole bunch of dudes like I guess they came in on the live stream and they were there to beef like you need what are you doing on here wearing less clothes or why aren’t you trying to have kids with a man why
Aren’t you trying to like what the [ __ ] like dudes like it was like a speed dating scenario but they were there to beef and Grill like what y’all doing like is this like like can you imagine just if that was a real life date you
Know what I’m saying where you set up a date with a girl did you show up at Denny’s or something and you’re like you’re like wen’t you trying to have a husband or why aren’t you like I um the there’s people actually starting to do that it’s it’s it’s getting out of
Control and fresh has a account on one of the dating apps on tag I’ve seen that on the live stream I’m saying there’s people actually going on dates doing this stuff now it’s it’s it’s pretty bad so I want to um Let me let me get to
I’mma skip the love to hate you but I want to read they are used to being the center of Attraction right as women we can’t share our moment of Glory we are used to being center stage and once we have somebody stealing the show we hate them immediately
Might be a beautiful girl has joined the new term um gym or just a stranger walking in on the street if heads turn in that direction they will surely be hated no matter what now I think this is a bit extreme I don’t think every woman does this but I
Agree like I said earlier the one who thinks she’s the smartest one in the room at all times or think she’s the best one in the room at all times like I said her delusion when react ity does not match up with her delusion she hates
You now cuz in her mind she’s better than everybody because of X Y and Z then you walk in the room people like you for something else and she can’t fathom because in her mind she’s better than you so a lot of it be these women be having internal battles with their own
[ __ ] delusion when reality doesn’t match up what happened sh okay I have this I think I have this issue okay so let’s say let’s say I have a crush on a man or I like a man or I’m dealing with a man right but we’re not in a relationship I just like
Him so of course there can be other people around that like him I don’t want to be in a group I’m not fan girlish but I don’t necessarily know if it’s too much predicated on the woman I just don’t want no a feeling I just don’t
Want a Mana feel like I’m just a fan do you understand what I’m saying cuz I feel like when we one onone we’re flirting we’re dealing with each other but when it’s me and six other girls that like you and we all in an intimate position and everybody’s vying for your
Attention like that whole concept of like Flavor of Love and all those shows to where women are just competing for one man and everybody’s loving on him and kissing on him and I I don’t like that that makes me feel uncomfortable like I just be like uh no like no no I
Don’t want that but I don’t know if it’s necessarily deal with the women but I know that women can be caddy and I’m like I really don’t even want to be arguing about no man or being caddy with you about no man but if you start disrespecting me because you want this
Man’s attention I will slide you so I’ll just remove myself like I’ll Fade to the black I want my attention on my own terms like I don’t want to share the attention with you not with the man that I’m interested and romantically no and this is what’s WR with women and this is
What’s wrong with M women today you see that’s they living in their own delusion where apparently they can’t accept the fact that men are going to be desired by a bunch of women and they want to put this I’m I’m just kidding I’m just [ __ ] around I’m just I just had a
Look here he he didn’t took the red pill and charged up he like oh you going to Die Al you ain’t got no kids you going to get a dog your dog going to run away days no but I do think that though like so I don’t that may that may be
That may be something but I just I just don’t want to do it I don’t wanna me lovy and uh Venus all have a crush on Omega and we just on a panel like oh Oma uhuh uhuh talk to me later bye I’ll talk to y’all bye get some love yeah can I
Get some love I’m only ugly on we all we all love scam we all love scam I love you no homo all right let me um if Ley did you have anything else I was going to go to the next one no sorry um conversation I’m sorry what you say
Scam no just saying good topic of conversation I like this we trying to understand what these [ __ ] want from a [ __ ] like DMX said okay so number seven [ __ ] want from a [ __ ] I’m just saying I my exes I tell them they all belong to me and that go on for
Forever Wait what who belong to you you don’t know that that’s a that’s a Drake song it say you know that’s a Dr song all your exes belong okay number seven they can’t stand candidness there might be someone who may not be sweet tonged me like the
Way girls usually are someone who is too in the face for a grow girls usually like sugarcoating their talk so if you can’t seem to do that that chances are they would not like you cuz I’m a real [ __ ] okay do y’all disagree with that now I can speak to this this is
True maybe because I have like too many male family members that I was raised around I can be a bit more blunt and Direct in my delivery and yeah I can tell you women do not respond well to this I’m not really even mad at them for
This because as a woman I still I get it like nobody wants you still need to watch how you talk to people and the way you deliver messages so I’ve had to like work on that and still do but I’m not really even mad at this one like I get it like
If somebody’s already feeling down or bad about something or they might struggle with an insecurity or a problem you coming in being like kind of insensitive doesn’t really help the situation so I kind of I I don’t like this [ __ ] my damn self so I don’t know I
Kind of I get it is this partially justifiable no no it’s more meaning meaning um there’s a time when to use soft skills and a time when not to and sometimes people don’t can’t determine when you get what I’m saying I have to learn how
To do soft skills we need to do a soft girl error video just KN me what the soft error is about well just in people in general just knowing uh at this particular time it might not be the way to deliver a rough message rough where tomorrow or that person you
Might need to deliver it rough breakdown that’s what I usually refer to as emotional you know this person but you don’t know this person like that so don’t just go and blast them and go straight for the throat type of thing right I’m just thinking this partially could be
Justifiable yeah that’s why I said I kind of I’m not mad at either one as a woman who is very blunt I get it but also as a woman who receiving on the receiving end of that and it not being so nice I get it too you know what I’m
Saying like I agree with you like um I usually put on that too being with the Thugs and the drug dealers and The Killers you know what I’m saying like what my sister got shot [ __ ] get shot every day B what tell her next time she breathe
Tell her breathe deep like what if y’all would have heard what Sherelle said on the phone to me this morning about people being sad and [ __ ] she was like listen if I’m having a party don’t bring your sad ass over here keep that [ __ ] she don’t give a damn okay be with the
Kill like if you sick stay your sick ass home don’t bring your sickness around me L don’t bring your sickness around my joy I ain’t even gonna lie I have a I have a messed up urge to laugh at people that cry just just when people start crying I
Just want to bust out laughing and I just be like I know this is wrong I just be feeling so like her ass beat man swear to God swear to God that’s crazy cuz I was such a cry baby like I’m the cry I was the crier I used to cry all
The time and my brother used to be like what is you crying for you think that [ __ ] GNA change the circumstances just like damn it’s not like told me that somebody stole my money he was like you you get your money back cuz you cry this is why it’s intervention time this
Is why I fight with shirel all the time I personally feel like women being around being around men too much creates this you see how she’s a ice cold sociopath with no [ __ ] feelings because she’s always a man she’s always I have feelings for the man I have feelings
For everybody get this real [ __ ] that’s what that’s the crazy thing because since I got to be a real [ __ ] 24/7 when I like a man he gets a overdose of my emotions and I really need to find a way to balance that yeah stop hanging out with [ __ ] [ __ ] all
Day but that’s another what happened I’m tired my [ __ ] g g g g g I think it’s an imbalance of emotional expectations just like somebody might see you they think you’re hard on the outside so they think that you can deliver that hard message and you’re
Going to be hard all the time and they don’t know that it’s actually a week spot or they got their own weak spot and they expect you to respond to it the way so it’s just a a knowing people or understanding how people respond to certain things and a lot of people just
Don’t know or you don’t know until you say the wrong thing to somebody or right thing to somebody or get a puppy to carry your baggage emotional baggage truth is people are emot everybody one way or another everybody got a we that’s what I’m saying look you got
Got to keep everybody at bed right you got to like you got to you got to be tough in this world you got to be hard because people will play with you but when you love somebody or you get emotionally attached to somebody you put them in your soft spot right and then
They be looking at you like like [ __ ] ain’t you the like ain’t you a Rough Rider why you crying with everything I do but it’s like you in my soft spot so you got to be careful how you move cuz everything sensitive right here sensitive okay but then they don’t
They don’t want a Ganga to be sensitive you know what I’m saying they want that Thug like they want you to bat them up I’m just playing I assume gangsters are more sensitive that’s probably why they’re killing in the first place yeah they just cry in the shower so I
Heard that’s probably what it is sensitive isn’t always about cry later you know what I’m saying right it’s not always about crying it’s about what you do and how you express whatever you’re feeling and and that can be a good bad it could be violent nonviolent any kind of way yeah it’s not
Necessarily always about hard and soft yeah I got you man I’m G stop being smart ass about it sorry no you’re good I’m a troll you’re good my my first time my full-time job is trolling so yeah my full-time job is [ __ ] to Giggles so there you go cool hit my hold
The Huck up hit my damn Super Chat my cash app um we accept EBT f stamps PayPal um send me something godamn it let me get back to the article okay I’m sorry did I cut somebody off we almost done with this number eight they are always in
Competitive mode from comparing the to the prices of the dresses you got last week to who has the redder apples or the better curtains in the house girls are born to compete with each other even for trivial things that you are an ounce better they would not like you oh my
God I got the new Birkin bag wishful thinking and Charelle got the one from three seasons ago and now she’s mad she’s a [ __ ] hater this is what y’all do get mad over the dumbest [ __ ] and really be having this internal hatred in your heart and your mind and in your
Dusty ass Soul against the next woman because you over there comparing yourself try to keep up with the Joneses get your life right ho di sit [ __ ] wait what’s the people last what’s the people last names on the good times Evans you trying to keep up with the
Joneses even though you are Evans you know what I’m saying chill out shorty stay in your lane it won’t be no [ __ ] acent listen baby J said you ain’t never gonna be happy till you love yours okay period number nine they are always self-conscious I’m sorry they are always self-conscious
Women unlike men are self-conscious about everything that they have from the money they are making to the brands they are wearing to the way they look while they are at work they are at constant war with their inner self I told you [ __ ] that’s a you and you problem
Don’t leave me out of it okay some use this to get better each day While others compare this self-consciousness with the way how other girls are putting up only to hate them even more so let me get the straight I came into the office with my cute little business attire my hair done
Nails done everything dead e you came in this [ __ ] not so nice looking and now you mad at me cuz you mad at your [ __ ] self ho take that up with yourself what do you have um actually that wasn’t I saw the picture when you
Came to work you had an electric wig it had a Ryobi battery plugged up and took the electricity out on the seventh flooor but continue so um you got BS on your feet so um I may missed this I mean I missed this um but um this is an
Article from uh another um social group on the net so women or can you break can you uh break down the whole point of this whole um stream for me this current article I mean all right this stream is about is The Sisterhood real I was very
Much Pro Sisterhood I have gone through enough in my little time here on YouTube to understand that The Sisterhood is not pro me okay these [ __ ] ain’t [ __ ] okay let’s just be honest so I brought my good sister Shel here because she has always been anti- Sisterhood she been
Telling me they wasn’t [ __ ] and I didn’t want to believe it okay so we struck up the live stream and we are doing research on air trying to understand why these women the name of this article is literally I think 11 reasons reasons why women are nasty to other women so we are
Studying the female psyche at this point we want to understand help me help you ho so that’s what this is you know what I’m saying I’m just trying to bring these things to the Forefront so they can know look at the article you’re self-conscious about everything okay you’re projecting your
Insecurities and anxieties and fears and abandonment issu whatever the [ __ ] you got going on sis on other women who have absolutely nothing to do with it go to therapy ho I’m sorry go ahead and this and this is also the problem too with this it’s like people
Just need to stop trying to figure out women in general and why they do what they do and women need to do the same but with men by stop doing the same vice versa because there is no way in h you can actually uh uh figure out why women
Or why men as a whole do what they do due to the fact we’re all humans it’s very and human interaction is complicated you know they did this why they may have did this for a good reason or they may have did this for a bad reason whatever who knows but that one
Example does not it’s not an example of of a gender as a whole and so I I disagree with that do I think that you can sum any one human up with an article or no of course not but the idea that we need to stop trying to understand absolutely disagree with that
The better you can understand each other the better relationships you can have with each other so I’m not a fan of well we don’t even try no we do need to try to understand each other that should be the goal now I think that I let me get
This right I think what he’s saying is not using the one example try understand at this point it was really the women trying to understand other women so like I think that’s I think how we evolve you have to have all information about something before you try to elevate it
Like they don’t let you go to the third grade if you if if you if you came past the second grade you got to know everything that’s going on in second grade enough to say I’m a second grader and I I could be on the level of entry
Level third grader so that I can learn there to go to the next level or whatever so I do think that as uh humans I don’t think the beginning humans were studying uh brain interaction social interactions um or the understanding you know what I’m saying it’s just a a
Couple of years ago we started to understand that our brains don’t fully develop until we’re 25 they didn’t know that because they was dying at 25 200 years ago they was dying at 25 that was life the lifespan was 25 by the time you made it to 25 click that’s how unsafe
The world was but now that we about to be living till we 100 uh life has just more meaning life has just more Discovery and I do think that we’re going to have to like keep on researching and try to understand so that we can like so we can coexist in
This society and keep on elevating it and making it a damn better Earth okay and these articles are written for a reason people are and this is not I don’t I don’t even know if these are all facts right these could be opinions it’s worth entertaining we are women at least
Me and cherelle and love C who do want to understand women that’s the point I know we’re joking and stuff but that’s kind of the point if it was just oh F these women we don’t care then it would no point we’re having this conversation because we do want to
Understand even the parts that appli to us we called it out oh you know what I could do better at my delivery because I know how I am shelle’s like you know what I could do too because I be around a lot of men and it affects how I
Communicate so this is no it’s even helping understand self a little bit so I’m not with that well you need to stop trying to under no I I don’t I don’t live life like that like to me life is about growth you need to be constantly learning and growing
I don’t I I don’t get nothing else I feel you on that it and it is interesting thing to study it is interesting it’ll be nice to know but the problem is as it stands right now there isn’t a for there isn’t a accurate mechanism to get find that
Answer because there’s way too many different wait how do you know have you studied humans how do you know that like where is that coming from you can study humans and actually okay on one side sorry hold on hold on scam before you go I want to make
Himself clear what are you you’re telling us basically that is pointless in trying to understand women as women you’re saying that there no point in doing that understanding the why they do it because the why part I mean it could be a number of different reasons that um right it could be a
Million different reasons it could be a million different good reasons or bad reasons but at best all you can do as it stands right now is acknowledge acknowledge the good and uh uh acknowledge the good and bad and like uh just go about go by okay [ __ ] it go go fck what just
Go I already forgot by TR I’d like to um just respect I know where he was getting I think I think I know where he was getting at and I want to respectfully kind of disagree because from a man’s perspective we yeah we really shouldn’t be worried about the why and all that
Other stuff because we supposed to be focused on what men are supposed to be doing but with with women they got every reason to try to figure out why the hell women are doing what the hell they doing so that way they don’t make the mistakes
So they can help each other out so I don’t see a problem with them having that you know what I’m saying that um that approach to it trying to figure out why I strongly disagree why is the most important thing you want to find out with anything that has to do with
Behavior yes thank you he when it has to do with Behavior now I would I would agree but from a man’s pers i’ be saying this to the dudes too when they want to sit here because this is this is why I had came up in the first place when it’s
Like all of those things even in the article and what Venus was saying when it all turn turns back to just blaming a dude for everything even though what I saw in that article none of that even mentioned a dude it was really women’s interactions with each other and the
Same thing with the dudes that be trying to blame everything on women their positions and everything else it’s like yo if you just took women out of the equation all you would have is what you can control so if your goal is to fix your current situation you should be
Trying to control what you can control and trying to figure out instead of trying to figure out why somebody is doing what the hell they doing that’s an independent variable but from women’s perspective yeah they should be trying to figure out why women do things that that they
Do also wait real Qui I want to say something to ANC because it was on my mind with him and Sean I apologize if I got like uh Snappy or like rude I wasn’t trying to uh do that earlier and I did clarify um I probably if I said it like
All men that I should shouldn’t have said it that way I was just trying to say that even sometimes when y’all are just existing y’all are by default the motivation behind women will have these nasty behaviors um but yeah just so you know yeah my bad about I appreciate that
Cuz that was something that I was going to say too I’m like sometimes all dudes got to do is exist you know what I’m saying just exist and for for example I think you saw it the other night even on your you know what I’m saying your panel
One woman comes up she’s getting a bunch of compliments from some dudes and then next thing you know another woman’s going at her yeah you know what I’m saying and then there are some women who say look what the men done did they done put these women against each other when
All they did was give one woman a compliment yeah they didn’t give it to the other one but is you know what I’m saying how is that that’s like okay you give you give sham a compliment and I’m like oh you putting us against each other because you ain’t giv me the same
Compliment no you gave him a compliment because you wanted to give him a compliment they ain’t got nothing to do with me well a lot of women will see that differently that’s why I stepped in that day it wasn’t it didn’t have anything to do with men that’s why I
Asked her what is this woman doing to you I asked her so I’m just saying leave some room for the fact that when we say men do it oh they absolutely do they didn’t do it that day but sometimes they do they do yeah I think Venus is being fair and
Scalable it’s like when you’re saying something it doesn’t mean that it’s all or every time you’re just speaking to some of the things that happen I would agree but let’s be real um the the world is a jungle it’s a zoo with no zookeeper that’s just what it is people out of
Control and they just do what they do some of it we’re just individuals some of it we got problems some of it people just going to do what they want to do because they just that’s who they are and then when you throw money women and
Other kind of stuff in the mix expect it to be what it is let me read my little super chats from auntie thanks for having me up Venus The Sisterhood ain’t [ __ ] mic dropped okay and then from scam dust thank you for the super chats guys but
To Omega I want to I want to really drive this point because we sit up here and talk about a lot of [ __ ] and my one thing that grinds my gears is when I’m doing shows about absolutely nothing like chrisan rock and blueface nobody ever tells me
Why are you talking about this when I actually talk about something that matters at least to me or at least to women there’s always someone who’s like well there’s no point so like if it’s not for you it’s not for you but I’m with scam on the why is very important
In damn near everything in life that’s the only way to understand if you got fired you would want to know why right if they didn’t pay you this week you would want to know why like and everything that matters in life you will want to know why so the
Same thing applies here now Venus I want to jump in there for a second right I agree with that yeah if I get fired I would want to know why but why would I want to know if you why you got fired that’s the thing about it Dam you what
I’m saying because so I don’t do it so I don’t do it if you was if if they called you stealing um grapes out of Walmart and they firing people for that now let me know I mean the wide part is especially when you know I’ll be taking
Them grapes I’m just saying that’s something that’s something that I could correct but if you got like like I said I’m not people that you focus on other people no let me tell you why I’m missing something this Cas wait in this case when your actions Direct ly affect
Me I do want to understand your motivations I do right so if I’m saying The Sisterhood is such and such because women are treating other women I’m a woman right a certain way that means I’m affected now so yes I have a vested interest in understanding you even if it’s for my
Own protection on how to move around you or lack thereof I need to understand no and I was saying that I was like yeah because you’re a woman understandable but as dudes we we like we don’t really need to know the why and this this is
What I want I’m just saying bro if I’m dealing with if I’m dealing with a total nut one one second Charelle if I’m dealing with a total nut job that’s out of their damn mind I don’t need to know why they doing what they do I’ll just
Sum that up and they crazy as hell and keep moving well if you’re gonna keep it moving I get it but if it’s a person that’s still somewhere in your circle still talking to friend dating smashing uh simping for whatever um if you’re going to still be dealing
With the person the more you know of who they are and why they are the easier it is to start to navigate and honestly um the more you know why you might see that they’re one person on the outside but they’re really a totally different person on the
Inside I would agree with that scam if you’re G to keep if you’re going to keep them in your circle and you’re going to keep oncle no it don’t matter get the hell I I I I can agree with that yeah and I I still kind of disagree with
You Auntie because when you say men shouldn’t understand why of course there are those one-off cases where you’re going to if you’re going to write somebody off and you made an executive decision this person don’t belong in your life cuz they’re crazy I get that
But I think uh men could do a better job also at understanding women and then they may have better relationships but a lot of times I hear more of the perspective that you have like well who cares about the why the why is the thing you should care about the most um okay
Um um hold on okay I know Charelle wanted to say something too I cut her off my bad I I remind people when I said that men make myself clear um when I said that men need to men need to quit trying to understand the concept of why
Women do things or move in the context of dating that’s what I was trying to I’m trying to like and I still disagree I still if you are if you are and vice versa if you are and I’m still going to dis agree with you if you are pursuing
Anything whether that be the opposite sex a job a goal whatever it is and you’re having a certain outcome that is not favorable to you instead of making the same mistake over and over by taking the same approach over and over it would be wise of you to try to understand the
Thing you’re pursuing so I still disagree I don’t understand what you’re trying to say okay okay yeah what she said anybody else I’m not yeah I’m not I’m not going to disagree with you um Venus as far as uh just uh yeah I look yeah you you should
Try to go out of your way to understand women in in some way shape or form but just like me and scan was just saying if you’re going to keep certain things out of your circle you know what I’m saying then the the why and all of that other
Stuff doesn’t matter so just like I was saying earlier I’m like it’s one thing if you’re dealing with a woman that has confidence like a you or or a love see or whatever all of those other things that you see in that article don’t matter because even The Sisterhood that
You rock with is going to try to is is there to motivate you to be the best version of yourself and you gonna do the same thing with them so you ain’t worried about that well you don’t care about that you ain’t even dealing with those Dynamic but if you dealing with a
Bunch of you know I’m saying jealous insecure folks that just wanna you know I’m saying just just want you know what I’m saying they just want to a misery loves company situation it’s like why bother figuring out what the why is just get them the hell from around you well
Sorry I want to sayge what you’re saying I acknowledge what you’re saying Venus I’m sorry I’m just I’m just writing up my point to try to remember what the hell my original point was okay no problem no no problem so um I wanted to catch Taz before he left Taz can you
Drop your email somebody wanted you to be a part of a political show and I told them I would find you but you came here so thank God can you put your email in the comments task thank you and let me read this as the original supporter of
The Sisterhood when none of these men supported black women yes their Sisterhood is a joke and seems to be a bunch of Dick thirsty [ __ ] I don’t disagree okay Taz I say that’s imbalanced there’s good and there’s bad with the women don’t let the few bad or
The even if it’s a lot of bad take you and just throw all of them away but I know Taz e cool but aun T I was going to say something let’s say you’re you’re just deciding look man I’m sick of these wigos masculine Reckless hyenas you just hate
Them it was still be beneficial to know why the way they are because then you can also avoid them better because you know more about them so e that’ll still help you so going where I mean if my only if my only goal is to um to avoid him all I
Need to do is identify them I don’t need to really understand them too well the more that you’ll know because here’s the thing you’ll find some of them who who look like they’re reading a script I traditional woman I do everything my man said 3 weeks
Later turn into a hyena now what you gonna do okay hold on I need to confirm somebody I don’t think they ever been on the panel do y’all know who um Ed un chained I’ve seen him in chat no it Unchained is good he’s good okay hi
Might want to make sure yeah that’s actually him I was about to say if he’s on camera or whatever just make sure it’s actually him but he’s good yeah it’s me it’s me it’s me okay sir do you have anything to say about The Sisterhood or trying to understand them
Or whatever I don’t know at this point I well I was going to go to ant point that I mean it and I was going further about saying it depends on where you at so if you’re if you’re involved with The Sisterhood and you on the let’s say you
Winning or whatnot then sometime people like that they usually don’t stop to actually understand they just they just operate how they operate because it it working for them now now if it’s not working for you then you you going to start seeking more understanding so it
Kind of it depends on where you are and how what position you in for the most part I agree because one could say if if it’s going well for you then it’s safe to say you already do have some level of understanding right yeah or like your car like you
Just get in you don’t know how it actually works you just get in you just know you turn go you know people like that you don’t or how to Road is or anything you just drive on it like you don’t care really care to understand to
A certain degree you just know it you you just know you can use it okay um Omega or anybody else who wanted to go um before I get back to the article we’re almost through it there were like two more bullet points so I wanted to say Venus that I
Think it is um I understand where Auntie is coming from but I think that it is important to understand the why and that’s just I think that’s me as a as a person I like to understand the root issue because if you can understand the root issue then you have the ability to
To find a solution I think that one thing that like these articles they’re giving symptoms you know if you um projection and insecurity those are all symptoms of a deeper root issue and I like to know what it stems from so then I can um look at myself and then if I’m
Ever in interaction with someone who’s given that type of behavior I don’t want to judge them based on the symptom of their problem I want to be able to look and understand the root and then you can empathize with the root now they may not want help they may not want to change
But by chance if I come across somebody that’s open to something whether I’ve experienced it or it’s something that I’ve learned I want to be in a position to offer a solution and I think if you’re not willing to um find the root of an issue and you’re that’s not for
Everybody right but if you’re in a position where you can I think that it’s best that you arm yourself with as much knowledge as possible to be able to to help someone else in that situation and that’s what I wanted to say too when they were saying it was the
Point in understanding I want to say this we all have bad ways about ourselves and good ways about ourselves some have more of one than the other um but a lot of things childhood trauma um bad circumstances in life um just insecurities like people do have different reasons for the way they show
Up in relationships friendships business uh romantic whatever right so just for me to hear the why doesn’t matter it’s like I still have some level of compassion for people I don’t think I’m not I don’t want to write people off right away just because they have something that I don’t like now some
People should they be written off because they’re just too much of a [ __ ] problem and they bring too much chaos yes but if you can look at some people and have some level of understanding once you understand right like if I know you’re a person I have uh
I’ll say something a little bit personal I have an issue with my little sister right now right there are certain things that about her I don’t understand I don’t like I can’t mess with but she’s still my little sister so I want to understand why I don’t I don’t think
She’s inherently a bad person so I know how to separate like somebody might have a certain Behavior that’s bad doesn’t make them inherently bad so if you don’t want to take the time to understand and just write everybody off but you would want the same consideration for you we all got
Some [ __ ] going on that we do to people that’s not so nice it ain’t so cool and some and to some degree people got to have a little bit of Grace for you so why when it comes to other people well we don’t need to understand [ __ ] them no
I don’t agree with that that’s solid I would I would I would agree to an extent no I would agree to an extent oh my bad Charelle my bad Charelle it’s okay I agree too no I was just going to say um that’s what I was saying I was
Saying earlier that that’s your sister no that that’s your sister so yeah you want to understand your sister y’all going to be linked together for like like y’all y’all are blood or people you going to keep in your circle understandable now maybe that’s a a defense mechanism or whatever I’m like
Yo y’all just get the hell from around me because that’s that’s the way I’ve been able to succeed all my life is to just keeping moving there’s always some stuff that’s going to try to hold me back or divert my attention when I’m I know damn well you know what I’m saying
If my goal is prosperity whatever the case may be inner peace if somebody’s toxic and they something’s wrong with him I’m not going to waste my time trying to figure out what’s going on with them I’m not a psychologist I’m not a therapist that’s something for their
Therapist to to figure out with them I’m just focused on my life at that point and the lives of those around me and since this person is no longer going to be around me to hell with him you know what I’m saying and to be honest to to
Go to what Venus just said oh you would expect that you would appreciate the same thing actually know I wouldn’t um I if if I’m that messed up I would recommend to anybody you get the hell from around me too it’s it’s better for you don’t bother wasting your time
Trying to figure me out I’m not a case study just get as far away from me as you possibly damn can and don’t worry about what the hell I’m doing or why I did it no it’s a choice you can say yes I want to do it or no I don’t that’s
Fair all I’m saying is this let’s just say it’s dating women or whatever there are some women who are chameleons and they look like all this on the inside and then you get to know them and it’s and it’s a massive hyena pit the same way it can be someone who looks like
They’re part of the nation of wiglong out of control and then when you get the know is actually the opposite so that’s why the why and whatever is important cuz people aren’t always with they appear and some could actually be a solid person but you ruled
Her out because she had a two-story wig I mean anything above two story but sometimes people could be the nicest coolest people and you don’t know it because you rulle them out over something that you just saw yeah or one or two things that they
Said hey I got I got a question but do you think most people are even thinking that deep about this stuff even or even having these so this is why I’m between people and that’s a separation factor of people and most people the best communicators run the
World let’s be real they run everything and that’s what I’m trying to be that’s why like you said most people aren’t having a conversation but guess who is Venus is I I don’t think like most people right and most people’s problem isn’t talking it’s listening but that’s a fact we could all
Do that better I I don’t disagree listed in comprehension yeah okay so Omega did you get your points together yes I did yes I did Madam beus yes let’s hear it okay yes it’s yes it is interesting thing to understand the why on a case-by Case basis yes it is important to
Understand the why on a Case by casee basis with each individual human being what I’m saying is it’s pointless to it is a possible to understand the why especially in a group group as big as genders such as it’s impossible to understand why women operate and why
Women as a whole operate this way they in dating based upon what they saw from this one chick in a movie yeah because because because if I ask you that I’m like if let’s say we’re watching a movie and I see a crazy chick out crazy and
I’m like damn vus it is why do women act like this I’m pretty sure you’ll be like um I don’t know why she act like this is I just better I mean right we just going to have to agree to disagree for the sake of time but my
Advice people can take it if they want or leave it but I’mma say it it would be in your best interest sometimes to understand why especially if it’s in relation to something that you want and in your case it might be women from what I hear you want a woman right and if
You’re having a failed outcome over and over then it would be smart to take a step back and try to understand the thing you are pursuing uh let me answer Taz he said could you define what you were calling The Sisterhood me personally I just thought that women
Like it’s like a camaraderie of women we don’t have to be best friends we don’t have to talk all the time we don’t even have to be friends but I thought it was like a general understanding of uh genuinely wanting to see the next person do well genuinely showing up to support
You in whatever ways I can and just rooting for you and at the very least not intentionally stepping your way or trying to sabotage you right just having good intentions for a fellow woman I guess in my mind that was it was the the bar was very low for me but apparently
You can’t even ask for that so I feel a little differently now about this so-called Sisterhood what’s up trigger Mike what’s going on Venice salute to the panel what’s going on dusto Omega Ed and love C how y’all doing today hey trainer good morning I’m starting off slow obviously but you know um
But you know I’m warming it up you know what’s up Trier Mike what you have on us I have to end the show 15 minutes because I got to go to work so I want to get everybody in what’s up trigger what do you have to say about
This um interesting topic I did a topic like this uh last week um I’m G do a part I have a lot more to say I’m sorry I just want to say that I ain’t done I gotta go to work cuz I got a lot of [ __ ]
To say about this to what to what you said about The Sisterhood I think men in general we have called it a joke we have called it fake um I think um our default setting as human beings is tribalism right to so to pretend that we are all unified under
One thing yeah we could say that but that’s usually not how it works out at the ground level and what I’ve seen from men and women but for some reason women seem to be the focal point of this generation is that everything you said Venus was true a woman would will root
For you she will want good things for you until you become her competition or until you start doing better than her that’s usually where we see a natural competition happen where you know people start to undercut each other you know so on and so forth so in that sense The
Sisterhood is really a joke because I’ve never seen a woman or get disrespected more than I’ve seen another woman disrespect another woman you see what I’m saying so the FL that they claim men have for them I see most of the blood being drawn between women and that’s why I don’t even
Understand this whole Sisterhood mess you know when I’m looking at it through an objective lens uh I think that’s an unfair argument just because of the nature of how women fight versus how men fight right the reason men have more violence is because that’s the way you guys express your frustration women Express
Theirs more vocally so that’s not it’s kind of the same they they fight more the way they know you really think wait hold on still violence women fight more the way they know how to they use their Words As Weapons they’re very good at it and men fight more with their
Physical body because they’re that that’s just the nature of us get you but no no you’re also forgetting so women do not fight just verbally women fight by destroying each other’s reputations and and that is that is what as somebody who destroyed their reputation who went beyond above and beyond to tell
Everybody something bad about you that wasn’t true that is the way women display aggression and still verbal no that’s what I’m saying hey trigger Mike the point that I was making when I came up here was at the end of that even after they’ve done all of that stuff to
Each other just like Venus was reading in the article and stating at the end of it they blame a dude for all of that oh my God it was a dude that weapon them against each other to do this it’s not their fault it’s a guy’s fault it’s the
Fault of the men you stop weapon us um I don’t know because I just see men doing videos against other men tearing up point that I was making like you can’t be blaming dudes for the [ __ ] unival I’m just talking about the violence and destruction is universal
Men and wom we we can we can talk about it being Universal and all of these things happens on both sides women are weaponized us yeah women are physically aggressive against one another go it’s just not the tendency there are there is a greater tendency for men to uh Express
Themselves with physical violence and a great greater tendency for women to express themselves with innuendo and gossip and reputation destruction that’s yeah no so I’m not uh disagreeing with you it was kind of like I think it was bad to compare men in that way cuz that’s not the nature of
Of how men fight is what I’m trying trying to say I agree I agree yeah men men are going to get more violent quicker for sure they don’t got time even even in relationships sorry i g say this part who’s the like the worst one with their mouth usually the woman men
Aren’t really men can be nasty and I’ve seen it especially on these spaces with some of the things they can say and how they tear each other down and [ __ ] like um yesterday when I was watching fatty show all the [ __ ] world class was saying to podcast was like godamn you really
Want somebody to kill their s don’t you that’s [ __ ] up so yeah men do it too but at the rate of women I’m be honest no hell no women are yeah way more likely to do that [ __ ] I don’t disagree um yeah there’s other forms of Destruction there’s also neglect shaming
Uh manipulation but as a whole men women’s everybody turn each other down okay I had two more real quick these are the 11 reasons women are so nasty to other women number 10 they are addicted to gossiping a new girl at work a new neighbor or just a hot girl you
Saw at the movies with your so-called friend women and gossip have an everlasting Bond women love gossiping about other women and their clothes makeup walking style lame boyfriends and unnecessary Tantrums I agree I really don’t like I’ve had a friend who whenever we would go outside anybody who
Walked past us she has something to say and I really stopped hanging out with her because it was just turning me off like I don’t walk outside looking for Flaws in other people it’s annoying I don’t care I don’t want to hear about it and it just made me look at her like
[ __ ] what is wrong with you like some women absolutely do this [ __ ] unnecessarily and I think it speaks to an insecurity they have with themselves so they got to walk around trying to pick apart every damn body else I don’t know why women do this [ __ ] but y’all
Need to really fix it I don’t know hey Venus are are you separating like jokes for comedy versus really talking about somebody if you’re doing it to that’s not gossip is it not what is that no I was saying jokes are not if you’re joking publicly like that I don’t think
That’s the same thing as gossip okay yeah let making sure they’re separated well look I’mma Look up the word gossip it says casual or unconstrained conversation or reports about other people people typically involving details that are not confirmed as being true so I mean Tech technically can it
Be is it a conversation about other people I thought he me like making jokes like how scam does on here like making jokes like that you know just no like in the public on the panel making a joke I that I don’t think that’s the same um
Yeah no that’s not what I gave the example I’m talking about people who go out of their ways who talk about people literally for no [ __ ] reason yeah I agree what you’re saying I was just responding to to what to what scam was saying specifically I I I agree with
What you were saying and I think this is this this is also one of those things where they say we are all competitive as men and women men are just competitive in a different way and I think this is one of the way women Express competition with each other it’s it’s gossiping
Right so like if you wanted to teach your children this show them mean girls that movie displayed that [ __ ] perfectly yeah right they will separate themselves into groups I I can’t just be someone who gets along with everybody I have to be better than somebody I gotta look
Better than somebody that’s the way women have traditionally competed against one another right trigger Mike and that’s what I said when we first started the conversation is that I’m not a mean girl and I’m not not raising a mean girl I think that there’s um gossip to me is
The lowest form of communication that a person can have and it I have I have family members that I don’t speak to on a regular basis because they like to just like update about everybody’s life and what’s happening and it’s not in a way where it’s genuine it’s in a way
Where it’s just telling the business of everyone else and um I I like I despise people people who when people have like bash fests or even if it’s uh well I was just letting you know you know I just felt like I would let you don’t let me
Know I don’t want to know about what other people have going on and if they wanted me to know they would come and talk to me about it now unless we’re figuring out a way where we can be of assistance to someone or help them it there’s really no purpose but I really
Think that’s the basis form of communication and people that gossip that way is because they have nothing of substance going on in their own life and because you don’t want anyone to unearth the fact that you have nothing happening in your life you make every conversation every topic of discussion about other
People because even their lives are more interesting to you than your own that’s facts hey and what I what I wanted to say here is just like the article what Venus is saying what I was even saying too to even this like like to even present that under the mon of a
Sisterhood when it’s really just what trigger Mike was just saying it’s a competition you know what I’m saying whether it’s covert whether it’s wide out you know what I’m saying in the open or whatever it’s still a competition or it’s just a misery loves company thing it’s damn sure ain’t no no Sisterhood
It’s it’s no Alliance or anything like that ain’t nobody trying to see anybody come up so to even think that them people be your friends or you part of some Sisterhood when it comes to that you’re a damn fool damn because it’s it’s showing you
Right there in the I didn’t type up the article Venus pulled it up it’s showing you what the symptoms are y’all want to be part of a Sisterhood with that well I guess that was kind of the point of like I said pulling this up so we can reach a
Level of understanding even if I was being naive right I have to look into things to uh come to that understanding you know what I mean so I don’t think it’s a bad thing to understand the why but we are definitely doing part two tonight I really love this
Conversation um I want everybody to get their final words in and I’m just going to say my little last piece was I still have hope that there can be like camaraderie against women I I do agree that everybody we’re just never going to be on the same page but I do think
There’s room for it like like Auntie said maybe when we all have a common goal and then you can just like be with those women where we understand each other and we’re on the same page um but the idea that like women naturally want to root for each other be supportive
Help each other win I’ve seen unfortunately a lot of the opposite where people are trying to drag you down drag you into drama dislike you for no reason talk bad about you lie on you like YouTube alone has been an example for me to see like maybe the way
I looked at women I have to look at them another way now but um everybody who’s who’s first uh I’ll go first cuz I got a jet but um sister The Sisterhood with an a is a joke but Sisterhood is absolutely a real thing is not found in mon
Monumental friend groups it is found in small groups of women that you share like experiences with that can understand you that make the conscience effort to reach out and extend themselves uh to help you and you have a mutual agreement that y’all will do that for each other this is usually not found
In large groups of people if you have a large large group of friends you don’t have any boundaries all right so Sisterhood Brotherhood whatever we’re talking about is absolutely possible but these the these are more small you know unified groups with people with similar interests similar experiences just for
An example I can remember when I was in college the AKA and Delta lines would be 50 deep and I used to mess with girls on one line or the other half those girlss hate each other and they in the same they on the same damn line forget the
Same sorority right so you know it’s usually factions or little tribes or groups of people that have similar interests that you can stay friends with and bond for long periods of time and that’s what we should all strive for your college is garbage well same damn
College you see how you gas like I might have to do a sh A brotherhood y’all stop fighting okay this dude funny no went to the same school wait but that was well said I don’t want to I want to make sure I acknowledge that I I agree and I hope
You can come back tonight cuz we’re going to continue this okay you women have become my area of focus probably for the whole damn week I don’t know yet but anyway who’s next all right let me go real quick cuz I’ll be fast well The Sisterhood they they don’t they get one
Thing right they they do get together to spread the propaganda against you black man that’s that’s only thing they get right no but that that’s it hey thanks for having me I’m out how dare you who’s next scam what do you have to say about The Sisterhood lack thereof I don’t
Know um H The Sisterhood uh and doing my thorough evaluation of The Sisterhood of the women’s I’d have to say that uh there’s a communication breakdown between men’s and women’s and women’s and women’s and men’s and men’s causing Behavior destruction and upbringing trauma and all other types of chaos
Since the beginning of time yes yes I think we should do a further evaluation ask more question do more active listening and then try to actually redirect behavior from an actual genuine place but the people said no so therefore it’s going to be a whole hyena Fest and people beating hell at each
Other in parking lots gas stations uh and liquor stores that’s just what it’s going to be but for a lot of men who think there’s actually a sister to it it might be you it might be that a lot of women just don’t like you and women
Behave a certain way when they don’t like your monkey ass this is Prov done by analysist on ins sales.com dry me.org and can’t get women.net yeah and if multiple women don’t like you so bad that they’ll team up with other women that they don’t even like come at you
You’re the problem brush your gums vacuum your teeth put on some some deodorant instead of barbecue sauce maybe you can get this corrected maybe one maybe two maybe three women’s see start all the way at the bottom at the women’s then maybe you can get you women oh yeah and also uh
Ladies man if your man ain’t loving you right I can be reach let me take the look at these beautiful eyes look at these fingers rub your shoulders down vacuum your teeth is taking me I’m the solution for The Sisterhood because I can get you right oh
Yeah dust just dust I needed that laugh okay I needed that okay Auntie with your [ __ ] pessimistic women Ain’t [ __ ] The Sisterhood ain’t [ __ ] ass I never said that words in the mouth it’s it’s all on the screen that’s it like I said um go after each other
Attack attack attack destroy each other team up to attack and destroy a dude expose yourselves in the process and then blame him for all of the [ __ ] you just did Total lack of accountability it’s your fault it’s all exactly that that’s that’s usually how it ends you
Know what I’m saying she can admit to all of those other things but at the end of it it’s always blame the damn dude for all of it it’s a total lack of accountability That’s The Sisterhood thing so that’s cool if y’all want to be
Part of it it’s all hey that that’s on you that’s why I said I ain’t worried about the why or whatever I just make my moves accordingly and I should be all right you know what I’m saying that that that’s all it is so don’t get mad and
Talk about ain’t no men protecting you and all of that other stuff [ __ ] just don’t want to deal with that [ __ ] depend on your sisters your Sisterhood and see how that works you know what I’m saying when they really just competing with you for for
Um for the same things that you have and everything else or they just want to see you miserable just like they are go ahead and rely on them can you say my favorite line these women will eat you alive for yeah for for some dick and yeah for
For some dick and a spot on a panel you know what I’m saying I did I I used to say a spot on a Fight Club but there is no Fight Club a panel spot you know what I’m saying real [ __ ] God okay they eat each other man thank
You for your input I hope you come back tonight cuz I’m not done with your [ __ ] I just don’t have time to really squabble with you right now everybody please subscribe to Big Babel’s Channel big Babble is like a super supporter of Venus he helps me out so much I really appreciate him
Everybody please support his channel but go ahead pessimistic one what do you what else what’s going on no that that that’s pretty much all I really wanted to say about that um I agree with just about everything else that you said regarding The Sisterhood everything that the article said but it
Left out a lot of things which is I mean well the main thing which is just blaming a dude for all of it I think that’s the biggest problem because it teaches a lack of accountability on the part of those women that take part in The Sisterhood you know what I’m saying
And and take part in that code there’s nothing wrong with a Sisterhood a sorority um it’s not different than a fraternity where everybody wants to see everybody be the best version of themselves and everybody wants to help each other that whole Sisterhood thing is not that man whatever they said did whatever they
Said Auntie did he did that [ __ ] okay sister hood is never wrong ly what do you have beautiful peaceful wine see she’s never wrong but hey they never wrong but they usually some lonely [ __ ] unless they got a bunch of miserable folks around them so on that
Note I’m going to get up out of here it was a pleasure Venus thank you so much shout out the love C too The Sisterhood is so sick of your [ __ ] I’m GNA [ __ ] um I know and I’m pretty sure they got some more some more Sisterhood home
Girls that they can cry to each other about and all of that other stuff is cool I’m moving forward and they they chasing behind that’s that’s usually how it works shout out to The Sisterhood even though I dragged y’all today I still love y’all and I’m still going
Love y’all and yeah but anyway go ahead love I love y’all too even even though y’all blame me for all the [ __ ] that y’all do cool you know what I love it I’ll take the blame for it it’s definitely your fault yeah peace but but go beautiful love
See um so this was a good conversation Venus I’m glad you’re going to do a part two um I think as far as a Sisterhood or creating a Sisterhood be the sister that you want to have in your Sisterhood and then find likeminded people I don’t think you um have to all
Have the same experiences because I think it’s good to um have a variety of experiences and age groups and um that’s I appreciate having that relationship with you having that relationship with Charelle people that are different and in different seasons of life than me so
That I can learn and grow and that if by chance I have information that can benefit you it’s it’s yours for the for the taking but um I’m I’m excited to hear what you do this evening um and I like this that you took the time out to have the
Conversation and that’s it great conversation everybody on the panel have a good day at work I am out shout out to you for being a real sister okay you really are I just want to say that you know what I’m saying they don’t make apprciate all right you cool lovey you
Need help she’ll help you take time and help you understand some [ __ ] [ __ ] help you do research okay this thing she’s done for me like just just being a real supportive woman with good intentions for other women I really appreciate women like you so I just
Wanted to say that like for real for real because a lot of people are very much not that way and it sucks but anyway thank you darling I appreciate you as well all right so our final person Omega what do you have to Say you’re on mute you’re on mute you’re on mute you’re on mute sir all right so with that I don’t know what happened but yeah I’m running out of time so I’ll see y’all later bye
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