I went to a school that was predominantly black when I was growing up and when I first saw the first white kid I was like what is that stop I act differently around people who aren’t my race I definitely I’m definitely like y I’m all the way strongly agree [ __ ] is you
Talking about for real yeah yeah three two one I think the most important thing is just to authentically be yourself and I don’t think being around people who don’t look like you should be a reason for you to act any different if you show up to a um
A meia talking like this they’re like uneducated got it they’ll use the slang to sell the products and to tweet and to get the clicks and stuff but like as soon as a worker’s there who’s authentically from the area and talking like people from the area it’s like ooh
We don’t like that you know cuz it’s always like well be yourself until you yourself that’s a fact that’s a fact they love to use the lingo all of that and then it’s like they find somebody who using the lingo they not scared to use it around anybody it’s like uh
That’s too much that’s a little too much for us yeah yeah next you getting ritten up and [ __ ] yeah they making up random excuses that that nobody else applies to BU you like I even know that was a rule you know what I’m saying like what okay
For me I feel like it has nothing to do with race it more has to do with just being professional like if I’m at work then I’m obviously going to be a little more proper you know a little bit less slang and all of that and just more
Careful with my rhetoric but I don’t think it has to do with race that you belong over there it’s what I don’t know some people just slow look but he disagreed Co down down you know what I’m saying like deep down he disagree yeah he in disagree section but
Okay but he need to go over there to that agre he scared okay scar it’s all right it’s okay some people scared you know what I’m saying that being said it’s like when I’m around other black people because I’m a republican sometimes they tend to be really standoffish with me or
Think that I don’t understand the culture and all this different stuff so sometimes I have to feel it out like are these people who are just going to call me an Uncle Tom or these people like I can actually just keep it all the way
Real with so so so he’s a reverse he’s a reverse he’s a reverse he don’t want to be called so he think that he act proper normally oh my gosh and so now he tried to rephrase he’s trying to he’s trying to become more of hip hip hop oh my gosh
Hippity hop don’t stop you know what I’m saying that’s that’s what I’m hearing I’m hearing when he’s around black people he act more black right but normally he’s more proper or white reversing this [ __ ] that’s crazy I went on disagree instead of strongly disagree because like there have been
Situations where I get introduced to a group of someone of A different race and like yeah at first I’m pulled back but once I get comfortable with them those walls come down and then yeah that’s where my true self comes out so go over there that’s that’s what I’m that’s why
I put agree because I’m in that same mindset like I’m G hold back if I feel like I’m not too comfortable right right but that means you changing who you are at the very beginning so I mean you might change to you that means you changed at some point
If you was one way and then you said I’m going show something else Chang right okay I’ve been shooting music videos in the hood so I really need to basically adopt myself to become a black person so oh my God wait how do you adopt yourself to be
A black person hey my man came in here he was like uh he was like what’s going on bro what’s popping what’s popping homie hey yo hell no bro no cap and then he strongly disagree No Cap you’re not even being yourself you’re trying to you’re trying
To blend in and talking about strongly dis what you talking about you need be I agree hey bro what’s going on with these people man said I gotta ad adopt no don’t adopt just be yourself hey this is something else bro I honestly when a music video I was like
Okay I shoot music videos I get you you know what I’m saying he just took a turn right there just be yourself that’s the whole point of it right I’m confused what’s going on here for me it’s not a problem like meeting new races I always like Vibe and chill with
People hey bro what’s poing homie and basically like my mentality is like mixed because like in uh Ukraine if uh if we see a black person we call them the nword mhm and from our side it’s not offensive like we say it not from a offensive way but some people can
Because you know like you don’t see a black person well from we say the end word but it’s not offensive it can be though hey [ __ ] is going on N N I can understand that because went to a school that was predominantly black when I was
Growing up and when I first saw the first white kid I was like what is that you know what I’m saying so like it was a white girl with like red hair and I was like whoa I’ve never seen this before you know what I’m is she tround to be like counter
Funny or something where the [ __ ] is she from a black person never seen a white person heard of white people not seeing black people maybe I think she try to like Counter Strike like cuz he said oh yeah where we from we call people like
The NW and [ __ ] so like off oh so when I S like a white like what the [ __ ] is that like but bro but right I know what you say it don’t matter what store you’ve been to there’s a white person somewhere around yeah yeah you go to a
Restaurant you talk about them white white demons at an early age like where did she live that she’s never seen where she could be like what is that like you’re black shy you seen white people in your life right that’s crazy one of your teachers was probably
White even if it was a predominantly black school Jes Jesus is white that’s crazy what is that Jesus is white I think like on an individualistic level like yeah white people get hate all the time but I think if you zoom out and you look at the big
Picture it’s a little bit different and like talking about like YouTube having you know racist content for anyone out there it’s like I would have to go and seek that out versus it like coming to me versus like on Twitter against white people yeah I would have to like look
For a video being like Oh people who hate white people I agree like versus like Twitter I don’t have to scroll very long before I see some person making some out of pocket comment about I love this take that’s a fact like I’m not white but I’m pretty sure you have to
Look that [ __ ] up because I I don’t go on Twitter often which means that they recommend random [ __ ] to me I don’t ever see white hate it’s very rarely it’s like one out of 20 one out of see but I see a lot of black destruction that’s what I’m saying
And I’m seeing random [ __ ] it’s not like like they don’t have real recommendations for my Twitter so I I love this take because it’s a black person and a white person seemingly on the same Accord on the same wavelength and I agree with it too I
Think it’s I think it’s a fact I think it’s a fact I think that there’s a really important distin distinction our language is constantly evolving and you were talking about the definition of racism our societal definition as change to include a systemic part of it and I completely disagree with this idea that
People of color don’t have systemic things against them still because the fact that we still have the KKK the fact that we still have these things and they are in positions of power as long as that exists and as long as that’s a part of our country’s like makeup right now
Which it is and that’s our power structure I don’t feel like you can honestly deny systemic racism against the black community which is why Prejudice is so different from racism I don’t think white people can experience racism in this country but we can experience Prejudice based on the
Societal definitions we now use I agree this chick knows definition she understands word choice yeah I agree with her that she’s yeah she’s correct 100% I’m with so homogeneously we grow up with people who look like us so when you move into dating and things like that statistically you’re going to be
Attracted to people that you grew up seeing right however when you are discrediting um a certain race for whatever reason based off their ethnicity meaning everybody who did exist is existing and will exist from that race you are not feeling anything cute I don’t control your body or your
Thoughts but on one hand I’m like let’s maybe unpack that yes you do grow up you know around you know generally the race or what have you so that’s usually what you’re attracted to right but at the same time I would imagine the men around you who are teaching you who’s attractive and
Who’s not they’re pointing out certain things that make them attractive right oh that’s a nice booty oh that’s that’s nice tits or oh that’s nice eyes or whatever they’re saying right they’re letting you know the curve oh I love the curve whatever they’re doing they’re letting you know what makes that woman
Attractive right right so it has nothing to do with race when you break it down or unpack it right if I grow up learning big booties is attractive right even if I see a Asian chick if she got a big butt I’m trying to holler at her like yo what’s
Good with you shorty right so like I don’t that’s where he lost me at but I I get I guess I get what he’s trying to say I was thinking about it on the terms of me being a black woman I feel like it’s a lot different when it
Is a black woman going into dating someone that is not of their race um I can tell you from my experience with dating Hispanic men white whatever they only seen Jerry Springer and Mory so it’s like they have a whole different idea of what a black woman is like
Before my husband changed a lot one of the comments made to me was he was afraid of me going to his house with braids in my hair because then they would assume that I was a different kind of girl instead of looking at me for who I am she just
Wait he basically said [ __ ] I don’t want you looking ghetto in front of my [ __ ] parents right right right have some regular vular hair right like hey bro right but look she already did just say she got rejected in Japan uhuh and say she’s never been uh rejected because
Her a race but yeah she went to the strong disgree maybe she’s thinking dating wise but hey you know like I’m saying I don’t know maybe it was just a private event I have been denied access because of my race I can go anywhere I can sit down
Anywhere and I am not going to be denied because of how I look and I would be ignorant to not admit that oh oh my God bro she’s a psychopathic liar slow she here for the view she that’s what she is she here for the vi and I’m going to
Counter that with we are justifiably not let into spaces and our whiteness takes away access to things like powwows there’s an island in Hawaii that’s only for natives or for like safe spaces for black communities or whatever else we are justifiably denied access because of our skin period we love the Nuance the
Thing about Hawaii though yeah Hawaii is stolen land I believe that they have every right to be able to say only we’re allowed to go here because that was theirs it was literally stolen land that was stolen by white people yes no but that’s why it’s justifiably it’s still
Denied access but it is justifiable 100% don’t let me in it’s denied access but it’s justifiable that’s all of America shorty I don’t she need help Hey oh it’s like in my own day-to-day life I could go anywhere I can sit down anywhere I can go read a book in a library I can go to Starbucks people don’t fear me because of how I look and so they don’t feel the need to be like
You can’t be here but like in in your day-to-day life are you being denied access like are you trying to go to that island that they won’t let you okay then I think that’s a really good question like am like like has it happen um I guess cuz like are you seeking those
Spaces then not necessarily seeking them if I am already aware that this is like hey this is for us not for you I’m not going to show up and be like yeah but like I’m a cool white person but there are spaces that we are not allowed and I
Think that’s okay no it is okay but if you’re not actively seeking to be part of those circles you’re not being denied access to them I will agree with that sure and I like and I can say that maybe those are not the best examples but like I think especially because my Social
Circles are predominantly people of color there are definitely things where they’re like where I’ve had them be like this is not a conversation for you and I’m like okay I have had those experiences I’m okay with them I want to be clear like I think there should be
Spaces that aren’t for me and that is okay but they’ve existed and they’ve been in my life I love this white guy man this white guy has a good head on his shoulders yeah white girl and the white guy yeah is she’s but she lost she’s losing me right here cuz he made
Good point yo if you not if you not trying to get in actively then you’re not being denied access because you’re not there trying to get in right now I get what she’s trying to say like but there are still it’s still a place where if I did want to go I
Cannot but you know hey isn’t that is that’s that’s fraternities and sororities baby I feel like in general I’m not denied access because of my race just in my experience but I had an ex whose stepfather was wildly racist like Nazi memorabilia like just insane individual and I was never allowed over
Her house because of him and the one time that I kind of snuck in he was staring at me through the window and I’ll never forget that in my life the way that man was staring at me through the window and then cursed out his kids
For having me in the house that man’s now in prison for doing God knows what but uh it’s where he belongs you had that goddamn [ __ ] in my [ __ ] house he said he never beened because of his race he’s cap yeah you know I’m gonna call cap on
That too just because I know you know the level at which he’s at right now in terms of Journalism like he’s on TV type [ __ ] so it’s like I’m going to call cap on that too cuz I’m pretty sure they put through some [ __ ] loops and hoops and obstacles to go through you
Feel me I feel like I’m kind of like a undercover agent where I’m like like because I talk a certain way or because I present myself a certain way they assume like oh I could say this in front of you and I’m like what did you say
Exct toen I’ve never never now I’ll say that too I’ve been tokenized so many times have you here we need young black representation and I’m like yes I’m going to stay home yeah that yeah they doing that they oh my God we yeah you’re cool man you should come
To uh come to the next come to the next event I mean you going to be the only black person there they start showing you off like the new [ __ ] trophy yo it’s crazy get out I am proud of my race three 2 one I will go first and I will stand tin
Toes in I was just being ironic to stand over there okay I said please no I cried a little bit that like and I’ll just keep these last two had to think about it and be like oh wait no I am proud he was trying to play like it
Was a joke but you then shorty over there like yo yo uh yeah I’m I’m proud too I’m proud girl stop with the cap if you not if you’re not proud you’re not proud stand tall they be all BR they all cap be loud and proud with it from what
I can just hear it in your voice if you black you feel me and you’re not black I’m sorry but you’re black but you’re not you know what I’m saying you with the white you know what it is I’m not no I’m not going to say and he even said
His his girlfriend he he likes white girls his the father was looking through the window and [ __ ] trying to talk about he was a Nazi whatever sh like that and she got a white husband right come on now bro like talking about don’t wear braids when you come see [ __ ]
Parents he got a white spirit you can’t wear no braids when you see my pant right what type [ __ ] crazy that’s and that’s your husband that’s crazy everybody needs to be proud of their race and stop this like racist [ __ ] because like you could be green red black white hispanic like it doesn’t
Matter let’s go kumb y with this man I agree but man you can call people in the world in your country like it’s not but it don’t matter cuz it’s not offensive but it can be it can be guys okay be careful I’m going to figure out
What’s offensive to them but and I’m going say it it’s not [Laughter] offensive yeah for me like I am proud of who I am like who I grew up to be like I like who I am but like if I were to say I’m a proud white man like I don’t even
Know what that means like there have been zero racial hurdles in my life now like I’m a proud gay man because like I’ve had to go through [ __ ] to get to where I am now and you know even to that point so much of queer culture comes
From Black Culture so thank you um you’re welcome yeah now he thre me off right there my gu you was with me for a minute man you was with me for a minute but come on you telling me you’re not proud of your race but you’ve never experienced any racial struggles that’s
Something to be proud about right but I I I I I think he talking about like the wild part but as a black person I’m imagining us being proud is is being able to go through the struggle and and and get into the other side you know
What I’m saying yeah we didn’t fall right but the fact that you didn’t even have to go through that is a blessing in its own and you should be proud about that then that’s going that’s going to feel like white power type [ __ ] see and
This is the thing now do gay people Fe oh see do gay people create their own their own struggle what you mean what you mean cuz he just said he just said I I I’m I’m not proud of my race I haven’t gone through any racial struggles but as a
Gay man I’ve gone through struggles of of of being gay and I’m proud to be gay MH but you’re not proud of your race cuz you didn’t go through any racial struggles so you have to go through struggles to be proud of something all right I see what you saying that’s crazy
The blessing alone of not having to go through that struggle is something to be proud of you want to get out the mud like the Suburban kids they want to be gangster this a third but you living in a house in a $5 million house and you want to do
Gang and stuff what you talking about it’s crazy [ __ ] you going back that’s nothing that exactly you’re going back backwards I want to be proud of the things I’ve done the people who I’ve touched whose Hearts I’ve opened up I feel like it’s beyond our race I feel
Like what it is is our experiences that make our light shine through so that’s what I’m proud of actually yeah I’m not trying to prejudge her but like listen Shorty if you changing up how you might originally be around other people’s family your spouse’s family are you really changing their
Their outcome on what they think a black person is cuz now you’re not being yourself right you’re already changed before you even showed up yeah she’s another one with a white [Applause] soul that was interesting yeah it was definitely was definitely was think it’s crazy though I feel like some of them
Just bird brains some of them was definitely just bird brain they was just talking to get their point across like oh it’s your turn to speak okay oh God damn cuz it’s like I think it’s interesting all the white people except for the except for the one that likes to
Act like he’s in the hood uh they weren’t proud of their race right why aren’t white people proud of their race because they know what the hell they did and we look at I’m not saying it’s not black pedophiles out there but there a lot of white
Ped you know what I’m saying like white people just do a lot of weird [ __ ]
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