So I think that’s always the difference I went to a big 10 school I went to Wisconsin okay and so that like you know my parents actually met in Greek life and so Greek life although like I know a lot of people are very aware of the problematic nature some of the
Institutions of it um a lot of places like Wisconsin it’s it can be really positive if you do it right and you find your people and it’s great as long as you know you make it great and um it was like very easy access to be very [ __ ]
Like at like but were you like you were cheered on by the other girls or oh yeah really oh that’s fun I know it was great I mean as long as I wasn’t [ __ ] anyone’s boyfriend was like we love Pro [ __ ] we love Pro [ __ ] I mean and it got
To the point where I had sat down with my friend and her boyfriend and they were like talking to me about their sex life and they were like um I mean I had slept with him before um so I mean yeah but that was I right or was I right
And that these college campuses is nothing more than indoctrination camps and it’s a a training facility for women that’s for the streets real talk like her saying that her parents met in Greek life basically is just telling me that her mother was for the streets that’s what the translation is and now they
Sitting here talking casually like this is cool ain’t never been cool I mean look who wants a woman that’s already been picked over and bust down by everybody and then she talking to her home home girl’s boyfriend and them at the same time and they having a conversation
About their sex life and she’s basically like yo I I mean you know I get it but I done already slept with him at the same time a lot of these people don’t even know what they doing when they doing it they just doing it it’s just a part of
What it is that they got going on at that particular time and you know somewhere along the line somebody is probably going to make an honest woman out of a lot of these women that are in Greek life maybe not her in particular but a lot of these women that are in
Greek and it’s not just Greek life it’s just the college life in general most kids shoot off the college in order to have some freedom to do what they want to do AKA bust it down for a real one and then they get it trolled out and
They get you know ran through and then somebody is supposed to pick up and marry these people but this is an American culture like this is the culture that we live in and as you can see it’s not just black people it’s not just Asian people it’s not just white
People it’s not just Hispanic people Latino whatever it is that you want to label it as this is life this is what we’ve basically normalized and we used to have movies that speak to this you know it used to be movies back in the 80s in the in the 90s that basically
Spoke to what this was going to be and then people became obsessed with it and now all of a sudden you know this is our norm and now we dealing with the residual effects of it but they just think that this is cool this is why I’ve
Always said that I’m not cool with the idea of just sending my daughter off to college listen I I don’t care about what Society standards are my standards are completely different from my family and that’s how I’mma go about doing it but let’s continue that was like way before
Any of like years before love sister life I know see and that’s where it became the joke where it’s like in Greek life it’s very very oh you slept with him I slept with yeah I didn’t know if I wanted to say no it is this is the age though where
People actually need to be getting tested the most and they don’t know it’s not a clear pathway to do it and I mean I get tested really regularly but it’s still confusing for me to this day oh and I mean even if you get tested like they don’t test for herpes they don’t
Test for specific things unless you ask for it and again I grew up with you know all of my family getting cold sore if you going out to get tested why wouldn’t you ask to get tested for everything but then when you put yourself in a position
To where you never even expose this in the first place you don’t have to worry about getting tested see the myth is that getting tested justifies the behavior but it doesn’t prevent you from being able to get the issues and the problems and the residual effects and
The pregnancies and the diseases and the STDs and STI that come with being extra promiscuous getting tested then just put you in a position where you have to disclose you know what your status is to whoever it is your partner is going to be and then you crying because they
Don’t want to be with you because they realize that you for the streets which I believe in getting tested but at the same time you know I remember um you know a long time ago back in the prehistoric times when I got married in in
2004 and you know back then you had to you know go through steps in order to get married you know it was it was more to it even further back like I remember you know different people like my brothers who was and seven years older
Than me was like yo you had to go to back then I believe it was called Herman kefir uh but you had to go and basically get tested before you got married and it was a buried entry now anybody can do whatever it is that they want to do even
So much so as being a step crash dummy or a step baby daddy but you got to worry about what her status is before you even start talking to her in the first place because she was a part of Greek life I’m always I’m almost looking
At these chicks that’s a part of these sororities and stuff is walking red flags if you say that you a part of a sorority and you pledge when you was in college forget it bro and understanding that cold sores equal herpes yes hsv1 hsv1 baby and I have hsv1 same and
Exactly anybody that’s ever had a cold sore on ever literally that’s hsv1 that is herp ASMR herp talk but no and it happened and you know what they trying to do they trying to laugh it off because it’s really an insecurity and it’s the fact that they’re trying to normalize it amongst
Each other like oh nothing’s wrong with you nothing’s wrong with me they they laughing because it’s really painful for them to have to deal with it because no one wants this who who would want a permanent thing and now what’s happening in society is that we’ve we’ve basically
Regressed so much to where they’re trying to act like this is normal for us to just be operating like this and this is just cool it’s not it’s not cool where I had literally the guy that I was sleeping with we had ran into each other
Both of us were getting test de we like high-fived and we’re like okay we’ll see you later and then he went on he went down on me not realizing he had a cold sore and one thing led to another and I had gotten cold sores and I thought it
Was a really bad UTI but I never wait wait wait wait wait let’s back we we going back up here but I’m I’m curious hold on y’all met at the clinic and y’all high-fived each other and then he went down on you did we skip some steps here was it something that I
Missed y’all ran into into each other at Clinic hey high five we both getting tested at the same time and then he went down on you I I almost feel like this was like a jump cup jump cut or something but it’s but it’s not and I’mma link of course I always give
Credit to whoever it is that’s creating these clips and podcasts that you guys send me to be able to react to y’all the real MVPs out here so I always give credit to the creators uh and so I’ll link to the Instagram or whatever but what do you mean you just jump
Straight over into to we ain’t even got to the herpes part yet but you just he just started eating you out now was the end of it he just went down on you no nobody asked no questions nothing he just was like hey can I go ahead and get
Get to that box put my mustache in that box let’s forwind for a minute and then he went on he went down on tested that is herpes ASMR herpes talk but no and it happened where I had literally the guy that I was sleeping with we had ran into each other both of
Us were getting the guy that she was sleeping with they ran into each other what I I still I’m I’m very confused or is is he a part of the guys that was busting you down at the time and then y’all just so happen to run
Into each other at the clinic so she passing it let me rewind this one more time no and it happened where I had literally the guy that I was sleeping with we had ran into each other both of us were getting tested we like high-fived like okay we’ll see you later
And then he went on he went down on me not realizing he had a cold sore and one thing led to another why don’t you realize you got a cold sore who don’t know that if they got a cold sore and I had gotten cold sores and I thought it
Was a really bad UTI but I never had a UTI before and so they wound up doing this swab and the doctor was like I’m pretty sure this is herpes but we’re going to like test it yeah hsv1 can be transmitted through both to both locations yes exactly that and so it’s
Like it’s very I almost find myself being like I’m so lucky that a something else didn’t happen but B also that I have it down south because I I get very infrequent breakouts unless I’m like uber Uber Uber Uber stressed and it’s very easy to tell before there are any
Lesions where I’m like okay I’m just going to start taking my V tracks yo can cancel everything cancel life did now I know know why God washed over the Earth with water and then he was supposed to give us a rainbow as a covenant between man and him that he
Would never that that he would never flood the Earth again but they turned the row into something else and now you got all of these people and she talking about Legions yo don’t Legions come with like ain’t that supposed to be like AIDS or or HIV or something like that I don’t
Know what’s going on I’m I’m confused I’m confused listen call me corny call me crazy call me insane for getting married earlier and then deciding that I wanted to be a little bit more traditional than everybody else in his modern society but I’m I’m just not with
It I’m not for it I’m confused as to why y’all think that this is cool to shoot y’all shot in these type of chicks and deal with these chicks and she’s sitting here with a racing jacket on and trying to be a lot more conservative and
Everything and she looks like oh my God I’m the regular everyday chick but they be busting it down for a real one and now now thank God they feel comfortable getting on podcast and just talking about it because they’re trying to normalize it listen you’re never going
To make this normal in my eyes for the streets 100% of the time make sure y’all T into the patreon link is in the description as well as pin to the top of the chat uh I can’t wait to see what y’all comment about this one I already
Know what this one is going to be I love y’all I appreciate y’all be careful out here man be very very careful
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