What’s up world it’s your boy AJ the black World traveler and today this video is about why the black man would never come back here for a spouse and it started years ago so I’m going to break it down to you because if you don’t understand the past and I just
Tell you why now you won’t understand it but I got to break it down to you why the black man is checked out and he’s not coming back well it started in the 50s in the 50s and 60s when South when blacks were coming from the south and
They were moving to other states to get work like you know Illinois uh they were going to steel mills in in Detroit uh working in the car industry you know some moved to California worked in the entertainment industry they were Butlers chauffers uh Maids they came these
Places for a better life out of the South but uh when they came from these places and they did migrate to these places one thing they did they bought houses they bought property um whatever neighborhoods we’re were in like Compton Watts we use 80 90% blackowned businesses most of the homes are
Blackowned uh most of us are owners and not renters uh from from New York all the way to California black people have their own concentrated neighborhoods where they rais their kids they went to school and um basically they had that whole we had our own basically our own
Structure set up uh after integration uh that’s when the woman really started losing respect for the man because well actually when the welfare system kicked in it was a little before that but women who took welfare basically sold the man out because once you took welfare you
Sold the man out cuz and once the man was sold out he really didn’t have no chance so uh when women accepted welfare what they didn’t do they didn’t tell the kids well you know I had to accept this welfare that’s what your dad’s not here
They just say no your dad ain’t about nothing and he’s he’s not going to you know you know find another dadd whatever so she would basically go find another man date him in the future she might end marry that man in the future well a lot
Of times in those days uh when men were not allowed to go home because their wives chose to take welfare over the family he would have to go find his own place to stay he was not allowed to be around uh the woman was not allowed to
Have a man live in the house so if his kids were in the house he was not allowed to be there so a lot of men got drafted to go to the go to Vietnam and fight a lot of them came back you know wounded some came back on drugs somebody
Some came back being alcoholics some didn’t make it back but in the SE then in the 70s came along uh you had the movement of you know where it was always a black man like there was still this system of women on welfare so you have more men
You know trying to offend for their family trying to do whatever so they you know get on the post office you know join them you know join the fire department whatever and you know back then uh women that’s when the last women were really women where they were really
Stand up for their men so if a girl say if a girl met a had a boyfriend and then she started dating a drug dealer you know the women would be like girl you you you dating that drug dealer what about your boyfriend he he’s a good guy
He work at the fire department why would you give your man he got he got retirement he got a good career and the girl be like no you know the Deep Boy got more money you know and they didn’t understand the consequences of that back then because you know you know it was
New so when the drug dealers started getting hit and started going to prison same as The Pimps the women like oh I don’t want to be in this world so they would turn their lives around you know get saved or whatever or they get in a nation but they would do something
Different and they would look for another type of man end up getting married by somebody else and end up you know moving on you know the 80s kicked in the 90s kicked in you know you had to get the bad boy syndrome the gangsters syndrome all these things went on you
Know with the woman still chasing the Bad Boys with the women these are time when women still teaching their daughters how to cook most girls you met they could cook they can go in the kitchen and cook um but what happened was that the man was always in the Box either he was
Getting Ry profiled if he did get a nice car um he he have a couple jobs he was always trying to impress a woman you know by getting a nice car having a nice job you know you know killing himself just to impress a woman to try to get
You know a girlfriend or or a wife some did and then then they got in relationships if the Rel Rel ship didn’t work out it if it was Rocky a girl had you know something from a past hun her same as a guy sometime it’ be a toxic relationship wouldn’t work
Out well by the from there to now which is 2024 um every every decade from the 60s on up to 2024 every decade you started seeing where the man was there’s a lot more pressure on him of what he needed to have fact back then in the 60s he just
Had to have you know just had to be a provider the woman wasn’t on welfare then you know of course she would take in a good man A lot of times a a woman would want her biological dad to be in in the kids’s life so she would try to
Work on that well you’re start to seeing the the the incline of divorces and black uh relationships so through the 80s and the ’90s I go saying those are the years where the women got educated they started making more money down now now the demands of a
Man back in the 7s 80s he just had to have a good job at the post office or in the military whatever have a career that was the thing when in 90s when women started getting their money then their standards went up okay I’m make 100,000 years working for this this this finance
Company or whatever I got a degree she tried to put more pressure on the man that’s when the man started you know trying to make his money but the demand was harder and higher she she demanded more from him because she made more well then you started seeing where
A lot of men started dating outside the community because a lot of times it’s a lot of pressure and then we got criticized for that oh you know they had movies like jungle fever and you know went to the whole agage of that of you
Know being pro black in the 90s and if you had a white girl you was sellout you know but a lot of times you find out a lot of times the black man dated a non-black woman he was under less stress because a lot of black women back then
Had a lot of issues and they were angry they always mouth off you know they were hard hard to get on with confrontational so the women that weren’t that way usually kept their husbands but the women that were confrontational end up losing their men and then a lot of time
They have multiple kids if a did if a dude did come in and be a stepdad then if he was a stepdad there’s a lot of pressure on him being a stepdad see all these things started adding up so a lot of men saw their uncles and their fathers go through these Rel
Relationships so they had to go to court they had to go to case uh you know uh battles with you know um cases for their child support or custody of the kids or as men been going through all these things all these years the woman kept getting higher and higher in the
Financial brackets she started getting more value you know more education where you know you saw a lot of them going to school getting their education right but kept putting the pressure on the man which a lot of other women even African women if she you know she had an African
Boyfriend he was going to college they had a common goal they both go to school and have two jobs but they had a common goal to come together and put it together where the Black American woman I got my own you know they promoted that through the music industry They promoted
That through the film industry so you have you know Stella Got The Groove Back you had Love Jones you you had um all these movies um where you had where the what you know basically where the woman was getting empowered you know he had soul food you had the girl Terry she was
The lawyer so she was the one more you know powerful you know basically she was when that dug herself out the hole you know became successful so we had a lot of women you know that got in those positions but the man was always put in
His position where he had to make more money now you go from the two you know 2005 2010s uh you see every every time a decade came it got harder on the man now he got to make a certain amount of money now he got to drive a certain kind of
Car so now in 2024 let’s get to the the now the the now right now now the standards of a black man now is you got to make over 100,000 a year we just went we just went through a pandemic uh where a lot of people lost their lost their
Jobs a lot of people had to live on their income you know we went through the whole world went through a change a financial change you know we had a lot of you know black men getting shot by the police black women getting shot by the police took a lot out of our
Community but the black man always had this pressure on him to be this and have all this stuff so now what happen in 2024 all the mans that the black women want on him is is so high a lot of men don’t want to deal
With it see a lot of men don’t want to be stepdads no more a lot of men want don’t want to take the UH responsibilities that their uncles and their dads did because they saw what it did to him them dudes a lot of they said the average black man life expectancy is
Like 50 50 or 60 years old something like that uh a lot lower than the average white man or Latino man or Asian man the black man is always under a lot more stress so his life expectancy is always shorter but now what black men have done we’ve gotten control of our
Health even at my age is 52 I’m an active guy most guys my age older and younger are in the gym uh we’re taking classes you know to be better people we learn how to be financially you know secure and stable we’re learning how to
Make more money we learning how to be in better shape we learning more things that we can take from ourselves you know for longevity you know for re erectile D function anything to help us be better men you know go to the dentist you know
Get get our nails and whatever we can do to make ourselves feel better as men we’re doing it and the reason why now that the man is just not going to deal with this stuff and these demands that the women have are so high men have checked
Out and Men ain’t coming back and the reason why they not coming back because it’s only going to get worse also this the black woman is never they don’t listen to us no more you know back in the days even the 80s and ’90s man if you had a weave right you were
Fake hair you got clowned let me be real um in the sororities especially if you went to college and sorority and fraternities you couldn’t get any sororities in fraternities if you had a weave in your head you had to be natural you had to have a natural hairstyle so
What’s happening now is that the wig whole culture and the the the the BB L and and the eyelash culture is considered Beauty now and to us it’s an insecurity thing which it is an insecurity thing when you got to when you got to put on a whole new face to look
Beautiful and you take all that stuff off you look different that’s an insecurity problem your body your complexion uh just just putting all this crazy makeup on to make yourself look like somebody is is a very you know deep insecure problem of self-hate and
It’s it’s a turn off to us they tell men that we had ourselves because we don’t you know we don’t want to date black women like Omar Johnson was saying oh yeah you know y’all bunny hopping a polygamous bunny Hopper I’m going to need to move to Africa before it gets
Too late bro you can sit up there and deal with all these dysfunctional black women if you want to and the thing about it is that the black women who are good out there the problem y’all doing wrong y’all not checking these bras man the black women who are beautiful who are
Good to their men who are you know basically great women need to check their behavior well I ain’t going to lie some some women are checking that behavior and they’re trying to show you and my channel for instance I’m not trying to I don’t want to bash a sister
But I know what done I know the sister the black woman here is done she have her her way she’s never going to listen to us again we tell you we like natural you go put a weave on on purpose you go get a your body your things Su out your
Body on purpose to you get a certain kind of look you know your your health is different your body smells different everything you’re doing to yourself is making you worse and we’re not attracted to it we don’t want no vbl we don’t want no lashes we don’t want no quick weaves
And no no extensions we don’t want that we want a natural woman and you you’re never going to change that because you’re locked and said you got to take me as I am so now that’s why the man is never coming back the black man will never come back
And now you got most American men ain’t coming back cuz now a lot lot of men are starting to see if a man is not happily married and found a good woman here they’re looking elsewhere I mean you see these videos now the girls oh man it was like oh yeah
I went down to Thailand I seen all these average looking white men with we beautiful Ty women where she what she considered average to herself is goodlooking to a woman overseas see I lived in Asia and I I say and I was in Asia man that was the best dating I ever
Had I was 18 18 years old I didn’t know that it was going to be like this cuz I wanted to have a black woman when my two years was up in Asia I came back I had a Japanese girl I was dating she flew out
Here to see me she was going to come back and visit me again I felt bad because you know I like I really want a black woman I you know and she’s a good-look woman she’s very attractive but it was like she liked me for me her
Dad didn’t approve of us dating but her mom did and I and I didn’t really want to go through that at at the time I was kind of worried about that but she was one of the best women I ever dated and I never dated nobody like that ever again
No woman that I’ve met after that has ever given me peace I I’ve only had two relationships after that because I never really met somebody that I could you know chill with because my thing is this my biggest thing of me in my 20s the reason why I
Left the states and and moved to Australia because most women I met all had kids and I didn’t want to be a stepdad to No Man’s kids so so in 2000 actually 1999 I went to go visit my friend in Australia I loved it I ended
Up moving there in 2000 I end up coming back after 3 months because I didn’t migrate correctly but the thing about it being there it was just a lot more easier but then I met my you know ex-wife at the time and my wife at the
Time I met her and then you know we came here it wasn’t it wasn’t good she had a lot of issues and and then a lot of my friends that are black over there had the same issues as over here that their thing is more like
You know women it’s kind of the same kind of culture the women are driven you know they they’re you know they want to be independent how they own thing the difference over there that the women are a little more violent they fight their men that’s the thing that was about that
Over there so in America you don’t really have women fighting fighting the men physically but everything else a lot of black women being a lot of drama you know if you if you dating a world from the hood especially you know you might end getting Street out with a dude cuz
You know this girl is you know dealing with a certain type of guy you might have to fight this guy you know because she got a boyfriend a’t tell you so black men just don’t want to deal with the problems anymore um a lot of black men like
Me were the ones that gave them information like man I I used to go overseas so when I see the passport bro moving that’s when I was you know when I was traveling 30 years ago as 18 year old to to Thailand and and and Philippines and Indonesia and all that
We were considered the you know the Exotic men the black men was exotic over there you barely saw us but a lot of brothers are going over there they realize that see a lot of these countries in South America and Asia in Africa a lot of them well I I can’t
Speak for Africa but Asia and South America I can’t speak for uh there are a lot more women than men so that’s why when you go to these places sometime you might meet somebody and click with them you know people might have sex at first night the second night because neither
One of them having sex most black men in the states are not having sex with wom here no more they wait till they leave I mean some dudes have some dudes do have like a little jump off they got here but a lot of them don’t a lot of black men
Here that travel abroad are not even sleeping with women here in the United States and that’s why the man is not going to come back there’s no benefit for him uh financially the best thing for a man in this country is financially uh you can make great money you know
Especially if you get a nice job or you know you get your own business uh like me being a content creator I’m working on being a content creator so I can be able to travel the world and entertain and show people cuz I love you know I love traveling you know I’ve been
Traveling and I I I was going to try to start my channel years ago but I just wasn’t ready I got footage from me being in Australia me being in Colombia back in 2015 2018 and I I haven’t never posted that stuff up because like I say
I never really knew what I was going to do and I finally put the channel out in 22 but um the good thing about it is that um the men are happier a lot of black men are getting happy because they’re leaving a lot of the women are
Bitter a lot of women talk a lot of crap you know they oh yeah leave we don’t need y’all y’all Dusty anyway y’all broke uh it takes money to travel and a lot of us are willing to work our asses off just to be able to take that trip I
Ain’t going to lie man I work for the vacation I work for the vacation cuz I’m able to chill when I leave here and I go to another place I’m able to not worry about work I’m able to relax and What’s happen with black men now we finally
Found a time where we actually able to relax uh my one of my buddies had a felony and he didn’t think he can get a passport um I influenced a lot of my friends to get passports um and I think and now like six or seven of my friends
Got their passports now uh two of them I travel with I travel with two of my friends so far and um they were they were just blown away how different it was like one of my friends he still dates here with the other friend and
Myself we don’t date here no more if I meet a woman here ain’t going life I meet a cool woman here and she’s on my level we you know where we want to you know travel together and hang out cuz most women I mean here don’t want to
Travel so now black men here are checking out because they they’re not meeting women who don’t want to they want to travel uh and you know basically be a team most women that now that you meet that want to travel they want the man to
Cover the trip they want the man to pay for everything and they just want to go there and be cute it’s not it man no and if we’re not a team if we’re not a couple even you’re a couple you still put your money together as a as a couple
If I got a job you got a job and we going to take a vacation together we put our money together now if it’s a CHP if it’s a trip for your birthday or something or anniversary and I and something I want to do for you I’m going
To treat because that’s something that I’m going to do but if we doing this as a collective and we we plan you know a trip together let’s put our money together so a lot of women nowadays don’t want that they say I want to go on
Trips I want to go shopping but they want the man to spend all his money and so what’s happening now the man has Tapped Out the black man is tapped out I can’t speak for all men even though I know a lot of other men of other ethnicities have have Tapped Out the
Black man for sure is is getting out of here because he just want to be at peace he just want to be loved he just want to feel like a man he wants to feel wanted he wants to feel appreciated he wants to have affection we know we want that our
Women ain’t giving us I mean nowadays not black women would even give you no eye contact or they want you to come to them and so many women of made men look so bad men don’t want to even approach them no more because it’s not worth it
It’s not worth it to you know approach a woman and then she she has an attitude and then you go on the date she want to go to the to the the Ruth Chris Steak House and spend $500 and then she’s telling you all these high demands and
Then you spend $5 $600 on on a meal you could have spent $500 to go to go to to go to to Columbia to go to Dominican Republic uh to go to Ecuador to go to Chile you could have went to go to Argentina for
$500 and you went on you went to the root Chris steakhous and spent money there and took her out on the you know out to the movies or to a concert you know you damn near $56 in on that you can go out and take a passport same
Amount of money fly across the water uh be with women that are more beautiful that’s going to like you you know and ain’t going to lie to you man man is every place has it good and bad you know when you go to Latin America I ain’t
Going to lie man some of the Latin American women move different especially in Colombia I’ve never I’ve went on two dat in Columbia I’ve been to Columbia three times and the uh the first two times I went I never really dealt with women I just didn’t like the way they
Move they just move different than me the way they talk and uh what they expect from you is money money money that’s what I got from them I didn’t like that feeling and then when I went this time I went on two days one girl
Was just out of pocket I told her what I do like and I don’t like I told her that and then she got to the date she started you know talking about me you know hey I don’t you know I don’t go I don’t you know have sex without money and I don’t
Know she was talking about we never even talked about sex she just kind of went there so some women will go off don’t get you know don’t get it twisted everybody ain’t perfect but overall black men are still checking out we’re checking out and I’m telling you if you don’t know where to
Go um I’ll be real with you men if I go to South America or Central America and I want to go on some nice dates go to Panama City Panama the reason why you use the American dollar that’s their currency is the American dollar uh the women are a lot more
Nicer not saying they’re not nice in Columbia but it’s a mixture of all the Latin countries you have a mixture of all different type of Latin women uh it’s very safe like there’s police presence everywhere the mentality in in Panama is very different you’re not dealing with a lot of um women
Trying to set you up and it it’s not like that out there they’re not you know you know want they don’t want to be doing nothing like that it’s a lot of different laws and the police I say they’re everywhere so you don’t hear about that and on top of that man it’s
Just it’s just a different Walk of Life it’s a clean City uh it’s very it’s very uh retro it’s very updated so internet is good there I mean man the restaurants the people are amazing man uh you have a lot of fun uh Costa Rica is next right
Next to uh to Panama so if you rent a car you can drive to Panama you can drive from Panama to to Costa Rica if you want to uh there’s a lot of nice places to go to like Daren Straits you can go to uh Fort Sherman you can go
This is pretty hysterical this is how the Spaniards came into Panama they battled right there this is amazing never seen it like this in my life look at this old building you know uh cologne you can kind of move around the city uh it’s a very pretty place the
The uh the energy there of the people is amazing it’s always something to do it’s a lot of historical places to go to um I went to KAS Vio which was amazing they have a lot of nice nightclubs there at night uh nice restaurants I said it’s a vibe it kind
Of gives you a old kind of Cuba kind of Spanish type feel when you’re in Costco vijo you know when you’re in the city though it kind of gives you the Singapore kind of New York field when you in Panama City cuz it’s they got train system which was amazing they got
Amazing malls uh it’s just a really pretty place to go to and so if you’re going to tap out and you don’t know where to go if you want to do something on as a starter kit which I call it the starter kit start in Panama man I took
Two of my friends first time out of the United States I took them to Panama with me and we had a blast cuz there’s so much you can do there the like I saying the PE the main thing to me is the people the people in the culture was
Hands down was the best you I mean the nicest people and if you’re a single man you go on to dates the dates were good I mean I went a couple dayses I didn’t like but they were more like Americanized kind of women and they had
Kind of the you know mouthy and you know they spoke English but they had this mentality of and I didn’t really like it it’s like you know it was really like cocky and arrogant you know but most of the women I met that were generally you
Know from Panama even if they were from Colombia or Venezuela and they lived there it was still cool and it’s you know it’s affordable I had a nice apartment there I mean everything there was good and so if you’re going to tap out and you just kind of want to test
The waters yeah Panama City Panama would be a good place for you to start same as Costa Rica uh Costa Rica’s very clean and in a lot of places uh the beaches there are amazing if you rent a car there man the the beaches in Costa Rica
These are the two places I recommend you to go if you for your started kit go to Costa Rica and Panama Costa Rica if you want the beaches and the beauty definitely go uh the tickets are not expensive at all to fly there uh you can
Get a rental car you know uh the hotels which I don’t do hotel I do airbnbs mostly and the airbnbs are really amazing um you have a great time a lot of the places are well-kept uh the the structure of getting to your airbnbs are very very professional uh everything is
Set up for you when you get there like it was so smooth I didn’t meet none of the owners but everything was set up for me when I got there like first place I stayed at uh he had a Cod box and they gave once I landed they gave me the code
Box I put the code in the door and it opens it up for me and I was there for like 2 or 3 days other place had a key for me at the second location so it was always setting things up for you so when you get there everything’s set there and
So uh yeah women black women I I I know it’s never going to be the same for us uh it’s going to get worse and worse cuz now that a lot of men are checking out you see a lot of women hating and making hate videos about all the passport Bros
Or predators and dealing with young women and child and child sex and all that stuff it’s totally totally wrong man it’s totally wrong there’s a whole world out there and we live in a country where the women just don’t respect the men especially black men um and these
High standards that women want you deserve to have those high standards so don’t get mad when we leave if you want those high standards you demand that um you you you have the right to get those demands but guess what if we tap out we
Tap out which we are a lot of black men are gone and we’re not coming back to date here it’s not worth it the stress level having kids with you and dealing with all that you same as I was dealing with my Australian wife she was black
Over there they had the black people over there had the same problem we had here you know confrontational you know arguing always you know a lot of friction and I saw a lot of similarities when I was there in Australia with the aboriginals the Aboriginal and the black
Americans had very very similar traits when it came to relationships and and just a lot of more similar a lot of similarities when it came to relationships and dating only thing that was different there is that you are still kind of exotic there cuz you’re you know you’re American but the end of
The day man the black community in the in the Aboriginal Community because I was married to Aboriginal woman I saw the in the Aboriginal community in the church Island community I us to see a lot of couples fight especially in the Aboriginal Community where they were fist fight and I was married to
Aboriginal woman and it just wasn’t healthy so but if you got to you want to tap out man tap out and go to them places if you want to tap out man go go check out the Panama in Costa Rica those two places to check
Out um so if you guys like my content please like share and subscribe and uh hit the notification button so you can be notified when I post a new video it’s your boy AJ the black World traveler I am Out
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