Guys how are you dret young here I’m so excited for a few moments that I have with you today I’m going to speak a little loud just to make sure um that you’re able to hear me on uh one of the videos on YouTube sometimes it’s low um
So nevertheless come on in with me and um we’re just going to talk for a few moments everyone all right hello hello hello I want you to visit my new website is www transformation Isn now.org are you ready for this conversation are you ready I want you to
Join with me and also invite someone on with you I believe something that I say today even if it’s just a paragraph or a sentence right um you’re going to get something out of this um if you want to be married this is for you if you are married
Um I’m going to touch on some things as well for the married couples okay but if you want to be married many of you know that I um you know I gave a prophetic word about this year being a year of God ordained marriages God ordained marriages what does that mean
Right you know people say things but yet we want to make sure it’s okay we want to make sure that we have the understanding about what we are saying so that we can all be on the same page so God ordained um simply means that God can and God does bring bring people
Together for his own purposes yeah he brings them together and it’s up it’s all about his purpose and the glory that he’s going to get out of that Union okay now can God get Glory out of people’s unions and people’s lives that he didn’t necessarily uh put together or join
Together um we’re going to talk about that so we know that this is going to be a year already there has been countless marriages if you want to do research I haven’t done any research but you can go and see somehow you’ll find some marriages taking place in the year of
2024 somehow I’m sure you’ll be able to find it because just in um uh the past week I have seen uh different people’s weddings and proposals on on Facebook now I had given this prophecy a very long time ago and I want you to know that it’s actually happening so again
This is for people who desire marriage and some things that we’re going to talk about quickly some things we’re going to go over I’m going to touch on spiritual matters somebody say spiritual because is not enough that we just have the natural because we are going to be dealing with deep
Issues and this book is the spiritual side of sex the dangerous path of an uncensored sex life if you have this book let me know how it is blessing you if you don’t have this book I want you to come and invest in this book many years people didn’t talk about sex in
The church many years people left this topic out but this is a needed topic and a necessary topic you know why because regardless if we talk about it or not and whether people think it’s for the church setting or not it is because the church consists of humans
And humans right they need to understand what God desired for their sexual life and so in this book I’m going to be coming from chapter what’s this y’all chapter nine so in the book we’re going to be coming from chapter nine in the spiritual side of sex this is one of my
Best sellers I have written 13 books and working on three more right now looking to release them soon it takes me a long time for my books cuz AI don’t write my books so if AI write your books hey that’s cool that’s your decision but we
Write from what the Lord has given to us to write all right so the spiritual side of sex somebody say the spiritual side the spiritual side how many of you know let’s start here because you all know that I deal with soul ties you all know
That you know I’ve been teaching on soul ties for about six years now so if you are new to the Channel I want you to go to my YouTube page and hit the Subscribe button that little bell will give you all the notifications so that you can get my videos because a
Lot of people don’t get them on Facebook I also want you to come to I’m on telegram I’m also on Tik Tok all right I’m on clubhouse so Instagram as well I want you to know that you can find me in those places all right now this book was
Birthed by God and I remember one time I was considering writing and I I had to go before the Lord because I as I was considering writing this book I begin to come under great attack as I was considering writing this book so I called um my mentor who is a
Wonderful man of God and yes he is in Africa he is a Deliverance specialist Minister he’s an apostle of the lord it’s very very powerful he has written on mommy water he has written on witchcraft Voodoo I mean he has gone so far he has written over 62 books and
Still writing more and I remember calling him and he said to me that they are going to attack you because you are giving Revelation that most people do not have and you are exposing their Kingdom so they every time you begin to speak they are going to show up so he said but
Don’t fear he said you know I want you to continue to do what God has called you to do and he had released me to begin to continue to talk about the spiritual side of sex so I like to give a lot of information in my courses and my
Webinars you guys know that I have freedom from masturbation webinar I have a soul TI webinar I’m getting ready to you know put some ads out there for those courses I haven’t done that this is just organic talking to you and letting you know that I have it but I’m
Getting ready to begin to let people know that I have these courses and they are very very powerful so I have a great deal of knowledge and experiential knowledge not just nothing coming from a book or nothing coming from the internet all right now there are some things that we’re
Going to talk about because God said this year is the year for those who are going to be put together by his doing they’re going to be magnetized towards each other now we’re not going to play with terminology I know that with terminology sometimes it can create a lot of confusion you know
With the spirit spiritual realm and worlds you know people who are diving into uh spirituality all right we’re not going to play with terms but I’ll say this God knows how to bring people in your life God knows how to bring them into your life God knows where you are
And he knows where they are and God is above all and God can do whatever and I think that we are going to stop boxing God in because he definitely can do anything he so chooses to do because he is what you call called Sovereign he can
Do whatever he want to do he can live by law or he can break law he’s Above the Law he is the law he is above all and he can do whatever he wants he’s the ruler of all all right so how many of you know that spiritual marriages
Exist and we’re going to be talking about a lot of these things quickly and I’m going to let you go now y’all put me on a timer because you know I have so much to say so sister Mia put be on a timer I just need 30 minutes all right
Are you ready are y’all ready did y’all share it because we got to get this in all right so as soon as I tell her to go we’re going to get going Hallelujah all right YouTube I need 30 minutes with you guys all right that’s it I’m not gonna
Take one hour I’m taking 30 minutes are you ready let’s do it all right let’s do it sister Sylvia sister syvia you you have the full course inside of the book you were one of the first ones who ordered um the whole entire course and let me
Tell you this book is different from that course I’m going to get it for you so that you can see okay quickly Hallelujah so I have the spiritual side of sex full word book right here y’all ready you got me on the timer okay 30 minutes minutes let’s do
It let’s do it this is the spiritual side of sex by Dr Evette young exploring all the ways that God will release for you to get to your freedom and your Holiness so you see how tall this book is this is not the 6 by9 this is the
Book and let me tell you the only thing that is the same thing inside of both books are scriptures other than that all the rest of the information is completely separated from each other so the course is one thing and the book is another okay let me give you some of the
Table of contents quickly y’all it is some good stuff in here and I’m not just saying that I promise you I’m not sex in our societies that’s the very first chapter sexually transmitted demons somebody say demons not just diseases and we’re going to talk about that as well dangerous soul ties amen
Freedom from masturbation we have a little bit on that in here cheating spouses and how in the world are you’re going to deal with that protecting our children fasting for your freedom successfully single how in the world you going to live as a successful single we’re going to talk about what that
Means before you say I do which is what we’re about to go over real Freedom the role of the holy spirit in your life doing this process reasons to wait and then I have a lot of health facts at the very end so that’s the natural part that
Is in this book The Only Natural part the rest of it is all spiritual now how many of you know that God ordain marriage from the beginning we know that it was Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve not Eve and leave it was
Adam and Eve amen so we have a male and a female from the very beginning this is the institution of God it is what God designed it is what the almighty put together him himself he didn’t console anybody for that information he he he designed Adam and Eve that is that
That’s what he did amen so we are not going to change anything that he did Hallelujah now I want you to write down second Corinthians because the Bible gives us some information and the information that is given us it says be not unequally yolked together with unbelievers for what Fellowship has
Righteousness with unrighteousness and what common has light what communion has light with Darkness all right so one of the things that you want to do in this season I have had people call me on many different uh scenarios one woman said listen there was a man that treated her
So well but he wasn’t saved so she wanted to know what I thought about it and I get a lot of you know questions that people really have and they want to know sincerely what does God think about this so this woman had been through so much in her life through
Relationships and she met a guy he was not saved but he treated her like gold he treated her so well and she had a lot of men who were in the church that treated her horribly cheated on her dogged her out took money from her you know narcissist people that beat her and
Abused her and all these things a lot of these things are common to us amen many of us all have been through some of those same scenarios and she really had a serious question she’s like woman of God what do I do you know I really love
This man and this man was not saved he was not a born again believer but she was and she literally she knew and she looked back over her life she was like I cannot go to a man it doesn’t matter if he’s in church I cannot just marry a man
Because he’s in church because I’ve been with them she said I need somebody who’s going to treat me right who’s going to love me right who’s going to protect me protect my heart protect my mind protect my emotion she said but he’s not saved woman of God I don’t know what to
Do so in that situation I had to tell her the truth okay and I had to sympathize with her and just leave the decision up to her and I understand today that this could be the scenario for many people today day you may meet people along the way right and this man
Could treat you so beautifully this woman could treat you so beautifully and the way you want to be treated and all these things right but they are not saved they are not in the same category with you now I had to give it the word of God and I said I understand but
You’re going to have to make that decision with the help of the Holy Spirit but we cannot be unequally yolked together with unbelievers because Believers are considered as being light and the world are considered as being dark and there’s no Fellowship amongst those two so it may be a painful
Experience to cut off from someone who is not on your level spiritually right um but it’s necessary if you want to be a right standing with God now let’s go on to talk about some of the things you need to know before you say I do if the
Lord is going to send someone into your life is is still doesn’t matter that they are sent by God it matters that they are sent by God but there are still some questions that you’re going to have to ask and there’s some things you’re going to need to know all right so I
Want you to know that adults should be talking adult conversations all right when you meet someone it’s not just for you to go out to dinner we get dressed dress same old routine right it’s like a ritual it’s like we get dressed we go on a date we
Go out to eat you know put on our nice attire put our best foot forward and we’re on a date with someone right just trying to figure out who that person is and then hopefully you don’t go directly to the house or to the hotel because
This now is the time for you to ask questions and for that other person to ask the questions and I’m going to give you some of those things that you need to look into dating is not for the purpose of getting to know someone sexually dating is for the purpose of
Getting to know someone spiritually mentally right and solic I’m going to show you what that looks like if you go out to a date or you go out to the coffee shop or wherever you go the man and the female the male and the female is supposed to have questions to
Discuss it’s not about sizing you up how you look you know what type of uh you know because people marry for different reasons does she have a Coke bottle does he have a flat stomach I want to see how he take care of your all these things
All of that is going to come at the bottom of the list but but at the top of the list I want you to write this down if you can find out what are the common sinful behaviors in the family background we’re going to deal with what makes this person who they
Are we need to know where they come from what they have been through and what they have experienced now y’all got to have to share thank you guys for sharing we need some people in here because I’m on a timer y’all so quickly hurry up welcome everybody quickly share it to
Someone today want you want to know what are the common sinful behaviors in the family we’re looking for patterns you want to know about their parents you want to know about their siblings you want to know about their background you want to know about the things that happened to them when they
Were children and some people may say oh it’s not necessary it doesn’t matter you know what they’ve been through if they’ve been to jail if they were on crack if they were a robber cheater do you know it somebody been say oh well that’s the past it is the past but if
The past has not been addressed thank you sister Mia if the past have not been addressed it is not really the past it’s going to surface again I’m going to try not to preach come on come on somebody I said it’s going to surface again your marriage can literally be a toxic
Place if you do not address issues beforehand so dating is not just you know I want to hug I want to kiss I want to you know get closed and feel all ooey gooey no no no no that’s what’s getting people in trouble because if you begin to have sex right
Off then now you have created a dangerous Soul TI of someone and will find yourself marrying someone not because of love not because of Attraction not because of God bringing you guys together but simply because of lust and a marriage cannot hold when it was based on lust because watch this marriage
Marriage and some of you say well how can she talk to us about marriage I’ve been married for 13 years so I got a little bit to share with you I have a lot I have a lot not a little bit I have a lot okay so everything within this
Person is going to show up in the marriage where y’all at Hey hey YouTube where y’all at so if you begin to get oooy gooe the feelings of Attraction and you begin to become affectionate with this individual and you have not ask the proper Questions then something can bind you all together and you find yourself in a now yoke and it will be hard for you to break away from that person hello somebody amen oh God so you want to know what are the common sinful behaviors in the family background we’re looking for
Patterns what are the common sicknesses and diseases that run in a family line why is that important well if it runs in a family line is also going to run through that person’s life if not cut off so if that person’s parents or grandparents had cancer diabetes kidney
Failure just know that it’s in the bloodline so it is something that you guys need to begin to talk about so that you can begin to pray about so that you can begin to cut off so that that sickness does not arrive and you all are spending lots of money on medical bills
And having a lot of sickness and disease that take away the quality of your life and the quality of marriage let me say this I remember when I was growing up my father never got healed from all of his trauma that he went through uh being a a
DA uh he was a son of a witch and a son of a alcoholic so his father my grandfather died of alcoholism and his mother was a Bonafide um witch a practicing witch and he grew up with a lot of a lot of trauma and back in that day they weren’t
Dealing with trauma they weren’t dealing with the soul wounds they weren’t dealing with any of the deep issues in in the lives of of the people they weren’t dealing with that it was just you know uh very trivial and surface things that they were dealing with and
So my father never got the healing that he needed from all the hell that he had experienced in his life he was kicked out on the street uh actually he left home at the age of like 10 and started Living in cars just to get away from her
And living in blighted buildings he had a very horrible upbringing then he began to raise himself had a lot of trauma in his life my mother didn’t know how to handle that because we were not back in the day we we didn’t know how to handle any of that
So we were just all trying to find out what in the how in the world we’re going to get help for individuals in our family and so you know the thing is is that when you don’t know what a person have been through mentally emotionally there wounded they’re scarred a lot of
Things are going to take place in that marriage and if you don’t have the necessary tools like we have today thank God for a lot of the tools uh that we are getting now to help people to heal at a deep level y’all and this is why I
Want to encourage people to do the healing that is necessary do the steps don’t just Overlook all of that in your life there are people that you’re going to meet that have a bunch of skeletons in their closets and they’re they’re needing to get this stuff out of them but if they
Don’t they’re bringing it to you all right so then let’s go down what are the most common problems in the family number let’s four if the parents are deceased what were the causes of the debts you need to write these down and ask these questions are the parents
Married separated or divorced why you want to know these things it doesn’t mean that because your parents divorced you’re going to divorce but it gives you an indication of something that watch this something that happened and we believe that there are spiritual Roots so if possibly it came
For your parents and it’s going to come for you and your marriage not that your marriage had to dissolve or become a divorce but you know that divorce is in the bloodline it’s a pattern so you want to know if there is separation if how do these things happen in their families
What type of work do the parents do what religions were uh did they grow up in hearing what what you know what are their spiritual beliefs very important now a lot of times we just how that person make me feel he makes me feel good she makes me feel good but wait
Marriage based on feelings is going to fail because feelings will not be the same every day as a matter of fact the person you get with sometimes will get on your Last sometimes be Mar and see you know society today all on social media you see people saying look how she looked at him look look how he looked at her look they they must be fighting I mean if you don’t fight in your marriage if you don’t have arguments what kind of
Marriage is that how in the world you are two different people you are going through the process of becoming one but you’re still two different people so you know when you see people and they’re not smiling at each other and y’all want plexiglass y’all want fake y’all want
Plastic but in your marriage their breath is going to stink in the morning sometimes they don’t take baths depending on their their their own cleanliness right you know sometimes they’re just is going to be nasty and mean depending on what they are going through if they have the fruit of the
Spirit or they don’t come on you’re dealing with real people I’m dealing with real people all right what are the problems that challenge the parents in their marriage do you have a strong relationship with your parents or your extended family members as well you why am I asking is because listen we all
Come from a tree we all come from a family tree and I told everybody in my Ministry I said look I want you guys to look into your family tree and I want you to pick all the negative fruit and I want you to begin to disconnect yourself from it you
Know why because it’s in the root it’s in the root and Jesus said something he said whatsoever root that I did not plant or tree that I didn’t plant right he shall it shall be uprooted now who’s going to do the uprooting you’re going to do the
Uprooting with the help of the holy spirit all right what are the noticeable traits or behaviors that you see in their extended family right how are or or H have your parents at any time pronounce curses upon your life and then you want to ask that person as well
Have your parents spoken any negative words over you you know you this is very important you know why because parental parental all right sister Karen is saying it’s difficult to hear um is anybody else having a problem hearing um sister Karen if you can type in I’m so sorry for the dis
Uh inconvenience if you can come to YouTube quickly just type in evet young if you can come there quickly I’m so sorry for the inconvenience for you to switch over um let me give you a few more time is ticking you guys do you dream about your deceased
Parents often that’s one of them now another let me go back up evet young Dr Young d r e v e TT young y o u n g do vet Young on YouTube thank you so much let me go back up to the second one if your parents have spoken negatively over
Your life or over the person so you want to be talking about these things so if you go on a date and then you’re like okay I like this guy you know uh he likes me so what we going to talk about on our next date and so you’re finally
Like okay we’re going to go out again and have a cup of coffee or walk to the park or however you guys are going to get out and start getting to know each other so you guys are going to begin to talk about deep issues now if that
Person is saying to you I don’t want to talk about that red flag I don’t want to I I don’t want to you know you don’t need to know that about me you don’t need to know that about my family why you asking me all those questions if that person become defensive red
Flag okay why because there is something there either they want to hide it or they’re not healed from it and it will surface if you marry that person it’s going to show up and if I don’t say any other thing I want you all to know that everything that is within the
Person is going to reveal itself in the days and in the months and in the years to come so yes if your parents have spoken negatively over you from birth what happened while you were in the mother’s womb were your parents fighting were their words being spoken
Over the baby were there rejection in the womb if somebody said I don’t want that baby I’m not ready for a baby I don’t want your baby whatever whatever things were said then all of those things can be addressed but you have to know what actually happened because that
Person consist of more than what you see in the natural so that person may be fine cute got on a St John suit with a tie baby may be stacked and fine and just looking like a a fine glass of wine but on the end inside that person
Consist of way more than what your eye can behold so it’s not about the exterior because we see nakedness today we see finess we see a lot of people showing all the curves and they’re showing everything look at the Red Carpet nothing is left to the eye of the
Beholder we are seeing everything so if you only look at the outside if you only look at the outside Hallelujah then you’re going to be fooled you’re going to be deceived and you’re going to be hurt when stuff start to surface because that person is going to surface because they can only put
Best foot forward just for a little bit so even if you date that person for one full year right you need to have the questions asked okay turn off the air you need to have the questions asked thanks anointed all right all right so have your parents ever regretted conceiving you or giving
Birth to you because that is going to show up in a person’s life all right what do you know about your grandparents and your great grand or your great great great or your great great great have they done any research on their family tree do they even know if a person tell
You I don’t know I’ve never met them I don’t know and you you you need to ask them to do some research you need to ask them to do some research so that uh they will be able to find out and there’s always someone in the family who knows more about the
Family tree than others right like right now I know if I want to know something I know who to go to in my family because they they have done all the research and they know about things that other people don’t really know about and care to look
Into so these are questions you’re going to be talking so as you have this in your roll ofex you know marriage is serious and if you don’t want to go through a divorce like people they don’t mind divorcing divorcing divorcing people have been married three and four times they say
I’m going to do it until I find the right one well you know you got to know how people feel about marriage you have to know about it okay now what did your parents worship what did their parents worship what Idols are in the family what other false religions
Occultism um the ancestors or other things that will worship were anybody a part of any types of Cults any types of sex fraternities sororities all those things are so important to know all right I’m going to go down a little bit more are these Idols currently worshiped in their
Family why you want to know this first year second year y’all may be still on the honeymoon third year things are going to be in the surface fourth year things are going to begin to surface fifth year so there could be a lot of things going on under the roof
Like you know fighting um many people could be starting to now manifest right things in that character that you did not know that was there okay y’all with me please if y’all driving don’t text but let me know if you’re with me all right is there love and unity in their
Family do you see that or are they separated are they engaged and meshed or are they all islands like they just live as an island to themselves because you may find a person that is family orientated and they are very immes in their family but then the other person
Is like no we don’t do that we have our own life to ourselves right and we are an Ireland so you may have people that say well because we don’t mingle like that you can’t mingle and they will stop you from going around your family the
Reason why dating is not just for let’s go out and get a glass of wine let’s go and you know get you know some rot Chris Steakhouse and let’s you know just go get a dance and you know have a night on the lake and looking over the moonlight
Over the water you know if you want to be romantic without being spiritual and asking some deep questions you can possibly move into something that will cause you a lot of pain in your life and most people have already been through hell in their life why marry
Someone right and then have to go through another layer of Hell okay you know because people are going to bring who they are and they can only be a different person in the beginning for a short amount of time but eventually everything about them is going to surface you also want
To know what kind of person what is the nickname what is the traditional name I remember I dated a guy who called thems spider well guess what this was before I had the Revelation and he sure enough was like a spider what are the nicknames what are the nicknames what are the
Nicknames and if a spider bite you they poison going to that is going to inflict your life and sure enough sure indeed sure indeed what are the nicknames what are the traditional names some people are connected to Demons because they’re tradition name right or the name that
Their parent gave them was a name of a demon a deity or any person you have to ask questions yesterday I saw a little boy and he was uh wanted to show me uh he had on like a Spiderman outfit and he was just showing me his little moves I
Said look at you you’re so awesome and cheering them on and just encouraging little boy probably like about six and I said what’s your name he said Z I said Z what’s the full name I know your name is not Z like the letter Z he said yes I
Said what’s the full so I asked his mother what’s his full name and she told me his name and they had e l in it so I said uh L like the L’s the Elohim and like the gods she said yeah I said oh okay so he’s named after a deity she
Said yes see people are named after deities and these de every time you call the name watch this that spirit will show up and begin to impact the child’s life that person’s life the marital life all of these things are very important y’all ain’t hear this y’all y’all did not hear
This no way I’m telling y’all don’t even play like you heard this don’t even play y’all this some powerful stuff now watch this all right so what are the common problems with the first born The First Daughter the first son and the last born in the family do you have anybody with
Psychological issues you know anxiety issues all those things you know people who have schizophrenia all these things what are these traits and these patterns you want to find this stuff out y’all I’m helping y’all tonight listen I’m helping you all right does the family now this is just a family we’re going to
Go back into other relationships about if you can find out about their previous relationships how did they treat the people they were with before you how did they treat them what was the cause of the breakup because sometimes they don’t want you to know because it’s embarrassing but there are times you
Need to find out were they abused were they abusive did what did they get you know beat up or did they beat are they narcissist are they a person who abused emotionally because I don’t care what nobody say if you punch me in my face and my eye is black eventually my eye
Will heal but if you kill me emotionally you have done me more damage I’m not saying that I accept physical abuse I’m not saying that I don’t agree with no abuse no but if you punch me in my mouth my mouth will heal my teeth if you break
Out my teeth I’ll go give me some veneers but if you damage me every day mentally and emotionally you are Satan because you are breaking down the structure of a person from within and you are the most wicked creature to abuse someone and break them down from the
Core of their being if you meet a a person who can never uplift you they can never apologize they can never admit they’re wrong you are going to have hell on Earth what’s the financial situation in the family anybody prospered did anybody break records did anybody come out of
You know the village did anybody come out of the hood did anybody ever get to a place where they broke poverty you know because if they grew up from the village it doesn’t mean that they can you know it doesn’t mean that they have to remain in poverty they can they can
Break out of it if they grew up in the hood you know if they grew up around disenfranchisement if they grew up around you know loow income if they grew up on the government food stamps if they grew up without having food it doesn’t mean that they have to stay there but
You want to know if that’s a pattern if that is inside of the bloodline why because you’re going to know that now you’re going to have to work a little bit harder you’re going to have to pray a little bit harder to break the spirit of poverty and then work hard to make
Sure that that Spirit watch this it it goes beneath you instead of dominating your life and a lot of people that they have a poverty Spirit very impowered Spirit they never ever break out of that their bank accounts never rise you know some people don’t have $50 in their bank
Account and it’s been that way since they were uh working like say for instance they got a job at 18 years old and now they are up in age and they still don’t have $50 in their bank account that is a spirit of poverty there is an altar
There all right and the altar simply means that someone service an altar and a spirit now has locked down on that family and that family is not going to rise according to the scripts or the the contracts or the documents that was written over that family so somebody
Have to break out of that now you want to know about the perversion are they staying married anybody having babies out of wet lock what is the what’s the case in the families these are very important these are things that you have to talk when you are dating and you
Getting dressed you already know baby I know what we going to talk about tonight we not just going to be all cozy and kissing all on each other and touching everybody and getting all sexy and in the bed no no no no see see don’t
Put the C before the Hearts see you are doing too much and a lot of women and a lot of men are doing too much before the time there is a time for everything underneath the sun Ecclesiastes there’s a time to be all lovey and doy and Kissy
And all that kind of stuff but now you need to begin to think about your future if you want to be with this person and if this person is saying that I want to marry you and I know that getting a rock on your hand and all that beautiful
Stuff and all that is good and you know the IDE aidea of a wedding the idea of marriage the idea of you know wearing a big fat you know big fat dress or tiny dress whatever beautiful dress you want or the idea of a man walking down the
Aisle with a beautiful woman you know and all these things that’s the idea don’t be in love with the idea because the idea of marriage is beautiful but if you are in love with the idea and not go deep come on somebody then you can go through some
Things that make you regret saying I do to that joker what did the father do was the was the father a a polygamist what did the wife do with her life the mother the mother of the male the mother of the female how did they live their life how did they live unto
God how did they live unto their Idol how did they live their lives before their children very important these things would say a lot about a person not that you can’t break out of it not that you can’t be different like I tell my daughter today I want my child to be
Better than me so if I made a mistake before my daughter I said daughter you know this is the way of the Lord we’re going to do it the way the Lord wants it done you know I want you to know that people are all all their own their own
Set of everything all men are not the same no I used to say that many years ago when I was a young girl you know Heaven stepped into you know the fullness of my call back in the day when I was a teenager I used to say all men
Are dogs that’s not true it’s not true I just I used I literally saw too many people get hurt by men and I used to say all of them are dogs not that’s not true it’s not true it’s not true and you know the thing is is
That people are people they are their own individual we cannot make them who we met two years ago and Jade them because we were jaded there are quality people out here but you will never know the quality if you do not have serious adult conversations if they don’t want to talk to
You about these things you have to find out why are they hurt do they need therapy do they want therapy you will find some people that say I don’t want therapy so which means if you marry them they will never go and get counsel they will never ever get therapy with you
Even though it’s needed there are men and there are some women most women statistically most women are the ones that run to therapy first if men go to therapy right if men go to therapy is because they really seriously want to work on themselves and make sure that
Their marriage is healthy and whole but there are a lot of people who don’t want to go to therapy or counsel so imagine living with someone who never want to work on themselves who never want to see The Faults who never want to take the blame who never want to do the work
Within them eles you’re going to live in a living hell uhhuh okay so before you say I do these are just the few that are written in the book but there’s so many more in here that that I’ve written out for you okay it’s not easy knowing what people do in
Their private life yet cuz you’re not living with them and that’s why you see some people say things like I want to live with them first because I need to know how it is but that’s not permitted for believers and I know there are narratives out there guys that tell you
Know we going to live together first but come on y’all as a spiritual leader as a Bible leader I can’t I can’t tell you that that is correct you know I would be a lied to tell you that you have to test drive before you you know commit in a in a marriage
Like now people do it people do it but if it’s that serious for you and you really just you’ve been with the person for a long time yall living together why not make it official sign on ad doted line and then just move forward but staying together before
Marriage you’ve already opened the door for a lot of problems down the road why the enemy always always exploits open doors okay am I helping anybody today am I helping anybody all right now how does this person I’mma close it how does this person treat people how does this person treat
Leadership does this person want accountability do you know the greater God calls you to be you’re going to need accountability you got to answer to somebody if that man as the head of your life does not submit to no one oh my God oh my God you’re not covered you’re not
Covered because if they do not submit to God they’re going to allow the enemy in to attack you and the children and this is what’s happening a lot of men and this is not a hit on all men but a lot lot of men are egotistical and prideful they don’t want
Nobody knowing their life they don’t want anybody close to them at all to see in them so if someone see that this person has a problem watch this they will hide behind title they will hide behind outfits and dressing and hide behind uh accomplishments and achievements and watch this people of
God Amen sister little show say this is a seminar we getting tonight I’m giving it all for free and listen I want the best for everybody and I’ll tell you this nothing can disrupt you and get you off kilter and off balance than a horrible relationship that is sucking the lifeblood out of
You even when it come down to people who are called to do great things whether in the church whether in the world you are called to be a CEO a business person you’re called to be a leader you’re called to be you know shifting lives you’re called to go for marriage can
Drain you financially emotionally mentally spiritually marriage can be the thing that break you down to nothing if you marry the wrong person and one of my mentors says marriage can be either a holy wet lock or Unholy Deadlock so we can do the work on ourselves but we don’t need nobody else’s luggage
Because if they don’t want to work on their own luggage then it’s going to be a whole house full of baggage and Luggage that ain’t never going to get cleaned up so we’re going to need people to do the work on themselves and I’m just talking real to you guys because
Again you have to know that it’s not one person in the marriage is two people and one person cannot just do all the work on themselves and then the other person is like oh well you the one got all the problem so uh I don’t have to do nothing
But sit over here and just watch you go through all this no no no see marriage you become one with whatever is on that person’s life you become one it’s a blending effect so it can be heaven or hell on Earth which one you choose so that’s why questions that’s why
Research if he don’t want to tell you need now how does he handle his money does does he know how to budget his money right you know does he does he know about credit does he know how to pay his bills on time does he does is he always financially bankrupt what’s wrong
What’s going on Hallelujah listen let’s ask questions let’s find out how we’re going to have a healthy successful marriage healthy if a toxic person gets married to another toxic person the marriage will be toxic toxicity kills okay that’s right sister Karen uh afari said does he tithe y’all Lord sister
Karen come on now come on y’all what what what else y’all want to add to it come on add to add to the book today y’all can add whatever does he tithe that’s right does he give to anybody does he come on your house can’t be
Blessed if you can’t give nothing to God they got men out here they don’t tie nothing to No One women alike and they got men out here and women out here they’re not listening to nobody’s instruction what kind of person do you want in your life can he be rebuked can
She be re rebuked y’all Pride come before a fall and so a lot of times people are not standing and their marriages are breaking because we Overlook too much and so one year two years now they’re in divorce court you know children are hurt they can’t can’t see where God is in the
Family especially leadership like spiritual leaders and and um you know like men of God and women of God houses a lot a lot of a lot of people have problems even in those houses because watch this your gift and your callings are without repentance which means you
Can live any kind of way you want want and still your gift will work it will work it is a gift God does not take his gifts back no he’s not an Indian giver y’all okay and so before you say I do we have to think about Lord I want to
Be married right I want to be married but But I’m seriously going to make sure that I ask the right questions so that I don’t just get all fuzzy and just get excited about a wedding dress and a beautiful wedding and pictures and all these things and yet I find myself in a living hell
There are people who treat you right in front of people but when you get back underneath your roof they treat you like trash now one of the things I want to say there is a word that people are using now and it’s called narcissist I don’t agree with abuse of
Any kind and I’ll tell you one thing narcissist are the most abusive they’re the most hurtful people they inflict so much pain and I found a lot of people in church they stay with these kind of people because they don’t want the church saying one thing or the other but
I’ll tell you this you’re the one living in that kind of hell you’re going to have to make your decision de ision abuse of domestic violence mental spiritual emotional Financial abuse is abuse and I don’t I don’t condone that not me not me not I not me you may find
Somebody to tell you oh stay with them stay with them stay with them stay with them it’s going to work out it’s going to work out pray pray pray but listen if someone is abusing you you every day of your life where is your life but you will find this out about
Them if you don’t just get the flurry feeling and you don’t get into the soul tie and connecting the soul because the soul tie would obscure your vision if you start to have sexual encounters with this person the soul tide will make you think you’re in love but you really are
In attraction and lust and some people are attracted to monsters and vampires so I just wanted to have this short discussion with those of you who are here did they go to prison for anything what did they go to jail for find out are they faithful to people do do they keep their
Word do they lie to people do they deceive people you have to find that out if you overlook it then that’s your own fate at F now people can change but if they want to change I will tell you and Shout from the the rooftop people change when they
Want to change those people who believe that we just going to pray we just going to pray and you you never hold people accountable and you enable people to stay the way that they are you enable them to stay that way then you’re going to live with that for the rest of your
Life if you so choose before you say I do how many sexual partners did they have how many you know and if they don’t want to share that with you they’re not ready for marriage hello I’m going let shall go I know time is spent but I’m going to do part two
That’s just a little bit guys the spiritual side of sex okay were they ever raped or molested what are their thoughts about how they handle children and how many children do they want do they want them what are their beliefs what should you be doing in the marriage
Or do they want you to cook and clean all day every day serve them run their bath water you got to know what they want what do what will be their demands on your life you got to know if that is what you want yeah I’m telling
You all these things and so much more if you are dating someone today and you have not asked the questions uh what you waiting for so hopefully tonight is the day that you start you know as you have written them down you know and if you feel afraid to talk
About these things and something is wrong as well if you have fear to bring these questions up something is wrong as well you already know right someone said about the cultural differences absolutely my husband and I had so many cultural differences right and you can say I don’t have
Culture in me you you can say that all you want but it it’s not true you do have your culture your culture is a part of you your history even the way you know we my husband and I uh I make African food because I learned how to cook African
Food and the way that they eat there they take their hand and they dip it they take this pound of theam and they dip it in the soup and then they eat with their hand like this and I’m like um all right okay I can handle that but then he swallows
This big chunk of stuff down his throat so I’m like do you have to swallow it like that you can’t chew it okay he’s like well this is how we do it I said okay so 50 something years old you can’t stop him from doing that because that is
Culture whether it’s to be swallowed or chewed he going to swallow it because it’s culture so if I want him to chew it he’s not going to chew it because that’s his culture okay so culture is culture a person got to only be willing to change that but I can tell you one
Thing about it if it’s culture huh that’s like wrestling with I mean Leviathan you know try to get somebody you know to stop stop that what they do that’s what they do okay that’s what they do so just let them swallow it down that throat okay it’s called pounded yam y’all you look
It up look it up on the internet and it’s this big fat thing look like potatoes it’s like a big big fat big rise of potatoes and they grab it with their hand and they dip it in the soup and then they swallow it they don’t chew
It so we chew over here but they don’t chew over there so yeah so yeah I I was literally asking like I’m looking at him out the side of my eye like dude you can’t chew that nope they swallow it that’s right we we made semolina
Today we had simina today um um my daughter don’t like simina she likes the smoother consistency you know so I have to go to the store and get her you know something out else because she’s like I want to eat the soup but I can’t do the
Simina right it was the European culture that gave us utensils that’s right so when we used to you know when we eat with utensils pretty much most mostly everything but in my culture I’m from New Orleans there are certain things we eat with our hands too so like ribs
Y’all we’re not about to take no Fark and scrape the meat off the bone we’re going to take our hands and get barbecue sauce on our fingers and we’re going to eat it so culture is culture and that’s just it we going to eat the meat off the bone not with a
Fart we’re going to pick it up in our hands so we just have to kind of you know bull Seafood we’re going to eat with our hands don’t put you better not bring no fart to eat and seafood right we ain’t that sophisticated we going to eat it with our finger so you
Know um I hope this was a blessing to you you got something out of it those of you who want to be married um marriage is ordained by God and the man is to be the head of the home love the wife as Christ loved the
Church and gave himself for it the woman is to submit to the man as unto the Lord if you feel that you cannot submit to that man as unto the Lord then don’t even say I do okay why because everything will be out of order and the government of heaven will
Not be established in that place and when the government of Heaven is not esta establish you cannot get the blessings and the fruitfulness that God wants to bring into your life God called us to live in peace and not you know confusion the Bible says what confusion is as every evil
Work I want you all to read The Book of Proverbs Proverbs Chapter 5 67 I want you to read the book of you know wisdom is so important it’s for The Prudent it’s for people who love instruction but fools hate instruction so you know always look
For the good in people but don’t ignore the negative or the bad or the bad fruit that you see because those are the things that are called spots blemishes and wrinkles now people may say I want to work on these things and then people may say I don’t but if that person you’re
Living with or that person you desire to be with say I don’t want to work on myself then you’re in for a negative ride you’re in for a hostile ride you’re in for a ride of a lifetime that will make you regret sometimes even
Living okay and so if you are in a toxic relationship right now and you’re thinking about being married the toxicity is going to cross over into the marriage Because unless it’s dealt with which is premarital counseling I know people don’t don’t do it no more but I agree with premarital counseling that’s
Where you’ll find out a whole lot how they handle conflict how how do they what do they do do they throw things around do they yell do they scream do they fight what do they do so God wants us to have healthy wholesome marriages but it takes asking
The right questions not you know just overlooking certain discernment God gives you to see and you ignore it and now you’re on a ride and now everybody around you your family your children all these people are impacted and we have so many Blended homes today and it works for some people and
It doesn’t for some but the blended family you know baby mama drama baby daddy drama sibling drama you know cross generational drama you got all kinds of Dramas that God never intended right and a lot of people are saying they you know I was telling my husband I said people will divorce a
Wife and they don’t want to do what they want to you know as far as dating a wife like I tell people continue to date continue to date if you dat it before date while you’re married because if you don’t and then the marriage break down for whatever reason any of those we
Talked about you’re going to go and find somebody else and you’re going to start dating again and I see people going to date a new woman or a new man but they didn’t want to continue dating the one that they had you think grass is green
On the other side is truly green where you put the work in leave the weeds there leave all of the bugs there they’re going to eat up the crops if you don’t do the work pulling out the weeds pruning it cutting back what needs to be cut off if you don’t do the
Work marriage is work is what it’s supposed to be a good teamwork but NE it is it is work and if the person don’t want to do the work have mercy my God and there are people that are suffering today and it’s not the will of God
So you want to last thoughts you want to begin now to pray that God will reveal to you that he will show you if is the one that he’s bringing to your life all right yes people also have STDs you need to talk about that people are getting
HIV they get married and they get HIV from their spouse tronis Gara syphilis I have them all written back here the very last chapter they have Li public Li they pubic Li I’m sorry not public pubic Li is ghea human papiloma virus that’s the HPV that uh causes the warts you know
People that have warts on their genitals um HIV a now HIV is not AIDS but you know I have all the information back here in the back Hepatitis B you know hepatitis C they have a lot of different uh things that you need to know what’s in their bloodstream uh just
To be safe gent to hurt people you have chyia uh all these things have discharges bleeding between your periods back pain nausea fever uh pain uh it creates durint sex some people cannot they they become sterile they can’t have children uh because of those sexual transmitted diseases now the
STDs as far as sexually transmitted demons the demons are what creates a lot of the problems in people’s lives so if you’re not willing to go through deliver which is something very very um I mean I I Herald it I really really believe in Deliverance before marriage and deliverance before divorce because
These powers are going to definitely create a lot of problems in your life if you do not address them but there are so many uh sexually transmitted diseases some can be treated with medicine some can’t some um you have to be on the pill the whole just your whole life some of
Them are treatable but if if a person have these things in them and they don’t know that they have that’s one thing but if they know that they have sexual transmitted diseases that don’t let you know about it then that’s a whole another thing so you know this book is
Loaded you guys and I am about to pump up the volume on my ads on my marketing this book and just sharing more about it because it will help so many people who don’t even know to think about the things to ask as well as those who
Desire marriage or just desire to be with someone um and have a friend before I believe in Friendship before you jump into this type of a marital Union because marriage is supposed to be for life it is not supposed to be I’mma try it out I’mma test drive it and see if it
Works and then if it doesn’t I’m going get me another woman or I’ll trade you in and get you get you know get me two other women give me three other you know marriage is not about that that is secular and that’s that’s you know truly carnal that’s not the way Believers
Should live their lives I’ve heard people in the church say things like that you know if it don’t work I’ll find another one and I’ll find another one I’ll find another one but we want to adopt the way God do things in our heart in our spirit want to be right before
God and I believe in Deliverance and I believe that if all these issues someone have they all can be addressed is the person have to want to be in a vulnerable position to address them you know and not hide behind pride and ego those are curses I believe pride pride
And ego are curses they hurt people they hurt families they hurt children you know Pride always cause anything to fall whether a human whether a business whether a corporation or organization you know pride is going to cause it to fall and so you know God wanted us to
Have Community to heal God wanted us to be accountable God wanted us to be able to share with people you may you know find one person you can be open with and transparent with with so that you can deal with some issues you know there are Christian counselers there are Christian
Therapists there are Christian that believe Bible right that’s what you want the secular world is not going to tell you the things that that that the Lord will tell you that the the Bible will tell you right and so you need someone who’s Bible believing if you a Believer right because people
Need the authority of the word of God right he’s the final Authority here so again I pray that something today was said to bless you I always want to be a blessing to you this book is available you can come and get it y’all check out God’s roal women.org that website is
Still there come there and get it you know trans information Isn now.org I have so many um book materials every day I got downloads come and download the freedom from masturbation book I’m going to be talking about that more and more and more people are struggling y’all and
Many people just don’t want to talk to anybody about it but God opened my eyes one day and I saw so many people being bound and being just ran over by the spirit the spirit is messing with their lives y’all and that’s why I talk about things that most people don’t because
You know it’s only so much that we can fake it right people are really doing these things but they are bound by it and so again God wants us pure and sexual spirits will cause your life to be impure no matter how much you love
God no matter how much you want to serve God but what it does is it put a wedge between you and God so if you want to go closer to God that wedge is there so that’s why delivering pulls the Devils out and then it causes
You to now get close to God how close can you be to God with devils in the middle of it right and so if there are bondages bondages are the issues that need to be addressed thanks of God not overlooking things like we have been taught by some we don’t overlook
And just fake it till we make it I remember I I’m telling you I remember things people told me years ago just fake it tell you make it no no fake what I can’t that’s not even my personality I can’t fake nothing I try but I it don’t
Work for me y’all I just be as I am and so if I have a problem I’ll let you know I have a problem if I have a situation I have a situation whatever that is you know but I I I believe that you know you
God will put someone in your life you can be vulnerable with also you know go over these questions if you are dating right now don’t just make it about sensuality oh he’s so fine oh she’s so fine oh I love his voice oh he loves my
Voice oh I just love how I feel around him honey them feelings one day going to check out the window and you going to look at him be like oh I don’t know what I did and she oh I don’t know what I did you know why because feelings feelings they
Dissipate they’re not enough to hold a real marriage solid marriage through year of Storms and trial and tribulations feelings you can’t you can’t keep it with just feelings because there are times your spouse will get on your last nerve there are times where your spouse will aggravate you and
Frustrate you if y’all think marriage is Glitz Glamour and pictures with people smiling as soon as they take them pictures with them Smiles watch this when they go back inside right you don’t know what they doing underneath that roof so here’s the thing if you work on
These issues that we talked about become solid become strong become understanding get counsel get Deliverance you would be able to strip all that stuff away to get it out of the way from creating the problems that it will create down the line and then you can get to the
Fruitfulness right so male and female I believe need Deliverance why everybody’s connected to something everybody has something that need to be stripped off of their life eyes and when you do the work and you put the work in you will see the beauty that comes from ashes who said that he
Said I will give you Beauty for Ashes what are ashes you know what ashes are that mean everything don’t start off pretty there’s a lot of ashes in people’s lives but God promise to give you beauty so we got to deal with the as you got to deal with it and not Overlook
It and I I I wish that people could be real I wish that people could truly be real it there’s so much Freedom they’re living under a facade a fake life is a miserable life a real life is a real abundant fruitful life that only God can
Give those of you who want to be married I pray for you in the name of the Lord Jesus today that’s who I serve so those of you who are stopping by cuz you saw the title we serve the Lord Jesus we live by
The word of God and so I’m going to say those who want to respect the word of God if you want to marry in God’s will amen then I pray for you I pray for you that when this person appear that you will know the tools the keys
Necessary and you guys will not get off into a soul TI having sex out of marriage but you will do it the right way you will honor God in your union and I pray that you all get the book and read the book together cuz it
Will be a blessing for you so if you are thinking about marriage today or you have a friend a niece a sibling a cousin a uncle a coworker someone get them this book if you don’t need it buy it for someone if you want to know what’s in it
Read it and then give it to someone come and get it it’ll help you things that you have never hear on your Sunday morning but will help your life and help your future all right I bless you I thank you for your time you know I went over 30
Minutes y’all but I’mma work on it again okay so thank you all so very much please do come to Gods Royal women.org transformation is now.org I’m here for you I have counseling Consulting I have so much available for you all you have to do is say hey I’m coming over there I
Need that class hey hey hey hey I need I I need it woman of God I’m coming I’m coming I’m tired of waiting I’m going to get it I’m going to move forward you know and so hey I look forward to meeting with all of you and any
Questions any concerns please email me I have all the information I put up under the video God bless you God bless you you guys have a wonderful evening I don’t know about you but I had a lot of fun and I love talking about these things because they are so needed and
Necessary and so if you jumped in sister beu please listen from the beginning it will bless you and give you a lot of answers and that’s what I want to do bring answers to the people of God that he has brought in my space amen so your life can be thoroughly furnished I’ll
See you soon y’all look for me I’m always here and I’ll be praying for you as well tongues of Fire coming up soon I will be praying tongues of fire is going to be nothing but speaking in tongue so if you are a tongue talker or you want
To be a tongue talker then you need to be with tongues of fire that I’m going to be doing this week God bless you I’ll see you soon have a great evening
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