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Being a resource for my Panhellenic and campus community has been an incredibly rewarding experience. Working in my campus’s Collaboration for Assault Response and Awareness (CARE) office has equipped me with essential tools to educate and raise awareness about interpersonal violence. Through this role, I’ve discovered that many students are unaware of the vital resources available on our campus to support individuals affected by these issues. These resources may include, but are not limited to, the Counseling Center, the Title IX office, the CARE office, and the Student Health Center. It is crucial to familiarize yourself with these services, as they can provide invaluable support to you or a sister in times of need.
As a sister, have you ever thought about how you would respond if someone confided in you about experiencing interpersonal violence? It’s a question that we often don’t stop to consider, but it’s one we should. In moments like these, it’s essential to remember that your role is not just as a sister but as a compassionate friend and ally. Your response can make a world of difference. If someone approaches you with such personal information, first and foremost, thank them for trusting you and opening up. Acknowledge how difficult this must be for them and ensure they know that you are there for them. Ask how they would prefer to be supported and, if they are open to it, share relevant resources that could assist them in their journey. You can also gently encourage them to seek professional help by connecting them to campus resources such as an advisor, resident hall assistant (RAs), or any other trusted campus representative.
Above all, it’s crucial to respect their privacy and autonomy. As someone who has been entrusted with this sensitive information, it is not your place to judge, blame, or share this knowledge with anyone else. This is a moment for your support and care, not for spreading or discussing the details.
It’s also important to understand that some individuals on campus are “mandatory reporters.” These are people who are required by law or university policy to report any information regarding interpersonal violence to the institution. Common examples include RAs, advisors, professors, and even dorm front desk assistants. While these individuals are wonderful resources who can guide you to further support, it’s essential to be aware that once you share this information with them, they are obligated to report it to the university. This is something to keep in mind if you or a sister ever find yourselves in need of assistance.
April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month. A time to learn how to be there our sisters and make an effort to educate ourselves on the resources offered on campus. Sexual violence is unfortunately most prevalent on college campuses, so understanding the available support services and sharing that knowledge with others can make a significant difference. By staying informed, you can help create a safer and more supportive environment for everyone.
