Hey everyone welcome back to my channel are you too old to play should you pledge is it too late that you miss out usually when you pledge in undergrad you’re about like what i don’t know young babies typically when girls ask me did they be younger than i was when i
Pledge and i’m like you’re fine anyway so let’s get into the teeth obviously absolutely not i’m going to tell you why you are not too old to pledge i’m going to tell you why it’s a good
Thing to pledge older and i’m going to tell you about my experience this is a lifetime commitment you are going to be in this sorority for the rest of your life until the wheels fall off until it’s
Adios and you’re going to another lifetime now of course there’s pros and cons to everything for me the pros of pledging older is that i was already set in my ways i already knew who i was greek life was not going to change me because i’m a grown established already in my personality
Are already in my characteristic type of woman you hear people say oh greek life change this person they’re different i do definitely believe that’s possible i’ve seen it i witnessed it myself but for me i knew that wasn’t going to happen because i was a grown woman period nobody’s
About to come in here and change me you have to think about it i was older than my pro fights you already know who you are it won’t change you you can make a more sound decision cons
Let’s get into cons you may not mesh well with the other members in the sorority because of the age difference for me that did not happen because i’m childish you would never like if you put me
In the same room with my line sisters and we’re all together you would never be able to be like she’s years older than them she’s way older than them like there’s just no way you could
Have been able to tell there’s still some people today i’m like oh i didn’t know you were that age and i’m like well i was literally making youtube videos about it while i was in college don’t ever
Be embarrassed or ashamed because honestly for me i wanted to fight that stigma of it like an age appropriate group for college any age is appropriate for college if you want to go when you’re fresh out of high school great if you want to go when you’re on your third career path that’s
Fine too because honestly for me i feel like when you’re younger you’re less inclined to know what it is that you really want to do for the majority of your life sometimes people know and then they do it and then they’re happy and then great but that’s just not everyone’s story unfortunately
So i never went into college ashamed of of my age or ashamed of my story and in fact i was proud of it and in fact i wanted to scream it out to the whole world because i
Want people to know like you can do this this is okay this is normal don’t be ashamed of your story don’t try to hide it you don’t necessarily have to be out there just talking about it
Yeah i’m 27 i am 27. you don’t necessarily have to do that but don’t be ashamed of it because really honestly when you’re ashamed of something that’s when people try to use it against you because they know it makes you uncomfortable they know that you’re not happy about it they know that
You are sitting uncomfortable in it so now they have this advantage of on you and why for me i truly feel like you need to be able to mesh well with these other girls like if you’re a mother
Trying to pledge your 27 a mother kids and all that and you go and you try to pledge with some 22 year old girls who are living their best life and stuff like that don’t be their mom don’t try
To be a mom don’t be over there like girl you need to sit down because you fast and you die we’re trying to give them advice i’m trying to get a laugh with them joke with them tap into who you
Were when you were 22 and try to relate to them because once if you start trying to be their mom and start trying to do all that type of stuff like that they’re not gonna like you trust me
I would be honest with y’all i have the time of my life i had the time of my life i feel like out of my whole life i honestly feel like i went out more than any of my other lion sisters i was
Supporting everyone i was going to everyone’s parties i was popping up at everyone’s stuff like and still today like i will support people and i would show up and i would turn up if anybody was to turn up zeta on our line it was me and it probably still will be me and
It probably will always be me it’s so funny because me being the oldest you would think that i was the opposite you think that i was the one in the house being old and fragile no
I had the time of my life in undergrad and i think it’s because i was older like i already knew i was going to college and i was going to get everything college can give me i was going to get it
Any experience any whatever i’m leaving with it at my age i was like i finally made it i finally made it to university now that i wanted that give it to me i wanted that give it to me nobody was
Going to steal my experience away from me not my age and not anybody else who had a negative opinion about my age but i’ll be honest no one did people will reach out to me all the time like
Thank you so much for sharing your story and being open with it because i’ve been wanting to pledge and i just felt like i was too old and i just felt like this and i’m just like that man if y’all
Don’t go after what y’all want if y’all don’t go after what you want imagine not going after what you want because you think somebody else won’t have a problem with it it’s not that life stop letting people tell you no stop letting people talk you out of stuff stop letting people make
You feel bad about what it is that you want it’s you’re the one that has one life to do it you’re the one that has one opportunity to do it at least in this character form because once you’re out
Who wants to be old thinking i really wish i would have put my all into this i really wish i could go for it right now at least try because if you fail at least you know it
Probably wasn’t for you you put your all in it you went for it it wasn’t for you period let it go now you can let it go instead of thinking oh i wish i would have went for it
You better go for it i’m not playing with y’all y’all better go for it i’m pretty sure that i enjoyed my greek undergrad experience more than a lot of women who were younger than me that pledged so that’s all i got to say love you guys and i’ll see you guys
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