Hey guys welcome back to the channel welcome back to the video it is deja and i am back with another video honey what’s good what’s popping if you’re new here make sure you like comment and subscribe if you’re not new here then you know still like comment
Subscribe and welcome back to your girls channel i had to think about it i haven’t really did one of these videos in a long time so welcome back guys um today we are going to be talking about a little juicy email that was sent to me
Okay honey so we’re just gonna hop right into it um with this being said i did get permission to use this email as a video so i don’t want you to think that i’m just like telling people’s business no honey i got permission okay so i took a screenshot of it but i’m
Gonna go to the full email for you um programming oh i just got it i just got an email from my chapter y’all it feels so weird to be active again because i’m receiving all these emails and y’all y’all just don’t even understand okay so let’s see
What is his name here it is okay so this is the email i am not gonna show his name but this is the email and you can see that i replied to it but that’s the email and we’re just gonna hop right into the video obviously you guys y’all know what to do
Give this video a thumbs up comment down below so we can have a conversation about the stuff that we about to talk about today okay because i’m still trying to come up with a nice title for y’all to be like oh what and hurry up and click on it because i love you
Know what i’m saying not clickbait titles but you know titles that uh you know get the blood get the blood going okay you guys so let’s just jump right into it so my subscribers sent me this email he said hey deja i want to start
Off by saying i love your channel i am a junior and currently interested in participating in the intake process for phi beta sigma my boyfriend however is currently a member of kappa alpha psi at his university and wants me to become one as well he says that he already told the cap was
On my campus that i was interested every time he brings up greek life and i tell him my heart is set on sigma he tells me i’m thinking i’m not thinking right and i already have a spot in kaplan you know that’s real funny that you know he has
Um he has the audacity to uh you know what i’m saying like tell him that he already have a spot because his one vote does not but we you know okay anyways um so i need to let that sigma [ __ ] go okay so let’s let’s let’s start that sentence back over he
Said every time he brings up greek life and i tell him my heart is set on sigma he tells me i’m not thinking right and i already have a spot in kappa land so i need to let that sigma [ __ ] go recently he picked an argument with me
Because i was on a zoom i was at the zoom rush for sigma he always throws in my face the gap year i took he tells me they aren’t even going to accept me because you took off a year he even went as far as telling me
It was either join kappa or join sigma and be single chill i personally think it’s not that serious for us to break up but to save my relationship should i not join a fraternity at all p.s i don’t mind you sharing this on your channel so he gave me permission
So oh yeah and i forgot to respond to him but i’m responding to him before i upload this video i responded i said um what i have something to say just wait on the second email i’m gonna send you a voice message of what i want to say but i had to send
This to let you know how sick i am because ciao hold on i literally talk in my i literally talk like i was talking to him in my email is that something on my wall oh it’s a hole okay um my bad y’all had a nail in there
But yes so that was the email that i sent him so let’s just break this down first of all your boyfriend don’t care about you slime your boyfriend don’t care about you because one why why are you like why are you giving me all tomato
Is it a ring on your finger no it’s not no ring on my finger so who are you to give me an ultimatum you are a boyfriend not a husband so move around with all that don’t play with me do not play with me okay one that’s one right two everybody don’t
Want to be a kappa i’m sorry but everybody don’t want to be a kappa so why are you trying to sit up here and like force me to be a kappa and then on top of that who are you to say like why would you okay for somebody
Who clearly knows for a fact that you have to be discreet why would you go like you go to another school i don’t know if y’all peep that but he said my boyfriend is a member and my boyfriend is currently a member of kappa alpha psi at his university
And wants me to become one as well he says that he already told the campus on my campus that i’m interested who are you to tell somebody that somebody else is interested first of all you don’t even go to this school first of all you clearly don’t know what discretion is because
Why is you sitting up here telling somebody else that somebody else is interested in their organization when you and the people that’s in that organization and him already know what discretion is so why you know what i’m saying like that doesn’t make no sense like why don’t do that because you’re gonna mess
It up for you’re gonna mess it up for him with the sigmas you know what i’m saying because you telling the kappas oh he already interested and you know everybody think like you know people in greek organizations don’t really talk like we really talk literally one of my friends she she goes
To the school that i know of uh the akas at this chapter and it was a young lady who um y’all we talked okay it’s a young lady that basically wanted to be an aka she didn’t get picked so now she’s trying to be a delta and
My friend started talking to me about you know her the the perspective members and interest members and interests or whatever and she had mentioned the girl’s name and i knew with a girl and i’m like oh word and she like oh you know her i’m like i’m trying to ruin her chances but
Shorty was at the meeting she was literally at the meeting she had her turn to her paperwork and that wasn’t it was no malice intent but it was just like you can’t sit up here and say you want to join you know what i’m saying because we talk
So who knows if the cap is in the sigma’s on the young man’s camp is talked now the cap is going to tell the signals that oh his boyfriend or however he introduced him and said that he’s interested is interested in our organization as well you know what i’m saying that could
Ruin his chances like clearly your boyfriend is not trying to be old you know trying to be uh all in for you okay because i just feel like i know like that’s not right so that’s one or that’s three i don’t know what number i was on
But in the simple fact that he throws in your face that you took a gap year okay and i was a transfer i was a transfer interest you know what i’m saying that doesn’t mean anything and you know the simple fact that he’s giving you ultimatum choose kappa or
Sigma and be single girl you better choose it sns honey sigma single period because at the end of the day i feel like nobody should give you ultimatum if they truly love you like and i’m gonna do a video about this as well you guys about like having a relationship and being online
Having a relationship and being in separate organizations having a relationship and not one person not being in a relation i mean not being in an organization i’m gonna do a whole video about that because it should not matter you know what i’m saying um you joining the organization or your dream should not
Come between you and your relationship it just shouldn’t so the simple fact that he did for him like that just shows you that he’s not all in for you shorty you need to move around because i don’t like that i don’t like that at all and
I don’t think that you need to save that relationship because clearly that relationship is not safe because he giving you all tomatoes and you ain’t got no ring on your finger i don’t like that i’m sorry but no he need to move around with all that because who the hell are you
Sit up here and say i already told the cap zone on your campus that you interested you already got a spot in catholic i’m sorry but who made you the the final vote who made you the only vote honey you need everybody’s vote in that organization you don’t need just one person’s vote
Talking about uk and you can’t ensure not one member can ensure a person spot you know what i’m saying like if it’s done the right way and a lot of times this stuff ain’t done the right way and we’ve seen that when we come across and people don’t know how to introduce
Themselves or people don’t know how to talk to you people don’t know how to you know say the right things we already know but it’s just like how can you ensure his spot and that’s that’s even wrong right there because like you insuring his spot because you know him because that’s your boyfriend
And that’s what females do when they join these sororities like they try to ensure they spot for their best friends and their friends and then this person turned out to not even be a good member you know what i’m saying to turn around and not even be active
You know like i just don’t understand that and it’s just really messed up because this goes to show you that this person shouldn’t even be a kappa first of all you know i’m saying not not because he’s gay i’m not saying that but the simple fact that you’re trying
To you know sit up here and say oh you already have a spot no you shouldn’t even be over his process if he choose to go into you know what i’m saying you shouldn’t even and yes they had two different schools so he wouldn’t be a part of his process but you shouldn’t
Even say anything about it you should know what discretion is you should move around and you should be proud of him for letting him choose whatever organization he chooses you know what i’m saying because at the same time i need to say shoes like that but for real y’all i’m really upset
Because like who are you to sit up here and say you already got a spot in kaplan that’s like me telling my mentee knowing that she want to be aka that because i know her you already got a spot in aka girl no you don’t you ain’t gotta you’re gonna
Work just like uh how i worked okay and i had this one minty y’all she’s currently you know whatever and girl no no we ain’t doing that we ain’t doing that like it just blows me because clearly the relationship can’t be saved the relationship is already drowning okay
The relationship is drowning in the kappa juice anyways but yeah i don’t like that i don’t like that and i feel like if your heart is set on sigma then you need to focus on that you know what i’m saying like you need to focus on sigma you need to
Show your show your interest towards sigma and who gives a goddamn who gives a rat’s ass about your boyfriend feeling no type of way ciao ain’t no ring on my finger we’re not gonna do that you are not about to give me no ultimatum and think i’m just gonna be
Like okay whatever you say head ass no we’re not doing that we’re not doing that i don’t like that i don’t like that at all and i personally don’t think he’s that serious to break up over either but clearly he don’t he clearly he shouldn’t be he shouldn’t be a kappa
Because clearly he don’t know he don’t know it’s not easy it is not easy being no i’m just kidding it’s not easy y’all um joining these organizations so the simple fact that he could even utter the words and you know say like you already have a spot chloe calm down like no you
Chloe chloe calm down what you doing what you doing come here come right here y’all she always want to do some extra stuff but no who are you to say anything you cannot know we’re not gonna do that we’re not gonna do that we’re not gonna do that
So what do y’all think y’all let me know am i tweaking do y’all feel like the boyfriend have a point um what would y’all do in this situation what advice would y’all give him so i feel like i was just ranting and really just talking outside of my neck but i
Really meant everything i said because you cannot sit up here and say it’s either kappa or sigma and be single ciao s and s okay sigma and single you better enjoy your life in sigma land if you make it you know what i’m saying i’m not going to say
That you going you don’t guarantee make it but that’s not to scare you or nothing like that but i’m just saying like if you’re really serious about it and you’re willing to work to get those letters then you need to go for it because that’s where your heart is setting it’s not set
At being a cat but regardless if your boyfriend is a kappa you know what i’m saying and i’m glad we’re having this conversation because this is a prime example it is members of the lgbtq community lgbtqia community in these organizations and you know like yeah that’s that’s that’s a topic within that
Topic so definitely i would love to hear your comments definitely let him know what you guys think um and yeah y’all it’s only up from here because you about to be if you really make it you’re about to be a sigma and you’re about to be single and the
Sum is right around the corner honey so that’s s s s s sigma single and summer come on now somebody want to do it look are you done barking get down um but yes y’all better come through with that don’t play don’t play with him but yeah if he
Giving you ultimatums and he you ain’t gonna ring on your finger he clearly don’t know the pledging process because you can’t ensure nobody’s spot he clearly don’t know what discretion is because who are you to say i already told the campus that you interested they probably should they should have
Looked if they was real made kappa they wouldn’t they really they really would have looked at you like what like bruh get on my face with that you know what i’m saying like move around bro you know what i’m saying but who knows who knows and yeah the simple
[ __ ] he’s throwing stuff back in your face like that’s not a real boyfriend that’s not a good friend that’s not a good person that is somebody who doesn’t have your best interest at heart and i don’t know but you know it is what it is in my business y’all let me know what
Y’all think and yeah thanks so much for watching guys don’t forget to like comment subscribe and i will see you guys in the next video bye guys
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