Y’all throw all these parties bro we not paying to come watch our strolls yo playing time is up it’s time for you to handle business you’re pushing 30. and what made you get into this uh frat stuff though a lot of people gonna hate me for this but we back in action with
It today on the DCL podcast with our guest Daryl townie and Vaughn I’ll allow them to introduce themselves big old show fine Ochocinco vine on the ground we’re from the same city we’re from Dallas Texas y’all really don’t know much about it a lot of you guys viewing
Our you know from Chicago or from Illinois and say you’re from Chicago but we’re from Dallas and I’m telling you it’s the best city in the world better than Chicago you know what I’m saying good good weather I mean y’all can’t step outside in what like six seven
Months out the year yeah we outside so you know I mean just gotta establish that real quick but you know I wanted to talk about your football Journeys and all that so going into this year you guys are 2-0 correct yes sir all right so you know what I’m saying like what
Are you guys locking in like what’s going on this year you guys stay tuned in man I mean this past uh off season I felt like we came together more as a team past couple years everybody was close but everybody had their own clicks I’m saying but on
This team everybody can hang out with everybody so as long as we come together as a team can’t nobody stop us thanks and everybody on the same you know script or whatever when y’all on the same page man it’s gonna be hard to beat us yeah it’s taking one week at a time
Definitely definitely you got a group of people on the same goal you know it’s harder to turn what positions are you guys play tight end outside trenches and the trenches did you guys always know that you were gonna be a college football player like when did this start
To turn into a reality I didn’t start taking this serious until like maybe my Junior Senior High School whenever I like start getting noticed for them that’s how to happen my my football journey is a long long process uh my when I first started football my pops he was out deployed in
Alaska for uh the Army and I told my my stepmom at the time I was like I’m trying to play ball so it’s about fourth grade I got on the field I ain’t gonna lie I was scared you gotta I was scared I ain’t gonna lie
Then uh I got that first hit and it was just full go from there and then like uh when I started like realizing like I might like take this D1 [ __ ] and like run with it it was my junior year of high school they had switched my
Position that was when I first came to Texas they switched my position it was like go ahead and play defense I was like I ain’t trying to I ain’t trying to play no defense so I did that season and then after that a new coach came in but
He was already a coach at DeSoto years back and they knew I wanted to play tight end so uh got had no offers going into the spring and then Coach Irvin he’s my position coach right now he came in he’s like we’re gonna offer you so I
Was like hey it’s time to go now but uh yeah it’s it’s a long process hey but both of you guys had a unique experience you guys are you know we’re all from the Dallas area and you guys got recognized all the way up in
Illinois now we know Texas is a big you know football state like we do it different out there but you know what I’m saying but like you know isn’t it kind of crazy that you guys were able to get that recognition from all the way across the country
Man nobody but God man I’m telling you yeah especially how late we got our offers you got your offer pretty late right yeah I got especially how late we got it yeah you see all your yeah you see all your homeboys getting all these offers you like damn we’re mine at you know
What I’m saying so but when we got ours it’s just like hey we recognize too we we can ball like we you know what I’m saying so ain’t nobody with God though man play the course man it starts with you you got to believe in yourself and
Somebody else to believe telling you we know football is a very physically demanding sport you know what I’m saying there’s a lot more put into it than you guys can even say you know say on camera like I know you guys just got out of you
Know training camp all that are you guys allowed to talk about that yeah all right all right so like can you talk about you know what I mean what what like what really goes into it you know being a College D1 football player man you gotta come with it every day bro
Every day no matter you may get up one morning not be in the mood to do whatever bro but you just gotta have that mindset to you bro yeah I don’t know we see the me him or you person across from me is trying to take money
Away from me I’m saying so I got I got League aspirations so if I if I don’t do my job he gonna take money away from me but like going into fall camp this year it was I mean I don’t know what it was it was so different it was so different
I enjoyed it because I mean especially day one because the first day of fall Camp was my birthday so I turned 21 on the first day of fall Camp I mean of course the normal kid in you wants to go party because it’s your 21st birthday but it’s time to lock in
So I had to clock in it’s time to grind but that I don’t know what it was about this fall Camp it was just different so like can you take us on like uh like what’s the schedule like for it okay so my alarm goes off at 5 30. you get up
Having your mind right to get up so you can conquer the day so 5 30 get up breakfast is at six a.m so mandatory breakfast at 6 a.m you got about 30 30 minutes to eat maybe and then you got to get taped and then you got to get
Dressed you gotta you gotta weigh in too so you gotta weigh in then you got to get to your meetings you got position meetings special teams meetings that’s even before you get on the field so you’re on the field at about eight practices about three hours after that
You weigh out get your fluids in you uh eat again go way out go eat again you got like an hour break and then on the days we lift you got to come back about an hour and 15 later lift meetings again and you and meetings the rest of the day
And then you got dinner and more meetings fall Camp isn’t really hard practice wise mental it’s just immense it’s a mentality so all these all these damn meetings you know what I’m saying you got to stay awake in the mugs but the older you get you get used to it
That’s what I respect though because y’all’s mindset is different like you waking up 5 30 a.m every morning no other college students doing that exactly and you guys gotta handle school work on top of these meetings on top workouts on top of it you know what I
Mean yeah yeah so it’s like yeah your mindset is different and it’s preparing you for life too you know and Beyond this you know what I mean no matter what you end up doing like your mind says they’re like you know what I mean you you got that drive you got that work
Ethic hell yeah do you guys got any just funny random stories one day it was during the covert season so 2020 we only had we only played like four games that year before they canceled the season we came back from North Dakota State and the young
Guys we just wanted to go out we just blow off some steam I mean none of us is playing at that time so we came like a kid had jumped off of a balcony into somebody’s uh beer pong table and we got a video and everything but that book was
Hilarious just like just like looking at the scope like how like y’all party out here [Laughter] this football [ __ ] man I mean you just gotta say the course bro real talk man don’t give up bro it’s gonna be a lot of a lot of distractions on the way it’s
Gonna be a lot of depression you just gotta get through it bro taking one day at a time man keep your head up man especially on your mental health man like your mental health is so important yeah like just recently they uh made me the um the mental health
Representative for our team I’d just be seeing on social media like a lot of kids they they go through it man yeah I think people take suicide not as serious as it should be nowadays like they put they’ll post about their feelings so uh they may not feeling it one day they
Might be on the verge you know what I’m saying so I just try to make sure everybody is right in their mind so like they need a shoulder to talk to shoulder to cry on I’m here yeah you know what I’m saying got to be that person
Nowadays man you never know what nobody go through man I’m the president of my fraternity and I just made a new position we have a mental health chairman now right so now we have someone you know that can be here to talk to these guys reach out to them
Because I’m gonna be real bro where guys we don’t talk about our feelings at all we don’t we don’t we just we just bottle it in and move on and but like at some point that stuff does build up and then I mean [ __ ] I don’t give a [ __ ] how
Tough you think you are like we all got feelings at the end of the day and we all got [ __ ] that we’re going through bro and a lot of us is going through some [ __ ] so knowing that you know breaking the uh stigma that you know
What I mean you a [ __ ] if you talk about your feelings like nah bro go ahead because at the end of the day we are human we all bleed you know what I mean telling you bro back in 2020 it’s like especially like people on the
Football team you so used to being that guy we grew up being that guy every single team because man I’m telling you yeah it don’t matter what team we was on what position we was playing we was that guy so coming up here it was a huge culture shot because like everybody’s
Good yeah like awesome yeah all the all the people that get offers they’re the best on their teams everybody’s good so you get here and you just like damn like I should I want to play you know what I’m saying so like these past three
Years man I mean it’s been hard so like you’ve been you’ve been getting told Stay Ready Stay Ready Stay Ready sometimes you just it’s just in your mind you like I don’t know what else I can do to stay ready you know what I’m saying so it’s takes a toll on your
Mental it would be days where I just get up and I just be like I don’t want to do this no more because it’s taking the fun out of it sometimes but at the same time you got to stay the course because like where you want to go you know I’m saying
You have to stay the course even when you get to the league you’re not going to be that guy again once you get to the league so you just got to keep working you know what I’m saying stay positive I’m telling you because I mean if you don’t believe in yourself nobody will
Literally you could trick other people into believing in you if you ain’t even not exactly and fake confidence what are some strategies ways that you know what I mean you can keep a positive mindset or keep pushing you know what I mean when that [ __ ] gets hard number one
Man you got to pray every day bro hey every day every day I’m telling you man I mean I’m gonna be honest with you I grew up in a church you know what I’m saying but like when I got to college I would watch online but it doesn’t feel
The same as being in a church house you know what I’m saying so I like steered away from watching online but I still stay in my word you know saying I still pray every day but uh I’m a big music guy so when I’m feeling down I’ve turned
On some music as music is my therapy so you know what I’m saying but you know I mean of course you got to have your homeboys beside you you know what I’m saying you know you can talk to them even though you’re not gonna talk to him
You could just yeah you know what I’m saying so like if DT’s feeling like a feeling down you know what I’m saying he know he can come to my crib and just chill we can just kick it you know what I’m saying he didn’t even got to say a
Word to me you just come over to the house we can just chill you know what I’m saying so but keep your circle small I promise you keep it small because not everybody want to see you win literally them friends that keep you up in your
Mind you have to keep them around I’m telling you focus on the positive life man it’s gonna be a lot of negative every day it’s gonna be people trying to knock you down man if you stay positive it ain’t gonna be too much that can hold
You back from where you want to go in life and what made you get into this uh frat stuff though it was just impulsive like so I had checked out another fraternity on campus like a little basketball tournament I was liking it a little bit
But I was like looking around you know I was like uh you know I’m not really feeling it I went around I went to this other one and I went in there and they were like really diverse they had you know I mean all different all different
Flavors of people in there like we’re at a predominantly white University right but I grew up in DeSoto where it’s 97 minority out there so it’s like when I’m coming out here it’s at some point I need to be around some people who look
You know what I mean like me or you know what I mean I gotta be around some you know I mean some type of diversity so I went to uh fijiana they were pretty they were pretty diverse I liked the vibe they were you know I mean they were all
Cool they were very welcoming and then yeah I was like all right let me check this out my fraternity is so different than the average fraternity just because we do things a lot differently a lot of the fraternities out here you got some that have events and they do things to
Girls like there’s a lot of different things that you hear in the media and a lot of different things that go on but it really just depends on the people and that culture that that chapter has and the culture that we had was personal development was be the best that we can
Be we’re not on nothing weird like we you know what I mean it’s it’s just the culture that we’ve created uh it’s like a football team kind of like you know with the you got your brothers you got the people that got your back you got
The people that you can always hang out with people you you know what I mean always do stuff with so it’s like that Brotherhood teamwork aspect that I really was you know [ __ ] with did you ever like get uh interested in like the D9 organization I was in the fraternity for a semester
They threw a party it was during covid we got kicked off campus for a year suspended so it was like I was starting to hear about you know what I mean Kappa Alpha you know I stayed the course and I was like you know what I’m just staying
This build this up but yeah I was definitely interested in those and they are lit like I’m not gonna knock it I’m not gonna lie like the Brotherhood aspect that they got lit they have connections for the rest of their life the only thing is is um they don’t get
The recognition that the white fraternities get at all sad to say yeah sad to say because when you come on campus no matter what color you are you’re only going to hear about you know Fiji or asig or you’re not going to hear about the alphas you’re not going to
Hear about the kappos I mean it depends on the group you’re around but the school they’re not going to promote those the black frats and I noticed that because I did not hear about it until a semester you know what I mean in so they don’t get the recognition they deserve
And um I mean it needs to change and then also I know that their uh counsel with the school is a little weird like they can’t even do Rush classes every semester like it’s a lot of things a lot of barriers that they put on the black
Fraternities and you know what I mean someone’s got to do something about it I mean I I got a lot of homies that’s in the D9 I ain’t gonna lie y’all throw all these parties bro we’re not paying to come watch our stroll bro hot whatever y’all want to call it bro
We’re not coming to watch y’all you know what I’m saying so I mean I mean I’m not all right yeah yeah I still love about my D9 people but I love them to death but like when they come to that I’m not pay we not we come
To party food we’re not coming to watch y’all but uh nah for real though like I I [ __ ] with all my D9 people for real and then when them probates come around gotta put them stories on mute they be posting the whole probate but nah they I love them to death man they
Ain’t lit you know what I’m saying yeah I ain’t gonna lie but like I mean even when you not in like specifically in the organization you can still reach out to them you know what I’m saying so I got a few homeboys that’s uh capital I said I
Got a few homeboys that’s a that’s on a cue are they cute dogs but yeah I mean like we Bros you know what I’m saying so but yeah I love him to death man they cool people for real yeah I got some dog shout out Dom I respect what they doing
I just think that the school needs to start promoting promoting especially with this recent class I know y’all seen it it’s starting to turn into a little mini hbcus I’m [ __ ] with it bro I’m all for you know diversity we gonna be here for a while because
Like we got we still got three years left I mean after this season we got two yeah it’s gonna be a while before we leave I mean we gotta potentially get our masters for free you know what I’m saying oh wow yeah that’s lit I mean of
Course you you get your degree you want to move on with life you know what I’m saying you get sick college towns and [ __ ] like that that’s another thing I don’t understand or maybe you can help me out so like after certain like frats and sororities they graduate why do they stick around
You know what I’m saying like the uh the people in them yeah besides maybe like friends or like yeah no family okay first of all I don’t know why it really doesn’t happen with us but I know there was this one kid we saw on the quad and
My homie was like damn I saw him like four years ago and he’s still on the quad like strolling with him like he’s he said I know bro’s got to be like 26 27 I’m like oh like you know what I mean I I do get what you’re saying because
It’d be some of the [ __ ] in there they be old bro yeah I was like it was like it was a few kid it was a few uh kids and uh one of these organizations we when we first got here and that was in 2020. so I’m like and
They was like Juniors at the time so I’m like what is you still doing here and they said yeah and they still here now yeah I mean they have you know shout out to them people anyway you you in the community then shout out to you I mean
Yeah y’all just take Malaya yeah you around here just partying bro I don’t get it that’s different yeah like get your grown ass off yeah if you’re not stuck in your bread bro if you’re not working towards your future goal bro I feel like you should be
I mean if you in grad school cool different that’s different yeah yeah like if you just specifically around here just like not a part of school not in school bro you you ain’t got no job back here yeah you just out here bro like no we’re like
You grown go go [ __ ] with some grown women you know what I’m saying go go just go we’ll stack your brain yeah go help your family out telling you bro go help your family because that’s also the thing you got these 18 19 20 21 year old girls pulling up to the parties
Yeah yeah it goes for us I know y’all was in high school and it was always that [ __ ] 18 19 year old dude talking in the [ __ ] friends like you’re like bro like bro how am I supposed to compete little assists and [ __ ] like that bro I ain’t trying to
Hear that we had this 25 year old trying to rush us this year he was 25 years old he’s a junior he’s trying to Rochester like bro no you’re just too old all right hey before we start before we start we start going there it ain’t it
Ain’t no bad thing to take a break from college it ain’t knocking nobody oh yeah but you need to get your priorities right just get your priorities straight if you get it that’s how you get it but at the end of the day make sure you work until it’s your future goal man
Definitely no matter what pace because everyone got a different pace so yeah I’m not knocking you if you 25 in college but if you 25 in college you probably shouldn’t be trying to put yourself in an environment with 18 19 year old girls trying to party all the
Time you know go get your go get your messes and get the [ __ ] on yeah yeah and find you a wife or something go get the teacher number she probably your age yo playing time is up it’s time for you to handle business you’re pushing 30. literally talking about pushing 30.
That’s crazy all right so what are you guys studying in college I’m a wreck management major and minor in coaching I want to be a coach in my future so I’m uh I’m a mass media TV production major so no way yeah all right so you
This is you uh it’s me it’s me this right up my alley so I mean like how I think about it is just like I mean I ain’t gonna be able to play the sport of football forever man I could talk about it forever though you know what I’m
Saying so I mean I can talk about football boxing basketball women’s women’s sports stuff like that but you can’t play Forever and eventually life is just going to take you somewhere else take a turn yeah so I just my degree was just I mean I want to be on ESPN one day
I can be on camera off camera directing it don’t matter but you know I just want to get that money take care of my people me personally man I want to get back to the game I know so much about sports it would be yeah it would be wrong for me
To know the answer to the test and not get not getting back try to gay keep the answers where do you want to be in the next 10 15 20 years like where do you see yourself uh what goals do you have oh nobody nothing man
A homeowner in 10 years want to have stable credit I want to have a stable bank account I want to make sure me and mines is good for sure I feel you and not just you know my kids my wife whatever I’m talking about family all
That friends no matter what for sure the perfect plan would be I finished these last three years I go to the league one of the greats I end up becoming one of the greats you know what I’m saying then end up just just have generational money
Well I mean of course my plan B you know ESPN some News broadcasting somewhere I prefer to be in Dallas you know what I’m saying but uh right way yeah fair to be home foreign you know what I’m saying before I turn but I would I want my kids before I turn
30 you know what I’m saying yeah I feel like that’s important bro yeah that’s important I know that’s one of my goals too I want to be able to like raise my son with me you know what I mean you know what I’m saying yeah I wanna I want
To at least have my kids before 30 but I mean like so that so that makes me work even harder you know what I’m saying so but yeah hopefully got a little Javon Charles Jr riding around this one uh but yeah I just I just want to you know I’m saying
Be as successful as I can be because I mean right now I’m breaking the generational curse I’m the first yeah I’m the first one to go to college straight out of high schools you know what I’m saying so I’m everybody’s just used to you know you graduate you go to
The military and call it good but I I said [ __ ] that you know say I told my brothers I was like we gonna do things different so you know I’m in college I’m doing my thing you know I’m saying I’m building my credit as we speak I just
Paid my car off before I turned 21. you know what I’m saying yeah but yeah I just paid that more goal before I turned 21 man my life is good man money good family good they healthy you know what I’m saying I’m healthy you know what I’m saying my boys is healthy
You know I’m saying we got to keep going you know what I’m saying but yeah I just want to be successful as I can be man I’ll show you so I feel you I got that drive too man this podcast gotta blow up man talking about
Um you know what I mean 10 years even five years even three years I don’t care how long I got to do this but I’m gonna just stay consistent on this until it you know what I mean do what they need to do and once they do what they need to
Do go even harder for sure yeah telling you man oh that dedication man I’m telling you hey you can really you really start to smug on uh just post your Clips on Tick Tock yeah you know what I’m saying Tick Tock you can get famous just like that you know what I’m
Saying so I mean post some clips on Tick Tock I do I do a little bit on there but um it’s kind of I feel like I just gotta you know switch it up a little bit you know what I mean post a little something different
Um but you know what I mean it’s all about being different it’s being different to the world yeah yeah what does the world need you know what I mean literally bro you know yeah they just need that positive mindset just something positive going on you know what I’m saying because nowadays all you
See is negative [ __ ] yeah literally negative [ __ ] if it’s not negative it got something to do with drugs or I got something to do with sex yep that’s that’s literally what the internet is man yes so you know I’m saying just post positive [ __ ] I mean it’s gonna be cool
After that yeah don’t don’t let me get started on social media and how that’s just getting in our head man you go downstairs social media dictates how we feel man because yeah the algorithm the algorithm that they give us especially if you’re one of those people that wake
Up in the morning and scroll through Tick Tock because I’m one of those people at time I fall victim to that you know I be on social media too much at times but it’s really just about filling your timeline with positive things like on my Tick Tock I do something different
With my Tick Tock because I notice sometimes like I scroll too much so like I was like all right let me unfollow all these you know what I mean bad influences and let me follow you know what I mean this wealth motivation or you know what I mean so now when I
Scroll down my Tick Tock I’m just seeing straight motivation motivation motivation you know what I mean wealth your credit you know what I mean whatever just [ __ ] that’s positive and even with this podcast bro like you know what I mean I like dipping off talking
About funny stuff but at the end of the day I got a positive message work on yourself become a better version of yourself day by day and that’s really main message of this [ __ ] you know what I mean are y’all okay mentally physically you know what I’m saying yeah yeah
Because I don’t I feel like as men we don’t talk about it enough shit’s been hard bro it’s been hard I’ve been having some [ __ ] pop up um School uh I’ve been trying to get into law school uh just dealing with a lot man and but at the end of the day I
Just keep a positive mindset through it all and a lot of people gonna hate me for this but uh sometimes I gotta turn on Andrew take just his mindset I watched his interview with this therapist and he said he doesn’t adapt a way of thinking
That does not benefit him in life and I mean I just really resonated with that strong I will express how I feel sometimes or all that but then again there’s those times where you know what I mean sometimes I do just gotta bottle that up and get this done despite how I
Feel his mind frame even him being locked up in [ __ ] solitary confinement for like six months and then coming out like um I mean not not good but still coming out strong and that’s that’s the part that I really [ __ ] with how he’s able to just you know go through these
Challenges and keep that positive mind frame and I kind of try to adapt some of his mindset but um yeah definitely bro should be going on at the end of the day I kind of have a support system in place my girls here for me my people’s here
For me and like y’all said uh the best thing a dude can do we don’t even gotta really talk about our feelings with the guys but just getting around kicking it bro like hey let’s fight let’s play some 2K you know what I mean just just kicking
Around the guys bro that that really picks our spirits up like you know what I mean we don’t even gotta speak but we know how we rock and we know what it is yeah I’m going off of what you said with the Andrew Tate situation man ain’t
Nothing wrong with that at all you trying to get to where you’re trying to get to bro yeah you got to think about it like that if it’s distractions along the way bro you got to cut it off whatever’s gonna help you mentally lock into where you
Want to get in five to ten years from now that’s what you got to do yeah I mean uh these past these past couple months I mean I just take I just try to take this [ __ ] day by day you know what I’m saying I mean my mental health I
Mean of course I ain’t gonna sit here and tell you I’m good you know what I’m saying because I’m not good you got to take it day by day nowadays so I mean like they just it’s this past couple months it’s been hard you know what I’m
Saying uh just like just the pressure of everything you know what I’m saying yeah I’m trying to be that guy on the field you know what I’m saying uh I mean of course I mean we got I gotta we got another dog in the tight end room you
Know what I’m saying camera shout out to that boy cam granny you know what I’m saying his dogs all over the field all the way from all the way from the starters all the way to the threes and fours yeah shout out to my daughter you know what I’m saying that’s my partner
In crime but yeah uh it’s he a dog you know what I’m saying so I mean of course like uh selfish side of me I’m like I want to be on the field too you know what I’m saying but uh on the field off the field I just got to take the [ __ ]
Day by day you know what I’m saying wait your turn man being away from my family you know what I’m saying it’s hard yeah I’m saying real hard I can’t see them all the time they they were 800 some odd miles away house yeah you know what I’m
Saying so I mean it’s hard but at the end of the day I got a good support system I can call them anytime I want you know what I’m saying I got my brothers around me you know what I’m saying I mean they they come around me
We chilling you know what I’m saying we go out sometimes uh just we could we could just sit down and talk just laugh kick it we can sit in the locker room and just beat you and just be chilling you know what I’m saying just cooling
With my life cooling with my guys bro but yeah my mental health I mean it’s it’s cool you know what I’m saying it could be better but I mean you just gotta take this day by day man focus on the positives but you gonna make it I promise I’m telling you yeah
And praying is big and I wanted to get on that earlier because when we go to college brother so many distractions so much other [ __ ] going on like bro we don’t invest in our time with God we’re not going to church we’re not you’re gonna have so many questions you may
Even question him yeah I promise you man just keep going yeah yeah and and have that talk with God if you believe in God whatever you believe in have that self-talk with yourself or with God or whatever but you even that conversation with God every day even if you just got
To put your head down and just say hey God man this [ __ ] hard man why this why this [ __ ] going on why this [ __ ] going you know what I mean just just have that talk with God because that shit’s important just keeping that communication keeping yourself spiritually connected with them because
Uh when I went to college I caught myself spiritually disconnected from God I wasn’t praying every day I lost the ritual of you know building my relationship with God and throughout time I had to just keep building that back up okay when I wake up in the
Morning first thing I do is talk to God before last thing I do at night talk to God throughout the day talk to God and that [ __ ] don’t help me the same way bro I had to learn like two years ago for real bro hey I ain’t I ain’t gonna lie bro I
Wouldn’t be here man like I think about that every day I’m just like I mean like when stuff get hard I’ll be like you know what’s going on yeah why me man why me man I don’t even like yeah yeah toughest uh assignments to his toughest
Angels yeah you do you know what I’m saying so yeah it’d be times I’ll be like damn like this is this [ __ ] been hard I mean life’s been hard since since I was 17. because I first got here at the age of 17. me too so like you know what I’m
Saying so I’m just like damn I’m I’m tired of this man I’m living off campus since yeah we we’ve been in it a while yeah we rushed it a little bit you know I’m saying like if I could go back I honestly would have stayed in the dorms
The rest of the year for sure boy I would have stayed in the dorms the rest of the year for sure because like you you get the pan rent you got to buy groceries you know what I’m saying and I I got a car a couple months after that
So I got to pay for my gas you know what I’m saying so I mean I mean we rushed it a little bit honestly but it’s cool it’s cool having your own personal space and stuff like that but being around your folks bro I promise you yeah hell yeah
Oh yeah yeah if I could go back I for sure would have stayed in the dorms they ain’t gonna lie but I mean I mean it was a learning experience though you got to learn how to save your money you know what I’m saying all that type of [ __ ]
Fast it’s just important to keep that mindset that no matter what everything is going to be okay and the Heart stuff that you getting put through that shit’s just making you better it’s making you stronger uh they diamonds are made by pressure yeah yeah that [ __ ] just making
You stronger it’s building up your mindset you undefeatable once you don’t bend through this been through this been through this it can’t get worse than that and you just keep getting better every single obstacle every single obstacle you learn how to navigate that and you should become a better person
Yeah my mama always told shout out to you Mom I love you so my mama used to tell me she was like uh because like uh in high school like my junior senior year I I was just going through it my biological mom had a stroke right before
My my right before my senior year of high school and it was just hard you know I’m saying I couldn’t go see her you know what I’m saying it was just hard being away from her I thought we didn’t think she was gonna make it so it
Was just hard on my mental you know what I’m saying and then my mom my stepmom sat me down she was like I mean life is gonna throw a lot at you you know what I’m saying my mom and dad they they try to throw a whole bunch of you know I’m
Saying little nugs like had me you know what I’m saying but she was just like life is gonna throw a lot of things at you but you know all the [ __ ] you’ve been through growing up you better be winning when you when you get it later
On in life you know what I’m saying because you but God is just building you for this you know what I’m saying so but yeah shout out to you my mom and dad I love y’all to death thank you all for listening to our podcast we appreciate you all demand control your life
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