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Right on into this video and from the title you’re seeing it’s a how to dress for probate basically yes or / new member presentation every order does not use the same words so I’m just putting it out there as both just to cover my behind now again I am a member of Zeta
Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated I am speaking on behalf of me Dani I’m not speaking on behalf of the org so make sure y’all understand that there’s levels to this so whenever you’re going to a probate there’s gonna be different levels to who’s it for
So for one is it for any d9 org it’s just it’s not your org it’s not your brother org it’s just for d9 when it’s that you can just dress casual you know what I’m saying and we’ll get back to that number two if it’s for your organization but not your
Chapter it’s a way you should dress for that number three if it’s for your org but it is your chapter it’s a way to dress for that if you are Zeta and if it’s for a Sigma it’s a way to dress for that you’re saying what does that look
Like okay so let’s say I’m going to this new member presentation and it’s for 100 e9 orgs more than likely I’m gonna wear some jeans some heels and maybe a nice little piece of peril on top you know because I’m a grad member so I’m probably gonna come with a nice little
Blue blazer you know what I’m saying maybe a pen and some heels and jeans or maybe I want to just pull out my my um lying jacket and I just want to you know floss with that show my age sometimes you don’t want to show you how
You want people to know how long you’ve been a member because they belong to you that’s another story and I don’t mean clowning in a bad way and then okay let’s move on to maybe it is your org so i’ma Zeta and let’s say I’m going to another Zeta probate or new member
Presentation I’m gonna dress for real like in got to be my chapter as a Zeta I’m showing up and I’m showing out it depends on if it’s grad or undergrad cuz sometimes at a grad new member presentation I bust out a whole suit like it just depends on how I’m feeling
That night for let’s say if it’s for an undergrad new member presentation I might have on a dress um again I might wear a blue blazer but trust me is gonna be finer even if I just wear some nice cute slacks so blue slacks maybe a white
Top blue blazer heels pearls I’m gonna be dressed to the nines now if it’s for the Sigma’s and of course I’m a Zeta I’m probably gonna go with something in between like I’m not gonna be all the way all the way out there but I’m not
Gonna be looking like I just woke up and got out of bamboo these are my brothers and I am gonna be there to show up and show out to support them so I’m probably gonna have again maybe some cute little jeans maybe a little blue blazer or a
White blazer a blue top or a white top some heels of course pearls hair whipped you know what I’m saying so in all these scenarios I’m looking finer I’m a lady of Zeta I should always be looking finer and that’s all you’re going to see you’re not gonna see me looking sloppy
You’re not gonna see me half dressed you ain’t gonna see me with my makeup looking jacked up like right now and you don’t know that I am a finer woman from the way I carry myself now if you’re like okay I don’t understand what does final look like finer looks like Oh
Who is coming to show that she’s always having it together now don’t get it wrong because somebody out there gonna be like oh you mean they gotta be little ain’t nobody talking about size you can be whatever size you want to be as long as you lookin snatched it don’t matter
Let’s just make sure we understand that finer is not a size finer is a way of life and again if I’m coming to a new member presentation whether I’m one of the people in a chapter whether I’m one of the people that’s one of their prophytes
Um or whatever it may be I’m gonna look my best and that means my clothes are going to fit they’re not gonna be too big they’re not gonna be too small I am NOT gonna be out here walking around with clothes that make me look bad on
Top of my chapter looks bad on top of my organization looks bad that’s not cool so if your person that knows you struggle with certain things that means invest in some shapewear by your size don’t matter size you want to be by the size you currently are and sometimes you
Might think you’re ten and you might actually be a twelve get that twelve look nice stop trying to bat squeeze into these clothes that were not made for your size if you want to wear that you’re gonna have to put in a work lose weight do
Whatever it is you need to do eat healthier run you know change your lifestyle so you can be that size but don’t force yourself to be that size because you’re gonna look bad also let’s make sure we are looking appropriate when I say looking appropriate do not be
Out here looking bogus you are not going to the club club dresses and new member presentation outfits are two separate things you should not have a whole bunch of cleavage out you should not have an extra short dress it shouldn’t be see-through it shouldn’t be extra tight
It shouldn’t be if you bend over somebody could see all your business you need to make sure you’re looking like a lady and at the end of the day that’s what it’s all about so I know you know people be getting to make feelings don’t
Tell me how to dress oh I’m not telling you how to dress I’m telling you how a woman looks that’s all I’m doing not trying to run nobody life but I bet you if you go through well I was to post any of how I’ve looked at new member
Presentation slash probates you’ll be like Danny you always bomb you always look snatched I’m never catching you off your game and that’s the way it’s supposed to be you should never let someone know what you’re going through you should always step out looking your best if you’re a person is like okay I
Don’t think my outfit looks like this you know what you should do invest in a second pair of eyes even a third pair and you’re like what does that mean that means X somebody else hey what do you think this looks like is this too short it is too revealing is it something
That’s not appropriate for this event you know what I’m saying and that’s something you should do ahead of time don’t wait until the day of and now you’re there and you’re like oh I don’t have nothing else to wear so I’m gonna make sure that I’m wearing
Whatever it is it already picked even though I did a run-through I tried it on and now I’m out here looking a whole unfine er mess that is not what we want that is not what anybody wants because at the end of the day it’s all about the
Org it’s not about you it’s about you playing your part to make sure that your organs reflected in a positive light but don’t sit up here and be last-minute lollygagging procrastinating stagger late and playing around and now you’re like oh what it’s all I got but I’m
Still gonna be up there looking like this no you not boo sit down and that’s part of the problem people are not willing to snatch somebody and be like you can sit this one out sis you don’t look appropriate be honest that’s what being sisterly is being unsisterly is
Letting someone that you know looks busted be standing up there and you like one boo-boo I would need you to make sure you wear your colors too boo boo I’m gonna need you to make sure you wear something that fits you again if you are a person that
Knows you struggle with your size invested in shapewear that’s the best piece of advice I can give anyone whether you’re male or female and don’t be acting like man on struggle with a size two even though this video is just for the sororities just know there are men
Who struggle with their size as well but I’m gonna need my ladies to be out here references especially my finest or bores now ain’t nobody pulled you to the side and told you this boo that’s the issue we’re here to help each other out uplift each other and not have you out there
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