How y’all doing uh welcome back to my YouTube channel today we’re going to be talking about the pros and cons of Greek life we got BJ from the Joseph Berry podcast we don’t know all right you have to introduce ourselves okay we are the um you know we are members
We are members of the dynamic Delta Pi chapter of the seventh Last Words y’all know what to know your names it’s classified if it’s not but like this is the pros and cons of Greek life like I say so we’re going to start off with the cons
And I’ll let y’all you know go out start it off start yeah I started Greek life is very messy like uh you wake up every day look at your phone just some blue BS let’s see that every time three in the morning every day three in the morning
You know what I’m saying for probate to the rest of your life but you know it’s crazy before protein yeah yeah oh yeah but you know it’s crazy it will keep me entertaining Sometimes It’s Entertainment when it’s you in it it’s not funny but it’s like you find
Yourself in drama because say your sisters and some drama that’s my man I’m gonna ride with my sister so now I’m in it too yeah period it’s not fun always oh something else is not good you are no longer just an individual you are individual in that order so no matter
What you do outside there’s in no letters you’re still going to be tied to that order so like you get in trouble with the law they will be emailing you too so I think I think one of my biggest cons is like relationships like because not because you could get you’re getting
Relationships with people that you necessarily do on a relationship with like BJ could have a friend but now since I hang around BJ I just started becoming friends with this person I don’t even really want to talk to but I Gotta Be You know I gotta be nice because
I feel like people don’t mess with you like they think you do and like feelings of me and rock without a podcast but like people doing some bad podcasts yeah yeah but like people with DM me like I want to get on the podcast and we never
Like hurt you you don’t do no like content you just don’t do nothing but be on Instagram ID and then you gonna get on the podcast I feel like you just want to be honestly but how is that a kind of Greek like you know what because look listen because your attention 22.
Those clubs oh yeah all right yeah I know like genuine a lot of people don’t be wanting a genuine relationship like a lot of people just be trying to get like online and it’s like you can tell because like you like you don’t you could just be
Nice to me you don’t have to they kiss my ass blue or I hate look I don’t like how if we used to be here listen I don’t like how we used to be Teena before I got the letters now you are quiet you don’t want to do [ __ ] in front of me
That pisses me off yeah it was and we was drinking before the letters before I had them why are you still not you want to break down why why you don’t want to have a good time why are you sitting all scared like I’m gonna just sit here and
Make you feel like a lot of people think that like we be judgmentally I know I I just be like looking on certain things but it’s like if we all out having a good time like you can’t have a good time I think uh I think I think a pro would
Be though like like I said with relationships the relationships that you meet like people because certain people I would have never met if I wasn’t online with them yeah and that’s good that you know that you get to know what some more Pros you guys oh you meet uh people from everywhere
Yeah I know I have I don’t know if I go to Seattle I can find someone to stay like literally because they got Loops everywhere you can yeah that’s true but I’m inside Solutions really about how to become a sister become a brother I don’t have any
Sisters so it really taught me about what being a sister is for real because no I have two brothers I’m not a girl so I don’t have one yeah sister is for Real so you know what I’m saying you know me yeah aren’t you guys yeah yeah so there’s that it really teaches
You about building ponds being close I got another con if you sit up and get your letters and you start acting different now I’m like yeah because it’s weird like don’t be a [ __ ] you know what I’m saying like you weren’t acting like that before now you got three letters now you just
And then like they just think they’re the biggest celebrity on campus you’re still lame you was laying freshman year you’re laying down yeah if you ever let those three letters change who you are be yourself if you are you at the end of the day your letters are addition to who you are
They’re not who you are simple things another kind is like the like a game of the relationships girls or boys for y’all likewise just we want much on you and hunch on you because yeah because of your letters who told you that [ __ ] that is true okay I almost exposed myself on
This video a lot of girls that just once [ __ ] that I’m Greek because that is the only thing they were trying to talk about it is true though because before I became a camera I used to be like uh I really think shut up stop everything that’s a cons would be flipped to approve everything because with the times like there’s a lot of good things that do come from it like like you said like our relationships and stuff I didn’t know George before this
I talk to her every day you don’t know or not we are about to say I would never met George that’s really what what else I hate to be this person because Ain’t No Lie the line at a party it’s not happening I don’t remember last time I paid for
Anything at a tailgate I don’t remember that so it’s like you you but it comes football games better seats yeah I tell people it’s like yeah I don’t want to say like you kind of a like a campus delivery because that makes you sound lame but like
Respect for you like I will say this one thing I would tell everybody don’t kiss nobody ass they got I should do this right now I hate it in the day just because somebody got something you want to do when you got a kiss you just gotta do
All that be yourself because when you kiss an ass not genuinely I told her come get on YouTube for pros and cons and she just this this hypothesis Community Services the word starts after you probate yeah a lot of people you know things like the information settings sessions and stuff
Like that that you have before you proving stuff that’s work no no no no no no the work happens out in your probate it is so much work to be done in these Greek fraternities that that’s like not shown and we just really do it because that’s what our organizations are about
But Lord that that’s a con too I’m not gonna lie every day is a community service dude every day I gotta pass occasion I love it yeah well you do everybody got to have all hands on that gear and be like even if one like you
Saying one person you you get a break that day you can’t you know what I’m saying a pro is being able to learn how to take like criticism because like you said a lot of people when they join these they haven’t really had people criticizing them or giving advice so
When you really get into like these organizations if you have people you know I got one that’s not gonna be able to decorations this hit me the pro we’re talking about Pro fights that’s the cop that’s the kind of other things Like you know what I’m talking about who actually helped you and stuff but he said it came in the economists in the 90s this is 2022. your time is up another kind strolling like yeah why uh am I required to come straight why am I required to come shake my ass
That don’t make no sense it’s like it’s like uh the insurance you get when you stay in the community why are you mad at me because my dog people just can’t be doing too much yeah people say no we are required we have to do that I don’t want
To shake my ass sometimes well guess what no you know what I mean I did not know what was it even correct Daniels it’s all good though y’all boys At them parties I’m not gonna get pushed by 20 50 [ __ ] I’m not sure my line going to strolling and you got other orders These Hoes gonna come stronger than another hole when it comes guys but I do think it’s fun it’s just fun it’s fun it’s cute yeah get the job done
It’s going back to that relationship thing when you when your Blind Brothers be having beef with somebody you inherit that beat no I know I’m just saying but it’s like why do if somebody sneak BJ now I gotta sneak him now we all in trouble it’s
Like bro it is a [ __ ] Con Bro [ __ ] cannot Nick cannot defend it so they basically when this [ __ ] to beat our ass bro oh yeah do your research what I say be genuine with everything you’re trying to do at the end of the day you look for genuine people so if you’re
Giving off fake energy fake Vibes I see that remember your GPA remember why I do this don’t let anybody make you feel like your why is a bad why or you get them okay sorority so I can stroll I want sisters I want Brothers like us this ain’t it just make sure
That’s what you’re doing genuine Because that’s gonna make you look crazy yeah going along with that is like people always sit when they express interest well I want to serve the community you can serve the community any organization Yeah by yourself yeah you don’t really like you gotta really get into depth on why
Exactly you want to join that organization and don’t feel like you need to join an organization you know because they like you big bro they need us keep that too if you want to bro you do need us because you don’t need them to make who make like you know what
I mean I feel like if you got to an organization just so you can be better or do more community service that’s the first problem right though because you should already be doing that make yourself better on your own eyes when people say like the term discretion
They don’t really get into what does that means can y’all like break down what discretion is like why they should have it your business more business like nobody knew I wanted to do if I was I mean she knew because people together but it was like regardless you should
Not be somebody else said they knew BJ shut the [ __ ] up nobody knew what I wanted to do except for her exactly no because we all went to an event nobody wore a processary discretion is like she said keeping your business like don’t just be running
Around the campus oh my God I want to be an answer like make sure whoever you’re telling our people that you trust because at the end of the day people would use that against you don’t don’t tell them you could tell old girl don’t say your boyfriend tomorrow yeah make sure Trust like I said people would use that against you how y’all feel about telling people that’s already in there I was about to say you’re right here yes but yeah you have to but it’s like make sure you’re picking a good person but I said
It is also you don’t have to like really express interest like going to the events and showing your face really is enough if you’re at every event people catching and speak and you speak y’all just go to the event and leave like you know at least be like hey you know I’m
So and so you don’t have to like hey like in addition to every single Bible just like don’t close to me and be like hi I’m Casey I just want you to know my name why okay I brought myself like how was with me you know bring stuff up there hey I’m
Personally I just can’t drop off bags it’s that simple like or you can at least you know like have a little conversation or ask them what their name is you know even though you should know Irish but like people who don’t know like how to how
Does a person know okay this is a good person to come and talk to to express my interest to this person is a better person like how would somebody figure that out other than that the way they carry themselves yeah how it was for you I had two options like I said people
Come to you like you didn’t or you could also express your interest which like actual bonds like the person I went to I actually had a genuine Bond besides Delta so I knew them before I knew they were Delta so that means getting to know them like you know what I’m saying
Checking up on them really seeing how they are like you could really tell and building an actual what does it trust someone in relationship a relationships yes they might they might assume you want to be one thing when you really don’t want to be that and I can really
Miss you [ __ ] because they told all they they hold chapter you know what I’m saying you want to be this and when you express interest to another group of studs now you [ __ ] because that’s not even your folks all right find someone who is like if you all have like money
Like like qualities or whatever so it’s like the person that I expressed my interest to we were both entrepreneurs so like that’s how I got to talk to her nobody you should show it up to the edge with me I showed up to rush and I look good on paper
And oh another thing especially these present entries early make sure you like carry yourself a certain way like yeah [ __ ] see you don’t want to go express interest in no [ __ ] pajamas and no [ __ ] slides with no socks on them like you look [ __ ] stupid we’re at a party oh yeah
Oh yeah that [ __ ] doobie bloomy like bro we got a party yo Brock to talk to you like Whenever I give people advice about like oh well how do I join and stuff like this I also feel like if you’re gonna express interest and if you want to do something I shouldn’t have to upsell you like what you do on campus should upsell
You enough so all I gotta do is say something but what you do on campus should speak for yourself I shouldn’t have to do too much like you should make yourself undeniable yeah make yourself be a candidate that you we wouldn’t even expect you to come to us you still might
Not have a chance and before you uh express interest to somebody know what you’re talking about yeah because y’all go to somebody you express interest that they’re not ask you why you want to be in my order now you just look stupid for real tell me today come on bro like this world
Yeah after this it’s okay like you get what I’m saying not to know everything about anything but some stuff you should yeah like the principles like will we stand foreign figure out like is this really the organization for me and also go into like the chapters actually here on
Campus like really figure out if that’s for you like know your information of course know the chapter is culture yeah like I don’t expect you to know every single thing you get what I’m saying because as you go on and you do make it those are things that you do learn as
Time goes on they say they want to be raised because Ray complement their skin yeah but don’t come to me talking about you just always want to do your bread and you just that’ll make sense don’t be a because first and evil like [ __ ] if I
Said he went up to Jordan and he tried each presidential and you just saying because I know somebody I know a person that’s trying to express interest and they have a paragraph they think no by heart oh my God he literally anytime anybody will ask him he will say the same
Over and over if you don’t get out my face because I heard you tell me why last week and you told me why this week on Instagram it’s like he literally do this before the answer to me in person or something either yeah or don’t express enter to
Like six or seven of my losses it really just takes one or two like you don’t need to explain because there’s so many of us yeah already get to know everybody you need to know everybody I say how it is but it is don’t tell me today that you tell her
Tomorrow I feel like you see a group of us call each other everybody yeah to express it and say hey like because I’ve heard about her stuff like that that’s what it’s for but you tell six or seven of us when you express interest is seeking for help you get what I’m saying
So you asking six seven people for help like and all you really need is one and two I think that’s just a difference you want to know everybody because if somebody don’t know you it’s gonna be like well hey but like see if somebody in the chapter
There is interested don’t got no pool so the most they can do for them why are you telling 20 that’s what I’m saying that you want to get on there yeah I feel like that make you an orange that’s what she’s saying though you tell her KT that you’re interested boom they
Know your interest but the red the other 30 girls including the application that’s how I don’t know how far you got to go this is different but I just thought of it if we have an event don’t come learn our colors like you know like you’re supposed to scream yeah like don’t keep
It to black and white yeah yeah I’m wearing purple what you doing bro you don’t have to draw attention to yourself that isn’t positive yeah it’s a lot of childish people too if you got any questions put them in the comments so Carson can make some videos
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