Wayne to look out over side you still will be lame after kept looking I hope you do girl you just might have another type of egg on to the lamp I don’t make you you make your letter more like know these waters before we do anything make sure that it’s morning I
Love you believe in Christ or whatever you believe it to make sure that still complete which is technically trying to join up otherwise it’s pointless to everyone our personal thing to you is just even though I did jungle and be real with this up a lot of John and
Which organization of organization let you join it you know I’m saying if you could be real with yourself we’re ready to see your answer in public you’re not look stupid I mean do your product on this for good reason you know I’m saying to the single by these other interfaces they all change
You know I’m sending it they all have changed person at one time you might see it a group that never-ending y’all next day you see another group they’re running up it’s constantly change so Jeff would you give this art innovation thing I want to give you because of that
Might change but you really love it’s already April with those founded on I’m evil ever throughout throughout the changes throughout what you see you will see the lovely people feel good effort you know you really got nobody’s going you have a real cell phones on you know
A lot of people choose to do great because they feel like it’s hat it’s the thing to do but definitely do your research research research research and know yourself like everybody else has they know what kind of personality traits you have that matches the respective organization so don’t just do something because it’s
Because there’s a lot of style any day you have to have that energy and that that drive to keep of this organization going they have people behind the name that keep on keep on you know working especially with freshman’s coming in when I was doing the orientation stuff
Going to soccer freshman’s will come up like I’m gonna do this I want to do that I’m gonna do this I would tell them make sure you know what you want to do that’s the first thing do your research if you honestly if you’re undecided
I tell people okay if you want to go to this email go to anything you want to go to the other person you’ve been low stood another yet but once you make up in your mind what you want to do you have like libraries if you have to stay
Consistent with what you want to do yeah if you’re not knowledgeable about the sorority then you should even be there to be consistent like the understand you know things have been milder change but you can’t be a meet the divas and everything and all that and then you say
Oh well you know John they make me mad so I’m okay but we know like it’s not and what they fail to realize this on the outside they may think that were separated but we’re not so you can’t be over here and over that and then think
We’re gonna bill that’s not going to work and just with girls just realize yes you are in college find yourself but let’s not find yourself with a lot of people and there’s a lot of people know about it yeah that’s a little issue people talk too much you cannot tell everybody your business
You shouldn’t tell anybody you should keep that between yourself and our Lord for people to walk up and be like Oh in their organization I’m gonna do that oh thank you okay because it takes away from what we have done to get where we are to think that you can just walk it
You know no we have a major major major problem with people information oh you know those kind of things it’s very inappropriate you should stay far far away from those questions I think it’s inappropriate to X how long was your process or what you
Have to do or how much you had to pay you know certain questions shouldn’t be X but the thing is secrecy and everything is about discretion right you can’t walk up to Angela be like oh when y’all next rooks and then they say Walsh Angela’s not gonna answer but she was
Inconvenient answer so you seem discouraged because oh maybe I can’t do Delta this semester but you know what they did is they have an interest meeting and I’m a little so now Angela’s going to know that girl was interested whatever you are interested in you keep that to yourself
Don’t worry about what I had to do to get what I have because everybody doesn’t do the same thing so you just wait until it’s your time everything’s about patiently waiting in its discretion your time will come and if you want something bad enough you should try to work for it
You shouldn’t need us to give you all the answers that’s one of the reasons why you don’t cuz you need to you need to be informed and you need to you need to be trying to tell me with my next rush and I try next Hey oh is it
That’s what research coming I don’t want to give a list of do’s and don’ts I think there are appropriate times to ask questions are inappropriate times as such we have places like informational and Greek informational and events where you can come and ask those questions the
Reason why I don’t like to see people come at like a barbecue or when we’re in the midst of you know I saw on that fret brother but when they have other people around put to you you probably think you’re ready to ask me a question if you
Want to ask me but you’re not ready um as far as this the thing that you should and should not do in the street or you know when you’re just on campus I’m not going to give you a list of things you know be yourself be exactly who you are
But when you do come to in any event or any organization make sure you put your best foot forward now if I don’t want people to think that that means you have to be fake have on a facade because if you want to be a part of something where
You feel like you can yell across the Union or go to the club and check us out feathers and shoot it up then that’s cool you might find something you know somewhere where you belong with I’m not I’m just being real life please don’t I
Don’t want you I don’t want you in my organization because that’s the same representation that you’re going to bring it’s not going to change just because you’ve become an 8 a 8 so be who you are when you come to these events make sure you put your best foot forward
Be the best person that you can be my best advice would be personally no advice and I say this because I don’t want you like the shape perspectives may not be my life into perspective and even though we in the same shot the same organization my view of what I think of
When the signal should be could be a little different for us so my best advice to you is whether you go on campus laying your tattered clothes your one-hour jeans whatever come show me that and then get turned down if that’s not what I’m looking for and the next
Time you’ll know if you vote enough and ask me what we’re wrong I’m going to tell you and then you can grow from next but as for Sam you know I need to work you know earrings every day I need the you know basically this Oh comb your
Hair but some people don’t know that if I need to comb my hat and I need to tell you that and that’s what helps you get in something wrong with it you should already know this stuff thus that just shows me further yet you’re not ready so
Go think about it I think people get confused because we don’t make people into something that they’re not we palet we enhance we motivate we you know if those things I’m not if you’re not ready for word then you’re not ready for it but please don’t get it twisted and
Think that we got the shape and mold you and you know do all these things everybody is not meant to be great everybody is not meant to be great just because you’re walking to how this campus on me you gonna be a part of Greek life and use those organizations
As an example you know and I know a lot of people saying well United us they say give me an example what you think that to do you have examples now it’s up to the Greek to set a good example of what they want their prospective members to
Be our right to bring to the table
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