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Whenever I post today’s video we’re going to be talking about dating and Greek life a few different angles of that being Greek and dating non-greeks being a non Greek dating a Greek and two Greeks dating you believe this doesn’t ready but with dark-skinned people drop some awesome Hennessey buddies nega’s
People wonder if they have a mother so cuz each type of relationship has its different you know pros and cons so we’re going to talk a little bit about that yeah so this was a requested video and we’re gonna get into that we’re first gonna start with talking about
Being Greek and dating the GDI alright so basically as I if you guys watch my Greek terminology video I explain what a GDI is in smooth goddamn individual it simply just a non-greek so that’s the term I’m gonna be using to refer to nine things QDI in this video so being
Someone who is part of a great organization who is dating outside of Greek organizations so dating the GD is we’re gonna talk about some pros and cons so let’s start with the cons some cons of being Greek and getting a GDI would be that they will not understand your time commitment basically when
You’re Greek I don’t want to say everything Greek comes first but a lot of what is Greek comes first so you’re going to have a lot of things required of your time and so that means less time for your significant other at times and if they’re not an understanding person
Or they’re not really knowledgeable with Greek life they may feel neglected so that’s probably like the biggest con of dating someone who isn’t Greek they just won’t understand when you have to leave just a beat town go to this even in that event and you know go to all these
Meetings and do this and do that they might not understand that you basically had a commitment to someone else like another relationship you got to relationships so that’s one of the cons let’s see what are some of the cons of dating someone who’s GD I haven’t explained everything they have a ton of
Questions and some things you can’t answer some things you can but the constant need to explain everything throughout a conversation it can be kind of like annoying in a way but if you guys watch my Greek terminology video you won’t have that problem because a lot of
Things that we say are explained in that video but sometimes like they can be lost in the conversation if you’re you know hanging out with your other Greek friends and you guys kind of talk in this Greek way a non Greek would be lost in the conversation they’ll be kind of
Left out side you got to stop and explain everything which isn’t really a big deal for some so I mean it’s a con but it’s really not it’s not really a big deal to me I’d rather data GDI though so I can’t really think of too
Many cons just dating a GBI there are more constantly other types of relationships but yet sosa pros of dating GD is they don’t have like this Greek complex with a lot of Greek people have like they just have fans and groupies etc don’t have that I’m a unless they like
Are into something else like sports or something else but generally generally speaking they tend to not have that baggage and all these fan girls and so that’s one Pro I see what else another Pro is that your life is separate like so you have two Greek life
But everything is in Greek related like if you go home you could talk about something else so that’s nice to be able to talk about something else you don’t want your whole entire life to be consumed by Greek life whereas if you’re in a relationship with someone
Else who is Greek that’s pretty much how it is that’s all y’all talk about not why y’all talk about but a lot we don’t talk about it so let’s see okay so next one is being your TDI and dating a great picking so basically it’s the same cons
But just kind of like like flipped so on the other side if I was a GDI and I was dating someone Greek maybe I would feel left out I also would feel like they have a lot of Secrets and a part of their life that I can’t really be a part
Of or know about so maybe that’ll like affect us in that type of way like maybe it’ll affect trust also because then you know then you do you are dating someone with fangirls and fanboys so then you’re kind of just you know they got people throwing themselves at
Them because they’re Greek or whatever so you got this constant wonder when they go out of town like what they doing with a wig at this party was all upon them etc etc etc so it can affect trust and then being Greek and dating Greek
The pros of being Greek and and in Greek is that y’all can go to events together they can relate to you like in that way like that’s something you guys can actually talk about and discuss so it’s not like a big secret or separate part of your relationship unity pictures are
Cute oh let’s see y’all can support each other in like step shows and yard shows or etc they understand your time commitment they understand why you want to join something you don’t have to constantly explain or defend your decision to be Greek with non-greeks that’s something that you have to be
Pretty often because they don’t understand or like they don’t get why you want to what the purposes in cinema so it’s kind of feel like it’s constantly an interview I don’t know but to me I think there’s pros and cons in any type of relationship and being Greek should not
Really affect how your relationship goes it all just depends on how you are as a person your communication and your commitment to that person in your respect level so honestly it doesn’t matter if you’re Greek or not Greek or if your significant other it’s Greek or not Greek the relationship is a
Relationship they all come with their own little problems or issues and things like that and so it just all depends on the way that you approach them how you solve your problems how you communicate those issues and as far as like you’re trusting who you are as a person who
They are as a person how you guys interact and their relationship so honestly it’s no different from regular relationships except for just there are some secrets if you’re Greek or there’s some some things that are like said that you might not understand that go over your head but it’s really not it’s not
Like a make-or-break type of thing it’s really not important honestly so um I hope you guys enjoyed it if you guys did and give it a thumbs up if you want more videos like this or you got any other requests or suggestions leave them in the comment box below
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