Hey Dr Emily mcnight here and I am announcing that I am no longer a member of Alpac cap Alpha sity Incorporated but more importantly I want to share with you just my transparent experience being involved in this organization and how it impacted my life my marriage and my
Family who I consider this video for is anybody who is interested in joining any D9 organization this is not just AKA this is a pertinent to all the divine sign sororities and fraternities anybody who is currently in one anyone who is married to a person who is in one of
These D9 organizations anyone who has children either interested or currently interested I’m sorry interested or currently in one of these organizations and then last but not least anyone who you know and love that falls in that category above that you are concerned about their welfare their well-being and the lives of their children
This is who this is for and that includes romantic relationships I’m going to be transparent I’m not going to hold back um and I am going to obey this call this is something that God has wanted me to do and he wants me to come from a legacy perspective specifically
So this is from a wife and this is from a mother’s perspective now let me start with my own personal journey I was 37 years old when I came through a graduate chapter okay I was pregnant with my fourth child so that might be um new I
Was not 19 years old didn’t know I was doing no I was grown grown okay I knew what I was doing I was in a season of my life where I was going after everything that I felt that the devil stole from me years ago I was going for it all okay I
Was recently married um after being a single mom to two daughters for several years I married my high school and college sweetheart um who I’ve always loved God brought him back together uh brought us back together together 13 years later I mean I was going for all the things okay starting a graduate
Program I was doing the things a little backstory to me and my husband’s um Love Story we met in high school but then dated longdistance college and our relationship ended because he pledged Kaa aaside that’s my perception and it was really because he notified me and
Told me like hey ever since I pledged like I am not able to be faithful to you basically he was saying like this this yard is hot right I think we saw each other one time after that I was like no you know we can do this he was like I
Can’t I cannot and I always respected the man for being honest with me right but just it wasn’t until after all of this was like wow that really broke us up but um what brought us back together was God okay so we went our separate way and
You know we were both kind of brought back together when we were both in um a junction in our lives where we were at God’s feet we were you know in the word we were trying to date you know God’s way we were both abstaining just God worked on us individually and then
Brought us back together so when God brought us back together he was not Mr Kappa on the yard anymore he was a man after God’s Own Heart and I could tell the difference okay so I wanted to say that now we are moving towards marriage and he didn’t talk about Kappa
As much but but me being a professional woman and having all these you know just kind of connections they would hear about him and I’m like yeah well he is a c I was like oh well let’s connect him to the noops in LA right or the noops at
Church right that was just a natural thing for him to get community and so that’s what we did and so around the time that we got married and really early on in our marriage that was our friend Circle it was kappas and most of these men were married to AKA now this
In and of itself re-sparked an interest in AKA I was interested in it at one point as an undergraduate um but as soon as I transferred to that University the that very same semester that line got kicked off that whole graduate chapter got suspended indefinitely for hazing and so
I was like dang you know I just never was able to do it but but you know now here in our early 30s or whatnot and I’m hearing about it and they’re like it’s not like that you can do graduate chapter I was interested okay now it’s
Funny because as his friends would be talking to me if my husband over here them talking he would always come in like no man we straight we good we good over here and I’m like why are you being a hater you know and now that I think
About it I feel like my husband was Discerning something he just wasn’t able to articulate ated but it don’t matter what he was talking about I was determined and my mind was made up I wanted it okay and so I remember talking to one of my Kappa one of his Kappa
Friend’s wives she was an AKA and she was putting me on on how to become a member right and I remember her contacting me was like Hey we got something Friday like you need to come you know here’s an event that you can come to well that Friday was my actual
36th birthday and I was like oh I always you know celebrate my birthday with my daughter and I’m kind of recently married and I got this new son you know like we usually do things together but in that moment I decided like look we going to celebrate over the weekend but
Tonight I’m going to this interest meeting or this event or whatever so anyway the process I say all that to say the process just started this drive to become a AKA started even as I was going to events right um the process flopped she was just like hey we
Can’t do it it was no explanation she didn’t tell me why it was still a lot of secrecy but she was just like hey this ain’t going to work out we’re going to have to try another time then let’s say the following year I started um I moved to the Midwest to
Start my doctorate program and as soon as I got there my first friend was an AKA and I remember asking her like oh what is about whatever she was like wait a minute what you interested and I’m like yeah absolutely she was like oh I got you no worries my assumption is this
Is a window that God is opening for me and that would be my first mistake with this organization I did not ask God everything else in my life the season prior it was me and God in partnership in tandem how I got married I followed
Him to the tea just so happened that I married this guy right right he told me to quit a six-figure job soon after that to go back to school we obeyed right write a book start a relationship coaching business like begin influencing things God was leading me and I
Consulted with him everything over and over and over again but this I did not ask him a nothing okay you know that Proverbs that says you’re not supposed to lean on your own understanding I lean on my own understanding I figured that I just remembered d9es are based on Christian P
Principles and how could they not be because guess what my pastor at the time was Greek women at my my church who I serve with Greek now my husband who is the priest of my home Greek okay so clearly this has to be a good thing right so I
Thought so my initiation process began and again this resilient determination kicked in um um I had to go to these events it was the middle of the winter and I would drive 45 minutes in the rain sleep snow mind you I’m pregnant with my fourth child at the time I’m hydrop
Planning on this rol but I’m like I got to get to these events um and I started the process and honestly this grad level process it wasn’t bad yes it was a lot of information I had to learn yes I saw some cattiness but and then even as the
Initial process started you know some things were weird like the stuff that you see on the movies okay but I would call my husband like hey you know that was kind of weird or whatever and he was like yeah you know whatever or could you believe this girl said that he be like
Hey this is what you’re trying to do it was more so like I had it worse okay just this is what you want get through it all right so that’s what I did um on my initiation day there was in fact a ritual right I know some of you
Have heard of these things but it’s true okay you’re not privy of this information beforehand you’re told like look all these other sessions you wear black this day we wear white we going to have a little ceremony little something something going on and we going to have
Brunch in with your family okay that is what you think but when you go in it’s a whole situation okay I recall a whole alter likee setup like a table with objects on it and handles lid and all this different stuff right and this represents this and this represents that
Right I REM remember repeating various lines and taking Oaths and repeat after me say this repeat after me very extensive okay and I’m going to link the ritual um cuz that is available I sign my name in a book okay and I kneel down on a pillow and bowed I remember that because
Somebody had to help me up because I was pregnant now when I’m reading my Bible and I’m thinking about this I’m like all of this goes against the will of God but at the moment I promise you nothing was triggering it was just more so like okay
Didn’t know we were doing all of this stuff but you’re rolling with it okay um every time I read Matthew 5:33 through 37 it just reminds me of that day I’m going to read it to you again you have heard that it was said to to the people
Long ago do not break your oath but fulfill to the Lord the vows you have made but I tell you do not swear an oath at all either by heaven for it is God’s Throne or by Earth for it is his foot stool or by Jerusalem for it is the city
Of the great king do not swear by your head for you cannot make even one hair white or black all you need to say is simply yes or no here’s the thing anything beyond this comes from the evil one this is so loud to me because now in hindsight 2020 I’m thinking like
How come God doesn’t want us to kneel at these altars and take these Oaths what is our God protecting us from and who did we just make these vows in this Covenant basically who did we make this to all right we’ll talk about it but my immediate experience in the first few
Months just in the Practical I want to share with you my very first chapter meeting hey welcome to edicius yay now it’s order of business my first thought was like where is The Sisterhood that y’all talked about that meeting I’ll never forget they were discussing a fist fight that happened between
Undergraduates and a graduate member a fist fight I’m like you got to be kidding me who fighting in AKA right I mean is this not The Sisterhood and all this different stuff pretty girls I’m like what fighting right um even after that the months to come I was met with immediate
Busyness when I tell you they was like you come in and you serve you serve on this committee you get a committee you can head a committee like it was all the things that you can do to serve in that organization and I became immediately
Busy this is what a fresh brand new baby not one time was it said like oh I know that you live far or that you just have this new baby none of that it was just kind of like all right so you knew get to work right even people used to see
Things in me where they would groom me to say you know I see that you you know may want to be an officer I’m going to connect you with this person and that person she’s higher up in the ranks or just what have you and so they saw
Something in me and they were grooming it all right and I was just falling suit like I’m just making up for lost time and lastly I was proud to be an AKA you couldn’t tell me nothing all right I remember at my book launch I had my new
Pens on or just whatever you know that I got in my initiation I’m doing speaking engagements I will always throw in a little bit something about my or I’m sitting up here talking about dating and relationships you will hear something about AKA even on social media and
Influencing like you can even come to my page without some type of indication little pink and green Heart Christian relation ship coach or whatever like you knew that I was a AKA but that’s not when this thing got worse it got worse when I had this desire for legacy my daughter approached graduation
My oldest daughter and it was imperative that she moved to the Midwest and come and join me in the chapter I made sure that I was on the membership committee um I made sure that we had you know a graduate chapter at that specific time of window when I tell you about the
Catting this before I became the cat like I became that woman that they were complaining about like I don’t even want to work on her that’s how bad I was serious or how serious I was about getting my daughter to come through even when she did move I was forcing her to
Go to these events she didn’t really see the value again like we’re from La um and we didn’t have any Greeks in our family at all I was the first one and so she just really didn’t see what all the hype was about but she went and she
Followed through and she got voted in even before that let me back up a little bit um being on this membership committed I got a tip in to say that her transcripts weren’t going to get there in time it was like a Wednesday night and she was like Hey you know we don’t
Have your daughter’s transcripts I’m like what I went in went to her school paid some stupid amount for that $3 transcript so that it can get in by the Sunday deadline my daughter’s um copy that she ordered came in Tuesday or Wednesday so we had this
Running joke in our family like if it wasn’t for your mama you wouldn’t even be in AKA but now that joke is not funny if it wasn’t for your mama you probably wouldn’t have been AKA just from that transcript again I’m being honest with with you okay I hope this is blessing
Somebody but now we have Legacy in our family my husband’s Kappa I’m a AKA now my oldest daughter is in AKA I didn’t stop there I began thinking about our family collectively as Legacy now my daughter is a young woman in her early 20s I’m doing all this research
About you know young marriage and just different things like that and so I’ve always looked to see what male suitors will be a nice catch for my daughter right I’m a relationship coach I’m going to be looking right and my quest went from men who may following God or really
Served in their church or really you know was good in Bible class and stuff like that like how it was back home to now the environment that I was around which was Greek life so H are they active in their organization are they leaders in their organization those are
The things that now I was looking to in terms of who will be a good catch for my daughter I developed this son-in-law crush on this young gentleman I investigated him I asked a young you know sores at the time or whatever like what’s up with him what’s he about or
Whatever got on my scoop they began dating they had form their own chemistry they got married okay we had a first fam wedding this was July 2022 okay now we got Legacy now we have this Greek family all right a month later I had no idea that
God was about to shake this up I had no idea once my daughter got married I was really already on this journey of really being at God’s feet I was kind of two years removed from the organization I went from being active and then when we
Moved here I was just really focused on getting my doctor degree um and so being absent from the the from the organization allowed me to have more time to spend with God okay and so I was really at God’s feet so once that wedding was over it was a month where I
Was really in prayer and fasting for kind of Direction in my life you know I was in Crossroads were with Academia or um entrepreneurship or you know just increase just I was at God’s feet I was desperate in August 2022 August 1st God gave me what I asked for okay
This is significant he gave me uh 24 new clients a special cohort it has specific rules like there’s ways that he wanted me to Mentor them I could not drink he was like you have to be filled with the Holy Spirit at all times and the reason being
Was these women were heavy in their spiritual gifts okay I mean heavy these were women who were anointed sear prophets prophets evangelists like the whole shabam just a whole new caliber of women than I than I ever coached before right so I needed to be on my gang so I
Formed this new community of women I needed a community for myself and the first thing that I thought of was to join a a new chapter I had attempted to join this new chapter blindly it was a new Charter chapter whatever ever and it was going
To be small it was going to be nice and intimate I sent my $6 $700 in I was like Hey I want to be in right they got my check one day late to be a charter member and they responded to me and said like hey did someone so was supposed to
Do this or whatever the cattiness right but I was like bump that like what does this mean they were like you can be a regular member but you won’t be a charter member I was like no I don’t want that I might as well just be a regular member at a chapter that’s
Closer to me I think that was a God wink and a God save okay um same month I was invited to another event by a friend um who was a AKA but she’s also a veteran in this city and she was like well at least you
Can come and get to know some of the ladies that same event happened on a Sunday the Sunday where my husband was supposed to travel to go and bury his Godfather okay okay and holy spirit told me don’t go to that event you be here for your husband whatever he needs he
Need help packing his clothes you go he just need prayer he you just need to see him and walk him out to his truck that’s what you do right mind you I would have never done that before it would have been like hey I got this event at 10:
What time you going to leave okay love you praying for you call me on the road but again Holy Spirit was prompting me to do something different the following week this is all August there was an event that I was supposed to go to a big event we had a
New install of a president and she’s from Texas and here we were having this event um and I got tickets to go and I was taking my middle daughter at the time A friend of mine told me about her who was also AKA I knew she was going to
Be working the event um but I was going that day I’m going to read to you something because this event was the Catalyst for everything okay and I had the weirdest prayer that I could ever think of ever writing down it was just odd I wasn’t even thinking about AKA that that heavy
But I’m just going to read it to you verbatim 8:21 22 Sunday 6:34 a.m. the scripture that I wrote down was Daniel 9:16 in view of all of your faithful mercies Lord please turn your Furious anger away from your City Jerusalem your Holy Mountain all the neighboring Nations mock Jerusalem and your people
Because of our sins and the sins of our ancestors here I go praying today is a plan luncheon for AKA and I felt compelled to pray for the sins of our sorority Lord you are merciful for forgive us Lord for the sins we have allowed to be committed under the name
Of our sorority thank you Lord for allowing me to be positioned as a member of AKA although the original intention was for status and to feel included now I feel as if you will have a higher purpose for me in the near future for that guide I go today with
Representing you boldly meaning I’m going to this brunch representing you boldly I will talk to my middle daughter about the vision that I see for both her and and the oldest and your younger siblings in the D9 Community Lord I do ask that you show me what I’m doing
Wrong what in the world at 6 o00 in the in the morning then I’m doing in this devotion time going back to this preparing for this video God reminded me like you know you prayed for the sins of your sorority that morning I just had to
Read you the whole thing and it reminded me of that that incident that blind beggar barus I believe Mark 11 ver vers 51-52 where he was passing Jesus in the crowd and he was like hey hey have mercy on me have mercy on me and Jesus asked
Well what do you want what do you want me to do and he said I want to see and then Jesus was like cool your faith has healed you and instantly the man could see and he followed Jesus down the road I had a barus moment that morning I
Asked God show me what I’m doing wrong and he showed me at that Branch let me tell you what happened okay when I got there me and my daughter was looking at a seat for a seat it was a a sea of AKA 500 600 AKA in this
Building we could not find a seat everybody was saving seats nope you can’t see here nope no Noe no NOP right we ended up all the way in the back at a table where it was only me and my daughter sitting out from among them okay um and here’s what I started
Noticing that really freaked me out okay mind you I’m sober any other time I would have had a mimosa I’m just being real with you I’m drinking water going to the bathroom I came back and it was about 3: to 4 women around my daughter
Right but I come up they left and I was like Bab hey what’s going on she was like oh they just came over to ask me like if I wanted to um you know sit further up front or if they wanted other people to come sit with me but I told
Him I was good you know me and my mom waiting for my mom out there out the bathroom I was like okay a seat up front would be nice you know I’m waiting for them to come back never came back it happened again in the line where we were
Getting something to eat and a buffet lines so I’ll go to another line I’ll look over people are mingling talking to her I get my plate go to her they all turn and start talking amongst themselves right and I’m thinking I’m about to come join a conversation but
They immediately like turn other way and I’m like okay I’m like hey what’s going on she was like oh yeah everybody thinks I’m your sore right like they keep saying sore I’m not supposed to be your mom you know but it was just odd like why didn’t not talking to me so long
Story short this whole event they were repelled by me but gravitated to my daughter repelled by me gravitated to my daughter it was the weirdest thing okay we getting ready to leave early I was like something is I’m just ready to go and so at this moment we’re standing
Up and we’re clapping for the president who’s coming in she’s getting ready to take the stage and make her address right and I’m talk I ain’t heard nothing sis was talking about cuz I’m in my head with my own thoughts and what I’m thinking is this is never going to
Happen to me and my daughter again we are not going to be sting up here at no back a no event um I’m going to join the chapter I’m going to head a committee I’m going to run for office all these things that I knew to do in the midwest
I’m going to do it again in this new city it seems like God just interrupted me like excuse me are you done I want to talk to you and I’m like okay and he says let me ask you something if what happens if you never get the Applause would you still do this
Now I knew in my spirit he was not talking about AKA when not Applause he was talking about coaching and I responded to him I was like yeah Lord sure I’ll do this I love this I love what you’ve done with the program then he asked me a second question if you
Were responsible to put help get the women who will take the stage and who will get the Applause would you still do this and I said yes but honestly I was really sad about it I was like dang okay cool so as I’m talking to myself about
What I’m going to do with AKA God comes in and starts talking to me about purpose and about calling all right put a pen in that a couple of days later I’m talking to one of the clients that God gave me and as I mentioned or if I
Haven’t these are heavy hitters these are women who are highly gifted highly prophetic right and I was talking to her but I just whatever reason I had told her about a friend of mine who kept sending me these denouncement videos this girl from LA right I known her
Since I was 5 years old but she was always on kind of like some conspiracy theories and I was telling her that she kept sending me these videos and she had just sent me another one and made me mad right and I mentioned that to my cohor
Court member and she was like Dr M God told me to send you a video two weeks ago and I was scared but I’m not scared anymore you just open that door for me I’m going to send you this video you need to watch it and you’re going to
Have to decide I’m like decide she was like you’re going to have to decide and you’re going to have to decide before this cohort is up and I’m like what I’m like all right whatever God knew that I would listen to her being a prophet versus listening to my friend so I watch
The videos okay excuse me one video I was convicted about some things I was like okay that resonates a little bit but nothing to leave my org about right I watched the videos one in particular that my friend has sent me I watched that they had some really good
Points okay and I was like this is interesting and I said to myself like you know what I need to get my handbook these girls keep talking about this handbook I need to find it but I’m going to look for it another day right went to sleep that
Night I would say for the next three nights I was just waking up out of my sleep having these heart pretations just waking up like heart just pounding can’t hardly breathe and I’m like what is it what’s going on God like What’s Happening Here I finally linked it to this slight
Conviction that I was having about the organization so I made a couple of phone calls one I called my mentor who was probably a AKA for 40 plus years I know she’s a woman of God so I asked her what’s up and she said oh you know
People been leaving um you know before the end of time that’s that’s not new but it’s all about personal conviction personal conviction okay I was like this is cool this is great advice but you ain’t telling me nothing what’s up with these claims about the organization got
Off the phone with her God put somebody on my heart to call and it was this young woman a young wife that was actually my research participant now I remember her because she was a AKA and her her husband was a Kappa like us right and so I called her I was like
Okay I know this is I but this is Dr M from the research study but God told me to call you cuz I’m having slight convictions about this AKA we talked and it was more so like you know talked about God and the resolve was like um
Maybe we just supposed to be the one to come in and talk about our organization just whatever I was like okay cool Saturday comes around I was supposed to go to a chapter meeting did not go to that chapter like another closer chapter meeting in the shower I
Looked around at my bathroom and it was dirty I ain’t even going to lie it was hair everywhere Clippers all the Cosmetic ICS that I can possibly have out on the T it was all it was like all right you ain’t going to no chapter meeting you need to clean up this house
Second time that I’ve picked my roles as a wife over AKA any other time I would have gotten to it later not to say I’m nasty okay don’t shy to judge me but it was I would have got to it later I would have been like no I’m going to chapter and
Then I’m going to come back and do this but God was positioning me differently is why I bring that up Sunday rolls around no big deal Monday I dropped my daughter off at daycare I get a text message from my young research participant it wasn’t even a text it was
A voice note but as soon as I heard that Ding and I saw that it was from her I began to have those same heart propit that I had that God was waking me up with I knew in my heart that that girl was leaving AKA press play on the video
On on The Voice not she was like I’m out Dr M I listen to The Voice Notes but you need to read the handbook mind you I already knew I needed to read the handbook but I had been slacking she said read the handbook I’m pressed to read it from start to finish
I think you should too by this time one of the videos had the link I can’t find it for you anymore but um it had the PDF and I went through and I read it Page by Page by Page let me tell you the two things that got me initially
First there was four whole pages of hazing we are an anti-hazing organization it explained what hazing was physically emotionally um all this different things some psychologist and lawyer did a really good job on these four pages what pissed me off about that excuse me what made me upset about that
Is I know there’s hazing in this organization right even looking for schools for my my daughter AKA ain’t on the yard here ain’t no aka’s on the yard there I know they get suspended I’ve sat on committees investigating these things and it always made me so angry that how
Come we are upper Epsilon of women or Echelon of women who doctors lawyers phds senators all these different people school board members and we can’t protect these young girls from being hazed why are we still having this conversation so that was the first thing that bothered me the most is
That how detailed they were about this then flip to the next 20 pages and you got all this muddiness of scripture a little scripture here A whole lot of alpha cppa alpha here little scripture there but what took me out was looking at our hymn or our pledge or whatever to
The O Alpha Alpha we pledge our hearts our minds our strength to Foster their teachings obey thy laws and make thee Supreme in service to all man mankind oh Alpha Kappa Alpha reget reg greet three when I read that I was like we say this all the time but this is in my
Bible this is Deuteronomy 649 love the Lord your God with all of your heart this is Matthew 22:37 and he said to him you shall love the Lord with love you should love the Lord your God with all of your heart and with all your soul and
With all your mind this is Mark 12:30 you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength why does it say Alpha Kappa Alpha in here how come you guys just couldn’t put the Scripture
It was stuff like that that bothered me the most okay I even went back and relistened to the first video that my client sent me did a little research on her that girl wasn’t even an AKA she was a sgro and I’m like oh heck no so this
Ain’t just AKA and that’s when I ran to my husband and I told him I was like babe we need to list look into our organizations this is not right okay it is saying right we went through three weeks together whole the whole month of September it was me and my husband we
Were looking at videos we were looking at sermons we were looking at the scriptures we looking at white papers um you know articles that people had wrote like we hadn’t studied something together or anything related to the Bible or any matter like that in a long time we had so much
Fun there was a lot of chatter about what are we about to do and finally I asked God a real transparent question this was kind of towards the end of our research God started to give some Revelation at this time um and I asked him a very real
Question I went in and I asked God I said God I understand that there’s part of this organization that’s not of you but can I stay to bring you in can I stay to make changes to these this Hazen and make changes to our rituals so that they can better align
With you something along those lines I just asked him a direct question like look can I stay and can I make changes God was like no I did not ordain you to make changes in AKA your anointing is for this relationships and marriage your anointing is not for AKA and if you do
It you’re going to be spending your wheels and you will not my hand will not be on you quick fast answer I was like you know what I ain’t got to no I ain’t got to do any more investigation I left typed in my letter figured out what I needed to do mailed
It off I thought my husband was going to follow suit and he did not immediately now he did have big Revelations he shared more opened up more about his process you know he had never talked about that before but his biggest Revelation that gave me peace was like I’m no longer condoning this
For my son like that’s a rap this isn’t Legacy right and other things came up for him but he needed time he was like I don’t feel compelled to leave and I’m not going to leave just because you you want me to or just because you’re
Leaving okay and but what we agreed upon was that he will continue to do his own investigation and continue to do his research I wasn’t happy with that at first I’m just being honest with you but one thing that God kept saying as I was praying
About it behind his back was wait on him wait on him it’s what God told me and pray all right so after I left I want to tell you what happened after I left okay um so just kind of hear me out God started revealing so many things to me when I
Once I sent off my letter one there was a need of acceptance that drove the desire for AKA so that kind of led to some healing of some a healing Journey right he reemphasized to me that you did not ask to join this organization okay he also brought me to Galatians 5:19
Through 20 he set me up because I always bring this up when it comes down to Christian dating but he brought it to me in terms of my error when you follow the desires of your sinful nature the results are very clear sexual immorality impurity lustful Pleasures idolatry sorcery hostility quarreling jealousy
Outburst of angu anger selfish ambition dissension division Envy drunkenness wild parties and other sins like these let me tell you again as I’ve said before that anyone living that sort of life will not inherit the kingdom of God other things he revealed to me it became a part of my identity stop saying
That is it wasn’t it was AKA became an idol this is how he shown me the implications of idolatry or making this organization an idol and how it impacted my marriage and my family so he dealt with me first and then he said this is how it’s impacting your marriage and family okay
Idolatry I always say this in terms of um you know sin a choice right when anybody comes into these organizations and you make these Oaths and these covenants or just whatever what I’m learning about covenants is you know you make these altars you’re summoning these Spirits right and this
Is you have to look this up on your own but this is my understanding of it and when we make these covenants other than God we allow legal access for an open door for demonic activity for demonic influence in your life right this is very similar to sin
When we sin we are separated from God and we we give the enemy a foot a foot stol a foothold for demonic activity but this is like having an open door this is the way God showed me okay and I’m just kind of sharing sharing it with you he
Also led me to um judges 2 1-3 and maybe this will give you a visual the angel of the Lord went from gilgal to boken and said to the Israelites I brought you out of Egypt into this land that I swore to give your ancestors and I said I will never break
My Covenant with you for your part though you were not to make any covenants with people living in this land instead you were to destroy their altars but you disobeyed my command why did you do that is so now I declare that I will no longer drive out the people
Living in your land and they will be thorns in your sides and their God will be constant temptation to you what who is a constant temptation to me what’s happening right and I always will say in my coaching practice that the enemy has no new tricks and when it
Comes down to preventing marriage because the enemy comes to steal kill and destroy so he’s trying to pre prevent you from covenant marriage from Kingdom marriage and his sin of choice is going to be sexual immorality if I were to use that same analogy here with these Greek Greek
Organizations the sin of choice for you to open that door to demonic influence is idolatry and Denine organizations breathe idolatry from the start to the rituals to the hymns to the pledges it’s beyond the initiation process you got to repeat these things over and over and
Over again what we wear what we spend our money on what we spend our time doing okay all the things here’s a couple of definitions of idolatry I want to read to you that I’ve collected over the years the worship of someone or something other than God as
Though it were God anything that takes the place in our lives that should only belong to God is idolatry any person or thing that consumes your thoughts your words your time your energy or your money other than God is an idol that’s a life application Bible commentary anything you love more than
Your obedience to God any or anyone or anything you are not willing to let go of for the sake of wholeheartedly serving God and placing him as Lord over your life you’ve made that person or thing or organization an idol that’s Dr Emily magnite right there Holy Spirit gave me that
Okay what I’m learning is idolatry does not only have personal implications but as you can see here it can have implications on our family our real Legacy our entire household okay the people that we love the most our spouses and our children okay we bound ourselves
To a covenant that is not not of God where we’re serving and worshiping these organizations that breathes this idolatry right and serving other gods and putting that membership before our obedience to God but then we perpetuate the sin of idolatry under the Guist of Legacy let me show you how this showed
Up in my life in terms of my marriage with Devon right when we dated back in college that breakup was because he couldn’t resist temptation under Kappa after he pledged Kappa right wanted again steal kill destroy demonic influence he tried to destroy us right two there wasn’t a draw
To join the organization until I got closer and got back with him and marrying him right I was good once I became an AKA there were certain things and this is just in our marriage okay even got to the kids there were certain things that came into our marriage that
I wonder if they were linked to the Covenant that I made and now that these demonic doors are open Financial infidelity and let me make that clear spending money without my husband knowing and without him especially large amounts of money is like cheating on him okay so
That’s why I use that term Financial infidelity it ain’t cute not to the man that I’m married to and I did that to him and what it dawned on me was the funds this student loan that I took out behind his back for thousands of dollars was to buy my daughter paraphernalia
When she crossed AKA what it also dawned on me when I finally got rid of all my paraphernalia one it felt like I was getting rid of dead person people’s clothes I’m just going to tell you that that was real spiritual but as I was getting on all
The paraphernalia together to go out and burn I had three big totes of of a paraphernalia I had a whole pink and green side of my closet with the stuff all at the top the purses the bags all the thing the boxes that’s where the finances is going
Right excessive spending not going back to our household but going to worship to idolize to be proud with this organization another thing sexual behaviors that I found freedom from in my singleness came back like a flood and this is um specifically self-pleasure and elicit content I told you I was
Going to be honest with you okay and I wonder if this had anything to do with it Financial infidelity sexual immorality within marriage right hiding you know these secret sins all of these things lead to divorce ask people look it up okay and I’m wondering if that was
Sin that was coming in and just this influence right um lastly what he showed me with my marriage is that we’ve had years of financial difficulty right we just couldn’t catch a break we went out on a limb follow God quit the job went back to school but it just seems like we
Were on this hamster will and after all these years being an entrepreneur things have not been up and up until after I left the organization anyway let me get to the kids my oldest here’s what God revealed to me what did you see this is the question
He posed what did you see in your children or what did you see in your child after she became a AKA and I noticed something very similar to when Devon became a Kappa Alpha side like his defend es were down that’s the only way I can explain it
Um she was more prone to make decisions that was kind of contrary to what we knew that God wanted for her life and her defenses were down like she was so gungho for God and obedient and that Zeal and those defenses were down um she has her own testimony I’m going to let
Her share that but that’s what I noticed about my daughter the O the other children my three other children were more so of what I was perpetuating on to them that middle girl in there she wasn’t messed up about no organization but in my mind she was going to pledge undergraduate
And she was going to be in AKA and I had several years to work on her and it probably would take me several years to do it because she’s so headstrong let me tell you what God revealed to me about wanting my daughter or Sons to pledge undergrad for the experience
We are very particular about our children um we are big on character um we kind of I’m I’m very proud of them we don’t get calls from the schools and stuff like that or whatever um and so we’re really big on character and reserving you know their character if
That makes sense and we’re also very protective over our our kids right and what God revealed to me was for this experience experience of undergrad you are willing to let your children your prized possession go through at least 3 weeks 21 days of potential abuse at the hands of 18 to 19 year
Olds either physical or emotional learning under extreme circumstances lack of sleep getting talk to however that you know doing stuff for people basically bullying for the sake of joining an organization in undergrad and when do we do that who does that when do we do that for these
Organizations we do and I was right there I was right there I would think like okay she’s a little spicy is she going to make it through undergrad cuz somebody G to say something to her and you not the fact that somebody’s going to say to her
Something crazy it it’s more so is she going to be able to make line because of the character that we already built in her to stand up for herself and speak her mind delusional let me get to the what God revealed to me about my son okay my son
TW a cane before he held a Bible he we have photos of him throwing up the yo he with his friends doing a Limon little shimmy mind you I was big on um promoting absence with my children we talk about our journey and I really have
Been um specific about my son right what God showed me was like Emily you have a desire for your your son to be the Virgin Kappa in his organization I’m like you you’re right Lord that is what I wanted from for him but to what extent right so you preserved him this
Whole time and talk to him about purity but just so he can be like a Kappa like his dad you’re going to insert him to a highly sexualized environment with sex parties alcohol all the things women and say reserve your Purity just so you can so this could be
Legacy Crazy Town all right my baby girl I only got one more kid left bear with me things that he was showing to me yes I was pregnant with my daughter so that was like an automatic like I’m pregnant with you when I came at AKA so
It’s Legacy all day okay I sung hymns and instead of Lis because I was going through that pledging process so what God brought back to me was at her sister’s initiation everybody thought it was so cute but we’re sitting around singing the hymn and here goes my baby not even
One years old sings our himym in Perfect Harmony that’s alarming to me now even from the future AKA onesies even with my son I remember Devin singing hymns to him and I was like oh I know that’s a cap achan because I ain’t never heard that song okay um just the things that we do pink
And green crimsom and cream right like we act as if we’re not perpetuating this and we are from birth let me tell you how it was explained to um displayed to me when I left AKA I me and my daughter we were just you know
Making a snack and I told her the day that I sent my letter off I came home and I told her and I said mommy’s not going to be an AKA anymore mommy’s not going to be an AKA she’s four she responds to me and say you don’t want to
Be Alpha Kappa Alpha sorority anymore the only thing that girl left off was incorporated girl had the full name and what God revealed to me at that moment was what if you would have told her mommy’s not going to be a Christian anymore would she have even known what you were talking
About no she wouldn’t have she would not have okay so it’s just all these this Revelation in in short right um now that God has told me to come out about this I had to break something generationally I was doing something within my family knowingly and unknowingly that did not please God and
My first step was to renounce the organization and that was after I heard God clearly where he said his hand was not going to be on me if I stayed you ain’t got to say nothing else but I asked him I diligently did work and
Asked him I repented of my sins over and over I had to release myself from Mom guilt God again started reveal to me things about the organization I thought this was just more reinforcement for me but when people started sending me more denouncement videos September of this year 2023 I’m
Like why are people sending me denouncement videos talking about God placed this on my heart for you to for you Dr M I’m like why I said Lord why and he said because you haven’t gone gone public you haven’t gone public so that Revelation was not for me that this testimony is for
You and I want you I have very specific calls the actions that I want you to do okay because I went through other steps I went through Deliverance I began to intercede for my loved ones right this has been a year-long journey um I am glad to report that my husband
Left Kappa alpas side in May 2023 my oldest daughter left Alpac Cappa Alpha sority Incorporated November 2023 prayer Works do you hear me and do not let up I not only share this testimony with my family but I shared with my clients who were within the D9 organization why
Was it important for me to share it to my clients I do and this is just one little coaching spill I believe that God is opening doors for Kingdom marriage I believe that he is about to play matchmaker all that buzz that you hear about Kingdom marriages that are going
To be on the rise I believe that he has shown that to me but it is only for those who love him and obey his Commandments you must love him and obey his Commandments and I will tell any body this right now if you are I’m AKA
Till I die I’m Delta till I die I’m Zeta till I die God is Not Lord God is Not Lord he is looking to bless those who love and Obey him same on the flip side with the men or women I don’t care who you dating right if you hear those words
I now say red flag down that is equivalent to you dating a guy and you’re trying to abstain and he said oh I ain’t I ain’t never abstaining I got to have some sex red flag down if you say that I will never give this up for the sake of God or our
Relationship red flag down all right so I’ve been sharing it with my clients now I’m sharing this with you these Revelations that God gave me about Legacy they are for you okay and I want to invoke hope as I wrap this up I just want you to let you know that there is
Hope since I left my organization not only has my husband left but my daughter left my marriage is better I feel lighter it feels like new levels of Deliverance since we both left right my husband is learning more about God like he like 10.0 when we first got together
And I love it and I enjoy him being at a God’s feet and just learning more about him it is beautiful it is sexy I love it okay and most of all we are closer as a unit but we are closer to God we are serving God with all of our heart and
All of our mind okay my oldest I’m just so proud of her I’m so proud of her she is going after the things of God again okay she is following her convictions again and that’s the baby I raised okay I’ve seen changes in my teenager too she’s had a
Great first year no stress no College she’s always been headstrong but she’s not phased about a dine organization and I love that about her and I have to apologize and forgive myself for trying to change that God gave her that my son is learning about God and the things of God and memorizing
Scripture that’s what he’s learning not no strolls not no twirling noain okay and last but not least my little one we talk about God daily she knows more about God than she knows about Alpha Kappa Alpha and we and she worships God through song we have worshiped every
Single Mo morning and she sings to our Lord and savior now in perfect melody and I know because of the efforts because of what I did I know for sure God is pleased okay my job my goal has to been the repair of the breach I made an
Error and I’m reversing that thing and I’m doing it for my family I’m doing it for my husband and I’m doing it for my children so what are your next steps your next steps are to fast and pray you need to fast and you need to pray and
You need need to diligently seek the answers to your questions especially if you are a current member of any of these Denine organizations I encourage you to pull out your handbooks your hyns your rituals and line them up with your Bible if you are married to a spouse do it for
Them right get the gather the information y’all do it together and figure out what you guys are involved in do the work okay sometimes I share this with people and I can’t even get the s out I denounced AKA and they were like well God ain’t told me to leave
When would he have told you we just talking when you ask him you know do the work take the time the same amount of time that you spent getting into these organizations you use that same amount of time to pray and fast about these organizations
Okay in closing I just want to pray a few scriptures over your life if you would allow me one I I pray that you make God lord over your life your marriage and your children whether future or present Deuteronomy 657 says you shall love the Lord your God with all your
Heart and with all your soul and with all your might and these words that I command you today shall be on your heart and you shall teach them diligently to your children and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you
Walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise that’s the mandate okay I pray that those who have made the mistake of joining these organizations Lord God I pray that you have mercy on them like you have shown mercy on me let them cry out to
You to have mercy and show that same Mercy to them Isaiah 59:20 says the Redeemer will come to Jerusalem to buy back those in Israel who have turned from their sins says the Lord and this is my Covenant with them says the Lord my spirit will not lead them and neither will these
Words I have given you they will be your on your lips and the lips of your children and your children’s children forever God is redeeming families he’s redeeming Legacy for us as men and women husbands and wives and our children to serve God and God alone and lastly I
Pray that all of us declare and decree Joshua 24:15 as for me in my house we will serve the Lord thank you for Sing and listening through this testimony I pray that it has blessed you if you think of anyone um as you’re listening to this
Forward it to them don’t delay you never know when you are contributing to someone’s freedom and lastly I am here for you we are here for you me and my husband are here for you you will have my contact information I will put it in the description box reach out if you
Need prayer if you need assistance if you need guidance whatever it is this testimony this journey what I prayed back then that God was going to use me in a in a bigger way I didn’t know it was going to be like this but it was for you so we are here
For you I love you and it’s going to be okay because God’s got us all we have to do is make him Lord over our life over everything and he will redeem us he will redeem us and he will redeem our families amen amen
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