Check it out check it out what’s cracking what’s cracking was cracking it’s your man 50 Grand J Berg here with another episode of the fatherhood exclusive I got my guys in the building Angelo P what’s good brother oh not much man how you I’m doing well and I got Mr
Never basic himself Dead’s in the building what’s good what up what up what up what up what up what up everything is great bro for show yeah I’m doing well man um just another week man just another week of getting after it and getting at it you know what I’m
Saying not much real different from uh last week what’s going on with you Puma well not much last week I was sick as a freaking dog man I was like out of it for like four days I lost my taste of my my taste everything else like that I thought I had Co
I but no it was all good um just you know everything’s finalized fully officially moved into the New House Co everything’s packed up ready to go got a Halloween party this Saturday so for show F show man everybody been I forgot like what when Halloween was because everybody’s been doing a Halloween show
For the past two weeks I like did I miss it already like what yeah I’m like dang did did the holiday get pushed back or what it seemed like more people like every year it gets like crazy crazier and CRA everybody celebrating Halloween I remember my mom wouldn’t even let me
Celebrate Halloween yeah n that was a devil day we Southern we Southern that’s the devil day them Spirits be out there on Halloween yeah she like I’ll let you I’ll let you be a kid and dress up for a little bit but you take that [ __ ] out
Yeah facts facts how you been doing Dez I’ve been good man I’ve been um in a really good space um just re rebuilding my business pretty much from the ground up again but everything is moving along real nice um been doing a couple boot camps and stuff been uh doing a lot of
Community outreach stuff um just being being very busy being active um also you know I’m a model and I’m into acting and all that so I I’ve been having a lot of good uh Productions I’ve been getting hired for so um everything has been on
Up and up man so I’m blessed that’s good you make me sound boring hey don’t be basic [ __ ] be a Savage yeah yeah yeah man um all right so I got a I got a HL date for those who don’t know that are listening we do a segment called honor or dishonor it’s
Kind of like a fair or file type of deal but this one kind of relates to what we’re gonna talk about today so my youngest son I feel like every time I say something it’s about Adonis because he just beat going crazy be yeah he be on one so
Adonis right he’s one years old one and a half whatever you want to call it and um you know he at first he started off first of all he’s a chunky baby he’s chunky minded I should say he started off eating everything under the sun right but now
He’s on this thing where he only eats protein sources which is weird for Oney old he only eats if he only eats eggs uh any type of meat like sausage or bacon or uh turkey uh ground turkey whatever right chicken but he won’t eat no
Cards um like he won’t eat carbs he very seldomly eat veggies um unless it’s mixed into the protein Source like if it’s like a scramble or something but he only want wants to eat the protein sources however comma here’s the issue he wants only the protein sources but you have to put the
Other stuff on the plate too because everybody else has it so he feels like he’s left out I guess and I’m just like bro we not gonna cook extra food knowing you not gonna eat it anyway is that is that is that honorable or is that just like you know what I’m
Saying I mean it can be you know I he wants to be a part like everybody else but like I get what you’re saying though you know it ain’t for my pocket we just wasting food okay now this is what I’m G say about that if you
Want to be like everybody you got to be like everybody a whole a whole 100 exactly if I put it on your plate you better eat it ex you leave until it’s gone exactly that part he will literally just like play in the like we’ll put
Like you know uh for instance if we make biscuits and graveyard or something like that he’ll eat the sausage out of the biscuit you know out of the gravy just leave the biscuits right there and just playing it I’m like bro you gotta eat the whole thing that’s the best
Part um yeah yeah man and I can see if he was like you know a older kid and you know if he needed to go on a diet I okay you know whatever you skip it out on carbs cool um however it ain’t the case so I’m
Like bro you need to start eating this other stuff and then he proceeds to come to our plate to get our protein sources off exactly what my son’s doing let me ask you this question what’s up what is his energy source like is he hyper is he still good or yeah he’s
Still good no cars bro except at 5:30 in the morning or 5 every morning and be on when I say on one I mean on on one until it’s nap time and then he wakes up and immediately back on one until night time I ain’t gonna lie that’s that’s kind of
Good for him though because he ain’t gonna be fat yeah he’s burning all that yeah I don’t know I don’t know how he doing it but bro is like energy out I’m like all right like okay we gonna wake up we gonna take our time and get
It no he’s like wake up run around the house 10 immediately from that’s weird too because like usually a one-year-old they want to eat just nothing but the carb stuff on the plate they don’t touch the damn that’s what I’m saying he’s backwards man I don’t he’s special man that’s my guy
Though that’s my that’s like my little best friend never heard of that but that’s that is that is special I’ve never heard of that I’ve never heard that yeah so we gonna talk about today man um in in the honor of continuing to talk about food speaking of which I just had
A great meal at this barbecue Korean spot um like barbecue uh chicken or whatever in Lakewood but we gonna talk about what’s your what’s your favorite meal to cook the kiddos um I’m I’m not gonna lie I’m having a little trouble with this one because it’s a lot because it depends on
Which kid you know what I’m saying well what you got Angelo what you got what’s your my my favorite meal to cook for my kids is probably breakfast right every Saturday we make up uh we make up my oldest Alish she’s in charge of Pancakes
My metal child a or Hadley she helps me scramble the eggs you know we kind of it takes like an hour and like 15 minutes to cook breakfast but we’re jamming out to music the whole time and everybody’s kind of doing it part my son’s three but
He doesn’t really have a part except making a mess before and after cooking but but yeah that’s that’s his role he’s he’s he’s kind of like he’s on too though his role is just to exist in the space yeah his exist yeah yeah but like on Thursdays we do steak steak night
Every Thursday you know yeah the girls especially Aya you ask her hey sweetheart you how do you like your steak and she goes rare and super fatty like red like raw red and she loves just like I do you know that she’s my little ride or die that’s interesting that’s
Different too okay yeah usually kids they don’t start getting into steak until like a little later because they you know especially having a rare fatty man you T her that you her that oh 100% I gonna say she’s always she always strives to be like me which is like my
Favorite quality about her right anything I do or whatever she always is like hey I did this because you do it too Dad I’m like all right but you’re kind of a girl so you kind of have to do girl things sometimes you know like she’ll be she’ll be farting walking past
Me she goes that’s for you Dad I’m like what the hell did this happen you know but yeah she she likes it right though she all thees when we go out to a restaurant they’re like are you good like yeah like you ordered it that way
Like you sure you’re not like a 65 year old man but uh yeah yeah no yeah but definitely breakfast is probably my favorite to cook with the kids though so do y do y’all make the same thing every Saturday or every you know you said Saturdays or weekends Saturdays uh
Saturdays Sundays are a little tricky because they go back to their mom’s house so we kind of have to wake up I we go to church and then you know I usually get McDonald’s or something on Sundays and they go back to their mom’s but other than that no I typically can only
Cook dinner maybe Thursday Friday and Saturdays with the kiddos because I work super late sometimes so I’m usually coming back my grandma usually has dinner already made for them so that’s why Saturdays is like my whole day K yeah for sure for sure yeah breakfast is
Always a staple man it’s I don’t know about involving my kids in breakfast because it it’ll get out of control eggs will probably be thrown at each other like it now when I for those who listening don’t be coming at me like my kids a wild child they’re not they just got a
Lot of energy and you know when early in the morning if especially if I don’t get my sip of coffee first like no y’all got to sit down and chill for a a little bit you know what I’m saying yeah what about you Dez what you got oh man um let’s see
Well de about to say something like Su fle or something what Bobby F over here huh the cavat no just no man it’s crazy because let’s go back to like your your son with the with the protein thing he loves that right my son has it to where he will not eat
Anything that’s a vegetable Dam I mean I mean and and I’m telling you like he really gets sick like he gets like like and it’s not faking like he really like because I make him I force him to eat the greens right good he got he got to right he
Gotta do it but man it’s like a real live job eating greens like he be about to about to G everywhere it’s crazy so I had to hit on that so your kid like protein yeah my kid loves protein too but won’t eat nothing else like he he
Sometimes he’ll eat some rice but he is not taking No vegetables you know what I started doing I started putting um I call it h juice right because for my younger kids like you know whatever I call it Hoke juice I’ll get some uh some orange juice or some mango juice or
Something like that and I’ll put the uh the super Greens in it yeah I’m to do that I’m have to do that for real but they be asking for oh they like it now yeah but the most thing he really like for me to do is barbecue because
Um I’m from the south I’m Creo so I barbecue a certain way but then my wife is is a is a Pacific um Islander okay so like they barbecue a whole different way so I’ve mastered um the way I barbecue that’s more mystique and more more rub
And I also mastered their way of barbecue in which is more marinating and a lot of sweet sauce and stuff like that with some um what you call with soy sauce right and vinegar you marinate season and everything anyway so my little boy loves my barbecue like that’s
The one thing that he loves and he asked for that all the time I mean it could be snowing us out when I was in Washington it’ be snowing I’d be out there barbecuing you know what I’m saying that’s a dad staple right there so he he loves me to do barbecue
So I’m always happy to that it almost brings me joy when he asked me to do the barbecue like Dad your barbecue is the best can you make me some barbecue you know so that would be uh the one thing that he loves me to cook and I love to
Cook anything for him because I also want to show him that hey men cook men clean men do everything the woman can do Polo hold on you gotta say that again for the people on the back I said man can cook clean man can do everything a woman do
Don’t get it twisted you right don’t depend on a woman for all that you need to know how to do it yourself exactly absolutely absolutely yeah should be on t-shirt hey absolutely you know what I’m saying right it’s crazy how many people that could be that could be one of your
New brands right there I might man you giving me you ging me some good knowledge right now I’ll take I’ll take three% you know I feel like I do a mix too like I said when I cook for the kids man it’s it’s more on feeling like you
Know whatever but I think their favorite thing for me to cook is probably any type of pasta um because I cook a lot of different variations I’ll take one thing and change it to another thing and I like to I like to mix and match a little
Bit but my kids get a little bit of everything you know what I’m saying even when I when I make uh like I’ll make lomia um but sometimes Swit it up huh you know how to make Lupia oh that’s easy bro I I can make you some yeah Lupia too I’m Filipino bro
Okay okay that’s my favorite [ __ ] I’ll do that sometimes but I put a Twist on it sometimes I’ll I get creative you know I’m a Creator anyway so I get I get creative I remember uh I was just telling Katie about it like uh maybe a year
Ago um I was making some loopy and I was like I gotta I got a taste for it Philly cheese steak I was let me go ahead put some I was like let me go ahead put some uh some Philly cheese steak in the freaking Olympia or whatever so I made
And then so I’ll do different things like that good too with chees in the steak roll it up fry that with some little sauce oh man got me hungry yeah you do it and then you you put put like a little fry sauce on the side
You know what I’m saying and dip it in there put the onions in there put the green pepper oh it’s fire it’s fire but yeah I think their favorite thing for me to make is pasta my favorite thing for to make for them would have to
Be I think I’mma go I think I’m g go with Angela on this one and say breakfast um but I think besides the fact that you know Adonis is so complicated when when it comes to that I think the reason breakfast is like my staple for them is
Because for one it gives us time to get together at the beginning of the day and just enjoy you know each other’s time before they get too crazy and then also um it just it’s one of those things where you get to play with different flavors but it’s still I don’t want to
Say basic cuz he got the never basic shirt on yeah we’ll do that yeah we do that around here but what I’m saying is like it’s still one of those uh especially when you’re from them South like it’s still one of those staple things you know what I’m saying so um
And then sometimes we’ll do breakfast for dinner the best best you know what I’m saying fat pancakes yeah facts Junior will always ask me for can you make some waffles because he know I’m G put a Twist on it sometimes I’ll make I do like a Snickers waffle where I’ll put uh
I’ll put the you know the waffle mix and then I’ll do the uh some chocolate chips some crumel chips some vanilla you know um and I’ll do a little something like that and then if we do it for dinner or we do it for dessert even I’ll put a scoop of ice
Cream on top you know what I’m saying make you be going in huh sing what you be going in you single no I’m taking I’m taking you know funny hey have you ever um poured a poured the pancake batter like in the in the pan and put a strip of
Bacon in it so you have bacon inside your pancakes I haven’t tried that it’s pretty good how does so but you have the Bacon’s got to be cooked right you put a little a thin layer of pancake down put some bacon strips in it and then and then you just
Kind of put another layer on top once it’s cooked then you flip it back and forth pretty good does it does it break up the consistency of the panc cake M okay no that’s pretty solid see you got me brainstorming now I’m trying to I’m
About to try some stuff you can do that with sausage like those little pancake the Jimmy Dean pancake ones same thing in your house that’s pretty good yeah you know what’s crazy I’mma say this right y’all gonna think I’m crazy bit but uh y’all probably already think that but so I
Swear I created you know the little what they call it the uh the Uncrustables yeah I swear I created those a long time ago think you created Uncrustables the little Frozen uh peanut butter and jelly sandwiches yeah with no edges oh yeah yeah so I remember I think
I was six or seven I think I was like six and you know when kids are young we don’t like to crush like that on the bread tear it up so I had this bright idea I went in the kitchen I got a little my little uh My Little Steps
Stool whatever made a peanut but and jelly sandwich it was mostly jelly obviously but I put a little bit of peanut butter in it so I took a cup and you know sred it off or whatever and then peeled the edges off and then I
Used a fork to like outline it to close it up crimp crimp the edges I was like nobody has ever done this before I swear you think you created uncrustable and then a couple years later I see it in the store and I’m was like somebody stole my idea
No man you know what I’m sometimes it be it be happening that way because I’m me tell you a story man for Thanksgiving I can’t stand dry turkeys fact can’t stand them I gotta have me a fried turkey or I gotta do it the way I do it how I do it
Right this might be TMI but anyway I used to well not GNA go do all that but anyway I had needles and stuff you know okay for sure yeah big needles I had big needles back in the days for things you know so what I did right I uh I went I
Said man I’m gonna give me some butter I put some Tony sasher in there you know what I’m saying put me some garlic salt and I mixed it up I got it really hot put it in there drew that mug on a syringe and I put it in the turkey all
Over the turkey man when I cooked it man it was so good bro the next year God the next year I went into Safeway right there off of U uh right there on uh East Martin and Marvin they had Tony saer had did the same exact thing that I had done oh wow
You’re lying I said I did that that’s M give me some money for that come on oh my my wife was like my wife was like oh my God Desmond like she said you messed up I just came up with that on the fly like I
Don’t like dry turkey I’m a inject the season they did it the next time man it was crazy for those who don’t know for those who aren’t like watching this on YouTube or anything and just listening in your car or freaking on a treadmill or whatever Desmond is like a 60 year old
Black dude that looks he look like he 20 he said so man he I’m exaggerating obviously he’s not 60 but he’s like not twice my age but he he in his 40s right you’re your I’m 46 I’m 46 46 I’m 46 the Bro the Bro Look looking good bro that’s
What I’m saying Bro Look 18 so when I say he might have invented some stuff prob he might have been the one he don’t look it I promise you he don’t look it oh man one but yeah man I I was like yo I invented these and then I
Wanted some reparations I’m like hey I’m send a letter to I’mma send a letter you both should hey so your son really doesn’t like veggies though Dez right like period no he don’t like veggies at all he he gets like like he’s gagging hard huh I mean he I’m for real gagging not
The kind that we used to do just to let them you know n he really be he really be I mean his whole eyes get watered he just be like my son my son was the same way with bread he would see it he would no it was
The weirdest thing right he would see it what and he would look at bread and start gagging oh it was the weirdest thing and then like you would throw a piece of bread next to him like a cat uhhuh and then he would start gagging again
And he still he still can’t eat it I don’t know why why is there a thumbs up next to my head I was like did did is that a good point did did someone put a good point out and you it came up automatically or that’s never had no does somebody else
Not like bread what the thumbs up what did you do yeah no I don’t know it just popped up next to my ears that’s weird that’s super weird that was crazy that threw me off all right but yeah so my question is first of all the fact that you just
Say you th bre him like a cat I would all the time so my question for you is how often do you mess with him on that every single time I open the pantry and there’s bread every single time I got videos of videos of videos of
Me messing with him with him and Brett it’s it’s crazy I don’t know why he would you would be carrying it he’ just go like where are you hey so for those of for those of y’all who follow us on Instagram at the fatherhood exclusive we about to be posting some videos
Of of his son man um Dez what do you do man with if he don’t like vegetables like what do you do in that case man honestly I I’m still trying to figure it out bro yeah I mean he like eight so I’m like okay I still got a
Little bit of time to figure this out but um we just force feed him at this point we just give have you like uh have you uh Incorporated like like say superheroes eat their veggies and stuff like that like you know yeah yeah he likes working I mean he he don’t he he
Can’t really like work out yet because he’s too young but he still me and I’m like hey I got to eat my vegetables I don’t really like them either but I eat them because I you know it’s you just got to have them right so he’s like well
How do you eat them I was like well I season mine a lot like I put a lot of seasoning on it to make it taste really good you know yeah man he was like all right let’s let let me let me try that nothing gag City I think I think
It’s a mental thing when he seees something great he just like so what so my next be I’mma do what Jay said I’m gonna go and get the best tasting drinks yes and I’m start giving it to like that that’s only thing but see here’s the thing though Angelo here’s the thing the
Juices be green too though ugly it’s ugly it’s not pretty it tastes a little sweeter it’s pretty good but it’s not I bought the V8 when you know you know the V8 one the green with all the veggies in it and it’s sweet it tastes good but it
Just don’t look it doesn’t look Pleasant so he just can’t get back the look of it he can’t get past the look I might have to blindfold him I used to be like that wait maybe maybe give him like a super green drinking like a Tumblr or
Something where he can’t see the color of the drink oh I ain’t tried that one yet I have not tried that now that you say it I will say this when I give them well initially when I gave them the quote unquote Hulk juice right they have spe they have cups that
They carry everywhere you know so they can stay hydrated but they’re all like you can’t see what’s inside of it you can only taste it so I will say that like they can’t see what’s inside of it so maybe if they saw it they might be
Like yeah that’s a good that’s a good he but when you do it you got to try in front of him and hype it up like it’s the best drink you’ve ever had kids are kids are uh I don’t know man we could you could try it and see
What’s work like the whole superheroes eat their veggies I don’t know if that would work this day and age really because kids too smart for it they be like I have seen all types of Marvel in DC and I never seen any of these superheroes eat veggies so you’re lying
That be true they’d be like Pro prove me DB show me yeah you know what it’s too much it’s too much uh it’s too much out right now where they can they can check you it’s exposure yeah so but back in the day back in the day we had popey you
Know popey the S he was eating spinach and getting that muscle we was like oh I ain’t going I ain’t going to lie Papa had me eating a lot of spinach as a little that’s all I wanted to do I swear to God yeah and you try you try to crush
The can too and catch it hey it was it was just like rock Rocky had me eating eggs raw eggs I thought I was be harder I thought I could fight better if I ate the eggs or if I knew I had to fight somebody at
School that day when I wake up early in the morning I’m eating EG yeah we was G I’m from the hood like we we knew the next day you fighting JoJo you fighting JoJo the next day when you go past the track it’s on so I would wake up early
And give me eggs and I I copy Rocky I even go run through the neighborhood you you play ey of the Tiger in your headphones I swear the real the little tape deck thing we had back in the day oh yeah you got the cassette player in your pocket the headphones on you
Gotta you got to tuck the headphones through your T-shirt so it through the little you know saying I swear God that was me that’s too funny but yeah man day this has been another episode of the fatherhood exclusive y’all man we just we just talking about you know the
Different types of things we like to cook our kids man hey if you’re a father out there like Dad said men cook men clean men do whatever is necessary to take care of the household all right hey you know what one more thing before we sign up go
Ahead women love that women respect you so much when you oh my God you’re help you’re not just somebody got to take care of that’s porn to them it is it is it is you because you got to think about it this way too before we log out this this is how you
Gotta show your appreciation for what they do not just be a taker you know what I’m saying right don’t be one of those because you know we talked about you know how so many people are trying to downplay being masculine we talked about that last week it becomes toxic or you become a
Toxic person when you just take take take take take exactly and don’t give and return yeah now I will say that’s not toxic masculinity because that’s not a thing that’s not a thing just just to recoup that it’s not a thing it’s just a toxic person just just happen to be
Masculine just to say that we said it last we say it again this week however don’t be a taker y’all don’t for y’all fathers out there don’t be a taker be a giver because guess what you got to do same thing for your kids you got to show
Them and set an example right so anyways thank y’all for tuning in um we’ll see y’all again next week we love y’all we appreciate y’all and uh we out of here peace peace
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