An abrupt stop because people said we stop it too abruptly so I gave an abrupt stop hey P are you coming on camera today of course yay where where is you on camera I’m getting situated I have to steep my tea what kind of tea uh dandelion Peach that sounds
Good def sound good what does dandelion taste like it has a bitter taste did you know that every part of the dandelion is edible every part he thought we wer gonna have an answer he thought good for you too so can you use Dand the lion in a
Sentence uh I saw a zebra then the lion at it wait do that sentence again uh I saw a zebra Den the lion aen oh like then the lion see look I got it um You know the dandelion dandelions are like a natural diuretic though so can you use it in a sentence to then K dandelion dandelions are my favorite flower they are fun fact you want a sentence a Jamaican sentence this was a leadup to a joke
I mean Petty did a joke too so it it’s played out now the beer is stronger than the lion oh my goodness I like that I like that I didn’t plan that y’all said dandel liion and I remembered howy I like your hair thank you it um it looked so much better the
First day I forgot to sleep without a um without my silk thingy a bonnet or a doag or like why are you dressed up today Petty um as we discussed previously I didn’t have a holiday celebration as my entire family died in the house fire so today we had the funeral earlier oh
Unfortunate yes um guess what I did today what did you do I started my laser hair removal treatment on my face so this is all a mess right now how many is it gonna take uh after the third session we’ll find out oh did it hurt a lot and I didn’t
Get a numbing cream or anything I just kind of went with it I was like I’m here and I’m good what period why didn’t you get num cream or something cuz I got I got male power as a man you have to stick through how much are they paying you for
Promo nothing has mud water called yet how do you know I’m drinking mud water it’s brown hot cocoa is that mud water it is mud water um there’s a nighttime mud water and a morning time mud water so like I can’t drink coffee at night oh yeah no yeah
I’m too strong for mud have you did you watch the Cat Williams thing everyone is talking about it I won’t but did you watch it I watched it a we do look good we do look good we all kind of have some I’m the oh my goodness okay look so themus you have
Your hair like in a bun and so do I and Petty has twists in his hair and so do I so I’m like the one diagram I also have twists it’s almost diagram oh well we can both be the middle diagram I you look cute you do look cute
And this is the first time I can say oh I believe we all look good and not have to make an exception you g do K like that I didn’t say anything I’m not saying anything I like the bow wait PTY why did you say k has K has a hairstyle that
Connects us both I think it’s poetic uh themus is the Young Generation and I’m the old soul and Kay is like the middle child who connects us and who we speak through to each other through as a medium exactly girl they said we were fighting and I needed to call you and I
Needed to fix it with you and I needed to drag K oh let’s get into him so handsome grand Rising my goodlooking panel of chocolate CH period thank you ped you look you look great today but let’s get into it let’s get into the mess people talking about how I needed to
Um if I am not going to speak to K the way that I speak to you then I am out of pocket and I’m inconsistent because I treat men bad and they’re just like putting on this cape I think for men and a black man in particular how do you feel about
That it’s never a bad idea to put your cape on for a black man I think more people should put their Capon for black men um black men need a savior have you seen Jonathan Major’s interview somebody needs to save him and uh Megan ketta Scott whoever came in and did what she
Needed to do sat on the couch feminine fit friendly um and all that good stuff as Jonathan major sat up there and said oh those injuries I have no idea how they happened like we didn’t see his text messages months prior where he describes the injuries and tell her not
To go to the hospital um but nobody saw that apparently based on the comments they just saw a black man who needed saving so maybe they they said they saw a black man running but in the same video we saw a black man lifting a white woman up and
Shoving her in the car but for some reason the part where he’s shoving her in the car just like is it does escape everyone everyone is like he was running from her she was the aggressor no one saw the clip of him literally hoisting her up and like
Shoving her yeah am I um I might have I might have watched a different trial is Jonathan major on trial for running or like why what are saying it must be for running do people think do people think like I I just hit somebody and ran away
And they chase me does this mean I didn’t hit them I don’t understand what people’s argument are is when they say that he’s running so he couldn’t have did anything what if I run out of your house with your stereo and you chased me did I actually steal it because why are
You running after me I’ve never heard of anyone running after somebody who has done something to them that’s just just what I heard I I’ve seen some ridiculous arguments it’s like infuriating but Cat Williams came to save us with his interview and he just uh did a second one I think today that
I’m gonna watch let before we get I will actually I’m I’m not going to talk in depth I have nothing line up for the Cat Williams interview but I want to ask you all about that but before we go it it’s not lost on me that you just Sid the
Responsibility how do you feel that people are telling me that I need to drag K the way that I drag you like how does that make you feel as a black men that makes me feel like they should come up and put their money where their mouth is and uh voice their concerns
Publicly you want me to get dragged tonight is what you’re saying absolutely every night not just tonight but I just have to be here so it’s a convenient time you want get draged too Theus drag me on the next topic whatever it is just make you know no I’m just really sad and
I I’m not I’m it’s all fun but I was actually kind of sad like people go and drag me in the comments I don’t care but when they were telling me that and I saw you responded to a comment I was about to tell you please don’t respond to
These people not to yeah CU like feels like that everyone was like mad at you for some reason when you were the one trying to keep the peace you the one being kind you ironic like wait a minute you know isn’t this ironic the whole situation yeah like I don’t know how you
Started getting dragged like I am I am perplex like I look I’m I don’t care I am not about to lose a night of sleep over people talking about me but when they were talking about you I got kind of mad I mean I didn’t even do anything yeah I
I I you know if I did something in that on that show okay but like what did I do and my my thing the issue that I had with some of the comments some were very nice um and you know some were just neutral and some were like if you’re
Gonna do it to Petty do it to K and it’s like if you don’t like the behavior why do you want it done to me like that’s the type of thing that makes me confused like if you don’t like something like you shouldn’t do that to
Petty make sure you do it to K next time like that makes no sense yeah Strays unfortunately you caught Strays in the volley of bullets um but so I got two messages and this is how deep this goes when you get a message um about something you know it’s real serious someone was
Like Petty is your little brother why would you treat him like that and now we have to defend our little brother and so first of all let me just let me go ahead and disabuse this channel Petty is not our little brother Petty is not
My little brother I do not own the I I claim no familial relationship with this man do not project onto him any kind of family anything y all try it if if Petty being my little brother is gonna have y’all drag me on his behalf it’s not
It’s a it’s a flop like we’re not doing that we’re I’m over it absolutely not whatever I said before trash trash trash treat Petty like a regular black man that you don’t know thank you you’re welcome right Petty I think and I didn’t want to say this you and
K let me employ the Jonathan Major’s defense um I was innocently sitting there innocent when a volley of attacks rushed out towards me from my co-host and as I sat innocently and quietly and said nothing but allow the um the attacks to hit me in my body uh metaphorically
Um that’s just that’s all that happened that’s what I remember that’s exactly what I that’s exactly how it happened I do think you both chose to distance yourselves from me after I started posting more memes on my channel I think that y’all don’t appreciate my memes oh my God I do I do
Have to I do have to I actually was about to message you and ask if everything was okay are you okay penny is there something that we need to like step in to what’s what’s wrong with my memes it just it feels like you’re frantically doing things like what like posting random
Memes I’m not allowed to have humor not if it’s bad oh well these um these views seem to disagree so let me look at your views period you better Flex let me go on your YouTube channel what’s your YouTube channel again oh that’s also something someone said that
I was jealous of you and that I do not post your channel and that’s because I don’t want you to out compete me I remember that specific message I was like girl um yeah I didn’t want to say it but I come over here sometimes to
Help you out I know that it’s difficult growing a channel and I know that you like sort of behind the scenes not really said out loud you kind of look to me for inspiration as far as like how to gain a following and how to just make good content live streams videos and
Shorts and such like that so you know it it’s it’s out the bag now um but there’s nothing wrong with that I en more people to look to my channel for inspiration on how to run theirs I need inspiration from you petty because you know my channel doesn’t have anything on it so
Yeah K has more subscribers than me and she don’t post I don’t like that no I don’t I’m not playing any of these because I don’t know what you’re doing any any of them you are right these are doing very well I did scroll down a
Little I hope so look 6 it’s not in vain congrats on your new growth is it like the YouTube algorithm bug where you feel like because it’s hitting now I have to keep posting to keep track how does that feel no I’ll post every day or every uh 13 days depending on my
Mood there is no schedule well I appreciate the cander um I will accept that as an apology 2K on your behalf because a no reason I don’t for the people in the chat I I actually do actually for the people who had something to say about
K I mean this with a sincerity please get help cuz that don’t make no sense K you are correct if you think what I did to Petty was bad why would you tell me to do it to K like I can understand you say don’t do it to to Petty I don’t
Understand why you would say what you did to Petty was so bad it’s so disgusting it’s so vile why don’t you do it to K you should do it to K to balance the scale like when oh myness you need help like you actually need help like I
Don’t feel bad you need help that you you do you can and then you people you these people are like calling people black male worshippers and all of this and all of that but you going to sit up here and tell someone to treat K poorly
Because you think that they are treat I am treating Petty poorly that don’t make no sense because you know you know it’s just ironic let me not even say but it is ironic um and I say stuff that’s you know can deserve some dragging sometimes but during that
Particular show I literally didn’t do anything nothing in fact when I felt the tension Rising I really tried to like yeah I I put forth effort to be diplomatic and understanding and then the comments it was like next time Kay does it like what okay
Why girl I was so confused hey s they are black male worshiper look I don’t feel bad y’all dragged me so I don’t feel bad about y’all getting dragged hey sin welcome let’s do some welcomes I completely forgot everyone give sin the warmest welcome I’m so mad
I missed your live stream the other day um I came on are you live stream so paty missed my live stream on Friday and he came in here and he dropped one comment and then disappeared and I know when he does that that he’s not actually watching he just comes in
To say oh I’m here and then disappears so he can go off and don’t have to like engage with the content so we know you didn’t watch it either no I don’t feel bad about missing his live I actually watch it a lot of the time in
Fact Petty told me that he didn’t want me over his channel why Petty yeah I tell us why you didn’t want me over you said stop promoting your channel and don’t come back to your channel tell the people why um I think that uh when smaller channels
Come over they try to take the spotlight so where did he go they try to take the spotlight so to speak um and I want the spotlight to be on me so I don’t like when my comments are just not there one or two comments on the content and then
Sudden suddenly people are dropping scales people are dropping top hats people are dropping teamus and toe memes um welcome Themis wow hi Themis good to see you here Themis unusual unusual behavior indeed for the guest to be getting welcomes and not me so that’s just something we can’t do we
Unfortunately will have to do away with that in 2024 dropping scales and Top Hat it’s nothing personal of course just business uh all right well good to know sin I hope you feel better I am so sorry so so sorry thank you for coming um since patreon please drop the link
Moderators um because we know we we over here support sin and I will be um laughing his face um and we will be over there you said you’re sick so I don’t know if you’re going to go live tomorrow I believe it was but keep us posted all right
So there’s this lady I want I did a stream a video the other a long long time ago how do you feel about stay at home girlfriends comp Day what so there’s a trend called stay-at-home girlfriends if that’s what they want to do that’s cool so one of the people who promoted it came out and wanted to get yall’s take on this let’s hurry up oh my God we have a really long interview to
Watch I don’t know why I’m like not thank you Sally it’s not the life you want and when I say stay atome wife mom girlfriend whatever I mean you are relying solely on your partner’s income but I saw a quote a long long time ago
And I wish I listened to it if you give a man the power to feed you he also has the power to starve you when I tell you there was no amount of gifts trips nothing truly made me happy and honestly I convinced all of you that I was living
The life I feel like that’s what a lot of women do they try to convince themselves and everybody else that they’re enjoying their life of not having anything for themselves I was showing you guys this nice apartment my daily Target runs you know I was going
Crazy every single day and there is a lawyer on Tik Tok but she said the divorce rate with stay-at-home moms and wives is very very high um it’s kind of the the same story every time on why they’re filing for divorce uh you know the man says you don’t have to work just
Stay with me all you got to do is take care of the family to a lot of you guys that would be music to your ears if he is paying for your whole life and you don’t have any income at all there will start to be a resentment I’m just glad I
Was young I didn’t have any kids I was not married I was able to start my life before I wasted more years just staying in the house being in a relationship where you know you’ll have nothing when you leave or if this person ever leaves that’s not going to feel good you know
And also something else I didn’t like about having my life completely funded you kind of have to let them do whatever they want like go about things differently and tolerate a lot of BS because your life is on the line and as delusional as I was I knew that I never
Wanted to be a stay-at-home mom once you add kids into the equation you’re probably never going to leave CU once you pop out that kid that’s when you really really sign a death contract like you can’t go back now because if you leave not only do you have to fend for
Yourself you have to fend for an innocent life too so you’re definitely not leaving if you have no income uhuh I ain’t doing a wrestling getting back into the workforce is not easy go ahead and do your research and I’m pretty sure you’re thinking oh I could just get
Alimony that’s like a unicorn do you know how much money that man makes did you make him sign a prup because you will get comfortable staying at home not doing [ __ ] and then before you know it 10 years passes by you got kids your husband’s cheating on you with a younger
Woman are you going to stay or are you going to take kids get a divorce get a job staying home and taking care of the kids and the house I think that’s outdated we’re in a different time now I I do believe a man should provide but I do believe that you
Should have your own income too I’m just going to be real I think all men cheat especially if they have money they have access to hundreds of women that look better than you that might be controversial but it’s the truth so so I don’t think that putting your whole life
Into a man’s hands is a good idea right now but I’m just being real and I’m just trying to look out for the young women who are planning their whole lives around being a stay-at-home life and I hope that there are some stay-at-home wives moms girlfriends watching this I
Hope you guys can put your pride aside and back me up in the comments and and tell them I’m right anyways I hope you guys listen to me you body who has been a St all right am I using the right mic let me check my microphone I think
So there’s a couple of things here that I don’t like first of all I don’t think it is right to lump stay-at-home wife and stay-at home girlfriend in the same boat absolutely not I think that is a dangerous thing to do first of all there is zero legal protection for a
Stay-at-home girlfriend unless we’re talking about like landlord tenant rules right and so at least with a marriage and I’m not either promoting or not promoting marriage I think prenups should be included that include protecting the women and the men or whoever is a part of this marriage so
That’s the first thing the second issue is this lady was a promoter and actually it’s not an issue actually I like this I like when content creators who are selling a lifestyle whenever they figure out that it’s bad come back out and own up to the foolishness that they
Were selling so I actually really like that before I continue I’ll just open it up so that it’s not just me blabbering I don’t like how she insinuated that being a stay-at-home girlfriend is just sitting around all day I’ve heard from some that it’s even
The hardest job in the world one of the hardest jobs in the world so I just want to cut that out okay wait wait you said being a stay-at home girlfriend is one of the highest J in the world BEC You are an accountant you are a manager you are a sales
Associate you are a cashier you are a tax preparer you are a um cashier made what you are a cook you are so many things but she just wants to pretend like it’s just sitting around all day you think that’s why she failed as a stay-at-home girlfriend she must have failed because
Of the prenup didn’t work I don’t know what happened to make her switch up her content like that I see women who their whole life turn bad um there are there are some um Christian women I know in a church group that I used to be in still
In a orgasm marriage years later still promoting that lifestyle all her girlfriends in the group chat just talking about they they good and exciting times and she just missionary every time just looking at each other each time just don’t switch it up at all nothing Sanctified just good old vanilla
Nothing exciting about it at all doesn’t benefit anybody benefits the man just in there still promoting it still talking to these other girls in the group chat like y’all going to see the eror of Y alwayss one day and come to God so it’s very shocking to me to
See this woman who I guess the stay-at-home girlfriend life didn’t pan out now um reverse on her her ways because I see people who it doesn’t work out and they just still still just continue it for years and try to get other people to do it too just try to
Get misery loves company maybe that’s it okay um in terms of the stay-at-home girlfriend thing like I said in the beginning if that’s what you want to do more power to you um I think that you know like she was saying I think she was kind of like grouping stay-at-home girlfriends with
Stay-at-home wives and moms and other people but like said if you’re a stay- home girlfriend like there’s not necessarily going to be any legal protection if things do go south um but I did recently see a Tik Tok of a woman that was in a marriage she was um
See am I not supposed to be answering this seriously this is what I don’t know somebody um why did you put that comment I’m confused somebody asked in the comments how would I know if she didn’t tell me that um you don’t know by asking somebody you know by if you have a
Conversation about how good something is and one person in the group looks confused you can tell that person is having a different experience and I know this because I just recently watched The Color Purple the old one by accident because my friend got me some CDs from somewhere inappropriate but it so it
Didn’t have the color purple we thought it was going to have on it it had so I watch the first color purple and in the beginning to boot like The Color Purple you boot like the wrong color purple we got gu it’s I I didn’t do anything first of all this is my
Friend but um look you win some you lose some it’s $5 so who who who’s really losing you have a CD player you you’re going on a story and I have so many questions about CD what are you talking about CD it was a DVD you think I put it
On in the car and listen to The Color Purple what do you think is going on in my household you you think you’re flexing talking about you have a DVD you have a DVD player actually Xbox but it plays DVDs as well all right go ahead but um
Yeah in The Color Purple uh the main character is obviously assaulted by the man that she’s with and in the middle of the movie uh some lady I forgot her name sweet PE or something the singer like is describing how amazing her sex life is with the same man who um the main
Character is having a terrible time with and you could just like you can hear it when someone is having a good time and y’all are supposedly doing the same thing but you’re like how can you be having this amazing of a time that doesn’t make sense to me that’s how I
Know uh to to relate it back that’s how I know because people are just like what are you talking about fun isn’t it like something you do to make kids and why else would you do it why why else would you do it to make kids right like in the
Bible y’all aren’t fornicating are you to make kids right why else are y’all trying for children no well how come huh fun what do you mean sometimes I’m like perplexed as to how your brain works like I’m just trying to figure out like what goes on year old okay my therapist wow we’re
Getting doing therapy speak today got [Laughter] it do you think all men cheat oh no h it depends Define cheating so yes that question are you gonna say Define [Laughter] Cheating some men can’t keep their eyes TOS I think that’s cheating about the um stay-at home girlfriend was that we weren’t wait were we seriously talking about that or no yeah that’s a real thing some people are just staying at home no no I’m asking because when
Themus put that comment up I thought no the chat wants you to be dragged so I’m just like putting the com okay um okay yeah that was a nice drag I mean that was an okay drag um what was I to say about that oh so the lady in the
Video talking about the St home girlfriend um I saw somebody on Tik Tok a woman I guess she had been married a long time she had kids and everything and then she ended up getting like she was in the process of getting divorced and she was talking about how hard it
Was because there was like a 10e gap in her resume and trying to get back in the job market so yeah I don’t know I can’t imagine like what it’s like to try to get a job when you haven’t had one in 10 years especially since I know people who like aren’t in
That situation and still have trouble looking for jobs wait okay I don’t know what is happening well good friend of the channel bourbon bgie said she is does the stay-at-home thing but she kept all certifications current had her little side hustles and thing and make sure she
Keep her skills um in case God forbid anything is to happen and that’s what all my friends say they’re still going to do like remote work or something if they’re being a stay-at home uh wife or I guess girlfriend these days is is a thing um so that’s what I would
Recommend if you choose to embark on that and I agree with both you and K married first who will have kids first who has who will get married first who will have kids first who has who will get married first and Patty why you push playing this don’t put those demons on
Me it wasn’t me all right are yall ready for the actual video nothing we were doing just now has nothing to do yeah I’ll just give a short congratulations to um Halo Holly and ddg ofc coming rapper um I do know that they were he specifically was
Speaking about um oh I guess themus is borging uh ddg specifically was speaking about being insecure and possibly jealous in their relationship as well as possibly some cheating rumors but I know that having a child together tends to fix issues like that so you know I’m happy for
Them good good congratulations to her and her baby um good for them good for them oh before we start maybe y’all can help me with this I’ve been searching to find something I randomly started looking for it today and I found the opposite so this is a problem you
Know how Dr Umar has been saying and like he has this whole kind of platform on the overdiagnosing of um young black boys with ADHD like he’s known for that right where’s he getting this from cuz every research I don’t know why by the way I wasn’t like I’m not looking
To debunk anything I actually would like to know because every research that I’ve been finding says the opposite in fact um the sorry one second the National Library of Medicine like PubMed right if you go there and I’m trying to find like different research I just started today
So this is by no way no means me like trying to discredit Dr Umar but I don’t know where he’s getting this one because it says minority children were less likely than white children um to receive ADHD diagnosis and when they break it down by race African-Americans Hispanic and
Other um minorities were like 69% I believe the the number was less likely um to I think it was less likely to be diagnosed than their wide counterparts and I’ve taken Dr umar’s word as true for a very long time and I’ve never ever looked it up until
Today are you um are you trying to insinuate that Dr Umar because maybe he duns the name doctor uh has an audience of people who would trust his word and treat what he’s saying with Merit but upon actually researching what he’s saying it looks stupid is that what you’re trying to
Insinuate no well there’s a lot of implication there but like I don’t know um but I’m I’m calling to the chat and I’m calling to you all to like look this up and then help me figure it out I’m very good at research and maybe I just didn’t take
Spend the time to like look into it well enough but like I don’t know where he’s getting this from in fact like the work seems to suggest that there is an overlooking of black kids who should be diagnosed and thankfully it is leaning towards people taking more seriously
Diagnosing young black kids um who do have ADHD did he specifically say ADHD or did he say like overidentification in terms of like um receiving specialized services or IEPs or something like that I’m he said ADHD multiple times mult like I sorry I’m just realizing maybe he went
To the same school Dr Jackie did where uh black people just are being overdiagnosed with so much stuff I don’t know maybe wa they went to maybe they both went to uh Frederick Douglas Marcus Garvey Academy maybe that’s where the research is did you look there did you
Look at Frederick Douglas Marcus Garvey Academy I hear I hear some pretty compelling research come out of Frederick Douglas Marcus Garvey Academy you got to check there first brother that’s what you got to do looking up these white people’s research no you need to go to FD MGA good old Dr
Umar uh uh started a Academy where you can probably find that research I won’t let you sit up here and discredit this man you think they would let a man build a college with no credentials no no no by the way I am not saying he’s wrong
I’m saying with like a 30 minute research I was looking and so I’m asking for other people to look please do not take this in the chat this is very very important I am asking you all to find a bunch of resarch and send it to me um did he mean overidentifying
Like saying disproportionately identified or did he mean like over identified like some people that don’t have it are getting diagnosed with it okay so there’s a problem that’s why I also want the research that’s a good point yeah not only do I want to know if black people are more likely to be
Diagnosed with ADHD black children I also want to know if it’s wrongfully diagnosed and I don’t know how you track that because if there’s a overdiagnosed nosis for black kids it seemed to suggest over seem to suggest that it’s incorrect that’s what I’m wondering in terms of what he said because I’m
Wondering if he was saying it like people that don’t have it are getting diagnosed with it but then that still you know you would still ask you how do you know um or was he saying that like per capita I don’t know yeah I need to I
I would like to know this I’m only putting this out because the first couple of research that I saw indicated the opposite but may I’ve only read the abstracts so maybe I can look into the method methodology and all of that later but I just want us to put our Collective
Minds together and figure out where he got that from because I want to test it to see are people being diagnosed wrongfully ultimately the research question is are black kids being diagnosed wrongfully with ADHD that is the that’s the question I want to answer but before I do that I also want to
Figure out if there is an over representation of black kids when it comes to diagnosis so yeah that’s a good thing thing to yeah no I thank you I think so too cuz I I I I just want to find out now yeah F and ICDC are the same caliber
Arisha Jim flooded period all right let’s get into the actual topic of today I apologize I just I wanted us to put our heads together I’m sure in the Discord someone is going to find the actual research so that we can actually figure out what Dr Umar trying to say
And I’m sure like I don’t I I don’t trust Dr Umar when it comes to the school I don’t trust him in a lot of ways but I don’t think he would just make this up so that’s that people are going to drag me people are going to
Drag me and I apologize it’s not that I think Dr Umar is smart or whatever but I don’t think he would predicate so much of his social justice work on something that is not real I don’t I’m I’m being hon honest I don’t believe he would do
That so I need to figure out where he got it from and he’s never actually sided it when I watch so yeah all right y’all ready yep maybe next week can look into uh Dr [Laughter] subie who else Dr Dre you’re gonna tell me he’s not a real doctor
Too I thought he was a when I was in kindergarten H I did I thought me too really themus I know you still donating no I’m not Dr Umar came online talking about the orishas in his gym and I just was like absolutely ND there’s a link between ADHD and adverse Char yeah
Which is by the way why I’m thinking if there is a diagnosis of ADHD is it an accurate diagnosis and if it is an accurate diagnosis why is he mad about the diagnosis and not like the root cause as officer diagnosis or um how to help the people who were
Diagnosed with it you know what I mean is he talking about like an actual diagnosis from a doctor or people saying that people have it I have questions lot of un yeah I have questions for Dr come on the show he won’t let’s get the does anybody in the chat have any
Connections drar gave his number for anyone who want to donate money so you can just call him up you can literally just call I’m gonna call him he should come on the show can you text me his number themus yeah I’ll find it again he said
It on one of his live stream a bunch of his live stream he said cash at me cash at me use this now he’s gonna get a text from me like hey all right let’s get into it so this young lady we’ve seen her before she’s blowing up on Tik Tok apparently she’s
Blowing up on YouTube too I my Discord wanted us to like talk about this so here we go and I’m supposed to reach out to her moderators if you’re listening can you please um reach out to this young lady and ask her if she would come on the the
The show so we can talk about what she’s doing in her podcast remember to like the remember to like the stream everyone podcasting to focus on your coaching like what’s the deal with that no they go hand in hand uh the podcast is just like the funnel it gives me the
Traffic um but uh I’m focusing more on the men’s group just because I already have the podcast I already like just doing what it do yeah so what’s the deal with this men’s group what are you teaching these men to be narcissist okay yeah sounds about right I thought you
Were teaching him about self-esteem I’m just so um I’m basically helping men um just level up it’s it’s a it needed to stop there it sure needed to stop there and I need to turn this all the way down all right so he’s obviously joking right
He’s going to want to date my peanut butter princess you g want to date with UK Dr Umar I don’t think so wait no no no the fellowship is a Brotherhood um we don’t talk about women at all um I do help guys with confidence we have a
Therapy session every Thursday um it’s just outlet for guys just to just get out whatever they’re going through um but I think it’s a really great program for anybody that’s just looking for like some type of um like fraternity or brotherhood like I have a bunch of guys
In that are rich that that can give guidance I have guys in that don’t have anything that need guidance so if you’re a guy watching this and you need it join the program join the program y’all because a lot of guys do need uh guidance a lot of men need more
Confidence more self-esteem so so I applaud that a lot of people period Petty period you better give the looks you better give looks let me it you better you better you better I wish I had some glasses talk Petty let us know what you’re thinking just kidding little joke I like to do
Sometimes that’s All in any case I don’t understand why people promote other people’s business without knowing what their business is about like she’s telling people to go join his group but like he hasn’t really told us what the group is about wait did say he was playing around or is he
Serious he’s playing around about teaching them to be narcissist he said okay don’t have their fathers in the home especially black men and that’s where you get your confidence from um and that kind of goes hand in hand what I want to talk about today because we
See at firsthand what happens when men don’t have confidence right we see what’s going on with Tiana Taylor and Theon Shumpert divorce first of all I hate to see a black family split up I’m sad about that period I’m all about Black love black marriages and sticking
Together for the kids I mean we see so many black kids not grow up with their fathers we don’t want to keep seeing it over and over again so I feel really bad that their marriage could not work out but for good reason I mean she kind of
SP At first she was trying to make it seem like you know it’s Amo everything’s okay don’t come for Iman but you know she she spilled the tea about a week ago about what was really going on Petty you seem like you have issues paty give Stevie wer tease with those
Glasses thank you to El you seem like you wanted to say something I don’t like together for the kids I don’t like people who stay together for the kids cuz you’re teaching your kids to stay in nigatry for the sake of what yeah I don’t know I don’t know what
She’s talking about right here black love stick together for the kids is not is no for me too Petty you want die no yeah so let’s get into the topic today okay one thing about it there’s always one thing about it one thing about it
Men think that they want the 10 out of 10 woman but really their egos cannot handle having the woman that everyone wants the good example of this that we see is the Tiana tiller and Iman chumper thing because she was saying that she just could not handle him trying to
Compete with her basically like being jealous that she’s a bigger celebrity than he is what do you think about that U well I think their situation uh maybe for the mind like you know he was in the spotlight and now that he’s not in the spotlight nobody’s paying attention to
Him and his girl has all the spotlight maybe kind of gets to him like okay damn like this is ego crushed and um I never been in a situation like that where I’ve been with a woman and she has a spotlight and I don’t want her to shine
But I could I understand where you’re coming from though like you know women for an example like guys Sav women out the strip club and once once you get with them you don’t want to strip no more you’re done you know what I’m saying only because I don’t want men to
Look at you I don’t want people to see you naked let’s let’s keep let’s keep keep you out that environment so I can keep you to myself and I don’t that’s not an ego thing that’s just me wanting my woman to be you know secure in my relationship because outside influences
Can um mess up relationships to be honest like women are are easily persuaded um especially like when the light is on them like I’m I’m not the first guy you might not the first guy that probably try to holl at her I’m not saying this for their situation but for
Situation like that um I think women are easily persuaded and guys know that so I want to keep you out of be like and myself see I don’t that’s wait pause so wouldn’t that mean that he would like it better if she said no I’m not gonna stop because then it would
Prove that she’s not being easily persuaded no but she want they want you to be e easily persuaded by them but not everyone else yeah like it’s not a it’s not a ego thing he says it’s not like a manipulation thing it’s just like I go
To the strip club to find my girlfriend and I tell her to stop doing what she was doing before I met her like it’s not an ego thing it’s just like just you know guys not it’s just a control thing it’s just a little bit of control here a
Little control there just complete control of your entire life but no ego if they don’t want a person that um strips they should not pursue a stripper or let me do you one better pursue a stripper and then prevent her from doing how doing what you met her doing control her whole
Life it doesn’t make sense easily persuaded yeah yeah is so is he is it a test does he really want her to be like no I’m not easily persuaded I’m not going to quit my job uh maybe it’s what bbon Bouie refers to as dulu land where men simultaneously complain about how
Easily manipulated women are but also like it’s so difficult dating these days women’s standards so high it’s so hard to persuade them um these two things coexist somehow in the lululand where I assume they are yep please remember to like the video let’s continue because this is kind of ridiculous and I wish
She had investigated it more but she’s not going to that sounds correct you know I I’m not arguing with that but my thing to kind of what part of that sound correct the part where it’s not an ego or the part where they want to control you and
Take you out of like and keep you to themselves and completely prevent you from living any way that you used to live what part of it anywh who period period of you know be on the opposite side is if you are dating Tiana Taylor right she’s singing she’s dancing she’s you
Know she’s been a celebrity for a long time and that’s how you met her you can’t date her and marry her and then try to change and be like I don’t want you to take this acting job I don’t want you to be on the red car without me
That’s how you met her so men really have to understand that whatever position the woman is in when you meet her you can try to level her up but you can’t try to change what she’s doing if you don’t accept everything that she’s doing in the Moment Like Dancing like
Being a celebrity like being a sex symbol if you can’t handle that in the relationship don’t date that girl a lot of men just can’t handle that and that’s okay but don’t go after girl that’s doing that and then want her to be half of what she was doing or being before
Well as a man like you run a relationship so if I say you quit quit listen I’m not arguing that men run a relationship or that they lead their relationship that’s that’s hunky dory that’s a okay but you should also lead their relationship not with you trying
To um like she was saying she I don’t understand this like I don’t think you should fight him but like man on the relationship all right do y want me just continue you don’t have anything like I feel like there’s nothing to say here no men run the relationship because they can leave
We know that women can’t do this so he’s right probably don’t don’t don’t research it don’t try and do what you did with Dr Umar and try and research if both people can leave the relationship and therefore both have power just trust him um interestingly enough well I’ll
Let it play a little more because I watched a little bit of this and he’s going to say something that I think is very contradictory thought that she had to dim her light to have any type of Peace in the relationship like Iman really wanted her to minimize herself and it’s different
From being like okay like listen I’m gonna lead our relationship and being a man that your Eagles hurt like your girls get more attention than you so now you acting like no I want you to to be a little less than those are two different things he probably knows something that
We don’t know she probably ain’t loyal women ain’t that loyal especially when the light is on them and they got money and then they could be easily influenced so he’s probably like yo listen he’s trying to save his relationship yep okay he was trying to save his relationship when he was
Cheating yep okay yep I need to cheat so I can be the person I need to be shut up shut up and here’s the thing too I don’t understand why so this is a problem for me this thing where we joke and we’re serious at the same
Time in an interview so we don’t know what is a joke and what is serious because like for me I would ask I I would make him serious about that like I would I would have to ask about that so like the fact that she just
Laughed and move on it honestly I don’t know why I’m thinking this is going to be any kind of serious discussion on anything because I don’t know I’m pausing to comment honestly yeah I hate people who can’t be serious to save their life exactly Petty exactly Petty not every moment is a joke
Exactly you we already know that men are very ego- driven if their Eagles get hurt they are very emotional people how you know because we see examples of it all the time a man that has a her ego becomes a very abusive man we see examples of it okay I could agree yeah
And I’m just like where does that come from like why are men just like it’s there like y’all egos really be your whole personality like if you embarrass a man in public you make him feel a little less than [ __ ] you’re getting the worst of him he fighting you yes
Because ego is all we have is ego all y have yes well no I’m not say that not all we have but it’s it’s a major part of us like we need that ego to be stroke we need to know that we that that people
Ego is all we have but when I was trying to control you earlier it wasn’t about ego um you know what’s crazy you know these I don’t know why these videos go viral like every two months like clockwork every 64 to five days it’ll be
A man at a table can’t pay the bill so his wife gives him her credit card and he makes it look like he’s paying while she’s actually paying oh in that just then I decided to marry her and we’ve been together for seven years because sometimes you got to like I I completely
Believe what he’s saying about men all our ego is all we have to the point where they literally want to pretend like they’re doing something instead of actually doing it or acknowledging reality I think that’s why people refer to it as the Lulu land yeah but like ego
Is all you have but you know for sure that it wasn’t because of ego you want to control her so anyway he teaches men how to be narcissist haha just joking he said the teacher believes ego is all a man have but he’s gonna teach man yeah
Y’all play too much y’all actually do play too much look at us in a certain way so if um if you’re disrespecting me of course you know like I had a woman disrespect me in public and I didn’t I didn’t react I just waited till we got alone but um a
Lot of people can’t handle that a lot of people can’t wait uh you heard that right like y’all heard that I had a woman disrespect me publicly I didn’t react I just waited till we got home what did he do when they got home okay perfect that’s the very next
Question that’s the very if that is not your next question um outside of that I believe he’s lying um I read some research from someone named Rd florus uh where she was looking at uh it’s it’s called a little more ghetto a little less cultured or something like that and it was looking
At interracial data daters and what she noticed um this is like adjacent but I believe it relates to this what she noticed about uh white men who were speaking about would you date a white woman who has been with a black man the white men would always answer oh me no I
Don’t see a problem with that but you know these other white men in my community who I’m in community with who live in the same household with me who I’m friends with they would have a problem with it and they might see her as lower class or ghetto or less
Cultured or something like that so I believe that’s a tactic he’s employing now I think tactic men employ generally oh I’m not saying that I do this or think this way you know cuz I was with a girl who disrespected me and I just took
It like a champ but these other men you better watch out for them you know but not me I think yeah I think he was talking about himself too but let’s go back because I maybe I misheard him so let’s hear it again you go to be stroke
We need to know that we people look at us in a certain way so if um if you’re disrespecting me of course you know like I had a woman disrespect me in public and I didn’t I didn’t react I just waited till we got alone but um a lot of
People can’t handle that a lot of people can’t handle a woman calling him a [ __ ] in front of people and take what did he say wait till we got it on or wait till I got home till we got home I thought it said at home but I
Couldn’t hear it that well should I slow it down and do it again or no yeah all right all we have but it’s a it’s a major part of us like we need that ego to be strok we need to know that we that that people look at us in a certain way
So if um if you’re disrespecting me of course you know like I had a woman disrespect me in public and I didn’t I didn’t react I just waited till we got alone but um a alone right alone yeah your very next question NE to be what did you
Do I would give him the benefit of the doubt if I’m interpreting it generously and say it’s one of those I’m going to protect my wife in public andc correct and private which I still have a problem with um but he’s done nothing during this interview to make me give any type
Of generosity to what he’s saying I believe the worst I believe the absolute worst based on his previous statements in this interview joking or not yeah but to be feir if you ask him point blank what did you do when you got alone with
Her I’m not sure he’s going to say I hit her why like he’s not gonna I don’t think he’s dumb enough to do that but I would still ask because maybe he’s dumb enough to do that a lot of people can’t handle a woman calling them a [ __ ] in front of
People and taking that without you know hitting or curse him back at him you really got to be a confident person when it comes into situations like but I waited till we got alone and I let her have it not physically but definitely verbally do you think okay there he said
Not he said not physically but definitely verbally cuz apparently I think she wasn’t G to ask him that’s an odd thing but I also know that verbal abuse is a thing definitely people out here talking about you need to be correct Scott King maybe he then maybe that’s what he’s doing in private
And people think that’s not a problem it is a problem I don’t care that he qualified it with verbal yeah think that men have such low confidence these days because they grow up without their dads I don’t think it’s because of their dad I think it’s that
Could be a part of it it’s just not KN self um how is this a like this is not a conversation it’s like there’s a pre there’s pre-written questions which which are good great have pre-written questions but they’re supposed to start a conversation not just like detract from the conversation already happening
Right like am I crazy oh like the interviewing style you mean yeah because it feels like that part of the discussion wasn’t done yeah I don’t think it kind of abruptly went to the next thing but maybe they awkward I still don’t know because is this real like yeah it’s a
Real interview okay so this is not like him joking or doing anything like that no it’s a real interview okay so yeah it just kind of abruptly went to the next topic but I’m not sure I’ve never seen her so maybe that’s her like maybe she just asks questions like that and moves
On yeah all maybe I mean it could be late late night podcast maybe they’re fighting over the last Brain Cell we don’t know period huh I’m trying to think of time I wasn’t confident back when I was like eight nine 10 11 very young 12 I was still
Trying to figure myself out um and then I started I don’t know paying attention to myself and started working on myself slowly but surely but after like 16 17 I was fully confident yeah but my dad wasn’t in my life yeah he left my mom
Left him at like when I was seven yeah which confused me I could understand how it confuses people because you need someone to look up to so you can you know like um so you know what to uh what to Aspire to be yes and without that
Figure in your life you’re kind of lost and well I guess yeah without father but that’s not the only Factor though I mean I think it starts there and then I think it kind of goes hand inand with like um I think it starts with your father not
Being there I think it um gets worse as you get older and you think that your life is going to be one thing you think you’re you’re going to make all this money and you know the average man doesn’t make a lot of money um and then
When you see social media or you just you know go through life and women require things and you don’t have the things that women require I think that beats on your self-confidence too and then you just become angry women play a big part of it too um this outside factors like seeing other
People shine and you having less than and you thinking that okay well if I don’t have this then people don’t like me people don’t want me women don’t want me so um it’s really about selfish like you have to know yourself you have to know like lot of people don’t know
Themselves when was I not confident when I was like eight nine I’m telling you like if he knows himself does he know the relationship between him he’s talking about himself right now right like why he maybe didn’t feel okay never mind look I’m about to start doing that thing where y’all are all
Going to be like why are you answering seriously no no you’re doing well you’re carrying the show right now cuz like I’m checked out like I came in in parts of this during the day and so I only heard parts of this I didn’t realize the beginning was like kind of like
Useless cuz like I don’t think he sees his own problem like well anyway go ahead Petty I think uh Cat Williams said our expectations too high for what podcast would be in 2024 so I’m trying to lower them back down to a reasonable level um not everybody can
Be it Gap even we had an episode one season one so I’m gonna give them uh about three more minutes of slack after that I can go in because I I’m they’re giving nothing nothing at all they’re taking away they’re not giving they’re taking away they are taking
Away there was not a time in my life that I feel like I wasn’t confident but I swear like I grew up in dance so I was always like on a public platform I studied ballet for years so I was always like performing in front of people um
And then even after that I had a YouTube channel I was like talking to people and now I’m on I don’t know I just be like how are people how are you not I get it but I’m just like I feel bad for people that aren’t confident like when a woman
Isn’t confident you know she might have low self-worth might you know be a little you know here or there whatever you know a longer whole phase than needed but when men aren’t confident like they’re kind of dangerous Tiana was saying that uh Iman was like emotionally abusing her and that’s where it starts
Physical abuse and domestic violence very rarely starts with somebody hitting you would starts off with the control no you’re not gonna take that job and then now you abusing me like you making me feel bad about myself I feel bad for people who don’t have confidence cuz I’ve always had
Confidence okay that’s great but is that the enough still going and do their on confidence men and women both either like okay period she’s not like other girls to be fair I don’t dislike her right like I do actually from what I’ve seen of her I generally like her and
This idea that confidence is just a thing that you either have or don’t have is such a productive way at looking at something right because you can be confident in one setting because you know the setting where you don’t have confidence in another and if you think
You have confidence in a setting where you know nothing it might just be arrogance and bravado and you might have a problem right if you’re always confident in every situation that might be a problem too and I’m not speaking as like a psychologist it’s just like the
Idea that I’ve always been confident and therefore I’m always confident is a weird position to take and looking down at other people who may or may not have confidence in different areas like Simone BS for example I’m pretty sure when it comes to gymnastics both performing and speaking about it she’s
Probably top in terms of confidence when it comes to a relationship I don’t care what she says but she may or may not be as confident confidence doesn’t mean you have it all the time in every situation and I feel like this dismissive approach is weird is it like
The Dunning Krueger effect of confidence yes H huh yeah that’s how I I I view it yeah that makes sense like I’m glad that she we don’t the whole story but I’m glad she got out when she did I never been that person I never been that type of person just to
Like uh take out my my my low self-esteem on other people you know I mean like never even in a relationship so I don’t know I can’t really relate to it you know like I always been really really confident even like in all my relationships I let women be free as
Possible I’m not trying to like contain you I’m not trying to what do you mean a couple sentences ago you were definitely talking about controlling your woman manipulating your woman preventing her from doing what she used to do now you’re talking about you let your woman be as free as possible
You literally just said earlier you just said you would go get a stripper and then prevent her from being a stripper you need to control her because he don’t want to the the woman that everyone wants like oh my God wait was this the contradiction you were talking about
Freddy uh there are several but you have to remember um that video to my knowledge was recorded in um in December of 202 3 it’s 2024 now it’s entirely possible that he forgot his opinion from last year it’s already been 10 days into the new year so oh never mind because I just
Realized that’s pre-recorded so he’s actually just 30 seconds later from what he said yeah that’s that’s a wild contradiction I don’t know if he just thought nobody would care based on how the rest of the conversation is like not consistent in just jumping all over the place but um we
Care and maybe we should maybe we should let these men talk and just not just accept as truth everything they’re saying even if it’s contradictory no we should critique them or else people start being confident in every area and have a podcast where they give nothing we should we should critique people
More I’ve seen her I’ve seen her do much better work by the way specifically with that big man with the weave um so maybe because she didn’t she was okay dragging the big man and not dragging this one possible I also know I’m pretty sure in this interview he starts flirting with
Her and I realize every single interview she has with a man on there they start flirting with her so maybe like I I can understand it being difficult to remain in your element when people are like ogling you every single time they come on so I’ll give that
Leeway not even confident enough to take his glass off I actually do not like talking to people with their glasses on like shades on in indoor I hate it um so he controls women he does not want women to dress this way or do this or do
That he wants to make sure they’re completely his he doesn’t want others to um engage with them and he doesn’t want to compete that way but then also he lets women be as free as they want to be all right period if it makes sense to you it makes
Sense to you it don’t make sense to me force you to do anything if if you feel like you want to be the star then by all means go if you feel like you want to go out all s then go do it but
If I feel like it’s not for me then I’m I’m skating I’m get out of there yeah like why be in a situation where you gotta control somebody to stay or be you know I mean I ain’t with all it no seriously it’s not even worth the hassle
Like if you got to control somebody are the like is the relationship even real like how is this not a direct nope nope leave the control factor is so boggling to me because it’s just like you want somebody you got to control like that sounds crazy as [ __ ] but even going back
To what we were saying before do you agree or disagree that the average man wants the woman that everyone wants the 10 out of 10 but really can’t handle being with that type of woman even if she’s not out here doing things that embarrass you even if her just being
Herself and she is attractive people want her do you think that the average man can handle a woman like that no no I I even know my place you know like it’s some women that I just don’t approach it just ain’t time for it and like when I
See like really really beautiful women and I se they on their [ __ ] know I stay away even like not just because I’m not ready not ready financially that’s not the problem I’m talking about like I can look at a woman and tell what she wants
And I cannot get that to her and I’m not GNA even step to her i a g waste your time but men like it’s ego thing like I feel like I gotta get her you know what I’m saying I need I need to boost myself
Up I need other people to know that I can get these type of women so I’m just I’m G waste this time I’m waste time anyway and it be on some [ __ ] like that like I never like I know my place I know when it’s time I know when it’s not you
Know sorry um yeah I just I be trying to preach to guys like listen like just cuz she fine don’t mean you got to holl at her you know what I mean just cuz just cuz you got a dick don’t mean you got to [ __ ] your [ __ ] you I mean like just
Chill like and it’s about KN yourself worth like you don’t have to like if you know yourself I know that I’m that [ __ ] for sure you know I mean like in my eyes you think I’m um I know that in my eyes like I know I’m him right I I don’t have to prove myself by getting a bunch of women and just having a plethora of women just in my Arsenal just to [ __ ] just that I have yeah a lot of men overcompensate
For their shortcomings by trying to be with every woman that they can get their hands on she takes advantage of the youth fit f I I maybe cuz like I it feels like there’s no depth I’m G leave that alone huh wait okay now I’m wondering okay are we critiquing like the
Interview we can critique whatever we want at this point we’re giving advice I don’t give advice but here you go because I thought I don’t know I don’t know I don’t know which one like At first I was like okay we’re going to talk about like what he’s saying but now
I think it’s more like an analysis of the interview style you expect her to pour from his cup and his cup is empty you should lower your expectations as I [Laughter] have H Petty has taken the red pill and now he sees the
Truth yeah I mean I do like I do I love it when people who uh you can’t call her fat you can’t call her ugly I think a lot of men in conversations where they have to be called out resort to the easiest at homonyms and they would
Actually have to engage their right brain for this conversation because they can’t attack like easily identifiable things like her hair or something else so I mean I do appreciate that yeah however I do to appreciate that I wish they wouldn’t just stop they would
Stop FL leting and like talk to her as a human being but then I realize even with her that she isn’t really engaging them you know what I mean like so like I would I want them to respect her and talk to her because it’s a podcast but
It feels like they’re two caught up flirting with her and they’re not attacking so that’s good but then it’s like how is it still shallow cuz it seems like the guys do want to talk to her but like the ideas aren’t being investig or maybe I want too much cuz my
Critique of myself is that I stay on one point to long so yeah maybe she doesn’t want to have it become divisive maybe she doesn’t want to debate or go back and forth maybe she’s just like asking them questions getting their answer and moving on I mean some I don’t know could that
Be possible I mean sure I I guess I length of Silence after I said I got nervous I I mean I would like to interview her I would like to interview her what is the purpose oh she can come on too her and Dr so yeah so reach out to her for me
Please all right let’s continue they say that a lot of times they overcompensate because they don’t even really like women sometimes they just like men and they will just dog every woman that they’re with and be overly promiscuous and be a hoe and never find their soulmate because their soulmate is a
Man you never heard that before it’s a thing it’s even even gay so you saying men are gay but hide it and [ __ ] a bunch of [ __ ] and yes and this isn’t even coming from women I have um I’ll be on Tik Tok a lot you know be on Tik Tok and
I saw like a couple gay guys say that a number one um indicator that a man might be D is when he’s just having all like these women having sex back toback like he can’t find his his soulmate um he’s dogging women he’s out every single
Night he always got to have sex with this woman this woman he is hiding the fact that he is he can’t find a soulmate because his soulmate is a man he got to run through all these women and dog him because he doesn’t really like he
Doesn’t know he’s gay um he know he gay I reject this also completely reject this I reject this um I reject this as well this is reminiscent to me of um there was recently a uh Abba and preach covered this there was like a Women’s Conference that they have yearly for
Women to come and have access to jobs and opportunities that they wouldn’t usually have and it was just over run by men men shoving women out of the way men like completely ignoring the event is designed to like uphold women not just for them to get jobs and for you to come
And shove women out the way to get jobs but there are like separate celebrations and events where we can come and look at Women’s contribution to society um and people looked at that and for some reason the LGBT got dragged people were like see this is what happens when you
Let them they thems come and undermine femininity nope these are not the day thems this is not the lgtv agenda these are heterosexual men doing this to you these are heterosexual men who will literally shove you out of the way to get access to an opportunity that was
Created for you I don’t like people who get hurt by heterosexual men and then drag the gay community that doesn’t make sense to me it’s yeah is it really unfathomable to you that a man just he just hates you you don’t have to you don’t have to justify it clearly I’ve
Heard this so much um this woman like very beautiful friend I have got cheated on obviously he’s gay no he just has no discipline like you don’t have to go within your third eye to make it make sense the man has no discipline and wants to have sex
With a lot of people it has nothing to do with his sexuality I think it’s an easy bow on top of a really messy present to say oh he’s just gay and that soothe a lot of people’s ego I do believe there’s a lot of homosocial bonding that occurs this does
Not mean the man is gay it means that he’s looking for approval and while I do agree that there’s a lot of people on the DL I do think that we cannot negate the importance of a culture that tells men to be promiscuous and the more promiscuous you are the more Honorable
In the looser sense of the word it seems you are to other men the more of a man you become to other men that’s the homosocial bonding part but I don’t think it means that they are homosexuals now are there gay men who do not want to
Come out of the closet or bisexual men who do not want to come out of the closet who use women as props to hide their sexuality I am sure of it like I’m sure of it but I do think for first I don’t call people gay who do not identify as
Gay I think that I just don’t you can do whatever you want how you do and I will do that but I do think that we should investigate a culture that tells men to be promiscuous um and what that does to little boy when little booy has his son
Doing all kinds of things before they’re 12 I don’t think it is possible for that child to be a fully functioning human being that doesn’t have sexual Mal adoptions like I’m sorry like when your dad is forcing you as a child to engage with grown people doing grown people
Things and that is a culture that we set for young boys there’s going to be Mal adoption there just there is like so I wouldn’t just use sexuality I think sexuality is too easy and out it is too easy and out to just say oh they’re probably just gay uh I think
It’s a way to protect heterosexual men you’ll see the same type of conversations when there’s raap or sa oh he’s not a real man he’s a monster like anything that they can do to avoid tackling the topic that is heterosexual men have issues I think they will employ
That whether it’s being a monster or being gay or being whatever have you so I think don’t want to call out I hate when people do that and say like that’s not a man that’s a whatever else because you know it’s I mean it’s not okay but
It’s the reality to say that some men do certain things that are not good or whatever the case may be and they’re still men like like I agree with what you were saying Petty like sometimes people try to protect the image I guess of what a man is by disassociating
Dissociating disassociating what’s the disassociating one with the associating bad behavior from heterosexual General yeah yeah uh it was both heteren and a man at Grace Hopper look also this is not to say doesn’t happen with gay men or men on the DL I am saying the fact that she went
There is an attempt because she’s very good at this she might not be good at a lot of things in people’s mind but she’s good at this she’s good at attacking them she’s good at making them feel whatever she wants them to feel and calling a man gay a black man gay seems
To be one of the worst insults for men right and this is a direct attack on manhood from her using homosexuality now whether you disagree or agree with that is not the question it is why she would would do that and I think she did it to hurt this man’s ego
In front of her and I think she does that kind of a lot which look I’m not gonna hate the player I’m not gonna hate the player but yeah was an attack and she what she was doing yeah to have a man in front of me talking about how he’s running through
Women I would say it too I’m not gonna lie I would say it too oh you know what they say about men who are using a bunch of women they want something else um now defend yourself yeah yeah no no no no it’s not that yeah yeah
That’s exactly what she was doing maybe you can’t find satisfaction in a woman sir have you ever considered that yeah why are you why so many like yeah yeah yeah no I I think it’s a very good in terms of terrible good not in like oh
This is great but good as in if this is a weapon you’ve used it well you shouldn’t probably use it but yeah he’s the well if he’s gay and [ __ ] men then I don’t know but I can it’s a like when I have guys around me and that
They’re overly like uh promiscuous guy they always got to talk about women they always got like yeah [ __ ] this girl oh yeah [ __ ] had this that’s like a clear indicator like you trying to hi some [ __ ] like why do you talk about women all day she won she
Won she won she put him on the defense she put him on the defense in a way where she’s he’s saying yeah these men who do this are probably trying to hide something not realizing he is that man he is that man because he’s gonna talk about all the women he slept with
Sorry go ahead Petty you see I thought he just talked about all the women he was with how he yeah yeah and now he’s like oh those men are hiding something all right yeah you know this is the thing like um I think a lot of people
And this is my first time seeing I either of them so I don’t know much about either of them but just in general like I think sometimes people do this thing where they um rely on like talking points and just different things that they’re saying and they don’t really
Believe them at their core so it’s really easy to get caught up in these types of contradictions because if you really believed all those things they wouldn’t like be coexisting all at the same time because you’re lowkey calling yourself out based on the same things you were just doing right yeah so I
Mean I think that’s a result of just you know hearing something that sounds good but not really really having that as like one of your I don’t know principles or whatever and then hearing something else that you think sounds good okay cool that too but like those things don’t um go together
Well I mean we looked at one of her other probably the most viewed video on her Channel she did what I felt like was a much better job in that interview uh with the man with the l front or whatever he had on his head uh in the
Weight so she did what I thought was an amazing interview with him and it was pointed out like back to back to back to back to back it just felt like he changes his point to fit whatever will win the conversation that they’re currently in even if it contradicted his
Last point and even if his next Point contradicts it so it feels like switch up after switch up after switch up to the point where we have this man saying he’s promiscuous and I’m out here you know saving the stripper and then she don’t need to strip no more but I don’t
Even date a woman who if I think that she’s different than what I want like it just feels like he switches up his point of view and his whole um his whole system of values and ethics depending on what conversation they’re having currently as if we can’t rewind 10
Seconds to see what they just said so agree k i I don’t think they realize that we can see 10 like the video can rewind sir it doesn’t just not exist now that it’s 10 seconds later like we remember so I don’t know compartmentalizing ideas about things
And not seeing how they like connect nope compartmentalize is a four- syllable word I don’t believe he’s ever heard of three and you know in terms of this whole like calling people homosexuals when they’re when they have not identified themselves that way I definit I think them as you were saying earlier
Like you know there are people that may be gay but they haven’t come out for whatever reason um and I think that with anything that’s kind of looked down upon by certain groups or people in society there are going to be people that are into it that aren’t going to say
Anything right like we know this um and I think that is applicable to some people but I don’t like when people call people gay just because like of whatever reason like I don’t think it should be used um as a weapon um I’ve I’m undef fense about
This because I’ve used it as a weapon before in a very specific conversation I’m remembering I had with an individual who believe that gang violence and like death and single motherhood and all of this is equal to being gay he uh believed both of these things are equal
As far as their detriment to the black community and we were discussing it and he was talking about the gay agenda on TV and stuff I was like the way he was talking makes it seem like if he was a child and he was watching like Bugs
Bunny dress up as a woman he might dress up as a woman or he might want to kiss men if he saw other men kissing which I feel like is weird because I’ve never seen people kissing and that makes me want to like emulate that so um I mean if you
Can call that weaponizing gay I’ve definitely asked people who believe in a gay agenda do they believe they can be turned gay by cartoons um and if not why are they different so but I feel like different the fact that most interactions um on TV in terms of like
Romance are straight people wouldn’t like everybody be straight if that’s the thing that’s influencing people to become gay or straight like that doesn’t make sense and yeah I agree with you petty no because they’re going to ignore the 99% of straight people on TV and
Focus on that 1% gay and then try to pretend like they don’t have thoughts about other men it doesn’t make sense to me if you’re focusing on this one percent of thing when 99% straight exist but you are fixated on the 1% gay that
Makes me feel like you had to go out and look up men kissing to find that so I I need to understand the mindset and how you get there because it’s not it doesn’t add up to me I don’t have I’m with I’m with Petty on this I’m a weapon
I feel bad I feel terrible but like in the right circumstances I’mma weaponize it you try in like like the other day when I was talking to Jamie on here and like I was let me leave that alone but he definitely talked about because you’re a man that because you’re male
And an adult doesn’t make you a man so it sound like he was saying gender is fluid and I’m like Okay cool so and then I went down that path and he got mad but I’m for I’m for weaponizing it but I do take your point Petty I think not Petty
K I think you have the most more St and I I strive to be more like you in oh my God not weaponizing it but yeah I mean I just don’t think it’s a weapon but I guess like I don’t I just don’t think it’s an insult like people used to call
Me a lesbian all the time when I was on another show and I was like okay like I don’t find that insulting but I guess some people do so I guess if like someone finds it insulting someone’s going to try to hit them where hurts type of thing but yeah
I don’t I love that I love hitting people where it hurts even if I don’t agree morally I like that that’s my new stance for 2024 Analicia was right I will repeat that hit him where it hurts 2024 day 247 like you’re trying to hide something and I could see that [ __ ] you
Don’t talking about nothing else but [ __ ] women the next woman the last woman and this and this and trying to show you’re hiding something you’re gay because my thing is having sex with multiple people all the time cannot be that fun I’m sorry that it don’t look
Fun to me I’m telling you that [ __ ] don’t look fun it’s it’s The Recoil that’s not fun like [ __ ] them and then aftermath that’s not fun like trying to keep up see you just owned it like like you are doing the thing that you said someone who does is hiding
Something like you doing that thing and you just confirmed anyway maybe he’s just saying it’s she is she gonna ask like so are you now you know she not going I mean I mean they are in Atlanta so yeah then he said The Recoil is not
The fun so he did tell it himself yes I agree but also he said The Recoil isn’t fine and I’m wondering is he talking about unplanned pregnancy or statistically transmitted something um statistically transmitted diseases or whatever the acronym stands for what a sassy psychology I could smash know one nice
Hand and be done but trying to keep them on the team that’s the that’s what’s not well no not even that I’m talking about just literally you know one time and you probably never even see him again you know that doesn’t even seem fun to me
Like why like how long you gonna do this like sir you’re in your 30s well at a certain age yeah you got to chill but it is fun it’s fun I don’t know it’s a lot of fun it’s a thrill is it a thrill it’s thrill it’s a thrill the whole it’s the
Chase the actual capture and then the release but you know why I feel like a lot of men have that mentality too of they’re always just like on to the next girl on to the next girl a lot of men don’t have what it requires to even be a
Family man a okay girl you you sorry she just skipping around and missing the whole point call him out you already told him that men who do this is whatever he’s like I like it I like the chase the capture capture capture which is terrible Language by the way but
Forget that for now he just said men who do this have something to hide in his eyes and you just gonna let it go all right girl period I mean she did say men and they I feel like she’s speaking to them indirectly when she say stuff like
How can you it can’t be that fun men and they and you and your 30s still doing this why when she say that and he just sitting there with his sunglasses on uh I assume looking dumbfounded underneath them I feel like she’s speaking to him without speaking to him oh I think she
Is doing that whenever they come on I think he she definitely speaks directly to them a lot of men are not financially set up for it emotionally set up for it they don’t even have the morality or even what it takes to be like I’m going
To be a one woman man because really being a one woman man is probably a little bit more expensive taxing and requires more from you than having a new sex partner every week I mean you can have sex that’s easy that’s free but really committing yourself to one
Situation that takes a lot from you and a lot of these guys don’t have it it’s free to be a [ __ ] boy it’s expensive to actually be a man I can agree well I mean it does cost to juggle multiple women but it does cost not just
Financially um to be in a relationship like you have to really become a man that’s when you really find out like I am not him you know like you really be running from yourself when you got a bunch of women because once you’re with the person that’s when you realize who
You are because this other person is seeing you every day and seeing you talk this all day on social media he was confident as soon as he whatever what blah he would self-esteem on on 10 what do you mean men who do this are running from themselves you’ve been doing this I
Thought he said I thought he said he found himself at like 13 um and now he’s talking about men who do this which he just said he does are running away from growing up basically this is probably why they don’t like talking to me actually I’m
I’m get I’m catching a pattern cuz this don’t make sense and it feels like K you said this maybe she doesn’t want it to be competitive and she doesn’t want to debate and for me it’s like it’s not a debate like we are not debating I’m literally asking you about something you
Just said like you just said two very conflicting things and if they’re not conflicting then like make them not conflict you’re not you’re just not catching it ah it doesn’t make sense if she’s disarming her them because if she’s not going back and like reviewing it and explaining it then it’s
Weird disarming what he came in with an empty cup he took away from him don’t make sense to [Laughter] me like but this person that you with get to see this [ __ ] every day and you you can’t fake that and that’s why a lot of men don’t become because don’t be in
Relationship because they be hot and [ __ ] they don’t they’re not really that guy in real life they can’t they can’t handle being with the person um emotionally financially um they just can’t no they can’t their maturity isn’t set up for it yet I’ve been like way too like I avoided relationship not because
Um not because I wasn’t financially ready I just wasn’t ready to support another person financially I don’t I didn’t want to I don’t want to have to express myself I don’t want to I don’t want you to express yourself I don’t want to hear it yeah I don’t want have
To be consistent um I want have to you know have a child and then have to be there consistently have to raise a child like it’s commitment it’s effort yeah but it’s felt easy to just [ __ ] around 100% do you have kids no not yet okay
Good for you well either way good for you I I don’t really care but why don’t you care because you know I support people having kids but I also support them not having kids you know I feel like too often we expect kids from people but it’s just like you shouldn’t
Really expect that any especially not anymore not in today’s economy having a kid 50 years ago was way different from having a kid now how you know because I know the economy like what do you mean here 50 years ago but my grandparents were they had all these kids because
They could kind of support them now it’s very hard to support a kid because everything is Skyrocket yeah because it’s expensive it’s expensive and I know bro [ __ ] having kids year after year yeah but they’re not dads though they having kids but they’re not dads and a lot of people
Think that it’s either you being a complete dead beat and never seeing your kid or like being father of the year and living in the house with your kid and being married there’s a lot of in between because I know a lot of guys that I consider a dead beat but because
They see their kid once every other week for three hours they think they’re not a dead beat and I’m just like no that’s that’s that’s a dead beat like you don’t even have a room in your house for your kid like they come over to spend the
Night and you have no accommodations for them like you haven’t factored your kid into your life that’s that’s a dead beat when you going to have kids I don’t know I’m not focused on it kids are not a prize they’re not what a prize no no they’re
Liability they are but it’s also a blessing okay okay I’m not gonna argue that they’re a blessing for some people but um you know what it is too I’m the oldest of like eight siblings and I’m the oldest girl it’s different from being the oldest girl and being the
Oldest guy I’m the oldest girl out of like eight siblings I grew up like babysitting my siblings you’re like a mother I mean they be like you can’t tell me what know my mom but whatever um but I really like damn there like I was
S in these [ __ ] for years so now that I’m like free I don’t want to do that [ __ ] no more I think that people that are either like a middle child or you’re the youngest or you’re an only child you be like yeah I want to have kids because
You want that family but when you’re the oldest you already had that family I’m good I’m good I see what my friends can’t do when they have their kids and I’ll be like nah that ain’t for me I can’t wake up at 6 a.m. kids waking up
Early as [ __ ] I’m like what the [ __ ] is you doing [ __ ] e in cereal at 6 am. like come on like y’all can’t sleep in for a day y’all [ __ ] can’t sleep in like I would be pissed off if my kid me on a Saturday [ __ ] I would lose my mind
How are you like 28 29 29 M I would lose my absolute mind so so maybe in the future within you know within marriage I’m a middle child and I feel like cuz I’m a middle child I feel like I do want that family I want a very very big
Family like maybe 10 15 kids yeah I bet you do because you ain’t having them yeah e gota be I gota be no you gotta be there and support them that’s hard too but you ain’t birthing them damn 15 kids ain’t nobody gonna give you that ain’t
Nobody gonna give you five I think you’ll do good with three at the most come on no no no I don’t like the I’m not I’m not ready to settle I’m not ready to commit to a relationship right now I don’t want any kids I don’t want anybody
Running around when are you going to have kids oh I don’t want kids what kids are a blessing I want my own kids somay anyway yeah I mean he said he won 10 and he won w a pop so I’m trying to figure out what this w a pop
Means ni what you mean one a PE Wes yeah why do you want more than one wife m why not okay why not I mean for real like who who said that had to have one wife somebody came up with that [ __ ] somebody did somebody okay I mean I guess it’s
Whatever is with within whatever you know religion you subscribe to you know Christians don’t believe that I have to pause sorry can you hear me yep y so you can’t be consistent you don’t have the emotional bandwidth for one woman you haven’t learned that cuz you’re not currently in a relation ship
But you want more than you said w a pop so about 10 wives and 10 kids people well yeah that’s a lot of people for him to have just said what you’re talking about themus yeah how can you have more than one when you literally can’t not only that but did you know
Somebody somebody just invented monogamy one day just some dude I don’t know I mean but it could be to be fair he every time she says something he’s like how do you know that how do you know that which I noticed how do you know your grandma’s
Had an easier time how do you know it’s getting more expensive I don’t know if he understands the concept of like research and being able to look at something from a bird’s eye view and not having to experience it to know what’s going on maybe that’s why he doesn’t
Know where monogamy stems from and he thinks somebody just made it up one day believe you can have more than one wife but there are other religions that you know wife is okay I have ReliOn okay that explains it smart wow that’s that’s really nuts um
What I was gonna say when I was talking about like having kids um a lot of times too um we are too willy-nilly with not only who we choose to have kids with but having kids outside of wedlock I think that’s really the number one problem in
The black community I don’t think so I think it is everything stems from that well yeah but I mean how many marriages are really last and I think people just need to have an agreement and understand what the hell happening but uh just because I get married now we got to have
Kids and then a lot of them are failing and why even have to get married just to have kids for one day possibly it’s a very high percentage that we might not even make it just look at at IM shepher and her like you would have thought like
That was a happy growing you know like they was they look great on camera you know like they look good like damn that was like hope for like a b community and look at this [ __ ] now like it’s it’s showing you that this [ __ ] ain’t stable
For real isn’t it crazy how we view marriages crumble like just 10 years [ __ ] would have been like oh I want that Will and Jada [ __ ] Ain’t saying that no more like it’s really crazy like seeing like marriages that you look no that’s something you investigate so he want to have one child
Per woman and want to have 10 and he said wives but now he’s saying he doesn’t want to get married and you don’t need marriage for children which you you don’t not pushing marriage at all do what you want to do but this does not make sense in the context of what he
Was saying just now so do you want a wife or no do you want 10 wives or no is marriage something you’re getting into or no do you want just 10 women to have 10 kids and then why do people think that marriage is more of a commitment than
Kids I don’t know I don’t know it doesn’t like he thinks marriage is a commitment maybe that’s indicative of a problem if one gender believes that marriage is a sign fire of commitment and of a more intimate type of relationship a more meaningful relationship with more security and the
Other is like here’s a Shut Up Ring yeah I think women unfortunately have deluded themselves not by their fault but they’ve convinced themselves so maybe not they convinced thems but women were included in the indoctrination but also media and the culture told women that marriage is their safe beautiful amazing
Thing and men are like girl you can believe that by yourself and then also why like you know people talk about the marriage uh statistics in terms of how many you know end in divorce I’m willing to bet like there’s way more non-marriage relationships that end in breaking up
Like it’s not like you’re going to escape these possibilities of not ending up with a person that you’re with um I don’t know like what he was just saying I just just I’m trying to keep I’m trying to make a coherent kind of thesis around what he believes but they
Happening not deny unfortunately there will be women who sign up for this clown show even though he’s displaying 100 million red flags he’s giving he own terrible Yelp he’s giving his own terrible yel preview yeah agree you ever just listen to a person and you know they don’t have wrinkles on their
Brain just smooth and shiny I just he doesn’t stand on anything and that’s so weird up to like crumble in real life see the thing is with Will and J you know like it’s the media you really don’t know what’s going on behind the scenes but that’s that’s a true marriage
Right there oh yeah that’s a true marriage they not leaving each other you know what I’m saying they’re to the death and whatever we go through like you’re my life partner for real this that’s what I I want to Mar somebody out love I want to marry somebody because
This my friend it’s my life partner we gonna stick through this [ __ ] whatever you know what I’m saying whatever these Outsiders got to say [ __ ] them they don’t know what’s going on this is between me and you and our family but people have the wrong idea of marriage
They do 100% if you think that a successful marriage is them not breaking up like getting by the way what I heard him just said was I want someone who is going to stick beside me while I cheat that’s what I I heard the question is H that’s
Interesting because that’s what I heard when Jonathan major was talking after I found out what after I found out what I found out about Dr Martin Luther King and who he was actually with instead of his wife uh excuse me the multiple who he was with instead of his actual wife the more
It sounds like when men are talking about someone to hold them down they’re like let me cheat and don’t tell nobody pretend like we’re all good in public and stable yeah smile and deal with that and hand me your wallet to when it’s time to pay because I don’t have money
But I need to be the man miss ketta stop a divorce then yeah they do have a successful marriage but other people will be like no like their marriage is a sham like but I agree with you I think a successful marriage is not getting a divorce um because will has not spoken
Up and said anything against what do you mean a successful marriage is not getting a divorce would it be a successful marriage if you’re getting abused every day in the marriage is that successful because there’s no divorces at a successful marriage again orange pill might have been right when he came on
Here and said it’s not the quality of the marriage it is that you married cuz what is this yeah I don’t think um I no if you’re getting abused you absolutely should not stay with someone whether you’re married or not like I don’t know why sometimes like it seems
Like some people think that like you’ll avoid C and I’m not saying this what she’s doing but just in general I feel like sometimes people think you’re going to avoid certain things if you don’t get married even though the same things can happen in like dating relation relationships yeah like I just don’t
Like this idea that it is successful because you stuck it out no it is not successful you were being abused you were being used you were mistreated you weren’t respected that is not a successful marriage it is a marriage it’s not a successful marriage I will not successfully get
Beat No period yeah this man is just looking for 10 loyal women who are going to hold down go ahead I’m just saying he’s looking for 10 loyal women who are going to hold him down so if anybody in the chat is single and looking for that um also apologies if
There are any disabled people who might be missing parts of their brain or have brain deformities I apologize for comparing you to this man that’s what I was thinking when you said that they must be very insult I bill I think orange bill was speaking for black black women I don’t think
Black women care about the quality of the marriage as long as they can say my husband and show their ring to single women the more the the more I hear people talk about marriage the more I’m convinced that these people don’t actually care about the quality of the
Marriage for real for real like I’ve heard some wild stuff I’ve heard some wild stuff Bill and Hillary a successful man period um de she literally said she would rather struggle as a wife why H I can’t uh this is by this is byproduct of shaming singl yeah yeah yeah yeah and
They will continue because it gives men more power because now they’re just going to women married women seem to want to stick and stick beside their cheating FL phander man and come out here and lie to us ain’t nobody want to hear it nobody told you I will’ll be
Sitting down not even saying anything about a marriage my husband is coming girl who asked if your husband was coming home does that mean you’re gonna leave does that mean we have to leave like get why are we talking about you and your husband right now also by the
Way he’s coming home from someone else’s house but we going to leave that SP out we leave that the Department of Children and Family Services will be in his life soon hasch child support gang 2024 period let me stop actually really love marriages I like I like the kind of
Marriage where I see people love I’m not I’m not going to call these people there are two people I met in Miami um they’re on this channel but I won’t say their name cuz like I say this in the Discord too often but the way they interacted as
Married people as um people in relationship was one of the most beautiful things I think I’ve ever seen um in just like the kindness and love and care that they show to each other if the marriage is not like that don’t bring it up I don’t want to hear it if
That was not your marriage please don’t bring up your marriage cuz I don’t care yeah I’m tired of these I look at women’s butts with my man I’m sick of that I hate that and just bragging about it I’m not like other girls that man is
Not looking at Prince with you I don’t trust marriages like that looking at what Prince Oh I thought you said Prince I was like what does Prince have to do with for all we know he’s agreeing with everything that she says it might be a
Money play for him it defin was a money play like this last few weeks like she just been on the podcast front podcast podcast her book and just to draw more controversy towards their relationship he on a [ __ ] boat lay out like I don’t care because the outsiders
Shouldn’t matter like we let Outsiders dictate our relationship we let [ __ ] like when I get relationship I don’t post that [ __ ] I don’t I don’t let people know what’s going on because people are waiting on your downfall they’re waiting you know what I’m saying I don’t put that [ __ ] out there that
[ __ ] is not for Public public eye it’s it’s really not um for real for real I saw a video the other day this guy was saying how men are stupid when they get a girlfriend and then all these girls are suddenly in their DMS out of nowhere
These girls was never nowhere when you were single now you got girl your DMs not because they really want you though a lot of times a girl will see how you treat your girl or they see what she getting or they even want to be her or
They really want to one up her so it’s never really about them wanting you as the man they just want what she has and they will try to ruin their relationship just being like yeah you know um I’m I’m a I’mma get that [ __ ] you know like
You’re really trying to want up her and these [ __ ] be so stupid they be like oh yeah like they all on me now [ __ ] they don’t want you they just want what she has and that’s exactly what he was saying I was just like that’s so true
People just want what they can’t have I get the most [ __ ] when I’m in a relationship you take it though sometimes yeah yep these are my past relation this not like now not this new version of me but like my past Jonathan no not the new
Jonathan but my my past U soon as I get this posted and [ __ ] like that they just come out of nowhere they just come out of no I don’t believe people have moved on from their past if they continue to brag about it this is a tactic I think men
Use when dating where they are honest with a girl about their past and the girl feels disarmed because she’s like there’s no way he would tell me all about about his how he cheated in the past and lied and was manipulative but is a changed man clearly he would just
Lie to me if he didn’t change so obviously you know he’s different now but I don’t believe someone who’s bragging about that currently is um is a changed person I don’t believe they’re a changed person I don’t believe him in his future 10 wives that he wants to
Keep secret from the world because the world’s just going to judge so much but he’s might cheat on them because uh you know just sometimes not all the time just sometimes girl I was going to tell people’s business and one of the people is watching and I almost got all the way
Caught up I it was a cheating story um someone th this gay guy right one of my friends he got cheated on he was dating this guy in the not me continuing with the story Man a long story short because I can’t not tell it the similar thing happened guy told him he cheated in the past and the the moment he said it amongst our friend everyone said yeah he going to cheat he going cheat he cheated again girl I’m not going to tell the full
Story because it’s not my story to tell but girl he he was surprised too talking about I can’t believe he cheated all right girl period what be say say Becky with the good here we GNA have a good live pck me I’m so terrible please all right let
Me just say this do not tell me your stories please because they they just they just decide to come out and I can’t control it send your stories to the and they accept it and then they try to break y up not they just try to be the number one you
Know they try to stick around to see if like was gonna happen and so but why would the thing is with women if I just cheated on my girlfriend for you you think I’m gonna be with you and be faithful no I’m gonna [ __ ] off too you
Know I’m not even gonna be with you because for what I’m gonna give me something new that’s how we think like women just it’s just a natural thing women just want what they can have and how you get them is how you lose them most of the time anyway I mean
There’s outliers where it really does work out and the mistress becomes a new wife but that’s rare you you for Hing he’s never leaving his situation his wife whatever it is and you looking stupid you looking stupid because you was really just going after something that you really want from the beginning
You just what somebody else had I told I made a post like y listen you want some you want some more [ __ ] you want some more girls just act like you got a girlfriend just fake it and it’s so true and [ __ ] know that like yo just post
Like you got a girlfriend just post like buying [ __ ] flowers and just doing [ __ ] they’re coming flooding DMS you just act like it and then now you ain’t got to be in a relationship because they think you’re in a relationship that’s really sad and a lot of women will also accept
That situation because they think that they can get in and like change your mind like they be like oh like um I can get in and do better and he’s going to choose me but it’s like if he didn’t choose her he didn’t choose her
Why you think he GNA choose you it’s the same thing like all right the vetting thing is a conversation we need to have CA this man is flirting with this woman right this man wants to date this woman or at least get something from this woman right this man is trying with this
Woman but the conversation is happening in the way it’s happening and if you as the woman decide you know what I’m gonna give him a try I feel like you can vet this I feel like this is vable like I don’t feel like he’s hidden any red flag I feel like it’s very
Overt so like is this what dating is this what dating these men is it is this what it’s like ask goad maybe people would not believe that someone would be so overtly so flamboyant in their whatever you want to call it I’m not going to say the word I said earlier
In the Stream because it’s controversial um but whatever you want to call it maybe people try to downplay play this because the idea of someone being like this actually is unfathomable to them so they tell themselves he’s probably just joking or he’s a changed man now or he
Says that but when I’m with him I don’t know I feel butterflies or something I don’t know so they lying to themselves got it did he say um post pictures of yourself buying flowers yeah pretend like you’re with a woman when I was a kid I used to love this movie called
Clueless I still love that movie and in the movie if anyone have seen it Sher like was sending herself flowers and like candy and stuff to get this attention of this boy and it’s just funny that like he’s what like so men should I I just thought that was really funny that
He was using the same strategy that Alicia Silverstone used as share in 1995’s clue is but yeah yeah no because he doesn’t understand the psychology behind it and he doesn’t recognize that it doesn’t work on just women it works on men also and what they do is that if
Someone find you valuable generally then you have some value and that can work on multiple levels even in a job even in Social Gathering uh for Rel relationship it works just as a general matter you can create a perception of value through buying yourself flowers so people think
Someone send you a Flowers by pretending you have a business call when you are somewhere by going out with a bunch of people so you now look like you have a a friend group it is how psychology work but he like I don’t feel like engaging
With anything he’s saying yeah he his DM flooded I’m not reading that um it’s like those uh big red boots that went viral and got really popular and I was like these look stupid everybody started wearing them and I was like I don’t know they look kind
Of for no reason just because people say it has value people sell white t-shirts for $495 on Kanye’s website white T-shirt with bullet hole in it yeah so agree go on LinkedIn put up your job and if it’s a good job watch many other recruiters
Reach out to you go on LinkedIn and let them know that you are trying to find a job and see how nothing comes your way it’s perceived value you’re saying to an embellish a little bit no that Gap that was when I was caring for the
Needy got it but like my my thing is like at some point you know I brought up the movie Clueless like those were in the movie High School kids like at what point do you want to attract the people that actually like you for you instead of okay see you’re going about an
Ethical these people don’t care these people just want access to any woman the best women they don’t care about a compatibility oh yeah I mean when earlier in the conversation he even said something like I don’t I don’t have what it takes to be in a relationship I don’t want to you
Know have to be a full person or something I don’t want the woman to be a full person there is nothing about what he’s saying that indicates he’s looking for a full functioning uh fully developed brain uh which has a body in meat and Bone surrounding it of course that he
Wants to engage in like rigorous intellectual conversation with and explore each other’s personality and Humanity it sounds like he wants 10 bodies to Mary who are gonna be loyal to him whenever he feels in the mood so and produce a child each and her baby father like why would
You sign up to be somebody’s fourth baby mother thinking that they’re finally gonna choose you he went through three women that he didn’t choose and had a baby with them too so why are you different she could have been one no you ever been saic no never never
First of all I don’t even want these [ __ ] it’s hard to even want a [ __ ] to begin with it’s hard to even want a [ __ ] to begin with a free [ __ ] and I’m about to take a take a [ __ ] no y not y’all not that uh man for me take [ __ ]
The best bet that’s your best bet CU you ain’t gotta worry about it you already know where he at already it’s not mine so who what do I care none these [ __ ] is yours none of these [ __ ] you people do get married though y’all be trying to
Make it seem like everybody be for everybody people do have committed relationships and they do get married yeah yeah it’s like it’s like point5 out of 10 what in Atlanta or just anywhere in America yeah I don’t know know I think that people have an idea that relationships are kind of generally
Doomed and I I I get where that’s coming from but I still have faith in relationships I still feel like people still fall in love and they still have these actual relationships that’s not based off anything besides wanting a life partner people like that still do
Exist I think this is what the world should do we should have a clean slate let’s let’s take the idea of like whatever they put in our mind to what a relationship is let’s clear that and and you come up with your own idea of what a relationship between a person is that’s
What people should do not let’s not go with what Society thinks that we should do oh well we have to be in a relationship relationships already just [ __ ] weird in itself like I got to be with this person right we not even guaranteed to be with each other I got
To be with this person for amount of time and I have to solely commit to this person we got to share lives together and then we get mad and [ __ ] whatever and we break up now it’s like let me go find me another one like we going from
One person to the next like what type of who the [ __ ] came up with this girlfriend boyfriend [ __ ] that’s the first start life in life try different things until you get your thing like like yes it is life like you might start a business and be like no I a like that
[ __ ] and then you start another business you might have a job and you be like no I don’t like this job you get another job that’s I feel like it’s almost like he’s asking what monogamy is and like what it’s utility but then it seems like he
Already knows what it is so I’m not sure what he’s asking like is he asking why would you be Minag like I don’t think he’s actually asking a question right but like I think there is something missing in his knowledge so I don’t know how to like respond to
This uh based on his questions to her about how do you know how do you know earlier I’m going to assume he can’t understand anything that he has not experienced personally so I don’t know why this man is pushing 50 and still doesn’t understand like what’s the point
Of having a girlfriend or wife um selectively by the way he selectively does and does not understand this because when she starts saying she don’t want to be married or she don’t want to have kids suddenly he can think of every single reason why kids are a blessing
You don’t want K you don’t want marriage oh my goodness U well she does want marriage but she say she don’t want kids so I think um I think these people are lying they know what they’re doing and to the extent that they don’t know what they’re doing logically they know it inherently
Like they have a feeling about it which is why they feel off-put whenever she says she’s not going to do a societal Norm but when it’s time for him to do a societal Norm all of a sudden why should I be faithful that’s just something we created for no reason why
What’s the purpose so yeah Char ER that’s life you can’t be mad that’s how relationship go oh okay immature people be like I got hurt one time so I’m I’m giving up I’m just like come on now like you can’t that’s not going to be the if you’re following that
Pattern you got look at yourself and be like maybe it’s me maybe I’m the drama it’s not always everybody else so what about back in the day when they had to like um uh what’s the marriage it’s called when um your dadr arrang marriage you know like there was no Tri error
Look that girl was a [ __ ] virgin and and her dad brought me to to me and this is my wife and do it and you know what stats show that arranged marriages are more successful than a love marriage but I get it though because you know why love marriages in America and our
Society don’t work out you date somebody for two years right that is such a weird statement to make a an arranged marriage is not not a love marriage right you can love someone you were arranged to marriage to to get you you can love someone in an arranged marriage exactly
And you can marry someone in a society that doesn’t arrange marriages that you don’t love like this idea that one is about love and the other is not is very weird when both are about or can be about both or not the idea of using arranged marriage
As like oh these are much more successful than these love-based marriages over here are the whether arranged marriages occur generally do they occur like in a country where if you try to leave your husband you’ll be stoned uh I don’t understand understand why people look to developing nations
Which have some really weird laws around women’s rights as ideas of successful marriage um this is the same thing where people talk about our grandmas were our grandma and grandpa used to stay married for 50 years I mean divorce is a legal so uh so that’s what I was literally
Gonna add before we continue playing it it seems to require the woman’s full subservience legally for it to work in their mind like girl no no it’s not successful when you’re forced to do something maybe we need to redefine success cuz you all sit up here talking
About once you don’t get divorce it is successful so if you’re getting abused once you don’t get divorce you still have a successful marriage based on that definition of success that don’t make sense yeah like yeah I agree with that um and I agree with what you were saying
Earlier too they miss because I don’t want it I like we can’t just I think some people think all arranged marriages are like horrible and the person doesn’t want to be there and they’re in this horrible situation but like that’s not the case and it’s also not the case that
They’re all happy and successful and the person’s glad to be there same thing with marriages where you choose your partner yeah because like I can imagine someone learning to love someone else if love you the problem is I think people actually think the feeling you get when
You want to sleep with someone is love right and not like the commitment to someone the sacrifice being made for someone the learning about someone the understanding someone the choosing to be with that person all of that can be learned like all of that you can develop over
Time it the the Rome and Juliet I saw you from across the street or the room isn’t necessarily love I’m not going to say it’s not love I’m not saying that we Define love in a variety of ways but there are some version of the kind of commitment and dedication that can be
Learned and I think those the the things after the initial feeling might be the best way to define love like for me personally don’t tell me you love me until we’ve spent like a year or two together I don’t got to I don’t want to
Hear it you don’t know me you don’t know me you do not know me probably live with them y’all having sex y’ y’all pretty much already married before you get married right you’re doing all this stuff and maybe your partner isn’t exactly what you want them
To be yet but you’re like oh marriage is going to change that I’ve been with this person two years it’s not quite where it needs to be but we gonna get married it’s gonna get better so they have these expectations for what they want their partner to be whole time what you got
This last two years is what you’re going to get in marriage nobody is changing after marriage if anything [ __ ] getting more lazy after marriage because I’m married now going go down here so people have these expectations of oh marriage is going to make everything better we’re
Going to be better that’s not going to happen but when you have an arranged marriage and you don’t have any expectations because you don’t know this person you’re learning them and you’re just dealing with you’re just like well this who they are we married is what it
Is so that’s why arranged marriage is really honestly if I don’t get married in the next two years I’m telling my mom to arrange me a marriage you should arrange marri I’m done Marry Me Marry You what qualifies you to be a husband well in arranged marriages you
Don’t you don’t get to ask that question the parents ask that question for you the parents vet them and that’s how you get the arranged marriage I think they already see what’s going on with the family like we got money we’re doing good uh our family name yeah you want
You want to get married into this family so my last name is dupan but you okay you want to have like four wives though I’m good you could be the first no I’m good I don’t want to have no sister wife situation where you got a favorite just
Know just know you gonna be a sister wife anyway that’s not true that’s necessarily true NE everybody don’t cheat Jonathan everybody don’t cheat he don’t I don’t that’s it oh my God that’s far as it go right there I I don’t know um I’m not gonna say everybody CH let me
Not say that everybody doesn’t cheat but men will step outside of that we we have that urge too you know like we fight the urge to not like we think about this constantly like we just we’re just made it populate like we’re made to stick out
Dicks and [ __ ] like we always gonna have that feel so some so all of a sudden she don’t like arrange marriage now that he said oh you can arrange a marriage with me because I have money your mom can set us up they don’t need to ask about my morals or
Anything like that I just need to give him some money anywh who you’re on mute you heard what he said men were made to do right sleep around and spread their seed far and wide he said he doesn’t do that uh just men do no no no no you need the exact
Language I don’t know um I’m not gonna say everybody cheat let me not say that everybody doesn’t cheat but men will step outside of that we we have that urge too you know like we fight the urge to not like we think about this constantly like just we’re just made to
Populate like we’re made to stick our dick and [ __ ] like we’re always going to have that feeling so some men just suppress it you know like when they have their wives and sometimes we just fall victim to I feel like that was a confirmation of homosexual he said men were created to
Stick there in sh go period when he said uh she should have marri she should marry him I wish she would have just been silent I wish she would have given a good one of them uh the start of class let’s do 11 second moment of silence before school I wish
You would have given one of them real long silences and just let him sit with it sit with it or do what my friend did go to a mirror look in it look at yourself why would you ask me that why would you think that you could
Ever that’s what he should do go and look in the mirror and ask yourself why you had the confidence does this look like you should have the confidence answer that question honestly because maybe in the beginning he did say that there are some women he don’t even approach or talk to because
They’re so above him and he doesn’t want to he said that right so what about I if I were her I’d be like what about me made you think that this is a great question because you just said you don’t go to fer women and if some women are
Too beautiful then you won’t so like this I not this speaks to the male delusion because I believe he doesn’t think these two things are contradictory I believe a lot of men believe they are actually dating within their range physically and they’re not they just think they are they think oh I would
Never go for a beautiful woman I just want an average you know woman who looks you know like me um and then they go and find an extremely gorgeous woman and think that’s average and think that they’re actually dating within their range when they’re dating over um maybe
That’s what he’s doing or he just don’t think she’s pretty or maybe because she made the mistake of talking to him no because some people might let me stop the successes of a marriage has always been about the quality trust respect loyalty discipline values principles and not bringing upos and
Contention into the relationship I agree with you but apparently these people don’t don’t agree L She and Him and they and them and her her her her her take a think it’s me me me I mean I sto I stopped listening to him when she said something like I be
Looking at these women who go off and be niit Canon’s fourth baby mama and wonder why would you think that you were G to be different and he came in and said it could be different though that you could be the one I I didn’t listen to anything
Else he said what do you think he would say to a woman who’s the fourth baby mama if she said I thought this was going to be different do you think he would say oh that’s completely completely reasonable for you to expect that do you think that’s what men would
Say I think he would say how you doing he would say you look like you could use um another child now you getting you another child thank you you Rose I eat that’s why I got a w period I don’t know um I’m not gonna say everybody cheats let me not say that
Everybody doesn’t cheat but men will step outside of that we we we have that urge too you know like we fight the urge to not like we think about this constantly like we just we’re just made to populate like we’re made to stick our dicks and [ __ ] like we we’re
Always GNA have that feeling so some men just suppress it why are you talking like you’re animals you know what because they want women to carry firearms because they know how dangerous they are I don’t know why they pretend yeah this is a problem he’s talking about himself by
The way he’s talking about himself no I believe he’s speaking about men generally I actually do I think this is something that men feel commonly no I think it applies to man generally I agree with you but I think he’s talking about himself agree I always wonder why some people
Like can’t just say I like why does it always have to be we or like the men or the women or women do this or men do that like why does is it hard for and I talk about this all the time like on my social media and stuff
Because I notice a lot of times when people respond to things they’ll be like men do this we do that and it’s like why can’t you just say this is what you do not saying that you know some people don’t also fit that category but I just think it speaks to a bigger
Um I don’t want to say issue but something to be noted when you can’t say like I do this I am the one who is like this like when you say when you have to like have people behind you like men do this or women do this instead of I do
This because they know what they’re saying is foul so they need to qualify with stuff um everybody does it come on we all do this come on they know as soon as you start talking about pineapple on pizza and you start come on everybody does it no we don’t you know exactly
What you’re doing you like pineapple and pizza huh I like them both but they don’t go together but yeah just say it but you know you know you’ll be judged so you start talking more people do that they start talking more when they know that they’re going to be judged
Yeah I eat uh I eat pickles and ketchup on my ice cream I mean it’s just like a craving I get sometimes I mean look it’s it just happens like it’s not like I do it a lot I mean what’s wrong with they just keep talking um and keep qualifying
It more and more and that’s what I believe he’s doing you know like when they have their wives and sometimes we just fall victim to our urges and we step out but we come back and you know we fall back in line but some men you know me like I’m not
Fighting no urges this is just who I am you what urges what is he talking about this man said like for me I am not fighting please remember to like the video I would like to have at least 700 likes thank you very much it’s very helpful for
Us so we don’t have to fight urges he’s said I’m not fighting no urge remember he just said please remember he literally just said he no longer cheats that was him in the past now he says every man have the urge and they have to fight the urge every
Man have the urge to step out however he’s not fighting no urge so you have the urge you’re not fighting it but also previously you you don’t cheat anymore let them talk 2024 some people just gota accept them I accept me for who I am I know what I
Want and that’s what I’m going for so do you think that marriages should end because of cheating no for what why would you leave this man because he cheated she never specif spe ified she never specified she said should marriages and because of cheating his response is no
Why would you leave the man for cheating because it’s bad the other way obviously I’ve seen them describe cheating when a woman does it and they talk about irreversibly damaging the loyalty and how could you betray me I’ve seen I’m not about to sit here and pretend like this man is stupid and
Don’t know nothing I guarantee if if she asked specifically would you stay if a woman cheated his answer would change well she’s gonna ask right because she can’t let that go she can’t if she let if she doesn’t ask this then I’m never watching her again so there’s
That no because the convers the conversation has been way too shallow that is too easy a question for you not to I see the smart I never I hope she asked I mean we are over time now so let’s we’re here to build a family and a
Legacy what is cheating I’m committed to you what if she cheats is that different it is very different but I’m not saying that this man is so we’re here to build a Legacy what Legacy the Legacy forget that Legacy if you cheat but please stay beside me this
The Legacy Nick Canon was talking about I’m here to build a legacy got it he gonna catch himself and correct it I I hope he likes nonblack preferences cuz no this man has been talking about black love this whole time so here’s here’s the you should divorce it because she
Cheated it depends on how she cheats and how frequently she cheats maybe she [ __ ] up one time but um I don’t I wouldn’t disqualify a woman um or leave her just CU well let not say that you would I don’t think women should cheat it’s not even a it’s not even in
Women God his brain can’t even take that his brain can’t even process women cheating let me play cuz it’s too long to want to do that [ __ ] so if a girl told you like yeah when I was in college I cheated on my college boyfriend that disqualifies her for you like You’ be
Like no I’m good on you he was a lame so that doesn’t disqualify her then no you a cheat on me okay [ __ ] no but if you cheat on me while we in a relationship or I can’t even think about somebody entering my my woman and then you probably sucked his
Dick and then you know we all we always want to say this like you know women cheat why heing man yeah man stop thinking about that woman being turned Every Which Way but Loose by another man and start thinking about your legacy I can’t believe he would leave his woman just
Because she cheated a little bit like it’s literally a urge women have all women have it they just fight it and he’s trying to make women fight their natural urge and because he don’t want to think about the legacy of the family he’s being selfish by leaving that woman
If she cheats I can’t believe him my woman man take cheating personally equal there is trash girl they’re like I think the part of the reason is that they think you’re their property like they have sex off emotions and guys don’t but it is true and to and now and in the day
In the the day that we’re in now women can um have sex with less emotion they could just [ __ ] because a lot of women are just having two or three [ __ ] at a time and rotating having [ __ ] in rotation women can do that now and it’s like you you like kind
Of like suppressing like your femininity that’s not even feminine to do [ __ ] like that that’s like some masculine [ __ ] just to have a [ __ ] circle of [ __ ] and be [ __ ] what the [ __ ] you looking like that for I’m just thinking oh okay pause it but is my next question is is he
Masculine or feminine does he have a circle of men anyway you can continue he just said didn’t he just ask her cuz I heard him curse at her just now you don’t have to play it back for me maybe I I missed it I’m wrong all I
Heard was having men around is a masculine so uh you cheat back they slide down no this is why I hate when women are like oh my God thank you wake up I I’m so feminine I’m so feminine I’m so feminine and I’m like girl stop trying to qualify
Your femininity because as soon as you as soon as they get a chance to tell you’re masculine and they know it hurts they’re going to do it and when they do it you’re going to be out there being defensive talking it’s not even feminine to want to sleep around it is feminine
Now and what about it just having two or three [ __ ] at a time and rotating having [ __ ] in rotation women can do that now and it’s like you you like kind of like suppressing like your femininity that’s not even feminine to do [ __ ] like that that’s like some masculine [ __ ] just to
Have a [ __ ] circle of [ __ ] and be [ __ ] what the [ __ ] you looking like that for I’m just thinking yeah you heard that now right when he said what the f word let me play it again he definitely cursed at her it’s true and to and now in the day
In the the day that we’re in now women can um have sex with less emotion they could just [ __ ] because a lot of women are just having two or three [ __ ] at a time and rotating having [ __ ] in rotation women could do that now and it’s like you you like kind
Of like suppressing like your femininity that’s not even feminine to do [ __ ] like that that’s like some masculine [ __ ] just to have a [ __ ] circle of [ __ ] and be [ __ ] what the [ __ ] you looking like that for I’m just thinking oh okay oh yeah he
Did what the f you looking like that for I would have been looking like that the whole interview what are you talking about listen to yourself ask me that question I was told I sound like Barry White in the fifth grade calling me masculine would do nothing good not good
That you sound but like why are you talking to someone like that first and foremost that you’re like flirting with and second like are you that insecure she looking at you pissed or mad or whatever she’s like annoyed or disgusted by you why are you cursing at
Her like why is your ego a problem so he lied when he said he correct people in private oh true that that’s also a lie when his ego is hurt he do it publicly yeah his ego is hurt cuz he was flirting all the way up until
She said why name one reason why you’re a marriageable man now he’s upset all of a sudden he’s turning aggressive oh that’s what I should start we F how do I say fa we fa start a husband School teach people how to get swallowed but it’s it’s not normal for a
Woman to want to have multiple guys and I’m not going to say that I think all people should be [ __ ] free let me just say that people should just be free as [ __ ] possible this man stand on nothing this man literally stands on this man stands on absolutely nothing
He created a whole scene with a circle of men’s what so to be clear you a you Che on him once what so what does he teach other men in his thing what does he teach them he don’t he don’t even know his own [Laughter] position teach somebody what I’m sick of
People who haven’t thought out anything teaching others I’m just how are you not like I am sure I I hope this is not true but I’m sure if you look deep enough in my live streams you can find a contradiction somewhere in my Evolution but this is literally not
Even like he’s not even able to hold one position consistently huh his position is very consistent women should sleep around but they shouldn’t and it’s feminine but it’s masculine but if they don’t they’re fighting their urges but if they’re not it’s something he can fight but he’s not
Fighting it because he cheated in the past but he don’t cheat now but he does I don’t know what part of his position is unclear about that you right py I apologize I should have let me Celestial um you’re right let me let him cook real quick [ __ ] that
But me I just don’t want that it’s certain things that I just don’t want in my life and I don’t want that do you think that a man that makes under a certain amount of money shouldn’t get married cuz I feel like a lot of times
When we talk about an insecure man and a man that can’t handle a 10 out of 10 you know his ego’s hurt it’s really it really be about y’ money y’all money be [ __ ] up and you kind of feel like damn like she’s doing better than me she’s
Doing more than me she really don’t need me you feel like a lot of that comes from the money well I would say this marriage is a a business transaction uh that’s how it started off it started off for business not love whoever came up with the [ __ ] was was for business business
Um so looking at it that way if you don’t have any money if you ain’t got [ __ ] going on then no you shouldn’t be thinking about another person you can’t even how can you even focus on self how can you even level yourself up if you know you have to worry about another
Person now granted if the right person come your life they can help you get to a certain level you can always help each other but I’ve always beli that do you remember what that question was uh should um broke people should broke men be seeking a relationship or
Marriage I guess and what was his answer no marriage is a business transaction so they shouldn’t is that his so I feel like you just made that out that’s what that’s the vibe I got yeah I think he said I think he said no because they shouldn’t be thinking
About another person or something like that I’m a whe un come again whe unome again selector and that way if you don’t have any money if you ain’t got [ __ ] going on then no you shouldn’t be thinking about another person you can’t even how can
You even focus on self how can you even level yourself up if you know you have to worry about another person now granted if the right person come your life they can help you get to a certain level you can always help each other but I’ve always believed that men that are
Financially struggling don’t deserve marriage just like I feel like people who are financially struggling don’t deserve children well what about the woman though if I’m if I’m financially stable what the and this is how you know he don’t stand on anything you should just agree
With her based on this is why I came back again because I just wanted to make sure because I know her position on there I already heard her position on other streams so like he just agreed with her right that’s what he said that they shouldn’t
Right why is he pushing back right now he feels hurt hit dog something I don’t know what about women does the woman have to bring woman doesn’t bring money that’s not her place I’m just asking what does she bring she brings whatever you want her to bring but it’s it’s not
Going to be money you know why you married her you probably married her for her looks you married her because you want children so she only married me because my money probably you just said it’s a business transaction it is yeah so that’s you know that’s what it is
That’s what I think but how you think you think it’s a business transaction um how are you mad now how how are you mad how are you she like he cornered himself a poor thing all of all of a sudden that stuff he said about a woman and all women
Trying to be men and doing a man’s place and that’s not feminine that’s masculine now all of a sudden that she’s like oh well the man should pay and the woman should just be pretty now all of a sudden well what is she bring well how come nothing you wanted nothing you said
It was her beauty now she’s the beauty what is your pro why why are you mad you said it you said it let me be talk calmly you said it sorry I think it’s transactional I wouldn’t say business transaction but um I do know that you know like you said it
Did start off as you know whoever could take care of me and my family or you know they used to marry their daughters off to for peace treaties and [ __ ] like that so yeah it it was always a business transaction I think it’s still transactional but I wouldn’t say it’s so
Much business because people marry for love now could you marry someone that that wasn’t financially stable no I don’t think that you should even be dating when you’re not financially stable yeah you know you got to focus on yourself first what are you marrying For Love or being stable I’m marrying for
Love but it got to make sense if he was a bread winner living isn’t free if he was a bread winner and he wasn’t would you still yeah I’m most likely going to marry somebody that makes less money than me because the podcast is going to go off soon so I’m
Most likely going to be making more money than my husband I need a life partner I need life Partners mhm Partners you said partners this time I said I need life partner oh good for you look at you leveling up the last 30 minutes no no no that’s not what
I meant I I said partner in that moment okay okay then why did you correct her like why did you I don’t let’s hurry up and get it too I’m not I’m not doing this yeah well you know too bad for Tiana and Iman too bad
For Kiki and Darius who too Kiki and her baby father Kiki Kiki Palmer Kiki yeah I don’t know much about that story either I just know about Usher and you know it’s actually a really similar story um she’s a bigger celebrity than he is he felt emasculated and he took it out on
Her she tried him you don’t know that we seen it yeah but that was by then he was already putting his hands on there though by then so before she before she did that he was beating her up yeah well that’s her fault why is she
With the man is beating her I mean why is she with what is he teaching men again in his course this man has access to um I assume a large audience I don’t know his size I don’t know who he is but I assume a lot of men and he’s teaching them
What nothing absolutely nothing it’s her fault if she’s getting abused because she chose to be within abuser that is his take that’s the take of every man who comes on her podcast every man that’s the take of the last man who was talking about you control whether or not I have
Sex um whether or not I wear a condom it’s your fault whether or not there’s a pregnancy it’s your fault as the woman whether or not uh I’m not raising the child it’s your fault that’s what every man does anything anything ever that happens bad is the woman’s fault always
Even if he does it he has no control she she should have left or done something else it does feel like even the most mundane seemingly interviews that have no substance or meaning if you listen to it well enough and an analiz enough it gets down to like being degenerate and like
I’m I’m obviously concerned but like this has to be representative now of like a larger societal problem with these people cuz this kind just be like even the good guys when they come and they’re talking it feels like they also defending but he’s not the good guy right but like
Even if we think about the good guys there’s never a kind of there is never a kind of rejection of the bad man it’s always like diminishing it putting it off and not engaging with it and then you hear these men who are like in my mind bad
Men but they don’t see themselves as bad they see themselves as teachers to help men be better and they are the better that the men is going to be that they want to teach and it’s like so you don’t see how your problem they said he has
220 a period so he’s training men got it got it got it got it I think I’m done I think this is this is where we we close it um any final thoughts sorry for keeping y’all on so long I apologize that’s okay right let’s go in the after show
Then thank you all for being here bye close your Ears Remember to like the video what is your take um anyone before we go say good night any any final thoughts it doesn’t have to be about these ID these people um I think in any scenario no matter who the perpetrator victim or whatever have you is wherever there’s a
Need for account accountability I think men are going to find a way to excuse other men of that accountability um and pin the blame on the woman and make it her fault whether he’s putting her hands on her even um Jonathan Majors a lot of people are apparently feeling like she
Was the actual um abuser in that relationship that white woman and do you hear them saying Oh Jonathan major should have uh he should have it’s his fault he should have just left no you do hear people saying he should have left and been with a black woman for
Disgusting reasons but not because they’re trying to place accountability on him uh because they’re trying to excuse him from any they’re placing it on the woman in that scenario if they think that she was abusive rightfully so um if she was abusive right but so it’s
I’m only saying that to say it feels like men generally understand the idea of someone being held accountable and in scenarios where the man is the victim they’re not going to victim blame in the way that they are doing like he just did just now um so it just feels like in whatever
Scenario men are always going to find a way to escape accountability whether that be the man on her other show saying well if I don’t put a condom on it’s your fault for not making me as if he’s a child whether it’s this man saying that um he doesn’t know anything he doesn’t
Know why marriage is a thing why is monogamy a thing why are relationships a thing he switches his position every two seconds but he has a platform teaching other men um or him saying that uh yeah if you’re if uh Kiki Palmer it’s her fault cuz she should have left so I
Think this is very consistent with how I’ve seen men uh be generally when it comes to other men needing to be held accountable they’re going to find a way to make the woman’s fault do you think this is the minority or the majority uh the majority how much majority would you
Say I’m not expecting you to know but I’m just trying to see what where where your head is oh maybe like 97% I would need to look at uh some research I’ve looked into previously to give a more accurate number but I think it’s a large majority
Um I don’t think everyone is like overtly outwardly abusive but I do think everyone uh specifically most men have some uh harmful ideas um and I’m speaking about that stud regarding men who were asked if they had ever um raped someone and they said no but when they were asked have
You ever done actions that would constitute as rap they all agreed and some people just flat out said yes they do um so I think uh most men would say they don’t but they do yeah no why are y’all calling Kyle’s name up in this chat
Y GNA leave Kyle alone Kyle is trying Kyle is trying um okay um don’t forget anyone if you have connections to Dr Umar we’re trying to get show so you know and themus don’t forget to text me his number oh I’m I’m gonna have to go look it up imagine if we had
We could get so many questions answered from no I mean like of things we have questions about like that thing you were talking about earlier with his position on um kids being identified with ADHD true true true true I need to ask him about that all right I actually want
To do a poll about Kyle but I’m going leave that alone cuz I don’t want I actually think I already know yall’s answer so I’m going leave that Al drop a one if you think Kyle is a good Man there’s no other option I want to see something real quick before I go all right production inquiry so there are some people here who thinks he’s a good man all right good um there’s one more good [Laughter] all right I’mma ask K to come back on here to redeem
Himself I’mma ask do yall want to have a um yall want to have a I’m gonna ask he probably will say no um someone said I pick down wait wait wait wait wait wait someone else said one so there’s a couple ones do y’all want to have a um a
Podcast with Kyle one just one I don’t know who that is oh you don’t know do you know who that is buy uh yeah all right there’s a couple of Wands someone said they’ll pick Stan over Kyle this is weird I feel like you’re just saying things to say
Things all right drop a one if you would pick Stan and drop a two if you will pick Kyle you can only pick oh right there a there’s a bunch of ones team is trolling us I’m not trolling drop his voice is annoying he sounds white stop saying people s white it’s
2024 drop a one for Stan and a two for Kyle all right there’s more Kyle then Stan all right cuz y Stan with out here running around let me St let me go find out from the Discord y’all play too much um separately drop a
One for um orange bill and a two for Kyle a one for orange bill and a two Kyle one for orange bill two for Kyle haven’t seen stand in a while does he still wear the bicycle helmet yeah he’s still delivering I think that’s good everyone is like no do Chris do
Chris no I’m not going to do Chris y’all loved Chris so we’re not doing that all right so if y’all want orange pill over K that is weird that is wild that is the no I’m not doing Chris versus scy y’all try it y’all want the e easy out no no
All right well good night it sounds like y’all still don’t know how to vet if y’all are picking orange pill and Stan over K I’mma go ahead and say y’all don’t know how event let me go and talk to the um Discord now because that don’t make sense that does not make
Sense let me see this Stan greater than Kyle Kyle let’s no absolutely not all right crappy choices Demus now y said we need to learn to vet and it seems like y’all don’t know how to vet so all right bye everyone I’m gonna go talk to the Discord because this don’t make
Sense I am blaming the womens y’all don’t know how to that it’s the same thing because Jonathan told y’all to sit in front of the the the Medical School get man y’all said y’all don’t like Jonathan but Jonathan was trying to help you team orange period bye everyone have a good night
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