Yesterday I made a post about women outpacing men graduating from college and then a thought popped into my mind and I made a post on my community post on YouTube if you’re not following me on YouTube I’m bbon Bouie over there we have a wonderful Community a bunch of different conversations popping up
Anyway I said mamas with teen daughters teach your girls who are headed off to college to not do any boys homework many of these boys are graduating or passing their classes because of girls let them boys hold their own and girls and women need to learn to pour their time and
Energy into themselves not them boys and young men well this post got a lot of comments make these young men hold their own nuts let them do their own work get their own grades fail or succeed on their own these dudes too nobody do no one’s homework do your
Own ACC to yourself at first I just had this conversation going on over on my page but this woman says I think you should upload a video if you have the time and are willing I’m reading the comments and there are women who have no idea what you mean also for fraternities
There is a such thing called sweethearts these young women also do homework or projects etc for pledges while simultaneously doing their own imagine doing the work of two but only getting one one degree I think the F not and here’s a story of my own this guy I knew
For basically the entire duration of his of undergrad wanted help with his biology class we never left the talking phase so he never took me on any date ever he called for help I told him to do it himself he was upset I laughed he was
Upset for a long time I didn’t care I asked him about the class after the semester was over he told me he received a beat in the class I told them good job you see they know how to do the work but they don’t want to do the work ladies
Allow the word no to flow from your divine feminine and I mean to flow from you divine feminine and friendly doing his work will never equate to a soft life now for some of the other comments I’m going to get to as many as I can in this 10-minute video this person says
Also tell them not to J job hunt and do other reses for them either because most of these men only have employment because of someone’s daughter um that did all of the job hunting networking prep workking interview coaching and wardrobe check and he just showed up for
The interview the thing is when he gets the job he’s going to invest all of her hard work into another woman there will be no building of bears in 2024 absolutely not let them hold their own NES also don’t turn into their Maids the times I used to see them come through
And cook and clean and do La only to be ragged on shameful absolutely do not give these people so much energy just don’t do it they don’t appreciate it and this is where they learn to be parasites they learn to mine women for their resources because they have already been
Doing it for a while this person says as a professor The Gents often share stories of how they have girls who cook meals for them and they eat for free and then this person follows with a comment and a place a free place to stay my
Friend was letting her man stay in her dorm cuz he didn’t want to pay for his anymore she was also doing his laundry his homework and paying for all his food because he didn’t want to get a meal planned guess what the relationship only lasted seven months because he cheated
With his ex who obviously wasn’t doing um any of this my friend was doing um I tried telling her to stop doing wifey things for a boyfriend but she didn’t want to listen this woman saysi was that girl in college and yes I’m embarrassed my daughters are on another boat though
They wouldn’t even think of doing no stupid crap like that I am proud of them and yes have changed my ways this person says and stop excluding them from doing heavy lifting during um group projects make them earn the same grade you get this person says because the same men
They are helping work their work will will and are complaining that women are only going into easy degrees the nerve of them this person says along that line don’t cover for anyone man or woman who commits plagiarism or doesn’t do their share of grp projects you’re helping your future competitors for jobs get
Degrees that they didn’t earn also we are working to close the pay Gap if y’all let these men hold their own nuts then they will get the job that they have earned or deserve stop doing the work for them only for them to make more money than women this person says tell
Them to also be aware of older men who hang around looking to use them the ones who tell them they’re mature for their age and different from other young ladies to sway them another don’t do their laundry either they will ask ladies don’t do men’s laundry laundry
Sucks enough don’t do their laundry make them do their own life this person says I don’t have teenagers but I’ll be sure to add this to the talk I give my niece she’s focused on her education and future I’m grateful for that we talked for hours about her future and goals and
Her talents shoot I hope she doesn’t do these things mentioned so far she’s not worried about boys and dating she wants that money first I have faith in the future generation of women um Shain queen says I was the kid who did people’s work but I charged them $5 per
Page I was the Hustler of my school always capitalizing on these boys weaknesses if you are going to do some work tax them tax them and this person says and don’t become a fraternity little sister don’t do it they’re just looking to use girls this person said I’d also
Encourage them not to follow their boyfriends or a girl I’m sorry or a boy to college I thought it was foolish to go to the same University because of a boy don’t change your major to his or join his activities unless you have a true interest let them grow up and have
Your own identity also don’t wait on them to eat meet you at XYZ place or just have fun this is how you begin to set boundaries and truly care for yourself it’ll save you a lot of headaches and heartache to establish that now all right there we go this
Person says I’m so here for this because I was one of those girls to my defense I did get paid not much but I didn’t always do it for free um this person says yep I remember talking to this girl in study hall who was doing her boyfriend’s homework I couldn’t it it
Could not um she said I don’t like um doing my own homework much less write someone else’s essay without compensation absolutely this person says right and matter of fact don’t get into a relationship dating in college is ghetto when both of y’all are broke have
Fun get a job or start a business get your work done get your passport because many colleges will get um you your passport for free travel Exchange program summer internships and do not work for free keep the volunteer work at a minimum and this person says I would start
Telling your daughters this in preschool you’d be surprised how early girls start doing little boys work I know I was I’m telling you guys there was a lot of comments a lot of good comments a lot of things to tell your daughters to prep them for these young pest these young
Parasites who will try to mine them for their resources don’t let your daughters get used tell them early so that they can be prepared for what’s to come okay I I’m just going to finish with this one yes and this goes for their brothers too it’s not their responsibility to make sure their
Brothers passed his classes protect your daughters allow her to flourish this person says this is so real I’m an academic commissioner I make money from doing other people’s schoolwork and I notice that almost all of my clients are male at least she’s getting paid this person said in high school too don’t do
Boys homework um okay we let’s just not do people’s work period pour that same energy into yourself allow yourself to thrive because you are doing things for you and start this early so that you don’t become um older and stay becoming a stay being a martyr and a servant for
Somebody else start this early start talking to your daughters early talk to your niece your little cousin the Barista somebody tell somebody share this video with somebody we’re we’re changing things we’re changing things y’all jump in the comments don’t forget to like comment and share and if you’re not following me
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