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So from the title you can tell this is going to be one of my greek videos and and i was just thinking about how it’s 2021 we have members who came in during 2020 2021 who might not have had the um normal experience that people get when they’re becoming greek but internally
You might have had this or you might be having this interaction and so you might be like what interaction well it’s basically things you can expect from your family like people who aren’t greek who aren’t um well read on how it works things like that you know the little nuances and stuff
So yeah i’m gonna just share some of this info with you whether you are just you know freshly minted you just got out here or if you are planning on becoming a member or if you’re going through the process of being a member i just wanted to share some info
So yeah um i’m gonna just give you about i don’t know maybe five for the founders you know and just give you some advice about what you can look forward to it might happen it might not happen but you know what i’m saying we just going to put this out here because um
I’m sure old heads then probably been through this too you know what let me clear this up real fast people begin to twist it 20 plus years is old head status let’s stop normalizing saying oh because you’ve been off the yard for five years you’re an old head
No you’re not boo no no no no you ain’t even lightly salted let’s let’s give the old heads they props 20 plus years you’re overhead anything under 20 years you steal fresh let’s just call it what it is let’s get through this video and i’ma start with the first one right now
Okay so this is the thing that i’ve been hearing for years even before i became a member joining that organization it’s a cult it’s demonic it goes against everything that’s christ and i’m like no it’s really not so if you know people are gonna get that assumption because you dress alike you
Do things the same you follow certain things you have rituals blah blah blah blah it is what it is but when you’re on the outside you might see it differently because they’re like why is all this stuff going on and that’s the beauty of being a member
Once you become a member you understand why it’s going on you get a better um you get a first-hand experience of why things look different to people who are on the outside because guess what it’s supposed to they’re not members so you might have family members and
Friends come up to you and be like um yeah is you worshiping the devil what are y’all doing y’all cutting up animals i hope ain’t nobody cutting up no animals i’m gonna say that right now because i don’t want peter coming after me another
I ain’t with that i’m a dog mom too so yeah but anywho you might hear that from people that are close to you number two you acting funny why you doing all this you weren’t doing that before you got them letters and you know what it’s so funny like
Some people do get stuck in a greek matrix and they actually do start acting funny like funny funny like head up in a class just no stuck up funny and i’m like yeah like i don’t even know how we get there but some people do and it is what it is
But if you act funny most of the time people are going to call you out sometimes you’re not even acting funny and people just jealous of what’s going on because they don’t understand and you might not be including them in some of the things that you’re doing now because now you have different
Group of people that you hang out with you know and they just think you acting funny when really you’re being who you are you’re just doing things with different people other than them so you can expect this to happen too oh this this is my favorite one this is my
Top one number three um they not your real family that ain’t your sorrow that ain’t your frat oh wait that is your sorrow that is your friend but they might not be your family that’s what people be like they not your real family i’m your blood so this one we doing
How did we get here like allow people to be new like let them figure out this organization they just joined sheesh like everything ain’t about you i ain’t talking about you new members i’m talking about the people y’all interact with because they just want to take away from your
Neo-ness like be a new member interact with older members with newer members with younger members with you know different generations different organizations be out like enjoy yourself but don’t allow someone to tell you they’re not your family because guess what they don’t dictate the relationships that you’re going to be with these people
So i have family members people that i consider family members who are in different organizations because we’ve built those relationships over the years like i don’t look at them as a person in a d9 or look at them as my sister or my brother and when i need something i
Know i can go to them and that’s basically what it is a family number four why are you being so secretive what you think i want y’all secrets yes because you all up in the business you upset because they a new member chill out like let them enjoy their
Organization and stop coming at people like some and some of the times it don’t even be them that’s changed it’d be y’all that’s upset because now they’re doing something that you’re not a part of and they don’t understand it so they don’t get to share in on that piece of
Your life and that’s not something that you should have to feel bad about that’s something they need to know how to deal with if you ain’t treating them no different you’ve been doing the same thing you’ve been doing and they just noticing you doing some things without them that’s on them
And at the end of the day if they were interested in what you were doing in that organization they would have tried to join themselves so don’t feel bad about being new getting around people who are in your organization knowing them stuff like that because that’s
The purpose that’s how we get to build those relationships oh now this last one is one of my favorite ones too um why are you paying for friends huh i’m not paying for friends i’m in a social service organization that has dues attached to it so i’m paying my dues to the organization
That i joined what is the problem if it ain’t coming out of your pocket why we talking about this like i don’t even understand like how am i paying for friends this is something i want to do it’s the same as any other organizations that you join that there’s a membership
Fee included to it i mean hell that’s just like saying you got a membership with netflix what i’m gonna tell you oh um i think you paying for a day friendship no that’s dumb like it makes no sense to me when people attach a friendship to a amount of money for
What is required of membership like why are you so upset and it’s like at the end of the day sometimes it boils down to people are just jealous and they don’t know how to not be jealous because they see you’re doing something different and you’re not bringing them with you
That’s basically what it boils down to you’re enjoying a different part of your life that they cannot join in on because they are not a member so now you’re paying for friends because you’re doing what you’re supposed to do as a member but they wouldn’t understand that because they’re on the outside
So that is one of the things that you’re also going to have to hear people say sometimes who are on the outside looking in and it’s really not like that i get so much out of my membership and i tell any of you new members newer members especially those that came
Through doing covet it’s a wonderful life like joining zeta was one of the best decisions i’ve made in my life and i’m so glad that they welcomed me with open arms and they invited me to become a member because i work and yes i do pay i pay to play so
If you ain’t in my organization i’m not explaining nothing to you about what i do and how the inner workings go because guess what that’s reserved for members but as far as me paying for friends no i think you need to check your emotions and learn how to have an adult
Conversation about how you’re feeling because it’s not fair to that new person but if you knew be happy yo no as i always say you only a neo once live it up get it in forget all of these folks but just know that any of these five things i talked about
You might run across them as you go through your journey as a member thank you for watching and i hope to see you next time in my next video y’all be safe
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