What it do what it do people come on in it is Monday night it is 10:15 we’re about 16 minutes behind just a few technical difficulties getting prepared few meetings ran over but we are here and we are ready to rock and roll we have people already waiting in the chat
Waiting in the wing so every that was waiting thank y’all so much for your consistency thank you so much for your diligence we are about to get started what it do what it do it’s good to see everybody my name is Brian meows and I want to welcome you to another episode
Of spiritual therapy the only podcast that discuss spiritual things spiritual discipleship try to explain some cultural events some current events from a spiritual perspective try to disciple try to impart uh try to deal with some of the Kingdom’s Best Kept Secrets some doctrin some theology try to bring all
Of that together so that the believer is well-rounded and you can face everything that life uh offers you look I’m so excited about tonight it is Monday I feel like uh we were here last week but I was a little bit under the weather we weren’t here the week before that I was
In California so it’s been a little choppy it’s been a little inconsistent but we’re really trying to build up our consistency we’re really trying to build up our community so every single Monday night we want you to join us at 10 pm 10:10 10:15 something around that time
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Tonight is gonna be awesome last week we started you know a a little bit of a teaching called beast mode or going beast mode and talking about just going to your highest level of productivity your highest level of creativity your highest level of execution we going to
Get to that we’re going to do a part two um and the part two tonight is called why they don’t respect you all right I want to talk about why they don’t respect you how important is respect there are some people that feel like respect is more important than love
There are some people that feel like respect is more important than communication than intimacy but how how high is respect on your list of priorities there are some people they want people to respect them there other people that really don’t care but I want to talk about why people make not
Respect you why people may not recognize your Authority why people may not submit why people may not acques why people may not listen to you we’re going to talk about that and a little bit more but before we do that do me a favor go ahead and subscribe go ahead and find out
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First time ever being able to go live on Instagram for Spiritual therapy but we may make this a thing because Facebook’s getting kind of played out it ain’t number older people I want to say that it ain’t older people on Facebook I got my Facebook community and uh I don’t
Want to I I don’t want to do them like that but um we’re always every single Monday at 10 pm. we go live on Facebook on YouTube we’ve been doing that for over a year um and those communities are growing but I’ve always wanted to go live on Instagram so people on Instagram
Could get spiritual therapy as well we may not be live the entire time I don’t know how long Instagram is going to allow us to be live but now that I can go live on Instagram again hear me y’all going to get sick y you going to be sick
Of me all right you going to be sick of me as a matter of fact I want y’all to see this real real quick cuz I’m so excited about what the Lord is doing um if you’re looking at your screen I need y’all to understand that tickets are now available all right do
Y’all hear me tickets are now we can clap for that clap it up for that I don’t know if you know but I am doing something uh so different so unique it’s going to be immersive imaginative is going to be interactive and I want you to be my
Special guest May the 24th all right May the 24th right here in Atlanta Georgia I need y’all to be in the building tickets are available right now all right go to Destiny experience the destiny experience.com go to the destiny experience.org go to the destiny experience. world and I need you to get
Your ticket people keep asking me oh what is it right everybody keep asking me what is it like um is it a play is it a musical uh is it theater is it teaching guess what it’s all of that all right we’re taking uh the linear form of of worship the prophetic entertainment
Theatrics teaching we’re taking the linear form out of that and we’re giving it to you in one immersive experience that I think is going to be absolutely crazy and I want you to be a part of it I want you to be there it’s going to be
The inaugural event I just want you to be there to see it succeed see it it flop see it you know see whatever it’s going to be I just want you to be in the room all right just be in the room um I start thinking about I wanted to do this
When I came out with the book I wanted to do this uh when I already had like you know a tour going all this different kind of stuff and then the Lord was just like look just go ahead and do it do it now the the faster you do it the faster
You can fail all right and the faster you can fail the faster you can learn and the faster you can learn the faster you can grow and the faster you can grow the faster you can accomplish your assignment execute at a high level but most people are too afraid to grow
They’re too afraid to fail they’re too afraid to start they’re too afraid to try and whenever you try something new you going to look a little bit new you’re gonna look a little bit you know uh uh wet wet behind the ears you’re gonna look like you don’t know what
You’re doing you’re going to look like a novice and most people don’t want to look like they don’t know what they’re doing but it takes that stage It Takes The Stumbling stage it takes the crawling stage in order for you to eventually walk and then run so May 24th
2024 we got couple of months all right just I was on phone calls all day in meetings all day preparing for May the 24th it is going to be epic are y’all listening it is going to be epic and I want you to be there in the building for
It but anyway it’s good to see everybody thank you all so much for being on I want to welcome you to spiritual therapy every single Monday night at 10 pm y’all uh we go live we get on the couch and we start discussing hot topics current
Events uh in just life but from a spiritual perspective hoping to add a level of discipleship and practicality behind your Christianity and we got some folus on the couch that we want to introduce y’all to uh who’s on the couch today we got Lance and we got Jeff what
Y doing how y’all feeling great um that camera is not hooked up apparently because all I see is black right now all I see is black I don’t think it doesn’t look like there’s a HDMI cord in that camera Jesus help us my God in heaven well we gonna let
Them do that thing get set up I got to go to the couch CU I gotta let y’all know who’s rocking with me tonight who’s talking with me tonight but even if we don’t get to the couch we got a room full of hungry excited people yeah we got Jasmine we got is
Daniel here we got Jasmine we got Daniel we got Matt we got Fuller we got a marriage Retreat going on in here all right um so uh it’s so good to have them in the building and I think are we ready for the couch we ready for the couch and
We got the couch go ahead go to the couch and we got the couch we got Lance on the couch we got Jeff on the couch y’all tell us how y’all doing how your day being tell us what’s going on with you great feeling really great uh we had
A shoot for for Sons only earlier which was pretty cool um did some work today and got a chance to relax I was your day day was great uh worked um like you said for son’s only photo shoot and uh really got to be productive today today was
Like a very productive for real what did you do like I said work and then the photo shoot it was like it just I just felt like I don’t know I just feel like super productive today how many goals did you have huh how many goals did you
Have for today I ain’t gonna lie I only had two goals and that was to work you know and and uh do this photo shoot hey you know not that many goals don’t take you that long to get it done you feel productive no for real um I have a I
Have a a thing that I’m studying right now so I do this teaching on sacred liquids you’ve heard that teaching but there’s um certain liquids that the brain secretes from uh endorphine endorphins to dopamine to serotonin and all the this different kind of stuff so I’m doing a study on the different
Chemicals that the body uh releases and whenever you accomplish a goal a little bit of dopamine is released you know that feeling of excitement a little bit of adrenaline is released and there’s different types of adrenaline so whenever you accomplish a goal it actually strengthens you it gives you
More inspiration or it inspires you and strengthens you to accomplish more goals but if you don’t accomplish a goal it literally secretes another liquid which makes you feel depressed which makes you not want to do anything so the more you do what you need to do the more you have
Energy and strength to do what need to do but the less you do what you need to do the less you’ll find energy and strength to do what you need to do so uh even if you set one goal two goals whatever as long as you meet those goals
You gonna feel strength and you’re gonna continue to grow You Gonna Be Inspired so that’s 100% that’s dope um I know tonight y’all had internship but it was online yeah we just had to turn in uh our work our teacher Professor right like what do you even call him professor
Minister Tim right he’s so he gave us uh like some online stuff to do so we knocked that all um and then Wednesday we don’t have class either so you know it’s just like space to just get all the work done you need to get done and go
From there this week is a historic week all right it’s a historic week number one y’all ain’t got class tonight y’all ain’t got class wednesday for y’all that don’t know you can go to the couch I just want people to see them those two men that are on the couch are in our
Internship they are now being uh developed and trained they are in a process and program uh to be licensed and ordained and so they’re going through biblical training and all of that different kind of stuff and so that’s what they’re talking about when they’re talking about the internship and
Their uh their online work and stuff like that so super proud of them and not just them we have a host of young people in our church a a host of young adults uh that are on fire for God super passionate that also are part of the internship and other Developmental and
Other discipleship programs so uh they have a lot on their plate they serve they work they got class all the different kind of stuff uh but it’s a historic week because uh not only do we have that we getting ready to go to New
Jersey on so we fly into pH we fly into we fly you good man you good it’s a long day we killing right now you in the flow you good I’m about say Philly I don’t know what I about to say that’s crazy but we fly into Philly though yeah and
Then we drive into it’s like a 20- minute drive to New Jersey what is the okay so before I ask about the weather and all that for y’all that don’t know uh Jeff who’s on the couch he’s the ugly the ugly one uh Jeff he’s he’s the Lurch looking one he’s the
Big one he’s the big one all right uh but uh the one with the black uh La hat on that’s uh Jeff and his dad is a pastor he’s a PK so you know what that means what does that mean they that’s what they say PKS are
The worst ones man that’s what they say that’s not that’s like not all the way true we got a bad rap but it’s like we really be chilling man y’all got a bad rap y’all got a bad rap I mean because most PKS don’t like church most PKS
Can’t stand Ministry most PKS can’t stand God’s people because they done seen God’s people do crazy stuff to their parents and CZ out their parents and all the different kind of stuff as a PK huh here we [Laughter] go you see in person camera does a lot all right different from Faceook and
People look different when you look at them from C angles when you look at him up that’s crazy it’s just dang all right that is crazy you got to balance out you got to balance it out everybody always say he’s handsome so you got to balance out you gotta give them some heat
Sometimes all right and you got to remind them of their deficiencies that’s how you control pretty people right you gota always remind them you and never I just thinking we together the other day and your eyes crossed like four times or something like that cuz I
Wasing no no no when he had some I don’t know when he get comfortable or something like that his eyes crossed or whatever it’s just an impersonation piece you know genius but um so um Jeff’s dad is a pastor he grew up in church he’s a PK um
And I don’t even know how this came about I’m gonna throw it to you so how did this even come about like your dad’s uh 22nd Ministry anniversary is coming up and somehow they request me and now I’m going up there and I’m preaching for your dad how did this whole thing come
About well I have a black mom so that’s how it came about uh my mom she came down here and she loves y’all like she went home and was like raving like oh this is amazing oh man I understand why he’s there you know what we need to get
A past of meals up here for your dad and I was like well you know I’mma send you the link reach out to DAR and we’ll go from there um you sent her to the link yeah I could remember I asked you I was like so what’s the process and you was
Like you know wee and reach out to DAR and I was I was like all right cool cuz I don’t ever want to just because you’re close to somebody it’s a part it’s a respect thing like just because you’re close to somebody doesn’t mean that you
Try to take the the back roll or the shortcut like no I’m G show you honor in that regard because you deserve it uh because it is a busy year you know what I mean it’s a lot going on for you so you know if any event that you weren’t
Able to make it it’s like yo at least we we went through every procedure properly so it wasn’t no mixup and it makes us look weird like that’s one thing I’m big on so yeah so that’s all it came about myom so she was just like get she was like yeah
This is she was like we definitely need him to come up here uh and then my sister came down here and like my sister is kind of she’s like the final St like she’s the second to final St so she’s like no dad like this is amazing um and
Then my dad I met yeah I only got one sister okay so uh my dad beautiful by the way absolutely probably the most beautiful person in my family shout out to you br um definitely the most beautiful person in the definitely no but um my dad had watched American Jesus
Wow he watched that and then he also watched a sermon that had the robes and he called me he was laugh he he was like he was laughing for like five minutes that is actually amazing so yeah like it’s um like yeah it’s gonna be super exciting it’s gonna be pretty like I
Don’t know what should I expect come on now I we gonna go live while we up there we gonna have to do something because I want to get people into that world but what should I expect is it a traditional church is it a like what type of church
Is it like what am I walking into I would say semi semi traditional it’s like it’s right in a perfect spot where it’s like uh a crossover could happen you know I mean like it’s one of those moments where you see like the window of time where stuff can change
And it could be like a explosion kind of like a Revival type of thing so yeah that’s pretty much it you know not anything too crazy I mean you’re going to hear people call me by my middle name all weekend because that’s I’m not Jeff
At home I’m K so that’s gonna be like a thing that she might you what it’s like no that’s just me say it again say it talking about Superman is that your middle your middle name is Jesus is Superman’s name k h a l
I l k boom how you say Superman’s name k i mean I receive it though you might you might something crazy right now that’s crazy so they named you from another planet yes they did so everybody gonna call you that so they don’t got that’s not a I mean like
They don’t have a nickname form of that like I’m so happy that camera over here but no it’s not really like I have a family nickname but you’re definitely not goingon to hear that I promise you you won’t hear that that’s not happening at all I will not let that happen cuz
I’m not gonna come down here and y’all put me through that every we no no but but if this do your sister watch the show yes she does all right well number one if your sister watched the show I’m talking to you and when I get up to
Jersey when I get up to Philly I’mma talk to you cuz me and your sister have a special connection I felt it no I’m serious I felt it what and so when I get up there hear me I’m gonna talk to you you can tell me
The nickname all right you can tell me the nickname as a matter of fact I feel like I can’t I feel like you kind of owe me to tell me the nickname all right so tell me the nickname I promise you I Pro I promise you all right I promise you I
Will not I will not do anything just all right uh but I got to know that name I have to know that name all right I have to know that name no it’s cool you don’t have to know okay okay I’m I’m hear me I’m so excited but I’m not gonna get off
Of this because praise and worship like like tell me to order a service like they pray they got it’s like they’re gonna pray they’re gonna do praise and worship um and then after that you singing y’all got to stop man I’m just I’m just the guy that serves that’s it
I’m serving you I’m chilling I’m serving you we locked in we on a mission we on an assignment um I think that uh my role this weekend is to see something amazing happen from a different perspective because when you you come from uh you know your father’s house which able to
Come back and um 100% be with somebody who’s caused massive change in your life who you know the ripple effect can can touch your family um and just the the region that’s around some people they have like an adverse effect anywhere they go so just because you step off the
Plane something’s gonna happen you know what I mean so I think that that’s my persp perspective this weekend um as a son that’s excited and a son that’s like anytime we on the road I’m always learning cuz you know it’s like man like if this is what the Lord has for me to
Do um it’s like I gotta I gotta know how to do these things so you know it’s gonna be a time where I do go back home maybe if it if it happens like the Lord allow me to come back here preach one day and hopefully I can be 50% as good
As you so you know what I mean like other than that I’m just it ain’t gonna be nothing crazy we’re gonna have good food though shout out to my mom so I was just about to ask well okay so talk to me about the because I get up there
Friday and we leave Saturday yeah right you get up there Thursday or something like that and um which I mean it’s a short turnar around I really wish you had a little bit more time to chill and stuff like that um because I know people
Gonna want to talk to you and all the different kind of stuff and I and I already told you this all right so I’m saying this publicly so I’m praying people from keys of Life keys to keys keys to because it’s two night uh all right so uh
We pray that people at keys to life I forgot what I was even trying to say but um um okay what I was gonna say is uh people yeah people gonna be talking to you all the kind stuff um damn what I was about to say because it it was it
Was right there in my brain because I keep seeing it or whatever um yeah I don’t want keys to life hear me all right I already told him that’s why we need L we need David we we really need somebody to run interference and somebody that can really serve and be
Focused on me because I feel like once uh K that’s crazy that’s absolutely absurd that is crazy once C gets in this once he gets in the super I mean once he gets in the um how I say super once he gets in that environment I
Just feel like going you going to be distracted you going to have a lot of people and what I don’t want them to think is that when you’re serving me all of a sudden now you can’t talk to people and now he can’t be cordial and stuff
Like that I want you to use me as an excuse not to I mean but that’s like growing up that’s not even how it is it’s like if I was serving my dad or something like that so yo it’s game time it’s not like we don’t have anything to
Talk about you know what I mean like we y’all can hit me when I’m back home in a couple weeks we can hang out whatever the case is but now I mean everybody pretty much knows is like and I don’t when I go home it’s only for like 24
Hours anyway so it’s nothing new do you go to church when you go home yeah if I like if I if I go home on a Saturday night on a Sunday I’ll go you know what I mean I’ll chill so when you go is does
It feel like coming to a is it like know in the sense of like you coming home and they’re like the prodical not the prodical son but like like the beloved Son like are they doing something like Jeffrey no because I have a I have a
Very good way of sitting in the back and like you sit in the back yeah of your dad’s church if I’m not if his guys are there they’re serving like then it’s like all right cool then I just I was like because I don’t get to hear my dad
Speak a lot but you can hear speaking front no yeah I’ll go up I was like say what’s up to my mom boom boom but then once he’s about to be done once he go to his office I’ll see you at the house that’s how I am as that’s how I as a
Person so yeah but do are there a lot of people in that church that have seen you grow up and like as a kid so so they know me well to know like he ain’t going real oh Jeffy that’s what I feel like I feel like it’s gonna be a lot of that
Like now no I used to change his diet no it’s not that I think those people are feel like I’m going meet a lot of people I’m going to be with the Lord so that’s seriously yeah man that’s crazy that’s fine so you as Pastor now yeah they like
No they Rock With You really rock yeah they rock with you they really do I’m excited man I’m excited the word that the Lord is developing is gonna be crazy is GNA be good and um yeah man I’m I’m really excited so uh but we going okay
Food you said food yeah we in Philly D I don’t like how he did that he kind of yeah that’s why you you be you be doing our hometown dirty you be doing we from dirty like we don’t got nothing good up there this is what happens when
People are around you but they don’t know you that’s what happens when Jesus said have you been with me this long because if if he would have knew me he would understand number one out of all the cities Louisiana Louisiana the state you know but New Orleans LA New
York there’s places that are known for food Philly is one of those places so I’m saying if I’m going to Philly I need to get like a 100% like one of those real roast pork sandwiches you know the roast pork with the um with the uh broccolini you know what I’m talking
About with the bro I can’t why you looking at me like that yeah this just how you said it at first say you got how you want me to say I come say like you like I’m walking here that’s so stupid no but you you know what I’m
Talking about right yeah so I want to get like a real authentic Philly cheese steak that’s a good last time I went to Philly they took us it was so funny man last time I went to Philly I had to preach for her uh it was like it was
Nice church but it was in the hood and they was like you want to feel it I was like yeah and so we drove up it was literally like gang activity outside of the restaurant or this little you know you walk up put your order in and so we
About to get out he was like no you good so they had us stay in the car they go get to St and when I tell you that was one of the best sandwiches absolutely you remember the name of the uh spot or was a hole in the wall joint it was a
Hole in the wall but if you told me the name it was a known name because he wanted to take me to like a a known place so if you tell me the name I’ll probably remember but and then you say your mama cooking yeah she cooking uh
She’s making fried chicken mac and cheese um greens and I think something else too but if you want to go out I could tell her like hey he wants to go eat and Philly go out or have your mom cook it’s up to you I probably I mean if
Your mama cooking Soul I’m a soul food junkie all right so for everybody that know me or if you don’t know I could eat mac and cheese cic greens biscuits why was it so funny your delivery is crazy biscuit I did not I like do do you like
Honey on your biscuits are you one of those people I am a honey on the biscuit person I like honey on my biscuits but I don’t feel like a man should ever ask another man does he like honey on that’s a weird question to ask yeah don’t ask me that man my
Bis that’s I mean it just depends on what I’m eating though you know what I’m saying it just depends on what I’m eating but usually yeah I do like honey and butter on my biscuits that’s crazy um anyway so first of all Lance Jeff welcome to the couch thank
Y’all for being here we are still live are we still live on Instagram yes sir Jesus help us and we’re doing good 93 we I don’t even know if you can share stuff on Instagram or anything but if you’re joining us on Instagram on Facebook on YouTube Welcome to spiritual therapy
Every Monday night at 10 p.m. we just have a good time really uh talking about discussing having a conversation about current topics current events but from a spiritual perspective hoping that Christianity becomes practical and applicable something that you can actually practice that’s what we want we
Want this to be a form of discipleship so every single Monday we go live we gonna go ahead and go to Hot Topics do we have hot topics we sure do we do got hot topics we text them to you as well all right so we about to get into our
Hot topics you say you texting them to us or are they in my yeah I’ll text him to you y’all know who we miss we miss Ariel Ariel we’re praying for you we miss you we love you so much all right we pray that you get better we can’t
Wait till you’re back um take care you take care of us you take care of us absolutely take care of us they didn’t even have the camera plugged up can you believe that can you believe that that’s crazy they camera that’s crazy all what is it
This one the first one is crazy all right so Drea Michelle age 39 years old has is having a child with Jaylen green a 22-year old NBA star okay who is person who you talking about Dre Michelle how do she’s basketball wiv you know she’s been around for a while she’s
Personality Dre Michelle looking her up now okay I think I remember seeing her picture or something before but you said she’s been around for a while yeah yeah so like when you say been around for a while you mean she’s been in the Limelight for a long time or she’s had a
Lot of um praise the Lord both of them both of them and she’s 39 but the problem is he’s 22 and and this is who you talking about Jaylen Brown from the Celtics J green Jaylen Green from the Celtics curly hair dude with bun jayen Green from the the Rockets he’s the Rockets
Yes sir 22 Jaylen green okay well let me look up Jay the same age as her son whoa you’re crazy you’re crazy fact this is a fact all right hold on come on what is it all right Jaylen green I don’t know who this is yeah really young guy yeah super
Young well he’s legal and and he’s got money yeah there it is hear me I’m telling you bro I you know I’m talking about like vultures yeah hoes can smell potential yeah they can they can smell it like if you have a gift or a talent they on it they can
Smell it but they can also smell um a person that don’t know how to manage their potential they can tell somebody who doesn’t have the work ethic to become what their potential uh could you know allow them to become and they’ll hang around until they start to see like if
You get hurt or you know whatever the case may be it’s a bad thing man but dang so she gotta that’s what happened to um old girl Jazzy Who had who who having a baby with Cam Newton yeah you hear about she’s a she’s a social media person but
She’s also like a comedian too yeah Jazzy Jazzy Brown Jazzy she had she got pregnant with Cam but my thing is these girls don’t care yeah she ain’t even trying to be with she like that’s my friend I ain’t trying to be that’s crazy but she gonna get that money yeah she
Get a bag for the rest of her life and I think that’s what they’re that’s what they’re trying to do I think that’s what they’re looking for that’s crazy but hey dang man that’s my thing it’s like you know okay I got 80 thoughts and what I’m saying is number one this is
Why I want to say this is why marriage was invented but it is it is it that’s rough man on all parties on the mama the daddy the baby and then if she needs support if pay child support blah blah blah and then if they not married now
You could get pregnant by somebody now you got too man that is a lot that’s a lot lot of stress lot of frustration lot of headache geez and what I’m saying what I was trying to say is if she really liked him you’re telling me that she couldn’t have been with him and
Protected him yeah you know to the point where it’s like you know what I know you’re a good dude I’m gonna make sure we don’t get pregnant or let’s make sure we don’t get pregnant or if I really like you let’s have a relationship and let’s see maybe they develop into a
Relationship I don’t know man but it seems like these girls have like um um you know how like in the church you know you have somebody who’s a worship leader and like they’re doing worship and it’s good but let’s say tour dates start drying up Co something happens where they can’t tour
As much and then it’s like I’m gonna be a pastor you know I mean and then they start writing they start you know uh doing a lot of podcast and then they be like oh man I’m getting more followers doing and then they transition from being a pastor to a podcast right and
What I’m saying is they’re always looking for their next thing and it’s like that’s how the female is you know what I mean it’s like yeah I don’t know that’s just I just I just feel like she got that young guy it’s crazy because a lot of the
Young guys especially with older women um they’ve been like having crushes on them for a long time right so like as a kid you’ve been watching this personality for a long time and then you finally get some money you finally get the opportunity cuz all it really is is
How much money you have 100% so then they pray on that they pray on you having that little crush on them and the next thing you know because you’re a child you don’t know no better you just out there having fun and she done and
She done and she done flip this wig 18 years got she done she she done been out there she been slipping and sliding hipping and dipping she been out there and she been she she been learning the she been learning the secret Arts of whoredom she the ancient Shing Arts
Of she has learned how to do stuff this man ain’t seen in his Wildest Dream let me tell you something if you’re 24 years old and you get a 39 year old to that’s crazy I’m tell you hear me I’m telling you boy that thing will that thing rock you to [Laughter]
I’m just saying boy and these these old women be turning these young dudes out I’m telling you these young dudes be thinking I got these these old women know what they be doing and then all of a sudden this woman got a baby crazy man crazy word crazy and hear me hear me
That ain’t a puppy right that’s 18 years yep that’s 18 years that’s 18 years of money commitment uh going to games and babies this that’s 18 years when a boy or when a child turns 18 she’s gonna be 60 she’s gonna be 60 she gonna be 60 but she’s H she’s 39
Now she be she going to be 57 so I justed it up I start braking it I was like divide back she now I was like why do I see a c sign I said am I dealing with h hyperb how am I in calculus Jesus I mean
I mean all right so technically she’s going to be 8 57 58 but I’m saying you know she going be in that range of 60 for real for real no the craziest part is like he’s the same age as her oldest son that’s crazy like that’s like it’s
Like yo like what this it’s like now as a son like how you expect me to look at no bro hear me hear me you got to call me daddy you got to call me pop you know what I’m saying you might that’s the craziest thing in the world man and then
You hanging out playing video games with her son there’s no way that’s crazy all right next Hot Topic that’s crazy let’s keep going next Hot Topic next Hot Topic let’s get another big one there was a Breakfast Club interview with Todd triet and um him and Pastor
Mike Jr they shared their opinions on it that is something that uh had the church World in a little bit of shambles it was a lot of opinions there was a lot of feelings people were triggered um and currently in Christian culture that is like the biggest thing right now what is
That whole Breakfast Club interview that whole conversation yeah so first let me ask you guys you guys when y’all saw it what was your initial reaction I don’t think I had a reaction outside of his own interview they asked him a question he gave his honest opinion um everybody
Can say what they would have done but you don’t know what you would have done and to a degree I don’t think what he said was wrong I just think the arena that he set it in uh probably C other Christians off guard because it gives people in the world like the perspective
Of like dang he’s a Christian and he’s talking about church like that like you know it could do one of those things um but I don’t think like again I don’t think what he said was like super off but I do understand the notion of like
How could you say that to us we supported you so I understand that but I didn’t have any feelings about did you hear it last and when you heard it what did you think uh it’s just the wording I think the wording of it was it just caught people
Off guard and people tend to be very predatory towards anything that sounds out of the norm um so I think the words like whack and all that stuff and people was like oh how could you say that but you know people have been talking about church not being real or church being
You know a performance and all this stuff for for years and I think people just choose what to be in the Uproar about things and they just he was just his time one day to be chosen to you know backlash yeah I got you um okay
Well let’s talk about it a few ways number one it is wild out here in these Kingdom streets yeah all right um for our industry to be as small and as big as it is when I say as big as you know as encompassing as broad I mean
Christianity is one of the largest religions if not the largest religion in the world Islam is a close second uh rapidly catching up to Christianity but it’s huge but at the same time it’s small because most of uh Christianity imagine every World up every world is made up of Kingdoms every kingdom is
Divided into Realms blah blah blah so think about Christianity as a world and then think about the denominations and the Expressions being like Nations um and then from Nations you have States and these are from Expressions you have churches that are in that particular expression so Coit could be a particular
Uh nation and within that you got to stay blah blah blah you get what I’m saying um so even though it seems big we are broken up into these silos you know whether it’s called the black church or the white church or whatever the case may be and they all have their own
Communities which if you’re in those communities you usually know everybody in those communities and the reason I’m saying that is because you have to be very careful because for example and I’m just being honest all right so I love this this podcast you can be honest so
Last year we had IAD escape and IAD Escape is hosted by Tasha Cops she is a friend Tasha has been coming to us since 2017 when we did our first create conference um I used to go to Pastor William church singing the choir I’ve known Tasha for years and so when she
Came she came during let’s say her conference let’s say her conference was like a Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday right her her husband came Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday phenomenal conference Travis Green was here uh Sarah Jake Roberts was here uh it was it was a awesome conference right
And I love Tasha I love Kenny they’re great when they left that Saturday that Sunday we were in a series a teaching series called the American church and that particular Sunday I was dealing with fraternities and sororities in church well unbeknownst to me her husband had just
Pledged Omega like either weeks or a month before they came here I didn’t know that yeah I didn’t know that so when I on that Sunday when I talked about fraternities and sororities when they made the clips of the message what clip they gonna get they gonna get
Me right and they’re gonna post it well who Am my friends with Tasha and Kenny and I saw that and I just started seeing comments I saw people tagging him in it weren’t you juster they Church they and I it was and they could have felt offended people could have felt
Offended I didn’t mean it like that what I’m saying is when you’re dealing with Doctrine and theology especially if you’re going to be an apologist and bring a level of clarity you have to understand you are crossing some dangerous streets because if you deal with women preachers there’s
Friends that you got that don’t believe in women preachers if you start dealing with the Trinity if you dare say one God in three person oh my God don’t you say person because there are Oneness F there are friends that you got that are Oneness that when they hear that they
Start losing all type of control so you have to pray for a level of wisdom so the moment I saw that clip and and I saw Lissa Lissa said she didn’t even see it Lissa you didn’t see it oh wa she a and Lissa let me just say this cause
Lissa cause cause this Justin I already rebuked Justin I already talked to Justin I don’t know where Lissa at Lissa you can always come in my office when was it it was Saturday I think right and I was getting dressed all right my my I was getting dressed I went all the way
Dressed Lissa all right and Justin came in and he didn’t he didn’t know I wasn’t dress and then you came in and I rebuked him I stopped him and I was like hey I stopped him and you stopped and you didn’t know what was going on but I was
Trying to communicate to Justin that I wasn’t dressed he didn’t get the memo you left I haven’t seen you since I don’t even know if you came to church no more oh it’s a sister okay okay I thought you were mad at me all right happy birthday to your sister I thought
You were mad at me please you are welcome back here all the time all right it’s just you know you know Justin you know so when I saw it and I’ll tell you the whole story but when I saw it immediately it jolted me immediately I was jolted into
Sobriety when I saw it number one because I love Tai and I know Tai and I know that he loves the church chur he is a defender of the church he is one of the let me say it like this he is one of the most artistic examples of
Apostleship that I’ve seen in my generation wow what he’s done with music and what he’s done with the church I think that he is pioneered a lot so I’m teen thae first of all but when I heard him say the church is whack it sent it sent waves through through my
Through my spirit because I didn’t grow up in church like that I grew up as a Buddhist or you know my earliest memories of religion and spirituality was Buddhism so when I came into the church this the best thing since slic bread this is amazing even
The crazy people I just count them out to being crazy people I don’t be like that’s the church no the church is the church these are just crazy people so for me I love the church I I I I Adore the church um the church
Is God’s bright so when I heard that I was immediately like whoa but instead of responding to him and saying T is this or t is that I just responded on the post and said something like you know the church is this the church is this this is the purpose of the church
Whatever the case may be um and uh people seem to like it but you know what I did right after that I called them yeah all right because I didn’t want him to look at the post and see me chirping at the bottom and think that I was coming
Against him so I hit him up and I hit him up and this is one thing I love about Tai um I hit him up and I said um man we got your back I love you I know you’re hurt people misunderstand stuff whatever the case may be and he responded by saying
Man I’m not worried about making mistakes yes he said I could have said it better I could have worded it different but what I said was true what people have done to the church is corny is rack and he’s more so talking about many of the systems without god um and
Uh and I totally understood what he was saying um but he even admitted that he probably would have worded it a different way um every time I see stuff like this it reminds me of my need cuz the first thing I was thinking like why y’all keep what not only want
Say keep because I think I ain’t even did y’all watch the interview at all the whole interview how was the interview the interview was great the interview was awesome so I gotta admit I I haven’t watched the interview only because again I’m gonna impute righteousness and good intent
Because I know him as a person so I didn’t watch the interview but I did it was another preacher on The Breakfast Club not long ago he did the interview and um it was garbage it was hot trash it was hot trash I’m just saying I’m not gonna say
The person’s name or whatever the case may be but I be thinking like and I got to get to this man because the world’s perspective of a Preacher is so skewed yeah like they always say we don’t want entertainers but the only people y’all talk to are entertainers like y’all ain’t never had
Not one person that could even explain discipleship explain the spiritual World explain Deliverance explain the spirit of a man y’all don’t even have people that can explain the basic tenants of our faith I don’t even understand I’m talking about from Joe Rogan to Breakfast Club they don’t want real
Christian leaders on there y’all yeah all right the the big the best Christian leader I’ve seen on The Breakfast Club was probably AR Bernard you know what I mean and you know I don’t know how often he’s on there I know his church is in New York
But yeah we doing good I appreciate y’all for being on uh we are really doing good with our numbers on Instagram we got 125 on Facebook and Instagram on Facebook and YouTube we got 171 so add that up we are doing really really good thank y’all so much for joining us every
Single Monday night at 10 p.m. uh we go live for Spiritual therapy and now our Instagram family is a part of it so we’re really excited about that thank y’all so much for joining us we’re in our hot topics and we’re talking about the T tribit pmj little debacle now this
Is my question to y’all so after T said regardless of how we felt pmj responded Pastor Mike McClure responded what do y’all feel about his response I think you should have called him first yeah uh I don’t think that um they are that far apart in the industry to where it’s not
Possible for you to get his number um because because it again it’s like you can’t it’s like it’s weird um you don’t go because I want you to defend this in a second I want you to defend your thesis in a for sure I think I think he
Should have like been like hey like before I respond to this publicly like is this what you meant x y and z um because people can look at it weird they can look at them as like adversaries and whole time like they’re really not because know the video like hey I love
Tai XYZ but people are not they’re not thinking about that you know you could say like people do all the time like oh I’m rocking with this person and then when they give their opinion on something that happens an immature mind can see that and blow it up um but I
Don’t think that again I think both sides it was like valid on both ends I just like can you be let me ask you a question can you be a friend with somebody and disagree with them yeah absolutely 100% okay now let’s say the disagreement is is catastrophic let’s
Say that the disagreement is uh deadly let’s say you’re a scientist and I’m a scientist and we’re working to do something and you have a different approach than I do um I can love you but I can think that I can I can objectively think that your approach is not right
Yeah and still like you as a friend know you and not have to absolutely have a disagreement you follow what I’m saying so I guess my issue is this is that if it’s public then I feel like the defense or the response must be public because if you say something like something
Publicly and I say wait let me reach out and I reach out and I find out oh that wasn’t his heart but I never correct it publicly the people that heard it and now think that that was right they never get an updated memo right on the fact
That maybe they said it wrong or maybe it was wrong so what do we do then if I called them get it right but everybody know I wouldn’t like because I’ve had that happen with friends before like not to like that deg obviously but like I’ve had it happen where there’s been a
Disagreement and it’s like hey bro like is this what you really meant no all right cool well yo look this is what it was XYZ boom boom boom and then the situation is was alled there so again I don’t think that it’s wrong that he spoke out I’m not saying that I just
Would have been like yo all right let me call you before I give my opinion because I don’t know the other side before you give your opinion yeah my opinion let me call you like yo bro look I know you was on it what did you mean
By that 100 because this is the Uproar that that it can cause now if you didn’t mean this then cool but if you meant that it’s like all right that was out of pocket and I’m going still let it be known like yeah that’s out of pocket but
I just would have called first before I you know went and gave a public opinion that’s it that’s just that’s me yeah I I feel the same way um it’s kind of you know it’s kind of like Bros like if we Bros right um before I let somebody form an opinion about you
Outside I’m going make sure that I protect you um because if this person outside what is more important people’s opinion of the person or people’s opinion of the church people’s opinions of the church for sure so why are we rushing at the person and not at defending the
Church it’s like we always Elevate the Friendship above our commitment to the church right you follow I’m saying and I rather do whatever I need to do to save this person’s friendship instead of actually defending the church when I heard I I love TI with every fiber of my
Being he’s one of my best friends but when I heard I didn’t even think about Tai I thought about I got to defend the church yeah I it wasn’t even about the president could have said it it didn’t matter the moment I heard the church’s
Whack as an as an apostle I went into defense mode even if I am gonna at some point hear his heart at first whoa who whoa you wrong the church because why would I take time and even allow you to simmer in that before I just say that’s
Wrong nope and then go blah blah blah blah blah I just I don’t I I don’t know I can’t leave my mom there being talked about so me I can go talk to my brother no I’m going to defend my mama first and then go talk to my brother that’s how I
Feel about it because go ahead what you mean far the church they don’t necessarily whenever people think about defending the church they think about defending religion defending their denomination and dang you you that big about the it’s like no I’m defending both the mystical and the organizational and his reputation His Image there’s
Already people that don’t like the church that hate the church or whatever the case may be so for me when I first heard that I’m like no that’s why I I wrote a very generic response first that’s what I think it is before I said something you know I mean but that’s
Like even if you do go first it’s like I’mma just deal with the the church’s whack I’m not gonna pull in and the people that supported you and like like that’s so that’s when it’s like yo I’mma so either way it’s because it’s like you’re right I can’t put my
Allegiance to the church second right because like this is a part of my life this who I am at the same time I don’t even have to I all I have to do is mention the statement that you said I don’t got to mention your success I don’t got to mention the accolades
Because then that that’s where it’s like it it could become a twisted narrative or like why did you mention that instead of just being like hey the church ain’t whack the church this that and the third matter of fact if you don’t believe me come to my church here’s the address
Sundays Tuesdays whatever the case is and then have the conversation if you haven’t had it before but I think there is a way to it’s a way to speak the truth without like leaving room for excess unnecessary conversation so that’s pretty much it no you’re right I
I do feel like you have to make sure that uh cuz I can defend the church without imparting intent right so I can defend the church without saying he’s trying to hurt or he’s trying to I think you can’t accuse somebody of something until you first go to them and talk to
Them but I don’t have to talk to you to know that something is false Doctrine absolutely right and the moment I hear false Doctrine I’m defending that I don’t care it hear me hear me hear me hear me if I’m sitting in my seat on Sunday
Morning and Lady Patrice is on stage and she’s teaching and she says I’m like the blood don’t cover everything I’m G say stop lying I believe it 100% I’m not I’m not gonna sit there and be like uh let me correct her after this because how do I know I’m ever gonna
Have a chance to correct or fix it for the people that may not ever watch again so if even my wife if she’s up there she say something I’m like babe D come on now remember even if I got to do it in a joking way but what I cannot allow is
For somebody to teach something that’s wrong or false and then me not say nothing I I just I it would be like Jeremiah like fire shut up in my I could not do it I could not do it I would just have to be
Like no no no no no that’s not right or whatever and what I’m saying is we should love the bride enough that if I had to do that you wouldn’t then look at it as a slight on our relationship if I had to do that if I went to war and I’m
Talking about like Carlton Pearson if I would have heard what he said I would have vehemently went against it and guess what I would have still be like hey bro you good right yeah now if he took it some way and he couldn’t have a cordial conversation
Because he knew I’m coming after AB andc then that’s him but I’m gonna be able to sit down with him like Hey bro you know I love you but come on now Jesus is the only way well blah blah bro come on now now you really believe that you really believe
That Jesus is not the only way you believe that okay so you know you’re not a Christian oh yes you’re not a Christian because Jesus said I am the way the truth and life so if you don’t believe him you’re not a Christian that’s all right well okay we can agree
Or disagree to disagree but I just want you to understand I love you I’mma be your friend but you’re not a Christian every time I get with you I’m going to let you no yeah like I’m going purposely come around you and do communion and not have one for
You can I get one oh I you’re not a Christian no bro I’mma play that to the whe until you say that Jesus is Lord I am not no and guess what I’m G joke with you I’mma have fun with you I’m never gonna stop you know I mean I ain’t gonna
Pray with you because you know not a Christian only the prayers of the righteous AV and you know so so yeah so I just I just feel like sometimes um we put so much stuff above our relationship with God and our relationship uh with the church But all right let’s go to the next topic uh and then we’re gonna get into our teacher go ahead the next topic yesterday there was a brawl at the championship because it’s women’s basketball so we call it a women basketball happen so LSU was playing South Carolina uh and it was like a
Little shev match and then one of the play yeah one of the players Brothers came and jumped over the barricade like and grab one of the players so he got charged with aggravated assault today but it was LSU versus undefeated South Carolina shout out it was a boy that
Came over jumped over and T yeah like and it’s like come on bro like you could have stayed in the SE because it wasn’t gonna get popping like it’s they not gonna do that hear me if there’s one thing that now again we it’s a spectrum
But if there’s one thing that disgust me is men HD and women yeah like you see those videos on like in no not Instagram but uh Twitter yeah where like like in high school and I’m they be going in you know what I mean I I don’t I don’t know
If he hit her though he just like he just grabbed her whatever he grabbed her arm but I mean even then in that environment it’s like you don’t need to do that n that was very stupid you don’t need to do that automatically you going to jail and then like you said you
Didn’t do nothing like you I mean if you want go to jail at least you still G sit down so might as well go for gust but that’s you know I mean and and and thebr is for everybody that’s watching thank you so much for watching spiritual
Therapy let’s make sure that we kind of um make sure that people understand kind of like spiritually what’s going on number one um how can I say this anger is crazy yeah yeah rage is crazy expectation is crazy I’m G tell y half of what men do is because of
Expectation think about Will Smith smacking Chris Dr if if no females were there and it was just boys talking he would have never did that but once you add that feminine energy to the mix Here Comes expectation because whenever there’s feminine energy around masculinity there’s certain things that
The feminine can’t do so they expect the masculine to do whatever that like protect if there’s a fight danger whatever the case may be all of a sudden that masculine energy is called upon or is expected to perform or whatever the case may be what I’m saying
Is there’s been times as a man I remember growing up where I had to defend people or get into fights that I really didn’t care about but it was expected like you better defend them or you better you know whatever the case may be and a lot of times men do stuff
Because we feel like if we don’t afterwards they gonna be like why didn’t you do this why didn’t you why did you help me are you just sitting up there you didn’t do nothing and so he’s like God that’s why hear me have you ever like had a woman that that’s like and
It’s like you know mean like you out with them and they just that’s crazy that’s crazy but you know like but you would be at the club or y’all somewhere and you having a good time yeah but they start something like excuse me and you like
Baby baby like ah he gonna tell me sorry he gonna step on my shoe like bro don’t worry about she don’t no no tell me and you like you like and then the man is like hey bro you going to let your girl talk and you like Jesus help me God and
Then you got to be like hey man don’t talk to my girl like but you really want to be like girl shut up man go on over there what was that I’m thinking about um uh Friday when he went over there to get his bike he said come this to old man with
But for real you do feel like that’s like like don’t put me in a situation where now I’m expected to do something or be something that I really don’t want to do or be or whatever the case may be so sometimes it’s expect but sometimes
Hear me y’all It is anger and one moment of anger I’m telling you can give you a lifetime of inconvenience you gotta be a you got to be able to uh manage your anger manage your emotions but yeah I did see that I just saw the comment
From maybe it was a coach yeah and the coach was like she’s too big to be doing that something Reese yeah I wish you would have went at Angel Reese like that like that’s crazy bro that’s hilarious cuz you putting your now you putting your player in
Horns way cuz she Andre re if people don’t know she already has a bad rap of like being a trash talker being a hot you know hothead and so for her coach to say something like that like Don Staley the coach of South Carolina she took the
The right response she was like yo we don’t do that here I apologize boom boom boom but then you got this other coach is going in like I wish you would have tried my bigger player like that yeah like hold on what she she didn’t say
That oh I would have I would have threw my Negra at her oh wow go get her black I got a bigger black one for you that’s crazy the hammer yeah no no no I did see that any more Hot Topics uh no not any that are like worthy right
Now so okay so I wanted to talk about this just a little bit last week we had the opportunity to talk about uh becoming a beast and I wanted to talk about this just a little bit about why people don’t respect you now when I say that there may be people that’s watching
And saying he ain’t talking to me because people respect me um but there is uh for for everybody there is a need and a desire to be respected there’s a need and a desire to be appreciated um uh to be honored to be understood as it relates to the level of sacrifice the
Level of time the level of dedication that you may have to your craft but I’ve learned that respect number one respect is not how do I say how do I say this you can’t just you can’t demand respect and you can’t expect respect yeah I’m trying to figure out how to say
That respect is earned right um respect ain’t just given now and and maybe that’s not true you know I’m trying to figure out how I to say that because I do think that there has to be a level of love a level of decency a level of courtesy
Um but when you think about respect when I say the word respect what do you hear honor yeah that’s I don’t it’s a privilege to be respected but when I say respect like what do you he like uh loyalty yeah truth okay I hear reverence yeah I hear
Um esteem 100% I hear esteem um for me when I hear respect I hear um um appreciation for a person’s contribution um um I look for a level of discernment as relates to value and importance because let’s say um you’re on a set or let’s say you do something and let’s say uh
Like in a in a church sometimes let’s say you don’t have a title but you do a lot and you have to go talk to somebody and somebody don’t respect you they’re not looking at you they’re not uh talking uh to you directly or you know they’re just kind of brushing you off
But they don’t know that you’re the assistant to the pastor you know what I mean so just because you may not have a title they don’t give you the same level of respect attention courtesy as they may do somebody else or whatever the case may be so in a certain sense I feel
Like there needs to be a level of foundational respect that we have for everybody right um but when it comes to what you’re known for see I can respect you as a human being but that doesn’t mean you deserve my patronage yeah right so just because I like you as a human
Being that don’t mean I’m gon support your business because I don’t necessarily know your product now if I taste your product and your product is good and your business is excellent guess what you’re gonna gain you’re gonna gain a level of my respect they’re doing a good job they’re doing like they
Are killing the game like they are prepared they got good marketing so forth and so on I’m gonna speak highly when I come to them if I know that they’re very excellent and um they’re having to feed a 100 people a day am I going to show up with without putting my
Order in and expect me to be served no because I respect them that much that I’m not going to ask for a meeting the week of I’m sorry got personal people like Pastor can you can we me can me and you meet tomorrow I’m like I my my calendar is done for two
Three weeks what are you saying and they like yeah but it’s an emergency like I’m sorry I don’t know what you want me to do type of deal you know um but but um so yeah so that’s what when I think about that level of respect but what I one of the things
That um I’m hearing a lot from people is nobody supports my business uh nobody respects me nobody uh they talk to me like I’m just starting they talk to me like I’ve never done it before they’re uh uh um um they are underestimating me um they’re not paying me what I’m worth
Um um uh they’re uh they’re mismanaging my time or whatever the case may be and I’ve learned a few things about creating an atmosphere and an environment where respect is triggered all right so let’s get into this real quick I’m GNA give it to you real real quick all right number
One if you don’t know your value people will always feel a certain type of way about your prices so you have to Garner respect you have to make this respect you by telling them how much you’re worth now for those of you that don’t like to ask for stuff you’re
Prideful you gonna have a hard time with this because you sell yourself short so much that it causes people not to respect you nobody respect free yeah yeah all right so if you do it free for the first time that’s called favor you can give somebody a favor if they come
At the next time you say hey you know the first time I did you a favor because I’m not really uh my schedule is really tight right now and I got a few more projects if I’m going to kind of make you a priority I’m going need you know
Some AB andc I’m gonna give you a discount but I need AB andc all right so number one is you got to set your prices and I’ll say this you got to learn how to price out the people that are not serious yes yeah all right so I used to pre like as
A preacher I used to charge and I’m just giving you an example I used to charge $1,500 right because of that a lot of people can pay that so I was getting called from uh uh bera’s Deliverance Ministries uh uh pooky’s prophetic team like everybody and their mama wanted me
Or whatever um and then I would also go Hotel would be bad they’ll have me riding I’ll be in the back in the middle seat on on on Southwest or something like that I’m in the middle seat and hear me the heavens don’t open when you’re in the middle seat you understand
What I’m say I don’t feel the anointing inid so I’m just like but I would go through it because that’s what they could you know afford or whatever as I started to increase um in my level of execution in my level of presentation in my level of skill my ability to come
Into a house make sure I meet the demand of that house and then also as uh um a higher level uh opportunities and doors start to open I went let’s say from say, 1500 to say like 2500 now once I go to 2500 there’s going to be people on the
1500 level that still want me the only people that I’m taking with me are friends if I knew you on 1500 level and we developed a relationship when I go to 2500 I’ll give you hear me I’mma ask for 2,000 that’s good all right now I’m at
25 but I’m half 2,000 if you hit me up and you say I can’t do 2,000 1500 don’t worry about it 1500 but that’s because you’re a friend now hear me if you a 1500 Ministry and I’m on 2500 and you say pastor we want you to
Come all right 2500 we can’t afford that cool catch me next year see he see that’s no no no no you may not be in a place now where you can and my thing is I usually when I say, 1500 okay how how long have they been
Doing it they just started last week they don’t need me like why call me when you don’t have the budget for it save up yeah yeah man I’m so I’m save up because if I’m worth it save up do three months and put that money to the
Side and then call me right but I rather us take the time and then you honor me correctly than you call me and it’s knee-jerk and it’s fast I don’t have a good experience and then I never want to come back yeah all right um so that’s number one number two
Contract contract friend no friend love you blah contract and that makes people approach you different all right because everything that we do we’re gonna put it in writing and you can get very specific with your contract right in the sense of um hey any audio or video recording I
Want to have a copy of it um if you’re streaming please give me the link so I can send it out um um if it’s a leadership thing or something like that like I’ve been at some Churches and if I have to rebuke something or whatever hey
Can we cut the camera off or what you know like you can put certain things in your contract um yeah I’m thinking about it you know anyway so yeah you can put certain things in contract um but yeah I would say that’s one of the ways um number two have
Standards non-negotiables and be open to communicate those non-negotiables all right uh most people that deal with you they will have a level of professionalism and you telling them excuse me I need a window seat or you telling them please make sure that my hotel is here or not this or whatever I
Think people start to understand that because um um uh I think people will understand that especially if you communicate your standards your goals your objectives and as long as you uh stick to your non-negotiables you know what I mean you got to stick to your non-negotiables um because people will
Try to play you all right they’ll see what’s on the wrer and they’ll literally just do their own thing and when they do that you just got to call them to the carpet and say hey blah blah blah blah blah um and um and so I think that that’s one of the ways
But none of that matters is that if they give you the microphone and you buom that’s good none of that matters if you can’t execute and you can’t perform and I don’t mean that in a fleshly way all right none of that matters if you ain’t good all right so all of that
Stuff to make people respect you from money to the contract to you being stern none of that eclipses you being great at what you do the greatest the fastest way to gain respect is being good at what you do all right um if you’re good at what you do even if
You’re not a good person people gonna flock and they gonna want to see you do what you do um so spend time really like becoming excellent at what you do like honing your skill my thing is everybody in this room should have and I know we’re all multi- gifted and that’s the
Challenge for some of us is that we’re so gifted we’ve never focused long enough on one thing I did martial arts for 25 years I can put it down and I can do ministry I ain’t got to be like Oh I’m missing this I’m missing that I got
No no no I’m gonna do ministry and if I can’t be as much of a beast in ministry as I was in martial arts then bro I I need to go do something else I need to go do something else and so that’s my that’s what I Endeavor to do that’s what
I Endeavor to be is when I did martial arts i w you know um you I was a Shu you know so I was a you know was a master I was I had a black belt in karate and um you know they have sashes but most most
True Shaolin programs don’t use color colors to distinguish rank but you have black sashes and brown whatever so um but I was able to teach class or whatever the case may be um uh I wasn’t uh I was not a grand master for me to do that that would have took another 20
Years or whatever the case may be but when it came to animal Styles hung AR Wing Chan jiujitsu when it I could teach those classes I got the belts so I can’t come over here into Christianity if I can’t do Deliverance the way I did did
Jiu-Jitsu if I can’t see a person and know exactly what I need to do to minister to them I’m not there yet and my thing is everybody in this room and everybody watching there should be some level of Mastery to something that you do I’m not saying you got to do
Everything well but your dominant gift or your dominant ability that that supports your dominant assignment you should be able to do that what is that is that prayer now I’m talking about spiritually don’t come to me with the other stuff I’m talking about right now spiritually what is it that you’re great
At I’m asking y’all and I’m asking you if right now somebody needed healing is that your is that your go-to deliverance is that your go-to prophecy is that your go-to like what is it it’s hard for somebody to respect you when you ain’t good at nothing the scripture says even a friend
Has to show himself Friendly so go to the couch real quick if just this this is an example but I’m actually asking y’all if you can say you’ve mastered one thing not even mastered but you’re trying to master you’re on your way to master a a particular spiritual discipline what would that discipline
Be go first yeah go oh you saying oh prayer for sure um I feel like that’s like a that’s going to be like one of my joints like that’s going to be something that’s like oh um so yeah like just practicing the Rhythm uh using your body um learning the
Different types learning when it’s important to shift into them the certain volumes of it um I feel like prayer for sure um is gonna be something that’s like a that’s like a staple in what I did yeah I see you coming to um corporate prayer sometimes prophets
Always sends me videos see you uh coming to corporate prayer sometimes um no that’s really really good um I was telling somebody earlier that if I’m anything first I’m an intercessor first right Adam was the first birther I don’t think I for that but Adam was the first
Birther before the woman ever had a womb before the woman ever had a child Adam had Eve all right before the woman ever birthed a child Adam B and that’s why y this a whole another message a real man can birth his wife out yeah yeah that’s
Tough no I’m telling you like she ain’t doing her business and she ain’t doing that that’s because brother you ain’t pushing you understand what I’m saying because a real man can see the potential in his wife and it’s his job to massage that thing out like to be a midwife to
All of her dreams a midwife to all of her potential and this is what Adam was God put Adam to sleep and when Adam asleep Adam had a baby God did a C-section and brought Eve out of Adam and then Adam had to then intercede or cover his wife so the man
Is the first intercessor the man has the the man had the womb first meaning that the man may not carry physically now but the man still carries spiritually carries burdens and Carries weights and Carries responsibilities right um so that’s dope I’m not gonna do it to you
Now but at some point I’m gonna put you on the spot because I need to hear that thing t t t I got you prayer I’m saying like that thing got to be on like Father God I bless you in the name of Jes I’m talking
About I need to hear I need to hear names I need to hear names of God in that thing right I want to hear your Rhythm and your Cadence and I want you to strategically place your your tongues I want to hear what the tongues I’m listening to your volume and your pitch
And then I’m watching your body language and stuff like that hear me prayer is prayer is a revelation of a person’s intimacy with God yeah it’s it’s it’s it’s like PDA you know what I’m saying it’s like for you to pray and I can I can hear your relationship oh my God
It’s amazing what about you Lance uh I would say prophecy um but I’ve also been guided for prayer as well like a lot of people have been called me to pray a lot too so um I’ve been getting a lot of practice with that not only with you
Know in my personal time but praying for others um yesterday when we when I when you had the privilege uh to baptize 70 people um I was asked to pray for the men walking up so um it’s been certain things like that that have been shown to
Me that even the things that I want to do that I feel like you know I want to work on and build in myself God has called me to other things as well so uh prophecy for sure in prayer man that’s crazy and you know um those moments like
That are significant number one because it affirms you for them to ask you to do that for you to have the opportunity to do that and then for you to rise to the occasion and and do that yeah that’s awesome man that’s that’s phenomenal just to see you all uh grow and stuff
Like that um of course y’all don’t see them in the room but Jasmine and Jasmine and Matt and Daniel uh they’re here and uh I’m thinking about uh because they’ve been here for a while now I’m thinking about first Matt and Jasmine I think about uh I mean Matt sings excellent at
That leading praise and worship uh uh uh prophecy prayer uh teaching leading I’m thinking about jazz I I’m just still so so taken back by we need to just have a transition again I’m so glad that she back I’m so glad that she back from uh
From Florida but um I I mean all y’all got your Specialties I think about Daniel and I think about jazz I mean y’all have so many different gifts so many different abilities um and things like that I mean um for you all to discover your gifts and discover your ability
And now have the ability to just grow them and pour into them and invest in them it’s amazing there’s so many people that don’t know what they’re good at that’s why I asked y’all because I want to know do y’all know you know what I
Mean what you’re good at um and I want to be able to see it you know what I mean definitely and the more you want to exercise it you know what I mean but it’s hard for people to respect you in an area that you’re still Meandering
Through um so you have to be able to both demonstrate and articulate The Passion of um and the practice of a particular area and it it allows people to lean in it allows people to trust it allows people to really um to see you a different way and
Um I don’t I’m not saying I don’t do good at this but you could be great but you cannot sell yourself well that’s tough and sometimes people don’t respect you not because you’re not good you just don’t sell yourself well right like some of y’all are great but
You walk around like like you tiptoe you’re shy you’re introverted you’re softspoken not saying that you have to be rude or mean but you don’t come across like you believe in yourself and that becomes hard for a person to respect when you don’t seem to respect yourself or believe in yourself
So you do have to walk around with a level of confidence where does the confidence come from cuz if it’s not coming from people’s affirmation because they’re respecting you where does the confidence come from you know where it’s coming from it’s coming from the fact
That every day I work on my craft every day I’m disciplined I’m trying to perfect my craft I’m trying to get better at what I do I’m sacrificing I got the time in I got the hours in I got the Blood Sweat and Tears in and because
Of that even if you don’t respect me hear me I’m gonna respect myself and I’m G I’m not working for your respect at all all right I’m working because I respect myself but if I work the right way hear me you’re going to respect me
You’re gonna respect me um so um I pray that you guys understand what I’m saying I pray that you all get it um Christy said Jeff be praying I gotta hear this 100% I definitely got to hear this but um what’s up Auntie it’s good to see
You but I pray that you guys got something out of this um I need y’all to understand this I need everybody to know this May 24th all right May 24th 2024 right here in Atlanta hear me we we still good on Instagram come on y’all still here y’all still see
It all right y’all see the flyer I need y’all to go to the destiny experience.com ASAP the L is in my bio I put the link in the bio did y’all see it I don’t know I don’t know if it post links like that hey there I know there’s a way I don’t
Know if it’s either streamyard or not streamyard but o what is it called OBS but we can change the format I know there’s a way we could do that is OBS yeah I’m I’m wondering if we could change it just for Instagram and the other ones stay the same or something
Like that probably could all right all right I need y’all to be there May 24th 2024 right here in Atlanta Georgia I need y’all to get y’ ticket I am so excited I cannot wait for y’all to hear what we’re doing I can’t wait for y’all
To see what we’re developing it is going to be amazing and we just scratching the surface all right so pray with me um we are looking for 1,50 people all we need now we need 1,200 people because I think I forgot what the last number of registrations
Were but our first initial week of registration went phenomenal y’all did awesome we got people registered for general for VIP for uh all access it’s gonna be awesome but I need 1200 more y’all all right 1,200 more we gonna get it let’s go ahead and get the 200 and
Then we just got the Thousand but I want you to be a part of the 1,200 the tickets are $40 all right $40 that’s it and you may say man I can’t okay I I don’t live in Atlanta if I get a $40
Ticket I got to get a plane I got to get a hotel you gotta get a I I I 100% feel you so if you say you know what I don’t know if I can do all that I feel you but do me a favor at least get a ticket all
Right just buy a $40 ticket even if you can’t make it and sponsor a child right we got children five cents a day all right we got people that want to come to this program we got people that want to be a part of this but they can
Only be a part if you support them by five cents a day all right so I need you to find somebody that you can support find somebody that you can um sponsor but for real even if you can’t go go to the destiny experience.com go ahead and
Click on register now and get your ticket even if even if it’s a general ticket it’s GNA do wonders it’s GNA be super super awesome it’s gonna really help out so it’s gonna be crazy it’s gonna be awesome and we’re about to add a digital experience We’re about to have a digital experience now the digital experience won’t be live all right uh you’ll pay for the digital experience and then after the um the uh in-house one or the um the on-site one in a week then the digital one will drop and you’ll get your link and you’ll be
Able to watch it um and we’re about to drop a volunteer [Applause] price man I wish I wish I was at home with y’all so I could throw some at y’all oh man it would be so good um but we’re also gonna have a volunteer so maybe you
Say I don’t want to just come I want to be a part I want to volunteer we’re gonna have a special price for you as well either this week or next week so go and get your tickets y’all I’m so excited I want y’all to support it’s my
First time doing something like this um U this is my first time doing something like this and um I’m scared it’s going to be crazy it’s going to be awesome and I would love for you to be here all right so we did good uh Instagram y’all did great so great job
We gonna continue to work this thing out so we can you know have the format a little bit better I’m probably G to test it out before we uh leave and then other than that uh I appreciate y’all we’re gonna throw it to the couch for last comments and concerns and thoughts or
Questions throw it to the couch how y’all feeling how y’all doing let’s wrap it up uh great night man I just appreciate you once again like I always tell you for even allowing us to be on the couch to be able to uh grow to be able to uh grow our gifts grow
Articulation grow words of wisdom things of that nature um so yeah we honor you yeah I’m I’m G say May 24th man it’s gonna be crazy that’s really all I gotta say I think to know what’s inside your mind and how intentional you’ve been with this it’s inspire me you know uh
Just for like my creativity and ideas I have so I’m super excited just to just to see what you’re going to do like I think it’s going to be a breakthrough and I think I think you’re kind of selling yourself short with 1250 I’ll
Say that I will say that I don’t okay so we’re talking about respect no no no we talking about respect I feel like you should respect yourself more to know that 1250 is too low of a number what like I I really like I really honestly think you should like like like you
Should respect yourself to know like 1250 is not like that’s G to be nothing right it’s just us continuing to Market when you give us like the codes and stuff and the plays to share with different people um but man this show about to be crazy I think it’s gonna be
Like we need another show tomorrow I do think they gonna want a Encore Encore but no I mean well okay so let me show you how I got the number 1250 number one I took our budget and I divided it um I took our budget and divided it by $40
Which is the general ticket so when I took our budget and divided it by $40 uh because my budget is right now at about $50,000 and I’m paying for this out of my pocket I wish you had a zoom lens it’s me it’s my money I’m paying
For it out of my pocket my wife is already looking at me like all right so uh literally every engagement I get from like now till I don’t know it’s like all that money is just going towards the destiny experience but um so that’s how
I came up with the 1250 all I need is 1250 and we’ve met budget I want to give away the rest of the tickets for free yeah that’s what I’m saying so if I can do 1250 I’m good and then the rest of the seats we want to give those to to
Like high schools colleges uh theaters companies and be like hey y’all can come for free type of deal and of course we have to give cast and crew like five tickets or so free for them to give to family members and stuff like that so those people are gonna come in free
Already but they ain’t a part of the 1250 and so that’s why I need at least 1250 now I mean hear me search is crazy yeah sear crazy it’s you man and I feel like this I’m not what you call it Dave mlet how you or whatever but we ain’t worried
About that you know what I’m saying you you man somebody definitely did all I’m saying is this I feel like if you watching right now then you heard the man say I’m paying for this out of my pocket so tonight when you s your cash FC when you
S your whatever you need to label that joint Destiny tour and you talking about need meeting did you get a ticket cause we not taking No meetings if you didn’t get a ticket that’s how we moving this czys and we stay on business back business we not staying on business
Business business that’s all we got to say about that um I have a couple more things to say actually no um you said something okay so that’s how we got to 1250 oh man yeah me it was something I wanted to say um I don’t know 1250 selling myself short don’t know my
Anointing no no you know who you sound like when you said that what I heard was that’s crazy that’s crazy oh you said D you said no that’s crazy I sound like that guy that’s crazy cuz I ain’t even saying that no no no I’m not saying
That but you said something that may be it triggered me in a good way what you got to respect yourself more in know 1250 uh it’s you we not worried about okay because this is us and we talking all right this past two things this past Sunday we had the opport this past
Saturday we had the opportunity to host life surge for 4500 people it was it was awesome but I went in there during some of like the main speaker sessions I went in the sanctuary during like you know some of the man and I’m thinking in my mind
Like if there’s anything I want to add two things that I want to add to y’all if y’all can be good on the Theology and the doctrine you good but I if I can at least make you all masters of presentation because presenting a concept is
Spiritual right in the sense when I say spiritual you’re not just working with the stuff that you can see you’re working with the stuff that you can’t see so how you say stuff how you stand blah blah blah blah blah blah blah and I
Do feel like I I want I’m gonna do a course on presentation I’m gonna do a course on speaking because I really feel like people just be Talking I was in there watching and I’m like these are highest paid motivational speakers in the world yeah and some of them didn’t even have Arms that’s true that’s Truth yeah highest you know that’s crazy I’m not looking at that and I’m not laughing at that I’m not looking at that and I’m not laughing at that last thing I was gon to say because we gonna sit in this room we got one two three four five we got all these people
In this room and they gonna play me and act like me preaching two messages on Sunday wasn’t crazy they go they gonna play me like no no no they they going to act like number one not only did I preach two different messages both of the messages were amazing but they just know
They you killed no nobody’s ever said that come on man that was even a Hot Topic you see that sometimes you so great it ain’t even a Hot Topic so whether you was at church on Sunday or not cuz they ain’t going to respect I’m I’m trying to teach you how to get
Respect oh my God all right trying to teach you how to get respect all right on Sunday had the privilege of preaching um two Services 9:00 a.m. 11:30 hard work hard work it’s difficult um and even though it’s difficult I said you know what I’m gonna make it even more difficult I’mma preach
Two different messages that’s what I said I was going to do you know stayed up all night all night and you killed execution at all time high I say Lance Lance was on it though Lance we walked in I think after the second service and Lance he from Alabama
He said you cooking with Fish Grease Fish Grease Fish Grease I said I said That’s Country you are you are country boy you are country you said fish green oh but yeah whatever you know I’m just saying that you know Sometimes people don’t appreciate Destry not I’m not talking about I’m not talking about y’all I’m not talking about y I’m just saying sometimes it’s a masterpiece they don’t I don’t say it you know I mean um but Sunday was awesome Sunday baptized 70 people that was awesome all those that didn’t
Clap I pray your life is dry y’all gota pray y’all gota pray y’all gotta pray for these uh y’all gotta uh celebrate these people man uh man let me tell y’all something all right we gotta go all right I love y’all I appreciate y’all all right uh it is 12
O’clock we gotta go uh I can’t wait to talk to y’all remember Tuesday tomorrow if you’re in Atlanta 7 PM we got leadore all right on site I would love to see you we’ve been going in we’re dealing with the dimensions of evangelism it’s going to be really really good all right
I love y’all and I got to go because I’m about to say some crazy stuff I can always tell when I start to get tired all right so peace I’ll see y’all I’m ending Facebook so that should be good I’m sorry I’m ending Instagram so that crap I discarded
It it should be in my live I should be able to go back let me see I should be able to go back and go to Archive go to live yep it’s right there videoos processing perfect um and for everybody else that’s on Facebook and Instagram or Facebook
And YouTube thank y’all so much I appreciate y’all um remember on Wednesday we got for Suns only tomorrow we got we got what we got tomorrow leader port leur tomorrow we got leur Wednesday we got spiritual therapy and then we on our way to Philly and we’ll be back on
Saturday I think we’ll be right on satday what what what happened that is crazy what happened like we like we going to Jersey oh yeah and we’ll be back on Saturday and then I’ll see you on Sunday all right I love y’all until next time I appreciate everybody that
Sold go to the destiny uh experience.com get your ticket I want to see you in Atlanta May the 24th and until then we out peace
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