All right hey guys it’s dangerous so I’m coming at you and a little m in my car basically okay and I just wanted to film a quick video for you guys about so a lot of you have reached out to me and you guys should not be
Reaching out to me I mean I can’t and if you reach out to me and you on your phone email but if you reaching out to me on Instagram that you guys know I am not on any social media I stop being on social media from February 26 and I’m
Gonna I will be back on social media on April 8th April 9th cuz that’s the whole month or the whole time that limp is going on for so February 26 all the way to April 9th it is currently March 1st so happy manifestation month every month is
Manifestation month but you know I was at church today so he was like March is the month of manifestation that I’m so anyways um I just wanted to let you guys know and I’m not on social media so if you are diiemma me I will not answer
Because I am NOT on social media like I won’t be checking any of the ends I’m not I just want to get away from social media and I told myself that I’m going to give up social media for Lent so obviously if you’re not religious you don’t really understand this is my first
Time doing lent so bear with me it’s been isn’t it moments where I’ll check Instagram like I’ll click on it randomly just because like it’s just second nature and it’s just weird like it’s just really weird that I’m like that you know I’m saying sorry guys it’s like
This little piece of yellow I don’t want you guys to see this it’s my graduation thing that keeps falling down Wow I’m sorry oh yeah okay so sorry guys I had to get that together because it was annoying me anyway so yes I’m not on social media I
Would not be answering any DMS on any social media platform the only social media that I’m gonna be on is YouTube obviously because that is another source of income for me I’m not gonna stop my money you feel me so yeah so YouTube I’m obviously you can’t reach out to me
On youtube I don’t think but if you have my number you can definitely text me call me whatever you need to do or whatever and then also um what else what else what else also if you have my email my email is down below you guys you can
Always email me like I answer my emails sometimes it’d be taking me a minute because you know I am a store manager so like I do have a lot on my mind out of my plate but I promise you I will answer your emails um I want to get another
Phone so that I can just give you guys this number because basically everybody got this number it’s so like I rather have this phone be like for my youtube and stuff like that but yes so long story short I just wanted to say that also I wanted to just address some
Things a lot of you are online and a lot of you are going through phases of doubt fearfulness going through the depression stage going through the stage of wanting to give up going through so many stages in this fledging process and I just want
To be the one to say you guys you guys have it you guys whoever is online whoever is going through something even if you’re not online and you’re not going through pledging or whatever the case may be you got it like you got it do not give up obviously if it’s not
Meant to be is not meant to be don’t stress yourself out don’t kill yourself trying to do something or like trying to force something so yeah guys um some stages that you’ll go through like I said previously it’s like the nervousness stage where you’re like oh my goodness everything I do is wrong
I’m nervous about every single thing overthinking it also combines with that where you’re overthinking every single thing that you do that you say okay like that’s the first stage of just being online the second stage will probably have to be somewhere along the lines of
Trying to sit in trying to get a feel for everybody and trying to see like as my as my personally gonna crush this person am I gonna fit in with these people do I have to act a certain type of way when I get around them so that you know
I’m safe in a sense and when I say that I mean like don’t feel like you need to fit in because it’ll come naturally you know I’m saying even if you don’t you still online and you’re there for a reason you were picked for a reason so don’t don’t limit yourself from being
Who you fully can be and your truest potential and your fullest potential don’t limit yourself just because you may think like oh my personality is like I’m kind of weird I’m kind of awkward I’m kind of out you know just outgoing in to blunt and I talk too much or I’m
Too silent or I’m shy or whatever the case may be because everybody is essentially everything when you get to know them so don’t feel like you have to change yourself for an organization okay the third stage will probably have to be the last two stages will probably have
To be like going towards the end so like the third stage is like making sure that you’re not stressing about every single thing and stressing about all the information that you have to learn or stressing about if you may not City or if you may not like get along with
Certain people or if you are trying to control the situation and control what is going on while you’re you know getting your placement getting the information getting whatever the case may be you don’t want to control it you don’t want to overthink it you don’t want to stress about certain things when
It comes to getting down to the nitty gritty of being online and the last one is probably like just the over it stage I feel like it’s also combined with a little PTSD depression type of thing but it’s not um but it’s not diagnosed by a doctor
It’s just like you know you feel it you feel that anxiety you feel anxious you feel every type of emotion because it’s getting down to the nitty-gritty is getting down to the last final run the last final stride and you are stressed you’re annoyed you’re you’re probably all of
The above but you’re also probably like feeling good you feeling like wow I made it I don’t want you guys to get discouraged and get to the last last last stride and you feel like I’m over it like because I just talked to some one of my subscribers today and he was
Just like deja I’m just done like I’m just tired of it and I just told him like you’re so close like you’re so close like you you like obviously I don’t want to force it on him because you know one goes to probate but like I
Didn’t want to force it on him but I told him like you’re so close and you know like you can be the change you know that whatever is going on whoever these people are the chapter whatever the case may be because everybody experiences different but you guys have to know that
Even if you do butt heads with people or you may not like the chapter or whatever or how people maneuver the organization is so much bigger than whatever you’re stressing about you know you get what I’m saying once you’re in it you can be the change to change these organizations
You can be the change to bring Greek life back to how it used to be you know so that’s what all I wanted to say and and I’m speaking directly to my man when I say this it is okay to be emotional it is okay to open up you don’t have to
Feel like oh I can’t say what I want to say I can’t be who I truly am because I’m trying to fit in and I also goes to my women as well I don’t want to just generalize it for me but I know a lot of
Me I’m like we have this stereotype or the stigma on me and where it’s like you can’t be emotional you can’t feel anything you have to be tough like that’s not the case women it is okay to you know just be yourself you don’t have
To be like you don’t have to fake it I hate when people say fake it till you make it because it’s just like no be real like be real and everything like you know I’m saying like just don’t just be yourself and if you are a lot of you are
About to come offline about to have your probate soon if you are towards the end do not get in the stage if like I’m over it I’m tired I’m um I’m over this I’m tired don’t obviously that stage is gonna come because it came from me unfortunately I was just so determined
To get this organization that I just didn’t allow myself to give up so don’t think you guys that it’s just the end-all be-all or that I mean don’t think that you guys like can’t finish it cuz you are so close even if you just started you’re so close you don’t want
Any waste of time you don’t want to give up on anything obviously don’t force nothing it’s not meant to be it’s not meant to be but you don’t want to give up on yourself you don’t want to give up on something that you truly want if you
Truly want it for the right reasons so I just wanted to jump on here and say that because a lot of you are you know stressed out over thinking a lot of a lot of you are overthinking a lot of and you can’t overthink stuff you
Just got to take things with a grain of salt and keep it pushing yeah I just don’t want you guys to feel discouraged I don’t want you guys to feel like for whatever organization because I know a lot of people feel like I’m biased for only speaking about aka experiences the
Only the only reason why I do that is because I can only speak about aka experience because I am in a k if I was a member of all these organizations and I could speak broadly and widely of each organization but I can only speak from
My own but I support each and every one of you that choose whatever organization that you want to join and I support whatever decision that you guys make if you reach out to me and you need help with anything obviously let me know because I’m always
Trying to be a helping hand to this new generation that’s coming up or the same generation that I’m in because at the same time like we are the future you know I’m saying and we have to we have to start somewhere and I feel like I’ve
Been so blessed to have you guys as an audience and to have you guys as like a base of people as a community to talk to and to reach out to and you know just I I’m just really grateful so I would just want to thank you guys so much for
Just you know all of that and help and allowing me to help you guys so yeah so that’s that also guys I just want to say if you aren’t already make sure you subscribe and like this video share it if you need to if you know somebody
That’s online if yourself is online like just know that I’m with you okay like just know that I’m here for you I may not be physically there for you but you know you guys can always reach out to me and I’m a voice message type of person I
Like to I don’t like I don’t really like to talk on the phone but I like to send voice messages if you got my number you know I’ll send you a voice message of quick fast and hurry I don’t like to type I hate reading it and wet as well
I’m trying to read books every month but like it’s hard so like I just wanna let you guys know like when you send me a long messages and I respond back with a voice message that’s just who I am so yeah I love you guys so much and I am
Praying that everybody gets what they want and come to terms with what they got or come to come to terms with what they have and you know and just just go about things smart smartly you know I’m saying don’t don’t stress things because we are too young to be stressing about
that we can’t control okay so yeah so hope you guys enjoyed the video don’t forget to Like comment subscribe and I’ll see you guys in the next one bye guys
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