So I joined a fraternity I joined uh TKE teaks they identify certain personality aspects of me that were toxic in their own way putting a mirror to my face and said this is who you are this is who you are this is not okay this is who you are type of thing
And it really shattered me I’m bawling into this guy’s arms like just melting just crying like every bad thing that’s ever happened every negative emotion that has has happened to me from then until now it just came out of me and it was from there that I was
Actually able to like kind of build up myself again and build some genuine relationships with people in that fraternity and start rethinking about how I see myself
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