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#BAMARUSH vs BRIDGERTON | The Psychology of Social Stratification & Competitive Femininity | Part 1

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This video is sponsored by the Greek and Roman  Empire the empires that gave us all the tools   and mechanisms to be able to control people  in society more about that later on in the Video [Music] hello and welcome back to my channel disruptive  philosophy my name is Brittni and on this channel   I talk about psychology philosophy and all  the things going on with Society through the   perspective of a Anarchist and in this video  we are going to talk about how bamama Rush is  

Very similar to Court in a monarchy or Bridgerton  and breaking down examples of the microcosms and   microcosms of narcissistic Collective units  within our society and how it controls how   capitalism abuses and oppresses us if you like  this content please do all the YouTube things  

Like subscribe whatever else or don’t do them  uh either way is fine with me I would like to   make this disclaimer right here that I am going  to very much try to use the phrase woman who is   in a sorority rather than the phrase Sorority  Girl because technically by Society standards  

And by the definitions of the words once you are  over 18 you are no longer a girl I’m trying to   practice removing girl and replacing it with  woman in my vocabulary because I feel like  

It may be some of the reason why women still get  looked at as girls I’m not I’m not here for like   girl power so I may slip up because obviously  sorority girls is something that we’ve been  

Using in our society as language for a long time  but I am going to try to refer to them as women   who are in a sorority because we are women not  girls I have also decided that I’m not going to  

Be investing my money or time into learning how  to use a teleprompter so sometimes you may just   like see the clipboard of notes I may just break  the fourth wall and uh yeah that’s just how it’s  

Going to be because that’s how I would like  to do this because I’m not trying to be like   a news reporter and I keep having to like gain  these new skills but like we’re just going to do  

This like this and uh yeah just break the fourth  wall make it it’s chill it’s relaxed it’s just   we’re you’re just like in my office just like  hanging out we’re having a conversation and I’m  

Just like looking at my notes and that’s that’s  how we’re going to do do it so let’s get into [Music] it Greek life is an opportunity  to social climb and to arrive in a higher   class status in the societal hierarchy  it is the equivalent of being presented  

At court in a monarchy active members are  looking for girls that we can see Futures   in and that are going to like literally  uphold our chapter and make us better in   all aspects whether that be grades or like  how we present ourselves to the universe if  

You’re not meeting a certain criteria  you’ll kind of just be dropped just be dropped Miss Prudence Featherington Miss Phila  Featherington and Miss Penelope Featherington   all presented by their mother the right honorable  Lady Featherington [Music] it is only the queen’s  

Eye that matters today the glimmer of displeasure  and young ladies have plummets to Unthinkable   deaths kind of just be [Music] dropped Sorrows  Sorrows prayers Greek life is basically like   one of your first opportunities to capitalist  social climb to higher class statuses it is  

Probably one of the most effective ways to Rise  Up from your current class social status to a   higher one uh successfully for your lifetime  like I mentioned previously I would consider   it very similar to being presented at court  or being presented uh as an eligible you know  

Woman in court in Bridgerton the uh women are  presented to society to court as eligible for   marriage I think around like 14 15 obviously we  have different ages for that these days it is   18 but it’s really similar kind of experience of  like it’s your first time presenting yourself as  

An adult to society without your parents being  able to make your own decisions so Greek life   is is literally a recreation of Greek and Roman  Societies in a microcosm because these people are   the next generation of the elite in our current  society that was built on all the mechanisms of  

Control that the Greek and Roman societies  were built on so I want to emphasize it’s   literally called Greek life they literally  use like Alpha Beta Pi language they have a   senate uh which is very much rooted in uh Roman  and Greek Empires and government they have an  

Aspect of Greek life that is literally called  government they actually like elect kings and queens right like prom kings and queen so it  really is is like an opportunity to replicate   a lot of toxic uh ways that we organized Society  in the past and maybe even maybe I could you know  

Encourage you to believe that really America  is just a modern version of a Roman or Greek   Empire even though we like to call ourselves a  country even though we like to call our emperor   a president uh we do still call the Senate the  Senate the reason why this is important to kind  

Of understand how Society Works how the upper  echelons of society work how to navigate those   things what are the rules is because we’re  Anarchist and we’re trying to overthrow the   system these college campuses that have Greek  lives on them are there to basically prepare  

The next generation of toxic greedy capitalist  elite to do toxic greedy mipa and capitalist   things and they practice it on these college  campuses another reason why this is important   for Anarchist Communists is is because our  educational system within this Empire country  

We live in is a sorting mechanism we’re going to  be diving deeper into that in the next section   but it is a sorting mechanism and even getting  into college itself is a sorting mechanism for  

Who is going to be at the top of society uh the  top echelons of society and who is going to be   at the bottom and if you know anything about Roman  society it would be like who are going to be like  

The senators or the I think they’re called plebs  and who are going to be like the slaves and the   freed men at the bottom I also wanted to add in  that I had to refilm this like first intro part  

Because for some reason the video didn’t get  picked up not for some reason I forgot to turn   the camera on that’s actually what happened and  I only got the audio and so this is me refiling  

It on another day just in case when we go to the  next section you’re like something looks a little [Music] different so what Greek life really ends  up as at the core being about is being accepted  

And finding which class of the upper echelons of  society you are going to be accepted and belong   to who are you going to get to network with who  are you going to have parties with who are your  

Children going to go to school with right who are  going to be supposedly your sister best friends   and when I say upper echelons of society  and society as a whole I definitely want   to emphasize white Western European Society  I’m actually going to take white out and just  

Say like Western European Society the West public  education system in America on mass for everyone   was really set up by people about 100 years ago  150 years ago to control the masses to make more   industrial workers right there are quotes from uh  people that literally they are saying like we are  

Not trying to educate or expand the mind we are  literally trying to make someone that knows the   rudimentary Sciences they need to know to be  able to do the jobs and the functions we need   them to do in society college is part of that  sorting system like who gets into college and  

Who just gets a high school diploma is part of the  sorting system High School itself is part of the   sorting system right the categorizing of who’s  going to get to class move and who you know in  

High school right there are private high schools  right did you go to a private high school did you   go to a private boarding school well then you’re  probably in the upper echelons of society you’re   already categorized out right you don’t even get  to like socialize with people from other classes  

When you go to school all of these institutional  structures are absolutely influenced also by your   race by your attractiveness by your gender by  your sexuality but there are different ways way   within these structures that they categorize  people right in high school were categorized  

By grades we’re categorized by Honor role and  non- honor role right who are the bad kids who   get suspended or in detention all the time right  and oftentimes now day who is going to be arrested   right who gets the police called on them right  they’re going to be having statistically less  

Opportunities in the future and that is also  part of that sorting system so once you’ve made   it through high school if you are so lucky as to  be able to attend college meaning that you have  

The funds or were able to get the funds somehow  and you are also able to put room and board over   your head and you know you got the grades from  from high school so you’ve made it through one  

Of capitalism’s weeding systems and you are now  in college and now there is Greek life which not   everybody on campus is in because you have to rush  and be chosen the elite love to like choose right  

They love to like choose somebody ooh you’ll be my  favorite we’re going to touch more on that too so   College as a sorting system you have right from  the beginning what kind of college are you going  

To is it a private school is it a public school  are you going to community college right all of   those things is already starting out the sorting  system based on the degree you’re going to get   getting a two degree from a community college or  a bachelor’s degree from a public school versus  

Getting a degree at a private school that is of  the upper echelon of society D1 school or again   uh you know Pepperdine or whatever those are going  to be different people you get to socialize with  

And it is going to affect like where you are going  to fit in job-wise capitalism wise because of the   people that you are going to school with and so  that again is another sorting mechanism now when  

When it comes to Greek life then you also you  sort through the houses right you sort between   gender male female houses right and you also sort  through the best kids on campus right because not   everybody is in Greek life and if they’re not  in Greek life then yes you’ve been decided to  

Get a degree but you probably will not be able to  network social climb as much as someone who’s been   able to have access to the Privileges that Greek  life gives you even if it is one of the lower bar  

Frat houses or sororities which is so weird that  they like rate them but capitalism everybody so   within a college setup you have Greek students  people who are part of Greek life and you have   non-greek students that’s a categorization right  then once you get into Greek life you’ve got frats  

And sororities and then once you get into that  situation right there’s power structures within   all of those individual uh houses so you have  all the individual houses and then all of those   individual houses have their own government and  power structure and then the whole Greek life  

Has its own like government and power structure  right and within that you also have the machine   which we will uh address here in in a bit but  that’s another sorting system within Greek life   of who the elite people within the elite people  are it’s like a little Russian doll egg other  

Category ories that come up in college is like  whether you finish or not like do you did you   get a degree or did you drop out I have not I’m  I’m in the Dropout by the way just to clarify I  

Went to school online never had this experience  never wanted to have this experience sorties ah   scar no no not the experience I want to have like  the aspect that most people understand that you   go to college to to get the piece of paper that  says that you can finish college unless you have  

Like a very specific degree program like being  being a lawyer or a doctor or a nurse where it   requires knowing very specific subjective type  of information for that career versus you know   like a business degree the degree programs  are actually another way to sort people right  

Because the law students are going to stay  with law students doctor business right you   want to stay with people within your similar  field because that’s going to be best place   to network Greek life is absolutely a form  of grooming and by grooming I mean it is a  

Microcosm to practice all of the manipulative  skills you need to thrive in capitalism and to   work your way up the social status in in a little  microcosm of of of college and so there is there   is an aspect of grooming that these barely  adults just became adults people are going  

To go through in college and then if you decide  to be in Greek life and you get accepted and then   also if you’re part of the machine uh which the  people who are part of the machine are probably  

Very much already aware of how this structure  works because they are probably already in the   upper echelons of society basically the goal  is to root out the week and see who survives   and who’s willing to play the game even if  they have realized and figured out that it’s

[Music] rigged so when you like really break  down what are the goals of getting into Greek   life on campus uh it’s it’s pretty simple it’s  like there’s about three goals if the people are   honest with themselves find a suitable match for  marriage or at least put yourself in a position  

To find that person and again the higher the  class status you are in the more that that is   important we don’t think or like to think  about the fact that like people that have   these billion dollar million doll fortunes that  they’re passing along are absolutely involved  

In who their children are marrying if they’re the  royalty of our day like it it matters whose Royal   Empires are coming together this is a place  to find that match and and get approval from   Mommy and Daddy it’s also a way to be accepted  into a higher social group or class status or  

Basically to create a social group it allows you  the opportunity to possibly raise up your class   status by knowing people that are in higher  class statuses or class levels than you are   or the first one miring up which is what a lot  of women are doing at College back in the day  

And and now third one is again kind of related  you get to network with people in higher classes   so you also have the opportunity for better  career possibilities in the future which which   is more important now than it was back in the  day obviously women didn’t have careers back  

When there was a Royal Court it is an opportunity  to learn the tools of power gaining and the tools   of manipulation and the tools of capitalism and  the rules and practice them on your classmate in   a more controlled setting before they let these  human beings out and Unleashed onto the real  

World to do more exploitation and narcissistic  abuse and all the things in capitalism that we Hate this does this look okay is this  a good location this is not the best   location there’s another spot in my my  dad’s study I mean we have like 14 rooms   so we should be able to find something  this is okay yeah we like the lighting  

Is the hair too is it too white is it is it  too white no okay you don’t want it to be too white all right quiet on the setam speed down  production take one hi my name is Charlotte  

Abigail Morgan Hurst and I will be starting at  Bama in the fall and I’m so looking forward to   rushing my mother was an alpha data piie alumni  and I have just been waiting since I was like 6  

Years old there’s nothing that I wanted more  than to be a part of The Sisterhood I’ve just   always felt from like a really young age that  I just embodied what an alpha data Pie’s sister  

Like really is I come from a quaint family of  five I’m a daddy’s girl my mother is my like   best friend we love to go shopping together we  work on a few different charities locally here  

Together my father is a pastor on the weekends at  our local church and when the Lord Jesus Christ is   done flowing through him he very humbly runs his  self-named Law Firm Morgan Hurst and Associates I  

Have two eligible older brothers that also attend  Bama and are also in Greek life they are both in   one of the top fraternities on campus I was a  valedictorian of my Upstate New York boarding   school I love butterflies and knitting and I  love a good Taylor Swift concert you know when  

I’m not studying for my constitutional law degree  I’m hoping to become the first woman president   I hope this little video helps you get to know a  little bit about me I’m so excited to hopefully be  

Meeting my new Alpha data Pi sisters really soon  I’m so excited like I’m just H I’m so excited like   i’ I’ve been just trying on outfits for the last  like 6 years I’m not sure like this red I thought  

That it was really nice and it like pop for the  video but I know that we’re not supposed to like   stand out too much so I’m I picked some other  outfits and I’m just so excited to meet my new  

Sisters so make sure to look out for me um bam a  rush coming this fall again my name is Charlotte   Abigail Morgan Hurst see you soon ladies so let’s  just talk a little bit about the perfect sorority  

Woman and I know that this does differ depending  on what college you’re at so this documentary is   specifically about Alabama and Alabama is in the  South so it is going to very much cater towards   this Southern bell and so there may be some  things that are slightly different in other  

Colleges but it’s probably pretty similar because  again the upper echelons of society have a very   HP a critical perspective of Purity in marriage  they perform it uh but they’re also most of the   time a bunch of [ __ ] a bunch of [ __ ] [ __ ]  all these people just like Royal Court they’re  

[ __ ] everyone mes left and right you know what  I mean and guess what the the guys the men they   learn that in Greek life in college because they  kind of have the power over Greek life since they  

Rate all the houses the the the men the young boys  that just became adult boys get to rate they they   make the ratings for the sorority houses and most  people assume in the documentary it’s based on how  

Hot the women are and I don’t think I needed to  watch the documentary to know that I think the   competition mostly comes from the rankings of  sororities trying to get in one of those top or  

Middle tier houses and not getting into a bottom  house I think a lot of the times people like to   rank and by people I usually mean fraternity boys  or boys in general I feel like they’re like oh  

This house has the hottest girls so they’re a top  house they like these freshmen are the hottest   freshman so they’re going to be considered  a top house ranking system I truly believe   is based on the fraternities so essentially they  have a social calendar and they get to mix with  

Certain sorties but it’s only limited amount  and the fraternities want to be mixing with   the hottest sororities of course because you know  they’re 20-year old males so that’s kind of where   the pranking system comes from they want to make  sure the girls who are wearing their letters are  

Up to their standards the perfect sorority woman  you have to be lovely and outgoing and know how to   do small talk always presenting the best example  of Womanhood in society you are a representation   you are a bar barie you’re like the first Barbie  of whatever your role is the version of you in  

Society and you’re like supposed to be able to  present this so that every other woman peasant   can look up to you and know that this is what  Womanhood is you know you must be unique but  

Do not stand out look the part and fit in but be  unique but don’t stand out your outfit of the day   must be impressive and designer conventionally  and and objectively attractive conventionally   objectively attractive so like we can’t have any  like like we can’t have too many like full-blown  

Like sex pots you know some women they just ooze  sex I doubt that they make their way into a lot   of these sororities some women ooze you know  pretty flowers some women ooze lavender and   some women ooze [ __ ] you know what I mean  like like dolgic cat Soulja cat oozes [Music]

[ __ ] we are enemies we are foes that’s probably  going to stand out right and possibly make some   of these other people who ooze lavender a little  insecure so I doubt that those women do as well   so again conventionally objectively attractive  okay uh you must look like you belong whatever  

That that means classy calm and cool you know  you must be pretty enough but most likely not too   pretty or too attractive to steal too much of the  air or tension in the room because then you are a  

Threat this is true I used to work at a bar right  down the street from SMU in uh Dallas Texas and I   used to be so confused at how like large groups  of girls would come in they’re clearly in a Sor  

Together right there’s 10 15 20 of them they’re  there for a birthday or whatever and like I cannot   tell these women apart like I’m not trying to be  that person that’s like oh white women look alike  

But I could not tell the girls apart I would take  pictures you know that all of them in a line like   doing the picture there’s like 25 of them and  like they all have the same haircut it’s like  

Only six colors of blonde between all of them and  all their highlights and it was really hard to   tell them apart and and that that stood out to me  in this documentary I’m like oh that’s why that’s

[Music] why so what is important for like rushing  right uh I made kind of a list based on like what   I heard them talk about in the documentary um  what you wear is clearly really important cuz  

That’s I think one of the reasons why this  whole thing blew up on Tik Tok so am a rush   Sisterhood day one OOTD jewelry is from Vivien  Westwood Tiffany you know the thanks Tik Tok for  

Blowing this topic up so we got this documentary  so that I could do this video your class status   they don’t talk about that very much in the  documentary but it’s very obvious that your   class status is very important because I  believe it was like over $8,000 in like  

Membership fees per year to join a sorority  that was just one number I’m sure it depends   on the amount will depend on the sorority but  I can’t imagine paying what $30 $40,000 a year   for school and then room and board and  then also like $8 $9,000 to just be in a

Group just be like making friends is free what  family you are from they this didn’t come up   in the documentary but like your family name and  the reputation of that family and like where they   stand in the current Society is really important  about getting into these frats and sororities and  

Probably is really influential within the aspect  of the machine or the upper echelons of Greek   government and Greek life uh what your personal  public reputation is so now that we have social   media the girls were making sure that the social  media looked like what a perfect Sorority Girl  

Like we talked about in the last little topic  looks like right so they have to take off stuff   that may be too sexual or maybe talking about  topics that they’re not supposed suppos to be  

Talking about in public we’ll also get to that  but you have to be very aware of your own like   public reputation constantly which having gotten  a little just a little smidgen of that in my life  

I hate that and I would hate to have to do that  all the time it causes a ton of anxiety to have   to be on your p’s and q’s all the time and never  be able to make a mistake or you might get shunned  

Or lose all your opportunities or kicked out of  the Authority or fraternity or whatever else so   once you graduate and you’re in society yeah you  will get like like exiled from different aspects   of the upper echelons of society uh the charity  that you have performed for other people that’s  

Really important because you know the elite like  to make sure that they look like they’re giving   some pennies back so that we think that they are  good people you know and they feel inside like   they are good people even though they are not  they could be though okay again I’m like Jesus  

In the aspect that you can always come to the  light all the way down to the last minute okay   you can always become the anarchist and realize  that you was wrong and turn around to better ways  

I did not just say I’m like Jesus I’m keeping  that in there I don’t care how do you present   to the everyday people so that also has to do with  your reputation you have a reputation within the   upper echelons of society but then you also  have a reputation with like us the peasants  

Peasantry the masses the slave the workers  can you follow rules that’s a big one it’s   can you follow the rules when necessary and do  you know when it’s okay to break them because   they love to break all their rules it’s part  of the hypocrisy it’s part of the narcissism  

It’s part of the you know performance and then  also how badly do you want to belong the more   that you want to belong the more that you have  that need and desire to belong to a status or  

A class in uh the world uh the more that they  are going to kind of probably be able to run you   through suck you right into the Beast they they  love people that are desperate and especially   traumatized especially if you’re you know your  parents didn’t accept you and so you are super  

Desperate for affirmation and acceptance like  a like a lot of us actually like a lot of us   all right that got two series for a second um  let’s move on to the next card title card title

[Music] card now I mentioned rules in the last  segment but it’s a very like weird not based on   morality set of rules to play in these upper  echelons of society because once you get to   that aspect of society um a lot of people are  struggling with self-obsession to the extreme  

Maybe pathologically I won’t use the nword  narcissism I won’t say that because I don’t   know if my audience is ready to hear that  most of the people at the top are probably   [ __ ] narcissist but once you get to that point  that means the Rules of Engagement are going to  

Constantly change right moving the goal poost and  are going to look different than what the rules of   engagement are for again the rest of society there  is a certain certain abstract arbitrary unspoken   criteria that you must meet or you’re rejected  abstract arbitrary and unspoken criteria so you  

Have no idea what it is and it can always change  and that is a tactic of a narcissist moving the   gold poost and also not sharing enough information  so that you would possibly know what the goalpost

Are no one from the outside or the peasantry  is really going to get into these parties a   lot of these parties you may be so blessed  as to be friends with someone who goes to   one of these schools and maybe you didn’t go  to college and they bring you to a party but  

I’m there’s probably rules about that like it  was very clear in this documentary that what   goes on behind closed doors in these frats and  sororities they do not want people to know and   oh the bodies that are probably buried and I mean  metaphorically and and literally the fraternities  

Are actually the ones that hold the power and  run Greek life in society so like maybe that’s   a little place we could explore about some of  this you know sexism that we’re dealing with   in society it it that may have something to  do with it if everybody at the top is running  

Through these systems in which at a young  age at 18 19 a young boy gets to experience power power over other people power over other  men power over women yeah it’s a good way to   juice them up for a lifelong uh journey of only  seeking power some of the Rules of Engagement uh  

Don’t be too scandy they said it scandy I love  these new generations like slang terms it’s like   they’re just lazy and don’t want to finish  saying the word not scandalous it’s scandy   don’t really trust anyone because anyone and  everyone will call you out to get in trouble  

Because that benefits them in the power structure  often times to benefit from the capitalistic like   you know grind to the top like you are going  to have to betray people along the way right   there’s only one position like you’re going  to have to do things that may not be in your  

Value system and capitalism will force you to do  that because you want that promotion or you want   to get invited to that party or whatever else  you have to be on your Ps and q’s cuz you have  

To keep your reputation up but you also have to  be on your Ps and q’s around other people within   your class social structure because they may be  the ones that betray you if it benefits them uh   you want people talking about you mainly because  you’re obsessed with yourself but also because it  

Benefits you to have your name in people’s moue  but you only want them talking about you in the   best ways this is in Greek sorority life and  that would be ideal cuz you don’t want to get   cancelled or again kicked out once they graduate  in their an everyday Society you know negative  

Attention isn’t always bad attention I I think  that’s actually one of the 48 Laws of [Music] Power Russia is an emotional process right  it it’s about can you make it through the   week psychologically it is kind of psychological  warfare right because it’s like having to deal   with like like a whole Legion of narcissistic  people or people who are a little emotionally  

Unstable cuz they were raised in too much  money and [Music] spoiled not all of them   but a good portion this week right when  we hear about hazing right there’s been   hazing stories that have been been so extreme  people have died people have seriously been  

Harmed right we call it hazing cuz they’re  in college I think that is a language that   the elite want us to use so that we think that  that is normal behavior and not psychotic or   neurotic or narcissistic right cuz these  are their children their extensions of  

Themselves of their Empires a lot of things  that happen in sororities and fraternities is criminal let’s put it that way criminal here is  a list of a few crimes perpetrated by sorority’s   sister in 2018 at Georgia’s Fort Valley State  University girls were coarsed into sexual acts in  

Order to help pay for their school fees at Ohio’s  musk and gum University a 20-year-old Miss Weaver   gave birth to a baby in the bathroom and then put  the baby in a trash bag and left it outside near  

The sorority where the baby died in 2002 two Alpha  Kappa Alpha sorority pledges were found drowned   in the ocean on Doc wheeler State beach after a  hazing ritual in 0 at ruter University Sigma gamma   Roy sorority beat one of their pledges over 200  times in a hazing ritual causing so much pain to  

Her buttcks she had to go to the hospital in 2015  a UCLA student was stabbed multiple times and a   fire was started to try to cover up the murder the  men arrested for the murder were college students  

The sorority girl that was murdered was found in  possession of large amounts of drugs intent for   sale in 2016 three sisters from the Kappa Delta Pi  sorority at the University of California St Cruz   were arrested in a campus-wide drug ring they  reportedly mailed over $100,000 worth of MDMA  

To themselves on campus with the intent to sell  and just to be fair let’s talk about a couple   scandals from fraternities three fraternities at  Cal State Northridge have been suspended since   the death last year of a 19-year-old student  Amando Villa became dehydrated July 1st during  

A mandatory hike while pledging for pi cap of  Pi that fraternity into two others have been   shut down over allegations of hazing and sexual  misconduct a northern Michigan ski resort has   accused University of Michigan fraternity Sigma  Alpha mu and sorority Sigma Delta tow of so  

Thoroughly trashing rooms this year that cleanup  cost total $230,000 the fraternity is no longer   recognized as a campus organiz and the sority  has been placed on disciplinary suspension for   2 years a criminal investigation is underway the  Clemson University Chapter of Sigma Alpha Epsilon  

Fraternity was suspended in December after holding  a crimp mus party where white students dressed up   as gang members campus administrators castigated  the party but many students said it reflected a   deep ingrained sense of racial hostility at the  southern Carolina school at West Lan University  

A West Lan University student filed a federal  lawsuit against SII Epsilon fraternity and its   West Lan chapter in May alleging she was thrown  over a couch in a common room and raped While   others watched after she tried to leave a party  in 2013 the student contends that the fraternity’s  

Negligence allowed her to be assaulted Georgia  Tech VI cpau fraternity made headlines in 2013   after fraternity wide email that offered advice  for luring rape bait at parties was leaked online   it was suspended in 2014 for 3 years because of  several violations of the student code of conduct  

Arizona State University revoked fraternity  ta Capa epson’s affiliation with the school   in 2014 after it threw a Martin Luther King Jr  themed party that mocked African-Americans photos   from the event showed mostly white attendees  wearing baggie basketball jerseys and bandanas  

And drinking from watermelon cups along with  hashtags such as blackout for MLK I have a   dream and MLK party another ASU fraternity had  its status revoked in 2013 after a 20-year-old   student with a blood alcohol level five times  illegal limit was dumped out an emergency room  

His Sigma Alpha Epson Brothers left only a posted  note with his name scribbled on it to identify him   in 2012 another student 19-year-old rushy Jack  C drowned in a river after drinking at an event   thrown by the fraternity Delta Kappa Epsilon the  Yale fraternity that counts both President Bush’s  

As alumni was banned from recruiting members or  holding any events on campus for 5 years in 2011   the fator’s offenses pledges were required to  chant sexually offensive remarks including no   means yes yes means anal while gathered on the  University’s historic old campus quad in June  

2012 the Sigma Alpha Epsilon fraternity chapter at  Cornell University was convicted of violating New   York anti-hazing laws in the February 2011 death  of 19-year-old George desdunes authorities say the   sophomore from Brooklyn died after drinking too  much alcohol during a hazing ritual in January  

2009 the sigma new fraternity and Chi Omega sority  chapters of the Utah State University were charged   with felony hazing after an 18-year-old freshman  pledge Michael Starks died of alcohol poisoning   the December 2013 death of Chun Michael Deng  a 19-year-old freshman in pledge at the Barack  

College’s Pi Delta Pi fraternity was officially  ruled a homicide by police The Pledge died while   at a weekend retreat at a rented home in the  Pocono Mountains with about three dozen fraternity   members from the New York City College if anyone  is thinking it is not as bad in the sororities  

Then you probably have a very skewed view of  women and their potential for toxic Behavior so   some of the other rules for engagement uh don’t  follow the trend but also fit in the certain   mold you know the certain mold that is abstract  arbitrary and unspoken don’t stand out but be

Remembered I understand in this documentary  how why the girls were so riddled with anxiety   about going going through this process like what  kind of direction is that don’t stand out but be remembered [ __ ] how the how the [ __ ] am  I supposed to do that and then the last one  

That I noticed in this was make sure your  social media is pretty and perfect and then   also don’t talk about the 5 BS you don’t want to  ask people who are already in Greek life who are  

Already members of a sorority you don’t want  to ask them about the 5bs and you also don’t   want to talk about the five BS on your social  media what are the five BS you ask well title

[Music] card so the 5bs are topics to not initiate  conversation about this really stood out to me   because this is directly what my adopted mother  taught me growing up I didn’t know this was you   know traditional like Southern bell sorority girl  uh rules but the the five BS the first one is boys  

Which basically means don’t ask people about their  relationship the boys they like this one’s very   interesting because as much as like these kind  these girls in sororities can get jealous over   guys it seems like you’d want to communicate the  guys that you’re interested in so that you make  

Sure other girls aren’t interested in them too  it seems like but that’s too much information so   keep that private I think that’s interesting cuz  I’m I’m not sure how well if you don’t talk about   these 5bs with people in your life these topics  never come up I’m going to question how deep of  

Friends you are because all of these things  they encourage you not to talk about because   these topics actually communicate something  subjective about who you are as a person and   we don’t want that honey like we don’t want that  honey we don’t want that honey we don’t want that  

Honey right like you’re supposed to fit in but  be remembered right but not too unique another   reason they don’t talk probably don’t talk about  boys is probably for the other reason like I’m   thinking of it like I would want to tell my  friends guys I’m interested in so that they  

Know I’m interested in them so they don’t become  interested in them right as like hey I’m looking   at this guy I think they look at at it as I don’t  want to let them know I’m interested because then   somebody might go steal them if that’s a  concern you have in your friendship group  

I’m going to question how good those friendships  are that if you told your girlfriends about a guy   you’re interested in like one or a couple of them  would then try to woo him that’s not your friend  

If you if you don’t know that and you’re watching  this video that is absolutely not your friend the   second one is booze so they don’t want you to talk  about drinking weird since you know they spend a  

Lot of time drinking I think that was one of the  other rules is that they aren’t allowed to drink   when they have their letters on for their like  sorority and they’re not allowed to have alcohol   in the sororities but that rule doesn’t exist  for the boys and the boys clearly have always  

Have a [ __ ] ton of booze that’s why the boys  have to host the parties because you can’t drink   in the girl sororities three is uh Bible which  basically means religion right don’t talk about   religion this is also like religion and politics  is a well-known thing that people communicate like  

Don’t talk about religion and politics I’ve always  thought that’s weird religion and politics again   it’s two things that communicate your value system  and what is important to you and I definitely want   to know the value systems of my friends that’s how  you build friendships and intimate relationships  

Is through shared values the fourth one is bucks  so basically means how much money you make this   goes back to a very like old money tradition of  not talking about money it’s a Trope to be able  

To tell the difference between like old money  and new money new money is going to talk about   it they’re very [ __ ] right old money tends to be  a little bit more traditional a little subdued and   obviously they don’t want to talk publicly about  money that makes the social climbing a little bit  

Harder means you have to like really do your  research to know what the hierarchy is because   no one’s going to tell you like yeah my dad’s a  billionaire and then the fifth one was Biden which   basically stood for politics again talking about  politics basically means you are sharing your core  

Value system politics is directly connected to  your value system and morality which is why we   are seeing the current political system that  we are seeing right now we have social media   that is now created a space an environment for us  to all share our own individual and shared values  

And they’re conflicting when Trump won and people  sto being friends with each other that’s because   people were learning for the first time where  they didn’t share values with other people it   may seem like people stop being friends just cuz  their friend voted for Trump and it’s like no the  

Vote for Trump communicates more about what you  think is valuable and moral and that’s probably   why they stop being friends with you so again like  I mentioned all of these things are actually key   parts of who you are as a person so if you’re  not ever talking about them with your sisters  

And your best friends for life then I’m question  questioning again how authentic and intimate and   deep and true those relationships really are  CU then you kind of don’t know the person do [Music] you so I loved that they actually brought  this up in the documentary it does show some very  

Odd self-awareness one of the I think it was  one of the coaches which is a whole another   thing that they have [ __ ] coaches I think it was  one of of the coaches that mentioned that this is   what is called a social stratification ritual  social stratification refers to a society’s  

Categorization of its people into groups based  on social economic factors like wealth income   race education ethnicity gender occupation  social status and derived power social and   political and really all of those things listed  can really just be equated to power capitalism is  

A system that is based on every everyone seeking  power no matter what over everything else at its   core in a philosophical way like that is our  psychological way like that is what capitalism   is social stratification is something we’re doing  all the time right you buy a certain car because  

You want to be look you want to look a certain  way or you don’t drive your car certain places   or parts of town because you think you might  be judged that’s an aspect of societal control   and social stratification they’re literally  keeping you out of a part of town that you have  

Every right to driveth through because you’re  embarrassed about your car that’s a control   mechanism so stratification basically talks about  where everybody fits in the hierarchy of a social   group or social setting or you know a social  institution so I was glad they mentioned this  

Because that is absolutely what’s going on and I  didn’t know that there was actually like language   for this it’s kind of interesting the more that  I learn about things the more I realize like   oh they like know what they’re doing like the  people at the top of capitalism are are maybe  

Not conscious conscious right because they’re  dealing with neurosis and other things but like   the information and data is there that they know  that like yeah this is a a social stratification   ritual that we’re putting our kids through at  18 so that they are successful because we care  

About them and their future oh no we don’t want  to have a conversation with them or get to know   them as a person but we set them up to get into  this good college you know what I mean some other  

Interesting things uh that I felt that got  mentioned is that this the sorority aspect   that perfect Sorority Girl is a contemporary  performance of the Southern bell be sweet right   they have this little kind of high pitch Airy  voice I call it the Arana well Ariana Grande  

Can also like blow but maybe the Britney Spears  it’s the pop voice it’s the white girl pop voice   that’s a it’s all the air coming through all  the air so it’s a contemporary performance of   the Southern bell and it’s also competition it  is is it is competitive femininity I think is  

What one of the ladies said and I was like oh my  God I love that competitive femininity that is   exactly what is going on you know we have beauty  pageants for a reason right lots of people who are   in beauty pageants are also in sororities there’s  connections between these personality archetypes  

That are drawn to these things in society  patterns are we seeing patterns the ranking   system of sority houses is based on the men and  the frats which is based on who the men think are   the most eligible and hot women that’s really what  it comes down to it’s not even just how attractive  

It’s also how eligible eligible eligible where  are they on the marriage status ranking right is   this a girl that like you have to seriously date  because she comes from a specific family and you  

Can’t just like one night stand her or rap her  you need to know that if you’re a man that is   probably some of the most important information  as a fraternity like dude that you need to know  

If you want to be successful is like who can you  sexually [ __ ] with cuz that has its own class   status as well unfortunately did I lie did I lie  did I [ __ ] lie if you are a woman from a higher  

Class family from a family with a certain name  that does give you a form of protection in these   situations because the repercussions for the man  it would be a lot as well as the woman will still   be blamed it’s this very weird thing again they’re  very hypocritical the man will suffer private  

Behind the scenes consequences that will be taken  care of within their Elite Community whereas the   woman may suffer public humiliation as well as  the trauma of that happening like the you know   but they don’t want it to go public so whenever  we see those things that gone public something  

Has gone wrong I wrote here sorting between who  is a fling and a mistress and who is potential   match to create a Powerhouse marriage these women  have to be up to these men’s standards and I’m  

Going to say men like this because these are boys  that are 18 192 Greek life is a self-governed the   government system of Greek life is replicated not  replicated it’s based off of Greek and Roman Life   and also how our current Empire of America is  organized top having a senate masses votes they  

Even literally elect a king and queen which is the  weirdest thing to like elect a king and queen they   should yeah they it’s weird it’s weird king queen  president Emperor same thing to me unconsented   Authority but it is self governed and it is also  just about as corrupt as our normal [ __ ] outside  

Government institutions and situations because  these are literally uh boys and girls that are   18 to 22 they have no life experience right like  they bar like they just barely have a high school   education and like whatever their parents have put  into them or their nannies uh your peers decide if  

You’ve broken arbitrary unlisted rules and their  decisions are rigged based on how much they like   you personally or how much your existence benefits  them yeah oh reading that out loud is like oh man   that’s deep like they’re literally doing they’re  encouraged to do that at 18 19 and I’m just  

Imagining all of the horrific psychological  trauma that has been going on Within These uh   structures and institutions for um over 100 years  I think the sororities are segregated unless you   are passing so let’s be honest it’s great that  they integrated the sororities in 2013 uh 2013  

Is when they were finally integrated but let’s be  honest they’re never going to be fully integrated   you’re not going to see a predominantly white  sorority have a bunch of black women from to be   honest the elite of the black community we have  our own class status structure within the black  

Community so the Black Elite they are not going  to be rushing for an elite white sorority they   have their own sororities and their own system CU  I guess that’s what the Black Elite decided that  

We were going to do as black people I didn’t get a  vote in that idea you know that concept there will   be some uh black people people of color in general  that will get into some of these sororities one  

Because of what is supposed to be publicly and  socially acceptable that’s always important is   their image but also there are people that are  closer to whiteness if that’s is a thing that’s   the language people like to use they are wealthy  or they were raised by white people or they were  

Raised around white people and mainly they were  wealthy or had access to Grants or scholarships   that give them access to this school oh yeah  and the last thing I put here is if you are a   person of color your opportunities in this social  game are going to be incredibly limited so your  

Rules are different and you uh as a black person  will learn that your rules are different as you   break them it’s real fun real fun because the  rules are the same for you as the white people  

And then there’s like an extra set of rules that  they’re not going to tell you you’re going to have   to you’re going to have to learn it’s a lot that  you have to like swallow to really be accepted  

In those spaces and this is coming from someone  who not necessarily in a college space but in   other spaces have definitely been that black  person who was accepted when I was young and   ignorant and dumb and Looking Back Now like yeah  it is it was incredibly uncomfortable I was just  

Unaware the depth of meaning of what was going  on and didn’t have enough information all right   let’s talk about the machine I love when they  brought up the machine because like it was like   it was like the thing I needed to find cuz I’ve  already studied so much about secret societies  

The history of them and a lot of them that are  in the United States that when the machine came   up I was like like oh okay so I knew some stuff  started in college but like I didn’t know they  

Had a name for it and like people would literally  like deny that it existed on camera um or that   people were brave enough who had been through it  to actually like speak out so let’s talk about the machine this is editor Britney’s disembodied  voice this video got a little long so I split  

It up into two I know funny my video reviewing  this documentary I think is longer than the   actual documentary in part two we will talk about  the machine we’ll do a side-by-side comparison of   Bama Rush versus Bridgeton a psychoanalysis  of the entire Greek system and the subjects  

In the documentary and more make sure to check  out part two of this video also please do the   YouTube things like share subscribe and thank  you for watching we will see you in the next one

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