40s I guess the 40s 40s do you know when teenage pregnancy PE around like my M age 80s you know that teenage pregnancies at an alltime low right now right right but that’s what I’m saying you’re trying to quantify um having having sex by pregnancy that’s what I’m saying oh I’m
Going I’m going somewhere give me a sec give me a sec give me a sec I’m I’m warming you up warm me up so actually I’ll hurry up and get to my conclusion because I do got to get back to work pause I I
Was hang on hang on hang on let me let me let me let me just say this one thing and then I’ll drop the light so just really quick so the reason part of a big part of the reason why this generation is not having as much sex as the
Previous generations is largely because of 911 911 happens there’s cameras everywhere you go to a school today and they’ve got you on camera pull it into the parking lot back in our day you you could pull up in a in a high school parking lot and get busy and keep it
Going you can do that in the middle of the day easy money you don’t think that’s going on right now that these cameras these these kids are the most they don’t get no [ __ ] about these cameras dog easy easy hey dtown dtown wait a minute wait a minute let me say
This real quick bro chicag but I’m trying to talk and I understand they go ahead go ahead go ahead goad I know no you go ahead get yours I’m talking to you because I’m the era you talking about bro and all what you saying we don’t care about that bro that’s not
About to stop no man they don’t give no [ __ ] about them cameras do [ __ ] bro what did you say I can tell you that and he wait D this what I was gonna say and them teachers is not F to come out there and stop them them teachers don’t give
No [ __ ] about them cameras either maybe in the suburbs maybe in the suburbs is different maybe maybe in the suburbs I ConEd that but in the city where them cameras really are them kids don’t give no [ __ ] about no camera so but what I think is happening with D I
Think he go by his his cir Circle his Circle no it’s not the circle I’m just talking about the the problem is that as as a mass your age group is not popping it off like that okay okay told myself in 2024 people that you hang around
With in a mass as we go by the population that age group is not getting it they not getting it in they’re not get and and I think that’s that’s just if if we’re breaking down the numbers trigger y’all need to talk to us a little bit more bro talk to us a
Littleit more y are online telling all y business talk to us more like talk to sway talk li listen I don’t know so for example how like the way yeah no we can hear you B the way how yall communicate y y’ rather talk at the same same time with somebody else
Talking right that that’s what yed do this is the communic come on bro you gas like it down I was the person that was get overtook and I a even talk bro b Cherry talked all over me and I didn’t even say nothing usually I usually I’ll be loud
And stuff I ain’t even been doing this long no so so what we try what we trying to explain to you D times that your exper in your circle of [Applause] men ccle hold on what I’m saying deta you better stay in a child’s place man you
Ain’t in your child’s place you to be seen and not heard [ __ ] get your little ass down somewhere DT I got to D like PA do it I got I gotta turn into PA your ass detail it’s weird bro you know it’s just so weird doesn’t feel like we are communicating
Properly with he’s not feeling he’s getting his full thought out dtown please get your full thought out we apologize go ahead oh now you apologize I want I want you to I want you to say that apology a little bit better than that oh Lord now he acting like a woman y y
C I like and I would like and I would like for B Cherry to apologize too before I damn now you sound like making Ransom demand can I get that please shiron can I get that damn you sound like you negotiating for a hostage now energy we were talking about earli I
Got you the only thing I could do is ask Bon Cherry Bon Cherry can you please apologize to dtown so he can get his full thought out yes yes uh dtown I apologize that you can’t get [ __ ] it ain’t my fault oh ain’t my fault you go
It’s crazy how B Cher was talking right when she was saying about like you know I can get men and men do this for me and do that and she telling all these these women message a certain message and I’m like and then but in my head I’m like but
Wasn’t Bon Cherry married for 30 years she always had a man she never had to really do it by herself so why she pushing this narrative to these women when she actually had a for years so it’s just it’s a lot of hypocrisy going
On so you know it is what it is let me ask this um thank you for finishing did what narrative that that you heard me push to women go ahead good question because I’m not up here I didn’t push nothing we having a conversation and I’m
Just giving some push back to what said but I’m not putting a narrative out there but go ahead you tell me what it is I don’t know put a narrative out there since you say you didn’t put no narrative out there I don’t have to say anything else but other men heard what
It was but it’s good I’m not about to make you I got you hey D when you get the opportunity we clear the air we cleared the floor when you have your opportunity to speak that’s when you’re supposed to say this is I just said it was a
Narrative what you did was what you did was you could see that say hey y’all heard what she said cuz we we always about to back you up and say yes we did hear narratives being pushed however what I’m saying is this godamn it dtown what I’m saying is this just
Gave it [ __ ] when you get the opportunity to get the floor that is your time and this you did not ConEd the d d shiron if I can please hey dtown respectfully brother listen when it was not clear and concise so when when when when you was asking right because you
You you did not deflect but you did concede and just say hey I’m not gonna do that for you like no just State what it was so we all in agreement and then the brothers could come back and CH in I got you basically when she was saying
That you know women want to do this by themselves and this by themselves but she have a whole man she not doing nothing by all right so let me uh I got some people in the back so I W to Welcome to the stage un like Lee how you
Doing good morning good morning to everybody on the chat jersey in the building [ __ ] dirty J in the building damn big dirty also welcome to the stage the Sim God himself Daryl long good day oh [ __ ] godam I bow to all the SS to all the men who
Have no issue with women I bow to you there you go and I also want to say this as as people been um people been emailing people been talking to me they’ve been asking me so anybody that want to uh kick anybody off for everybody else is
The regular price but but for me and darl yes you could C click me and darl off the panel as well but it is double that is how that is going to work so uh unlikely you um listening in the back so what do you want to add to this
Conversation yeah I really wasn’t I don’t know what y’all talking about I’m G listen right now I’m hop in time this is what we was talking about like you think that you’re saying words but you was not saying any words this what we trying to get you to get you to start
Being more concise with your words as chicagorilla just said hey darl long how you feel what would you like to add to the conversation I I came in late so um I’m like I’m like Lee I was I was listening earlier when y was talking about marriage [ __ ] we just we just everybody
Just hopped in on your [ __ ] [ __ ] nobody listen you like that get get on the youy let’s get back to this narrative that I what we but the Nar The Narrative was it was just more so saying that how how you was pushing what you was pushing was
More so that you you with the young ladies why they they doing the certain things that they doing now but you didn’t go through that situation that’s why I was most said your situation you had a man he how about how about look look what started this conversation
Maybe maybe I should just start the video over of what the conversation was about in the first place yeah let’s do it again and maybe now it uh it killed up a little Tri mik she push n yo I I dead ass thought the video I thought I dead ass thought the video
Said my name want to say is oh they’re gay they’re sassy no they’re not they’re just tired of what you guys are presenting and if y’all are here to give them free [ __ ] free looks and free everything they ain’t got to work for why would they but they’re never going
To take you serious so it seems to me like a lot of y’all are now starting to godd damn I got too many things in the background realize that you’re either losing value or have lost value from chasing attention and now that’s something that y’all got to do and y’all
Can’t face that fact men love women that are exclusive women that are put up women that every man can say he had or can have simple as that there’s a stat on Facebook and basically it said so that that was the end of it right there that’s cap that’s
Cap men do not hold on hold on are we saying that men hold on I want to make sure I’m clear with Easy Money Jones he’s the first one to that are you saying that men do not want a woman that he is exclusive with and before you
Answer that I want to welcome all the way from Japan Spanish or something hilarious that was my best impersonation so we saying that men do not want a woman that is exclusive yeah that’s no [ __ ] we want go go through y’all Instagram likes and who you follow and I
Guarantee it’s not a woman that you would classify as exclusives come on now wa what hold on hold on hold on chaga so we just had a young lady shout out to my brother DJ Hamp um this might be risky just had a young lady named
Luna on there who is married has an only fan oh [ __ ] listen her the truth what happened she has an only fan she is married her ass is butt ass make it out we found the video on her of cornhub last night I found that put it in my
Discord so it is her damn so let’s and and her black husband who go by the name of hood Mystic who I understand I never heard of him found thought yesterday he was a a mystical Bandit teaching y’all how to beat men online he said it’s okay
For his wife to have her [ __ ] out riding in the car getting fingered online and still be married after she accused DJ Hamp trying to [ __ ] her too so let’s stop acting like because a woman is out here doing certain things or dressing a certain type of way she’s
Not a wifey material she that’s [ __ ] no no no that’s not what was said though what was said was she said no what was said was no no no she said men want a woman that’s exclusive to him and not one that’s been passed around where everybody could say I hit that yes
And that’s that’s that that has nothing to do with black men exclusive that’s any man I’ll reiterate my point Jo Smith did Joe Smith not marry a woman that was already [ __ ] a whole bunch of people 22 not Mary please can I because okay wait hold
On I don’t want to do celebrities show me the brothers in your hood wait wait hold on show me the men in your neighborhood that did that I make my point so until I make my point I address other points this [ __ ] I thought you did I thought you
Landed your plane my bad goad but but darl look this is a part that you’re not you’re not um you you’re not putting into equation those women are still exclusive to that man so when when Joe Smith married his ex adult star she said I’m not doing it anymore I’m gonna be exclusive
To I use other people like the plug but let me y didn’t hear all the examples I was using leaned the plug [ __ ] Jason love on camera is that being exclusive to her man is that being exclusive to her husband without jumping over all over the [ __ ] place so is Lena plug the
The the the the example like the exception or she’s the ru did this married woman who had a married man was she to her husband yes or no yes no no she [ __ ] another [ __ ] on camera no she was not is she the only example no you could probably find maybe five
10% wait wait wait wait wait hold on we talking about majority though wait wait hold on I Didn’t Know show my majority I thought when are we not talking wait when are we not talking about wait are we not talking about majority yall claim that men don’t like certain things I
Know question on hold on hold on so you mean to tell me when people say men and people say women they are not talking about majority no uh first of all y’all don’t be knowing the numbers so I know y’all not talking about majority y’all make it
Seem like there’s no men out there who want a woman who dress scarly like that woman in video remember we’re going back to the video she says men don’t want uh men don’t want women who doing this that and the third when majority of women are dressing the way she was
Saying and watch this Mom and watch this Mom and then I got to drop real quick on let me just say this in drop who has more IG followers Tiana Trump or Lo Jones my Cas I’m out I go work that is terrible resp let me respond to
Jesus Christ I wanted I wanted to respond to easy money when he said that was a terrible analogy why it’s terrible so uh he said go on a man’s IG followers or I’m sorry the people he’s following is he following these women to [ __ ] or is he
Following them to marry those two things usually in the majority are very different and somebody just said a majority of these women are dressing like that that’s why a majority of these women AR aren’t married we can do this all day you can find married women dressing that
Way for some reason I just we could we could find married women [ __ ] po boys that don’t mean majority of women are [ __ ] pool boys come on that is true that is true but you know the difference is we not saying women are doing this and women are doing y’all doing that or
Y’all saying men don’t do this and men don’t do that when y’all don’t even know cuz y’all don’t date me okay so let’s let’s do it like this we we could pull we could pull the men here hey darlon do you do you mind if your woman is out
There busting down other men if she’s having sex with other men is that what the lady was saying because that’s not what I heard in the clip and I heard it clearly and concisely without it [ __ ] I didn’t hear that neither yeah but I’m saying the the examples that M just
Answer the examples that you chose to use was um marry women that was in relationship that’s busting down other men so now so now are you putting yourself in a category of men that is okay with busting down other men is that okay for your woman to do the example
That I used was based on what the young lady said in the video about men not want in particular group of women which I highlighted a certain group of women that fits the exact exactly what she’s talking about correct for example uh I mean and I can keep going you can name a
Million different wise y’all got it you can make my point for good no good you got it no no but I I want you I want you to uh so that’s what I’m saying so stop I’m not I’m not examples I want to say like so let’s pull them men here
Do you think that the men do you personally think that it’s okay for your woman to bust down another man is that okay with you that’s what I’m asking first off that was the greatest tap dance around a question I’ve ever seen in my life and no I am not okay with it
That will uh irreparably destroy our marriage irrep unlikely same question to you we already know the answer I don’t know why we’re going through because because because he was represents all men B Cherry that’s why right and not only that because I can tell you that and we’ve already
Spoken on this right if if we talk about the type of parties I’ve been giving for years and I tell you the type of men who’ve come to the parties who share openly share their wives what y’all say to that that wouldn’t be y’all but I
Could there’s a lot of them even is that the majority or the minority I’m telling you that it’s more than you can consider I I would put it at 50% and that’s me you put it at what what percent 50 and that’s be nice that’s fact you saying
50% of men wait wait wait I just want to make sure 50% of men 50% of men are okay with sharing their wife who they’re in Covenant with with other men yes okay andiron you gotta make a poll now you gotta make a poll I’m I’m about to give
You I’m about to give you so he brings his wife to the party point before you make that point Bon Cherry I want to introduce somebody to the stage as well and after Bon Cherry I want Lamar black attack to uh give his thoughts in uh so welcome to
The stage the verbal assassin so we gonna go bomb we gonna go bomb Cherry Lamar black attack and then verbal assassin is going to introduce herself into the conversation go ahead okay so I’m from that world that underworld right that y’all call the underbelly but apparently y’all not there so you don’t
Know what’s going on there but I do so men bring their wives other men bring their wives this man get to be with that man’s wife and that man get to be with that man wife let me tell you y’all don’t believe but that [ __ ] is happening All Over America black white Latino
Asian all kinds of [ __ ] I’ve had ball players I’m talking about famous people coming to my parties and I’ve had regular people who I invited in my neighborhood yes yes yes y’all doing it but y’all not going to tell each other because you don’t want the guy who
Not into that to know that you share his wife you don’t want him to know that so stop acting like y’all know what’s going on well no we have I’ve had people hold on GAR black attack and then a verbal we GNA try to get everybody here this
W buck A W Buster down n that no I no no I don’t no I I I think there’s always been swingers but but they never was majority cuz they built that way they not built that way how you know let go how know how you know how know DN you
Advocating pretty hard right now no I’m not see y’all think does not mean that I’m advocating B Cherry B Cherry Cherry finish her Jesus Christ hello you ask me how I know cuz I’m the host of the [ __ ] events I’m the one who put them together damn I’m the one
Who put the inite out that’s how I know not how you know because everybody not built like that it’s human nature some people get jealous he don’t know human I don’t think it’s majority there you go Mr lle go ahead yeah I don’t think it’s majority but
Those swinger parties do happen a lot out here in Miami I Agree Cherry come from all over the country I know about tra I know about traes in Atlanta I lived in Atlanta for a year Atlanta do that [ __ ] hold on I wanty to keep the line I hold on I want verbal assassin to get a chance to speak ahead verbal assassin
Shiron you a swinging Bandit no I am not most of y’all [ __ ] swinging B without knowing scaring women without KN morning good morning good morning everyone how are you doing hey hey I I have covid so I got time today [ __ ] sorry to hear that thank you so yeah I just want to
Say that I agree with everything that bom is saying she’s absolutely correct uh most men are Cooks okay and there’s not one single solitary man on the face of the planet whether he’s in a cave under a bed or under a rock who wants a woman that other men don’t want
So y all wasn’t a Christian not what at All please go ahead finish bass if you was oh I said it that’s why y’all like porn so much so let me ask you this back on Le there was a back on Le there was a young man named delad attorney that’s my first time ever see
Him on Y show he spoke about how mared couples would invite and I got the clip put up right now if anybody want to see it he said that mared couples invite bu into their house then you you really asked what are bus and he said bu are
Men with big ass dicks and I’m glad you said that’s correct so as he said to you on your show or show that you used to be a part of at least in Atlanta married couples pay men with big ass dicks to be a part of well so pull up the clip and
Let it play Daryl because the other thing that he was talking about is that that’s an exclusive minority community in Atlanta so that’s why I said that’s correct he did say that he was not speaking to that like yesterday understood but but what I’m saying is hold on let’s be clear fam nobody’s
Denying that swingers exist nobody’s saying uh these things aren’t happening we’re talking about majority of men to which I hear at least three people on the panel saying 50% or more men are cool with they lady busting down other [ __ ] that’s what I’m hearing I get
That but the but what I’m just matter of fact lead attorney said in that same clip that he wasn’t comfortable with that he said he had got approach and turned that down yo let’s put a percentage on it let me hear percentage what’s the percentage FR in the clip the woman said
That l 10 okay say I say one the saying that they don’t want those kind of women at all that’s that that’s that’s that’s what the woman was saying she said they will [ __ ] them they won’t WIP them that’s what she said exactly they W wife him
But that’s not true because again as you most men said as you just said [ __ ] as you just said the lead attorney said that married people was inviting them right married people right he said he had got a approached by a couple yeah
I so let me say this to uh no a couple is two people I’m saying he got he was at a bar or at a restaurant and got approached by a couple meaning the wife and husband were together man and he allowed another man but again I’m not
Denying that that didn’t happen that’s why I said correct that’s correct when he was saying that I said that’s correct we’re talking about majority versus minority I can’t from the minority let me on let me say this to um bomb Cherry just like the um LGBT movement all this [ __ ] used to be
Underground now it’s above ground so I don’t think you were correct when you said we don’t know what’s going on that we all know people in the sex positive Community that’s how I know it’s called The Sex positive Community they talk about that [ __ ] and then we ask them
Questions like damn who you be seeing at that [ __ ] they be like no that [ __ ] is real exclusive it’s it’s really exclusive it’s it’s a minority it’s Executives they have websites they have membership fees they got all we know about the sex positive Community that’s why I’m comfortable saying it is nowhere
Near the majority of people but it is a growing hold on hold on it is a growing group of of a growing minority of people showing interest in that type of stuff oh so y’all think this is something new that’s growing is that say I didn’t say new y’all do not know what
Y’all talking about but it’s okay so B Cherry soer are we saying that think are we saying that most women right most shout out to Professor Cherry they want to go outside they husband and have sex with multiple men that’s what we are saying that’s what most women want to do
So most women want to go outside of their marriage and have sex with other men is that what we saying you you would have to ask those women what they want oh so now we got to ask those women but when we are telling you you we got a we
Got a I I will tell you I will we talk my own show okay well God damn like you asked me a question and then now you trying to switch it on me see I up here I am not up here telling y’all what women doing what women won’t do
What women will do y’all are doing that right you saying what men won’t do and then now you’re trying to switch it on me to make it seem like I’m saying that women will do this and do that see I know that in this in what we talking
About right now is something it’s not exclusive the way y’all think where it’s small I’m saying that it’s Hush Hush that’s what exclusive me like your neighbor not coming and tell you all they [ __ ] business because they don’t want you to know because you’re not a
Part of it so I’m not gonna be on this [ __ ] naming names and tell anything so I’m saying y’all don’t know because it is small no small don’t mean [ __ ] don’t mean so before y I want to shout out to Easy Money Joes thanks for hosting a dope conversation I
Appreciate you thank you easy money Jones you giving some great commentary thank you I also want to acknowledge the cash app uh Flora Silva she says loving the growth SBG gang gang gang we are here and uh also don’t forget to um you know support your goddamn host TI your tip your
Host yes thank you I just want to say something because um yes I I will I would like to answer that question um men I need you to understand something okay now hold on to your hat and glasses all right don’t go run screaming down the street just don’t panic I promise we
Won’t but yes the majority of women come on dude sto the show the majority of women absolutely fantasize about having sex with other men they would love to be able to do that because you are not satisfying soad I hear your women okay something what is it something over
70% of women married or not are not being satisfied by penetration you do not know how to [ __ ] so yes they want to [ __ ] somebody who can [ __ ] yes they do now hello who fault is that though I want I want to know uh shout out to
Ariel CH with the $2 ball I’m not sure what kind of uh money is that exclusive doesn’t mean minority I think that’s Europe it usually does though it usually does n usually does name me name me an exclusive majority right now uh who f is that that most women do have an
Argasm to the verbal assassin oh [ __ ] oh [ __ ] I know whatam said I got mine you didn’t get yours that’s your fault sh said [ __ ] better but here’s the thing so nasty Lamar I don’t think I Lamar can handle it Lamar Lamar threw that ski hat off no I think that most
Women they already can have it got nothing to do with you I think they already born their way so when they have what one another another another another you think they born with not getting orgasms no they born that way they can have multiples they had nothing to do
With y’ ego nothing to do with you all women can have multiples if you men I say all women okay okay sorry no no I’m a mute B Cherry sorry right there we’re not talking about scissors okay so what what what I’m saying is this we are
Saying that most men when they choose a woman they do want that woman be too exclusive to him even if and we go down the line that darl is saying that he want to pimp her out and [ __ ] her out he’s he is still type in that thought P
He think that he’s excluded because those men have to pay for it they making a business they not um adding the business as a person like most um adult film stars do not even count how many men they have sex with on camera as the
Same as how they have sex and a person life they have those things completely separate for some strange reason I think it’s kind of crazy but this is how they do their business we are not talking about that small minority of human beings most men and then Dar you go
Right after most men they want their women to themselves and usually women want they man to thems M El as well go ahead Dar oh all them threes sorry it’s okay so there was a young veteran named adus who came home from the war and black man in Chicago
Back in the day shout out to love crab country go watch that um he came back to find out that his father was sucking dick come on man so shiron do you think that they took a stat or a poll that way we can know later on how
Many men like him were veterans sucking dick so we can have a accurate conversation was in the Navy was damn Tri have real um real stats because them brothers be over there yeah you know Lamar can I just jump in right here with he like just real quick like and this
What I’m saying y’all trying to fight this argument don’t this this is a losing battle okay because we really don’t know how many dudes are doing wild [ __ ] like we know that there’s there’s exclusive places right but we don’t know about the guys that say I would never do
That and then they go do it you like the ones who would know please just let them have this guys oh my God like I hate when I want to do this I want to do this arel CC said shiron please look up and read the definition of exclusive to
People so here we go the first one excluding or not admitting other things number two restricted or liit person or group or area concern an item or story published or broadcast by only one source so to me exclusive seems like it is a small it’s synonymous hold on it’s it it does not
Mean minority hold on hold on because I’m not letting people say [ __ ] on the internet no more name me an exclusive majority yo what are you talking about that’s not what we talking about okay let me give you one how about we talk about fraternities and sororities those are not small groups
But they are ex they are small are small grp relative everybody can’t get in which mean a minority of college students get into fraternities and sororities those two things are synonymous they don’t mean but that’s not the point the point is this trigger Mike do you know every dude on the DL in
Your sorority did you know every dude on the DL in your sorority yes do you know every dude that straight that’s you just Pro it no you had the best put you in a sorority don’t let that man put you in a sorority Trigg Pro
When you said we don’t know so they are making absolutes by saying we’re not the they’re saying they’re the majority or we’re 5050 I can’t let that absolute live oh no that I’m not saying I would never say is the majority of 5050 yeah that’s an absolute Checkmate wait wait a
Minute 5050 is not a majority 51 would be a majority but 5050 is not it’s not 5050 think I give it 30% I give it 30% 35 again again can anybody anybody you agre I said it before I said 30% he agree with me I’m just agreeing back with
Him I got I got you Lamar black so but the the fact of the matter is that nobody’s named One exclusive majority group but go ahead trigger mic so bomb Cherry let’s also do this because like we said we have friends in the sex positive Community aren’t there people
That come to your parties to try and don’t partake and never come again do are there people who come to my parties to observe it saying they were excited they showed interest but once they seen what was going on they were like no not for me aren’t there people
That do that well there’s people who could come and watch but but you but wait a minute but baby that’s a part of the community we have voyers exhibitionists yes BDSM all kinds of [ __ ] you don’t know what you’re talking about see even in that asked a question
I don’t know how and watch and they come to watch and if they came to watch then they participated they may not have dider bon Cherry you missed the question you missed the question is there people is there people that come there and then they change their mind they say you know
What this is awesome but this is just not for me and my wife has that ever happened just say yeah doesn’t help the argument anyway no I no some people that came wait so you guys are y are y’all asking if these people actually go walk up to her after party and say
He just mean that they didn’t like that setting doesn’t mean that they don’t like that type of I understand I don’t understand why this question is so difficult for you to answer it’s not even a good question has a couple ever come there wed to be participating and then they changed
Their mind and said you know what thank for having me but this is not for us has that ever happened I have never had a uh uh anybody come to my events and then look around they come up to me and say for inviting me uh but this is not our scene
And and leave no that has never thank you that’s all you have that’s all looking for answer the question that’s it we ain’t trying to get you no Goa we having conversation that’s no no but they are you I understand what you’re saying but okay the question is ridiculous because if somebody wasn’t
Crazy they wouldn’t walk up to me and say thank you invite me and it’s not my scene they wouldn’t tell me that wrong they would just so the reason I asked question these people are masters of discretion they’re not the reason the reason I asked question is because let’s let’s do the
Distinction between participation and interest um that 30% thing y’all were talking about I would absolutely believe that 30% of people are interested in trying that [ __ ] like oh damn maybe and um to verbal assassin can I can I finish to verbal assassin’s point that may be the man
Realizing that he can’t please his wife right and and he he really don’t want to do anything about it and she’s the one who wants to do it so maybe they show interest and don’t go through it it maybe they don’t contact you at all bomb Cherry because they realized they were
Scared so that’s what I’m saying it’s never going to be the majority or 5050 of people who are going to go all the way through the process and seek out your membership it can be well it can’t be okay and also we got plenty of proof that these
Adri damn you’re host robot plenty of examples because the reason why they can’t keep and maintain long uh relationship is because they are not exclusive to nobody anybody could get them anybody can see them on the Internet and like oh that’s my girl too they have a problem with it wait you
Said you got proof for what we got we got women that’s in the adult industry crying saying they cannot keep a boyfriend because man y’all be just finding seven same seven women and then y’all do that hold hold on hold on on hold on let me say this we can find hold
On we can find women that’s Church women not not on the internet no pictures of they ass out virgins damn near can’t keep them in too what’s the what what conversation are we having up here okay then I’m saying the majority is not because they can’t her nature they can’t H
It no we already agreed to that though Lamar she she even said nobody think the majority that’s that’s not even an argument okay okay here’s the thing here’s the thing about what Daryl said that’s a that’s a clear deflection because them being virgins and everything has nothing to do
With what we are talking about we talking about what we are talking about is men wanting they women to be for them men do not want women that is for the community that is not going on in MTH you can’t say that there some men that
Do you said he said that there was women in the industry women in the industry that are complaining about not being to keep a man I assume you said women in the industry because they are in a sex industry because we was having a conversation about sharing women and I
Made a statement how men women who are not being shared not in the industry are dealing with the same exact [ __ ] thing is that not a fact no that is not a fact I can see my time no so this the the parties that I that I host wouldn’t
Be considered like porn and and when y’all say sex industry I guess I get I mean if that’s the way y’all want to put it I could see that right I could see that I like I make money inviting people to parties and so adults can be adults and and they do
Whatever it is that they want to do with consenting adults even if that means sitting down playing Domino’s naked right whatever hey hey darl I think the people in church is the biggest horse this my opinion it just it’s my opinion why do why do you men get up
Here and pretend like you have all of these not all of these you don’t even know what I was going to say you pretending about I you yeah you didn’t know what I was going say you’re pretending about but why do you get up here and pretend like you guys have all
Of these guidelines and you’ve got all of these boxes for a woman to check y’all are for the streets and everybody knows it so go with anybody anybody first y’all are the biggest hoes y’all want to talk about distinction though ver distinction do men this is
For women to [ __ ] men have almost No Boundaries are you talking about women to marry do we not have boundaries no you don’t no oh then first of all you barely get married so I don’t know why it’s so interesting that this all of a sudden it’s all these men these black
Men talking about marriage as if y’all get married we get married more than women do uh 2% 2% is something for you to run and say you won then have at it 2% more not much it’s not much you’re neck and neck with black women black men are neck and
Neck with women and you have and you get divorced way more when you do marry ma’am all right let’s be clear ma’am no like everything was incorrect everything you said was incorrect no it’s not no it’s not incorrect so guys can somebody tell me why did Kanye West decide to
Marry Kim Kardashian after she was getting because he’s take keep celebrities out of this [ __ ] like we got toop so cool if if if I name one of my [ __ ] from my hood you don’t know who married would you believe me but he’s an average guy is he not damn that’s a good
Point if I say he was an average guy he make more money to everybody on his panel would you believe me then and is he an average average ho though he marry we can relate to an average man please use an average man when I when I tell y’all y’all don’t
Y think that average men hold on I got this B the fact yall think that average men are not marrying hoes it’s it’s it’s ridiculous and ass [ __ ] I can name 50 [ __ ] right now right it’s ridiculous so the ones of us who’ve been to college right I wish Sean Antonio was
Up here so he can talk about how many wives he sked his nut on right he talk about it on his Channel all the time Antonio is all the about it all the time so agree like let me this question somebody gota mute up somebody [ __ ]
Loud go ahead I mute up I was going to answer your question go ahead [ __ ] there’s plenty of average [ __ ] settling for hoes every every single day we all have bust down a [ __ ] and then the next day we see her with a average bum ass [ __ ] that’s taking her on
[ __ ] candies and the movies dat did he marry her though yes and according to verbal assassin let finish start let him finish the store uh get uh Chicago I know Chicago really wanted to jump in there as well uh get Chicago no only thing I was going to say
And this is why I agree with trigger Mike on this we using it is my stuff still my back still out hopefully it’s is good G good so now when you say why did Kanye marry the that’s a very easy question to answer and this is why
Trigger Mikel say in this instance that may not be the best example we know that’s a PR move we know him getting with her boosted his career we know it boosted her career so that’s very easy right I’m sure what what I don’t know if you’re going to say well he was chasing
Her because he really loved her and all there’s business involvement so that’s why that’s why trigger m saying like marriage you know that you friends with inv Let Let me let me set a baseline let me set a baseline having this conversation the whole time I’m having a
Conversation with you I’m addressing you I’m not bringing anybody else into this I’m not bringing anybody else conversation so when you you bring up another individual was nobody when he married her what are you talking about what are you talking about you sing Kim kerian wasn’t nobody when he
Married her I make the worst arguments ever yo okay say that Kanye was not gonna blow up unless he got what Kim let me pay some bills hold on I got you uh let me pay some bills Robin M she says black men get married at 30% and have the highest divorce rates
Of all marriages I want to correct that real quick uh so black men are getting married uh at 34.4% and black women are married at 28.6% so therefore we got the stat that is the numbers whatever whatever y’all wanna add to that to those stats that’s
Is shout out to Robert M thank you for uh support in the and I also want to introduce to the stage dtown and I also want to introduce to the stage gbg General what’s up what’s up what’s up what’s up but what I was trying to tell
You is if we gonna mention the business side of the relationship that Kim and Kanye had I heard out of my own [ __ ] mouth that brother Anon from my city said that his business his wife and his his whole marriage is a business too so again that applies to everybody no wait
What that man does applies to everybody all I’m saying is when I is business applies to everybody you heard me in this space say consistently I don’t agree with that I believe marriage is Covenant I don’t believe marriage is a business I don’t think it should be a proess business
People are free to do what they believe I believe marriage is cover they married my wife for business married her based on cover exchanges stress for week I wanna I want to bring some more people into the show go ahead uh gbg General let me hear your thoughts cheeky Bandy yeah um
So I guess the the question was like do men have standards for women or do they want exclusive women yes do they want do they want their girlfriend to be exclusive to them that’s a good question I think in a general sense most men do obvious question um I think generally I think
Generally the the fact of the matter is most men do um most men are willing to accept women in their sexual past but they idea is that that past stops um which was you know darl long used the Joe guy whatever his name is Joe Smith
Joe Smith right she if you remember the conversation he was like she said to him you knew who I was and he said yeah but you’re supposed to stop so it’s not that it’s not that men aren’t accepting a women’s past because I think most men are more understanding
Than you know probably the men you guys see online but men understand hey you you’re a human being um you have experiences with other men you have sex with other men but when you’re with me the the the exclusivity of the relationship um is implied so when you
Break it can I ask you a question brother respond can I respond after he um Shan yes okay yeah just my that’s my thoughts you guys go ahead okay I like what just said right cuz you’re right you’re not you’re not completely wrong but in case y’all didn’t know let’s talk
About swingers real quick a swinger is a a a couple men and women right or it could be any but men and women in this case and she can have Mo she can be with another man but he has to approve the husband has to approve so maybe only at
This party they’re able to do what they do but outside of that party he says hey he but you’re not supposed to be doing like if she get with some man man that he didn’t approve and said and he catches her she can’t say well but you
Let me do this no cuz he gonna say but you’re not supposed to do this so what I am saying that even in swinging and all this other things that happen underbelly that y’all you would consider underbelly there’s rules to it so that guy Joe you
Know he had a girlfriend he he so he was okay with doing what he want to do but he didn’t wanted wife to do what she wanted to do because you may get selfish I have a question for you say something please can you say something about that please I like to address
Point was making real Qui we get like derailment moment but Joe Smith Joe Smith also respond to one point and then sir yes sir with bomb Cherry um yes though those are rules that are meant for that specific couple but do you you think that most married couples are
Swingers do I think most married couples are swingers no I don’t think most no I think a lot though a lot more than y’all it’s a circular conversation I’m telling y’all it’s a circular conversation y’all wna keep having it so cheeky now that you addressed that when I’m glad that
You said that when he met his wife he knew that she was a corn star he expected her to stop when it got to the point in the interview I’m glad you watched all of them where he asked her to start paying bills again and the only thing that was on her
Resume was being a corn star I asked you cheeky if she was not going to go back to what she was doing that made her millions of dollars before to sustain their lifestyle what job should she have taken um not wait wait wait wait hold on he’s asking a valid question if her
Profession was uh an adult star um the question the question is what could she do for money but that is an endless amount of options because you can work for money now there’s a couple of things you could have done she was working no she said she owned a business she’s not
Going back wait wait wait wait also say sustain the lifestyle that they have so you can’t just go work a N9 to5 you know what I’m saying I’m not saying I’m not saying no one saying please allow the man to get his full thought out no one saying that she has to just
Work a regular job or whatever the case may be right if that is a profession and you have an agreement or there’s this idea that there’s a level of exclusivity in the relationship the best thing for you to do one is to either end the relationship so you can do what you said
You wanted to do what she probably should have done instead of doing this thing where I’m not telling him like she did it under under his nose and she said she had multiple forms of income so the fact that she the fact the fact that she
The fact that she was not open and transparent about how she was making money and she wasn’t exposing uh or not exposing but she wasn’t explaining hey this is what I’m resulting to or this is what I’m thinking before she did it is the breach of trust now there are
Multiple things she could have done before it got to this point but she chose to rely solely on a person which is why women go we need education we need a job we need these things and I agree with them I’ve never been the one to fight against that so yeah to iterate
You’re definitely right she had other forms of income in the interview with Vlad TV she made it clear that her only fans was was her major number one stream of income I can see it doesn’t also after she did that only she also W up want to say this one thing she also
Ended up in a van with a damn [ __ ] but go ahead cheeky she ended up in a van with a [ __ ] with they for sex for money yes oh okay well she was that’s her business she was working okay she was working guys I’m guys I’mma come right back I’m trying to something
S on my computer so I’ll be back okay goe unlikely I know you um you want to jump in go ahead Lee yeah man I just like this this conversation is just like okay we get it right most dudes do not want a woman to be sleeping with other
Dudes right but at the end of the day in that situation specifically I mean Men supposed to be the strategists right we supposed to be the ones that are able to be strategic and proactive if you are telling the woman yo I need you to go go
Get some money and you understood that before she was getting her money this way at at that point for you to even stay with her everything is your fault after that right and it just drives me crazy how you guys come up here and you give all the you take all this
Accountability away from men you know what I’m saying like because if that was you you would have been like all right either if I go tell her to go get some money I might as well just dip because her going to go get some money is her
Gonna go do some [ __ ] that I don’t want her to go do so he stayed there and then on top of that y’all act like men are [ __ ] Sint bro again I’m say this man y’all think y the [ __ ] bees knees all the time because at the end of the day
Bro peep this right all right he like yo go get some money she go get the money the only reason that he mad is because we found out no no can can let’s stop it right there no no he was mad he probably already knew
What okay go ahead no he was mad before it happened she was the one put it out there to show how angry he was and she was like look at him being mad at me for doing what I got to do so he was mad
Before it got out to the media she was the one that put it out into the media so I also want to say shout out to MJ always showing some love thank you for always supporting I really appreciate you MJ hey shiron and panel where did you get those stats from because the
Census says 51% of black men and 47% of black women percent by 2020 the stat I was looking at was 2021 so uh so that what what percentage is that 47 48 49 50 51 so that’s 4% roughly boom there yeah now we’re gonna accountability on the I know all I
Know act like 4% is not a lot but guess what everybody wish they um home was at a 4% it’s not a lot of people relative it is a lot let me say this to um let me say this to Le’s point so I
Think we do a lot of uh we like we create our own narratives because the narrative that I remember when the video dropped is everybody’s like damn Joe Smith is a bum you marry a a a corn star you’re an idiot what else did you expect that was the narrative that was out
There the part where we were shaming the woman is like you don’t put your marital business out there like that you don’t tape this dude like that you see because just to your point you cannot expect anything else if you stay with her you a
Fool and you signed on for all of it you married a corn star in the first place so I don’t know where we got the narrative that dudes was sitting here like oh no she’s supposed to stop working and do what he want to and stop
Doing only fans when you marry a corn star you marry what comes with that you an idiot first off but that’s that was the majority of the narrative dudes aren’t out here trying to to to hold a woman accountable if you marry a cornstar first off I ain’t even
Coming to the wedding any my damn relatives marry a cornstar you you just took the family down three generations bro goddamn thank you trigger thank you for bringing the truth that’s that’s so ridiculous but anyway um so I ain’t going to that either I Ain gonna hold you well I’m going we gonna
Party okay we gonna party like she was the ex por star that’s what we going we going to twerk it down to the low come on ladies TW anyway I know you get down I know you used to get down now look the only way I go I’m keep it stack with the
Only way see my instagr now that wasn’t back in the day that was just a few years back Bob Cherry the only way I go is if like that’s my bro and he like yo I like that [ __ ] so I’m in all that wayd [ __ ] I’m like all right my boy let’s do
It I’m going because I don’t want you to I don’t want you to feel com like I don’t want you to be in this situation where you like I ain’t want her to do that cuz it’s dude like we said 30% even trigger Mike said he cool with the
Number being 30 % of dudes wanting to be on that W [ __ ] so if you like yo I I love all that [ __ ] I’m a recorder you know I’ll be like all right bro let’s go to the wedding that’s the on the real on the real do you know what do you know
What um we got to start doing though and this is to uh bomb Cherry’s point it can be high it could be a high level at 30% but the reason why I caution men against it is because they gonna do what Joe Smith did a lot of dudes secretly
Believe they can change that woman at some point by Nature most men are going to start become jealous leers this is a real moment right now what I’m saying is when women do things like well he met me as a stripper um and the dude is like yeah I’m cool with it
I’m sitting there shaking my head like man there’s a 50-50 chance y’ after y’all had some kids and you want her to be in the house and she’s still Wilding outside you’re gonna have a problem with it but guess what you agreed to it in the beginning now you can’t switch up
Because I think most men are gonna switch up on that woman like Joe Smith did that’s what I’m saying I see what you’re saying and I don’t disagree you know say I feel you because we all change right I’m I’m going to the point that we all change a woman can have
Children she could be a corn store and then she have children and now her whole everything changes she realizes okay I got these kids I got to do this now she don’t even want to even talk about her past because she don’t want her kids to
Know see right so that’s just go ahead so that would go to prove to our part where we were saying that most men want a woman that is because they are embarrassed of their past in the first place they do not want to be the woman that everybody have
Access to they do not want to be in a party and they with their husband and then the man is coming up there flirting with them because she has accessibility to every man in the party that is disrespectful no man wants a woman that is accessible to the community in that
Form of fashion okay that listen Okay okay because I don’t know how you jump from what I said about the women having children and doing this to the man there there are lots of incidents where a woman who’s wild right which y’all would call while uh this man interested when
She tone down he wants no part of that get with another one who’s wow right so don’t act like just because she Changs that he likes that okay bum I gota agree with you on that things like hey she married we was having good sex we was
Doing all that stuff all that three Sims and everything as soon as we got married and she had children she stopped it I still want to have that three Sims I still want come on y’all like come which is shocking but I agree with we need to just pull up another video
Like talk it’s crazy a good conversation but it’s like is it and I’m not promoting I like he everybody opinions wait let me say this B I’m sorry just because we I’m talking about this and I’m I’m telling facts based on my life and what I saw and lifestyle that I live
Right doesn’t mean that I’m promoting it I am not out here telling people to do this do that I’m not doing that but I’m not at the same time I’m not telling them not to do it because we’re all grown I’m saying do what you want to do
And if you get married y’all do it together whatever y’all decide to do or not do that’s all I’m saying I’m not giving no instructions does that make sense what I’m saying just now I’m not giving instructions so so you’re saying suck dick together no no I’m
Saying listen you know I used um My Generation didn’t really do that and when I first did it I was we was married uh 10 years I never done that to my husband but child [ __ ] more than us get off the [ __ ] what they got to do
With oral sex dude all look nothing at all nothing at all talking I’m a gymnast on a dick okay we G I’m a Scorpio we what I do back flips and C wheel retire gymnast why you think I retired why you see that’s the problem you think because
We’re a certain age that we don’t have sex but me and my husband have sex and minimum twice a week that is low cuz that’s me going through menopause before that though we were doing four times a week what the hell is you talking about reti well well well what he’s talking
About is the fact that he will he’s telling everybody he’s not going to be able to please his wife because you’re a married woman and he’s assuming that because you’re not 25 that you’re no longer having sex which Argo means that once his wife hits four he’s going to stop screwing her he
Doesn’t think that she needs to screw anymore therefore you have a dissatisfied sexually dissatisfied wife like what are y’all talking about if you want a video if you want a video I’ll send you the proof okay how about that sh okay got something for ver go ahead you see that have we record
Our actions baby that’s SE so verb hold up verbal assassin says that and I and I have to believe her she’s a woman that’s her that’s their experience that most women are dissatisfied with their men in the bed that’s why they fantasize about other men I don’t know why you didn’t
Think most men don’t know that but are you saying that most women please their men in the bed and it they do is that why most men you say most men cheat also I never said most men cheat when did I say that no I’m not I’m I’m saying
The narrative is that most true it’s true it’s true for it’s true Lamar the most mention you say you say it’s true Lamar yeah I think so because they woman can’t please him that’s what you saying I just come on let’s play let’s say the whole thing let’s be truthful
[ __ ] not just leave your woman do you think most wom women please their men in the bed [ __ ] immature I think that most men are pleased in the bed whether a woman is doing things or she’s just laying there like a starfish goddamn okayish so
All you got to do I mean does it really take much seriously does it really take much it and cold okay you better throw this [ __ ] back well B well hold on bomb Cherry was just talking about doing backflips so say lady that was laying on her back but
A dude find out a lady like bomb Cherry everybody having sex with bomb so unless you’re having sex with cherry who’s doing backli then you’re not being pleased not reaching orgasm that’s ridicul you go to the party or not but go ahead trigger mic if you go to the
Party you still wasn’t have sex bomb Cherry Bomb Cherry is an exhibitionist she’ll walk around naked as [ __ ] but that don’t mean you get the touch though damink so most of us like are sexually satisfied no matter what she’s doing wasn’t if that wasn’t the case then why
Why is this um this rise in in sex dolls like act inanimate objects y’all are getting pleased by things that can’t even breathe things that can’t even breathe you’re getting pleased by on that LS to my point not yours No it lends to mine no it l it no it does because you’re we’re talking about y’all can hump on top of an inanimate object and be satisfied plastic plastic seriously hold if a dude would rather [ __ ] a sex doll than a real woman that [ __ ] LS lends to my point
No stupid no it doesn’t agre with that even chicken like no dude come on that doesn’t that does doesn’t make sense but the the thing is if we’re going to use inanimate objects to make the conclusion that anybody can be pleased from anything how do you explain vibrators
Dildo and other sexual toyss for women men aren’t pleasing women at all job too much it’s too much I’m trying to understand I’m trying to understand the verb can you be quiet please and lick on that [ __ ] over there please look at look at Dar going crazy
Because my woman not pleasing me so as a man I found something I know I know you baby that’s why you over there With button right nowal my Eminem hey if y’all Hey listen I know y’all gotta be entertained today so Hey listen make sure you tipping out your goddamn ho show some goddamn love hit the like button because I don’t know for some reason y’all be real disrespectful
With the like button I have no idea why but please show some love to the goddamn like button share button and also the cash app Super Chat PayPal all those things all appreciate everybody that is trying to show any kind of love as and I appreciate every last one of you now
Back to the goddamn go ahead bom I just want hit the like button and I do want to say to that to the vibrant right so vibrators are vibr like look y’all want me to see show my R I got a big bag of toys okay no thank
You please don’t please don’t when you men cannot reach certain areas or you don’t know how to you know and so we we reach for the toys B say what you mean reach we only got to go four in no no no no Hey listen safe safe
Sex sex I’m trying to understand what she saying say Jon say something that’s true you only got wait shiron what you about to say what you about to say women only need a hard four inches that’s all you need to get to the point where you need
Go but no no no so you saying women right there are some women who like size so she she likes her uterus touch she like certain things stroke but if you talk about an orgasm if you know man don’t have to go too far in but he got
To know where he at the G-Spot is and how to save her Lee save her if he don’t know they really don’t be knowing where that is and to size let’s speak to size here’s the thing about size men who are pleasantly endowed think all they have to do is go
In and out like they think that that’s it that’s it well it’s big so it’s going to satisfy her but that is just absolutely not true is it the woman job to tell that yall are doing a lot of assuming who argument that okay okay I
Experts hold on one at a time I want to shout out to Jaylen she says for me to get some M&M’s thank you Jaylen for the cash app I appreciate melt in your mouth hold on you said assin that men watch corn you said so that means that men have a
Visual representation of what it takes to drive women crazy but are you saying that these men also don’t know how like they all we think is to go in and out and that pleases a woman so you think that so you think that porn is real you
Think so so you so so you think that sitting sex education for men should be sitting porn and that’s how you please a woman you think all of that so that that’s why porn wins for you men because think are but she saying something that a even what he saying it doesn’t matter
Let her get a hold on hold on just because she’s saying something that you don’t like allow her to finish and then you could dismantle it after just allow her to get a full thought because maybe it’s not as farfetched as you think let her get a
Full thought out first then you can assess how much you disagree because you mighte one point let say I want prot yeah and let’s say um corn instead of and I want also shout out Miss space she says good morning we say good day over here for support and the
Great uh content that we provided we are thank you and appreciative of you thank you so much go ahead uh verbus SASS and get out your full thought yeah it’s kind of hard when people keep like you guys just blow your top like good grief relax so corn is
Your um barometer of good sex and how you please a woman is that what you’re telling me because if that’s the case then absolutely men aren’t pleasing their women thank you so that that’s not uh what I said at all that’s not why that’s the question I’m asking you because you
Brought up porn as opposed to you literally just said so I can clarify for if men are watching you say men are watching card so if they’re watch ing corn then you’re saying they can’t please their woman but they’re watching corn saying that that’s how you please a
Woman now you’re making assumptions so you said no I spoke to your statement where you said men think all they have to do is go in and out so remember before corn we had no visual representation in Mass for men to see anything different about what it takes
To please a woman there is a lot of diversity in this corn men can men are sexually experimen of now that they know that they’ve seen A visual representation of what it might take and K even comes with women giv instructions women on woman women saying what they
Want done to them it is not all acting okay when she said acting right can I get some type of agreement I’m disagree hello so you know when they when they put these men in these positions and things um that that she when she’s moaning and acting like she had an orgasm doesn’t
Mean that she actually had an orgasm so that’s what she mean by it’s not real right they are staging everything they’re putting the lighting there uh even when he might want to have a orgasm and finish they tell him to stop and he got to stop and then he got to get it
Back up when they ready for the the money shot oh I’m sorry I’m talking too much y’all probably don’t know but anyway um no that’s one yeah but they got it doesn’t matter we got different type of people who like different things so just what that’s
What I’m saying O so naked a naked woman on o saying which titled her stuff this is how you can please your wife is that not also corn damn uh no wait that’s education wait real quick I I I have a question that seems to be proven verbal assassin’s
Point the whole thing started from men’s like ability the ease to basically be satisfied during sex and if you’re using porn or sexually if you’re using porn wouldn’t that prove her point that you don’t require a woman and all it takes is just video stimulation and no
That’s not the point we were attacking that’s not the point we were attacking at all it was it was no it was her saying men only know or or men only think they have to go in and out to please a woman that’s the point okay I missed
That don’t let stay on topic chy don’t let them go you out the topic now okay okay hold on hold hold on hold on Lamar black has been very patient please let him get a chance to speak his mind go ahead but I was talking oh my God my point is super
Though but okay go ahead can I go after him after Lamar yes okay yes I think REM should be C I miss you too Happy New Year I miss you real too hey I think women should be confident confident enough to tell their Partners what they like what gets them off
Amen man should be comfor enough to take it that’s oh I’m sorry I do you basically saying baby girl I like men are animals it was bomb Cherry go and before bomb Cherry goes I want to say that speaks to what we was talking about earlier B Cherry with the
Communication you have to communicate and say what you want in a relation whether that’s taking out the garbage or if it’s that spot you tell him to hold that spot I’mma slap you if you move I and and this is the problem right the
Corn is the pro oh the corn the corn is the problem because where if I meant Kiki I’m just using him because you know he’s right there yeah I’m reading something go ahead no no I’m just saying if I met you if you you and a young lady
Met right and y’all decide to be intimate you you you you get to know her body you and her are together but today men have already looked at K and they assume that oh K told me to do it this way K told me to do it that way and so
You get with this woman and you start doing what you saw over there and she don’t want all that or she may want that it just depends right but that’s that that goes to the point that if y’all learning from corn it could be that’s bad that’s not
Necessar good right you should be learning from your partner not from watching somebody else doing whatever they doing because that’s what makes them happy if they not acting because just because you got a camera doesn’t mean that you act for everybody for proving my point welcome see and that’s what and
That’s why we got to let everybody get out because we finding out that people are not as wrong as we try to say and we don’t just overt talk each other just because somebody else talking but DT time you want to have something to say ask you so if young men are learning
From corn then young women are learning from corn in this days right that’s true right so so young women not expecting to just get uh some some some some hold on let me get on camera young women are not suspecting to get no uh jodessy love and
Wine and nine huh they want [ __ ] to come up in that [ __ ] eight8 feet be nard you get what I’m saying and then guts out that’s what they looking at corn you say we looking at corn so if the man if the young boy is looking at corn and they learning how
To do sex from corn like this way then the woman should be the same because don’t women look at corn more than young men static no show me that this what we’ll say to that uh detail it’s more women watch that now than before but that’s what I’m saying
I’m talking about right now You [ __ ] have no deor you men are animals you got to realize what you saying and then you got to realize what sh just said you said that women you said that women are watching more porn than men right the stats are not going to ever be that way more than likely
More than likely what we’re saying is is women have watched more corn than ever before throughout the the societal history right and women watch more of certain types of corn so and what I’m saying is women don’t want just the average sex no more the corn that
They’re watching they want the [ __ ] that [ __ ] that gonna beat them down they don’t want that the problem that we the problem is that no women do still want to have men and women still want to have regular uh intercourse like that that’s that’s that’s the real nature of
Things like missionary gang it’s the everybody like to talk everybody everybody like to say they into those backflips but everybody cannot handle bomb Cherry doing back flips on that thing might G on that one okay that [Laughter] is no it’s just communication if I like it
If I like it a certain way I got to tell my wife I like it a certain way I shouldn’t be holding fantasies in my head because she’s the only one I can do it with right correct exactly so I got to tell her hey I like it this way yes
You don’t want to hear her so you gotta do it that’s what I’m saying that’s what women are saying right now they’re not satisfied because they’re not they’re not getting the same pleasure that they thought they women got to tell us honey I like this spot that’s the spot keep doing it his
Communication hey shout out to miss space with the support I appreciate it she says Bandits Miss space she is space fire my good is this your Ron after dark in the morning is thisg but you know hey BM cherry pushing them you know I can do this all so look
I’m I’m try to clean up changing the narrative she’s the affab she’s this what clean up and we’re gonna talk about something else you say you that thing right we G talk about something else let’s try a different topic you little Bandits as Miss space says and Bandidas
And Bandidas that’s but when I said you going to do it regard because I just felt that that was something for me and I needed the support from you why did you need why did you need that because that’s what I wanted I’m asking you why
Because I just couldn’t get rid of the the damn stubbor you even trying to get rid of I wasn’t consistent you absolutely correct you wanted a quick way at shut up bab yeah that’s exactly what it was but you g go through it regardless though right right but I
Needed the support and you were my husband so you should have been supported exactly [ __ ] that [ __ ] no at why talk so loud what they what talking so loud what what do he need to support about I have this clip saved and I send yo so what is happening is that so
They were married they prob she probably had a child or something that whatever happen she’s not the same size as she once was and so instead of going to the gym and being consistent in the gym she was telling her husband she want to get
Lipos he was saying no he was against it he said no keep working out steady the course and so since he was not supportive of surgery they wound up getting a divorce and split do you mean about box surgery cuz I’m a nurse it seemed like lipo suure no
It it is a certain thing you can get that thing well we pass that to part of the conversation we we not talking about that now anymore lar the x-rated version of the show is is L I want to hear the Ladi verbal assassin do you think this is
Justifiable that this woman was upset so upset that she divorced her husband because he was not supportive of cosmetic surgery what do you think uh I mean I wouldn’t divorce someone for that no what what I would go ahead B okay so if they got divorced over that was other
Issues going there underlining issues that exactly is the reason because a woman not gonna just say Okay since you want C she could go get the surgery without him approving like she can really go just get it like so that’s something else going on okay so but bom
Cherry I agree by This Woman’s words she said herself you was not supportive of me that’s right so that’s why she left because she wanted a surgery that he didn’t think that she needed because because all she had to do is be consent she wanted to microwave her weight into
Health and you cannot microwave into into Health well um and that’s why he was like [ __ ] that [ __ ] at the end because you know he had a young she that word supportive and so I’m quite sure Not only was he not supportive of that he probably wasn’t supportive of many
Other things wow you know I mean like this he she said he wasn’t supportive so the reason why you cannot say that bomb because he was supportive of her going to the gym he said no don’t go the surgery because you could get ahead and
Work it out all you got to do is stay consistent don’t take the easy way out he was very supportive of her yeah just because he say he’s supportive of going to the gym and they got a brand new baby um look I’m I’m just going B y’all like
To go deep and dive and talk about this equals this right but let’s talk about the reality those of us who have children we have wives and husbands right when I had my when I had my first son yeah it would have been great to go
To the gym did I have time to go to the gym Husby had a job I had a job we had a new baby there was no time to go to the goddamn gym see the people who shake their head no and all that y’all are people who don’t have children you don’t
You don’t have these you don’t have a relationship marriage and [ __ ] like that [ __ ] is not that simple the gym is right there that don’t mean I get to go to the gym don’t mean I have the time to go to the gym but this is the part that you
Mentioned that is cool that’s great she might have the time to go to the gym but am I ly go on hold on he was not rushing her to get into shape he was saying take your time just do it consistently go to the gym cons whatever that consistency
Means he was not pressuring her and saying that because you are fat or because you are this or because you are that he was saying no stay consistent don’t microwave your health he was willing to deal that is real support in men’s eyes women are looking at like no
I wanted to microwave this situation and you wasn’t supportive but did he but did he but did he fac facilitate that’s the point did he facilitate all all of all of the support that she would need with a new baby to be able to get in the gym and work out
In a consistent way there’s also diet involved there’s um her level of stress has is he helping around the house like there’s a lot of stuff that goes into a new mother being able you agree with this lose weight no so so so let me let
Me get in on this question no this is some real [ __ ] this is a sign of our times if we’re going to say everything has changed this is what has changed so to bomb Cherry’s Point everybody remember I said this earlier shiron everybody talks in absolutes uh new mother go to the gym
This is uh the reason we’re failing is because black mothers especially have no support right an Indian mom can go to the gym because her in-laws live with her they have a multif family model there’s somebody to support at all times my ass not only had kids I started
Working remote I gained 40 [ __ ] pounds I was a black [ __ ] Adonis coming out of the military you see what I’m saying there was no time then when I had to help my wife she had to get you know work done it didn’t matter if I uh called the cleaning lady it didn’t
Matter none of that [ __ ] she’s exhausted because we we moved away from our support system it’s just me and her so that that is what we’re dealing with today the single family model meaning only you and your family mother father to help take care of the kid that [ __ ]
Is is exhausting the only people that do it right are like the Indians the Mexicans because they always got support she can go to the gym if somebody taking a baby if somebody helping her cook dinner right it it don’t matter what you do that [ __ ] is exhausting when it’s
Just you and your family and I mean think about it that’s why our women are the fattest one of the reasons why go ahead CH I know you have some thoughts that’s fact so we go we going go cheeky and then we going go Lamar black attack go ahead you un mute
I think gims and Society is trying to Aid in that process which is why if you go to a decent gym um they’ll have like a baby center area like a center that have people watch your kids I know because I go to the gym um and they’ll
Have that that that area of hey you can put your kids here just put them there have it watch it may be additional couple bucks right and if you don’t have that money then you know I understand you know that that may be the Miss out
But the thing that I don’t understand is why we’re inferring all these other things when when we look at the video none of that was said what what said was I’m going to do this regardless if you’re not supporting me or not so that sounds like an issue on multiple fronts
On her end as well but again it seems like we bypassed that just to talk about what it was that the man you didn’t support her well she does what she wants all the time why should I support that right right so we’re not really taking a balanced approach to this because you
I’m sorry go ahead I’m sorry yeah if you as a wife are telling me because he asked the question were you gonna do it anyway she said yes and if he disagrees with it if he disagrees with it how is he G to go in my in his how is he going
To justify to himself I’m G to support this when I know I don’t support it you’re asking for unfair position of somebody to go I’m going to support this even though I don’t want to is that a reason for to divorce though like let okay like to your point right he doesn’t
Agree with it she says she’s going to do it anyway is her body she can do it if she wants to maybe what was he saying I’m not going to pay for it is that what he is that what he was saying okay she pays for it she does it what how how
Does that how does her getting lipos suction though whether he liked it or not how does that damage the whole relationship so again I think you may have missed the part where he said you didn’t even try right matter it doesn’t matter I didn’t miss anything stop
Telling people they missed stuff yeah we not missing it she definitely missed it cheeky let’s let’s run it back uh let’s run it back wait stop stop they’re hearing they’re they’re perceiving what I’m saying to be condescending and I’m not trying to be I’m trying to work on
It when I’m saying I’m not saying you’re missing it as far as maybe you just didn’t hear it I’m just saying maybe you just didn’t address it let me say that we didn’t address the fact that um the man was saying you didn’t even try and she admitted why would I support
A lazy a h or easy way out when I know the end results especially when it comes to body composition is you’re just gonna get big again money okay we so this is what the reason why we cuz I could have sworn I we both her verbal and I addressed it we
Said we wouldn’t have divorced him right if she divorced him we said we wouldn’t do that we wouldn’t do that just based on this and then then then I said well it probably was some underlining other things and also I and I didn’t hear verbal blame the man we’re just having a
Discussion which look we’re having a discussion so yes why would a man divorce me if he loves me and I love him and it’s my body I decided I’m going to have this surgery he says well maybe you should go do this and I said well no I
Don’t want to do that I don’t want to do it it’s my body I so I’m going get this done okay so now I want to I want to understand from you men it’s my body right and if I had to pay for it he
Didn’t want to pay for it I save up my money and pay for it why would we get divorced it’s my body I you telling us we can’t do what we want with our bodies um so let me let me make sure um shiron did it say who divorced who cuz I
Don’t remember see I could just run it back but it seems like she uh was the one that did the divorcing okay so I thought so I I didn’t I don’t think I don’t think it was him but I don’t know so let can we just watch it back to be
Sure let’s do it oh no so basic you a f what I said you going to do it regard because I just felt that that was something for me and I needed the support from you why did you need why did you need that because that’s what I wanted I’m asking you why
Because I just couldn’t get rid of the the stuffing you was even trying to get rid of it I wasn’t consistent you absolutely correct but at the end of the day so you just wanted a quick way at that’s yeah that’s exactly what it was but you going to go through it
Regardless though right right but I needed the support and you were my husband so you should have me supported exactly [ __ ] that [ __ ] say was saying that she needed his support matter what it was that she wanted to do hold up hold up they got kids do they got
Kids uh we we could it seem well we don’t know why she got fat we don’t know why she got fat so oh I know because I was gonna say like if they got kids then he gonna have to wear that that’s gonna be tough because I mean most people
Would probably just stay in the you know in the marriage but if if we don’t got kids and you do that I gotta go but the premes we don’t know that so they don’t have I like somebody that work out work out that’s what we got from the clip so we
Want could go from what we seen I understand if we don’t if she don’t have no kids then we the the stuff we talked about how hard it is to go to the gym would probably be you know wouldn’t exist it don’t matter right because they
They should have time to go to the gym you know what I’m saying yeah is different from a BBL she’s just about Getting Thinner let let me goad verbal finish your thought then we go trigger might and Lamar black attack go ahead oh I’m sorry I’m just
Saying that you know I don’t understand why he couldn’t support the way she wanted to get thinner I understand it’s not his preference it’s not my preference either I mean I wouldn’t I think that people should do it the healthy way because I think that it you
Know it lasts longer and it and builds healthy habits but um we’re not talking about a BBL we’re not talking about her going from you know a decup down to an A and you know that’s he he like big big big big tat or whatever I don’t she’s just trying to get
Thinner in the quickest way possible I I don’t know why that was such a big deal for him that’s what I’m not getting y let me let me get this I go the trigger mic next unlikely let me tack because unlikely thank you this is something dealing with real married or they were
Married right their exes right all right this something dealing with real married people at no point do I ever want to perpetuate the point that just because you’re married to somebody you have to support everything they do that is never G to happen so what he is doing is
Stating his disagreement with it and she went and did it anyway he can’t stop her like like you see what I’m saying if she’s going to do it he can’t stop her but if I wholeheartedly disagree with something I don’t have to support it you will now do that [ __ ] unsupported and
Hear about how I feel about it after so I don’t because I see women in the chat I heard y’all say why can’t he just support her the way she wants to be supported he doesn’t have to she doesn’t have to support anything that he I’m sorry everything that he wants to do
Wholeheartedly because what you want to do wholeheartedly could be wrong if you want men to stand on on business stand on principle he stood on a principal I do not want you to do that you are going under the knife you may be putting your life at risk you’re the mother of my
Children so on and so forth he can’t stop liking something and supporting something is two different things they’re usually well what I’m saying is sometimes you can’t do both you can’t do either rather sometimes you can’t do either great okay I’m next last part if my wife say something
Crazy like um well I want our kids to go to blank school and I’m like I don’t like it and I don’t support and here’s why I’m never going to be on her side if I think it’s detrimental to our kid future right so same thing applies
That’s all I’m saying more black attack we got likely okay uh I want to say one thing postpartum depression is is a real thing in what what she was feeling and seeing it was a real thing even though he okay with the little the fungus with
The little bulge he was okay with it so he can’t support it it was okay for him but for her she wasn’t okay with it but but the last thing I want to say is not the last thing but he like like trick Mike says she could lose a life in
Surgery Kanye West mother did that so as a man he got to figure out the overall picture if I lose her because of some com cosmetic stuff I can’t deal with that so I might have to disag disagree with it so so I think it’s just a basic
Communication thing he was saying that hey honey I’m okay with that you’re a little thick I’ll stop that ass but she was say I don’t like to be a little thick know I want to get surgery do it he just trying to find alternative ways but in reality some exercise do not
Eliminate that B it’s there forever can I give hold on let me give an example of something let me give an example something wives might not if your husband says you know what Young Thug is wearing dresses and I think I want to try that too and I want to just on every
Friday I want to wear a dress do you think most wives will like and support that the same thing yeah it’s his body it’s his choice it’s but however the surgery is worse than him taking off and putting on a dress so the surgery is actually worse
Even I thought we had a line I thought we had a line godamn anyway um all right so look I just want to say real quick right man at this point I would like the reason why he don’t want a woman that did y’all hear me yeah we can hear
You I thought y can hear me all right so yo it’s very simple at the end of the day he need to be able to get up with her and work out with her right okay he need to be out there jogging with his short he need to be the one putting in
That work if he gonna cry that much about it because at this point like I mean if you gon because this is something you could fix you said you know what I’m saying and then if you gonna sit there and chastise her and be like yo um uh uh you wasn’t consistent
Were you consistent with running with me because listen I ran nine 10 miles with my girl in Atlanta during covid we was running seven we went from two miles up to running nine miles wilding in Pont park right so it could be done but it didn’t seem like he was giving that
Energy and I was say to her like like me personally I would never want to be with a woman like that but I I would never have to because I would always pick a woman that has that type of dve that’s that’s willing to do that you know what
I’m saying that’s willing to get up and even challenge me like sometimes when I was tired my girl was like yo we out what you doing she threw water on me sometimes and [ __ ] I’m like yo what you doing but we ultimately reached that goal and we both was kind of overweight
At that time okay so I mean like that right there is something they both need to work on especially if they got kids he need to step up to the plate and do what he gotta do that’s it okay go ahead Bon cherry and then we gonna go Kelly
Bev and Chicago been quiet for a while so let’s do that bomb Cherry Kelly Bev Chicago let’s go okay so it’s you know I it’s hard watching these little videos and then we pick it apart because I’m never in a position of that young woman but what I and that young man right
They’re young and they they divorced so anyway but if I wanted a uh something done to my body and hubby didn’t support it and even if he says okay I don’t support it because you’re lazy well he knew I was lazy when he met me like
We’ve been together for a little bit he already know what it is okay listen but it’s hard for me to really give like I sometime I think we talk for no [ __ ] reason because they relationship is already what it is and um if my husband told me he didn’t want me to have
Actually like we got women actually having uh men and women having surgery to lose weight for real surgery not no liposuction liposuction first of all you can’t be that fat to just get Lio suction that won’t work you got to really you know it’s stubborn areas where you go get Lio
Y’all do know that right it’s like so okay I’m done what the hell going on about the thing about it is is that it’s not just one person in a relationship right she has to take into consideration how he feels about it and she didn’t she pretty much just
Basically bypassed it and said I don’t give a [ __ ] what you think and that’s bad as a whole because if she saying I don’t give a [ __ ] about what you think when it comes to her health and her well-being what else is she saying I don’t give a [ __ ] about what you think
Too you know what I’m saying exactly yo it’s and it not only the fact that it’s just her body it also costs money cuz it’s not covered by your insurance cosmetic [ __ ] like that is not covered by bio insurance so it could be the fact that he may be thinking about
You know we can’t absorb the cost and the recovery for that [ __ ] too so it’s it’s more to it than just I want this surgery and you don’t want me to have it he felt really adamantly about it and if you know and it’s my opinion if he felt
That adamantly about it or whatever I wouldn’t I wouldn’t do it and I wouldn’t justs over my shoulder like it don’t goddamn matter what is he doing like why didn’t why didn’t he have a response like that was [ __ ] excellent thank you k b go ahead Chicago um I don’t really want to
Trample on Cali B’s point I think she said it succinctly like she did we just got through talking about marriage and the two becoming one but we still want to maintain this Fame of Independence and tonomy I Ain’t Got You Know I’mma do what I want who GNA check me boo that’s
Absolutely insane go be by yourself go be by yourself you don’t want that’s what I’m saying you want to be by yourself go be by yourself that’s what I’m saying like he he gonna sit in the relationship really and cry about it to her like n hell no like yo if she not
Listening to you on that she ain’t listening to you probably on other things like either don’t that that’s basically what my point was don’t complain man like just leave that [ __ ] especially if you don’t got no kids with it just leave opin so then can we say the same
Thing for him then you just said if if he’s not if he if she’s not listening to him on that then what is she not listening to on other things so we can also then go further with if he’s not supporting her on that then he what is
He not supporting her on other things exact think way too much on things in real life we know in real relationship there is compromise there is give and take yall are so rigid in these conversation sometime talking about what you ain’t gonna do and who man listen the same way
I think men when men say uh call other men I I heard somebody talk about they people got called him a simp for getting somebody flowers that’s crazy in real life in real life in I’m talking about as sure as I breath there in real life relationships are work and you they are
Not this rigid as everybody seem to make it to be it’s not I buy flowers for here in the other week but but it’s life and death surgery is a life and death thing really as simple surgery you can perish so if you love her enough I don’t want
To be a single parent I don’t so I think it’s a communication thing I think he that’s what I ask and she then communication communicated that the wrong way you think he communicated that the wrong way no I think they both communicated before before we Dy communicate the wrong way it sounds as
If there was a lack of explanation he asked her why he’s not saying I won’t support it he’s just trying to figure out why I should support it and if anybody understands how anything works you need a reason sometimes you she gave him a reason though she gave him a
Reason she her just saying that I want to do it and I needed support is a is a reason for her wow okay can I finish because sometimes that reasoning is not enough you need more to understand that’s not he doesn’t understand that that okay well just because you don’t
Understand it doesn’t mean that that’s not my reason like right no so hold on hold on so what we what what you got be able to communicate that’s where comes in exactly it’s a salesperson you have to be able to you have to learn how to communicate okay so y’all tell me what
Would y’all have wanted her to say to to because it doesn’t like he I can give you a perfect example I give you a perfect example so we could end the back and about to get for no reason right is a is a simple communication pattern that
Me and bomb Cherry had earlier in this conversation about taking out the trash it was one she said you didn’t take out the CH and it’s on I asked you on Thursday and now it’s Saturday you still didn’t take out the trash where all she
Had to say is that hey baby it is very important that you take out the trash now because it’s it’s important for me this is how I say my cooking I do not want to smell the fish from last night so can you please take out the trash CU
I’m not strong enough baby take it out now and he would be and that is the communication not just because I want you to take out the trash as a form as a form of communication substantiate what you are trying to communicate so the other person can understand you not fix
You but understand you for example shiron which is I think so ironic is every time we have the simp battle is they when men say don’t wear that and then women ask why don’t you want me to wear it we go because we don’t want you to that’s not enough but
Now we have a woman saying hey I just want to do this because I want to do it and now all of a sudden that’s enough that’s a good enough reason I don’t hold up no bro you can’t do nobody said nobody we literally B and I
Literally said that we don’t agree with her divorcing him over that we literally said it but we’re having a conversation going down the line but I’m not able to complete I’m not able to complete a sentence and whenever everyone is talking I’m understanding and being
Quiet what I’m asking is we have to have the same standard and same expectation of communication across the board you can’t just say to somebody I want to do it because I want to do it because somebody can say that is childish somebody can say that’s immature you’re
Not think you’re not producing enough information for somebody else to understand that and as a person who who’s who thinks logically I would want to know okay you want this to be done I don’t mind supporting it but why because I want it okay but why do you want it
Because I don’t want this third heab that’s not what was saying that answer she gave the answer she gave was I wanted to do it because of stubborn fat and then his reasoning is but you’re not even working on it so that’s not how’s that legitimate either
I’m trying to get to the point and she and she agreed and said you are right you are correct I did not go to the I did not go she conceeded to that he was correct I also want to say that I blame cassim go ahead cassim what is I’m
Playing cine M so no the cheeky cheeky took the words right out right right exactly out of my out of my mouth so he he I’m not gonna regurgitate what he said but he took the words exactly out of my mouth what I was going to say he’s
Right okay okay so I’m next so this so y’all y’all listen to that wrong right C she told him why she said she don’t want to do the work she said that right didn’t she say that when he asked her he asked her why did you need that she said
Because I needed that she was talking about his support that’s what she said I need it I need can I jump in right there b that okay so are you saying that whenever somebody says because I need that that is enough explanation no no no what I’m
Saying is when she said I need that she was she wasn’t talking she was talking about his support exactly so again all right so okay so we write this so that’s our foundations for anybody that says I need that kind of support and they said why you need that support because I just
Need it is that enough explanation to give support for something no but that’s not what she said I’m I Hold On bomb Cherry wait what the foundation that you saying is that if you said Shon I need your support on this and I said why do you
Need my support it doesn’t matter I just need you to support me is that enough explation yeah I think that that’s that’s enough I mean he don’t have to accept it just like they didn’t see y’all y’all are reading y’all want I don’t know what y’all want right what
Happened is what happened they divorced they didn’t get along they disagreed and they part ways okay now we understand that we talking about we having a whole different conversation now we having a conversation about support so what I’m saying is this bomb Cherry uhuh if I go and tell my wife
Babe I do not want you to wear that skirt outside right and she says why I just need your support on this and that is it should that is that enough explanation no I I need to know why you don’t like this dress right him want you to change the answer
Now no but he want you to change the answer listen the point I was making is it sound like when when people were saying that she says I just need it I thought y’all thought that she just needed the surgery that she wasn’t giving a reason for the surgery that’s
All that’s what I was saying it didn’t sound like she said because I just needed it that she was talking about that’s not what she said though she gave him reasons to why she needed it and then she said that I needed your support because she knew that she was not
Capable okay we have to because this is kind of crazy we going to have to play this again because what I’m saying maybe y’all are better listeners than I am I’m G Play It Again because maybe I missed something okay so before you play it so
That’s what I that’s what I was saying what that she was saying I just needed your support not the surgery okay go ahead okay we gonna play it again so Bas you what I said you it regard because I just felt that that was something for me and I needed the
Support from you why why did you need why did you need that because that’s what I wanted I’m okay she said because that’s what I wanted the support okay no reasoning behind it besides that’s what I wanted there’s no reasoning behind it can we all agree with that so far right
Right okay you why because I just couldn’t get rid of the the damn stubbor try to get rid of I wasn’t consistent you absolutely that’s another reason now that’s two reasons now you wasn’t trying to get rid of it and then she says yes you are right so she was not not doing
She was she’s admitting to the two reasons bro like give like stop with this [ __ ] bro she just gave you two reasons to why she wanted to change she admits that she is not going to be consistent she admits that and you keep saying it and forgetting that that is
Making our argument she’s giving reasons to why she wanted it done and she already made it up in her mind that she wanted it and she just wanted his support now if he not going to give it that’s cool that’s okay for him not to
Do it but to sit there and say yo she just did it for no reason is Bonkers bro we gotta really listen man that’s I agree with likely on that one we never said for no reason uh you see I just want y’all to know that’s what I was saying that when she
Said because she did give him reason he didn’t have to agree with it and he didn’t agree with it but she did give him a reason and what she said I wanted was his support she was she wanted his support that’s what you wanted goddamn
Hey I agree with hey cassim I don’t know is a guy Shar you know what I I think sometimes you know as Chicago said before he he went off you have to learn how to how to how to pick your battles what’s more important is it more
Important than me and me standing firm on this particular aspect or the overall health and the dynamic of the relationship and it’s one thing as men that we have to we have to triage because sometimes it’s not okay to be dead right and a particular aspect if that
Dead right is going to cause more disharmony more dysfunction tearing us more apart tearing us further apart than me yielding and saying hey like you know what I see the bigger picture I see if if I kind of go along with this the overall happiness is going to be better
And I’m going to benefit you want to know why because her her mood and her emotion is going to immedi CH toter and it’s to work in my favor and then I can use that to to import a little bit rationality and supporting her in that particular Mission and I think as men
Some of us don’t do a good job in in doing that I want to shout out to the cash app my girl he was yelling at her cassim he was not yelling at us shout out yelling at shout out to Audrey P Bay for the uh support she just sent me
A couple of dollars uh appreciate it and y’all could do the same goddamn thing so I could appreciate you as well Goddamn don’t you want my appreciation get to your point to get to your point yes she she was yelling you know but but the difference is in in men
Is that if I know that women act a certain way more emotionally I’m not going to pay attention to the actions and all the theatrics I’m going to really hone in on what exactly what she’s saying and and talk about what she was saying we demonst that by going back
To the video and and and ignoring how she was communicating and listening to what she was saying and we broke it down I think that’s if men did that more to say hey like you know what she’s expressing herself forget about the theatrics and and and the fireworks and
Listen to what she’s saying and be concise and answer directly to what she’s saying a lot of that can be calmed down and we can get together longer and we can we could be more cohesive in the relationship I have not got any of your thoughts on
This video what is your thoughts on the video you better not say you didn’t see it he didn’t see it I think I think you can hear heyel C says appreciate you for supporting the show shiron trying to rub the cognitive distances out of his
Head hey uh cassim man I had to disagree with you on this one on this one on this one is life or death she having surgery okay surgery is very dangerous he had to he or she they had to communicate with each other I love you so much that I
Don’t want you to do it you could do it if you want to but I just want you to know that you find the way you are Lamar I agree with you because I wrote that in the chat too as well when it comes to
Men yeah know I got you fam that’s what I do I wrote that in the chat as well because it’s part as as as men as part of our covering not only are we physically able not only are we supposed to physically protect our woman from danger but it’s also things down the
Road that that that we might need to be able to protect in our not in our absence but also medical procedures specific paths that they go that they go down or in our foresight if if we can see certain dangers before they see it you know so that is part of the
Protection so I did I did put that in the chat i y my I yeld my time I just love you honey I Want You To Survive I don’t do not want to be a single permit yeah that’s that’s that’s that play the men do right
Um can make it about you surviving right um right and I’m not it’s not a legit concern but we women know if it’s a legit concern right I know if my husband said well the reason I don’t want you to do it is because of your hope or if my
Husband just don’t want me to do it because he for some reason he think he’s a man he can tell me what to do you remember I’m in a in a marriage for many years I’ve gone through all of that I’ve gone through what my husband didn’t want
Me to dress a certain way and if he could have used I don’t want you to dress that way because you know you might die while while wearing that dress he would have used that because he to get what he wanted you see and so yes
Don’t act like you me don’t play that game you mean play that game my husband would ask me why you dress that way he metant me dressing this way and now he no longer want me to dress that way that don’t me make that make no sense to me
At all that’s true Bon Cherry I hate I agree with you bon Cherry I want to roast you agree with you let me convinced me he ended up beating wearing me down wearing me down that I should dress a certain way so now I start dressing you know in oversized
Clothes now look like I’m a bum right I don’t no longer look sexy now he he don’t even want to be seen with me so what’s up what’s up I got this to say shout out to a brother of a certain age for supporting the show I really
Appreciate it all uh super chats will be acknowledged is it fair to assume that her feelings unsupported is I don’t know why use this big ass word know I can’t read we all read at a third grade level you know black men can’t read is m btic emblematic emblematic thank you
Verb emblematic of Prior issues with her feeling unsupported and not necessarily about the surgery boom exactly what me and Bob were saying in the very beginning exactly it’s something we hor in on what they end up getting to later we horn in it right right away imately because we’re women but they’re always
Trying to mansplain us to us it’s it’s it’s absurd right so you what you’re saying is I [ __ ] words up more intelligent and I also want to welcome they just think differently 21 good day to you sir [ __ ] Lamar man you be killing me sometimes all right let let Lamar and
Cassim have it go ahead we good we good we good but every now and then that [ __ ] man mys he’s right I’m from north New Jersey man every now and then it come out MRE what’s up my brother Happy New Year to you what’s happy New Year B
Cherry how you doing I’m doing good how about you I’m all right um this is I don’t know I watch this video I’m just like okay there’s there’s a couple of schools of thoughts here on the one hand I understand what the brother’s talking about I understand you know the way he feels
About it but but on the other hand looking at this and knowing what I know now this dude messed up like 12 moves ago damn he messed up like 12 moves ago ex that led to led to this this situation happening like it’s more low
It’s more so on the lines of what the ladies are trying to say like it wasn’t necessarily about the surgery because you know he could have supported her in her weight loss or what was the surgery about a weight loss surgery or something like that what was it about yeah she was
G wanted lipos suction right exactly so he could have supported her if she wasn’t consistent he could have stayed on top of her got a gym membership say hey baby time go to the gym could have gone to the gym with her made it a couple’s thing or something like that he
Could have supported her all along the way and gotten her straight you know what I’m saying she’ had she would have been more prone to do it because she had the support of her man you know what I’m saying and like yeah that whole thing this incident is it really is it falls
Back on him damn and the lack of leadership lack of support you know as men I would I would I would probably assume that he was helping and he was assisting her her drive and determination just just just ran out and because of that wait a minute hold up
Because of that and I know how women think and I know how they are they go to like okay this isn’t working I need to I need to get this this fixed as quickly as possible I’m going to go this particular route and that’s exactly the
Route that that she went it’s not that she didn’t try because she said she did try yeah right but just her her determination and her drive exhausted and when it exhausted there was no way for him to try to jump start that right so she went to the extreme route I’m
Confused well here’s the thing cassim where do how are you assuming that he was doing all of that he never said he was doing any of that and she never said he was because I’m under the assumption I’m under the assumption that that’s his wife and she was uh trying to exercise
That as a as a husband as a man that you would want to help her to achieve those goals right and just that aspect of it is is what I would naturally assume from a husband to a wife and as I said before you know her drive just ran out and just
Exhausted and then she went to the extreme aspect of it and she was voicing that and she wanted him to to go along with it so I would assume that he was motivating her encouraging her and helping her get off the way here’s here’s here’s why I dis why I disagree
Is because she was talking about support someway somehow she was not getting the support that she needed and she’s telling him that in that conversation and and the thing is a lot of us guys myself included some sometime but it’s something I’m learning that we
Don’t listen to women for not the way we need to and a lot of times because we don’t know how so think she wanted his I think she wanted his support and that decision that she wanted to get the lifeo she wanted his support and that decision that she was
Doing I agree with yes she wasn’t talking about support with weight loss she was talking correct it was important like I want to get this lifeo I need you to be on board with this for me please well here’s the thing she could have been um but that’s another leap in logic
But I’m just going out off of the evidence that we have in hand which is in this conversation but uh and I also want to say hey we got we got 158 people watching can I please get up to a 100 likes is that is that okay to ask is
That is that fine can y’all please hit the goddamn like button so we can just get to 100 we are only at 70 that is ridiculous can I at least get to 100 please and thank you hit the like but man like I I understand what you’re
Saying but I’m looking at it from the from the dynamic of this they’re in a marriage and this is her husband so there’s a there a certain level of Engagement as a man that he that he that he that he should be doing and they
Should be doing as a couple you know so just having that different mindset elevates everything to a to a to a bigger level that’s that’s the type of maybe I’m imparting my values and my morals onto this particular man but I’m assuming if you guys are married then
Your masculine need everything up your problem solving is already heightened and escalated and you should be doing things certain way I agree with that um if you’re married there there should be a level of Engagement there should be a level of communication you know no communication should be out of bounds in
My opinion in the marriage these if these two people are in fact married again again it doesn’t sound like he exhausted all options before it got to this point it doesn’t sound like he supported her in the way that she needed to be supported that’s actually in this
Conversation that is what she’s trying to say that is actually what she’s she’s not doing a she’s not doing the best job of articulating that absolutely not but but that is but when you listen to and you listen to what women say and then you listen to what this woman is saying
That’s what she’s saying you didn’t support me the way I wanted to I wanted to get this weight off okay so I took this and to your point cassine she took an extreme measure which is to have surgery but it does fall back on him the responsibility of it not the fault in
The blame but the responsibility falls back on him if he is espe okay I have something say you’re right correct I’m the Bon Cherry the B Cherry okay so we talk about lipo lipo do not get you to lose weight that’s for the stubborn area you remember she said a
Stubborn area that means it could have been right you know that kangaroo P it could have been something that’s stubborn that even with all the exercise she can’t get rid of that simp so she says I’m just go light it up that’s it so so I would agree with you if she was
Talking about access skin but that’s not what she was talking about go ahead wait baby you know you can’t give herid the excess skin light and they said like Bo what do you mean you agree with me that’s what I’m saying so she was being lazy and it’s nothing we could
Uh say that’s anything otherwise than that she was being lazy she wanted to microwave her health but go ahead Lamar okay I I had to agree with cim listen if I love my wife I had to tell her that I love her just the way she are I had to
Tell her that and that surger doesn’t mean anything to me if I don’t say that that means I want her to have the surgery even though she might lose her life okay I I know y’all think that minimal surgery is safe but it’s not thank you for the cash app for the
Paypals we love you S NA okay Devon so I think he was trying to say that even though you had a little poge I love you the way you are but he wasn’t able to communicate to her that hey look I love you where you are you try to get a Sur
For other people I love you so I think it was communicational issue I don’t think it was that’s how it was also here’s the thing Lamar and fellas here’s a lesson you have to learn okay and and and and program this in your head you can tell a woman this all
The live long day but if she doesn’t believe you you may as well not say anything at all Dam you can’t tell a woman that she’s beautiful but then treat her like she’s not action’s got to come come with that too she has to believe you if a woman
Believes you she will follow you when she stops following you it’s because she stopped believing you or beling in you that’s fact okay I I I disagree with that mandre because people could have mental illness they can believe what they want to believe you can tell them
You love them all they want to okay okay I say buncher I love you I love your eyes but she could say you know what people hated my eyes when I was growing up she could believe what she want to believe so there’s no way you convince her that I
Love her so what you can’t convince you no no no no no chill CH this is the [ __ ] I’m talking about with lar right it’s an example okay it’s example but I’m saying that in the essence of the story you have to believe what you want to believe I can’t convince you
That I love you if you don’t believe that I love you if you don’t believe I love you goad ahead job to my job to convince you that I love you is that you love her if you [ __ ] up from your childhood you’re not gonna believe me no I’m saying but you talking
About husband and wife damn hold on go ahead cassim why why you love her you’re on mute by the way yeah cassim uh I starting to see what cassim talking about I’m I’m gonna I’m gonna let him live because he he he always seems to kind of bail himself out by
Making some really good points so he did have some good points and they bail itself out so I’m let him go but see what I get when do this [ __ ] out to my girl the verb we appreciate you for uh helping us build this thing up we appreciate you always
Hanging out giving great commentary I love offering for you and the Sip God thanks for having me and letting me play with my food shout out to the ver let me play with food no what I’m trying to say if if Bon Cherry is [ __ ] up in the head she
Don’t believe me she it’s not my fault she don’t believe me but if that’s hold on all men need to hear this no it’s not it may not be your fault that she has experienced trauma in the past it caused her to be skeptical of of of men in the
Future and their present however if that is your woman it is your responsibility to help her fix that [ __ ] no I disagree with that you right right right finish if you don’t want it to be your responsibility then don’t take on the woman I doe okay okay and uh M separate ways
Okay casim Mandel she got to fix herself okay I’m not a I’m not the therapist I got she has has some responsibility fixing herself means no no no no it is no no it is her happiness is her responsibility yes right but it’s your but it’s your
Freaking problem and you are her Rock and as her rock is your responsibility it is your job as a man to make sure that that [ __ ] gets fixed because if you leave her unhappy she’s gonna leave you back there that is true but my responsibility is to be at the Rock if
She don’t hold on to that rock that she still hold on then it’s not my responsibility I’m the rock I’m there for her but I’m saying I’m there for you if you don’t hold on to me it’s your fault it’s not my fault I need to go
Into a better pastors I am the rock for you but you got to hold on to me so if you choose not to hold on to me it’s not my fault that’s my No that’s not here’s here’s the thing here’s the thing like I said it’s not like fault and blame are
Completely different the responsibility is and the thing is the problem is in panel is people use those words interchangeably as if they’re the same they are not fault and blaming something completely different for than responsibility if you’re a husband or if you choose to take on that woman as your
Woman your girlfriend certificate other or whatever it is your responsibility to help to to see that she gets help you might not be the person help her she might need therapy or might need a family member or whatever the case may be extra critical activities whatever your responsibility to make sure you
Point her in the right direction to get the help that she needs yes I do agree that however it’s still not my fault I do I do agree with that I should get help she needed however I should not blame myself that she is effed up she
Effed up no you cannot you cannot blame yourself but as as the as the husband as the man it it is it is your you’re the Rock You better fix that [ __ ] I better try to fix it cuz I don’t know what she been through fix it shout out to
Every fix she if she to This is forix well I’m sorry you’re a m i see a m is what it is I got we got a question for we got a question for Lamar how you get her to believe you well I’m a good salesman I am sales what I do so if you don’t buy
Myself I need to find another woman that buy to my what I’m selling so I’m not blaming the woman I’m blaming myself I mean I got to find my tribe right so I’m G find a tribe I’m find a woman that believe in what I’m selling is true
That’s all I can do I can’t change the world that’s a fantasy what I’m saying is she might be effed up yes it’s my fault if I married her but I’m not going to marry somebody effed up who’s not going to get on my my program but what
I’m saying is I’m going to do my best but I can’t fix something that therapist can’t fix her parents can’t fix her sister can’t fix fixed nobody get fixed but I supp to be a God that I’m a God I’m masculine I’m a alpha male how supp
To fix the Earth yeah you married because you thought you could fix you thought you was I fix this [ __ ] Lamar Lamar I I get what you’re saying but I think I think it’s important for that woman to see the willingness that you’re trying to do and
To feel that willingness that you are going in a direction which is important cuz we talk about willingness like how we want individuals to be willing I think it’s important that they see that we’re willing to do it out to gbgv he he says sugar and Robin equal two
Girls one cup one cup that was a good one I would take sugar okay so I think we we good with this conversation let’s try to move on to see what everybody’s favorite is saying today because people just love to hear this man talk I don’t know but
Let’s see what he’s saying woman if you love I’m talking a good woman now brother not a regular woman a good woman you can’t out love her you can’t outs spoil her you can’t out nurture her no man we have to give our women what we
Want in return you can’t outdo a woman if you love I’m talk a good woman now brother not a regular woman a good woman you can’t out love her you can’t outs spoil her you can’t out nurture her no man we have to give our women what we want in
Return what yall think about that I agree with that I think [ __ ] think right first I I didn’t hear what he said because I’m still stuck on this one girl two cups apparently y’all don’t know don’t get don’t that okay people don’t know what that mean that’s why that went
So I promise you you know one more one more one your life B Cherry I promise you so boner you wanna you want clearly you want to Enlighten us well that’s no I’m just asking dude who up here know with two girls we know what it is what it is
I have no idea what do two cups that’s what you [ __ ] do y’all talk we don’t want you to explain please noer I just want to know how many up how many people up here know what two girls in one cup is about I have no idea what
Is it bomb Cherry you let it out just let it out she needs to get it off her Jaz ahead I’m not it up shiron stop being lazy just do it on your own time yeah not now we don’t need to see that that was that was absolutely disgusting
It was disgusting and that’s why I shock nobody said you know there was no there was no you know that we just kind of said oh two girls one cup and P I’m trying to repress that memory yeah we’re trying to move past it like it didn’t
Happen you know like like no happen to us I don’t care I like him because the black men like these type of women right that’s that’s those exotic women right that’s who that who took part in that right wasn’t the black women it was the exotic women that y’all go passport Bros
And go over there yes who y’all mess with the ones who participated in two girls and one cup God damn so what we going to do is this so since you don’t want to explain to it we to do with please please it’s okay bom we don’t do this so unnecessary
Welcome to the stage good the two Scat Pack [ __ ] in the chat who and who doesn’t know about two girls one cup that’s crazy Shon you want me to send you the link no thank you right that was Robin in their Heyday before they [ __ ] was blew out know I’m
Saying that’s when they first got in uh business so the so just for everybody to know the bounties is up just in case I don’t know but uh put a bounty on sugar bum walls gotta find them [ __ ] blew out [ __ ] so with we just seen uh cheeky
What do you how do you feel about the video that we just seen do you agree disagree or you don’t have no words at all I think that if you marry somebody you should do the best to of your ability to make them happy the best of your ability so now if
Your ability is fall it short what happens then um well if you believe in marriage and you believe in the whole concept of not till death do us part in the vows you took now if you don’t believe in your vows just don’t make any there we go that it solves all the
Problems but if you believe in your vows then do what you said you’re going to do and then hopefully y’all you can recover or things will be back to where y’all both promise they would be or hope that they would be do you guys think do you guys think
Men love harder because when he spoke about love when it comes from the woman is it more about the the the volume of the love versus the the depth of the love that that that men go through men and women go through I think women love more um women love through infidelity
They love through bankruptcy they love through all kind of different things that men put them through I haven’t known one woman to do that Daryl no I don’t I agree with [Laughter] time that’s his exclamation point I can see my time hey that’s the best comeback ever
Man I can see my time I agree with her I ConEd my time what was his comeback uh that he’s conceeding his time to you that saying that uh he he pretty much he’s not agreeing with you he think that women are sticking through thick and
Thin they are not fickle they are not uh just um not going on second days because your Black Belt doesn’t match your brown shoes to Hillary Clinton that doesn’t bother women women do not have over 300 things on their list for why they do not go on dates why men only have three
Things why they wouldn’t go on a date no this is not something that happens in real life that is what Daryl said but we I agree with so man Dre I agree with darl we cannot do what women do period women love us more sprinkle sprinkle we we can’t even compete not
Even here’s the thing hold on hold on I have a point to make all right so let’s ask we got two ladies here dud hold on shiron Jesus let me throw this at them since they’re so convinced how do you say when we have evidence over over the
Eons of times since mankind has been on on the planet men have both killed and died over women nothing else just women and because we love them we’ve killed and died for them that’s not over love that’s over wom hold on we we had this conversation already picked this apart that is not
Over love men are not fighting and killing they are over ego Bru you bruis my ego you had sex with my woman I’m going to go over there and uh and do what I got to do to get rid of that’s what happen it’s not because he loved the woman so much that
He destroyed this man and his own life no his ego destroys his own life so you telling me guys don’t kill dudes for sleeping with their women reason man but it’s not for the reason that Faron we built that way because we built that way doesn’t mean we love we
Can’t do what they do okay I’m sorry women don’t do that only men do I know but we built that way but you can’t say that because we do certain things and they do different things that is it’s the same they do different things that advice goes to your point as well
You just created dou yes I was sacrify my life for my women but my women do different things than I can never do ever say what do never do yeah but see that’s things men can do that women can’t do either what is okay we got a new guest on the
Panel sh out to my girl Le all the way from how are you doing today what is your thoughts good thank you hi simp God and everyone on the panel what’s up Le what’s up um hi uh I just I only hopped on because I
Heard um I think shiron make a SL little comment about um how women want like 300 things when men want three things or something like that correct I had um and then um I think I heard another person talk about uh well darl made a point and
Then he said he considered his time which I thought was funny but um uh the reason for that I would say is because men for example if they don’t if they’re unhappy in a relationship they will stay in a relationship however they will also find another woman another thing to
Occupy their time so if you’re not doing something that they want you to do well that’s okay because they’ll find you know I don’t know latia or or Becky or something right on the other side whereby women tend to be a little bit more um wanting and needing their
Partner to sort of um to you know what’s wrong stay with me you know what can I do to make things better type thing but men are completely different so the woman needs all these different things because they’re trying to you know what I mean they they are more um I’m going
To say they’re more loyal I know the stats don’t say that because I think there’s a stat saying that men and women cheat at the same right or something but it’s for very different reasons right U so so yeah so women are they they find
Reasons to not go on dates with men and men only have three reasons why they do not go on dates with women that is a big difference yeah but that’s because it women are interchangeable to them no they’re not for no some some of the women said something as simple as
Because he have a black belt and brown shoes is why she didn’t want to go on a date with him all because he tried to do a Austin Powers uh yeah but that’s because we’re trying to figure out reasons to not be with that so there’s a
Reason that that person is not worth our time perfect that is that is good that that’s good but guess what most women would get 80% of what they need in a man they would say that is not enough and men when they get 80% of what they need
From a woman they would say that is the greatest deal I ever seen in my life that’s but then she does one thing wrong and then you cheat on her like what or you cheat on her when she don’t do nothing wrong exactly you cheat on her
When you feel like it you cheat on her when you’re B you realize hold on Leah you know we having two those are two conversations I want to STI to one conversation at a time let’s attack the fact that women would get 80% of a man and they would say that’s not enough
They need 90 and a man would get 80% and he would say that’s the greatest woman he ever seen in his life that is the problem that I was talking about yes I’m saying there is a reason for that that’s what and the reason is is because women are too goddamn picky no
It could be that let’s say my husband is doing everything great the 80 the 80% is including cheating and I don’t accept cheating so I decide that even though he’s taking care me give me what I want Vacation all that that cheating [ __ ] oh no okay so I’mma leave him you meant to
Say well you shouldn’t have left him for cheating you he gave you everything you really needed ex so let me tell you what the 80% that um is included with um what we get from woman we get um she’s gonna do whatever she wants because we cannot
Do anything about it she also get to do whatever put on whatever clothes she want she can get to have her Instagram and put her ass out on the street and we can’t say nothing about because it’s her body so it’s a lot of things we get with
That 80% as well and we would still say that woman is a good deal absolutely no no you wouldn’t that that is a boldfaced lie that you just said right now how is that a b when men are literally saying that we just want you to pretty much men
Is is saying we just want you to agree with us and just be civil with us stop fighting us every time I come home so agreeing with you means if you’re wearing that and I don’t like it you need to agree that I don’t like it so
Take it off if you are um if you like what are you talking about so what I’m talking about that’s not happening what I’m talking about that’s not happening Mass men are are are acquiescing and say get ahead that’s what want to wear go
Ahead and wear it we are not going to SL shame you anymore we are not we are not going to call you just because you have a only fans doesn’t mean that you are a [ __ ] we are all saying okay everybody got their options to do whatever they
Want to do to make money this woman um with Joe Smith they like hey why he mad she gotta make money cool so we like all right you still gonna do your only fans you gonna sell nobody’s saying that no no look that that same 20% that she
Include that bomb Cherry included in the cheat and that’s a that’s the big 20% no that was included in the 80% be that was a part of the 80% not the 20 no I’m I’m telling you that that same 20% that that bomb Cherry was talking about that she
Doesn’t like would it but that and that would include the cheating that same 20% that y’all don’t like is the only fans in posting your ass on social media those two are in the same 20% you can’t include the only fans and and the [ __ ] um and your ass on the internet
Into the 80% that y’all are willing to accept because you’re not got chy maybe maybe you could break it down better than what I just so what what shiron is saying is men’s standard when it comes to women’s sexuality and the expressiveness of it has definitely changed over time this is the most
Accepting men have been about this as a matter of fact there are more male feminist than there probably was and back in previous time because men are being more understanding this is the reason why other men this the reason why other men are saying um these men are
Weak because we’re no longer abiding by a standard that was set by traditional men anymore so what Shir what shiron is saying is we y’ don’t know y’all don’t know anything about the traditional man y’all making it up as y’all go along so y’all was dis so what
CH was saying y’all was disagreeing with her that’s why you interrupted him one thing he said that he said that’s one of the reasons why we calling um Younger gener You Know Me of younger generation’s weak and I was like that’s not it not really so you saying that
Nobody is calling Adam 22 week what do you mean he let he let another man pipe down his wife after they got married do people call that man weak yes or no some people a lot of people don’t and some do I don’t I think a swinger here’s the thing there’s a lot
More people into that swinging [ __ ] than you might you might realize tell that but then they told me no not it’s a small amount but then they keep giving examples okay so so here here’s the thing I don’t know I don’t know why I
Don’t hey uh I’mma bid you a dude my guy um where you going chy come back here no cause I can’t do can’t do it so I know I’m hitting my limit uh and I said this year I was going to be more understanding um and not try to give off
The perception of being disrespectful whatever the case may be and I’ve hit that limit so you have a good day dog um I see what you’re trying to do I’m trying to do the same thing um it’s not that easy and I appreciate your efforts for trying to maintain a panel um so
Y’all have a nice day I appreciate you guys you laty Lord chck the first guy that on the internet that was nice to me no I’m serious I was getting roasted seriously I getting roasted all night and Chica came on say hey leave L more alone he’s new leave him alone
So yeah y’all be trying to stress me out I think on purpose cassine maybe you can help me out um I I get what I get what cheek is saying because sometimes on these panels I get frustrated too I also have to understand and realize that not everyone
Has the same thought process not everyone has the same thought patterns and I have to be a little bit more patient with these individuals and hopefully be wise enough to kind of dissect what they’re what they’re trying to say even though it’s not getting to
The shortest end of the road if you know what I mean but um I I think it really boils down to you know we all want the same thing right we all want to get along we all want to coexist together we all want to find that one person best
For us and we all want to try to do the right thing and I think that’s where everyone is really wanting to go but just the the roads that we get there is just different and this is what we’re seeing we’re seeing an overall view of this big road that everybody trying to
Get to and be like no man go that way for it’s shorter but I think the more that we have these conversations um the the closer that we get to understanding one another which is which should be the big point I request you yes D the white boy and the black [ __ ] in
The chat timing out people dog I’m trying to stay in the chat today so y’all can hear y’all conversation but [ __ ] that time me out get that [ __ ] white boy in check what white boy you talking C in the [ __ ] chat I’m I’m I’m hitting a timed out [ __ ] I’m having
A good time and I gotta hit the [ __ ] link because I can’t type that’s because you calling them women out of their name and maybe they them [ __ ] call me everything under the [ __ ] son equal [ __ ] ey for an eye [ __ ] we all gonna be blind the
White boy wasn’t you f [ __ ] the white boy wasn’t you Grand real me [ __ ] you know you was just talking about people talking [ __ ] about you because I was the first [ __ ] to talk [ __ ] about you on Fight Club and I apologize for that Kevin come on Kevin
Don’t do me Jordan wait a minute wait a normal nerd says Jordan is calling me a monkey damn we that white boy they white boy lost his [ __ ] mind Dam me out like come come on you got to stop this [ __ ] I stop okay so so I would give you
A solution so I guess I’m clearly he must have a wrench so therefore a wrenches that’s theame wait you can take somebody goddamn wrench you don’t like whatever y’all got going on I have asking not to be timed up hold on if you want to take somebody’s goddamn Rich they abusing
Their power you have the power in your you’re not gonna stop the white boy from timeing me out I just gave you an option to do it that’s you got that you got that all right that’s that’s the rules you got it I’mma catch you around Shon
You vegan Baldhead no hella fat face ass big farhead Bill boy BL head ass hot AB head ass vegan ass you two Ms away from Death In the Arms of an Angel for 30 Cent a day ass [ __ ] [ __ ] you so wrenches uh the the small ones is 25 the
Big one is 50 so uh if you want to take somebody R that’s disrespecting you want to get them back that’s how you do it godd damn it if you want to argue with somebody that got the power over you hey you better pick a better fight
Goddamn it I support Jordan and whatever te does and the everybody with wrenches okay you got to respect the ones with the power that’s what it is but I but my thing is this I think I think if you if you are respectful in in the chat there’s no need for you
To have a wrench like I I Ain sweating the fact that lot of these panels that that I don’t have a wrench on cuz I don’t go in there talking Reckless and crazy and [ __ ] like that I respect [ __ ] people right so I think that’s
What it is if you don’t want to if you don’t want to get timed out by people then you know maybe you should be a little bit more coordinated and the [ __ ] that you say to [ __ ] goddamn it’s I don’t expect nobody in the chat when I’m in the chat I’m roasting every
Single body I see I don’t get down like that I do Ferg G I never in ch because it would be a mistake you know what I’m saying I did fight and y’all won’t let me fight and so I’mma chill and have a conversation
But anyway I did I did I wrote if I’m in in chat is different different personality goddamn I roast to everybody in chat so forgive me show me what you me I can’t remember but I did you never do it baby you know better it’s my character you
Are what you are I I am a rooster so oh you’re a roer I’m invite I’m invite you over there in my channel we gonna see if you roast or notam GL over there boy I take the challenge I take the challenge that’s my oh man that aw make
Sure yall all the show let me go check these goddamn likes if y’all at least uh let see cuz y’all been I’m eating chips y’ I apologize I didn’t know y’all could hear me I’m not the only one up here eating don’t be acting like it’s just me
Baby goddamn look I don’t understand what is so difficult about y’all handing the goddamn like button I don’t get them I don’t understand you want you let me break it down to you Shon you want to know why they don’t do it it’s because when people see the little the little
Thumbnail they click on a thumbnail right and it either goes directly to the video or they go to the chat right so they don’t come in hitting the like button first they just go when you click it it just goes automatic to the video and the subject is so captivating you
Get engulfed in the subject and then next thing you know half hour go by 45 minutes go by and you haven’t hit the like button that’s all that happens so everybody since this is what happens I want everybody that’s listening right now goddamn it to UNC Captivate yourself
Go ahead and Captivate the goddamn like bu goddamn yeah do like KS used to do us should what play music or whatever stop the show and like look I’m not stopping the show until I get 200 likes and you stop the show when they get you in the
Light you go back cuz they they keep provoking me um cassim and if you don’t provoke me to W or H you be in danger but it’s all good he got booted off of that show for that [ __ ] right he got he didn’t make it to the next round right clearly
What’s up Cali Bev what’s going on with you what’s your thoughts baby girl um I got distracted by work I don’t remember what Wason Callie is the ill boy I tell you I love k I love her though no you were going to play another video shiron because we just got finished talking
About the guy loving and all the rest of this we got distracted so what video did you going to play after that oh man you’re right I got distracted cuz Grandville he wrot sorry I’m used to managing people and [ __ ] sorry he did roast the hell out of me
And I think I wanted to talk about this one uh oh man that boy Granville he is something else he’s funny though he’s funny guy all right so here we go let’s see what this young lady is talking about enter these relationships when I say that I guarantee if I ask the
Majority of you all in this room to give me five of your core values you probably would not be able to if I ask you to give me five strengths that you operate and leverage on a daily basis you probably wouldn’t be able to have to
Tell me that but I guarantee if I ask you five of your weaknesses you’ll be able to tell me all five weaknesses because you operate in those weaknesses make sure you know what your values are make sure you know what your strengths are it is necessary for every single
Person to heal I know some people say we don’t need to heal oh yes you do you may not have experienced trauma but you’ve gone through some type of Adverse Events and I guarantee whatever it is that you have experienced you’re going to take it into that next relationship and it’s
Going to show up and it’s going to manifest and then you’re not going to know what to do until you start sabotaging and that person walks away from you so know who you are before you enter those spaces sound like a whole bunch of nothing to me whoa what you said a whole
She said a a little bit of this she used Buzz words they gonna take it into the next relationship and they G to Mana fast come on now look reality is I could sit on this bed right now and get struck by lightning and die right godamn if I
Get in a relationship with a man it may or may not work out if I end up having some like let’s say we have a bad breakup when I go into the next relationship based on what she’s saying I’m taking that automat Al yeah I’m I’m that’s experience that’s what it’s called
Experience it means I went through something hopefully I learned something from it and yes so what she say what you mean by you got to heal so what I’m saying is that this generation of internet people right those of you on Internet it’s all of us right but the difference is our
Generation we know not to take this [ __ ] so serious I believe every video that’s up there like we understand it’s entertainment but these younger people y’all see a video and y’ really Cherry so you telling me if I’m dating somebody and she and I said hey um I don’t want
You to wear that dress she’s like you sound like you real controlling I have my last boyfriend he was controlling that is not her not being healed and she is carrying on whatever trauma she had from that relationship over into our new relationship is that what you’re saying
Yeah that’s what I’m saying I’m saying the issue isn’t her the issue is you men who have the same thinking points like just like her last boyfriend didn’t like what she was wearing and now you a new boyfriend and you Al don’t like what she wearing what how is that a trauma that
She brought into this new relation I agree with Bon Cherry what I hate to agree with her but she is correct no she’s not because people bring what they past traumas over into the next relationship where don’t have nothing to do what I just said and is that that man being controll negative
Way that man being controlling in a negative way doesn’t have ain’t then with me being controll it in a positive way you control it in a you got such thing as controll it in a positive way yes it is absolutely a way you can be controll it in a positive way what do
You mean when you when you are guiding your children when you are guiding your children with love and nurturing is that not controlling your children in a positive way we not talking about children answer the question before you no so I’m telling you before before before you deflect can you
Do that yes or no to children but can you do it can you do it in a work can you do it in a work setting yes or no can you control your children you should yes okay can you do it in a work setting can the boss control his goddamn
Um employees as far as the job is concerned yes okay what about the president controlling the goddamn uh he’s being a controller of the Free World is that something that he could do in a positive way is that possible the president is it yes or do that can he do it in a
Positive can he do it can he do it can he do it in a positive way yes no he cannot no he cannot control the Free World because we had three equal branches of government right you just said not her fault the M first of all shiron you’re
Created false narratives man because the thing is I I agree what you’re talking about only works in certain context like in the context of child rearing yes that works but when you’re dealing with another adult it does not it absolutely works with another adult things that we can control every
Single [ __ ] at any given time what’s to stop your wife from walking into that room right now say Shan I’m unhappy I don’t want to be here anymore I want a divorce nothing you got and there there there’s two things you can do about this shun dick and donut here’s the thing
About here’s the thing about control here the here the thing about control with adults and we talking about relationships they gota want to be controlled they gota want to trust you this is the part that I guess just when you are a leader the person got to
Choose you as a leader you cannot lead with a with an on your fist no the person got to choose you to be their leader if they choose you it’s not controlled the leaders not control that’s called leadership the leaders do not control follow how many people choose to be the the leader
I’ve never chosen to be one but I always found position Dam mro you you’re alha dude always found myself position I never chose it not once EXA always chose me I’m the same way uh I change I never chose it and they throw something it’s a
Burden they say you the leader I like what the [ __ ] I’m a leader exactly I don’t want that [ __ ] I don’t want that [ __ ] it’s a burden most people that say on the internet they say they want to be a leader they don’t know what they
[ __ ] like to be a leader exactly is that burden been a leader dude if you want it yes I know never ask for this [ __ ] let’s look up maybe don’t understand hold on hold on maybe maybe I look into words a little too much and maybe I just don’t
Understand what the word control means because y’all just look at the word control and y’all just take it on the negative side of a dictionary definition of it dude stop now you know what little podcast does stop that [ __ ] I’m laughing I’m when I’m when I I take control and I could
Drop abuse of my power right but me having control of this panel me having control of this panel asking you to mute yourself when we having conversation that is still a form of control but that’s not me doing it in a negative way that’s me doing it in a positive way
Control what you nobody that’s not control you you’re not controlling us you controlling the panel you’re not controlling the people up here cuz we can leave we could go about our business so I guess maybe I just want to argue the word because that’s exactly what I
Said B so I agree with what you just said Bon because that’s exactly what I just said I don’t understand why you trying to argue but this is what the definition of control means the power to influence or direct people’s behavior are the cost of events so I don’t
Understand why you’re taking it as it only could be negative but it can be positive as well because you can influence people to do things in a positive way so I don’t want the [ __ ] wrong child what happened to because that is traumas that happen to you that
You are put on to me so that word control it triggers something for you but therefore you brought that on to me so you need to get [ __ ] healed and not bring that trauma onto me no but you’re not listening you could control you could control listen listen Lamar based upon
That based upon that definition that he gave of control we can all sort of agree that that happened I think sh is right I think that word control triggers certain things within certain people and they take that that particular instance and they inject that most negative I was talking and you’re wrong listen
Exactly am I muted I must be muted because I know okay okay control the panel like your channel but you can’t control no one on this panel on channel so when remember we was talking about relationship ship see you the one who doing that uh that that that
Trying to claim that we’re putting something on you that we’re not you the one who said I can control my wife you wasn’t saying I could control you know I did not bring that into the conversation but go ahead you brought that into the conversation
But go ahead person a free will to to disobey you do you really have control they can they can change their mind and not follow you at any given time so if that’s the case do you really have control yes read shiron read the definition one more
Again for the party people in the back again here we go and everybody listen the power the power to influence or direct people’s behavior or the course of events yes it only appes let me let me let me let me see he only read one definition but even
Then can I see this is what women do right control men I just don’t like to admit it to y’all right cuz y’all [ __ ] yes we know know we can do certain things that will get you to do what we want you to do and we don’t have to
Announce that we’re controlling you yeah point no I did not based on make it seem like somebody so here here’s what’s happening what’s happening is y’all just don’t like the word for whatever reason because y have a word so y just want to fight the word
Even though the word don’t have no kind of negative connotation whatsoever but y’all fighting it so hard I have no idea why even though I read the definition but you still G to fight it that is kind of figh a definition that’s not what we doing not fighting the word neither I’m
Just want use it in a context that we disagree with that’s it uh go ahead go ahead Leah I just want to get back to understanding because the thing is is that like because you said influence and persuade and those kinds of words um and
It’s used in like in sales quite a lot so are you telling me that a Salesman is controlling you when they get you to buy something from them or to do something for um to absolutely control yes okay so then when a woman gets you to do something
For her is that control as well yes yes so she’s controlling you so she need yes so is she leading you huh no is she leading you would you call it leading no that thank you for taking it back to where it was no so she’s controlling you but she’s
Not leading you because Shon said because shiron said you have to want to be led you have to want to be blah blah blah right correct and then he used the word control as well in the same sentence as lead so I’m just asking you if those two things correlate that’s why
I’m trying to get a better understanding do you understand because I’m not arguing with you even when you getting controlled by that salesperson you gotta want the product so then you want to be led that’s what that’s exactly you said you want to be you said you’ve got to want
To Beed so the the problem is a lot of times what I’m what I’m starting to recognize is that a lot of times yall have two conversations in one thing like it those are two separate conversations but we we can use the same words but in separate conversations and it could mean
Completely different things sometimes that’s what I’ve been say this what I’m saying right but what I’m saying right now let’s stick to the top don’t try to move the goal post to try to disprove my point stick on the topic that we are saying and disprove my point
There do not try to move the gost and say oh well it means something else here there’s no I’m not trying to move I’m not trying to move anything I’m literally asking you a question and you’re getting no yes and I’m I’m agreeing with you I’m I’m agree what I’m
Saying is that M he wanted to move the gopost to marriage and if this woman magically decides to change her mind that what is that supposed to mean that is moving the goddamn go post that’s not moving the go post why here’s why if you if let’s say
You’re in your family right you are the leader you presume to have control in your family right as head of household if if if anyone if a person you claim to have control over can it any any given time go left when you tell them to go
Right and you the personent control have no clue when that when or if that can happen do you really have control yes again no I agree with you what you saying so what you saying I let me let me uh pass this to cassine because maybe he could iterate it better sometime that
Happens Ariel she says shiron you did the same thing with the definition exclusive [Laughter] go ahead cassim uh please uh maybe so I am one of the anchors one of the anchors to the word control was influence and manipulate not manipulate right uh Power of influence or direct people’s behavior
Or the course of events direct so it is influencing and direct thing those are the key components of of of control and there are ways that you can influence and direct individuals to get them to do what what you what you want it doesn’t
Have to be so covert and so and so blunt and so in their face correct but there are certain techniques that you can use to get what you want that person to do influencing them in their behavior and getting a specific outcome that doesn’t necessarily mean that you know uh that
It’s harsh so you know shiron is correct and I think we get confused with that word well shiron playing games because I’m looking at the definition I’ve been looking at the whole time and right before that word influence it says dominating influence over yes authorative or dominating influence over
Right yes on what what part of well we know dominating dominate is a very triggering Ro word for a lot of people hold on I’m G read every you know what just for that I’m G read every goddamn definition the power to influence or direct people’s Behavior or the course
Of events that’s one two a group or individual used as a standard of comparison for checking results of a survey or experiment that’s a reason why I didn’t want to use it because you know we got control experiments sool group control group but control also does mean dominance let’s be realistic about this
Don’t have nothing to pretend no of course it does I can control youin no no no hold on one second if I’m in your house right now yeah and I ask you to do something you say no but I pull out a gun and then I say do this
That’s me dominating you right now because I’m the man that person what I mean a something to make I feel like that’s what everybody else I feel like that’s what everybody else thinks when they think control do you understand what I’m saying they think you have to make that person do
Something and if they have a choice then it’s not control so that’s what I think that other people are thinking when you say when you use the word control I understand what you’re saying with the with when you mentioned persuasion but that’s why I was asking
You about the sales and the women and the leading and all that do you understand but obviously bomb Chevy just read it and she said that part of control has to do with dominance no but she was wrong but uh she’s not she can’t be wrong if it’s you want me pull
Because I could pull up the reason why you wrong because I could pull it up right now and we have something saying different but I pull up M you can I pull up a different version of it what you mean up it too okay so dominance the
Word the word dominance it means power and influence over others okay hey hey shiron and cassim if she pull out the Glock loock 3000 she will have dominance in control of y’all that’s the power part correct boom and here’s the thing so that’s what I that’s not control that’s dominance
Means you have power over somebody correct I don’t think I don’t think a seem missed it but here’s the thing you missed the most important thing about what Leah said and this is the point overall point I’ve been trying to point out to you what I’ve learned from personal experience and from watching
Others that the people that you control if they actually have a choice you don’t actually have control dude right if those people you’re in control over have a choice you do not have control over that situation you do not that is not true that is true what you talking about
That you can lose control you can lose that what again that is something different from what we talking about you were talking about somebody can change their mind right that’s what you’re saying they can lose it for us that means somebody else might have a control over them somebody else got influence
Over so therefore your influence doesn’t affect them anymore that is losing control that that have nothing to do with control yes it does it yes it is here here’s why so that’s like okay this how I look at when you say that Mandel it’s like so a rich person was never
Rich because they could lose all their money that’s what it sounds like that’s how idiotic it sounds to me not idiotic exactly it doesn’t make any sense person is still rich as long as they have as long as they have the money they are still considered rich it doesn’t matter
If they could put all their money into investment they lose it doesn’t matter until they lose it they still are millionaire so I am still in control as long as that person is willing to be controlled that that you cannot say what what I’m saying is that you cannot say
If stop saying the word if here’s the fallacy in your logic money is a tool people are not people are that’s a lie people are not tools they’re simp that’s a lie people are okay really tell that to the people in the aristocracy of the French Revolution goddamn man Jo using a
Military you was used as a tool what do you mean I was used as an asset you say no but it a even given time I could have said no I don’t want to do this [ __ ] and here’s the thing I have been I have been here with insubordination before because
I chose to do something different same here you don’t actually have control if the people you’re in control of have a choice and here’s the thing let’s say those Choice the consequences of of those choices are dire if those person if that person you’re controlling and facing those direct consequences don’t
Give a [ __ ] about the consequences how much control do you think you yeah my God so again just because you could lose control doesn’t mean that you never had it it’s an illusion I think we’re not we’re talking past each other because nobody’s listening to stand right now everyone is
Listen is talking to be right I’m trying to tell you but if you listen shiron to what I actually said I basically Tred to tell you that because of the word um because uh um control to some people means dominance it means that you I said some people you need to understand other
People’s perspective shiron it’s not just yours and just because you read it online bom Cherry also read it online and you’re saying she got it wrong but she read it in the same online that you read it on so can we just can we just listen to understand other people to
Other people when they hear the word control they hear dominance meaning you have to be um you you have to make them do something if they have a choice then it’s not control to them do you understand to you and to other people it is a persuasion so if I can persuade you
So like I mentioned with the woman and the sales and whatever those are to you forms of control okay but other people don’t receive it like that that’s all there are different perspectives it’s fine is it not yeah because I’m speaking from personal experience and I’ve seen
Control work not work kind of work work a little work a lot I’ve seen it in all different aspects that you can imagine dude and I’m telling and that’s why you mentioned the that’s why you mentioned the TR mashon it’s all when you’re dealing with people the people you
Control have a choice your control perceived control is nothing more than an illusion you don’t actually have control when the people you control have a choice what do the word illusion means to you it’s clearly we’re not going by real definitions so I want to know what’s
Your definition so I can have a foundation well in this context it’s something that you think you have but don’t not actually kind of like an oasis so if I if I influence somebody to do something so if I influence somebody to do something is that not me having control yes or
No if your influence work if they if they allow your influence to work on them yeah you have therefore I so therefore in that instance I will have control can you call it that if they had a choice not to okay so let’s you can’t
Even go by your own definition I went by your definition this time I didn’t even up no real I ain’t gonna lie to you m this is the craziest thing I ever seen that I by your definition and you could even concede to your definition wait a minute
Wait a minute wait a minute because y’all go y’all saying the same thing over and over again check it wow see shiron is the one that push the go post back and back and back you remember we was talking about relationship we was in particular talking about a man with his
Woman then you ask me about children you kept pushing it so stop talking about jobs and Military and this go back to you telling your woman that you control her and see how they work out right because I do have influence over my household yes yeah but we all have
Influence she has influence as well so therefore I so therefore I have control over my household okay and she has control over it too right both of y’all have control over your household why do you want to go TI for I’m answer the question direct but you are so concerned
Over tick forac that is the [ __ ] problem you this is again again this is what I was saying earlier that you have a problem with the word control and it’s negative to you and now you bringing that on to me I did not say anything that was negative about the word control
You are putting that on to me I I I didn’t say say it was negative hold on let’s get let’s get another opinion is correct she is correct she why is she correct pleas cuz your wife has a little control also she has control also it doesn’t matter how much
But she has some some kind of control also when have I ever said that my wife doesn’t have any kind of on said the men just just listen to just listen to what yall say I never said because um when when y’all was giving a reference me and cassine both conceded
To Leah when we was like yes a woman can control a man yes this that and that we were saying yes every single time no y’ I putting it in the negative connotation not wasn’t up here when it’s not negative it’s not negative so at that
Point okay we got if you rewind it you’ll see what you said you like I said you’ve been pushing the GoPro so much I don’t think you remember where we started Jesus Christ I’m I’m I’m following the conversation I’m doing my best to you let y’all use y’all words
I’m going by the words y use I’m not adding no extra things I’m going by the words even when he he added the word illusion into it I said what is your defition because I didn’t want to look up the definition because if I look up
The definition y g say I’m uh I’m crazy because I looked up the actual definition of a word so I said let’s go by your definition and then even when I use his own definition he did not want to concede to his to his it’s not negative whoever
This GV person is talking this [ __ ] about gas like you [ __ ] need to learn new words CA gaslighting came out like three years ago [ __ ] y’all behind godamn you know what yes that is it I reached my goddamn capacity thank everybody for being here I appreciate y’all I don’t know if I got
To the 100 likes I appreciate y’all if y’all would just hit the goddamn like button on the way out then you know that’d be very appreciative uh you know you can hit uh you can hit the cash app I appreciate that as well uh you know tip tip your
Goddamn host if you enjoyed yourself I appreciate you so ah we are the solution based gang we hear to rebel against remedial rhetoric that’s what we do we challenge each other thoughts and we don’t agree with each other at all times and that’s what makes it beautiful we got to go ahead
And keep challenging each other thoughts because still sharpen still we’ll be back here tomorrow and we will Deep dive into some more thoughts as we mine out these um these complicated uh situation so see y’all later hit the like on the way out uh tip your host on the way out
As as well okay God damnn it yes tipon [Laughter] yes absolutely uh shout out to my guy I believe also Chaz focus is starting the show today uh yeah go check him out I’m pretty sure he didn’t drop anything but darl long also most likely has a show uh
Starting in a few so uh see y’all tomorrow I appreciate every last one of y’all for rocking out we are almost there to the Thousand so let’s keep on grinding with that as as well thank y’all
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