How much money do you have to make to feel rich?
Itâs a subjective question.
A lot depends on your lifestyle, where you live, how much you spend and save, your peer group, and your vulnerability to comparison.
The comparison piece matters more than most are willing to admit. Wealth is relative.
JP Morgan once said, âComparison is the thief of joy.â
Itâs easy to say when youâre one of the wealthiest men on the planet, but itâs much harder to abide by in the Instagram era, when everyone flaunts their wealth, world travels, and material possessions.
We live in a world where rich people donât feel rich anymore.
The Wall Street Journal profiled people who make $400,000, a level some politicians are using as a new line in the sand to define wealthy households.
Just 2.6% of U.S. make $400,000 or more. Hereâs a look at the breakdown by state:
Wealth is what you keep, not what you make but itâs hard to envision a world in which being in the top 3% of income is not considered rich.
Sometimes you have to call a spade a spade.
However, the Journal found people in the top 3% who didnât feel rich:
âI donât think of myself as rich. I think of myself as having worked really hard,â said Littles, a 41-year-old executive at a healthcare-staffing company in Tampa, Fla., whose pay has fluctuated around $400,000.
âIâve hit the American dream and now Iâm going to have to pay more taxes,â he said. âThat doesnât feel great to me. Itâs demotivating.â
Everyone has their own definition of wealth but why do people with high incomes feel this way?
This one from the story helps explain the phenomenon:
Deyer said he could afford higher taxes but doesnât think of himself as rich. He and his wife make coffee to avoid Starbucks and buy fruit based on what is on sale.
âââWeâre not extravagant people with high-end country-club memberships or a private jet or anything like that,â he said.
Sure, we make a lot of money and are comfortable, but some people are richer than we are! They have more stuff!
The goalposts begin to move when you make more money and increase your wealth.
If I could just make that much money I would be happy quickly morphs into Well, sure I make a lot of money but I donât have as much money as those people.
The more money you make the more wealthy people youâre exposed to. That thief of joy robs you of the feelings of wealth because you see others who are more successful than you are, earn more than you and have more toys or bigger houses.
Itâs also true that there are more people with higher incomes than there were in the past.
Pew Research shows how the income classes have evolved over the past 50+ years:
There are fewer people in the middle class but more people in the upper class (and lower class).
There are more wealthy people in America these days which means more competition for those predisposed to peer rankings.
If youâre in the top 10%, you want to be in the top 5%. If youâre in the top 5%, you want to be in the top 1%. If youâre in the top 1%, you want to be in the top 0.1%. And if youâre in the top 0.1%, you buy a professional sports franchise or fledgling social media network.
The hard part these days is that youâre not just trying to keep up with the Joneses down the street anymore. The Joneses are now all across the globe, and they constantly display their wealth for all to see on the Internet.
On the one hand, itâs depressing how relative comparisons about money can make it difficult for people to appreciate what they have.
On the other hand, relative comparisons keep the economic machine in the United States chugging along.
A lack of contentment can be detrimental to individuals but good for the system as a whole as people strive to improve their station in life.
Just know that itâs OK to admit youâre rich when you really are.
Michael and I talked about why people donât feel rich even when they make a lot of money and much more on this weekâs Animal Spirits video:
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