Letter to My Younger Self : Mason Rice, Lindenwood ’23
Mason is a chapter support coordinator for the Midwest region at General Headquarters.
Mason,
The idea of going to college is both exciting and intimidating. It’s a chance to meet new people, experience new things, and grow in ways you don’t expect. But with thousands of people around, it’s easy to feel lost. Finding a consistent group of friends might seem tough, but it makes a huge difference in shaping your experience.
Joining a fraternity is an opportunity worth taking. You’ll learn about friendship and leadership in a way that keeps you engaged with your school and community. It’s not just about having a social group; it’s about figuring out how to make decisions that benefit others, learning to hold friends accountable, and stepping up when it counts.
Building strong connections takes effort—showing up, being there for people, and making time for the friendships that matter. The more you invest in those relationships, the more meaningful they become. Some of the best conversations happen at the most unexpected times: late-night talks, road trips, or just sitting around after a long day. These moments add up, and before you know it, the people around you become more than just friends; they become a support system.
At times, it won’t be easy. Leadership means making tough calls, and being part of a group means navigating different personalities and challenges. But those experiences help you grow, and they’ll stick with you after college. The friendships you build will, too. The leadership skills you develop will carry into your career, helping you work with different personalities, handle responsibility, and make tough decisions. And the people you meet won’t just be college friends; they’ll be the ones you turn to for advice, celebrate major life moments with, and sometimes even work alongside in the future.
