Hi guys welcome to my youtube channel my name is Taylor Gang and I had a really good day today so I’m gonna treat myself to a glass of wine okay but I’m gonna share my experience being a black girl and a traditionally white sorority I’m gonna share my experience and if I would
Recommend it if I would recommend other black girls to join Authority that’s not the divine eye okay so okay so growing up I always wanted to be an authority in fact my family members will always tell me like oh girl you you’re gonna be an aka like everybody’s just always just
Tell me when I was a little kid that would be an aka because one pink is my favorite color and then – I’m very like Chrissy I’m very girly and you know stereotypically the aka girls are very like prissy and you know what I mean like they’re that type of girl
So you know that was that was always what I was told growing up now when I got to college I stayed local for school and I did go to a predominantly white University and because of that it limited my options and you know joining a divine nine-story so that was
Something I was really really bummed out about but one thing I did once for sure is to be a part of a large organization so yes I wanted to be an aka of course but I wanted to be an authority with a lot of girls like you know the black
Movies with all the sorta girls and stuff like that that’s what I wanted in my head but it’s like girl that’s what she wanted you should’ve went to a university that offered you that whatever yeah that was that was a huge thing for me I wanted to
Be again in an organization with a lot of girls now I did have a boyfriend at fiancee actually I was engaged if you haven’t seen my story time of being engaged when I was 18 then go ahead and watch that video but I did not join a
Sortie until I was like a junior because I was so busy up his ass and I don’t know I just like you have to have time for sortie and fiance sortie like oh you know I hate being around him in my free time so it was really difficult for me
To like make time for other things I guess so yeah I had this friend that I worked with and me and her became really good friends and she is not black this semester it was into this semester or the year before I joined that singular sortie she kept telling me like oh yeah
You know this sortie is is really diverse because we had like we had we had Delta’s on campus we had status on campus but excuse me their chapters are really really small and so I was like yeah I’m like if I have to go the other
Route like at least if I’m not gonna be in a black story I at least want it to be like diverse so if you’re not if you’re not familiar with sorority terms I guess you could say Panhellenic NPH sees what’s considered to be the divine nine which is the
Historically black sorties so yeah and then Panhellenic is the international men’s sororities I think it’s 26 sorties and those are like the white sortie so you have the divine nine which is the NPHC and then you have the white sororities is that in pea
So I was like well if I’m gonna join a panel in a NPC sorority then again at least I want it to be diverse now my definition of diverse and her definition of diverse are two totally completely definitions but I was like you know what
I’ll give it a shot I did see a couple of ethnic girls wearing their letter so I was like okay you know like maybe it’s not so bad and like I said I really really wanted to join authorities where I graduated so that’s what I did not
Rush rushing means pretty much go to all of these events and you kind of mingle with each sorority this is the NPC the whites or T’s you kind of mingle and you kind of get a feel for each sorority and then they put like a bid out for you and
Then pretty much at the end of it if you get enough bids if I can’t remember correctly then you get into the sorority I do not have to go through that process because I came in later and I knew which sortie I wanted to join because all the
Other ones were like white this one was white too but all the other ones were like no black girls at least this one had like three so I was like you know what it’s really now or never honestly that was the attitude that I had it was
Whatever and so I was like okay like it can’t be that bad so I ends up in the sorority my big I don’t know I don’t think the divine line does it’s basically we have like families and you get a big which is like your mom and
Then you get a grand big and then your great grand big and then if your big has other littles I was so I’m a little too my big I don’t have any littles because so basically like our family line stops with me and my twins I hope you’re following but anyway
My big is black and I was like okay maybe this isn’t so bad so aunt love her love her but I shouldn’t have ever I should have joined I really shouldn’t have joined I like I said I went into it with the attitude of I’m about to
Graduate in a year like if I’m gonna do this I need to do it now this is the yeah there’s three of us but it’s the most diverse I mean the granite there were like a couple Asian girls a couple Hispanic girls like it was a couple
Mixed in between those and a white sorting like let’s call a spade a spade like if you look like a duck drink like a duck talk like a duck it’s a duck okay so whites or tea but now let me let me just give you a little bit of
Background about me and why I thought that this might be a fit for me I have always been known as the white girl like in high school I went to a very diverse high school I exposed to everything and still I was always considered to be the
White girl the Oreo you and I’m saying like and it doesn’t bother me but that’s just what I’ve always been called the blonde girl like my mom calls me blondie all the damn time so you might I mean like I am just as much as I love nipsey
I are not just as much let me that was not a good example cuz nobody compares to Nik see that’s my brother okay this is much as I like mozzie okay I love ariana grande much as i love drusy i love demi lovato okay just as much as I love Drake I love
Justin Bieber like you would think that because I I’m trying to think of a way to word this without boxing people in and being aerial typical or be over generalizing you would think that because I’m very open and because most all of my friends put it like this all of my friends only
Listen to R&B rap she like that like they they don’t listen to ariana grande they don’t listen to that kind of stuff but I do so you would think that because I’m a little more like open to other things that I would be a decent fit for
This already know so first of all all of these girls loves country music I’m just giving my experience I’m not saying that this is every black girl’s experience with it with an npc Daugherty’s giving my experience I went into it with the wrong attitude I didn’t really mix in
With the girls cause like I said I mean they all like I love I’m very open but one thing I do not do this country music okay I don’t do rock I don’t do country I don’t do that I don’t that’s just not my thing that’s not my judge so that was
A real struggle for me because I do have a lot of non black friends but those friends I can at least identify with them through everything I don’t know it’s in the same music we have the same interest we I had nothing in common with these girls like these girls
I think a lot of whom were like Trump supporters to be honest but I was just so hell-bent on okay there’s a two or three black girls so I won’t look as sore thumb ish as I would in these other sorties and I just need to get this over
And done with because I’m about to graduate like that was really my mindset so that was that but the real reason why I didn’t particularly like being a part of this organization and I personally do not like recommend it recommend black girls being a part of all whites or
Die’s now if it’s a diverse story then that’s one thing but if it’s like all white no because I look at it like if you have a problem I have a problem that’s just how I am that’s just what it is but I know I I feel like with these
Girls with these girls be out protesting with me you know for whatever reason no I remember Mike Brown came to speak at my college and I didn’t see any of my story sisters standing in solidarity with sisters that are african-american you know what I mean if that affects us
As black women us as black people you know could I could I ask them to support me when it comes to racial issues or whatever like no I couldn’t I couldn’t so that was a huge thing for me we have nothing in common and I can’t bring you to support me when
It comes to something that has to do with race culture and ethnicity so that’s pretty much my experience with it again I personally you know what I’m not gonna say I don’t recommend it because you know different strokes for different folks if like cuz I know my big she grew
Up in a white community you know what I mean so it really wasn’t that big of a deal I guess for her to be a part of this organization but for someone like me like I I need diversity and my definition of diversity is an equal
Number or close to it of everything not to black people of three Mexican people to Asian people in seventy-five thousand white people that’s not my idea of diversity so anyway that just is the overview of my experience I don’t know hope you guys enjoyed this video if you did please
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