This was the worst experience of my college career we went to a building off campus out in the woods somewhere so it’s just a little bit kind of creepy them girls wanted my head on a platter you might want to get your popcorn for this one welcome back to the channel I’m Miss
Titus 2. I got a nice long story for y’all today this is one of the most humiliating things that I’ve ever experienced in my life College was not easy it wasn’t easy for me probably the first two or three years because I didn’t have a strong community and
Because I didn’t have a strong sense of community I wanted to be a part of a sorority if y’all been watching the channel over the last year and a half two years or so you’ve seen me interview people who are in Greek fraternities and sororities specifically black fraternities and
Sororities those individuals decided to denounce organizations once they became Christians so yeah I’ve enjoyed doing those but I haven’t gotten a chance to really share my own personal stories so I figured I don’t know maybe this will help I want to tell y’all some stuff
That I kind of wish someone had told me in college which actually somebody did try to tell me this in college but I didn’t listen but we’ll we’ll get to that here in a few minutes so I’m hoping this will help Christians who are currently in college or maybe those who
Are now done with college and you still are pursuing Greek life or you you feel away because you didn’t get selected are you in college right now you didn’t get selected and your feelings is hurt listen I don’t experience all them emotions I think it’s good for Christians to share their individual
Stories with this which is why I keep talking about the issue and which is why I keep bringing people on the channel to discuss it so anyway now that we got now that I’ve said all that that y’all probably was just like girl what you’ve been talking about I tried to join the
Sorority which one it doesn’t matter it doesn’t matter how about this y’all tell me in the comments what sorority do you think I tried to be a part of I wanted to get into the Rory and they didn’t pick me they didn’t pick me they didn’t pick me
How did I get into this predicament I didn’t have Community freshman sophomore year was a culture shock for me at school I just had problems fitting in the few people that I knew from high school that came to the same College as me ended up dropping out of school by
Our sophomore year so I was just like okay I don’t have no more friends I did try to join some some service organizations do things here and there but none of it really stuck so I just felt really lonely and so I said you know what these Greek fraternities and
Sororities like they look pretty cool they look fun these kids look like they got their stuff together I want to be a part of that and so I didn’t know anything about Greek life initially again freshman year I was just like whoa so this is college so a
Different world was pretty much the only exposure that I had to Greek life prior to college nobody in my family was Greek me and my first cousin were the first ones to even get the opportunity to go to a four-year school that had these types of organizations so I just I
Didn’t have anybody to prep me so if you’ve never gone to college or experienced the culture of Greek life it there are rules okay I didn’t understand all the red tape you got to go through just even be considered to join one of these or one of my friends who was at a
Different college she was pledging Delta and so I I just had so many questions there’s always rumors about Greek life on campus they Haze they do this they do that and so I was asking my friend I was like I heard that they hit people with
Paddles is that true and she’s like yeah and I was like yeah I said why did I hit people with paddles she said well during the Civil Rights Movement and before black people have just suffered a lot in this country and so hazing is supposed to symbolize the
Suffering of black Americans and I was like I don’t get it I don’t understand but this was somebody I had known for I don’t know like 10 years me and her went to the same church I trusted her and we’re still good friends if you’re watching this boo I
Love you but she crossed Delta and I was like hey if she did it I trust her I want to join an organization too so one of my um homegirls from school I mean I had a couple friends I had a couple friends praise God from a couple friends
She was like an expert on Greek life because her whole family was Greek brother sister like extended family all of them so she was like showing me the ropes or whatever she’s like do this don’t do that and I’m just like what I gotta do all of this this is okay all
Right I’m I’m gonna try she gave me the rundown on hazing paddling getting wood this is how they make you and if you don’t get wood even if you become a part of a particular sorority they’re still not going to respect you because you didn’t take wood and I’m like really
Okay well well I guess if I get picked to be in a sorority I’m gonna take some wood I didn’t realize how painful that getting paddle is I just I thought I mean I had spankings growing up it can’t be no worse than the spanking what what
Was I thinking I wasn’t thinking I didn’t know ignorance is not Bliss anyway so I was thinking paddling can’t be that bad my friend she that did Delta at the other school so if she went through it I’m assuming that I can do it
Too right not a big deal so I got past the paddling thing and then my friend is also like hey if you want to join you need to go to their events all right so I start going to this particular sororities events didn’t say nothing to nobody because I’m scared of y’all
True I’m scaredy out because y’all intimidating I don’t think y’all Greeks on campus especially for me because I was timid Greeks was scary some of the girls anyway the girls can be a little bit frightening let’s keep it a book I was terrified so I didn’t have a whole
Lot to say but there were some really nice ones too I ain’t gonna front I ain’t gonna front some of the people I love most in the world are Greek I went to a few of it I went I went to several events leading up to that our
Pleasure business fraternity and I’m not gonna lie I felt like the college experience started for me once I became a part of that organization because I met some of my best friends who are still my best friends to this day I felt like being a part of that fraternity was
A good stepping stone to joining this sorority because I’m like I feel prepped now like I feel like I’m more professional they’ve helped me with my resume show me how to dress and show me how to do presentations and all this so in theory if I can get through that
Short process then I think I can get through a pledging process for this organization that I’m interested in so I started getting my stuff together I started doing community service waited to the last minute to try to do that that was stupid the whole application process my goodness I don’t know how it
Is everybody else school but at my school in order for you to submit your application you couldn’t type it on a regular computer you had to find a word processor not a typewriter not a laptop a word processor I didn’t even remember that until just
This moment yo what was I gonna find a word process at a word processor I had a friend who had a word processor connection my goodness so we we got our little applications done together because she wanted to be a part of the same org that I wanted to be a part of
Even though even that was a No-No because you ain’t supposed to tell nobody that you want to be a part of these organizations even though everybody be doing it anyway people be be talking y’all don’t play with me so we get our applications in this is where
It gets fun the interest meeting the interest meeting when I tell y’all this was the dumbest this was the worst experience of my college career maybe not the worst one of the worst y’all I was so nervous we went to a building off campus out in the
Woods somewhere so it’s just a little bit kind of creepy you pull up and I see this girl that I know and I’m like and she’s in this sorority right and I’m like okay it’s gonna be fine and so I pull up and she’s like stone-faced at me
Like she looked at me like she had never met me a day in her life and this this was a nice person I’m like hello she’s like hello and I’m like excuse me so I’m parked like I I can’t quite remember because this was so long ago I feel like me being as
Nervous as I was probably took a deep breath or maybe I just hurried up and got out the car but anyway so I got out the car I go in there there’s hundreds of it it felt like hundreds of girls is at least dozens dozens of girls in there
And I’m like all right hey I’ve got just as much a chance to do this as everyone else in this room so I’m standing in line because they I can’t remember Marvel was in line but we was in line for something everybody in all black business suit attire it’s just
Serious but trying not to be too serious but try not to be too Kiki either because apparently they can be touchy about all that kind of stuff so I go in there I see again another girl in the sorority who I’m kind of like cool with because my friend that had pledged Delta
Was friends with her and so she was like such and such wants to be a part of your organization so you know look out for it so I’m like hey girl her head she’s like hey girl and I’m like okay I feel good and then she looked to me she says
They’re gonna get you and I’m like well what she said they gonna get you because such and such said that you said such and such such and such a long time ago and I was like no I didn’t but y’all I think I had said it I think I did I
Think I said it but I was young enough I was I was like a sophomore or a freshman y’all I had said it so long ago I honestly couldn’t even remember if I hadn’t even said it how pity is that for somebody for this whole organization or
This whole chapter to hold that against me something I said when I was at least a sophomore because I tried to do this my junior year y’all to head on to this for a year come on cuz y’all couldn’t have told me this like at one of these
Meetings because I ain’t even know y’all knew me for real right my night was absolutely ruined after that so we’re all waiting in line and the reason we’re waiting in line is because they were doing interviews with by groups so I had my interview with like two or three
Other girls you go in a very dark room when I say dark like you probably I don’t think I could see my hand in front of my face dark I’m not even exaggerating and there might have been 10 sorority girls sitting in the in the
Pitch black room so I can kind of see figures of bodies but it’s so dark I can’t tell who’s in there but I did recognize some of the voices because some of these girls is like my classmates or whatever and so I noticed they supposed to be asking everybody in the room questions
Like to get to know you because it’s an interview when I tell you they ask me about 50 11 questions 50 11 questions I’m not I’m looking at these other girls I’m just like what about this what about them what about them though and I just felt like they
Was asking me questions like in 1937 who was the president of our local chapter and I was just thinking what and then they would be asking the other girls like what color is the American flag and I just felt like something about how this ain’t right I was so
Nervous during that interview I was like tripping all over my words they could have asked me what my name was and I would have been like chicken noodle soup with a soda on the side I was told like I I was gone and I was like well maybe
This is good maybe they’re giving me a hard time because they really they really like me no they the girls wanted my head on a platter and I delivered it to them okay I left there that night just feeling like this sucked a whole lot this sucked a whole
Lot so after my humiliating interview I had to sit there and wait for I don’t know maybe a week or so to find out did I get in did I get in did I get in I got my letter in the mail and it was like
Girl please you know you don’t get in here I’m exaggerating it didn’t say that but in my mind that’s how I read the letter I was a little bit sad but honestly y’all everything turned out just fine every step of a righteous man or woman
Is ordered of the Lord I clear I don’t think it was God’s will for me to pledge that sorority for many reasons obviously if you’ve been watching the channel I’m now of the position that Christians don’t have no business being a part of these organizations I thought about
Something that had happened to me before I even really considered pleasuring Greek life there was a girl who came to our campus she had already graduated years prior and she came back to our campus she said y’all once I tried to join the sorority and I didn’t get in
And I was devastated but Life After College has been good God has been good to me and you know what I didn’t need that sorority and I just thought hmm you know that’s good to know but what that got to do with me though because I don’t
Even know if I’m trying to do this but years later sometimes I still think about her taking the time to come back and say that because it comforted me I didn’t when I didn’t even realize I needed to be comforted because when I tell you I was distraught I just felt so
Rejected because all I wanted was friends and Community because I just I didn’t have that up until again until I I had pledged a business fraternity but I had only done the business fraternity the semester before I tried to do the the actual sorority it was hard it was
Hard and it was lonely I thought I needed that but now that I’ve been out of school for a little bit to look at school in hindsight so I’m just like God you’ve been faithful and I did need that sorority I really didn’t and looking
Back on it I just think that if I had of been accepted into that sorority it would have heightened Pride I think I would have taken that opportunity and used it to glorify my self and to exalt myself and I’m not saying that this is something that the sorority stands for
But I wanted that affirmation and I think that becoming a part of that it could have potentially turned me into a really mean girl I said all that to say after I graduated college life life has treated me quite well I was just like man
If I was in a sorority it would be so much easier for me to get a job maybe it would have but yeah I didn’t I didn’t have no problems getting a job after school I didn’t I got a job almost immediately after I graduated yeah so yeah I got I
Got a good job after college y’all God has been faithful I did not need that experience I didn’t need the experience but it did help me grow um and to be fair like I think about the girls who were selected to join that sorority and these were hard-working
Girls is there anything else left to say I said all that the same day case didn’t want me and that’s fine um because God had a different plan and his plan is just it’s just honestly much better just being in a fraternity or sorority does not make you a bad person
But the culture of those organizations definitely promote arrogance and pride in a very unhealthy way and as Christians we know that God does not show favoritism he doesn’t show favoritism at all and he doesn’t encourage us to show favoritism so excluding people for superficial things like this person has a bad reputation on
Campus this person is promiscuous that’s a big thing for the girl girls if they catch you out there in the streets you’re not going to get in and I’m not I’m not saying people should be out in the streets but what I’m saying is that’s not the mindset of the church the
Mindset of the church is go out and compel people to come to Christ show them the beauty of the Gospel is that Jesus can change you from the inside out regardless of what you’ve done in the past and so even if you’ve had the worst reputation today if you want to change
Jesus Christ can do that for you he can set you free from fornication and from you know all these other things just not being able to control your your body Jesus can change you a sorority they’ll Blacklist you because you made bad decisions in college I’ve seen that
Happen before anyway y’all that was my attempt at joining a sorority story yeah it hurt at the time but it all worked out for the best you know what I’m saying like there is life after being rejected I got rejected from that organization and I’ve been rejected from
A lot of different things in life that’s it’s called being human you know everybody ain’t out we not always going to get what we want and that’s okay sometimes that is the absolute best thing for us and I’ll tell you one thing when I wasn’t out hanging out with with
This sorority that sorority whatever I had plenty of time to read the Bible and look where it’s got me I mean I love doing YouTube I love sharing my faith with y’all and connecting with y’all on YouTube and talking theology with y’all this is way more beneficial to me than any
Um colors or status or organization could have done for me like I get to talk about the Lord all day long so that’s pretty cool it was worth it so y’all don’t sweat it if you in college and you haven’t found your community yet or if you try to get into an
Organization that was like kick rocks wouldn’t want you it’s all right let me tell you who do want you Jesus Christ he wants you Jesus Christ is like hey y’all come on to me all you who are heavy laden you know what I’m saying he’ll
Give you rest so I know it might not make you feel great right now but stand strong get to know the Lord seek him because he’s worth it and there’s churches and and communities of believers who would be more than willing to accept you and to take you in and
They won’t Haze you you know I’m saying again hazing it even if it wasn’t dangerous it’s just like psychologically how do people treat one another that way and then also claim to be Christian organizations and I know they all say we don’t Haze blase blase but they do Haze
And that’s why somebody died from Hazen or has died from Hazen every year since 1959 okay so who else is doing The Hazing oh well it’s not our organization it’s this person but y’all but your organization pick the person who Haze so it is your organization whatever I’m
Sorry let me let me let me shut this down let me shut this down I said all that to say I love y’all if you like this video if you want to see more personal stories from Miss Titus 2 let me know this was fun maybe I should be more transparent more often
All right y’all be blessed holla
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